Nos seus olhos se via uma vida inteira. Nos seus olhos se via a morte.

Nos seus olhos podia-se sentir o calor, o frio e a chuva. Nos seus olhos podia-se ver o amor.

Nos seus olhos haviam cores, que ninguém ousaria ver. Nos seus olhos haviam dores, que transbordavam em lágrimas ardentes.

Nos seus olhos, um garoto. Nos seus olhos, um homem.

Nos seus olhos sábios, nos seus olhos tristes, nos seus olhos cheios de pesares.

Nos seus olhos alegres, nos seus olhos vivos, nos seus olhos excitados.

Nos seus olhos que me deixam tonta. Nos seus olhos que mudam de cor.

Nos seus olhos eu poderia encontrar a minha própria vida. Nos meus olhos eu espero encontrar meu destino.

Nos seus olhos que matam, machucam e reconstroem.

Nos seus olhos que nunca estão virados para mim. Nos seus olhos que eu sempre encaro.

Nos seus olhos que explicam tudo. Nos seus olhos que não precisam de explicação.

Nos seus olhos que tudo sabem e conhecem. Nos seus olhos que por vezes cegam com a ingenuidade de uma criança.

Nos seus olhos existem descobertas, existem perdas, existe tudo. Tudo existe.

Nos seus olhos eu me descubro, eu me redescubro e eu me perco.

Nos seus olhos eu vou viver, eternamente ao seu lado.

Winola Weiss.

I am an optimist. It does not seem too much use being anything else – Winston Churchill

“Our thoughts are what makes us.” I saw this quote in our office with a big mountain on the background of the quote, which in my opinion signifies great thoughts and dreams.

I’m a natural born negative thinker, and it’s ironic that I’m writing this now as this article should refer to somewhat positive thinking. My teenage years passed by without me realizing that I’m really a pessimist and depression without any reason always visit me. This really is a pain in the ass and have really bad effect on our body. Small happenings will drain a lot of energy because you’ll be worried on the results by making you think and think of negative things that might happen in the future which could be the result of your decision, also known as anxiety.

In my family, my mother is also somewhat a negative thinker and worry a lot of times. I think she’s the most dedicated person to our church, in our family. She also has heard lots of sermons and preachings about these thoughts, anxiety and worrying, but still she can’t apply it in our daily lives properly. Small ‘not-so-good’ happening or event, makes her become anxious and worry too much.

I always wanted to change that character of ours. Today, I’m still not a full-blown optimist, but I’m starting to get there, and I knew I’ll get there someday. Lots of factors have helped me, but the 2 main factors are as follows:

• I’ve read the verse Matthew 6:34, which is stated below.
• I’ve read a part of a very good article by Yogi Gupta which can be seen through this link http://www.ecomall.com/greenshopping/gupta2.htm

Our thoughts indeed is what makes us who we are now, and what we can do and achieve. By forming series of ‘healthy’ and positive thoughts, and erasing negative things in our mind, it will bring a boost of positive energy in our lives and makes us healthier each day. I knew and have proven this, because I’ve been there and did my best getting out of it. With the help of the Lord and using the article to change a part of myself, I feel like I’m a better person each day. A worry-free life indeed is a great life.

“Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” – Matthew 6:34

i’m not that tough

i still cry when you didn’t make your promise

i’m not invulnerable

i still cry when there is pain

i’m not that person

i’m not…

but kills me with that thing because what kills me makes me strong right?

when you feel you’re alone

when you feel the world was never enough

when you feel they keep pushing you

when you feel you’ve got no time

was that mean we’re losing it?

or we just lost it?

is there anyway to get back?

is there anyone you could rely to

anyone that makes you stand again

when it was the 49 time you’re fall?

don’t make them blind your eyes

when your eyes was made to see everything for 1000 years

don’t make them close your mouth

when your mouth can made a beautiful peace

don’t make them break your heart

cause it was so hard to mend it

don’t make them hit you till you’re weak

the truth is your stronger than them

don’t make them fill your heart and made you think you’re just like them

because you know what dear…

you are diffrent

you are made to reach more than they could reach

you are made to change them

you are made…

Você já está cansada e tem ensaio de duas horas de street dance, você fica exausta.

