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Coming with cost
Sometimes tops read my interest and attraction to them, and having received these positive signals they then start to work out how to they’re going to go about implementing me. The trouble is, t… more →
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coming with cost
violacious wrote 1 week ago: Sometimes tops read my interest and attraction to them, and having received these positive signals t … more →
typecaste
violacious wrote 1 week ago: Okay: my premise is that gender is a modality that you can choose how you make. The choices availabl … more →
being less my own
violacious wrote 2 weeks ago: Right now I am in the middle of reading a bunch of books about M/s to try and puzzle out my confusio … more →
One Great Love
themadchatter wrote 3 weeks ago: I’ve been having some sort of crisis trying to fill the wide gaping void left behind by Gabrie … more →
authority issues
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violacious wrote 3 weeks ago: As I may have mentioned, I kink on hierarchy. I’ve also come to learn that I’m extremely … more →
grace and protocol
violacious wrote 4 weeks ago: I’m currently trying to separate out what appeals to me about training and protocols so I have … more →
I have a choice today.
Tina wrote 1 month ago: The past few days had been hard on me. For no particular reason at all, there persists this dampened … more →
learning from leather
violacious wrote 1 month ago: Since I started this blog I’ve attended two west coast leatherwomen’s conferences and I … more →
pain scale
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violacious wrote 1 month ago: I had an incredible weekend full of nourishment and hunger. I feel like I learned, and grew, a lot. … more →
Literature is wayyy underrated
themadchatter wrote 1 month ago: Yesterday I had a really good time at the movies. Actually, yesterday I had one of my best times at … more →
of boxes and balls
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violacious wrote 1 month ago: Why it is hard for me to imagine putting myself in a position of overt submission to my dominant par … more →
salience, entitlement
violacious wrote 1 month ago: I want to expand upon what I posted about yesterday—that service is the way I deal with my unholy am … more →
reading between the lines
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violacious wrote 1 month ago: (This is a follow-up post to my previous entry, a subject for a hard ruler, and Dev’s post, mo … more →
An (Anti)ode to One True Love + Reading Gold
themadchatter wrote 1 month ago: The other day on the promise of not-just-another-typical-sappy-romantic-comedy, I caught (500) days … more →
a subject for a hard ruler
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violacious wrote 1 month ago: (This is a response to Dev’s post, subjugation as love. I feel a bit strange about putting thi … more →
owning it
violacious wrote 1 month ago: In one of Ranat’s recent posts she links to an earlier one s/he wrote about sexuality, dress, … more →
for the man with the red right hand
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As I See them ... ♥
Tina wrote 2 months ago: The best remedy for those who are afraid, lonely or unhappy is to go outside, somewhere where they c … more →
Art in the City
themadchatter wrote 2 months ago: I love it when visual art hits city centre. Particularly when it plays up on something the locals ca … more →
