If you are a lesbian that is married to a man, there may come a point in time when you start to have difficulty handling your situation. I came to that point after about 17 years of marriage. I held t… more →
Discovering Pride: Coming Out MidlifePat wrote 3 weeks ago: If you are a lesbian that is married to a man, there may come a point in time when you start to have … more →
Pat wrote 2 months ago: Last night I had a very vivid dream, or a nightmare, really. The kind of dream you wake up from and … more →
Pat wrote 2 months ago: When I first came out I remember having a couple of pretty devastating experiences with lesbians ac … more →
Pat wrote 3 months ago: Interesting question posed in my title. Why the hell do they fear us? Here are my theories: Religion … more →
Pat wrote 3 months ago: Yikes, my son is leaving for college AGAIN this Saturday (he’s a junior). I’m already fe … more →
Pat wrote 3 months ago: When you get right down to it, what is coming out about? It’s about being who you are. It … more →
Pat wrote 3 months ago: Can you imagine standing in the middle of Times Square and taking off your clothes? All of your clot … more →
Pat wrote 4 months ago: I frequently get letters from people who are unsure it they are gay or not. Usually, my answer is a … more →
Pat wrote 5 months ago: I am always amazed at the diversity of people from around the world that read my blog. But I was rea … more →
Pat wrote 6 months ago: Ex-Gay Marriage Miracle Cure Here’s a great video examining one couple’s mixed orientati … more →
Pat wrote 6 months ago: I recently had someone ask if you could be happy and not come out. While my initial response to this … more →
Pat wrote 7 months ago: For those of you who are in the closet, coming out seems like an avalanche will be triggered over yo … more →
Pat wrote 7 months ago: Wow, this was fun. I was interviewed by James Hipps of The Gay Agenda this past Wednesday, April 1, … more →
Pat wrote 8 months ago: For people that discover they are homosexual after marriage, one option to turn to is open marriage. … more →
Pat wrote 8 months ago: There is nothing more important in life than living each moment to the fullest. How many times have … more →
Pat wrote 9 months ago: I recently had a woman contact me wanting to know what kind of a lesbian she was. She was really obs … more →
Pat wrote 9 months ago: Lots of women who realize they are lesbian after the age of 30 or so have the same questions: What i … more →
Pat wrote 9 months ago: Last night my partner and I saw the play A Streetcar Named Desire. I had not seen a production since … more →
Pat wrote 9 months ago: Here’s a secret for getting things done: write your goal down, set a target date for completio … more →