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<title><![CDATA[French antique furniture styles guide pt 1]]></title>
<link>http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/2009/10/14/french-antique-furniture-styles-guide-pt-1/</link>
<pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2009 01:01:55 +0000</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Most of the French antique furniture Frenchfinds supplies are from the late 1800s or early 1900s.  A]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><p><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:x-small;"><span style="color:#000000;"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-306" style="border:0 none;margin:10px;" title="French Antique Rococo &#38; Henri II beds " src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/3526246891_5f85b85bac.jpg?w=225" alt="French Antique Rococo &#38; Henri II beds " width="225" height="300" /></span></span></p>
<p>Most of the French antique furniture <a href="http://www.frenchfinds.co.uk/">Frenchfinds</a> supplies are from the late 1800s  or early 1900s.  Almost all of these items are made in certain in style harking back to definitive earlier periods of French furniture design.</p>
<p>From the 1830s, starting with Gothic and Rococo revivals, it became more and more popular to reinvent these styles to fit the tastes of the day. As tastes blended and fashions became more mixed up, motifs from eras cross-fertilised the craftmanship changing furniture from true reproductions to interpretations to please clients of the time.</p>
<p>In order to help understand these categories we have put together a quick guide to the antique French furniture styles we sell. Below are the first 3 categories in the series &#8211; Rococo, Henri II and Louis XVI.</p>
<p>Provencal, Napolean III, Empire, Louis XV, Louis XIII, Breton and Louis Phillipe styles will be covered in forthcoming posts.</p>
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<h3>Rococo</h3>
<p>Rococo style furniture, is mimicking furniture of the time associated with the <a title="Régence" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/R%C3%A9gence">Régence</a> and the reign of Louis XV (1715 &#8211; 1774). It is recognisable by its almost Italian flamboyance, a signature roceille or Rococo shell crest, cabriolet legs that curvaciously kick out and spiral escargot (snail) feet. Wikipedia has a great overview of the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rocaille">Rococo period here</a>.</p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-261" title="French antique rococo style bed" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/rococobedfull.jpg?w=300" alt="French antique rococo style bed" width="228" height="227" /></p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-262" title="French antique Rococo style armoire rocaille" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/rococoarmoirerocaille.jpg?w=300" alt="French antique Rococo style armoire rocaille" width="300" height="229" /></p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-263" title="French antique rococo style double door armoire" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/rococoarmoire.jpg?w=182" alt="French antique rococo style double door armoire" width="182" height="300" /></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-264" title="Rococo mirror" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/rococomirror.jpg?w=191" alt="Rococo mirror" width="191" height="300" /></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-265" title="shabby chic rococo bedside table" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/rococo-bedside-table.jpg?w=209" alt="shabby chic rococo bedside table" width="209" height="300" /></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-266" title="rococo table shoulder" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/rococo-table-shoulder.jpg?w=229" alt="rococo table shoulder" width="229" height="300" /></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-267" title="rococo scroll feet" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/rococo-scroll-feet.jpg?w=225" alt="rococo scroll feet" width="225" height="300" /><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-268" title="French antique shabby chic Rococo armoire" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/shabby-chic-rococo-armoire.jpg?w=204" alt="French antique shabby chic Rococo armoire" width="204" height="300" /></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-270" title="French antique Rococo gilded mirror rocaille" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/rococo-gild-mirror.jpg?w=300" alt="French antique Rococo gilded mirror rocaille" width="300" height="207" /><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-271" title="French antique Rococo gild mirror " src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/rococo-gild-mirrorfull.jpg?w=195" alt="French antique Rococo gild mirror " width="133" height="205" /></span></p>
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<h3>Henri II</h3>
