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<title><![CDATA[BDSM and Mental Health]]></title>
<link>http://wanderingmind7.wordpress.com/2009/11/28/bdsm-and-mental-health/</link>
<pubDate>Sat, 28 Nov 2009 16:50:28 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>wanderingmind7</dc:creator>
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<description><![CDATA[BDSM and Bipolar for me is a wonderful combination! While they might not be a great combination for ]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><p>BDSM and Bipolar for me is a wonderful combination!</p>
<p>While they might not be a great combination for my submissive, it works for me. LOL. I love the feel of release as I inflict pain on my submissive. The weight of the world leaving my mind for that short time as I force the submissive to do things they normally would not do in their true mindset.</p>
<p>Maybe it&#8217;s time to find that submissive again. After all it has been a few years since I have had one that wasn&#8217;t online. LOL</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve come to the realization that my Dominant side is a hiding technique. A way for me to inflict on another the pain I am feeling inside my head and heart. Thats where the Bipolar plays in. Because I am just that confused, I feel I need to give someone else the pain I&#8217;m feeling but in a different way. They get the pain through whippings, floggings, humiliation, CBT, and Mind Control (as well as many other ways), I have the pain in my head.</p>
<p>Hum: New thought! Maybe it&#8217;s not my Bipolar that instigates this, but my Borderline Personality Disorder since it supposedly is what triggers my emotions where relationships are concerned.</p>
<p>For me, BDSM is not about SEX as it is for most. I don&#8217;t personally use it as a sexual release. But here is the clincher; I&#8217;m submissive to my partner.</p>
<p>For me being submissive means going into another world, a world where someone else takes over and dominates my existence. So what is my true calling then? That of a Dominant or that of a submissive? I hate the term &#8220;switch&#8221; as I don&#8217;t feel that is me at all. Your either Dominant or submissive, there really is no in between.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m confused! LOL</p>
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<title><![CDATA[Alte Gesturi Larg Răspîndite  ]]></title>
<link>http://bahmunteanut.wordpress.com/2009/11/27/alte-gesturi-larg-raspindite/</link>
<pubDate>Fri, 27 Nov 2009 08:08:35 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Bahmunteanu Tatiana</dc:creator>
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<description><![CDATA[Încălecarea scaunului Cu secole în urmă, oamenii foloseau scuturi pentru a se apăra de ciomegele şi ]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><p>Încălecarea scaunului Cu secole în urmă, oamenii foloseau scuturi pentru a se apăra de ciomegele şi suliţele inamicului. Azi, omul civilizat, exprimând aceeaşi atitudine de aparare, utilizează orice obiect aflat la îndemâna ori de câte ori este expus unui atac fizic sau verbal. El se retrage în spatele unei porţi, a unui gard sau birou, în spatele uşii deschise a automobilului sau încaleca un scaun. Spătarul scaunului îi apără trupul aidoma unui scut, iar pe el îl transformă într-un luptător agresiv, dominant. Majoritatea celor care stau calare pe un scaun sunt indivizi dominanţi, care, atunci când încep să se plictisească de conversaţie, încearcă să preia controlul asupra altora sau a întregului grup, iar spătarul scaunului le asigură o bună aparare împotriva oricarui &#8220;atac&#8221; din pârlea membrilor grupului. Cel mai adesea, ei adoptă această poziţie in mod discret,aproape pe neobservate.<!--more--></p>
<p>  Un asemenea individ poate fi dezarmat cu usurinta daca ne plasam în spatele lui, provocându-i astfel senzatia de vulnerabilitate fata de orice fel de atac si obligându-l sa-si schimbe pozitia într-una mai putin agresiva. Metoda poate fi eficienta când sunt prezenti mai multi oameni si când cel în cauza ramâne cu spatele descoperit. Dar cum procedam atunci când ne confruntam de unul singur cu un individ calare pe un scaun turnant? Discutia cu el n-are nici un rost, mai ales daca se roteste întruna, când într-o parte, când în alta. În acest caz, cea mai buna aparare este atacul non-verbal. Sa conducem conversatia în asa fel încât, stând în picioare, sa-l putem privi de sus în jos si sa patrundem în teritoriul sau personal. Aceasta îl va perturba mult si în efortul sau de a evita schimbarea fortata a locului, s-ar putea chiar sa cada de pe scaun. Daca ne vine în vizita un adept al încalecarii scaunului si cu atitudinea sa agresiva ne scoate din sarite, sa-l asezam într-un scaun cu brate, bine fixat, care îl va împiedica sa-si foloseasca pozitia sa favorabila.</p>
<p>Culegerea de scame imaginare Când cineva dezaproba opiniile sau atitudinile altora, dar considera ca nu-si poate dezvalui propria parere, gesturile sale non-verbale vor fi miscari de înlocuire, adica vor rezulta din opiniile sale neafirmate. A culege scame imaginare de pe o haina este un asemenea gest. În timpul acestei activitati minore, neinteresante, individul respectiv are privirile atintite spre podea, de regula nu priveste spre ceilalti. Este unul din semnele cel mai frecvent folosite pentru exprimarea dezaprobarii, iar daca ascultatorul continua sa culeaga scame inexistente, gestul indica cu claritate ca el nu agreeaza ceea ce i se spune, chiar daca în cuvinte îsi declara acordul cu cele auzite. Având ca partener de discutii un asemenea individ, sa-i adresam, cu palmele deschise, urmatoarele cuvinte: &#8220;Deci, ce parere aveti?&#8221;sau &#8220;Se pare ca aveti ceva de adaugat. Sunteti bun sa-mi spuneti si mie&#8217;&#8221;. Sa ne asezam comod pe scaun, eu bratele neîncrucesate si palmele deschise si sa asteptam raspunsul. Daca ni se raspunde ca este de acord, dar continua sa culeaga scame imaginare, va trebui sa gasim o modalitate obiectiile sale ascunse.</p>
