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Surprise, surprise!

So, out of the blue, J sends me a text yesterday. This is the moment that I thought would never come. Him actually reaching out to me. 481 more words

Narcissist

My story....the middle

So, after J’s revelation about his ex-wife, we moved on as if he had never told me. It was this unspoken thing lurking in the background, but we never really discussed it again until later on. 1,637 more words

Abuse Recovery

My Story....the first bomb

So, about 6 weeks in I got my first kick in the gut….out of the blue as I was driving home from work, J told me that while he was divorced, he was still living with his wife and that she didn’t know about his post-divorce relationships. 1,379 more words

Abuse Recovery

18mitzvot reblogged this on Narcissism. Grief. Recovery. Yiddishkeit. and commented:

A perfect description of Lovebombing by a mate with Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

The Narcissist: Good bye to my imaginary soul mate

I have never really gone through a grieving process before.  I lost my grandfather a few years back and don’t get me wrong, I loved my grandfather very much, but he and I were never really close and although his death made me sad and I wished I had spent more time with him, I wasn’t necessarily riddled with grief.  793 more words

Abusive Relationship

18mitzvot reblogged this on Narcissism. Grief. Recovery. Yiddishkeit. and commented:

A very well written story about the early stages of coping with the red flags of Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

No Contact vs No Response

As I was writing the next chapter of my story I started to think about the whole recovery process…..and the fact that I’m white knuckling through it. 395 more words

Abuse Recovery

A Tiny Progess Report.

Because I live in an area called “The Farms”, which means that my neighbors have horses, donkeys, goats, chickens, and bee-hives in their yard, the local grocery store has a step-on farm scale that can weigh up to 1000 pounds. 238 more words

Abuse Recovery

My Story....the first bomb

So, about 6 weeks in I got my first kick in the gut….out of the blue as I was driving home from work, J told me that while he was divorced, he was still living with his wife and that she didn’t know about his post-divorce relationships. 1,379 more words

Abuse Recovery