The Impact of Words

When we receive words they trigger a spontaneous reaction that has emotional feelings shaped by our past and our degree of investment.  In a conscious or subconscious way we choose our participation with words.  We interpret, react, reflect, process, evaluate, judge, translate, and we make associations with words.

Messages go through us with a charge attached to them.  A negative charge ignites fear, anger, frustration, disappointment, and other feelings of discomfort.  A positive charge ignites excitement, desire, attachment, pleasure, and other positive emotions.  We can also be indifferent to words and exhibit disinterest or lack of involvement.  The more strongly positive or negative the emotional response the higher the charge attached to the words.

The stronger the emotional response the more intense the search for meaning in the message.

A Healthy Search for Meaning

How we process the words is how we find the meaning in the message.  When we can process in a way that creates positive associations, ideas, and reflections that ignite gratitude we set ourselves up to create a positive chain reaction.

Step 1:  Process (do not judge) your reaction to words.  This means to make the connections and associations that give insight into your reaction and response to the message.  What are the emotional responses being triggered by the words?  Explore the associations, ideas and reflections.  Be grateful for the insight and knowledge from this exploration.

Step 2:  Create depth and a greater intimacy with your ability to respond gratefully.  Go to your past, what memories are coming to the surface?  Come back to your present, what are the facts of the situation?  With gratitude create a positive future, with gratitude consider the insight you have gained, the ideas that have been inspired, and the action you will take.

Step 3:  Reflect on what you have processed to create a healthy relationship.  Pause to congratulate yourself for processing and not judging the words.  Have you ever been in that situation where you handled yourself unusually calm and collected?  This is the state you will find yourself in as you reflect on what you have processed.  You did not respond with a judgment that strains relationships and self-esteem, you processed the words, your reaction to them, and now can respond with a grateful new perspective.

Step 4:  Articulate your gratitude with accountability.  Now is the time for an outward response.  When we can communicate how we relate to a message with honest gratitude we build connection and intimacy with others and communicate even boundary setting messages that build relationships.

Give Yourself a Linguistic Makeover:

Words create a focus.  Ever notice what you focus on tends to happen?  Your brain is paying attention.  Use powerful words that keep you and your mind focused and engaged in increasing your gratitude.  Use these three steps to give yourself a linguistic makeover:

Step 1:  Create your own linguistic style of gratitude.  Identify the words and perspectives you use that counteract gratitude.  Do you use dismissive language (dumb luck, in the right spot at the right time) when something good happens to you?  Use the words of the grateful:  “gift”, “blessed”, “fortunate”, “abundance”, and “thank you”.

Step 2:  Ask yourself what your language is bringing into your life.  Are you attracting positives or negatives?  Are you inspiring others or turning others off?  The words you use will ignite positive actions from others or cause others to steer clear.  Give it a try; turn up the positivity in your language the next time you are at the grocery store or dining out and you will bring more smiles into your life.

Step 3:  Stop yourself when you find yourself dismissing a blessing.  Transform to kind words that ignite gratitude.  Do not judge the good deeds of others or dismiss the blessings that come into your life.  Graciously accept the good deed others have done on your behalf.  Transform your speech by using words like “thank” and “you” together and often.

The words we use transform the way we show up in the world and the way we interact with others.  Today’s Simple Smile Igniter is to consider your hidden power, your words.  Are you using your words to bring a greater sense of gratitude and happiness into your life or are your own words robbing you of your own joy?  What is one thing you can start doing that will bring more gratitude into your life simply through your words?

A lot of times we can forget who is control of this entire earth by being too caught up on earthly possessions.When you close your eyes for the last time what kind of car you drove, what kind of clothes you wore, and how much money you had wont matter. The thing that will matter is ,”Do you know Jesus?”                      

Jesus runs everything whether people want to admit it or not. Whomever he wants to win for this upcoming presidential election will win no matter what the government does. Jesus runs the seas, the oceans, the rivers, the economy, Jesus is a genius.

A lot of people think that man runs stuff but without Jesus man couldnt wake up in the morning and he would not be in his right mind.                                                                                                       

As soon as society admits all of this stuff the world will be a much better place!

