Dating is a wonderful romantic phenomenon which yields thrill and gigantic excitement. However, online dating is a different ball game than real life dating. Here you don’t meet or see this person but you first “know” him/her through any “dating site” or “friend finder type of mantra”. The great news is your end result after online dating may be living together happily; therefore, online dating is a serious interaction tool which needs to be dealt with proper attention and seriousness.

There are many do’s and don’ts which need to be checked before you fly in the sky on internet dating.

1. Make ensure that you are using an authentic dating site with favorable user reviews. Stay away from fraud sites.
2. Never give money leisurely and without any far sightedness. Always ask them before registration that when and how they will fulfill your requirements. For example, you spend 25 $ and get registered on a dating site who deals only in American daters and you belong to Europe, then, it’s simply a bad deal.
3. Never give out your credit card or any other financial secret on online dating to any one, even not to the person who you are dating with.
4. It is a cyber world of love, be aware and be careful and be cautious until you transform the cyber world in to real world. Many cases have been reported where online daters had to bear serious consequences because they thought they can get along with people as in real world.
5. Be very truthful about your profile as it maximizes your chance to make people attracted or curious about you while searching online. Always paste your picture the one which is most good looking and not the one which is the recent one and ugly.

Some special tips on online dating:

When dating with a woman:

• Do not ask about her weight and do not use words like “fat” “pig” etc.
• Do not persuade her like police does to thieves. Give her liberty and space to live. Frequent e-mails may end this soon.
• Never ask her about previous/other/available dates. It is a sin in online dating.
• Save your crude and obnoxious humor for your “to be wife” and never send your date nasty or naughty e-mails.
• Asking her about sex and demanding her phone number again and again is foolish and dumb. Be indifferent about sex and very careless about phone number. Sooner or later you will get both, just be patient.
• Do not stalk her. Do not talk to her when she says” buzz off”. And stop sending her forwards/cut-and-paste emails

All my Painful Sweetness posts have a month in between them. That means I remember him once a month. Or at least I have remembered him once a month until July this year. LOL

That ain’t true and I know it. I can’t say there’s no day I don’t remember him, but there’s surely no month I don’t remember him. My special real deal… And I’ve apparently stopped in July… But it seems so only because I haven’t written of it since, not because I haven’t been thinking of it at least once a month. And it’s been a year and three months since we parted.

Funny…

You kiss me and you think the harmony it brings me is enough. But what about the aftermath of the kiss? What about the mass of feelings I get when I go back and remember that I’m not really yours. That it is just for a moment when you come unannounced. That you’re only a ghost that will leave and go back. To wherever you came from. And that place isn’t with me.

I know now it is too late. Even if my desire to ask you to come to your senses and pick me back up was greater than it is, I can’t tell you anymore. Because you have been out of my life and I don’t know how to squeeze myself back in. Why did I let this much time go by? I thought it was right. And now it’s too late, both ways. Too hard to go back, too painful to move forward. So what do you expect me to find in my future? I’m full of questions. Are you? It’s a stabbing pain when I think at night of how you are everything good without me. And that you’ll be okay. I pray for your happiness but still ask whoever is up there in the sky, why can’t that happiness be with me?

Look at the things you make me write. Look at the way you make me cry. Do you think I want to feel unhappy? No. Not one inch of me wants to cry every night and miss your presence, your advice, and your talking. Not one tiny little part of me wants to wonder what you’re doing, with who, and how. And not one last minute wants to be spent alone. And I want things to look up. I want school to be done with so I can go on to do what I realized I want to do with the rest of my life. I want my family to be happy and healthy. I want to have the friends I’m building up to have. I want all that. But I’m not having it because the fact that I’m still mourning over you has every wilting effect on me it can possibly have. I don’t energy, motivation, or desire to do any of those things. The progress is what I’m dreaming of, but I’m not getting any of it.

Come by sometime soon. Remember that I still exist. Make a little room in your life. I was that girl you kissed.

Melodie cu dedicatie:))…pentru iubitorii rockului si in special pentru El ;x ;;).

[Se recomanda ascultarea acestei melodii in timpul unei lupte "crancene" impotriva unui monstru virtual din jocul preferat:)).]

Hope you enjoy it ;;)!

I swear my ass is getting smaller and smaller the longer I sit here and move all these websites. But the fun part is rawkin’ out to songs and when stuff doesn’t work right i just start screaming lyrics. I am sure the neighbors are loving it.