<p>Harking back to Henri II reign of 1519 &#8211; 1559, these revival pieces are an antithesis to the Rococo style. Usually, very straight, simple, block like with geometric patterns and often with some kind of column, the carving is heavy as is the type/colour of wood used. Some revival pieces combine more decorative carvings such as a simple crest with the masculine square shape of the French furniture, the torch and quiver is a familiar motif within this style.</p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-272" title="French antique Henri II armoire" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/henri-ii-armoire.jpg?w=160" alt="French antique Henri II armoire" width="160" height="300" /><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-273" title="French antique Henri II single door armoire shabby chic" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/henri-ii-single-door-armoire.jpg?w=159" alt="French antique Henri II single door armoire shabby chic" width="159" height="300" /></p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-274" title="Henri II torch and quiver" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/henri-ii-torch-and-quiver.jpg?w=300" alt="Henri II torch and quiver" width="300" height="225" /></p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-278" title="Henri II buffet shabby chic gallery" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/henri-ii-buffet-chic-gallery.jpg?w=171" alt="Henri II buffet shabby chic gallery" width="171" height="300" /></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-277" title="French antique Henri II buffet shabby chic" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/henri-ii-buffet-shabby-chic.jpg?w=188" alt="French antique Henri II buffet shabby chic" width="186" height="298" /></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-276" title="French antique Henri II bed walnut" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/henri-ii-bed-full.jpg?w=300" alt="French antique Henri II bed walnut" width="247" height="217" /></span></p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-275" title="Henri II crest" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/henri-ii-crest.jpg?w=300" alt="Henri II crest" width="247" height="185" /></span></p>
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<h3>Louis XVI</h3>
<p><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:small;"><span style="color:#000000;">Aping furniture from approx 1774-1792 the Louis XVI style is a balance between the square lines of Henri II, the decorative flurries of the Rococo style and sometimes the romanesque/greek like Empire styles. Swags, flowers, bows and delicate carvings are framed by strong symmetrical box frames, simple lines and repeating tessellated patterns. A variety of our beds come under the Louis XVI style banner and can vary from using cane and intricately molded plasterwork to upholstered to wooden beds. A central theme appears to be the use of a carved flower within a square usually on the join between the foot or head board and the side rails.</span></span></p>
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<p><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:x-small;"><span style="color:#000000;"><img title="louis XVI flower" src="../files/2009/10/louis-xvi-flower.jpg?w=300" alt="louis XVI flower" width="300" height="225" /></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:x-small;"><span style="color:#000000;"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-284" title="French antique louis XVI bed" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/louis-xv1th-bed-straight-view-1-11.jpg?w=250" alt="French antique louis XVI bed" width="250" height="300" /><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-285" title="French antique Louis XVI armoire swags" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/louis-xvi-armoire-swags.jpg?w=189" alt="French antique Louis XVI armoire swags" width="189" height="300" /><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-286" title="Louis XVI armoire swags tessalate" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/louis-xvi-armoire-swags-tessalate.jpg?w=300" alt="Louis XVI armoire swags tessalate" width="300" height="254" /><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-287" title="Louis XVI armoire swags bow" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/louis-xvi-armoire-swags-bow.jpg?w=300" alt="Louis XVI armoire swags bow" width="300" height="225" /><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-288" title="Louis XVI armoire swags2" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/louis-xvi-armoire-swags2.jpg?w=300" alt="Louis XVI armoire swags2" width="300" height="225" /><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-289" title="French antique Louis XVI bed wood" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/louis-xvi-bed-wood.jpg?w=300" alt="French antique Louis XVI bed wood" width="300" height="274" /><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-290" title="Louis XVI bed wood close" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/louis-xvi-bed-wood-close.jpg?w=300" alt="Louis XVI bed wood close" width="300" height="225" /></span></span><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:x-small;"><span style="color:#000000;"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-291" title="louis xvi distressed bed" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/louis-xvi-distressed-bed.jpg?w=297" alt="louis xvi distressed bed" width="297" height="300" /></span></span><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:x-small;"><span style="color:#000000;"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-292" title="louis