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1.What is a great way of kicking off a quick conversation with a girl in a public place?

2. What is a cool trick to turn a chat into a revealing bonding exercise?

3. How can you create almost instant rapport with a girl?

It’s all in this video.

Check it out! (wanted to get this out to you despite being tired from flying to Germany for some consulting work over the last two days…so don’t give me a hard time over how tired I look or because I ramble )

Please leave a comment! Thank you!

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Hey!!

PEOPLE ARE GETTING RESULTS ALREADY!

I got a couple of emails from people who have already started to have REAL results from what I have shared so far and they want to go
deeper and ask me if there is going to be some kind of program where they can learn Everything!
And I have basically flat out refused every one of them.

YES I may offer a programme…but honestly i haven’t decided yet!

So just to repeat that in case you missed it:

“THERE IS NOTHING TO BUY HERE”

If I am going to offer something then I need to be sure first I can invest the time needed and that I know the people I take on well enough to know that they are motivated to USE my information..

…well I say that but…in fact many of you have already done so so great work! If you haven’t yet : Get inspired…Check out the comments! It will help you to get started!

There were more questions coming up..around what boils down to:

“How do I carry on a conversation with a girl without freezing up?”

So here is the honest truth:
I could be giving you all kinds of useful ways to carry on a conversation that
would actually make women become very attracted to you…I could explain my favourite ways of teasing, or starting a conversation, or how to ask questions that create a deep connection very quickly, or ways of being playful and get her to laugh WITH you…and I will do…

But the honest truth is this:
If your mindset is wrong then all this stuff doesn’t help you!

And the wrong mindset is:

“I need to do clever things in order to make her find me interesting!”

Neediness is never attractive!

Ok. So first here is the NR1 rule to overcome neediness.

Stop trying to convince people that you are clever or normal.

(much neediness comes from these two things.. many people’s deepest fear is being laughed at or being thought of as stupid or weird-always been my biggest that’s for sure!)

There are of course loads of good reasons for this from an evolutionary psychology point of view..(not being kicked out of the tribe, survival blablabla).

Only thing is: Those things feel just as scary today as they did 5000 years ago (cause it’s kind of programmed still)..but these days it’s not quite life and death anymore.

So the quickest way to blow this fear’s prehistoric cover:

Do idiotic things in public. This will cure you of neediness. And that constant thinking about “What are they going to think?” (And it will prove to you that you can survive no matter what people think)

Right now…watch this video. You’ll love it by the way. It’s an example of someone taking this concept to THE EXTREME! Then read on below!

Ok. Don’t do what he did ok? You might get hurt!

But here is your challenge for the next three days. And this is safe.

DO THIS:

GO INTO ANY RESTAURANT OR SHOP AND GO UP TO THE COUNTER AND MAKE AN ABSURD REQUEST.

An ABSURD REQUEST would be going into a chinese restaurant and say to the person: “Hi…I’ll have a cheese burger with fries and a diet coke.”

Or going into a starbucks and ordering a “ham and pineapple pizza”.

Example:

You (in Starbucks) : Hey, I’ll have the deep pan ham and pineapple pizza please

Barista: Huh?

You (patiently) : I’d like the deep pan ham and pineapple pizza please

Barista (looking bemused): We don’t have pizza. This is a starbucks.

You (calmly): Oh. ok. Well.. Thanks for your help.

Be friendly…you can act a little confused. But stay serious and patient. If you stay friendly and calm noone is going to take exception to you!

Do this TODAY!

Do it and tell me how you feel after!

Seriously. I know it’s wacky. I wouldn’t tell you to do it unless I thought it is an amazing short cut for you to get free around girls.

Just do it!

Stephan

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On it I was sharing the Biggest mistakes us “shy guys” often make that stop us from getting confident around women! (and a weird but 100% Amazing method to get confident brushing your teeth!)

