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Domestic Abuse - at war
The overriding result of war is mass destruction and loss of life. No matter who’s fighting or who is defending. Divorcing an abusive partner is tantamount to war. You don’t put yourself t… more →
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Domestic Abuse - at war
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Thinking Woman wrote 1 month ago: The overriding result of war is mass destruction and loss of life. No matter who’s fighting or … more →
Domestic Abuse - the latest
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Thinking Woman wrote 1 month ago: It has been 14 months since I left my abusive marriage. I received a letter on Thursday (ironically, … more →
Domestic Abuse - coping - just
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Thinking Woman wrote 2 months ago: I haven’t blogged here for a while. Been going through another phase in my healing, I guess. J … more →
The Futility of Life with an Abuser
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Thinking Woman wrote 3 months ago: I’ve had a bad week. I fell off the wagon in terms of drinking, comfort-eating and not exercis … more →
Other Casualties
girl4708 wrote 3 months ago: I missed my son’s birthday. For the second year in a row. What kind of a self-absorbed asshole … more →
Emails from a narcissist 2
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Thinking Woman wrote 4 months ago: Here’s another one – it’s the comment about sandwich fillings that cracks me up: W … more →
Emails from a narcissist
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Thinking Woman wrote 4 months ago: I am going through the emails I kept which my husband sent me, daily, during our brief but traumatic … more →
Domestic Abuse - victim no more!
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Thinking Woman wrote 4 months ago: I’ve noticed something about myself and that is that I tend to come from scarcity when it come … more →
Relationships
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Thinking Woman wrote 4 months ago: Until recently (latter part of the 20th century), relationships were about survival and continuing t … more →
Finding Love
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Thinking Woman wrote 5 months ago: The Kiss This guy has come back into my life, having been out of it for the duration of my abusive … more →
Domestic Abuse - one year after leaving, beginning to let go
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Thinking Woman wrote 5 months ago: I want to talk about forgiveness, again. But I’ll do that in a later post. Reason I mention it is … more →
Domestic Abuse - the time is right to expose it
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Thinking Woman wrote 5 months ago: I reckon domestic abuse (of one form or another) has been going on in marriages and intimate or fami … more →
The Wedding Hat
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Thinking Woman wrote 6 months ago: The Wedding Hat I went to a wedding at the weekend; the daughter of a best friend of mine (who als … more →
Domestic Abuse and Forgiveness
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Thinking Woman wrote 6 months ago: Is it true that you can only forgive people who want to be forgiven? I’ve been thinking about … more →
Domestic Abuse - will he kill me?
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Thinking Woman wrote 6 months ago: Fearing the Enemy I do not fear the pandemic that is Swine Flu, I fear the systemic, societal prob … more →
Domestic abusers thrive on provocation
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Thinking Woman wrote 8 months ago: I’m in a bad space again. My abusive husband is still in control – so it would seem! He … more →
Sex equality is fine - but don't scare the boys!
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Thinking Woman wrote 8 months ago: I have a very dear friend who thinks she is a ‘modern woman’ with modern, liberated view … more →
Are women over 40 finished where dating is concerned?
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Thinking Woman wrote 8 months ago: Older women Are women over 40 attractive to men? I’ve been told recently by a woman who runs … more →
Why did Fritzl Change his Mind and Plead Guilty?
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Thinking Woman wrote 8 months ago: This is interesting: Initially, Fritzl pleaded not guilty to murdering his child through neglect but … more →
