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The Elusive Magic of Boundaries

I am a recovering people pleaser and co-dependent woman. My wake up call came during a visit with my husband’s counsellor. He had offered to see me separately and I took him up on it. 494 more words

A little love for you

On this journey, I have found days and times that I think I can’t continue. I have found that at the core of who I am, I sometimes feel exhausted and weary. 375 more words

Its not me, it’s all about you!

Let’s say a certain family lives, loves and fights over 30 years. And then a new person arrives.  The person challenges their notion of what is normal and what is abnormal behaviour. 270 more words

Borderline Personality Disorder

The truth - about lies

 7 Honest Reasons Why Addicts Lie

I am often in denial about the simple fact that my husband, and my sons, have lied to me. Often. 1,091 more words

Reality Check


Ok, he has discarded you and you are heartbroken, the 3 W’s plague you,

what, when and why; the love of your life has discarded you and is now madly and passionately in love with someone else and loathes you. 2,692 more words


Why does my sweetheart drive me Crazy? part 3: an experiment

Cowboy: We’ve been distracted by travel, and we left the question of being driven crazy without resolving it.
Adam: Resolve? Ha!
Cowboy: In part 2, … 474 more words


More validation and reducing that cognitive dissonance

Sorry this will be long and serious, but I thought time to do some processing and focussed expressive writing.  I have some roller coaster background noise in the last bit.   1,243 more words