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The Real Abomination Surrounding Gay Marriage
I know the topic has been beaten to death, but still, when you haven’t got something, you just can’t seem to let it go! So, I was thinking, what’s the real bottom line on gay marriag… more →
Discovering Pride: Coming Out Midlife
The Real Abomination Surrounding Gay Marriage
Pat wrote 1 month ago: I know the topic has been beaten to death, but still, when you haven’t got something, you just … more →
A Dream That Could Be Real
Pat wrote 2 months ago: Last night I had a very vivid dream, or a nightmare, really. The kind of dream you wake up from and … more →
Telling Kids About A Gay Family Member
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Pat wrote 2 months ago: Telling kids that a family member is gay or lesbian does not have to be a traumatic event. In fact, … more →
Coming Out Midlife: Entering The Lesbian Community
Pat wrote 2 months ago: When I first came out I remember having a couple of pretty devastating experiences with lesbians ac … more →
The Partner Finally Reads My Blog
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Pat wrote 2 months ago: So my partner never read my blog. Apparently, she hears enough from me in real life and doesn’ … more →
12 Signs Your Lesbian Relationship Is Over
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Pat wrote 3 months ago: Are you in a lesbian relationship (or any relationship!) and wondering if it has run its course? How … more →
Build A Lesbian Social Network, Wherever You Live
Pat wrote 3 months ago: Are you a woman over 30 who is just now coming out as a lesbian? If you aren’t quite sure whe … more →
Lutherans Made The Right Choice
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Pat wrote 3 months ago: Hey, the vote is in. And the ELCA has decided gays are able to serve as clergy, even if they are sex … more →
Why Do Straight People Fear Gays?
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Pat wrote 3 months ago: Interesting question posed in my title. Why the hell do they fear us? Here are my theories: Religion … more →
Lesbian Empty-Nester
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Pat wrote 3 months ago: Yikes, my son is leaving for college AGAIN this Saturday (he’s a junior). I’m already fe … more →
Gay Lutheran Ordination
Pat wrote 3 months ago: So, this week the religion I was raised in, Lutheran, will decide if I, as an active lesbian, would … more →
Coming Out Means Putting YOU First
Pat wrote 3 months ago: When you get right down to it, what is coming out about? It’s about being who you are. It … more →
How It Felt To Come Out
Pat wrote 4 months ago: Can you imagine standing in the middle of Times Square and taking off your clothes? All of your clot … more →
Gay Bishops OK'd
Pat wrote 4 months ago: Good news for gays on the religious front! Two days ago the US Episcopal Church voted to allow more … more →
Gonna Shout That Gay Away
Pat wrote 5 months ago: OK, I’m sure you’ve heard about this video, but in case you haven’t seen it, you c … more →
Discovering Pride Made "The Best 100" List
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Pat wrote 5 months ago: I am always amazed at the diversity of people from around the world that read my blog. But I was rea … more →
Re-Post: Ex-Gay Marriage Video
Pat wrote 6 months ago: Ex-Gay Marriage Miracle Cure Here’s a great video examining one couple’s mixed orientati … more →
Gay? Don't Let Religion Make You Feel Bad About Yourself!
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Pat wrote 6 months ago: OK, it is time to write another post about religion and homosexuality. Specifically, religion that … more →
Is It Always Necessary To Come Out?
Pat wrote 6 months ago: I recently had someone ask if you could be happy and not come out. While my initial response to this … more →
