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"You should be ready..."

kaleidoscoperefractions wrote 2 days ago: 6//23/07 Sat 407 Shit. I hate this kind of irony. Being so tired these last few days, in bed late th … more →

Tags: Kid angst, guilt, Marriage, Passive Aggression, Children, School Vacations, Communication, Family of Origin, Alone time

More accusations

kaleidoscoperefractions wrote 2 months ago: 5/31/07 Thursday 1123 Still feeling kind of on the edge of being sick; like a cold or something. Aga … more →

Tags: Alone time, anxiety, Attraction, Children, Communication, Fantasy, In-Laws, Inner self, Insight

Complaining = Regression?

kaleidoscoperefractions wrote 2 months ago: 5/26/07 I didn’t meant to switch to this font, but I like it. I’m feeling closer to the self I’d bee … more →

Tags: Kid angst, guilt, Marriage, Passive Aggression, Insight, Children, In-Laws, Communication, sick children

Freedom vs Safety

kaleidoscoperefractions wrote 7 months ago: 4/4/07 Wed, 1054 Dream last night, Kathy and Tim were in it; and the setting was Blanca’s house, onl … more →

Tags: Marriage, Insight, School Vacations, Inner self, Communication, Alone time, things that are true, Dreams, Telling the Truth

Spring break 2007

kaleidoscoperefractions wrote 7 months ago: 03/24/07 0648 Saturday Dream last night: The sequence is a little hazy, but I’m driving the van, and … more →

Tags: Marriage, Children, School Vacations, Holidays, Communication, Family of Origin, Ambivalence, curtailed alone time, Dreams

Sinking in

kaleidoscoperefractions wrote 11 months ago: 12/12/06 Gary came home at lunch today. He’d said he was coming around 12:30, so I left the house ar … more →

Tags: Passive Aggression, Insight, In-Laws, Inner self, Communication, Alone time, curtailed alone time

Parenting is not a series of sprints

kaleidoscoperefractions wrote 11 months ago: 12/09/06 Gary got back from Asia today. He took Scott to bed with him, so I’m actually getting a few … more →

Tags: Kid angst, guilt, Marriage, Passive Aggression, Insight, Children, Communication, things that are true, curtailed alone time

Like a kaleidoscope

kaleidoscoperefractions wrote 1 year ago: 11/25/06 Saturday Gary took the boys up to the snow. I regret a little not going because it’s such a … more →

Tags: Kid angst, guilt, Marriage, Insight, Children, Inner self, Affairs, Communication, Current Events

Let's just cut to The Big Fight

kaleidoscoperefractions wrote 1 year ago: 10/27/06 I get confused using this ‘new’ Muscle. I find myself trying to suppress ‘negative thoughts … more →

Tags: Kid angst, guilt, Marriage, Passive Aggression, Insight, Inner self, Communication, Family of Origin, Current Events

More reflections on mother-in-law

kaleidoscoperefractions wrote 1 year ago: 7/04/06 Yesterday I didn’t get to writing in here at all. I did meet some goals I’d set for myself a … more →

Tags: Kid angst, guilt, Marriage, Passive Aggression, Insight, Children, School Vacations, In-Laws, Inner self

Bye bye, 5 days to myself, or what "normal" mother wants time away from kids?

kaleidoscoperefractions wrote 1 year ago: 07/01/06 Ok, we’re in July. A long way even from mid-point. Which is related to the conversation I h … more →

Tags: Kid angst, guilt, Marriage, Passive Aggression, Insight, Children, School Vacations, In-Laws, Communication

Rant

kaleidoscoperefractions wrote 1 year ago: 06/03/06 God, what a fucking fuck head. I’m going to rant, because I’m furious,. Shit head says he d … more →

Tags: Kid angst, Marriage, Passive Aggression, Insight, Children, Communication, things that are true, Medication, anger

"Basically, we're a failure as a couple..."

kaleidoscoperefractions wrote 1 year ago: 05/30/06 I just thought of it this way; that there is a way in a given moment where two people in a … more →

Tags: guilt, Marriage, Passive Aggression, Insight, School Vacations, Inner self, Communication, Alone time, things that are true

Reasoning vs associating

kaleidoscoperefractions wrote 1 year ago: 05/24/06 I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed by the amount of information I’m wanting to take in. I haven’ … more →

Tags: Kid angst, Marriage, Passive Aggression, Insight, Children, Inner self, happiness, Communication, Current Events

Grievances; what do we want?

kaleidoscoperefractions wrote 1 year ago: 2/27/06 I actually did feel better after looking over some of her old e-mails and seeing that her me … more →

Tags: Kid angst, guilt, Marriage, Passive Aggression, Insight, Children, In-Laws, Affairs, Communication

President's Day holiday

kaleidoscoperefractions wrote 1 year ago: 2/22/06 Survived the trip, can’t say well. Some bright spots in the midst of a lot of drudgery. Thin … more →

Tags: Kid angst, guilt, Marriage, Passive Aggression, Insight, Children, School Vacations, Inner self, Communication

Holding the keys

kaleidoscoperefractions wrote 1 year ago: 1/25/06 It’s my St. Louis friend Helena’s birthday today. This morning had an interesting incident w … more →

Tags: Marriage, Passive Aggression, Insight, Communication, dislike, Disrespect

Basketball

kaleidoscoperefractions wrote 1 year ago: 1/20/06 Awwwwww, Shiiiiiiit. Gary just mentioned in passing that he’s going to “call my mom” to “rem … more →

Tags: Marriage, Passive Aggression, Children, In-Laws, Communication

Good fights vs bad2 comments

kaleidoscoperefractions wrote 1 year ago: 11/20/05 Wow, this is really quite a beautiful house with the yellow light streaming in all the wind … more →

Tags: fight dynamics, Passive Aggression, imaginery conversations, thinking by association


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