Some of you might be wondering why I have a wordpress.com account also among all the other websites I have, run and own? For now I think wordpress.com is at least more stable then the shitty webhost I had before. JustHost.com *cough*Cheap bastids!*cough* Anyway I will get into that later. So tonight and the rest of the weekend I am going to try to move one website a day or so. *sighs* This is FUN! And my ass is shrinking….AHHHHH!

HEH! The song for tonight is…

I love this song. I’ll write more later I think. LOL

i can’t breathe. seriously.

i am sitting here smiling for no reason, listening to the songs i put in this “DON’T LOOK BACK” playlist, and writing things on my wall that i purposely left off…because i got what i’ve been waiting on all along. i am not going to elaborate right now, but i will soon enough. just know that the one thing i have been crying about this past month has finally arrived. the one thing i needed to tell me that it was okay to live my own life now. one thing i need to clear my name and to clear my head.

and he called today. and we talked today. and we fought today. and we talked again.

and he gave me C L O S U R E , and that’s more than just something to be thankful for.

Pe astăzi m-am hotărât, cam cu greu ce-i drept, să scriu un post despre o parte din cele mai ”delicioase” colaborări, din punctul meu de vedere, între diverse trupe şi diverşi artişti. Poate în viitorul apropiat voi mai face posturi de acest gen, în caz că prind bine.

Încep cu capitolul Apocalyptica. Cei care au ascultat vreodata Apocalyptica ştiu foarte bine că aceasta e o trupă total diferită de orice altceva aţi asculta. Diferenţa asta o face faptul că membrii trupei interpretează piese rock pe 4 respectiv 3 violoncele. Ei au început ca trupă de cover pentru Metallica, dovadă fiind şi sufixul numelui. În orice caz, după primul album (”Plays Metallica by Four Cellos”) care e constituit integral din cover-uri Metallica, băieţi au început încet încet să îşi facă propriile piese, dar totushi neîndepărtându-se total de la vechiile obiceiuri, ajungând să facă cover-uri pe Faith No More, Pantera, David Bowie, Rammstein etc.

Revenind la subiectul principal al articolului, de-a lungul celor 7 albume ale trupei, aceştia au făcut diverse colaborări care mai de care mai reuşite. Nu le voi lua în ordine cronologică pentru că nu le ştiu, şi pentru că sunt prea ardelean in momentele de faţa să caut pe net.

În schimb am să încep cu prima, şi anume ”Hope vol.2”. Încep cu această piesă deoarece de obicei când o ascult îmi dă o oarecare stare de euforie. O voce de care nu mulţi oameni ştiu, dar valorificată de Apocalyptica pe bună dreptate, Matthias Sayer, vocalistul trupei Farmer Boys, face din originala ”Hope” o piesă mult mai… interesantă.

A doua piesă, ”S.O.S.”, sau  ”Anything but Love”, colaborare extrem de reuşită a trupei cu Cristina Scabbia, solista trupei Lacuna Coil. Piesa e extrem de reuşită, mesajul e foarte clar trimis, intrumentalul de asemenea este extrem de bun, nu că am putea avea alte aşteptări din partea Apocalypticei.

A treia şi ultima piesă pe care o menţionez de la Apocalyptica în acest post, este binecunoscuta ”Bittersweet”. Posibil cea mai cunoscută colaborare a trupei cu alţi muzicieni, ”Bittersweet” combină cu un succes incontestabil vocea lui Ville Valo (HIM) cu vocea lui Lauri Ylonen (The Rasmus) cu instrumentalul tipic Apocalyptica. Nu sunt sigur că experienţa ”Bittersweet” poate fi descrisă la modul general, cred că diferă de la individ la individ, şi singurul mod să afli cum ţi se pare este să o ascultţi.

Pentru că nu vreau să mă axez în totalitate pe Apocalyptica în acest articol, las celelalte piese pentru nişte posturi viitoare.

O altă colaborare foarte reuşită, pe care eu personal am ascultat-o zile la rând cu mici pauze, este ”Broken”, colaborare între Seether şi Amy Lee. Original, piesa nu conţine vocea solistei de la Evanescence, dar ulterior Seether au făcut un cover pe propria piesă, featuring Amy Lee. Rezultatul a fost foarte reuşit, vocea artistei potrivindu-se aproape perfect cu vocea solistului de la Seether. Oricine a ascultat vreodata Evanescence, ştie foarte bine de capabilităţile vocale deosebite ale solistei. Păstrându-şi tenta Seether, piesa îşi schimbă sunetul datorită vocalistei şi, după părerea mea, mesajul este mult mai clar.

