In case you were wondering what my Saturday experience was here are the (slightly sanitized) gory details. Even if you are not so interested in the blow-by-blow of my Saturday night rendezvous I believe I will be referring to this post for some time to come to answer your questions on what I like / what turns me on / what am I into.

I really do have to give credit to my guest Dom in London for teaching me so much in one night. In fact, I think I’ll declare this experiment a success to date. Although I’ve only had two encounters both men (one Switch one Dom) who I have met while conducting this experiment have taught me more in these encounters than in two years of random unfocused play.

In fact, I learned so much that this post will likely be a three part-post, I will link to each of the subsequent posts as they are posted online in the next few days.

Part 1: The synopsis (for those with voyeuristic tendencies) – this part
Part 2: My experience (what I felt about the acts done and not done)
Part 3: What kind of sub am I? (discussions on the variety of BDSM and where I see myself participating)

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THE SYNOPSIS

Finding a date

As you know if you read about my search to find a date last minute for a hotel in London (Ontario) it was somewhat more difficult than I expected. I live in downtown Toronto, so finding a date in TO is rarely, if ever difficult. Finding a date in 48 hours in London was much more difficult than I expected.

In the end there were two offers I turned down for safety factor (sometimes you just get that bad feeling) and several that wished I had picked a different night.

The person who came to my rescue in the end was a great match. An experienced Dom – who proved this experience throughout our encounter, who shared many of my vanilla interests.

Meeting my date

I stayed on the executive level of the Hilton suites (note to men, if I can afford this for a date I do expect you to be able to provide a similarly suitable place to play), the executive suites require key access in the elevators to get to access to the excutive floors. My date texted me his name and a key was left in his name for pick up at the front desk.

Usually I am the one who is arriving at the hotel, it was a nice change to have the room to myself to get dressed (I wore a black lace bra, waist cincher with garters and panties, with black lace thigh high stockings and 4” leather heels). My date texted me when he was on his way up to the room allowing me to greet him at the door.

He greeted me with a passionate kiss and then proceeded to put me completely at ease by sliding a persona so we could talk about some of the things we had in common which made banter easy and set a fun casual mood. I can’t emphasize enough how much this fun casual mood truly helped me to relax and establish a level of trust that would make anything he asked me to do for the rest of the night much easier.

He is married and has a girlfriend as well, so I was relieved not to have to explain the particulars of my own attached relationship and instead we simply each texted our “check-in-and-tell-me-you’re-safe” people.

Being Prepared

My date must also be given credit for coming prepared. He arrived with a large metal brief case of implements – which I am somewhat relieve to have not seen or used the full contents. He also carried a drafting tube to put longer implements in. It’s safe to say that if I had wanted to try anything in particular I’m sure he could have facilitated that.

Nipple Torture

He started with my breasts, to be exact my nipples. It wasn’t gentle, it began with pinching and quickly escalated. While most women have sensitive breasts and nipples I am in that group of women who are very sensitive in that area and I can at times cum simply through breast play.

If you squeeze, not all that hard I will give little shrieks and jump at having my nipples pulled and twisted. He loved these reactions and they simply encouraged him.

I have had nipple clamps before, they were the kind that have a bit of plastic on the end and are shaped like tweezers where a small metal circle is pushed closer to the top the tighter you want the clamp to be. They rarely stay on me. I have small nipples. I’ve always found this fortunate since it meant they never had to stay on for long. Unfortunately for me he had a solution for this and introduced my nipples to the clover clamps. Which, if you don’t know – as I didn’t – are attached by a chain that when pulled makes them tighten. They were pure torture and he was gracious enough after a few tugs and whimpers from me to relieve me of them.

Getting Spanked

He began with his hands. We had discussed what I meant by no-marks (nothing that would be seen in the vanilla world and nothing that would scare my vanilla partner). We had also discussed that his current girlfriend is a total masochist and the level of pain he is used to inflicting.