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but maybe you could do this for me…;-)

1. Test the information I am giving you. Put it all to use! Benefit from it!

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As far as interactions go, Juggler says something powerful in this regard. You’re the sun shining on all those around you. You’re warm, friendly and giving. People bask in your light. If they appreciate it, great, if not, great, there will be other people who will.

I think it’s always best to start with reality. So, above I discussed one technique of how to make powerful impressions. You yourself said it’s important to treat yourself kindly. I think that’s crucial. In fact I’d say that’s probably the most important thing of all, because once you treat yourself with kindness, you will pretty much automatically treat everybody else the same way. Kindness is very powerful.

But how to bring across your kindness in a specific interaction?

I’ll walk you through specific steps as to how to connect with women and people in general through specific skills as taught by Charismaarts:

First off, your VIBE — your PRESENCE

Think of what would make YOU comfortable. How would somebody have to behave around you to make you comfortable. Do that. Watch other people who are good at this. Learn by observation.

BODY LANGUAGE: Stand up straight, arms by your sides. It feels very vulnerable and uncomfortable at first but vulnerability is the point. If you’re standing there with arms crossed or all fidgety you’ll probably make her feel defensive and fidgety. If you’re vulnerable that shows strength. Only confident people allow themselves to be vulnerable. This may seem counter intuitive but go with me here.

EYE CONTACT: Look her in the eye when you say something to her. Don’t stare, but confidently look at her, especially when you’re listening.

SMILE: However, don’t be weird PERMA GRIN GUY. When you listen to her, stop smiling, just have a face of quiet expectancy, and look at her. When you speak be expressive and smile. The idea is to be dynamic.

Okay now as to SPECIFIC CONVERSATION SKILLS:

MAKE IT PERSONAL — – I Statements and YOU questions

What’s an I-Statement?

A major part of the Juggler method lies in making people comfortable enough to allow them to share their unique qualities. An instructor I know says: “Everybody’s interesting. It’s my business to bring that out in them”.

I’ll give you three specific ways on how do to that: I-Statements, OEQs and The Vacuum:

I-Statements: The idea here is that you share who you are and this will make people comfortable sharing who they are.

These statements are as SPECIFIC as possible and genuine. You talk in a relatable way about what you truly care about. Example: “I love skiing. I skied almost every day growing up. I love the feel of the wind in my face and the rush of the speed”. Here’s another one. “I enjoy walking in the surf. I like the feel of the cold water on my bare feet, the heat of the sun on my back and the salty air in my nose. It relaxes me.”

In both these statements she gets a feel for what kind of a person you are.

Next: OEQ (Open ended questions):

In order to find out about her you ask her OEQs. These questions are as GENERIC as possible: “How, what, why?”

Examples:
What do you like about basket ball?
How did that feel?
What’s Paris like?
Why?

If you share with her who you are through I-Statements and ask her Open Ended Questions chances are you’ll get to something that truly excites you and that you can SOI her on. So, there it is.

Oops, one last ingredient: The famous “Vacuum”.

After you ask a big question there may be a tendency on your part to fill in the empty space as she thinks about an answer. Don’t. Look at her with quiet expectancy. Look into her eyes to possibly build sexual energy. The vacuum is powerful. If she balks, just ask her a smaller question. i.e. “What do you think of traveling?” “Oh, I don’t know”. “Well, what was the last place you traveled to?” However, do not go on “questions trains”, meaning don’t keep asking questions. If you don’t get anything just answer your own question and either vacuum to see what she might want to say next or ask another OEQ.

I hope this helps.

One last thing to keep in mind: Have the conversation be about 50-50. You do 50 percent of the talking and so does she.

In that post I also addressed as to how to get out of the “Friend Zone” and make it sexual by SOI’ing a girl.

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While you search the internet for that special lady…the one of your dreams…your soul-mate…the other half of yourself, you can do a lot of things right.  Sadly, you can, also, do a lot of things wrong….things that will guarantee failure and a broken heart.   Out in the “real” world, being aggressive, demanding perfection and even little white lies are all ingredients for success.  However, those same qualities are killers when you are dating online and off line, too, for that matter. 

