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<title><![CDATA[How Do You Spell Success?]]></title>
<link>http://lifeonthejtrain.wordpress.com/2012/04/07/how-do-you-spell-success/</link>
<pubDate>Sat, 07 Apr 2012 23:14:44 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>the jay train</dc:creator>
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<description><![CDATA[Raise your hand if you went to the dentist on Friday? No-one? Really? Well, let me tell you about ou]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Raise your hand if you went to the dentist on Friday?</p>
<p>No-one?</p>
<p>Really?</p>
<p>Well, let me tell you about our trip.  Cause who doesn&#8217;t love going to the dentist or at the very least, hearing about other people going.</p>
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<p>Ace knew what to expect.  We were there 6 months ago.  That was when he 1st had x-rays taken.  That was also when Jay made it abundantly clear that we were NOT going to get x-rays of HIS teeth. It wasn&#8217;t even close to being an option.  Back then I had to lay in the chair while holding Jay on top of me and then the dentist literally put him in a head lock so she could look in his mouth.  By the time she was finished, she had an 8 inch diameter wet patch on her scrubs.  It wasn&#8217;t pretty.</p>
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<p>This past Friday, Ace hopped up into the x-ray chair, donned his cape and got pictures taken of his teeth.  (To be honest, he got the front ones done with no problem but he  fussed a little about getting the back teeth done.  In the end he powered through and I was very proud of him.)</p>
<p><a href="http://lifeonthejtrain.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/dentist-4.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-924" title="dentist 4" src="http://lifeonthejtrain.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/dentist-4.jpg?w=225&#038;h=300" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>I know the picture is not very good quality but that&#8217;s my Ace of spades getting ready to get teeth x-rays taken.</p>
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<p>This is Jay watching from just outside the door.</p>
<p><a href="http://lifeonthejtrain.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/dentist-3.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-925" title="dentist 3" src="http://lifeonthejtrain.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/dentist-3.jpg?w=225&#038;h=300" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>The apprehensive look on his face and the way he wouldn&#8217;t let CC put him down and the tight grip with which he held onto his toys told me there was no way we were gonna get x-rays of his teeth on this visit either. Seriously, isn&#8217;t that the look of &#8220;<em>If you think I&#8217;m getting in that chair you must have lost your mind.</em>&#8221; ?</p>
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<p>I should know better than to try and predict what he&#8217;ll do though because as soon as Ace got down from the chair, Jay wriggled his way out of CC&#8217;s arms and did this &#8230;</p>
<p><a href="http://lifeonthejtrain.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/dentist-2.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-926" title="dentist 2" src="http://lifeonthejtrain.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/dentist-2.jpg?w=300&#038;h=225" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a></p>
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<p>Yes yes ya&#8217;ll &#8230; he got in the chair and let the dental assistant put the radiation cape on him.  He even said &#8220;<em>ahh</em>&#8221; when she asked him to but then he closed his mouth quickly when she tried to put the x-ray film in it.</p>
<p>We didn&#8217;t actually get the x-rays but hey &#8230; I CALL THAT SUCCESS!!!</p>
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<p>6 months ago, he wouldn&#8217;t even walk into the room much less get in the chair and let them put on the cape and say &#8220;ahh&#8221;.  That&#8217;s 4 huge hurdles he&#8217;s jumped over and as proud as I am of Ace for being a big brave boy, I&#8217;m just as proud of Jay.</p>
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<p>You want more?</p>
<p>OK you got it.</p>
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<p>After Ace had his exam done &#8211; complete with teeth counting and cleaning and a fluoride treatment &#8211; he asked me not to let Jay get the same thing.  He didn&#8217;t think Jay would like it and he didn&#8217;t want his brother to have to go through that. <em></em></p>
<p><em>How deliciously sweet of him</em>.</p>
<p>Despite Ace&#8217;s objections though, Jay happily climbed up on the table, lay back and<strong> let the dentist brush his teeth with a different toothpaste than he&#8217;s used to</strong>.  She was great and she didn&#8217;t use the weird looking motorized one she used on Ace; she used a regular tooth brush.  She also didn&#8217;t give him the fluoride treatment Ace had gotten.  Apparently it doesn&#8217;t really taste like bubble gum even though they try to tell kids that it does and she didn&#8217;t want to do anything to turn Jay off future trips there.</p>
<p><a href="http://lifeonthejtrain.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/dentist-1.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-927" title="dentist 1" src="http://lifeonthejtrain.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/dentist-1.jpg?w=300&#038;h=225" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a></p>
<p>That&#8217;s my Jay Jay getting his teeth professionally brushed.  HUGE!!!</p>
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<p>I&#8217;m not saying the dentist is now my kids favourite place to go or that they would choose to begin every holiday week that way but the trip was a ginormous success in my book.</p>
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<p>I&#8217;ll never know how hard it was for him to get through the dentist visit but I do know my boy works really hard everyday to get through what should be simple, everyday tasks and on Friday he kicked some serious &#8220;<em>sensory</em>&#8221; and &#8220;<em>social skills</em>&#8221; and &#8220;<em>developmental delay</em>&#8221; and &#8220;<em>inappropriate response</em>&#8221; and &#8220;<em>resistant to change</em>&#8221; butt.</p>
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