Ultima piesă pe care am s-o menţionez în acest articol este ”Lily was Here”, colaborare între Dave Stewart şi Candy Dulfer. Ştiu că nu sunteţi obişnuiţi cu astfel de exemple din partea mea, dar piesa era prea ”sexy” să nu o menţionez măcar. Ascultaţi cu încredere dar aveţi grijă că piesa provoacă diferite stări ”spirituale”. La ce să te aştepţi altcumva de la o combinaţie între chitară şi saxofon?

De-a lungul articolelor trecute, am mai enumerat diverse piese de genul, diverse ”featuringuri” cum ar fi ” I Don’t Care” (Apocalyptica & Adam Gontier) sau în special ”Lucky” (Jason Mraz & Colbie Caillat).

Acestea fiind spuse, vă las să ascultaţi în pace piesele precizate. Sper că v-am sporit curiozitatea cu acest articol, şi vă las cu mioriticul Numa’ Bine!

Bila kita mahukan sesuatu, pasti kita akan berusaha untuk mendapatkannya. Betul?

Usaha ada banyak jenis. Tidak kena pada tempat, pasti sudah tersungkur di tengah jalan. Saya juga begitu. Bibir saya hampir-hampir melakukan aksi cium dengan cik tanah gersang. Adeh! Nasib..~

Saya rasa saya dah cukup berusaha. Mungkin itu persepsi saya. Mungkin orang lain tak nampak atau hargai langsung apa yang saya tengah usahakan ini. Dan mungkin bila sampai suatu tahap di mana saya perlu angkat bendera putih, give up!

Bukan mudah bagi saya untuk mengangkat cik ego cute dan buat dia duduk diam-diam di sebelah saya. Saya sendiri pun tidak tahu hingga mana takat kesabaran cik ego cute di sebelah saya ini. Mungkin saya perlu beri lebih masa kepada pihak disebelah sana. Susah. Sangat susah untuk menyentuh sesuatu yang asalnya bukan milik saya. Saya pandang cik ego cute yang mula merengek-rengek di sebelah saya; ya, saya perlu pujuk cik ego cute dahulu.

Saya mengusap perlahan kepala cik ego cute. Harapnya dia mengerti kesulitan yang sedang saya alami sekarang. Saya pandang mata cik ego cute. Bebola  sebesar bola golf yang bersinar kehitaman itu memandang saya. Mungkin mengharap pengertian daripada saya. Ya, saya tahu. Cik ego cute juga mempunya takat kesabarannya sendiri. Tapi, untuk kali ini.. Sabarlah!

Langit malam hitam. Seronok dan leka betul saya tatap. Lupa sebentar masalah yang sarat melanda diri. Mengikut perkiraan saya yang bukan ahli kaji alam ini, bintang-bintang galak memenuhi dada sang langit. Indah. Seindah cuaca yang baru beberapa hari tidak merembeskan air ke bumi. Sambil itu saya berfikir sejenak. Saya tahu, sebahagian daripada kegagalan ini berpunca daripada saya. Sukar benar untuk saya menuturkan satu kata yang dinanti oleh pihak di sebelah sana. Sudah sifat saya begini. Suka menguji sesuatu sebelum memberi kata putus. Saya pentingkan kualiti, bukan kuantiti.

‘Biar lambat, asal selamat!!”, tak gitu?

Di penghujungnya, saya merana sendiri. Sifat saya yang lain, suka benar menaakul apa yang tak pasti. Itu memang masalah! Saya tahu. Tapi, saya tak dapat mengelak. Saya pandang cik ego cute lagi, saya dapat mengagak. Memang cik ego cute masih belum berikan kerjasama yang sepenuhnya. Dia masih lagi menanti hari ‘itu’ tiba.