There is a big difference between being aggressive or confident and being too aggressive, over-confident, or just plain sleazy or slimy from a woman’s point of view. If you push too hard for a face-to-face, you will come across as too aggressive…maybe even, scary.  Try to remember that you are not trying to close a business deal and keep the relationship progressing at a slow but steady pace.  Patience is the key. 

Nobody is perfect.  We are all flawed in some way or another…and that includes you, as well.

 If you expect the woman to be absolutely perfect and demand that, you will always be disappointed.  Demanding perfectionism in your work is one thing.  Demanding perfectionism from a friend, co-worker or a lady you are interested in is not just fine.  It won’t happen.

 Expect flaws and just deal with them.  Decide the ones you can live with and those you can’t. 

Little white lies and false fronts won’t work.  Be honest from the beginning of a relationship.  Write your profile.  Make it interesting but don’t make false statements. 

The truth will come out eventually anyway.  If you say you are a lawyer who makes a million bucks a year and you are really an electrician that makes $75,000, you have set yourself up for failure. 

Remember…don’t be too aggressive, expect to ever find perfection or put on a false front. 

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Many of the same things work for online flirting that work for “brick and mortar” flirting and all relationships begin with successful flirting.  Flirting is an art that requires oozing confidence without being OTT.  If you go too far, she will label you “slimy” If you don’t go far enough, she will label you “wimpy”.  So how do you achieve that point half way between slimy and wimpy and do it online without using eye contact or body language?  All you have is a computer an internet connection and membership in an online dating site, right? 

1. Have fun!  Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining.  Make her eager to talk to you again.  Flirting is playful. 

2. Ooze confidence.  Successful flirts have a positive outlook on life.  You need to transmit the “feel good” factor.  An optimistic attitude attracts females like honey attracts flies. 

3. 3.  Compliment her…and do it often and sincerely.  Nothing opens doors like making her feel good about herself.  She will want to spend more time with you and if she pays you a compliment say “thank you”.  Do Not be self depreciating. 

4. Listen…listen….listen.  Pay attention to what she says and ask appropriate questions.  Get her to open up and talk about herself.  Make her feel like she is interesting and that you are interested in her.  Works wonders!

5. Don’t be rude.  Flirting does not include being sexually explicit nor taking offence if the lady isn’t responding to you. If she isn’t interested, take the hint and move on to the next prospect.  If you get a lot of rejections, you should probably consider a different approach. 

6. Send an email after you chat.  This ranks right up there with sending a thank you note for a gift and it is vital to successful flirting. 

Don’t try to go too fast.  Flirting is the first step to a successful relationship. 
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No matter what your age, height, weight or physical appearance, there are thousands of women out there eager to meet you and eager for your company…whether short-term or long-term relationships are what you want.  If you have found yourself suddenly “on-the-market” again after a relationship has dissolved or are just too busy with your work to spend a lot of time looking for a lady to keep you company, online dating can open the door to the dating scene for you. 

The good news is that all you need is a computer and an internet connection to get started.  The first thing to do is find an online dating site that fits your needs.  There are the large sites that offer many extras like live video chat and even match you up with ladies using your profiles and, also, a lot of sites that cater to special interests like religious preferences, outdoor enthusiasts, gays, etc. You need to choose one or two that will meet your needs.  I don’t recommend the free sites.  The paid sites have a money back guarantee if you aren’t satisfied and the investment is small.  A whole month costs less than one dinner and movie date. 

The next thing you need to do is write a killer, but honest, profile and upload a recent but flattering picture of yourself.   Now you are all set.  Start contacting ladies whose profiles sound interesting to you and answer any lady who contacts you…and do so promptly…not, however, on holidays or weekends.  You don’t want to appear that desperate.  Don’t give up after a month and think you will never find the right lady for you.  New people join online dating services daily and at least half of them are ladies many, of whom, will want to meet you. 