Você já está bem triste porque ele está meio estranho, você descobre que ele na verdade está com outra.

Seu pé está moído, um pernilongo fdp vai lá e pica o segundo dedo.

O seu dedo moído e picado começa a latejar, você sabe que está acabada.

Todo mundo está super feliz e você é a única que está triste, você começa a lembrar de quando você era feliz.

Você se lembra de tudo isso, resolve que o melhor a fazer é terminar o dia e o post, então, adeus.

Winola Weiss.

Objectifs encore flous. Une envie qui durait depuis longtemps. On verra bien ce que ça donnera.

De quoi parler ? De tout ? Pourquoi pas.

Subversif, ce serait bien.

Décalé, on essayera.

Stay tuned.

Before you storm the mall (or Internet) this holiday season, Wharton University professor Joel Waldfogel would like you to know something: knocking yourself out trying to find The Perfect Gift is often a waste of time.

Worse, from an economic perspective, you?re practically committing a sin. That?s because it is not only highly unlikely the recipient will actually like what you?ve picked out, you?re destroying value – about $13 billion worth. That?s the difference between the $65 billion Americans will spend on holiday gifts this year compared to what those who receive those gifts would be willing to pay for them if they bought them for themselves.

?When I?m shopping for myself,? says Waldfogel, ?I will only spend $50 on something if it is worth $50 to me. But with gift giving, if I want to spend $50 on you, I could end up buying something that is not worth $50 to you .? In fact, according to surveys, on average the recipient of that $50 gift would only pay $40 for it- if he would even consider purchasing it for himself at all. According to Waldfogel, that 20% difference is ?the missing satisfaction? caused by the fact that ?items were chosen by someone other than the ultimate consumer.?

Waldfogel, whose book Scroogenomics has just been released, is quick to point out that he is not at all opposed to gift-giving. In fact, he describes himself as ?an avid giver- and a generous one- especially with close family.?

It?s those obligatory gifts we feel we have to buy for far-flung relatives and others we barely know that cause the disconnect between price (paid by the giver) and value (assigned by the recipient). In economic-speak, it?s a problem with the way we allocate resources.

Since you know those you?re closest to the best, you?re more likely to hit the mark in terms of the presents you buy for them. For instance, you might have caught your spouse eyeing cashmere sweaters in a store or catalog. Knowing that blue is her favorite color, you spend $150 on a royal blue cashmere cardigan for her. If asked, she probably would say that it is 1) something she would purchase for herself and, 2) she would be willing to spend around $150 for it. Thus, there is no ?value destruction.?

On the other hand, buying the same cashmere sweater for your niece whom you haven?t seen in 3 years is, in Waldfogel?s terms, ?a recipe for disaster,? even if it?s done with the best of intentions. Aside from the obvious issues- What size? What color?- there are a host of others.What if your cute 12-year old niece has turned into a 15-year old Goth who wouldn?t be caught dead in anything but black and oh-by-the-way also happens to be allergic to cashmere?!

Even the ever-popular food gifts can cause a major faux pas. If no one in the family tells you that Uncle Ernie finally joined AA is it your fault you brought him a bottle of wine? How were you supposed to know that the mail carrier is a vegan when you gave her that ham?

If you can?t simply delete everyone except immediate family and your closest friends from your gift list, what?s the solution?

?Just give cash,? says Waldfogel. The drawback is that in addition to feeling impersonal, cash is ?socially awkward? in many situations. Your cousin, for instance. However, there are exceptions. In Waldfogel?s view, it?s perfectly acceptable for aunts, uncles, and grandparents to give cash to nieces, nephews, and grandkids.

The next best thing?Gift cards.?These allow the recipient to choose what item they want.? In economic terms, they?re very ?efficient? because theoretically recipients will not pay more than an item is worth to them. Waldfogel himself gives them to people who are outside his immediate family. Though cash-like, he points out that somehow gift cards ?have avoided the stigma of cash.? Which probably accounts for their soaring popularity.

An alternative is something Waldfogel calls ?transcendent giving.? As he describes it, ?How can I [the gift giver] transcend what you could do with cash?? One suggestion? Give someone permission to buy something they ordinarily wouldn?t buy for themselves because they would feel guilty about spending the money. This works especially well with a close family member such as your spouse. If he hasn?t bought the new digital camera he?d really love to have because it feels too self-indulgent, give him the OK to do so- no strings attached.