When I say he was experienced this is where it showed the most. I knew getting into this that this Dom has a sadistic streak and has a steady partner that routinely begs him to beat her black & blue with red welts. I also knew I could never handle that.

I had committed in my mind to pushing myself as far as I felt I could go. I know that my pain reflex is to fight back, so my concentration was to focus on the sensation, on what I was thinking and feeling to learn patience and self-control to “bear” it. I did not get pleasure from the spankings but I took pride in my ability to focus and endure them, and I wondered at my body’s ability to process the sensations and transmit them in such short periods of time from pain and anger to sensitivity and points for possible future pleasure.

My self-control was not what I would like it to be (eventually) so we did use wrist cuffs and fastened my hands together quite quickly. This allowed me to delay reaction responses and use my hands to create a counterpoint of tension in my body.

He did spank me harder than I have endured in my life. There were times where I almost cried out for it to stop – but didn’t. As I said this is where his experience showed the most. He was 100% of the time able to tell to an exact point how far he could push me. To take me to the point where I did not think I could endure any more and to push me just the tiniest fraction further.

In addition to using his hands he spanked me with two different crops, and a signal whip (I would have up until this encounter thought it was another crop), and he also flogged me.

I was spanked on my ass (mainly), my cunt, my thighs – inner and outer and my breasts. Spanking was a central theme in the evening’s six hour play. He tempered it with fucking, nipple torture, caresses, blow jobs… but it was ever present.

On My Knees

I enjoy giving oral, and wait for the point in the night when I’m pushed down to my knees to ‘give service’. Grooming and taste are central factors on if I will swallow or not (if asked). Grooming I’m sure there are tips online. Taste, I find smokers horrid and it is best if vegetables and fruit are regular parts of your diet.

The first time he came he fucked my tits – giving me rapid transitions of sensations between having his wet cock thrusting between my tits and pinching my nipples to make me scream.

I am still working to get over my gag reflex so when he face fucked me by grabbing fistfuls of my hair and forcing his cock deep into my throat I choked a few times. I could tell he was still holding back on this aspect and not forcing me to take it as hard as he would normally give. I was thankful for that. However I do want to learn how to take a strong face fucking.

When he came he tasted good and I swallowed it all with no trouble.

Getting fucked

I always see fucking as a reward after BDSM foreplay. If there is one area that I know I can take it rough it is being fucked. There was much more spanking of my ass and cunt before he told me to (stay) bent over the bed as he got the condoms. On the first push he entered with a force that broke the condom, so we were slightly more careful the second time.

Having a sturdy bed is always a good thing. And if he thought I was loud when he was pinching my nipples I’m sure anyone in the next three rooms heard me as he fucked me.

While I don’t enjoy pain, I get no actual pleasure from being spanked, having my nipples tortured or slapped this is where I saw the turn-on of all of it. Every part of my body was much more sensitized as he fucked me. The cheeks of my ass and my thighs were still stinging as he was fucking me and they felt so much more alive and like huge pleasure points as his body pounded against mine.

My cunt was dripping wet and the stinging from the spankings combined with the natural throbbing of my body made me cum almost right away when his cock penetrated me and forced my pelvis against the edge of the bed.

The nipple torture was completely worth it as I could feel them forced onto and then roughly rubbing against the sheets of the bed as I took the pounding from behind.

In short, while I don’t get off on the pain I can see the point of playing with it since it gave my body new sensations as he fucked me making the fucking much more intense that I am used to.

New Things

There were two completely new-to-me experiences in this encounter. The first was a collar that bordered on a posture collar. It was very thick and prevented me from looking down. I managed to wear it for about half the encounter, sometime after the first fucking and before he had me suck his cock a second time it was taken off during a flogging because it was making me very stiff and irritable with spankings, it was easier to take the spankings when they were the only pain I needed to focus on.

The second was a butt plug. We did try anal penetration, but he was slightly larger than the two men who I have successfully done anal with. He was able to get the tip in but it was too intense for me and I didn’t think I could take it if he started thrusting. I suggested that I needed more time and practice to work up to his size and suggested a butt plug. Then out of that brief case of wonders came… a butt plug!