xvi wood finial" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/louis-xvi-wood-finial.jpg?w=231" alt="louis xvi wood finial" width="231" height="300" /></span></span></p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-294" title="Louis XVI upholstered bed" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/louis-xvi-upholstered-bed.jpg?w=293" alt="Louis XVI upholstered bed" width="293" height="300" /></p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-295" title="Louis XVI upholstered bed finial" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/louis-xvi-upholstered-bed-finial.jpg?w=179" alt="Louis XVI upholstered bed finial" width="179" height="300" /><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-296" title="louis XVI chair" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/louis-xvi-chair.jpg?w=182" alt="louis XVI chair" width="182" height="300" /><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-297" title="louis XVI chairside" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/louis-xvi-chairside.jpg?w=179" alt="louis XVI chairside" width="179" height="300" /><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-298" title="Louis XVI shabby chic Paintedarmoire" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/louis-xvi-shabby-chic-paintedarmoire.jpg?w=200" alt="Louis XVI shabby chic Paintedarmoire" width="200" height="300" /><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-299" title="Louis XVI shabby chic armoire detail" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/louis-xvi-shabby-chic-armoire-detail.jpg?w=225" alt="Louis XVI shabby chic armoire detail" width="225" height="300" /><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-300" title="Louis XVI bedside table" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/louis-xvi-bedside-table.jpg?w=225" alt="Louis XVI bedside table" width="225" height="300" /><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-301" title="rococo bedside table flower" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/rococo-bedside-table-flower.jpg?w=230" alt="rococo bedside table flower" width="230" height="300" /></p>
<p><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:x-small;"><span style="color:#000000;"><img title="Louis XVI display patterb" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/louis-xvi-display-patterb.jpg?w=300" alt="Louis XVI display patterb" width="300" height="157" /></span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:x-small;"><span style="color:#000000;"><img title="Louis XVI display" src="http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/files/2009/10/louis-xvi-display.jpg?w=188" alt="Louis XVI display" width="188" height="300" /></span></span></p>
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<title><![CDATA[Happy April Fish Day! The French version of April Fools Day]]></title>
<link>http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/2009/04/01/happy-april-fish-day-the-french-version-of-april-fools-day/</link>
<pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2009 10:15:23 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>frenchfinds</dc:creator>
<guid>http://frenchfinds.wordpress.com/2009/04/01/happy-april-fish-day-the-french-version-of-april-fools-day/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[April Fool&#8217; as mad as a fish. &#8216;Le Poissons D&#8217;Avril&#8217; is France&#8217;s versio]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><div class="mceTemp">April Fool&#8217; as mad as a fish. &#8216;Le Poissons D&#8217;Avril&#8217; is France&#8217;s version of April&#8217;s Fools Day and lasts all day</div>
<p>Children tape paper fish to their friends&#8217; backs and when the young &#8220;fool&#8221; finds out, the person shouts &#8220;Poisson d&#8217;Avril!&#8221;</p>
<p>The Independent in an <a href="http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/this-britain/the-big-question-how-did-the-april-fools-day-tradition-begin-and-what-are-the-best-tricks-1658944.html">article today </a>indicates that the origins of April Fools could be linked back to the French change to the Gregorian calendar, &#8220;Still, whether it&#8217;s true or not, one popular tale dates the    tradition to 1564, when France formally changed its calendar to the modern    Gregorian version, and thereby moved the celebration of the New Year from    the last week of March to 1 January. In this version of events, those who    continued to celebrate the end of New Year&#8217;s Week on 1 April were derided as    fools – or, as they are known in France, poissons d&#8217;Avril.&#8221;</p>
<p>It is not known exactly why a fish is used but there are several possibilities:</p>
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<li>It is in the zodiac sign of Pisces, the fish</li>
<li>It is in the period of lent when traditionally it is not permitted to eat fish.</li>
<li>Confusing a simpleton by offering a fish at a time of year when fishing was in fact band</li>
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<p>Everything points the fact though that what ever traditions you take to across Britain, France, America or the rest of the world the whole place goes as mad as a fish!</p>
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<title><![CDATA[Bubbly for baby?]]></title>
<link>http://apassionforjaywalking.wordpress.com/2008/12/08/bubbly-for-baby/</link>