<p>GESTURI ALE CAPULUI Lucrarea noastra n-ar fi completa fara discutarea miscarilor de baza ale capului, dintre care cele mai larg folosite sunt încuviintarea si clatinatul din cap. Încuviintarea cu capul este un gest politic, care, în cele mai multe culturi, semnifica &#8220;Da&#8221;. Cercetarile întreprinse asupra unor indivizi care sunt din nastere surzi, muti sau orbi au aratat ca si ei utilizeaza acest gest cu sens afirmativ, oferind un argument în plus conceptiei potrivit careia gestul ar fi înnascut. La fel si clatinatul capului, utilizat în general cu sensul de &#8220;Nu&#8221;, este considerat de unii un gest innascut. În schimb, altii încearca sa demonstreze ca ar fi vorba de primul gest însusit de fiinta umana. Dupa opinia acestora, atunci când noul nascut s-a saturat de lapte, el îsi clatina capul într-o parte si alta, pentru a îndeparta sânii mamei, în mod similar, când un copil s-a saturat, el respinge tot prin clatinatul capului încercarile parintilor de a-l îndopa în continuare. Obiectiile ascunse ale unui partener cu care dorim sa încheiem o afacere le putem descoperi cu usurinta, urmarind daca el, în timp ce în vorbe se declara de acord cu noi, recurge sau nu la clatinatul capului. Sa luam, de exemplu, pe cineva care ne spune asa: &#8220;Da, înteleg punctul dumneavoastra de vedere&#8221;, sau &#8220;Într-adevar, îmi place sa lucrez aici&#8221;, sau &#8220;Dupa Craciun vom încheia fara doar si poate afacerea&#8221; — si între timp îsi clatina capul într-o parte si alta. Desi cuvintele sale suna convingator, gestul denota o atitudine negativa si, în asemenea situatii, se recomanda sa nu dam crezare afirmatiilor sale verbale si sa continuam sa-i punem alte întrebari. Exista trei pozitii de baza ale capului: prima este capul tinut drept; aceasta este pozitia omului cu o atitudine neutra fata de cele auzite. Capul ramâne de obicei nemiscat, rar lasând sa se observe o miscare marunta. Adesea apare împreuna cu gestul mâinii ridicate la fata, care exprima o evaluare. Capul înclinat într-o parte — pozitia a doua — semnifica o trezire a interesului. Charles Darwin a fost printre primii care au observat ca oamenii, ca si animalele, îsi înclina capul într-o parte atunci când încep sa se intereseze de ceva. Când facem o prezentare a unor marfuri sau tinem o expunere, sa fim atenti întotdeauna daca la cei care ne asculta apare acest gest. Când observam ca ei îsi înclina capul înlr-o parte, se apleaca înainte si îsi pun mâna pe barbie ca semn de evaluare, vom întelege ca am reusit sa le trezim interesul. Femeile îsi manifesta prin aceasta tinuta a capului interesul fata de un barbat atractiv. Daca ni se adreseaza cineva si vrem sa cucerim simpatia respectivului, uneori e suficient sa utilizam pozitia capului înclina si sa dam usor din cap. Capul înclinat în jos — pozitia a treia — semnalizeaza o atitudine negativa si chiar una de judecare critica. Grupul gesturilor de evaluare critica sunt însotite de obicei de gestul capului înclinat în jos. Pentru a pulea comunica cu un asemenea individ, irebuie sa-l determinam sa ridice capul sau sa-l încline într-o parte. Oratorii întâlnesc nu o data în rândul auditoriului persoane care stau pe scaunele lor cu capetele aplecate si cu bratele împletite pe piept. Conferentiarii si instructorii profesionisti, înainte de a începe o expunere, încearca prin diferite mijloace sa atraga atentia si participarea celor din sala. În felul acesta îi vor determina sa ridice capul si sa se implice în tema. Daca initiativa vorbitorului este încununata de succes, urmatoarea pozitie a capului va fi cea înclinata într-o parte. Amândoua mâinile asezate înapoia capului Acest gest este tipic pentru cei care au profesiuni ca cele de contabil, avocat, director de întreprindere comerciala, director de banca sau pentru oameni care se simt încrezatori, dominanti sau, dintr-un anume motiv, superiori fata de altii. Daca am putea citi gândurile unui asemenea om, am afla astfel de idei: &#8220;Toate raspunsurile le am în buzunarul cel mic&#8221;, sau &#8220;Poate vei avea si tu cândva mintea mea&#8221;, sau chiar &#8220;Stapânesc totul&#8221;. Este un gest utilizat de indivizi &#8220;atotstiutori&#8221;, dar care îi irita pe multi atunci când este folosit fata de ei. Avocatii îl folosesc frecvent în loc de cuvinte, pentru a demonstra în fata colegilor cât de priceputi sunt ei. Poate fi utilizat si ca semn al teritorialitatii, pentru a exprima pretentia asupra unui spatiu. Cel care si-a format si o bucla peste genunchi, ceea ce arata nu numai faptul ca se considera superior fata de celalalt, dar doreste sa intre si în disputa cu acesta. Acest gest poate fi contracarat în mai multe feluri, în functie de împrejurarile în care el apare. Daca dorim sa descoperim cauza atitudinii de superioruate a unei persoane, sa ne aplecam spre ea, având palmele întoarse în sus, cu urmatoarele cuvinte: &#8220;Vad ca dumneavoastra cunoasteti aceasta problema. Ati fi amabil sa o comentati?&#8221;. Apoi, rezemându-ne de spatarul scaunului, cu palmele lasate vizibile, sa asteptam raspunsul. O alta metoda este de a-1 forta sa-si schimbe pozitia, ceea ce va atrage dupa sine si schimbarea atitudinii sale. La aceasta putem ajunge, asezând un obiect ceva mai departe si întrebându-l: &#8220;Ati vazut acest obiect?