I have never had a butt plug before and the sensation was quite good. It was not nearly as difficult to take as a cock (lots of lube was used) but still felt very intense. He put it in me with me bent over and then treated me to my first double penetration with him fucking my pussy and the butt plug. This is definitely something I need to try again. Eventually it would be good to work my way to his suggestion of having a dildo shoved up my pussy while the cock fucks my ass.

He did force me to wear it for a bit longer and to move around in it so that I would get used to the sensation. I wouldn’t say I got used to it, but I did like it.

A few of you have asked for more specifics. I’d be happy to answer questions e-mailed to me about me (not about my date), or what we did. I have to admit I don’t know things like how many times I came… it was more than once, or how long I was spanked (it was many times and for as much as I could take – I wasn’t bored enough to be watching the clock). Anyways I hope you enjoyed and that this meets some of your voyeuristic needs. I’ll be sending a topless picture of me post-fucked to those of you on the mailing list who send in your picture.

He backed her across the room by her hair. His hand was fisted deeply in her tresses, causing her to wince and moan with the shock and pain of his sudden move on her. She knew she had been overstepping her boundaries of late, and he’d for certain given her the rope to hang herself with. When she told him that she’d be late for their meeting, that she was stuck in traffic, he told her that she should have planned better, she apologied, but apparently that was no longer going to cut it. 

“Seems to me I’ve been hearing “i’m sorry Master” quite a bit from those red lips of yours,” he growled into her ear. She was silent, tears forming and falling silently. He pushed her onto the bed, curtly ordered her to lift her short skirt and bare her bottom. She waited, tense and breathless for the first blow to fall. There was nothing. She wanted to peek, to see what he was doing back there, but wasn’t quite daring enough. The silence was deafening, the anticipation, made her shiver with a combination of fear, and lust. She could faintly hear the sounds of traffic in the street below, and her own ragged breathing. She could have been alone in the room for all she knew. But she knew better.

Against the silence of the room, the  rasp of a zipper was loud and shocking. His quiet footfalls came closer to where she lay on the bed, a supplicant to his every desire.

“What are you?” he asked, quietly.

“your slave, Master,” she responded.

“Who’s slave?”

“Your’s Master, always Yours.”

She felt a pressure against her anus, knew he was putting a butt plug in her ass, prayed it wasn’t the big one. It was.  This one was slippery, and he’d used a good amount of lube on it. It had a tendency to pop out at inappropriate times, which was humilating.

“Be sure to hold this in, tight.” he ordered, and then began spanking her. Over and over again his hand struck her ass. It went from warm glow to burning embers, to omg won’t He ever stop. His delivery was measured, unhurried. This was going to last awhile, and she couldn’t push away from the pain, for she might lose her hold on the butt plug. Squeezing down on the plug tightened her cheeks and intensified the blows. The lube added to the challenge, which is what he’d planned from the beginning, she knew.  She cried, she begged, she whimpered at the agony of her ass. Finally, he was done. Flipping her skirt down over her glowing asscheeks, he crossed the room and picked up his suitjacket.

“Let’s go out for dinner, pet.”

She looked at him, reproachful. She really needed to be fucked, her cunt was wet and wanting, and her asshole was stretched and hurting. She did not want dinner. She wanted the plug out. She wanted Him inside her. 

“And dancing.” He smiled at her, held out his hand.

It was all about him.

It was time she remembered it.

A big group of lads from our work have gone out to celebrate the birthday of a colleague and we end up in a sex club and I know I really shouldn’t be here because Joanna would have a fit if she knew I was here. All of the girls are very attractive and the acts that they are putting on are very raunchy and they often pull out a volunteer from the audience to participate or to tease. Our group was close to the edge of the stage and as soon as a girl called Hayley stepped onto the stage my pulse began to race and my cock started to grow because she was absolutely gorgeous. Looking up at her Hayley appeared to be at least six feet tall in her thigh-high boots with needlepoint heels. Hayley’s sumptuous bottom was clad in very tight and very short shorts that had a real shine to them but it was her corseted upper body that caught my attention even more. In her right hand Hayley held a riding crop and in her left hand she was holding a pair of handcuffs.