<pubDate>Mon, 08 Dec 2008 23:11:46 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>C</dc:creator>
<guid>http://apassionforjaywalking.wordpress.com/2008/12/08/bubbly-for-baby/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[Today I was listening to an interview on NPR&#8217;s &#8220;Fresh Air&#8221; with Wall Street Journa]]></description>
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<title><![CDATA[Lily of the valley for good luck]]></title>
<link>http://blogginginparis.wordpress.com/2008/05/04/lily-of-the-valley-for-good-luck/</link>
<pubDate>Sun, 04 May 2008 08:37:33 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Claude</dc:creator>
<guid>http://blogginginparis.wordpress.com/2008/05/04/lily-of-the-valley-for-good-luck/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[May 1st, &#8211; le 1er mai&#8211; , is a bank holiday in France &#8211;un jour férié&#8211;, and tr]]></description>
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<p>May 1st, <em>&#8211; le 1er mai&#8211; </em>, is a bank holiday in France &#8211;<em>un jour férié</em>&#8211;, and traditionally, people offer their family, friends or relatives a sprig of <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lily_of_the_valley">lily of the valley</a> for good luck.<br />
Although the weather was uncertain that day, I went for a walk and took a few photos.</p>
<p align="center"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bip/2462988291/" title="Traditional Lily of the valley"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2133/2462988291_bf5c592edb.jpg" alt="Traditional Lily of the valley" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
<p align="center"><strong>Lily of the valley &#8211; muguet</strong></p>
<p align="center"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bip/2463821586/" title="Closed on May 1st"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3235/2463821586_0101e43d8a.jpg" alt="Closed on May 1st" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
<p align="center"><strong>Shops are closed</strong></p>
<p>And on that day, anyone and everyone is allowed to sell lily of the valley on the street.</p>
<p align="center"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bip/2463823500/" title="selling lily of the valley"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2113/2463823500_0682d88dd1.jpg" alt="selling lily of the valley" width="500" height="432" /></a></p>
<p align="center"><strong>Selling lily of the valley</strong></p>
<p>Either she just got her sprig, or they are going to offer it to some friends or relatives.</p>
<p align="center"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bip/2462990269/" title="Just got her bouquet"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2188/2462990269_a42a7d810f.jpg" alt="Just got her bouquet" width="500" height="489" /></a></p>
<p align="center"><strong>Just got hers!</strong></p>
<p align="center"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/bip/2456759902/" title="Lily of the valley"><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2152/2456759902_2bd3318a43.jpg" alt="Lily of the valley" width="500" height="390" /></a></p>
<p align="center"><strong>And here&#8217;s some of mine</strong></p>
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<title><![CDATA[Common courtesies and dining tips while in France ]]></title>
<link>http://cyclingeurope.wordpress.com/2008/02/06/common-courtesies-and-dining-tips-while-in-france/</link>
<pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2008 02:58:51 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>Jennifer Sage</dc:creator>
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<description><![CDATA[After 19 years of cycling, traveling and  living in France, I know the French very well. I love Fren]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><p style="text-align:left;">After 19 years of cycling, traveling and  living in France, I know the French very well.  I love French people, I love their culture and history, I love their gastronomy and their ways of enjoying all the sensory aspects of life.  I love their <span style="font-style:italic;">savoir-faire</span>, their love of art, literature and culture, and their passion for the finer, simpler things in life. Their traditions, especially around eating and politeness, may seem odd or stodgy to some Americans, but when you learn the roots of many of them they make more sense.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Having spent many years leading luxury cycling tours in France, dining in some of the finest restaurants in the country, I can say that I&#8217;ve noticed that Americans can be, uh, rather crude at times.  In most cases it&#8217;s out of ignorance and not intentional, so I&#8217;d like to offer some suggestions for getting along swimmingly with the French on your next trip!</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">The French get a bad rap as being rude and unfriendly.  I can&#8217;t say I haven&#8217;t met those people in my travels, as I have.  But it&#8217;s almost always in a big city like Paris or a pretentious city like Nice where you will meet these stereotypes.  It&#8217;s much like you might encounter in New York City if a foreigner were to ask for directions from a Type-A born-and-bred New Yorker who doesn&#8217;t have time to help someone who barely speaks his/her language.  