Another ?transcendent gift? is to make a donation to a charity in the recipient?s name. It helps if you know a cause that the individual is passionate about- global warming, ending famine, animal welfare, education, the ballet company in their city, etc.

If you aren?t sure, you can give a charity gift card that allows the recipient to direct the proceeds to one or several organizations. TisBest Philanthropy, for instance, lists 250 national nonprofits as well as locally-based groups that meet their criteria. Gifts cards can be purchased athttp://www.TisBest.org.The Network for Good offers gift cards at http://www1.networkforgood.org/for-donors.You can find others by typing ?charity gift card? in your web browser search box. Suggestion: check out the organization sponsoring the gift cards by going to http://www2.guidestar.org/.

So before you click, swipe, or write a check for yet another half-appreciated present this year, maybe it?s time to pause. Reduce your gift-giving list as much as you can and, like Santa, check it twice. Spend your money, time and energy finding the special items you know that those you are closest to really want. Buy everyone else a $9.95 copy of Scroogenomics and (maybe) stick a gift card in it. Who knows? You might get everyone in your circle re-thinking their holiday spending.

In Waldfogel?s words, ?Have a happy and efficient holiday!?

*Hanukah, Kwanza, Ramadan

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four christmases: “you can’t spell families with out lies”

Mulan: “no matter how hard the wind blows the mountain will never bow to him’

American beauty:”never count on others but yourself”

as soon as i remember another movie line i will post it again

its sound like name of a song right? did you know that song called bitter heart sing by zee avi you should google it she is awesome!

ok. this post was not about love it’s about my friends in my new school. my school is a boarding school but we can choose boarding or not. i have 8 girl friends in class 5 of them was boarding and the other three is nonboarding and it was me, nana, and raisa.

when you with your friend 24 hour for 5 days you must be very very close to them. and it’s what happen the five of them was very close. so every time we should make groups theyre going to have groups with only the 5 of them and 3 of us was gonna left behind. and sometimes its taste bitter. i think thats a very fit phrase to express my feeling bitter. and when you feels like that youre gonna have 5 second of blank, no no thats wasnt fit. so what i’m trying to say is when you felt like that for a moment youre gonna feel like theres someone who take you to the other world only for 5 seconds. and he take us very rudely.

so every time we have to make groups were gonna stuck with the same friends. i don’t know if they always stays with only 5 of them they are gonna be in their comfort zone. so their never try to make groups with the one who is not boarding.

but actually thy are nice. they are very nice. and i know they dont mean it. but i also feel very thankful because i learn that i can’t be like them and i know how that felt you know being left behind. and i was like them when i’m in junior high. so this is my promise ” I WONT LET SOMEONE BEING LEFT BEHIND, AND LET THEM STRUGGLE WITH ONLY THEM SELF” amen.

every time they being like that i cheer my self up with this words “their together for almost a week! just let them” but you know what guys… i really hope that all of you can change. you know guys it was taste bitter

• Que não ia mais escrever tantos poemas de amor;
• Que ia me concentrar mais em Stickers;
• Que ia aprender matemática;
• Que ia aprender Desenho Geométrico;
• Que ia parar de pensar tanto em você;
• Que ia arrumar meu quarto;
• Que ia estudar mais;
• Que ia fazer todas as minhas tarefas;
• Que passaria menos tempo no computador;
• Que começaria e terminaria de ler TODOS os livros de bolso em inglês da minha tia-avó LOGO;
• Que não leria quando tivesse que estudar/fazer tarefa;
• Que pararia de escrever nas aulas de matemática e Desenho Geométrico porque eu não entendo pohã nenhuma;
• Que ia baixar músicas novas;
• Que ia andar com o Diego todos os dias;
• Que ia ser uma filha melhor;
• Que ia salvar o mundo…

E mais um bando de coisa.

Mas que se dane, minha vida tá um caos e eu tô postando isso aqui pra não dizer que eu não postei nada.

