I have heard lately of several stories where people have been encouraged, by shadchanim (matchmakers) and rabbis, to flat out lie when they talk to a potential shidduch (date) or fill out a shidduch r… more →
In the Pinkhadassahsabo wrote 5 days ago: I have heard lately of several stories where people have been encouraged, by shadchanim (matchmakers … more →
hadassahsabo wrote 2 weeks ago: (This was submitted by a reader, was just edited a little) I went out with this “man” from a Jewish … more →
hadassahsabo wrote 1 month ago: I received an email from a friend / acquaintance who is in shidduchim. She is a Baalat Tshuva of s … more →
hadassahsabo wrote 1 month ago: I recently received this email: Dear Hadassah I really enjoy reading your Frumster posts but I was … more →
hadassahsabo wrote 1 month ago: The dating world in North American Orthodox Jewry is seemingly very small. With every shidduch (ma … more →
hadassahsabo wrote 2 months ago: This situation recently happened to a friend of mine and she wasn’t sure what to do. I thought I w … more →
hadassahsabo wrote 2 months ago: Not too long ago I received an email from a guy I had briefly communicated with on Frumster. He told … more →
hadassahsabo wrote 2 months ago: (I am reposting this due to popular demand – it was an issue back in the summer when I posted it, … more →
hadassahsabo wrote 2 months ago: While out at dinner the other night I watched a couple that was obviously on a date. You could f … more →
hadassahsabo wrote 2 months ago: A FaceBook Friend of mine, let’s call him Yitz, put this up as his status update. Would you dat … more →
hadassahsabo wrote 6 months ago: I started writing a look back at the year that was, but the first draft ended up being a play by pla … more →
hadassahsabo wrote 7 months ago: Way back in the mists of time, QoH was clicking through the Frumster profiles looking to find a King … more →
hadassahsabo wrote 7 months ago: So you finally found someone that you want to date, and shockingly he wants to date you too. Aweso … more →
hadassahsabo wrote 7 months ago: Attention single guys / girls! Get a blog and write on it. Write about your dating woes! You know wh … more →
hadassahsabo wrote 7 months ago: OK, we all know couples who met on Frumster, got married and live a very happy life together. If I r … more →
hadassahsabo wrote 8 months ago: Dear Sweet Naïve little boy, You and other little men who have barely grown a chest hair take grea … more →
hadassahsabo wrote 8 months ago: Dear Dude #1, Let me just tell you a little secret. If you want to date me, or even have a conve … more →
hadassahsabo wrote 8 months ago: I recently tweeted this statement and it brought me a flurry of tweetbacks and emails, and I have be … more →
hadassahsabo wrote 9 months ago: And these things have SO happened to me, and people that I know. Thanks to all my buddies who emai … more →