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Can You Imagine?4 comments

LK wrote 1 week ago: I’m sure plenty of people must know how I feel, since I can’t be the only person ever ad … more →

Tags: Life, Personal, Psychology, Relationships, writing, Adoption

Someone, Take It

LK wrote 1 month ago: Bones and chains represent my madness My rose drips blood for a reason Sweet redness so dear to the … more →

Tags: Poetry, Adoption

Flight Path2 comments

LK wrote 4 months ago: When I find myself posting for the sake of posting, sometimes I utilize the word association game to … more →

Tags: Personal, Life, Movies, photos, Psychology, Random, writing, the unknown woman, Scholarships

waiting for jane

sharonsdaughter wrote 7 months ago: When I was 12, my father told my brother and I we were adopted. What a strange thing to find out abo … more →

Tags: Adoption, china adoption, adult adoptee, Birthparent, adoptive parent, Family

Living Nowhere2 comments

Cherry Cola wrote 7 months ago: There was this one time where my bestfriend’s mom asked me to co-host a children’s birth … more →

Tags: momentary ramblings, Living Nowhere, screweing up, Birthday Party, Runaway, bitchy sisters, respect, crashing at a friends house, Introversion

wanted? 1 comment

laterain wrote 9 months ago: I had the oddest experience the other day (well, actually, all of last week was odd, but I digress) … more →

Tags: rants, Deep Thoughts, Staten Island

going "home", part two

laterain wrote 9 months ago: “They say your style of life’s a drag And that you must go other places But just don … more →

Tags: angst du jour, rants, Deep Thoughts, Following Jesus, grand rapids, NYC, Staten Island

Hospitality

laterain wrote 9 months ago: When last we met, I was talking about my awkwardness, my fear of being a houseguest, and the discomf … more →

Tags: SO, kids I love, Staten Island, NYC, Crackbook

going "home", part one

laterain wrote 9 months ago: five days, and at least as many blog posts. This one has to be written as sort of a prequel to the n … more →

Tags: SO, rants, kids I love, NYC, Staten Island

Life is a snowglobe

caramelgalore wrote 1 year ago: So it has been a whiteout for days. I am trapped in with a toothache from an emergency root canal wi … more →

Tags: Life is a Kilgore Trout 'novel', Who am I?, Life is a snow globe

I didn't know what to say . . . 2 comments

laterain wrote 1 year ago: As much as I am FIENDING to snark about the arrival of the 18th Duggar, at this moment there’s … more →

Tags: SO, Following Jesus, kids I love, mona

The Twenty Dollars1 comment

caramelgalore wrote 1 year ago: Cinder-fucking-rella I have always wondered if my adoptive father would have been nicer if we were h … more →

Tags: A shaky family support system, adopted family relations, what did i do wrong, Aggression toward adopted children, Emotional Abuse, Punishment for being adopted, The Unpayable Gratitude Fee for being adopted, Being adopted means earning your keep, The tolls for being a non-biological child

What's in a name? (sounds like "tissues")

caramelgalore wrote 1 year ago: Today I found out my birth father’s full name. His name is Kilgore Trout so if you see him … more →

Tags: Adoptee control Issues, Fitting in to your new family, I don't know shit, Life is a Kilgore Trout 'novel', Who am I?, God Bless You Mr. Rosewater, My father is Kilgore Trout

From whence we came, and how it ain't the same

caramelgalore wrote 1 year ago: I think a lot about the pre-adoption experience and how it so permanently affected and formed my bro … more →

Tags: A shaky family support system, adopted family relations, feeling isolated, Fitting into your adopted family, Rivals for adopted mother love, Adoption Sibling Rivalry, In the bins, The effect of the pre-adoption period, Vying for Adoptive Parental Love

The Primal Wound

caramelgalore wrote 1 year ago: “If anyone had told me when we brought home our three day old daughter on Christmas Eve, 1969, … more →

Tags: Nancy Newton Verrier, The Primal Wound, View of an adoptive mother

It's complicated.1 comment

caramelgalore wrote 1 year ago: UPDATE: Since posting this blog people have sent me many a link to the more personal and candid adop … more →

Tags: Learning to be part of a new family, Meeting your bilogical mother, Meeting your Biological Family, Reactions from others, THE SEARCH, Adoption, finding your biological family, meeting your biological mother, what it feels like to be adopted

from the xanga archives . . . childhood baggage2 comments

laterain wrote 1 year ago: baby lorraine I wrote a version of this in an e-mail to my church . . . they have been asking for pi … more →

Tags: Following Jesus, Adoption, Catholicism, Baptism

am I weird? 2 comments

laterain wrote 1 year ago: (um, yeah. you didn’t have to answer that in the affirmative quite so quickly!) I am almost 39 … more →

Tags: SO, Following Jesus, angst du jour, Elijah

We all have a little bit of "Mona" in us . . . 1 comment

laterain wrote 1 year ago: Last week, after yet another doctor’s appointment, I took Mona to her all-time favorite restau … more →

Tags: Following Jesus


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