Never forget that the Lord controls everything and Christians can talk to Jesus anytime through prayer. Christians don’t have to turn toward a specific corner or chant some odd prayer we can just bow our heads and Jesus will hear us everytime.

Why dont people pray , thats another article for another time! When you pray you are releasing supernatural power and demons cant interfer with prayer thats why Satan hates prayer!

Jesus is lord and he is my persoanl Lord and savior and I hope he is yours today.

Thank you for taking the time to read my article and I pray the Lord blesses you and your family tremendousluy. 

There is one thing about racism, its ignorance! Racism was handed down generation to generation by people we don’t even know.

God doesn’t approve of racism and anyone who tells you that he does is living in ignorance. All in the bible different ethnic groups lived upon each other so why is it so hard for people to live together in harmony nowadays?

Many people have lost their lives trying to get erase racism from society but according to the looks of it , it wasnt so successful

Racism is everywhere not just in the South(in America, the southern states). The thing about it is that it must end right now!

God created all races equally and he doesn’t tolerate racism at all! He punishes those who do it! What makes people think that their race is the race that is perfect? Ignorance

I live down south and since the Jim Crow Era was down here , I still see that some people don’t want to change their ways even in the year of 2012.

I am AfricanAmerican and I am glad that we have an African -American president but that doesn’t mean that I support him. I am a Republican, but I don’t have all Republican views.

If America would remove racism God would bless us and with his blessings we would rise so high that we couldn’t imagine!

Racism has been going on for centuries not just in the 1960s like th history books try to make it seem like. It is till going in a lot of parts of the world but most of it is sugar-coated.

I’m not just writing this for the heck of it but I’m writing to let us know that we need to remove the old racist mentality not just to get God’s blessings , so we can get along and act like we have some sense!

If you are a racist change your ways in the name of Jesus because that way of thinking is stinking. The crazy part of it is that all racist people are mixed with the race that they don’t care for due to all of the multicultural mixing that took place a long time ago and that takes place now.

The Bible is a weapon for Christians, when Satan(the devil) tries to lie to you, you can call out a bible verse and his lie will be defeated with the truth.

Satan tried to tempt Jesus to eat while he was fasting and the devil kept trying to tempt him to eat.

Matthew 4:10

Jesus said to him, “Away from me, Satan! For it is written: ‘Worship the Lord
your God, and serve him only.’”

Jesus who is God’s son knew that no one can get through the father but through me. (John 14:6)

You can’t tell Satan to flee without any biblical knowledge on why he should leave.When I think about it so many people have fallen into different types of temptation simply because they didn’t know how to tell Satan(the devil, the enemy) to flee.

The Devil’s mission is to mess your life up and he hate to see people accept Christ as their personal Lord and Savior. He is ruthless and he has assistants here on earth(people who worship him and act like him, and demons) .Believe it or not there are people on this earth that worships Satan. Some do it for the money and other do it because they think its cool.

Worshiping Satan wont get you anything and it’s not cool. Satan will try any and everything to keep you off track in life , he will try it through your friends, family etc. that’s why its good to pray !

The Bible tells you that demons do exist and they can be rebuked in the name of Jesus with strong faith. I’ve seen some commercials and television shows where people say that the priest they called couldn’t get the demon out the house.

There is no such thing as that happening unless it’s a hired priest, Satan has no power over God’s word, Satan flees when it comes to prayer, that’s why he hates it.

The Bible gives you tactics on how to protect yourself and your family from the Devil. Dont be frightened by Satan all of these new movies may make it seem like its impossible for demons and evil spirits to go away but when a man or woman of God comes some place to rebuke an unclean spirit (a demon) the demon will end up being defeated because God’s word is effective and it has been effective over 2000 years.

Mindless television shows like Family Guy may make it seem like the world would be better without Christianity but that is a big lie.

When you get a chance look a country that worships another god besides the true God and look at how that country is doing, that’s your proof.God is a good God and if you do your part God will bless you tremendously!

In the bible it was always a culture or group that worshipped idol gods and they would always end up getting defeated or their food supply would go away so they would die of starvation.

When you worship something you are giving it your trust over you life.

