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Clinton Calls 'Exploratory' Meeting with North Korea 'Quite Positive'

w7075news wrote 2 weeks ago: Secretary of State Hillary Clinton says U.S. envoy Stephen Bosworth’s mission to North Korea t … more →

Tags: with, Korea, north, Meeting, Calls, Clinton, Quite, Positive

A.J. Jacobs is just your average guy

brandonfeldman wrote 3 weeks ago: A.J. Jacobs spent an entire year reading the Encyclopedia Brittanica; he spent another on his own qu … more →

attitude, latitude and attribution

violacious wrote 1 month ago: Going back to my question about how to formulate some sweet submissive overtures and not risk feelin … more →

Tags: Communication, DS, Protocol, Submission, Trust

the disadvantage2 comments

violacious wrote 2 months ago: Dev says she doesn’t know how we do it. Honestly I don’t know how we do it either. But I … more →

Tags: DS, Submission, Speaking, Trust, Silence, Communication

Heuristics exposed2 comments

Albert Gareev wrote 2 months ago: Software Testing is an empirical process. Empirical approach as an opposite to theoretical requires … more →

Tags: 1. Software Quality Assurance / Testing, Methodology, Heuristics, test, Testing, functional, => heuristic, Method, Boundary

Luxurious Living1 comment

brandonfeldman wrote 3 months ago: Just east of the meadows, lakes, ponds, baseball fields and running paths of Central Park, ladies lu … more →

what tack to take2 comments

violacious wrote 3 months ago: Tops usually tend to initiate negotiations, but I will take this on myself if I find my potential pa … more →

Tags: bdsm, Listening, Topping, Bottoming, Communication, consent

ask questions later3 comments

violacious wrote 3 months ago: The trust placed in my current D/s relationship has grown to the degree that we now devise and ackno … more →

Tags: DS, Submission, Speaking, Trust, consent

The Amazon Fishing Season is Underway

peacockbass wrote 3 months ago: Acute Angling’s Amazon Fishing Season is Underway for 2009 /2010 Every March, when the peacock bass … more →

Tags: Amazon, Arapaima, Bass, Catfish, Cichla, Fishing, Flies, Fly, Fly Fishing

please first

violacious wrote 3 months ago: I am getting better at figuring out what I want, but it sure takes time. Partly it’s because I … more →

Tags: DS, femsub, Topping, Communication

more bottomly ends

violacious wrote 3 months ago: There’s a post over at Ranat’s called Altering that’s filled with fascinating comm … more →

Tags: bdsm, Submission, subspace, Bottoming

guessing and choosing

violacious wrote 3 months ago: The main reason why I prefer D/s-infused SM, and D/s in general, to more casual play is that I … more →

Tags: bdsm, DS, Submission, subspace, vanilla

the operative value of silence

violacious wrote 3 months ago: Silence is crucial to meaning-making, and people (and cultures) employ it in different ways. For me, … more →

Tags: Afterthoughts, subspace, Listening, Silence

Sunset adventure

frankshyong wrote 4 months ago: It’s been an eventful past couple of weeks. Last weekend Amanda and I went to the Sunset Junct … more →

Tags: Los Angeles

FrEnCh KiSs2 comments

weirdo wrote 4 months ago: Though the French did not invent sex,as many Frenchman believe,some detailed R&D work was certai … more →

Tags: Random, French, KISS, Technique, Erotic, tonsils

strange hits, I love them

violacious wrote 5 months ago: I like that people came here looking for “insults for submissives” and “precious t … more →

Tags: DS

plot lines2 comments

violacious wrote 5 months ago: One of the pitfalls of being too stoic is that it reduces one’s ability to really submit to an … more →

Tags: chivalry, DS, Submission

stoicism, orientation and entitlement3 comments

violacious wrote 5 months ago: Recently I had the pleasure of participating in a fishbowl conversation between a group of people wh … more →

Tags: bdsm, DS, subspace, Speaking, Trust

the terror2 comments

violacious wrote 5 months ago: Like Joscelin, I have that fear of reprisal thing too. Part of it is conditioned; partly the forces … more →

Tags: DS, Submission, Trust, gratitude


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