I was mesmerised and turned on by the whole package that was standing on the stage and when Hayley was scanning the audience with her dark, intense eyes looking for a victim to bring up onto stage many men shrunk back into their seats but when she flitted her eyes over me I held her gaze. With the riding crop Hayley pointed directly at me and then pointed to a point directly in front of her on the stage indicating that I should join her on the stage much to the amusement of my colleagues. I was pushed down onto my knees on the stage by Hayley and she started to wrap her body around me slowly stripping me out of my shirt and tie to reveal a tanned and toned chest complete with a piercing in one of my nipples. Hayley played with this piercing making me moan with a combination of pain and pleasure before she cuffed my wrists behind my back.

Hayley helped me to my feet before she removed my trousers and boxer shorts leaving me standing naked and very erect. Hayley teased the tab of her crop over my cock and balls before she turned me round and placed a couple of strokes of the crop on my bottom bringing sighs from me. Hayley sat me down on a chair in the centre of the stage and she started to reveal her perfect body to the audience and to me before pushing her bottom into my face for me to kiss it, which I was very happy to do. After I had kissed all of Hayley’s bottom she pushed back even further and I found myself smothered and it was only when I started to struggle that Hayley released me but I was about to discover that it was far from the end of my involvement with her.

Hayley pulled me to my feet and led me off the stage to her dressing room where she locked the door behind us. I was pushed face down onto the bed that was in the room and found myself being tied to the bed with soft ropes.

‘I wonder what Joanna will make of this’ Hayley remarks casually putting the fear of god into me and when I look up at Hayley I see the wicked smile on her face.

‘This is a part-time sideline for me but during the day I work in the same office as Joanna and she has always commented on how wonderful you are as a boyfriend but I guess you’ve just blown this reputation clean out of the window by visiting this club and then joining me on stage never mind actually worshipping my bottom in public’ Hayley says before placing the crop down across my lower back. I struggle against the ropes but the knots are completely secure and I’m going nowhere. I watch Hayley picking up her mobile phone and calling Joanna but the conversation is whispered so I can’t hear a word that is being said. About thirty minutes later there is a knock on the door and Hayley answers it. I see Joanna stepping into the room with a look of thunder on her face.

‘Thank you very much for looking after him Hayley’ Joanna says before giving Hayley a kiss on each cheek. Joanna steps over to me and picks up the crop that is still lying in the small of my back. Without a word having passed between us Joanna lashes the crop down hard into my bottom making me squeal.

‘As it was Hayley that has experienced your infidelity I am prepared to give you a second chance because I am sure that this is the first time you have been unfaithful and it will certainly be the last because there are going to be changes in our relationship. From now on you will be my slave and you will be wearing my underwear at all times so that even if you do think of being unfaithful the object of your desires will know that you are nothing but a sissy boy. Then when you are at home you will be fully dressed as a woman and you will be my maid. All of the domestic chores will be your responsibility and I will inspect them rigorously punishing you stringently for any fault but I will also punish you purely for my own pleasure as well’ Joanna explains punctuating almost every word with a hard lash of the crop on my bottom and thighs. At least this meant that I still had a future with Joanna even if it was going to be a very painful one.

‘Hayley, I don’t suppose you have a butt plug available do you?’ Joanna asks.

‘I do Joanna’ Hayley answers.

‘Oh great can I have it to show my unfaithful boyfriend that his body is now mine to do with whatever I please’ Joanna comments with an evil grin on her face. Hayley hands over a butt plug and I watch Joanna lubricating this before she pushes it into my bottom completely ignoring my grunts and groans.