I don’t know about you but I worship a God who is everywhere at the same time, he heals the sick, he feeds the poor, he heals the emotionally sick, and a lot of more good things!

The god’s of Islam and Buddhism and other religions have never existed, in person they existed but even in human form they even didn’t have power. It hurts to see millions of people worldwide worshipping Allah .

Muhammad didn’t hear from an angel that was a demon! In the Old and New testament in The Bible when angels would visit people they would come with peace and love, the “angel” that came to Muhammad cam in a violent way.  So since people think that Muhammad heard from Gabriel they are in a demonic religion themselves and the scary part about it is that they don’t even know it.

But that’s where Christian come in at! Christians are supposed to evangelize and reach out not gossip in church on the front row. We are supposed to spread the word of God like there is no tommorow.If you have a friend who isn’t Christian introduce Jesus to the!

Never debate religion because in some cases people have become confused ! Debating and introducing Jesus are two different things.

Islam is spreading all over this world and Christianity is spreading as well, but Muslims don’t believe in abortion(some do) and a lot of Christians do believe in abortion so that’s where half of our future Christian population is going!

America is not a Christian nation like you think it is! A lot of parts of America need Jesus especially up North in the 13th colonies! We should be introducing Jesus to somebody everyday not just on Sundays, if you see someone is having a hard time give them a smile, you would be surprised at what that smile does!

When someone sneezes don’t just sit there like a plastic doll say God bless you an please never have a friend who you don’t even know is saved! If they say that they don’t believe in Jesus and that they never will pray that the spirit of God will come upon them .

I would like to close on the subject of Paganism . If you worship any spirits you are worshipping a demon and that’s something you do not want to go into. I have noticed that people want to believe that spirits are everywhere but they don’t want to believe that there is a God everywhere.

If you aren’t worshipping the God of Issac, Jacob, and Abraham you are worshipping something that is evil and you will not get anything good-by worshipping evil!

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]]> http://jeremyrmro.wordpress.com/2012/05/25/growth-stunters/ Fri, 25 May 2012 03:49:02 +0000 jeremyrmro http://jeremyrmro.wordpress.com/2012/05/25/growth-stunters/ The title “Growth Stunters”  is very explanatory. It simply means it is someone who can and will stop you from growing in life. I am not talking about growing physically I mean in success wise.

Growth Stunters are all over this world and it is our job to not make those growth stunters are aren’t in our life. Growth Stunters have one purpose and that purpose it to make sure you succeed as little as possible in life; that’s why it is so good to make sure you surround yourself around people who are uplifting you.

Surrounding yourself around people who don’t uplift you isn’t doing you a bit of good. Its like walking on a treadmill eating a pizza that’s loaded with grease.I’m not sure if your familiar with an old saying but it goes like this, ” You are the company you keep.”

That is so true as I mentioned a month ago in one of my articles, If you hang around friends who are doing something negative like : illegal drugs, premarital sex, talk/think negative, and talk about people pretty soon you’re going to find yourself doing the same thing.

You may already hang around some smokers or alcoholic and think that’s it’s not going to affect you but it will!

A lot of people especially boys like to hang around hard-core type of boys { hard-core means to act like a thug) and that does nothing but bring you down without you even realizing it.

If you have any growth stunters in your life , disassociate yourself from them . You may be lonely  for a while but its OK to be lonely .If you so happen to read this article and you are lonely ask God to bring friends in your life that will bring you up.

You may think that God wont bring new friends in your life but he will. So remember you cat be successful in all aspects of your life with “Growth Stutners” in your life.

If you don’t know Jesus , get to know him it is one of the best decisions you will ever make in your life. To get to know Jesus makes him your personal Lord and Savior {John 14:6, Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. }. When he says no one gets through the father he is basically saying you can’t enter the kingdom of heaven without knowing Jesus and by not accepting Jesus as your personal Lord and Savior you are going to be in eternal damnation.

Accepting Jesus is a great decision and with him you will no longer have to fight any battle alone in your life again.

You {the reader or listener) can accept Jesus Christ right now verbally by saying this :

I (your name) accept Jesus Christ as my personal Lord and savior, I know that he died for my sins and I love him with all of my heart. I know that his father , God, sent him to die for our sins so that we can have eternal life and I acknowledge that you are the only living God and that your son Jesus is my only personal Lord and Savior.

