Tags » Dysfunctional Family Abuse

Scapegoat abuse, is deeply damaging psychological abuse. My sisters continued it.

My sisters were trained by their abuser father and our abuser mother, to treat me as the scapegoat.

I was blamed for everything.

I was blamed at 12, for the sexual abuse by a paedophile friend of my step father, blamed for this paedophile abusing my sister. 190 more words

I know I have to stop writing on abusive people's Birthdays.

When it’s one of my sisters, or my mother’s Birthday, I blog about it. It’s one of their Birthdays today.

I can’t keep doing this to myself. 163 more words

"Stupid Girl" no more.

This song means a lot to me. Garbage, was my favourite music in my 20’s. This was what I believed about myself, after 2 decades of abuse. 133 more words

Less obvious abuse/neglect/parenting issues, is causing widespread mental health issues..

I am a survivor of severe abuse, prolonged, interpersonal, severely traumatic abuse – and I ‘know’ my issues, I know I have PTSD, I know why, I have deep insight and I have educated myself and through counselling into trauma and it’s consequences. 463 more words

Realised why I still care about my sisters, even though they hate me.

When I was a child and a teenager, my mother was very neglectful, particularly emotionally.

I was made my sisters mother, I cared for them, loved them, they came to me when upset, I took the blame for things they did and they know that. 621 more words