When you get into the <span style="font-style:italic;">provinces,</span> you&#8217;ll find the people to be very welcoming.  Some of the kindest, most caring people I&#8217;ve met have been from France.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">If you learn a few simple niceties outlined below, most of which are common courtesies that we seem to have lost in this country over the last century, you&#8217;ll be less likely to walk away with an experience of rude French people. Learn a few simple French words, practice them and use them frequently, and your next experience in France will absolutely blossom.  The bottom line is to be as polite as you possibly can, use the Golden Rule, and remember the lessons your grandmother taught you.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">1. <span style="font-weight:bold;"><span style="font-style:italic;">Always</span></span> <span style="font-weight:bold;">say </span><span style="font-style:italic;"><span style="font-weight:bold;">Bonjour</span></span><span style="font-weight:bold;"> and </span><span style="font-style:italic;"><span style="font-weight:bold;">Au Revoir</span></span><span style="font-weight:bold;"> </span>when you walk into any small store (as in a boulangerie,  clothing shop, <span style="font-style:italic;">salon de thé</span>, <span style="font-style:italic;">boucherie</span>, etc).  And not only should you say hello and goodbye, but you should acknowledge the gender of the person/people you are greeting.  For example &#8220;<span style="font-style:italic;">Bonjour Madam</span>e&#8221; or &#8220;<span style="font-style:italic;">Bonjour Monsie</span>ur&#8221;.  If there are both genders in the room, if you feel comfortable you can say the contracted, &#8220;Bonjour sieur-dame&#8221;, which covers both.  If you don&#8217;t feel comfortable (it does kinda make others think you know more about French than you might actually know), then say hello to both the women and the men.  (Don&#8217;t worry about plurals at this point)</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">If it&#8217;s a young woman behind the counter, you would say, &#8220;<span style="font-style:italic;">Bonjour Mademoisel</span><span style="font-style:italic;">le</span>&#8220;. You can err on the side of &#8216;young&#8217; if you&#8217;re not sure if she&#8217;s married.  She will rarely correct you!</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Start noticing how everywhere you go, in every shop or café, they all say hello and goodbye, even when they don&#8217;t know each other.  Sometimes they just address it to the room in general, especially if the room is filled with a number of people, other times they&#8217;ll look right at you as they come in the door.  If that is the case, and you&#8217;re already in the line at the boulangerie counter and have already said your bonjours to the counterfolk, look that sweet little old lady who just walked in the door in the eye and say, &#8220;<span style="font-style:italic;">Bonjour Madame</span>&#8221; right back to her!</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">When you leave the shop, after saying Merci (see #2), say &#8220;Au Revoir monsieur/madame.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">I love how the women tend to raise their voices an octave or two when saying <span style="font-style:italic;">Bonjour</span>. See if you can notice that on your next trip!</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">2. <span style="font-style:italic;"> </span><span style="font-weight:bold;"><span style="font-style:italic;">Say Please and Thank You, all the time, every time. </span> </span>Americans seem to freeze when it comes to saying <span style="font-style:italic;">S&#8217;il vous plait</span> and <span style="font-style:italic;">Merci</span>.  Maybe they say it at home, but I just don&#8217;t hear that many Americans saying these small words when in France.  I guarantee, practice this one, and it can win even the most grumpy waiter over to your side, it can open doors for you, and it will change their opinions of Americans.  And don&#8217;t just say &#8220;s&#8217;il vous plait&#8221;, say &#8220;<span style="font-style:italic;">s&#8217;il vous plait madame</span>&#8220;, or &#8220;<span style="font-style:italic;">merci monsieur</span>&#8220;.  Again, doing this will give you big brownie points (or rather, <span style="font-style:italic;">éclair au chocolat</span> points).</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">If you don&#8217;t know how to say the word for what it is you&#8217;re seeking, like milk, that&#8217;s ok.  Don&#8217;t just yell &#8220;milk&#8221; in a loud voice as you point to your coffee and wave to the waiter (I&#8217;ve seen this a million times). Instead, say &#8220;s&#8217;il vous plait, monsieur&#8230;&#8221; and then pantomime pouring milk into your coffee.  He&#8217;ll get the picture, and when he brings it, you might even say, &#8220;<span style="font-style:italic;">Merci <span style="text-decoration:underline;">beaucoup</span> monsieur</span>&#8220;!  I guarantee, he&#8217;ll smile knowingly and will be more likely to go out of his way for you. It&#8217;s ok to use sign language when you don&#8217;t know something, that&#8217;s one of the joys of traveling in my opinion.  Just say please first!</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">By the way, <span style="font-style:italic;">S&#8217;il vous plait</span> also means pardon me (see #3) and is what you use when offering your seat to an elderly person on a bus/train.