Winola Weiss.

gue bukan termasuk orang yang sering mengidolakan orang lain. im not a number one fan of something. bahkan gue sering ngejek-ngejekin mereka. ya iyalah… liat aja deh orang-orang yang ngefans sama orang lain itu…. gimana ya??? bingung sendiri mendeskripsikannya. gini deh mungkin gak semua artis itu fake tapi lebih dari 50% nya pasti fake jadi orang-orang itu ngidiolain orang yang gak ada. mereka akan selalu berusaha untuk menjadi sesuatu yang gak ada itu, tapi gak mungkin terjadi karena itu gak ada. ok back to the topic. tapi hari ini gue menyadari sesuatu gue mengidolakan seseorang. gue mau menceritakan tentang mereka di sini they’re a very rare person. why because i idolize them

number one target is my friend. gue baru kenal dia selama 2 bulan lebih. karena gue anak pindahan jadi otomatis gue baru kenal dia. namanya Dhita. dia anaknya cantik, termasuk pinter, cerewet sih tapi gak bawel, berani banget. dan gue baru ngehkayanya cantiknya juga karena dia baik deh soalnya kalo diliat2 dasar mukanya tu biasa aja hehehe…. dia itu anak yang punya prinsip gak mau pacaran. bayangin tu di zaman kaya gini masih ada anak kaya dia. dia tu bener2 deh menunjukan kalo dia gak mau pacaran. kalo misalnya ada yang lagi ngoceh terus tentang masalah sama pacarnya dia pasti sering mengeluarkan kata2 yang mantep banget. and i love it when she did that cause i don’t want to have a boyfriend too. ini ni dialog yang baru2 ini terjadi di sekolah

cewe bermasalah: aduh gue gimana dong… gue gak mau putus sama dia   gue udah pacaran 4 taun.

cewe figuran:iya gue doain mudah-mudahan gak putus. antara hidup dan mati hehehe…. (hidup dan mati??? iiih stup_d eeeh istighfar)

cb:iya antara hidup dan mati

dhita:(langsung berenti ngiket sepatu)sekarang gue tanya pilih orangtua ato pacar?

cb:ora… eh pacar lah (god where you gonna take the future of this country god please….)

dhita: ya udah deh pacar ato tuhan?

Cb:ya tuhan lah

dhita: ya udah!!! masa kaya gitu aja antara hidup dan mati!!

setelah itu sang cb pergi sama gue ke kantin…… di kantin….

Gue: bener tu apa yang dhita omongin

cb: iya sih tapi masa semuanya harus gue gantungin ke tuhan sih?

gue:…….. (perlu waktu 5 menit buat menelan dan mempercayai apa yang sudah cb itu katakan sambil mikir ada lagu yang menjadi soundtracknya lagunya novia kolopaking kalo gak salah “serahkanlah hidup dan matimu… serahkan pada Allah semata serahkan duka gembira mu agar DAMAAAI senang tiasa hatimu…”)

eh ampir aja lupa scene 1 terjadi pada saat kita abis sholat. gila lu kira sholat cuma olahraga doang apa?!?! angkat tangan sambil bareng2 bilang Allahuakbar, lipet tangan sambil komat kamit, tundukan badan sampai membentuk letter L, lalu sunggingkan pantat sambil kepala menyentuh lantai.

the point is dia selalu berani ngomongin pendapatnya yang kayanya bertentangan lebih dari 50% penduduk bumi. dia juga selalu sholat dhuha lo kalo istirahat. tapi jangan pernah ngebayangin kalo dia itu tipe cewe yang kerudungnya sampe perut, selalu make rok, selalu pake kaos kaki kemana-mana. TIDAK anda salah besar… dia itu modis banget pokoknya up to date deh. trus satu hal lagi yang gue terkesima banget, dia itu sama sekali gak keberatan ketika pembantunya pengen tempat hp yang sama kaya yang dia punya. padahal kalo gue nih suruh punya barang yang sama kaya pembantu gue gak mau deh walaupun tanpa ada maksud sedikitpun buat ngerendahain mereka.

