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Two Streams6 comments

tearsinabottle wrote 1 year ago: Two streams cut through the landscape of my life.  Two disparate paths in the fabric of time.  They … more →

My Daily Prayer

tearsinabottle wrote 1 year ago: God, You are my Dad. You are my Real Dad. You have always been my real Dad. Thank you for being my D … more →

Tags: Prayer

The Gift4 comments

tearsinabottle wrote 1 year ago: I had a dream.  In my dream there was a very steep hill.  Two people were struggling to climb up the … more →

Tags: healing, Wholeness, Remembering, Truth

The Man With No Face4 comments

tearsinabottle wrote 1 year ago: I am small in my bed.  I must be five or six.  I am on the bottom bunk.  I look up at the wooden sla … more →

Tags: Sexual abuse, rape, shame, Dissociation

My Real Dad3 comments

tearsinabottle wrote 1 year ago: Driving home in the dark.  Deep in thought.  Pulled back for the thousandth time to the scary room.  … more →

Tags: Intimacy with God, father wound, God As Father

The Train2 comments

tearsinabottle wrote 1 year ago: We left Alabama for Michigan, but my dad never stopped looking for us.  He hired a private investiga … more →

The Scorpion2 comments

tearsinabottle wrote 1 year ago: Once there was a scorpion who wanted to cross a river.  He asked a fox to give him a ride on his bac … more →

Tags: breaking the cycle of abuse

The Blame Game4 comments

tearsinabottle wrote 1 year ago: When I write down my stories and read them back to myself, they sound bad. If a different person som … more →

Tags: shame, Blame

Angry at God7 comments

tearsinabottle wrote 1 year ago: I am angry at God. I have looked deep inside my heart and found a secret so private I have kept it h … more →

Loophole People1 comment

tearsinabottle wrote 1 year ago: I hate shopping. It seems like most men would love that in a wife, but it drives my husband crazy. T … more →

My Piano

tearsinabottle wrote 1 year ago: When I was seven years old, my father bought me a brand new piano. It was an amazing gift for a chil … more →

Tags: child abuse and suicide

Kobayashi Maru

tearsinabottle wrote 1 year ago: In Star Trek© II there’s a scene from a Star Fleet© Academy training simulation. The cadet doesn’t k … more →

All That Glitters

tearsinabottle wrote 1 year ago:        My mother’s father is a very quiet man. While serving his country on a minesweeper in W … more →

Tags: father wound, missing dad, lonliness

The Fire5 comments

tearsinabottle wrote 1 year ago: Outside.  Running down the hill in my bare feet.  Cool grass between my chubby toes.  Warm sun on my … more →

Tags: child abuse, shame

The Love Shield

tearsinabottle wrote 1 year ago: My mom has a love shield.  It’s the most intricate contraption you could ever imagine.  I think abou … more →

Tags: NPD, Love

How to Tell5 comments

tearsinabottle wrote 1 year ago: My mom was careful to hurt me in ways that did not show.  During those years we attended church thre … more →

Tags: child abuse, Reporting, church

134 comments

tearsinabottle wrote 1 year ago: When I turned thirteen, Mom was happy but we were out of money.  We had been out for quite a while.  … more →

Tags: Generosity

125 comments

tearsinabottle wrote 1 year ago: “Children obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.  Honor your father and your mother which … more →

Tags: Control?, God and desire

105 comments

tearsinabottle wrote 1 year ago: The day my mom loaded up the station wagon was the worst day of my life.  The shrill screams and rou … more →

Tags: Children and Divorce


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