Amen

By saying that simple prayer you have just acknowledged that you accepted Jesus and that is the best decision you can ever make in your life.

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into your address bar and click enter and everything else is self-explanatory. Contact me if you have any questions.

The address:

http://peacewithgod.jesus.net/

]]> http://jeremyrmro.wordpress.com/2012/05/10/whose-report-are-your-reading/ Thu, 10 May 2012 19:08:33 +0000 jeremyrmro http://jeremyrmro.wordpress.com/2012/05/10/whose-report-are-your-reading/ People listen to people and sometimes that can be a good thing and sometimes it can be a bad thing. Some people listen to people are going to help them in life but some people listen to people who are going to do the opposite which is hold them back.

Everybody that talks isn’t speaking the truth . Some people start rumors and some people even talk about people. If you read nothing else in this article read this , ” No one can talk about anyone unless they are perfect( No one is perfect but God) .”

Some people are so bitter all they do is go around talking about people because they are bitter themselves. If someone talks about someone the first thing they think about doing is getting even with them but getting even isn’t the best choice to make all the time.

Some people hate themselves believe it or not and their goal is to go around and try to make people hate themselves. The only person that I am going to listen to is God anyone Else’s report is just a bunch of stupidity that I refuse to entertain.

Some people believe it or not are trying to impress people so to impress that person they change them self into someone else. I’m not speaking against changing because sometimes change is good but don’t change yourself in a situation to try to fit in.

If everyone felt great about themselves there would not be a need to go around talking about others that’s why I don’t get offended when someone tries to insult me because God is the only person I’m trying to impress , I don’t know about you!

So the next time someone comes up talking a whole bunch of mess press the IGNORE button which is simply not even paying that person attention.

Leisure (Photo credit: .niCky.)

BE ON THE LOOKOUT FOR MY ARTICLE NAMED “TIME” WHICH IS COMING SOON…. PLEASE LEAVE A COMMENT ON WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT THIS ARTICLE {DID YOU LIKE IT , WHAT WAYS CAN I IMPROVE ON MY ARTICLES.}

There are 60 minutes in 1 hour and 365 days in 1 year. Most people in the world know but some don’t.

How you spend that time is up to you but there is one wise thing you can do,SPEND IT WISELY.

Some people don’t know how to spend their time wisely, some never heard of the concept. When you spend your time wisely you will find that you will have more time to do other things in your leisure time.  Sure how you spend your time is your business but successful people SPEND THEIR TIME WISELY. So if you want to be successful in a lot of aspects in your life time is a huge part of one.

I’m going to do another article about time so I’m not really going to go in-depth with this one.

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Making bad decisions unfortunately is being praised in today’s society and unfortunately people are falling right in the trap. The next time its time to make a decision think about will it help you or hurt you. If it will hurt you don’t do it and if it will help you do it.Their are millions pf people on this earth who would love  make a decision over again. Another thing that can make your decisions bd are your priorities.

If your priorities are out-of-place you wont make a good (wise) decision. If you priorities are in order you will make a better decision. I hope that this post will help people from all backgrounds.

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If you surround yourself around people who only gossip and try to find something wrong in everybody else s life then you cant expect to be too successful. Some people are successful and still hang around a bunch of spoiled apples but its the inside that’s not successful and when your messed up inside ( your mind, thought process, etc.) you’re not successful.

If your friends are talking about everyone’s else life and their life isn’t to well put together then more than likely you need to change who you hang around.  Really this was supposed to be like 5 pages but I will talk more about this subject later on.

“If who you’re hanging around are not benefiting you , you need to find new people to hang around with.”

If you are a smoker and you hang around with people who don’t smoke it will be easier for you to stop smoking because you have people around you to help you stop smoking. On the other hand if you are not a smoker and you hang around a lot of smokers pretty soon you’re going to be a smoker. Someone might find what I just said a bit silly but technically and scientifically if you inhale smoke its like you’re smoking anyway so you might want to make some changes there!