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Establishing Online Dating Relationships: Safety First

Online dating can be fun. But don’t neglect safety and common sense when you try to hook up with a mate. At minimum, take caution in the following areas.

Protect Your Computer

Take care of your equipment and systems before you head out into the Internet realm. You need to have a firewall and anti-virus protection for your email and for when you search websites and interact online. At the bare minimum, you may want these two solutions that are offered at no charge to home computer users (i.e. not for commercial use):

Free Firewall Download: ZoneAlarm www.zonelabs.com
Free Anti-Virus Download: AVG Anti-Virus www.grisoft.com

Protect Yourself

Take care of yourself, too, by choosing appropriate dating sites. Seek and choose a reputable online dating service.  How? Begin by asking around with friends, neighbors, co-workers and others you may know who have tried online dating, and see which places they recommend. In addition, search “online dating services” and keep a notebook of their URLs or website links, the fees, rules and regulations, complete contact information of each and any other useful information that spikes your interest. Then compare each place.  Try only those places where you feel safe. Avoid the others.

So take care. Arm your computer – and yourself- with the correct tools and knowledge! Be sure to try www.myspace.com and add me www.myspace.com/rickloveclub .

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Most people are usually nervous when it comes to their
first dates. This can make you look like someone who had
taken gallons of coffee before the date.
Long silence is always between your conversations with your
date, and you are hoping to come up with a few funny lines
that can crack the ice.

But sometimes, you’re too late because your date has
decided to spend her time with someone else.

Usually, first dates are spent in places where you can sit
and talk with your date in order to know each other better.

Some go to the movies, have some coffee at the local coffee
house, or dine in an expensive restaurant so as to impress
their dates.

Dates like these just need a little jump-start to be more
effective. Try adding some adventure or do a set of
enjoyable activities together in order to have fun with
your dates.

Some men take their dates to an adventurous place. They go
to a few local destinations or historical places within the
area. They go around these places whilst having so much to
see and many things to talk about. These are times when you
don’t need a funny line to break the silence.

In case of rain, you can’t go out and have a walk at the
local park or other outdoor spots conducive for talking and
knowing each other better.

On the brighter side of things, you can go indoors. Try
some shopping malls. There, you can find a wide variety of
places to have some coffee.

Drinking coffee doesn’t take four hours or so of sitting
and doing nothing since you can talk to your date and get
to know her better.

After some time, try inviting your date for a walk at the
mall. Go shop for small things with her such as clothes and
CDs.

Save some time to go bowling, play video games, or find a
bookstore to share your interests with her. The main idea
is to interact with your date in order to know her better.

This will surely provide you with a means to bolster your
chances of landing a date that can lead to love and romance
in the long run.

With this in mind, go and check out places near you for fun
activities you and your date will surely enjoy.

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Online Dating Tips for Men

So you’ve just joined an online dating community. Do not be
discouraged when your prospect dates have not yet responded
to your queries.
Women members of online dating portals receive an average
of fifty to 200 queries from other members of the opposite
sex. This means she’s just taking time going through all
the queries she had received. You need to be a bit more
patient.

Have a proactive approach when it comes to online dating.
Focusing on one woman would reduce your chances of landing
a response.

Try sending messages to different women in order to bolster
the probabilities of getting a good response.

Carefully choosing your would-be dates is a good thing to
do since this would help you land the dates who have the
same interests as yours. However, don’t be too selective.

You have to try creating a unique profile when sending
messages. Make it stand out because there will be a lot of
messages for one woman from other members of the online
dating community.

Starting out with an interesting username is favorable. In
addition, read through the profiles of your intended
partners in order to incorporate a few things they like on
your own profile, but keep in mind to include just the
things you are actually interested in.

By doing so, your prospective partners will read through
your profile after receiving a query from you and end up
remembering you because of the stuff that’s on your
profile.

She may even feel that you took the time to read through
her profile and subsequently establish a connection with
her.