&#8221; obligându-l astfel sa se aplece înainte. Este o metoda buna si imitarea gestului. Daca vrem sa aratam ca suntem de acord cu cealalta persoana, nu trebuie sa facem altceva decât sa imitam gesturile sale. Pe de alta parte, daca cineva utilizând gestul mâinilor asezate înapoia capului ne admonesteaza, iar noi raspundem, prin imitare, cu acelasi gest, înseamna ca pe cale non-verbala îl intimidam. Doi avocati, de exemplu, pot utiliza acest gest când sunt împreuna pentru exprimarea similitudinii si întelegerii între ei, dar utilizat de un elev neastâmparat în biroul directorului scolii, l-ar înfuria, desigur, pe acesta. Originea acestui gest este incerta, dar, dupa toate probabilitatile, mâinile sunt folosite ca rezematoare imaginara pentru sprijin si destindere. In cursul cercetarii acestui gest s-a constatat, de exemplu, la o societate de asigurari, ca din treizeci de sefi de compartimente, douazeci si sapte îl utilizau în mod curent în prezenta subordonatilor, dar rareori în fata superiorilor, în prezenta sefilor lor, aceiasi oameni recurgeau la grupuri de gesturi de supunere si defensive.</p>
<p> GESTURI AGRESIVE SI DE PREGATIRE Ce fel de gesturi sunt folosite în urmatoarele situatii: când un copil mic se cearta cu parintii sai, când un atlet asteapta sa-i vina rândul la concurs, când un boxer asteapta în vestiar începerea meciului? În fiecare din aceste cazuri, individul sta cu mâinile înfipte în solduri, acesta fiind unul din cele mai raspândite gesturi care comunica o atitudine agresiva. Unii observatori l-au etichetat drept gest &#8220;de pregatire&#8221;, ceea ce într-un anumit context este o denumire corecta, dar semnificatia lui de baza este agresiunea. Pozitia este numita si postura provocatoare, cu referire la individul care merge direct la tinta si recurge la aceasta postura când este gata de lupta pentru atingerea obiectivelor sale. Aceste observatii sunt exacte, deoarece, în ambele cazuri, individul este gata sa intre în actiune pentru un anume scop, dar gestul ramâne totusi unul agresiv. Barbatii îl utilizeaza frecvent în prezenta femeilor pentru a demonstra o atitudine de mascul agresiva, dominanta. Este interesant de observat ca atunci când se lupta între ele sau se curteaza, pasarile îsi zbârlesc penele pentru a parea mai mari; oamenii folosesc gestul mâinilor la solduri din acelasi motiv — sa para mai mari. Barbatii îl utilizeaza sî ca o provocare non-verbala fata de alti barbati care au patruns în teritoriul lor. Pentru interpretarea corecta a atitudinii unei persoane este, de asemenea, important sa fie luate în considerare împrejurarile si gesturile nemijlocit prcrnergaloare utilizarii pozitiei mâinilor la solduri. Si alte gesturi pot contribui Ia sustinerea concluziilor noastre. De exemplu, daca haina celui în cauza este descheiata si împinsa spre spate sau este încheiata atunci când adopta aceasta postura agresiva. Gestul facut cu haina încheiata denota frustrare agresiva, pe când haina descheiata si împinsa spre spate exprima o postura direct agresiva; individul expunându-si deschis inima si beregata îsi manifesta non-verbal îndrazneala si tenacitatea. Caracterul agresiv al acestei pozitii poate fi accentuat si mai mult daca se sta eu picioarele îndepartate unul de celalalt sau daca grupul de gesturi este însotit de palmele tinute pumn. Si manechinele utilizeaza grupuri de gesturi agresive de pregatire pentru a crea impresia ca modelele prezentate sunt pentru femei elegante, energice, cu o gândire moderna. Ocazional, acest gest poale fi aplicat si cu o singura mâna în sold, mâna cealalta facând o alta miscare. Gesturi de evaluare critica însotesc frecvent pozitia mâinilor la solduri. Gestul de pregatire în pozitie de sedere Unul din cele mai importante gesturi, pe care un negociator e bine sa învete sa-l recunoasca, este cel de pregatire în pozitie de sedere. Cu prilejul unor negocieri comerciale, de exemplu, daca potentialul cumparator face acest gest la sfârsitul prezentarii marfurilor si al discutiilor — pâna la acel punct fructuoase —, agentul comercial poate solicita comanda si se si poate baza pe ea. Înregistrari video despre negocieri între agenti de asigurari si potentialii lor parteneri au dezvaluit ca de fiecare data când gestul de pregatire în pozitie de sedere l-a urmai pe cel al mângâierii barbiei (se ia o decizie), partenerul a cumparat polita de asigurare, în schimb, daca spre sfârsitul negocierilor, imediat dupa gestul mângâierii barbiei, partenerul si-a încrucisat bratele, afacerea de obicei a esuat. Din nefericire, la multe cursuri organizate pentru agenti comerciali acestia sunt îndemnati sa acorde toata atentia luarii comenzii, neglijând pozitia trupului si gesturile clientului, învatarea recunoasterii gesturilor cum este cel de pregatire, nu numai ca sporeste sansa încheierii afacerii, dar ajuta pe multi agenti comerciali sa se mentina o profesiune si sa o practice cu succes. Gestul de pregatire in pozitie de sedere este utilizat si de persoane furioase, care sunt gata sa faca cu totul altceva — de exemplu, sa-l azvârle afara pe vizitator. Gesturile care îl preced furnizeaza evaluari exacte despre intentiile individului în cauza.</p>
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<link>http://siranneal.wordpress.com/2009/11/24/212/</link>
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<dc:creator>siranneal</dc:creator>
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<description><![CDATA[Warmth Turns To Passion The Chef &amp; The meal Welcome home]]></description>
