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Cleaning Out Your Fridge (Advice for Survivors of Abuse)

“I thought I dealt with the abuse. I went 10, 20, 30 years without issue so why is it coming up now?” This is a common statement from survivors, especially those of us in the ‘older generations’ who were not as comfortable as the new generation in ‘therapy’ and blogging and posting our feelings and inner struggles for the world to empathize or judge. 1,029 more words


Thoughts from the week....

I witnessed an act of violence this week, It left me strangely numb- others said it broke their heart, I was not undone.

Violence is a way of life when you live in sin and strife, Things that upset others are only to you the basics in life. 318 more words

Child Abuse

Changing Society

This society needs to stop putting the shame and blame on the Victims !

Abusive ways have become so acceptable in society now that kids just don’t know what to do anymore . 234 more words

Healing From Abuse

Behind the Labels

Our society is so quick to label us now.

How many labels have you been given?

So many labels.

Labels weigh you down.

They give you such a negative view of yourself. 688 more words

Healing From Abuse

Why Narcissists must be so "Special"

Narcissists must always be considered “so special” for one simple reason- they really, really suck at being “normal”.

I realize our definitions of “normal” all vary. 228 more words


Layers Letting Go

When I pull back the layers to see what’s inside, It’s no wonder I want to run and hide

The pain that I felt, the hurt that I hid, the confusion and shame that haunted within… 433 more words

Sometimes What's Best Isn't Always Convenient

When you are trapped in abuse, there is never any such thing as an easy choice.

Do I tell someone he is verbally shredding me apart when we are alone, or do I make an excuse for that time you catch him bugging out on me in public?  1,890 more words

Domestic Violence