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Is it just a phase?5 comments

Ms Vanilla Spanko wrote 5 months ago: The whole BDSM thing has been going swimmingly but there have been ups and downs, and some quite sig … more →

Tags: bdsm, Depression, Mood, Phase, Psychology, Relationships

Abstinence makes the heart grow fonder... of the things that matter2 comments

Ms Vanilla Spanko wrote 5 months ago: So its been quite some time since either of us have written a blog. Unfortunately, work commitments … more →

Tags: asbtinence, Love, Realationships, sex

Hit or Miss

Ms Vanilla Spanko wrote 11 months ago: Many apologies for the lack of posts recently. It sure has been the silly season and Mr Vanilla Span … more →

Cop that!

Ms Vanilla Spanko wrote 1 year ago: I knew he had a thing for domestic discipline and corporal punishment, so I decided to search for a … more →

Tags: bdsm, Boyfriend, COP, coproral, Crop, discpline, Girlfriend, hand, paddle

Being faithful, and being a switch

Ms Vanilla Spanko wrote 1 year ago: I’m madly in love with my boy and I have absolutely no desire to Domme anyone else. Fortunatel … more →

Tags: bdsm, Cheating, Dom, Domme, Faithful, monogomy, Playing, relationship, Session

I'll have topping with that...

Ms Vanilla Spanko wrote 1 year ago: Read an interesting blog post “Headology” by This Girl; about subbie space, which prompt … more →

Tags: bdsm, Bottom, Bottoming, DS, Dirty, Domme, relationship, sex, Sexual

Vanilla v's kink - the juggling act4 comments

Ms Vanilla Spanko wrote 1 year ago: So, exploring the psychological challenges I’ve faced on my journey of discovery of BDSM I thi … more →

Tags: bdsm, relationship, Psychological, vanilla, Relationships, Communication, fears, Thoughts

Breaking the fear barrier

Ms Vanilla Spanko wrote 1 year ago: Being a psychologist, it’s no surprise to know I’m a deeply caring sort of person who ha … more →

Tags: From His Perspective, punishment reprimand discipline domestic spanking fear

It's all in my head2 comments

Ms Vanilla Spanko wrote 1 year ago: I am keen to explore the emotional/relationship side of things in my blogs – so here goes … more →

Tags: head worry struggle psychology BDSM relationships relat, communication fears

The twelve - delivered!1 comment

Ms Vanilla Spanko wrote 1 year ago: The build up to the play session started when I smsed Him at work around 2pm. “your arse will … more →

Tags: paddle tawse cuffs cuffed wrist chain chains chained bd

In the beginning...3 comments

Ms Vanilla Spanko wrote 1 year ago: It all started a couple of years ago when I first met Him. He was cute, funny, witty, and so many ot … more →

Tags: bdsm, relationship, Domme, start, party, beginning, flogged, Dungeon

Workplace Shenanigans

Ms Vanilla Spanko wrote 1 year ago: Hi! Here’s my first blog entry. I’m “her”, otherwise known as Ms Vanialla Sp … more →

Tags: Spanking, Spanked, office, cane, Domme, Sub, caned, Subbie, boy


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