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<h3 style="text-align:center;">The Chef &#38; The meal</h3>
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<dd class="wp-caption-dd">Welcome home</dd>
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<title><![CDATA[Welcome to Puckered]]></title>
<link>http://puckered.wordpress.com/2009/11/22/welcome-to-puckered/</link>
<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 02:09:53 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Puckered</dc:creator>
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<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;re here, it&#8217;s probably because you have a love for all things anal (and sometimes]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[We've Moved! ]]></title>
<link>http://dertylaundry.wordpress.com/2009/11/21/weve-moved/</link>
<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:50:43 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Nikita</dc:creator>
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<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;ve Moved!  Come visit our new home. ﻿]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Spank me while I wear stockings!]]></title>
<link>http://yourgirlinoneyear.wordpress.com/2009/11/20/spank-me-while-i-wear-stocking/</link>
<pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2009 16:11:55 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>girlontheside</dc:creator>
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<description><![CDATA[In an earlier post I confessed to having no real fetishes&#8230; aside from fucking. That&#8217;s no]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><p>In an earlier post I confessed to having no real fetishes&#8230; aside from fucking. That&#8217;s not entirely true. I do have another fetish, although you may find it somewhat less interesting. I love graphs. Trend graphs specifically. I&#8217;m a big fan of the <a href="http://thisisindexed.com/">indexed blog</a>. </p>
<p>I got a bit carried away with google trends this morning. </p>
<p>It looks like I&#8217;m jumping on the &#8220;sub&#8221; bandwagon just in time as the gap between &#8220;slut&#8221; and &#8220;sub&#8221; is growing with sub taking the lead.</p>
<p> <a href="http://yourgirlinoneyear.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/slut-sub1.jpg"><img src="http://yourgirlinoneyear.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/slut-sub1.jpg?w=300" alt="" title="slut sub" width="300" height="186" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-146" /></a></p>
<p>I should perhaps re-think labeling myself a &#8220;kinkster&#8221; and adopting the &#8220;fetishist&#8221; title to keep my options open.</p>
<p><a href="http://yourgirlinoneyear.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/kink-fetish.png"><img src="http://yourgirlinoneyear.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/kink-fetish.png?w=300" alt="" title="Kink Fetish" width="300" height="146" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-148" /></a></p>
<p>My use of the term &#8220;cunt&#8221; seems to be far too vulgar for most Canadians (yes these are all Canadian trends) it would seem &#8220;pussy&#8221; is the kinder gentler way.</p>
<p><a href="http://yourgirlinoneyear.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/pussy-cunt.jpg"><img src="http://yourgirlinoneyear.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/pussy-cunt.jpg?w=300" alt="" title="Pussy Cunt" width="300" height="147" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-149" /></a></p>
<p>Subs are meant to be disciplined. I don&#8217;t envy the Dom who wants to try that with me, they have their work cut out&#8230; but it&#8217;s time to re-evaluate either my preferences or my language useage.</p>
<p><a href="http://yourgirlinoneyear.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/submission-discipline.jpg"><img src="http://yourgirlinoneyear.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/submission-discipline.jpg?w=300" alt="" title="Submission Discipline" width="300" height="146" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-150" /></a></p>
<p>I can however find people who will tie me up, but who are not looking to be dominant. Interesting.</p>
<p><a href="http://yourgirlinoneyear.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/domination-bondage.jpg"><img src="http://yourgirlinoneyear.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/domination-bondage.jpg?w=300" alt="" title="Domination Bondage" width="300" height="149" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-151" /></a></p>
<p>While starting off on par in 2004 anal-sex took a huge lead over oral-sex in 2006&#8230; fortunately for those of us still learning they seem to be reaching parity again. </p>
<p><a href="http://yourgirlinoneyear.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/anal-sex-oral-sex.jpg"><img src="http://yourgirlinoneyear.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/anal-sex-oral-sex.jpg?w=300" alt="" title="anal sex oral sex" width="300" height="144" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-152" /></a></p>
<p>Finally while seeming to start off as two separate kinks it looks like spankings while wearing stockings is the way to go. Any takers?</p>
<p><a href="http://yourgirlinoneyear.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/spanking-stockings.jpg"><img src="http://yourgirlinoneyear.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/spanking-stockings.jpg?w=300" alt="" title="Spanking Stockings" width="300" height="148" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-153" /></a></p>