‘That had better stay in my slave or you will be thrashed without pity when we get home’ Joanna says as she is untying me from the bed. I find myself being marched out of the club to Joanna’s car where I am thrown into the boot.

‘You are more than welcome to come and join me anytime you want to help train my new slave’ I hear Joanna telling Hayley before the boot is closed leaving me to my fate.

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Now that we’ve discussed beginners anal sex, it’s time to really explore the rest of this new world!

There are several popular anal accessories, but the most well known are butt plugs. So lets dive into the do’s and dont’s of plugs. Oh the glory of … Butt Plugs! These create that extra anal stimulation while having sex. Not to say that you can’t use it while alone Have a blast.

• For men, you can wear one while penetrating your partner for that extra ”Umph”.
• For women, you can use one while getting vaginal penetration for that D.P. (double penetration) feeling or you can use one while you penetrate someone with a strap-on.

SAFETY FIRST: Your butt plug needs to have a wide, tapered base. This is for your safety, so you don’t lose the toy!! This is very important. Most people don’t realize that although an anus is often referred to “exit only” by non-adventurous people, it’s natural function is to suck in. Also, unlike a vagina, the anus doesn’t end – there is no “back wall”. So if you do lose something it may end up out of your reach, which leads to Emergency room visits and embarrassing x-rays! SO BE CAREFUL!

Now that we’ve gotten all that out-of-the-way, let’s get into the fun of PLUGS!!! 

Start small! You can work your way up to bigger and better pieces, but test the waters and see what you enjoy. If you start too large, it could be uncomfortable and you might decide anal play just isn’t for you. The truth is large pieces are not for everyone, so try some different stuff!! There are many training kits to start you off, such as the Sensafirm Booty Bumpers.

Now that you’ve pick a plug that looks like the right size and has a flared base, you’re ready to start playing. Use plenty of lubricant to insert your plug. Start slow and relax. This will ease the entry of the plug. With a plug you’re just putting it in and leaving it there. You don’t want to try and penetrate back and forth like a dildo. Once it’s in, you’re ready to PARTY!!

Just for reference, here are a few different plugs you might enjoy!

Well good luck everyone and have a BLAST trying out different plugs!! And keep an eye out for my next blog… Anal Accessories, Part 2 – Anal Chains!!

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In der Nacht von Mittwoch auf Donnerstag 16./17. September 2009 wurde ins Pfarramt St. Benno in Ekmannsdorf eingebrochen.

Unbekannte Täter hatten ein Fenster an der Ostseite des Pfarramtes aufgehebelt und konnten so ins Innere des Gebäudes einsteigen. Die Büroräume des Pfarramtes wurden durchsucht, zwei Rollcontainer aufgebrochen. Aus einem Büroschrank wurde ein Möbeltresor mitgenommen. Im Tresor befanden sich neben dem Pfarrsiegel noch eine Anstaltspackung XXL Kondome (rot genoppt mit Erdbeer Aroma), ein 16-teiliges Elektro-Sex Set, ein Edelstahl-Knebel mit Naturlatex-Ball, ein Butt Plug Tantus Ripple large und eine Genußpeitsche – 4 schwänzig.

Der mit den Ermittlungen beauftragte Mats Dillen fragt: “Wer hat in der Nacht vom 16. auf den 17. September im Bereich des Pfarramts in Ekmannsdorf einen oder mehrere Täter mit einem Pfarrsiegel, einer Anstaltspackung XXL Kondome (rot genoppt mit Erdbeer Aroma), einem 16-teiliges Elektro-Sex Set, einem Edelstahl-Knebel mit Naturlatex-Ball, einem Butt Plug Tantus Ripple large und einer Genußpeitsche – 4 schwänzig gesehen”?

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La crucifixi�n tomo lugar en el d�a de la preparaci�n de la fiesta de la pascua que pudo comenzar a las 6:00 p.m. Las autoridades jud�as sintieron una urgencia de bajar el cuerpo de la cruz y sepultarlo antes de que el sol se escondiera.
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