Be truthful about the things you put on your profile. Lying
about stuff will just ruin your entire reputation in the
online dating community.

In addition, it will be harder to correct lies whenever you
and your dates have known each other better. It would also
prevent you from enjoying while you’re on a date with the
other members of the online dating community because you’ll
be too careful to cover up all the lies you’ve told your
dates before you got to go out on a date with them.

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The Right Time to Kiss Your Date

Some men may not know or do not have the slightest idea if
a woman is ready to be kissed. These men may be sitting
beside their dates talking too much they suddenly realize
how the lips of their dates are so kissable.
Their imagination will then take control, but this would
also mean disaster if done wrong. This may often leave
these men without a second chance for another date with the
woman.

If a guy finds himself talking to a girl and wondering if
she’s ready to be kissed, he may softly touch her hair and
give a compliment about it.

If the girl shows a favorable reaction, this may be a sign
of getting closer to a kiss. Get closer and try reaching
for her hair again.

Touch the hair tips and simply gaze on her lips and eyes.
The fact that she does not mind about you getting closer to
her is a sign that she is comfortable. This is a sign for a
guy to go and kiss the girl.

Some guys try to go out on an adventurous date in order to
make the kissing move more suave and natural. One
particular example is a guy who usually takes a girl to a
small boat ride on a river.

Upon sailing along the river, he happens to direct the boat
to a place covered with trees and fireflies – truly a
romantic place to kiss.

A guy can also take her date to some ancient ruins in a
local spot and manage to spend time walking until dark.
These ruins usually light up at night.

The guy can take his date to the top of the ruins where
they can see the city all beautifully lit up. This is when
the guy should make a move and kiss his date.

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Here Is how it goes.

Facts—>Feelings—>Values—->Vulnerabilities.

So most of the time, people only get into light rapport because they keep describing facts, things that have an existence in the material world. “Oh, I went shopping this morning”, “I just bought a new car!”, “Did you see that new TV show yesterday?” etc. If you talk like this all the time it can get boring quickly, also you have to keep looking for new facts all the time, and you need to find facts that interest whoever it is you are talking to.

To go a little deeper, you can start talking about how you FEEL about a particular fact. “Oh, I went shopping this morning, I really love looking at the clothes, so many different colors!”, “I just bought a new car! Driving it made me realize how important it is to work hard in my job so that I can pay it off.”, “Did you see that new TV show yesterday? I laughed so hard at the little girl with the penguin on her head.” As you can see, you always have some kind of feeling about anything, so you can always do this with any fact that you start off with. Keep in mind that people tend to think about feeling whatever emotion you are describing, so you should prefer describing positive emotions, like happiness, or arousal, etc.

The next level is values. WHY do you feel whatever it is that you feel? “Oh, I went shopping this morning, I really love looking at the clothes, so many different colors! It’s amazing to me how many different perspectives there are in the world. I would never have imagined some of the shapes that I saw, that’s why I love new experiences, because you always learn something new, sometimes things that you never imagined ever existed before, for example, I remember the first time I fell in love, it was soo …” and on and on. I leave the other two as exercises for you guys. Post your answers in the responses. By the time you get to the values level, this is deep stuff. People brush down to the feelings level every now and then, it is rare for anyone to ever get down to the values level. If you are able to take her down here and keep her here for a while, she will never forget you.

One of the reasons why she won’t forget you is that she probably doesn’t quite know what her values are. That’s normal, almost no one does. Women in general however tend to be particularly confused. This is because the society matrix has imposed many contradictory values upon her, so she doesn’t know which values are important or whether she should be following them at all.

In order to get to the values level however, you need to know your own values. This is something that cannot be taught. You have to find them for yourself. Your values are uniquely YOURS, they can and should be at least a little different from others. Your choice of values will determine how effective you are at living life. For example, if you value focusing on your task until you get it done, you will probably do well. If you value never doing anything you might screw up in, you probably won’t. She wants to find a source of certainty in her life. If you have a good set of values and you believe in them strongly, and you can project that faith into her, if you get her to believe in you, she will follow you. No amount of money, no amount of sex appeal, will turn her away from you.

