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The Change Is Now

As I look at my life, and what I really want out of it, I am not on the track that I want to be on. 371 more words


Defining Lifestyle

“Gay lifestyle”

That’s a hot-button topic in some circles. It was one of the first questions my wife asked me when I came out…”Do you want to live the gay lifestyle now?” I believe that the term would be offensive if it were not for the high degree of ignorance it reflects. 325 more words

Gay Lifestyle

Watch Your Back!!

I know I just posted yesterday, but I had to write about this.  I had the great idea to take ‘before’ shots of the great 90-days-til-Cancun (and whatever days til Pride and my birthday).   243 more words


Cleaning House, because Pants

Three months from today my ass is going to be on a plane heading to Cancun – and later that same ass will be on a beach.   314 more words


Wow, a much needed start and update!

Shit!  I created this site in JUNE and then dropped the ball until now?!?!  Yeah, THAT’S a great way to start off…

Anyway – I’m going to be 50 next year and want to get my act together so that of course I look like fucking Peter Pan by the summer.   204 more words


Gay Bullying in Thailand, my article in Element Magazine (Oct-Nov 2014)

Check out my article about gay bullying in Thailand, in the latest issue of Element Magazine. Download the magazine here.



Hello my fabulous divas. Today I will be writing about something personal that I myself and a lot of the LGBT community can relate too. I hope that todays blog, I will be able to give someone, anyone out there a sense of closure. 617 more words