So remember if you’re hanging around people who are doing negative things like (cheating on their spouse, shop lifting, cheating on tests and or quizzes, have premarital sex, destroy property, rob, etc. ) more than likely you’re going to find your self doing some of these activities or imagining yourself doing them and a thought is as powerful as lava so your thoughts are one of the many things you should keep clean.

Thanks for taking the time to read my postings, please share with others and enjoy!

]]> http://jeremyrmro.wordpress.com/2012/02/01/are-you-fullfiling-your-promises/ Wed, 01 Feb 2012 13:05:49 +0000 jeremyrmro http://jeremyrmro.wordpress.com/2012/02/01/are-you-fullfiling-your-promises/

http://www.youversion.com  because you can read the bible on it or you can download a bible applciation !

Be careful what you promise in prayer because God may take you up on it. Hannah so desperately wanted a child that she was willing to strike a bargain with God. God took her up on her promise, and to Hannah’s credit, she did her part, even though it was painful. Although we are not in a position to barter with God, he may still choose to answer a prayer that has an attached promise. When you pray, ask yourself: “Will I follow through on any promises I make to God if he grants my request?” It is dishonest and dangerous to ignore a promise, especially to God. God keeps his promises, and he expects you to keep yours.

Source: My Reading plan on youversion

Racism has been called the ” old ” way of thinking , but the question is {Is it really the “old” way of thinking?}.

Awareness of wrongdoing: an awareness of having done wrong or committed a crime, accompanied by feelings of shame and regret.

Two words stick out to me from that definition and those words are shame and regret.

No one should like in shame and regret. That is no way how to live. Sometimes thoughts can reoccur in our head and those thoughts will try to make us feel guilty and regretful.

Some people think that if they feel good about themselves their being stuck up!! That’s not true, we are supposed to have a high self esteem, great thoughts and not feel bad about ourselves.

Everybody makes mistakes but some can be prevented.

When thoughts reoccur in your head trying to bring you down realize that Satan trying to bring you down but Satan has NO POWER.

Every person on this green earth has power over their thoughts whether they want to believe it or nor. Some people just want to feel sorry or themselves and doing that won’t get you anywhere!

Satan wants us to sad and depressed, but YOU DON’T HAVE TO!

As soon as you realize that YOU HAVE THE POWER OVER YOUR THOUGHTS AND NO ONE ELSE DOES you will have victory every second, minute, hour, day, week, month, year, and for the rest of YOUR BLESSED LIFE.

You can make yourself happy by thinking and saying, “I am happy, blessed, loved, healthy and determined.”

Instead of thinking thoughts of sadness think thoughts of hope and prosperity!

NO ONE ELSE EVEN A PSYCHOLOGIST HAS THE POWER TO CONTROL YOUR THOUGHTS. Remember that.

If you have problems with having happy thoughts I highly recommend you order this book or check it out from your library

The name of it is: Battlefield of the Mind and it’s by Joyce Myer.

Buy it so you can have your own copy! You won’t regret it.

Here is the link:

http://www.joycemeyer.org/ProductDetail.aspx?id=005444

Just click on it and if that doesn’t work highlight it and paste it in your address bar and if that doesn’t work I’ll send you the link individually because I personally believe that when you order that book and read it , it will change your life forever FOR THE GOOD. If you know someone who is depressed, anxious, has a mental problem, or angry BUY THEM THIS BOOK.

Alot of times now days when we turn on the news everything we hear about is either about a killing or robbery, no matter where you live. Watching all he bad news makes your expression like the blue faces on the screen but you’ve got to realize that theirs so much good stuff happening in the world of course fox or CNN wouldn’t tell you that.

Don’t let the news make you think that everything in the world is going wrong , keep your head up. God is till in control whether people want to believe it or not.

Our world’s mindset is set on the bad side for some odd reason.

If you don’t believe that their is good news happening in the world go on the link that is provided and that will prove your theory false!

If for some odd reason the link doesn’t work , just click on the link below and if that doesn’t work copy and paste this into your address bar and press enter afterwards.

http://www.goodnewsnetwork.org/

Feeling sorry for yourself will do nothing but drag you down ; It wont make you any smarter or wiser I don’t care what anyone says. All you will do is make your self sadder and sadder .