Alahai, cik ego cute~ -_-”

p/s: ” kau bukan perempuan tipikal”, quote daripada Amir Afiz

p/s/s: ” you ni peliklah”, quote daripada Syed Hazman ( saya tahu, pelik yang dimaksudkan adalah unik! Perasannya..urgh~ )

p/s/s/: ” uena ni, drama queen btol lahhhh, dramatis sungguh!!”, quote daripada Sharifah Shahidah, Mas Fatiha, dan Norhayati

p/s/s/s: ” uena, kau gila..”, quote daripada Munir (*speechless* saya waras ,ok. cuma sedikit gila. Tak salah kan? )

p/s/s/s/s: Terima kasih kawan-kawan… hahahahah!!!~~~~ Saya tahu, anda sayangkan saya. kan? kan? kan?

-nuna-

Déjame despertar en tus brazos
Escucharte decir que no está bien
Déjame estar muerto y acabado
Tan lejos de la vida
Cierro mis ojos
Abrázame fuerte
Y entiérrame en la profundidad de tu corazón

Todo lo que siempre he querido eras tu, mi amor
Tu… todo lo que siempre he querido es a ti, mi amor
Tu eres todo lo que siempre he querido, solo tu

Déjame nunca ver el sol
Y nunca ver tu sonrisa
Vamos a estar tan muertos y acabados
Tan lejos de la vida
Sólo cierro mis ojos
Abrázame fuerte
Y entiérrame en la profundidad de tu corazón

Todo lo que siempre he querido eras tu, mi amor
Tu… todo lo que siempre he querido es a ti, mi amor
Tu eres todo lo que siempre he querido, tu, oh mi amor
Tu eres todo lo que siempre he querido, tu, mi amor

Así es como ha sido siempre
Mi corazón deja de latir solo por ti

Sólo por tu amor

Todo lo que siempre he querido eras tu, mi amor
Tu… todo lo que siempre he querido es a ti, mi amor
Tu eres todo lo que siempre he querido, tu, mi amor
Tu eres todo lo que siempre he querido, tu, mi amor

Long weekends long weekends
AND more zzl !!

STEAK darling cooked,
SUSHI and
SASHIMI
!!!!!!!!!!

For those doubts that swirl all around us,
For those lives that tear at the seams,
We know,
We’re not what we’ve seen.

- Marchin On, OneRepublic

We’re not what we’ve seen, we’re not who we were.

We’re a new creation in Him.

How easy it is to forget about things when you’re busy. I have forgotten about my writing, about my meetings. Can you believe that last night I didn’t even realize that it was Wednesday and the thought that the meeting would be that night didn’t even cross my mind? I felt guilty afterward, but I guess all I can do is try harder.

With school stuff taking over, I hardly write anymore. Right before I fall asleep I have words all over my head. And I recite phrases that are really unlike me to think or feel. It’s weird. It’s like when I’m about to go to sleep or when I’m in the shower, or cooking or doing random stuff, I have the most inspiration of all. Maybe not inspiration. Maybe it’s just talent. I’d like to think so.

Anyway, I plan on writing much more from now on. But sometimes my hand is afraid to touch a paper. I’m afraid of knowing my thoughts are sad again, that deep inside, I’m not ready to face what I am old enough to face now.

I was telling a friend the other night that I am afraid of how I’ll end up. That I might get a crappy career that I’m not happy with. That I’ll marry the first guy that comes along and treats me right – just to make my parents unworried about me, just to check another thing on the list of my senseless illusions. I don’t want to live my life on auto-pilot anymore, you know? I want to know what I’m loving and put all the passion I can into it. I want to do better and wish well for others. I think I’m not doing so bad in trying, but for some reason, I’m just not succeeding.

I want to move away, far away…I want to go to a place where I can be me all over again. But then I remember one of my favorite but most true lyrics…”every step that you take could be your biggest mistake; it could bend or it could break, but that’s the risk that you take”. All I wonder is, should I let that truth cripple me while I try to make decisions, or should it make me strong? I think it’s telling me to be strong. I think it’s saying that no matter what you do, it’s all hanging on a piece of thin wire, and your life could change for the worse or the better….so I might as well do what I want the most and see which way that takes me.

Ma cunosc. Stiu cat de complicata sunt incat uneori nici eu nu ma inteleg pe mine insumi. Poate o fi varsta de vina.

Sunt…schimbatoare. Mi se pune pata la fel de repede cum imi trece. Cand vreau ceva, fac pe dracu-n patru ca sa imi ating scopul, dar dupa aia, parca totul isi pierde farmecul. Suddenly, everything seems so boring.