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<link>http://siranneal.wordpress.com/2009/11/19/a-conversation-against-the-wall/</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 12:06:29 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>siranneal</dc:creator>
<guid>http://siranneal.wordpress.com/2009/11/19/a-conversation-against-the-wall/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I need to dream..I need to be awake near 4&#8230;.hooded&#8230;you wait against the wall..shackled i]]></description>
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<h3>I approach and rub Myself on your lips&#8230;wiping pre-come on your thighs&#8230;I finger you</h3>
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<h3>twisitng a nipple between thumb and index finger 9:06 PM</h3>
<h3>My cock barely enters you 9:06 PM</h3>
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<h3>and I breath on your neck&#8230;HOT air and a lick</h3>
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<h3>a clamp with bell is attached to your right nipple&#8230;and it jingles upon My assault on your neck, and my hand rubbing your clit</h3>
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<h3>9:10 PM</h3>
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<title><![CDATA[This Little piggy]]></title>
<link>http://siranneal.wordpress.com/2009/11/18/this-little-piggy/</link>
<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 13:50:26 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>siranneal</dc:creator>
<guid>http://siranneal.wordpress.com/2009/11/18/this-little-piggy/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Holds her in a tight hogtie GRIM (notice the nicely done toenails?)]]></description>
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<p style="text-align:center;">GRIM</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">(notice the nicely done toenails?)<a href="http://siranneal.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/toes-bondage.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-761" title="toes-bondage" src="http://siranneal.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/toes-bondage.jpg" alt="" width="450" height="672" /></a></p>
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<title><![CDATA[A classic: fur and gloves]]></title>
<link>http://glovefetishblog.com/2009/11/17/a-classic-fur-and-gloves/</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 16:36:47 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>fetishliza</dc:creator>
<guid>http://glovefetishblog.com/2009/11/17/a-classic-fur-and-gloves/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[A classic combo&#8230;real fur and leather gloves. I do love the retro style. Both are elegant and f]]></description>
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<p>A classic combo&#8230;real fur and leather gloves. I do love the retro style. Both are elegant and feminine. I guess the look could also be completed with a nice retro holder, might be a good idea for a video! Love to hear your comments, don&#8217;t be shy <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  xxx Fetish Liza</p>
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<title><![CDATA[Hotwife Slut Top &amp; Cuckold Backstory]]></title>
<link>http://hotcuckruski.wordpress.com/2009/11/13/hotwife-slut-inspired-clothing/</link>
<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 2009 03:04:26 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>hotcuck</dc:creator>
<guid>http://hotcuckruski.wordpress.com/2009/11/13/hotwife-slut-inspired-clothing/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[One search term had to do with hotwife clothing, so I thought I would post a little to I&#8217;ve go]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><p>One search term had to do with hotwife clothing, so I thought I would post a little to I&#8217;ve got which hotwifes may like entitled &#8220;Cum play with me&#8221; on the breast area. The first picture is my lame attempt at photoshop(I can&#8217;t do a thing in it) because my nickname is &#8220;bunny&#8221;:</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-306" title="Playbun" src="http://hotcuckruski.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/playbun.jpg?w=221" alt="Playbun" width="221" height="300" /><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-305" title="Picture 015" src="http://hotcuckruski.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/picture-015.jpg?w=225" alt="Picture 015" width="225" height="300" /></p>
<p>They also have some other fun slogans, my second fave which I want to buy is &#8220;spank me&#8221;. There is also others such a &#8220;69&#8243;, &#8220;bad girl&#8221;, &#8220;got wood&#8221;, &#8220;pet my pussy&#8221;, &#8220;wet wild and willing&#8221; and many more.</p>
<p><em>CuckyD</em><strong><em> </em></strong>asked to know a bit of back story on my relationship with my cuck, if he went into the relationship knowing he&#8217;d be cuckolded or if it just evolved that way.</p>
<p>Our relationship started off as any normal teenage relationship, no cuckolding involved, I had never even heard of a cuckold til he mentioned it years later. Honestly I had no interested in having sex with let alone looking at another man. I do remember early on talking about the fantasy of being with sexy other men when we travelled around the world, particularly Russia as I want to visit because of my interest and heritage. However, it was just a fantasy to me, which I quickly lost interest in, I was more interested in a threesome with two men. I always wanted a relationship with a dominant man, but as my cuck expressed his will to be cuckolded over and over I decided I would try and make it work.</p>
