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Present your best self | Baby Step #3
One piece of dating advice that I think is really, really true is to be yourself, but be a better version of yourself. This isn’t to say that you should mask who you really are or pretend to be … more →
100 Emails, 20 Dates
Present your best self | Baby Step #3
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N wrote 2 weeks ago: One piece of dating advice that I think is really, really true is to be yourself, but be a better ve … more →
Email 19, Date 6: For real this time, I shouldn't date an engineer
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N wrote 5 months ago: Even though I had completely given up on dating in a fit of extreme frustration, I kept my OKCupid p … more →
Email 18.1, Date 5: He's probably not that into me
N wrote 6 months ago: After posting about the guy who seemed happy to keep our online conversation strictly online, I work … more →
Email 17, Date 4: Too much in common
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N wrote 8 months ago: Every day, OKCupid puts three guys in your Quiver. (Get it? Cupid? Bow and arrow? It’s like th … more →
Email 14: Smiley faces are not endearing
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N wrote 9 months ago: I’m 35. I’m beyond the age of smiley faces. Yet, I can see their purpose in email, text, … more →
Email 16: The traveler
N wrote 9 months ago: As my friend R. pointed out, everyone on Match loves traveling. This guy talked about how he loved t … more →
Email 15: Cyclist number two
N wrote 9 months ago: It’s attractive when guys, or anyone, really, knows what they want. It’s even more appea … more →
Email 12, Date 3: The "resume date"
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N wrote 9 months ago: For some reason, the only people I get matched up with on Match are in their 40s. So when J. (45, mu … more →
Email #9: Window of opportunity closed
N wrote 10 months ago: For all the no-reply emails I sent out, I have gotten a few unsolicited emails. This one was particu … more →
Email #8: Hoagies are not enough of a hook
N wrote 10 months ago: I emailed this guy because I hadn’t emailed anyone in a while, and he was from right outside o … more →
Email #5: How low can I go?
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N wrote 11 months ago: After my friends set me up on Match about a week ago, we all piled on to my couch and started winkin … more →
At the Concert: A Light Show, but Few Fireworks
N wrote 1 year ago: The importance of chemistry, really, can not be overstated. I mean, it’s always there in the b … more →
The Cop, the Preacher, the Pat-Down, and the Kiss
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N wrote 1 year ago: B. came to my gig on Friday night, which was in a little neighborhood bar in the East Bay. He happen … more →
Date #2: The Art of Dating
N wrote 1 year ago: One thing I love about dating in my 30s: people have finally figured out how to date, myself include … more →
Date #1: Crushing Out at Fresca
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N wrote 1 year ago: P. was heading out of town to Portland the next week, so we hung out in my neighborhood the Sunday a … more →
Email #7: I guessed wrong
N wrote 10 months ago: This guy mentioned that he was Buddhist (I’m not, but I think Buddhism is fascinating), had a … more →