#2 my cousin. iya gue mengidolakan sepupu gue. namanya fida. dia itu tipe cewe yang selalu berada dijalanNYA. penampilan dia juga bias aja pake kerudung yang diiket kebelakang bajunya juga biasa-biasa aja standard cewe gitu. tapi dia itu punya aura positif yang gede banget karena dia itu baik banget. dia pasti selalu ngeladenin orang dalam bentuk apapun. kalo ada yang cerita lucu tapi gak lucu sama dia di ketawain (aktingnya bagus tapi), kalo ada yang ngajak ngomong walaupun gue tau topiknya gak seru dia tetep nanggepin. dan dia bisa jadi cewe yang anak mama banget tapi mandiri. dia itu tepi cewe yang kayanya di pengenin cowo. dia punya inner beauty yang mempertegas kecantikan yang emang dia udah punya, dia selalu menunjukan ketertarikan dia terhadap kita wich is make us really precious.

kesamaan yang mereka berdua punya adalah mereka sama-sama orang biasa. mereka bukan orang yang dikenal semua orang. mereka bahkan bukan orang yang dikenal oleh semua penduduk sekolah. tapi mereka jelas ngebuat gue pengeeen banget jadi kaya mereka. mereka adalah yang kita sebut sebagai manusia yang gak pernah melupakan fitrahnya. mereka sebenernya adalah desain awal atau desain standard manusia. tapi banyak manusia gak bangga dengan desain manusianya tersebut. banyak manusia yang ngerasa kalo tuhan yang emang ngebuat manusia gak sempurna. padahal tuhan adalah makhluk yang sempurna jadi gak mungkin kalo dia gak menciptakan sesuatu secara sempurna. kita cuma liat kalo kesempurnaan itu terletak pada bentuk tubuh yang sama seperti orang lain dan hal yang kaya gitu. kita lupa kalo kita itu sempurna. tapi kesempurnaan itu perlahan bersembunyi dibalik semua “fake” yang kita buat itu. gue juga mikir mungkin itu akibat tuhan ngelepas kita di dunia dan dia gak ngestop secara langsung ketika hal itu terjadi dan malah memberikan itu sebagai sebuah tantangan hidup yang kayanya banyak orang yang gagal disitu. tapi gue yakin tuhan adalah makhluk yang baik jadi pasti tuhan akan berbuat segala macam cara supaya manusia mau menunjukan the real them dan gak nyembunyiin hal itu.

well, gue gak tau apa yang udah gue tulis gue juga gak tau kalo ada orang yang baca bakalan ngerti apa enggak but it’s make me feel release and it’s great to share something like this hope i can be like them hope god send me something or someone that will make me like them

1. Alicia keys-doesnt mean anything
2. Mika-we are golden
3. Alicia keys-sleeping with a broken heart
4. Alicia keys-if i were your w0men
5. Alicia keys-goodbye
6. Justin beiber-love me
7. Justin beiber-one time
8. neyo-so sick
9. Sabrina-my guardian angel
10. ……-Dawsons creek theme

“And my all month star is….”

ALICIA KEYS…..

YAY!!! WOOHOO!!!GO GO ALICIA GO!!!!

Tea partiers need to unite on a constitution that reflects a great deal of the old while also clarifying past mistakes. Lets make it clear that we believe in a Bill of Rights for all people of all colors. Lets make it clear we believe in the lowest tax possible for everyone and not just the rich. Lets make it clear that we believe a free market can help reduce poverty and clean the climate. Lets make it clear that we are not anti government but rather anti BIG government. Lets make it clear that government needs to stay small enough to not get to greedy or controling and still big enough to do its job. Lets make it clear that the constitution is the only way for people of different walks of life to coexist without commiting acts of TERRORISM. Lets make it clear that we stand against the mentality that any one group is a superior race or superior in any way. Lets make it clear that the constitution does not play favorites. Lets make it clear that THIS is where we stand. Keep the government from having that “one ring”. Make sure people respect each others property and rights under the constitution. Makes sure that speach by any group is not censored by a government authority. Let the people choose their own prosperity and not the Government. Untie the shackles of “green tax” manipulation. Let people be free to follow their religion in public or in private so long as they do not force people to convert by FORCE OF LAW!!!!   All we ask is for these basic freedoms for all people including ourselves. Lets stand by that. The white man is no more deserving than the black, the rich is no more deserving than the poor. We are equall because we ALL FALL SHORT OF THE GLORY OF GOD!!!!!

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紐約街牌A New York Thing在09秋冬第二擊中推出了有帽拉鍊衛衣, T-恤和帽子，現於Eleven After Eleven有售。