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The Classic Triadic Relationship
Repeatedly, researchers have found the classic triadic (three-way) relationship in the family backgrounds of homosexual men. In this situation, the mother often has a poor or limited relationship with… more →
The Truth Sets You Free
At least the agony aunts agree
blaxter wrote 1 year ago: Seventeen agony aunts accosted Ed Balls today asking for more help for young people caught up in div … more →
The Classic Triadic Relationship
thetruthsetsyoufree wrote 1 year ago: Repeatedly, researchers have found the classic triadic (three-way) relationship in the family backgr … more →
The Fallout: After the Boy Distances Himself from the Father
thetruthsetsyoufree wrote 1 year ago: Effeminate boys, even more than gender-normal boys, need from their dads what we call reparative the … more →
The Prehomosexual Boy
thetruthsetsyoufree wrote 1 year ago: Traditionalists (including most people of faith) believe that a natural order written into our bodie … more →
Supporting a Masculine Gender Identity: Rites of Passage
thetruthsetsyoufree wrote 1 year ago: Primitive cultures exhibit an intuitive understanding that boys need special help and encouragement … more →
Is Homosexual "Who Some People Are"?
thetruthsetsyoufree wrote 1 year ago: “But maybe my son was born gay?” some parents ask me. “Is it possible that homosex … more →
In Search of Masculinity
thetruthsetsyoufree wrote 1 year ago: Richard Wyler explains the needs he and the other strugglers felt as children — particularly, … more →
Growing Up Secure in One's Gender
thetruthsetsyoufree wrote 1 year ago: In infancy, both boys and girls are emotionally attached to the mother. In psychodynamic language, m … more →
Masculinity Is an Achievement
thetruthsetsyoufree wrote 1 year ago: A woman is, but a man must become. Masculinity is risky and elusive. It is achieved by a revolt from … more →
At Odds with the Mental Health Profession
thetruthsetsyoufree wrote 1 year ago: Today’s mass media convey the message that men ought to be encouraged to dicover a homosexual … more →
Perpetuating Gender Stereotypes?
thetruthsetsyoufree wrote 1 year ago: We cannot go along with people who — many of them within the mental health profession — … more →
Irreversibly Programmed in the First Years of Life?
thetruthsetsyoufree wrote 1 year ago: The infantilism of the homosexual complex generally stems from adolescence, to a lesser degree from … more →
Roadblocks
thetruthsetsyoufree wrote 1 year ago: There are two major stumbling blocks to repentance that you will have to fight: the love of the fami … more →
The "inner child"...
thetruthsetsyoufree wrote 1 year ago: The “inner child” views not only members of his own sex through the glasses of his gende … more →
Two emancipatory homosexuals...
thetruthsetsyoufree wrote 1 year ago: Two emancipatory homosexuals, a psychologist and a psychiatrist, David McWhirter and Andrew Mattison … more →
Meaning Transformation
thetruthsetsyoufree wrote 1 year ago: When the therapist makes it clear that the adolescent boy “had no choice” other than to … more →
Failures Alternate with Successes
thetruthsetsyoufree wrote 1 year ago: Finally, the patient needs to be permitted to “come up short” sometimes due to the reali … more →
Breaking Out of the Entrenched Pattern
thetruthsetsyoufree wrote 1 year ago: The therapist’s ability to soothe some of the patient’s fears often produces an interest … more →
The Importance of Risk Taking
thetruthsetsyoufree wrote 1 year ago: Sometimes a form of “phallic” action is required to bolster the masculine self so that f … more →
