Going back to my question about how to formulate some sweet submissive overtures and not risk feeling rejected in a horrible harmful very sad way: I’ve been exploring my boundaries around servic… more →
violetwhitewrote 2 weeks ago: Secretary of State Hillary Clinton says U.S. envoy Stephen Bosworth’s mission to North Korea t … more →
wrote 3 weeks ago: A.J. Jacobs spent an entire year reading the Encyclopedia Brittanica; he spent another on his own qu … more →
wrote 1 month ago: Going back to my question about how to formulate some sweet submissive overtures and not risk feelin … more →
wrote 2 months ago: Dev says she doesn’t know how we do it. Honestly I don’t know how we do it either. But I … more →
wrote 2 months ago: Software Testing is an empirical process. Empirical approach as an opposite to theoretical requires … more →
wrote 3 months ago: Just east of the meadows, lakes, ponds, baseball fields and running paths of Central Park, ladies lu … more →
wrote 3 months ago: Tops usually tend to initiate negotiations, but I will take this on myself if I find my potential pa … more →
wrote 3 months ago: The trust placed in my current D/s relationship has grown to the degree that we now devise and ackno … more →
wrote 3 months ago: Acute Angling’s Amazon Fishing Season is Underway for 2009 /2010 Every March, when the peacock bass … more →
wrote 3 months ago: I am getting better at figuring out what I want, but it sure takes time. Partly it’s because I … more →
wrote 3 months ago: There’s a post over at Ranat’s called Altering that’s filled with fascinating comm … more →
wrote 3 months ago: The main reason why I prefer D/s-infused SM, and D/s in general, to more casual play is that I … more →
wrote 3 months ago: Silence is crucial to meaning-making, and people (and cultures) employ it in different ways. For me, … more →
wrote 4 months ago: It’s been an eventful past couple of weeks. Last weekend Amanda and I went to the Sunset Junct … more →
wrote 4 months ago: Though the French did not invent sex,as many Frenchman believe,some detailed R&D work was certai … more →
wrote 5 months ago: I like that people came here looking for “insults for submissives” and “precious t … more →
wrote 5 months ago: One of the pitfalls of being too stoic is that it reduces one’s ability to really submit to an … more →
wrote 5 months ago: Recently I had the pleasure of participating in a fishbowl conversation between a group of people wh … more →
wrote 5 months ago: Like Joscelin, I have that fear of reprisal thing too. Part of it is conditioned; partly the forces … more →