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Hallmark Time, Awkward Time

I don’t do well with Hallmark holidays. To be honest, I just about hate them. That sounds silly and pretentious — “Get over yourself!” 795 more words

Human Relations

that post about harassment in the gaming industry...

For a long time i have tried to keep the gender discussion out of my blog, as this is a very sensitive subject, and people tend to be very strongly opinionated in either direction – so maybe to avoid some of the stuff that i’m mentioning here as well, and i didn’t want people to feel negatively about other stuff i’m writing here simply because they disagree with this subject. 915 more words


Would You?

A couple years ago, I read something either on a trans friend’s blog or on a message board. I don’t recall. But, for some reason the content of that post stuck with me. 1,030 more words

Gender Stuff

No, Do See Me Differently, Because That's Important

I’ve been getting a lot of really supportive comments on the gender stuff, which has been really helpful, so thank you everyone.

On that note, I want to make a post to clarify my feelings about a few of the comments I’ve gotten, because it’s hard to explain this concisely in the moment, but it’s an important distinction to explain. 439 more words


Which Came First?

“Which came first, the phoenix or the flame?”

“Hmm . . . What do you think, Harry?” said Luna, looking thoughtful.

“What? Isn’t there just a password?”

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Gender, Gender Identity, Pain, and Snakebites

There is a story that I tend to tell whenever I start talking to people about pain science. It is a real personal account from… 784 more words