Another reason people get depressed is looking back in the past.

Last time I checked things happen to everyone in their life but one thing you can change is being able to recover mentally or physically. I’m not saying forget about it but God will give you the comfort mentally and/or physically to say to yourself , “I know it happened but I’m not going to dwell on it.”

I don’t care if your parents called you everything in the world except the child of God YOU have the power to move on and too many people are dwelling in the past MOVE ON.

One final reason people get depressed is because they wished they had something. Dont ever wish for anything so bad that your mood changes . At the end materialistic things wont matter anyway so getting depressed that you can’t or couldn’t afford something is just plain silly.

Basically all of these things are part of the self pity family and they have so many family members it ridiculous. Stop feeling sorry for yourself  and stop dwelling on the past.

I’m not saying these are the only reasons people get depressed ,because people get depressed for all sort of reasons. But(I know you’re not supposed to begin a sentence with a preposition, sorry!)  you have the power not to dwell on things that make you upset , you can block those depressing thoughts out of your mind and fill the mind up with uplifting things.

Yes you do have the power to block thoughts because it is your mind and you have control over every inch of it!

]]> http://jeremyrmro.wordpress.com/2011/12/21/no-one-can-be-a-better-you/ Wed, 21 Dec 2011 19:57:49 +0000 jeremyrmro http://jeremyrmro.wordpress.com/2011/12/21/no-one-can-be-a-better-you/

So many people now days try to change themselves because they don’t like themselves. You should love yourself how you are and never change who you are to try to benefit someone else. Now days dark-skinned people try to be lighter, short people try to be taller, skinny people try to be bigger, and the list goes on and on.

If people would just realize that no one can be a better them depression would be a thing of the past. When you wish you were something or somebody else you start to feel negative about yourself and you should never feel negative about yourself.

Life is too beautiful to go around trying to change yourself and if you have a friend who doesn’t like you the way you are you need to find you a new friend and make that ” so-called ” friend a thing of the past!

Trying to be something else will fail in the long run because what you were born as you will always be under the make up, clothes, trends, etc.  Once you accept the fact that no once can be a better you, you will start to fill better inside and out. When you start to feel better your health even gets better.

Did you know that your thinking process can determine whether or not you will have a good day. If you think about bad stuff that happened in the past you will be angry all over; but if you have a flashback on something good or funny you will laugh and be happy all over. This has happened to everyone before, I’m positive.  

This brings me back to my other post I talked about moving on. When you have truly moved on those old things in the past wont bother you like they used to. This doesn’t mean that you have forgotten about them it means you have become a stronger person in Christ.If we would just stop thinking negative (this includes thinking about what people are saying about you) thoughts we would be happier for sure. 

Their are so many people out their that think that being happy a lot is a fantasy. It is not a fantasy its supposed to be everybody’s reality but the real question is will you let it be yours? As a matter of fact Pastor Joel Osteen, pastor at Lakewood Church in Houston Texas, just wrote a book about living happier 7 days a week so if you are having problems with living a happy life I advise you to buy this book.

The name of the book is Every Day A Friday and for more info just click on this line.

]]> http://jeremyrmro.wordpress.com/2011/12/07/moving-on/ Wed, 07 Dec 2011 20:17:53 +0000 jeremyrmro http://jeremyrmro.wordpress.com/2011/12/07/moving-on/ Alot of people in this earth go through stuff but what separates some people from the other is that some people simply move on. Moving on doesn’t mean that you are going to completely forget about the situation you went through but it means that you acknowledged that the situation has happened but you are going to move on and accomplish greater things in life. If no one in the world moved on their would be no world. Some of the most famous people in the world went through some of the most horrific things in their life but they knew that a future and that they would have to move on. Some people are still and at stuff that happened over 30 years ago and that is doing nothing but poising you in the inside. If you think that not getting over something makes you more powerful then you are wrong { I said that in another one of my articles on my blog}. You are doing nothing but wasting your precious time here in God’s green earth while the person or thing you’re mad at has moved on!

To summaraize my statement here is a verse from the best book in the world ( which is the bible).

Isaiah 43:18-19
“Forget the former things;
do not dwell on the past.