<p>For years I refused to try cuckolding, but now I am having a go. I am still trying to get fully into the swing of things and get myself into the mind frame of a total cuckoldress. Since I am still trying to transition my mind, I intend to work on fantasies that involve cuckolding and cuckolding aspects I can contribute aside from sex with other men. When I have mastered that and/or feel comfortable I will begin looking into meeting and having sex with other men. I do not intend to push myself into things I am not ready for, so I&#8217;m taking it very slowly. If I feel that I am never ready, which I will not deny is possible, then cuckolding is not the lifestyle for me.</p>
<p>More on my cuckolding experience next post. Leaving Coffs to Mullumbimby, spending time with my family.</p>
<p>Please vote in the poll in my sidebar. Comments?</p>
<p>XOX</p>
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<title><![CDATA[They Used To Be Simple]]></title>
<link>http://siranneal.wordpress.com/2009/11/12/they-used-to-be-simple/</link>
<pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 20:51:00 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>siranneal</dc:creator>
<guid>http://siranneal.wordpress.com/2009/11/12/they-used-to-be-simple/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I started her off that way Just a taste&#8230;.like a new drug&#8230;.hooking  her body and soul sli]]></description>
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<p style="text-align:center;">Just a taste&#8230;.like a new drug&#8230;.hooking  her body and</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">soul</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">slightly more following&#8230;a little tighter&#8230;tougher&#8230;.frustrating</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">she&#8217;d mentioned the orgasms where different&#8230;.powerfull&#8230;.intense</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8220;nothing like them ever!&#8221;  and I quote</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">I wanted her mind&#8230;.the strongest sexual organ she has</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Now&#8230;.It&#8217;s just plain simple</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-754" title="1707614325" src="http://siranneal.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/1707614325.jpg" alt="1707614325" width="345" height="480" /></p>
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<title><![CDATA[Domina Productions new promo vid online -  Domina and doggy ]]></title>
<link>http://dominaproductions.wordpress.com/2009/11/11/domina-productions-new-promo-vid-online-domina-and-doggy/</link>
<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 20:14:37 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>dominaproductions</dc:creator>
<guid>http://dominaproductions.wordpress.com/2009/11/11/domina-productions-new-promo-vid-online-domina-and-doggy/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Our 2nd promo video for our dark electronic label Domina Productions. Credits and thanks to our crew]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><p>Our 2nd promo video for our dark electronic label <a href="http://www.dominaproductions.net">Domina Productions.</a></p>
<p><span style='text-align:center; display: block;'><object width='425' height='350'><param name='movie' value='http://www.youtube.com/v/TKJcMqiNc9w&#038;rel=1&#038;fs=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;hd=0' /><param name='allowfullscreen' value='true' /><param name='wmode' value='transparent' /><embed src='http://www.youtube.com/v/TKJcMqiNc9w&#038;rel=1&#038;fs=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;hd=0' type='application/x-shockwave-flash' allowfullscreen='true' width='425' height='350' wmode='transparent'></embed></object></span></p>
<p>Credits and thanks to our crew:</p>
<p>Performers: <a href="http://www.xarah.de">Xarah</a> &#38; <a href="http://www.myspace.com/vanadio23">Valerio</a><br />
Direction &#38; editing: <a href="http://www.myspace.com/vtox">v-tox</a> &#38; <a href="http://www.myspace.com/aydensangels">Ayden</a><br />
Music: <a href="http://www.myspace.com/akaysha">Kaysh</a><br />
Doggy outfit: <a href="http://www.misterb.com/">Mr. B</a><br />
Kimono dress: <a href="http://www.tatjana-warnecke.de/07/index.php?option=content&#38;pcontent=1&#38;task=view&#38;id=86&#38;Itemid=94">Tatjana Warnecke</a></p>
<p>Let us know your thoughts, and while you&#8217;re here, how about participating in a quick poll&#8230;not an original question, but hey, times are changing&#8230;</p>
<p> <a href="http://answers.polldaddy.com/poll/2243954/">Are you dominant or submissive?</a><br />
 <span style="font:9px;">(<a href="http://www.polldaddy.com">polls</a>)</span></p>
<p>And remember&#8230;.&#8221;Seduction is Guaranteed&#8221;</p>
<p>DP</p>
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<title><![CDATA[Day #10 The More I know, The More I know, how little I know]]></title>
<link>http://mybitch4u.wordpress.com/2009/11/11/day-10-the-more-i-know-the-more-i-know-how-little-i-know/</link>
<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 04:43:21 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>thebitch4u</dc:creator>