More about the even more important level of vulnerabilities some other time ..

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It’s rather simple, you can use both direct and indirect. You will like one more than the other depended on your character.

If you are a wussy creep with a sensitive ego, then perfect, you will easily prefer indirect, cause you “risk” less of your pathetic ego. You probably like to train what to say,how to stand in angle from her,how to breathe right and have perfect micro expressions in your face…. so that you will make no “mistake” and rejection will only mean than the girl is stupid and can not recognize your perfect attitude, …. or that you did something wrong in the standing angle, it’s not the “real”you that got rejected, practice 6000 more sets and happiness awaits for you. So YOU can not be rejected, indirect is perfect for you, genious method for guys who go and cry if the girl doesn’t like them, and think that the “go get her” moto is creepy.(like everything not outcome-oriented is creepy for you)

If you don’t “Need” to pass shit tests, if you like to enjoy your life without giving to much importance to the expectations of others, if you can live without caring about your parents, hot babes, religions or the guy that kicked your ass at highschool …… and you can just forget all the chaos in your life and enjoy the moment by just going for what you want , calm and with a smile of satisfaction, Then indirect is more boring to you.

It is boring to manipulate disinterested women so you can get laid, cause you are bored to approach hoping that you do everything right, in the right order, giving perfect micro signals, expecting that she might fall for this. It’s fucking boring to you, maybe sometimes is fun, but that’s all it is, it’s not your prefered method.

It’s super simple, indirect if not for fun, is prefered if you think you have to HIDE something (your desire to fuck girls). The guy selling drugs is sneaky and indirect, the guy selling tomatoes has not anything to hide and he shouts at the street happy. Is he wondering if he does anything right?

If you have to do everything perfect, take care not to reveal your intention bla bla bla , then you are AFRAID to fuck a girl.

Now, this is interesting. A 9-year-old boy named Alec Greven has written a book entitled “How to Talk to Girls,” which was recently published by HarperCollins. Alec is donating part of his royalties to “Stand Up to Cancer” and hopes to be able to raise $100,000 for cancer research.

From NBC:

Alec did his research on-site, hanging out on the playground at recess watching other boys trying to talk to girls, and taking notes. He realized right away that many boys find it difficult to approach the fair sex, and that the road to true love is paved with potholes.

“They were having a lot of trouble getting girls to like them, so I wanted to write a book to kind of help them,” he explained.

His observations are both simple and incisive. For example, in his chapter on crushes, Alec notes, “A crush is like a love disease. It can drive you mad.”

Sitting straight up on the sofa in Studio 1A and speaking like a practiced performer, Alec pointed out that girls don’t like sloppy boys, so ditch the sweat pants and comb your hair if you want to get one. Also, he told Vieira, listen to your mom: After all, “She’s a girl, too.”

When to move on
On the playground, Alec noticed that love is fleeting, and the younger you are, the more fleeting it is.

“Boys, they can’t hold on to girls for a long time,” he told Vieira. “Some boys, they might get the girl to like them at the start of a recess and at the end, the girl dumps them.”

He said boys have to learn to move on when girls dump them.

“Life is hard, move on,” the juvenile love guru said. “You have to get over it. Otherwise everything just crashes down. They’re all depressed. They don’t play. They spend their time locked up in their room. You have to move on.”

Other chapters include “The Facts of Life” (“Life is hard, move on”); “There’s a Girl for Every Boy” (“You are like a magnet and girls are the metal”); “How to Get a Girl’s Attention” (“Most girls don’t like showoffs”); “What to Say to Girls” (“Act calm and don’t be nervous”); and “Success” (“If you do win victory with a girl, don’t cheer in front of her. Go somewhere private, then knock your head off and cheer”).