And i dream, i dream so much that sometimes i forget about the reality i’m living in. Am atatea vise, cred in asa multe lucruri incat uneori ma fortez pe mine sa deformez realitatea incat sa para ceea ce vreau eu sa fie. Cred atat de mult in acea persoana care e menita pentru mine incat o caut in fiecare boyfriend. La toate relatiile m-am fortat sa cred ca el este, ca it’s meant to be, chiar daca la naiba, nu avea nici o treaba, vroiam sa cred in asta. Si imi punea atatea sperante incat uneori chiar reuseam sa ma mint singura. Nici macar nu ma gandeam la partile negative ale relatiei, erau inexistente pentru mine desi erau atat de evidente iar cele dragutse le maximizam pana le acoperea pe cele naspa. Si alungam fiecare moment de dubii, nu concepeam sa imi distrug singura visul. It’s meant to be, it’s meant to be, imi repetam in mii de randuri. Dar ma loveam prea des de intrebari gen CE DRACU CAUT CU EL? si a trebuit sa recunosc ca de fapt, nu e atat de predestinat.

Si fricaaaa. Ticalos. Sentiment care conduce asa bine incat sunt invidioasa. As vrea sa am puterea sa influentez asa bine. Se strecoara asa de bine, mi-e frica sa …de toate. Mi-e frica sa recunosc ca vad in el mai mult decat trebuie. Cause god damn it, it’s meant to be!

El o privea. Ea zambi.                                                                                                                                           El o privi. Ea zambea.

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Ecco a voi la copertina del prossimo album degli Him ovvero la monaca di Satana…ma porca miseria!!!

Ma porco zio..vi pare una copertina????Spero che la bruttezza sia proporzionale alla bellezza dell’album sennò siamo fottuti.Che cxxxo è???La monaca di satana?Il Ville si dev’essere fottuto il cervello già le ultime interviste davano questa impressione ma mi sembra che adesso abbiamo anche la certezza materiale visto stò schifo.Già la copertina dell’album precedente non era il top ma a me francamente non dispiaceva…ma questa??Poi secondo me è molto oscura..che sia la prosecuzione di venus doom???Mah…i dubbi permangono…fatemi sapere cosa ne pensate..

Inabot saken ang date kong phone yung motorala, tinanong ko andito pa ba yung mga messages ko? oo andun pa nga. Isa isa kong binasa yung mga sms. Nde ko alam kung matutuwa ako o maiiyak sa mga nabasa ko. Mahal na mahal mo ko, nde mo kaya kapag nawala ko sa tabe mo, akin ka lang at sayo lang ako. Mahal mo pa rin naman ako di ba pero bakit parang iba na? Bakit parang na miss ko ng todo yung dating ikaw?

Tinext kita kagabe paguwe, Muah! Iloveu… nbasa ko ulit ung mga txt m date hehe nksave pa dun sa motorola ko.. sumagot ka ehehehe.. sweet e noh, hahaha muah. iloveyou tabachoy. sumagot ulit ako Hehe kaya namiss ko yung dateng kaw eh! tumunog ulit yung cellphone ko ganun naman dn ako baby. ndadala lng ng work ko. nakakabuwang. sabe ko n lang, alam ko naman yun baby. nakkamiss lang!

Hay, sabagay totoo naman yung sinabe mo eh simula ng nagkawork ka nagbago ang lahat. stress ka masyado. Tawag ko ng sayo grumpy old ——– . Minsan naiisip ko ikaw ba talaga yung kasama ko date? Ibang iba ka na kase ngayun eh…d na kita maramdaman. Minsan pag naglalakad tayo lumalayo ako, bakit? kase iniisip ko hahanapin mo kaya ako pag nawala ko sa tabe mo? Sa ‘kin pa din ba umiikot ang mundo mo? alam ko hinde na marame ng nagbago.. sabe mo date hinding hinde ka magbabago para saten, sabagay imposible naman yun eh. Lahat ng tao pate ang sarili ko ay nagbabago. Nagbago na ba ako? oo naman sa tingin ko malake ang pinagbago simula ng naging tayo kase gusto ko mag workout yung kung anu man ang meron tayo ngayun…

May mga bagay na hinde ko pa kayang pag usapan alam mo yan dahil nagiging emotional ako. Ayaw mo ng nakikita kong umiiyak di ba, kaya wag na lang natin pag usapan.. in time pag handa na ko marinig ang mga ganung bagay.

Naiisip ko lang, babalik pa kaya yung dateng ikaw? o kelangan kong tanggapin na iba ka na tlaga…