<guid>http://mybitch4u.wordpress.com/2009/11/11/day-10-the-more-i-know-the-more-i-know-how-little-i-know/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;re getting into deep shit here.  It&#8217;s become a bit more personal in the first few day]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-122" title="sexy" src="http://mybitch4u.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/sexy.jpg" alt="sexy" width="170" height="211" />We&#8217;re getting into deep shit here.  It&#8217;s become a bit more personal in the first few days. Call me shallow, but i didn&#8217;t expect any of this half way through our little experiment. Candy, you&#8217;re a quick thinker aha.  Well, last post Candy told me that I am to ask her a question every day for the rest of the month- anything at all, and she would openly answer it as honestly as possible.  However, I better be listening and paying attention, because she wants me to take a test on each of her answers at the end of the month. we&#8217;ll see if THAT actually happens. heh.  anyways, today she told me that every question i give her, i must respond to the same question on this blog. So, as much as i&#8217;m finding out about her, she gets to (and you!) know a little more about myself!</p>
<p>Todays question was:</p>
<p>What is the ONE fetish you have that really turns you on. What is the one thing that really gets you HAWT!</p>
<p>MY ANSWER: We often associate dominant women with whips, chains and a pitiful man groveling at their feet while <img class="alignright size-full wp-image-123" title="Heels" src="http://mybitch4u.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/heels.jpg" alt="Heels" width="253" height="181" />licking a pair of vinyl boots. This certainly occurs with some regularity, but I wasn&#8217;t the first to realize dominance doesn’t always translate into sadism. And sadism, for me, does not necessarily make me horny, yet I&#8217;ll admit, i do get shivers at the idea of 5 inch heels being pressed against my chest. Nonetheless, I&#8217;m hot for a girl who is dominant but not controlling- and tis&#8217; a very fine line! I appreciate a girl who steps outside of boundries&#8230;when i can give her the authority to take control and something happens, triggering thoughts and ideas she wouldn&#8217;t dare during &#8220;normal&#8221; lovemaking. That turns my crank!</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><strong>Compliment:</strong></span></p>
<p>Are you an interior decorator? Why? Whenever you go on cam for me the room- my room- becomes SO much more beautiful. heh. Balence is key&#8230;and when you look at me with confusion in your eyes, and shake your head in disbelief from the things i say and do, I still appreciate your kindess, your compassion, your radience and smile! you&#8217;re still here and I love it! Love you. like you. like you a lot! heh.</p>
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<title><![CDATA[The Hand of the Master  by  Madeleine Oh]]></title>
<link>http://passionatereviews.wordpress.com/2009/11/10/the-hand-of-the-master-by-madeleine-oh/</link>
<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 2009 05:59:10 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>orelukjp0</dc:creator>
<guid>http://passionatereviews.wordpress.com/2009/11/10/the-hand-of-the-master-by-madeleine-oh/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[The Hand of the Master  by  Madeleine Oh Changeling Press Recently widowed, Helen Crewe needs a fres]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-754" title="The Hand of The Master" src="http://passionatereviews.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/the-hand-of-the-master.png" alt="The Hand of The Master" width="185" height="247" />The Hand of the Master  by  Madeleine Oh</p>
<p>Changeling Press</p>
<p>Recently widowed, Helen Crewe needs a fresh start. A job in the south of France cataloging a private library seems like the perfect change of venue. Once she settles into the luxurious living quarters at Les Santons, she&#8217;s sure she&#8217;ll be able to leave the past behind her. Until she awakens in the night to familiar sounds&#8211;a bondage scene being played out in the garden beneath her window between Luc de Prioux and his personal secretary, Branko. In the dark, memories come flooding back. The library Luc inherited with his grandfather&#8217;s estate contains dozens of priceless treasures&#8211;rare volumes of beautiful engraved erotica. But none are more priceless than Helen herself. Luc knows what he wants, and he&#8217;s just the dominant Helen needs in her life. As long as she&#8217;s willing to share&#8230; Helen&#8217;s stay at Les Santons promises to be everything she needs. Until a break-in at the estate makes her wonder what she&#8217;s gotten into&#8230;</p>
<p>Ms. Oh has outdone herself once more with a fantastic tale set in France. The story revolves around three central characters of diverse backgrounds and a unique blend of Doms and submissives that change at times.</p>
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<p>Helen Madison Crewe is a recently widowed submissive who is also a librarian. Helen, who lived in Ohio, was looking for a change after her 12 year marriage to dear Edwin and took a position in France. Little does she know that this could be the change of a lifetime. Helen accepts a card from the twenty-something year old rental car agent, Pierre Pommier when he tried to pick her up and does look him up later in the book with very surprising results. I have to point out that Helen could be considered a Cougar.</p>