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">3.  <span style="font-weight:bold;">Say &#8220;Pardon</span>&#8220;.  Often.  You can also use &#8220;Excusez-moi&#8221;, but pardon is used much more frequently.  It is used not just when you bump into someone or want to pass, but also use it when you need to get someone&#8217;s attention (<span style="font-style:italic;">s&#8217;il vous plai</span>t can also work in this situation).  Want your request to be more successful?   How about, &#8220;Pardon Monsieur&#8221;!  Oh, and try to say it with a French accent (see the pronunciation tips at the end of this post).</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">4.  <span style="font-weight:bold;">Never, ever call the waiter &#8220;<span style="font-style:italic;">Garçon</span>&#8220;!</span> I don&#8217;t know why they teach this in American French classes, but it&#8217;s just not used.   Garçon means &#8216;boy&#8217;.  They hate this.  If you want the waiter&#8217;s attention, wait until he&#8217;s near you, and then say without yelling, and with your index finger raised to eye level to get his attention (not above your head like you&#8217;re calling a taxi), say &#8220;<span style="font-style:italic;">S&#8217;il vous plait monsieur</span>&#8220;, or &#8220;<span style="font-style:italic;">Pardon madame</span>&#8221; (see #2).  If they hear &#8216;garçon&#8217;, they may stay away on purpose. They also might do this if you never say please or thank you, or if you yell (see #5).  They have been known to resort to revenge from time to time, as in ignoring you.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">5.  <span style="font-weight:bold;">Don&#8217;t yel</span><span style="font-weight:bold;">l</span>.   Especially in a restaurant or café.  (see #4)</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">If you&#8217;re speaking with someone (or are trying to), if they don&#8217;t speak English, saying it louder doesn&#8217;t help. I&#8217;ve never figured this one out about Americans!  I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ve experienced this on your last trip to France, hopefully not from your table, but the one next to you.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Also, if they do know a bit of English, <span style="text-decoration:underline;">slow way down</span> as you speak, and don&#8217;t use idiomatic expressions that don&#8217;t translate.  Try to use the most basic words, in the most basic verb tense, to get your point across.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">6.  <span style="font-weight:bold;">Smile.</span> This seems like common sense, but it&#8217;s still necessary to remind everyone. A smile can go miles!</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">7.  <span style="font-weight:bold;">Use your knife! </span> OK, now here&#8217;s a tradition that goes way back in French history. Have you ever watched a French person eat? They always have two hands on the table, with their fork in one hand and the knife in another. This is actually Europe-wide and not specific to the French. To them, if you can&#8217;t see your hands, then you are doing something with them that you shouldn&#8217;t be&#8230;like hiding a knife or a gun. To them, this is far ruder than putting your elbows or leaning on the table.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">At dinner at my French boyfriend&#8217;s mother&#8217;s house back in 1989, he would take my hand out of my lap and put it on the table until I finally learned it.  And he wasn&#8217;t the only one &#8211; I&#8217;ve been asked by countless French friends why Americans have this silly habit. It just doesn&#8217;t make sense to them, and goes so against their grain, their hundreds of years of tradition.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Emily Post and Miss Manners taught us Americans to cut our food with the knife in the right hand, then set the knife down, switch the fork to the right hand, then place the left hand in the lap. You don&#8217;t think almost everyone does this?  Watch carefully the next time you go out to eat.  In fact, many Americans don&#8217;t even bother with the knife, and cut with the side of their fork.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><span style="font-style:italic;">Big</span></span><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><span style="font-style:italic;"> faux pas</span></span><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><span style="font-style:italic;"> in France/Europe</span></span><span style="font-style:italic;">.</span> Watch them eat.  They hold their fork in their left hand and keep it there. Use the knife in the right hand and keep it there, and after cutting, use it to help push food onto the fork. Notice that they often don&#8217;t even turn the fork over, and push the food onto the back of the fork.  Before long, you&#8217;ll get so good at it, you won&#8217;t want to go back to that silly way!</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-weight:bold;">8.  A few other dining tips. </span></p>
<ul>
<li>croissants are only eaten at breakfast.  If you&#8217;re craving something in the afternoon, have a pastry at a <span style="font-style:italic;">salon de thé</span>.</li>
<li>it&#8217;s very American to order a &#8220;cappucino&#8221;.  What you want is a <span style="font-style:italic;">café au lait</span> (coffe with milk) or a <span style="font-style:italic;">café cr<span style="font-style:normal;"><span style="font-style:italic;">è</span><span style="font-style:italic;">me</span> (coffee with cream). </span></span></li>
<li>yes, they do always say <span style="font-style:italic;">Bon Appétit</span> before a meal.  Notice that others around you in a restaurant might say it to you as you&#8217;re about to eat.  You can do the same.  It&#8217;s a very polite thing to say.  In English, we don&#8217;t really say &#8220;good appetite&#8221; but it&#8217;s equivalent to &#8220;enjoy your meal&#8221;.</li>
<li>a &#8220;<span style="font-style:italic;">menu</span>&#8221; is a <span style="font-style:italic;">prix fixe</span> meal (fixed price), usually with 2-3 choices for each course.  The &#8216;menu&#8217; that you read, as we know it in the States, is <span style="font-style:italic;"><span style="font-style:normal;"><span style="font-style:italic;">l</span><span style="font-style:italic;">a carte</span>.  Therefore, something that is ordered directly from their printed &#8216;menus&#8217; is  <span style="font-style:italic;"><span style="font-style:normal;"><span style="font-style:italic;">à la carte<span style="font-style:normal;">.</span></span></span></span></span></span></li>
<li>there are usually 3 or more courses in a typical <span style="font-style:italic;">menu</span> for lunch/dinner.  The <span style="font-style:italic;">entrée</span> is the first course (what we call an appetizer.  <span style="font-style:italic;">Entrée</span> means &#8220;to enter&#8221;, so how did we mess that one up in the US?), the <span style="font-style:italic;">plat principal</span> is the main course, followed by either cheese or dessert (or both).  Finer restaurants will often have two main courses, a meat and a fish course.</li>
<li>cheese is always eaten <span style="font-weight:bold;">after the main course</span>, and never as an appetizer (though it might be in a salad, especially goat cheese).  Once on a bike tour, my group was hungry and impatient after being seated at a busy restaurant.  Without asking, they went and raided the cheese cart, thinking it was appetizers.  Needless to say, I got the look of death from the waiter!</li>
<li>coffee is not served with the dessert.  It&#8217;s considered rude to bring the coffee too early; it implies they want you to leave.  Finer restaurants will give you more sweets to eat with your coffee, after their copious dessert.  (Make sure to reserve the wheelbarrow to take you away after dinner).</li>
<li>the check is <span style="font-style:italic;">never</span> automatically just brought to your table.  This is considered very rude.  In a French restaurant (and in most of Europe), you can sit there as long as you want.  They are assuming you are going to have philosophical conversations for hours, so they would never imply that they wanted you to leave. This is ingrained in their culture and tradition.  Moral of the story: <span style="font-weight:bold;">if you want your check (</span><span style="font-style:italic;"><span style="font-weight:bold;">l&#8217;addition</span></span><span style="font-weight:bold;">), you have to ask for it! </span> (see #2).  &#8220;<span style="font-style:italic;">Pardon, monsieur, l&#8217;addition s&#8217;il vous plait!</span>&#8221;  And afterwards when you&#8217;re leaving, &#8220;Merci beaucoup monsieur, bon soir!&#8221;</li>
<li>tipping is usually included (up to 18%).  Look for &#8220;<span style="font-style:italic;">Service Compris</span>&#8221; at the bottom of the menu. <span style="font-style:italic;">Compris</span> means &#8220;included&#8221;. It&#8217;s nice to leave your spare change for a small meal, or 2-5% for great service. But being a waiter or waitress is a career in France, and they don&#8217;t live off their tips like in the US and are paid a salary.  They won&#8217;t say no to it, of course, but in general tipping too much is frowned upon.</li>
</ul>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-style:italic;"><span style="font-weight:bold;">Au Revoir and Bon Appetit! </span></span></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"> A few simple pronunciation tips:</p>
<ul>
<li><span style="font-style:italic;">Bonjour: bohn-zhur (the &#8216;n&#8217; is nasal, not pronounced)</span></li>
<li><span style="font-style:italic;">Monsueur</span>:  muh-syer</li>
<li><span style="font-style:italic;">Madam</span>e: mah &#8211; dahm</li>
<li><span style="font-style:italic;">Bonjour &#8217;sieur-dame</span>: bohn-zhur syer-dam</li>
<li><span style="font-style:italic;">Au Revoir</span>: ohr vwah</li>
<li><span style="font-style:italic;">s&#8217;il vous plait</span>: seel voo play</li>
<li><span style="font-style:italic;">merci</span>: mayr-see (kinda like you pronounce &#8216;mayor&#8217;, and not like the English &#8216;mercy&#8217;)</li>
<li><span style="font-style:italic;">Pardon:</span> par-dohn (the &#8216;n&#8217; is nasal, not pronounced)</li>
<li><span style="font-style:italic;">beaucoup:</span> boh &#8211; coo (that&#8217;s like the bow in &#8216;bow tie&#8217;.  It&#8217;s not boo-coo like Americans like to say &#8220;boo-coo bucks&#8221;)</li>
<li><span style="font-style:italic;">Bon appétit</span>: bohn app-ay-tee</li>
</ul>
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