<p>Luc de Prioux has dark blue eyes and dark curls. He could be any women’s fantasy and when Helen gazed at him, he just screamed out Dominant in her mind. I loved how Helen described how she had to resist the urge to kneel at Luc’s feet and call him Sir. The other major player is Luc’s secretary, Branko Odic. Branko is also a Dominant who is a fantastic contrasting character to Luc’s more refined character.</p>
<p>I loved how they keep dropping little innuendos about their intentions to Helen without her really realizing what was going on. Especially when right from the start, the books she was to catalogue with Posslieu engravings was about whipping and flogging and the book just happened to coincide with the flogging Helen viewed from her window the evening before. I also loved how Branko and Luc discuss everything Helen does to herself and how they lay their plans for her seduction out step by step in the story.</p>
<p>There are several minor characters that pop in and out and add to the main storyline of a robbery within the chateau. I learned of a few secrets that our main characters had hidden and was hoping that the crime would be solved without trouble coming down on their heads.</p>
<p>As I have previously stated, Ms. Oh is a true genius when it comes to this subject matter. I am able to envision everything that occurs in her scenes in minute detail due to her fantastic knowledge of BDSM and ménage. I loved The Hand of the Master and hope you do too.</p>
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<link>http://hotcuckruski.wordpress.com/2009/11/10/temporary-cuckold-tattoos/</link>
<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 20:32:42 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>hotcuck</dc:creator>
<guid>http://hotcuckruski.wordpress.com/2009/11/10/temporary-cuckold-tattoos/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve mentioned tattoos as a cuckolding factor and idea before here, just thought I would updat]]></description>
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<p><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-273" title="bar-code-tattoo-49" src="http://hotcuckruski.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/bar-code-tattoo-49.jpg" alt="bar-code-tattoo-49" width="180" height="141" /> Instead of &#8216;human&#8217;, you could have &#8220;cuckold&#8221; or some numbers like a regular barcode. Pleacement of these vary, I&#8217;ve seen them on the hip, lower back, wrist, palm, and buttocks(this would be more appropriate to those keeping their cucking secret. It also resonates as a very dominant mark on your cuck and makes him feel more owned/submissive):</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-274" title="tattoo_54" src="http://hotcuckruski.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/tattoo_54.jpg?w=300" alt="tattoo_54" width="209" height="125" /></p>
<p>This one&#8217;s from the lovely MistressTorna_Do, her cuck hubbys bum marked as her property:</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-291" title="phpThumb_generated_thumbnail" src="http://hotcuckruski.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/phpthumb_generated_thumbnail.png?w=300" alt="phpThumb_generated_thumbnail" width="300" height="213" />I like that he has a g-string tan, meaning he has had to wear one. Very nice idea! MistressTorna_Do is a gorgeous blonde cuckoldress babe in the Ukraine, you can contact her <a title="Contact MistressTorna_Do" href="http://www.cuckold-forum.net/uprofile.php?UID=123412" target="_blank">here</a>.</p>
<p>For those not into permanent tattoos try using henna, or the crystal temporary tattoos, or some jewellery mentioned in <a title="Temporary Cuckold Tattoos" href="http://hotcuckruski.wordpress.com/2009/11/02/hotwifeswingers-anklets/" target="_blank">this previous post</a>, see example below:</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-170" title="MFM-crystal-tattoos-bg" src="http://hotcuckruski.wordpress.com/files/2009/11/mfm-crystal-tattoos-bg.jpg?w=300" alt="MFM-crystal-tattoos-bg" width="191" height="170" /></p>
<p>Just a quick update. Today I&#8217;m picking up a dark hair weft. Tomorrow I&#8217;m picking a disc of sexy playboy style nudes I shot a few months ago! Exciting!</p>
<p><strong><em>MistressTorna_Do</em></strong> &#8211; Always nice to know the backstory of couples. I take it you prefer cucking to BDSM then? That&#8217;s great =) That wedding dress looks stunning, I&#8217;ll have a post soon on wedding dresses and my ideas about it. I intend to review each segment of the cucold affirmation and talk about my ideas for each part.</p>
<p>Please vote in my new poll in the sidebar. If you leave some more ideas for tatts, I&#8217;ll add them. Comments?</p>
<p>XOX</p>
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<link>http://siranneal.wordpress.com/2009/11/08/a-4-effort/</link>
<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 04:46:54 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>siranneal</dc:creator>
<guid>http://siranneal.wordpress.com/2009/11/08/a-4-effort/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[1)  tight &#8220;trainer&#8221; Ballgag in mouth 2)  kiss Me (His request) 3)  the effort very much ]]></description>
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<p>2)  kiss Me (His request)</p>
<p>3)  the effort very much      appreciated</p>
<p>(photo by Michiganropes&#8230;.deviant art site)  <a href="http://fav.me/d2b6rei">http://fav.me/d2b6rei</a></p>
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