Facts do not cease to exist because they are ignored.

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Alexa: buna fata
Alexa: da-mi si mie id-ul tau te rog
[MiSs.CaTy]:=))
[MiSs.CaTy]:=))
[MiSs.CaTy]:=))
Alexa:de ce razi fata?
[MiSs.CaTy]:=))..poi acum nu vorbesti cu mn pe id meu??
Alexa:aaa..pai asta e id-ul tau?
[MiSs.CaTy]:nuuuuu=))
Alexa:pai atunci care e?dami-l te rog
[MiSs.CaTy]:dar tu esti proasta rau …=)):)))))))
Alexa:daca mai faci mult misto de mine nu mai vorbesc cu tine
[MiSs.CaTy]:ce sa iti fac daca esti proasta si habar nu ai ce e ala id=))
Alexa:ba stiu..dar mi-l dai ? zi da sau nu
[MiSs.CaTy]:bine=))
[MiSs.CaTy]:miss.caty94
Alexa:dar daca faci misto de mine si nu e asta ma supar
[MiSs.CaTy]:bine=))
Alexa:fata dar tu esti proasta ca il mai am odata
[MiSs.CaTy]:=)):))=)):))=))…la cat de proasta esti tu nu ai observat ca vorbesti cu mn de pe id ala..si in orice caz..documenteaza-te in legatura cu messengerul=))
[MiSs.CaTy]:aa…si era sa uit..iti dau si ignore..;)
Alexa:iti dau eu prima
[MiSs.CaTy]:poi sti cum??=))
Alexa:poi zimi cum?:D
[MiSs.CaTy]:esti proasta…hai pa!X(
Alexa:bine pa:-h

…Pe mine m-a lasat fara cuvinte!=))

You know what? It annoys me, when people whom i’m friends with, or I care about, act like they don’t know me. And day by day, we become like complete strangers, their name never triggers a thought in my mind…….But I refuse to give in, i usually demand a justification, i mean whoever has the guts to ignore his friend, must have the guts to just come up and tell me” You did harm me,You were wrong about..” etc. I think that in the end, it’s about friendship,tolerance,courage, and honesty.True friends wouldn’t ever ignore each other for silly reasons……but still people who just walk by your life do..they enter and leave…

Being alone in an elevator with a person you don’t know makes for some  awkward silences and a slight invasion of personal space, at least depending on how many people there are in there in the first place. It seems that the more people there are in the space the less awkward it is to be squished together. I find it strange to be in such close quarter with a person and to ignore them completely. There is no other social context quite like it. 

I stood in the elevator trying my best to contain myself and ignore the other man in there with me, but every part of my body was simultaneously aware of his presence and the tension this dichotomy created. It’s all I could think about; the strange silence that passed between us and the tension in our bodies. All of which we tried our best to ignore. 

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“The Holidays” are approaching…

Or, does it feel more like they are looming?! Yeah, we can relate! Well, surprise, surprise: we have a different perspective to suggest

Over the next few weeks we’re gonna look above, beyond, around…or even under! everything that looks huge or hard or sad or impossible during this next 5 or 6 weeks. If ignorance is bliss, perhaps ignoring is blissful?? Let’s look at what’s real here; strip off the trappings, the years of confusing commercialized camouflage and a lifetime of built-up pressure to perform or attain to some market-driving benchmark.

As we are generally taught, Thanksgiving has a pretty humble origin (setting aside the historical issues about white settlers conquering and plundering an already-inhabited region.) A bunch of strangers in a new-to-them land survived a difficult first year and actually had a harvest with a polite abundance to place on the plank. Enough to share, even. So, probably fairly spontaneously, invitations went out to those neighbors who had been helpful and a part of the survival. Maybe next week you can reach out to someone who has been part of YOUR survival–share your gratitude during your meal time. Let’s get full on a heaping serving of thankfulness (yes, you can add whipped cream!). 

WOW! We have soooooooooo much for which to be thankful!!

Here’s this week’s song titles, the artist/group who sang or played the song, and the CD from which I played it:

• Savior, Like a Shepherd Lead Us
  CD: Our Daily Bread * Hymns of the Morning 
• Clumsy – Chris Rice
  CD: Deep Enough To Dream
• That’s What Love Is – David Phelps
  CD: Life is a Church
• He Believes in You – Point of Grace
  CD: How You Live 
• I will Sing / Hope to Carry On – Caedmon’s Call
  CD: Chronicles * 1992-2004
• In The Palm of Your Hand – Alison Kraus
  CD: Alison Krauss & The Cox Family
• Jesus, I Lift my Eyes – Jars of Clay
  CD: Redemption Songs
• Your Name – The Swift
  CD: Singing Back To You
• Trust And Obey – Big Daddy Weave
  and
  There is a Fountain – Selah
  CD: WOW Hymns
• Always – Alathea
  CD: What Light is All About
• We Bow Down – Twila Paris
  CD: House of Worship
• I Still Believe – Jeremy Camp
  CD: DOVE Hits 2004
• Angels Wish – Steven Curtis Chapman
  CD: All Things New
• Amazing Grace (My Chains Are Gone) – Chris Tomlin
  CD: See The Morning 

I hope and pray that each week’s selections, and this blog, are even a small part of the encouragement you receive each week. You are really precious–REALLY–and in spite of whatever surrounds you right here, right now, the mystery of God’s grace and provision remains unchanging and ever-offered. This is your invitation.

Most of parents was ignoring at their child’s emotional,  therefore in sadness, anger and happiness, that can not be well-managed and have an impact on the formation of emotional mentality. Some parents are not aware her son was angry or sad, and tend to not care, but the child when it needs attention. As a result, the child will grow up to be closed and could not manage his emotions with the stable.

As a result, the child will grow up to be closed and could not manage his emotions with the stable. Education in early childhood or age zero to five years is very important because the period was the golden period of brain formation and personality of children. At that time very important for parents to provide for the establishment of educational and emotional brain cells in children to form his personality.

However, parents tend not to recognize and ignore these days, and some even provide a balanced education does not only form the intellectual intelligence and emotional intelligence to ignore. Nowadays, that it’s emotional and spiritual intelligence rather than intelligence alone.

Therefore, many experts urged parents to consider children’s education, for example by including in early childhood institutions. In addition, more parents are also advised to give attention and affection to children, so to be able to form a complete personality.

Great companies are extremely market-oriented and are incredible at creating value to their highly satisfied, loyal customers. Greatness in marketing and customer service is a function of attitude, not resources. Most companies do not do a very good job as marketers. Consider when you have been put on hold endlessly when calling for technical support, when you have been ignored or treated indifferently when visiting a retail site, or when you have been supplied inferior goods or services. While second-rate firms may survive in the short term, they will not last in the long run unless they change their philosophy and start creating superior value for their customers.

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Recently I’ve had conversations with OSL students about the programs shortcomings and about things I would change. My tone came across much harsher than I meant, which happens to me often, and because of that I’ve received a fair amount of backlash about my character. In just a few days I’ve been accused of being pessimistic, a bad listener, having a superior attitude, being too clingy, talking too much, and a few other things I can’t remember. Although it was tough, I’ve learned a few valuable lessons through all this that I wanted to share.

1. Know who you are. Don’t let other people’s words define you. Understand that their perception is only one small portion of the reality that makes you who you are. Be careful to understand that many people, mostly insecure ones, will remember bad over good, and give them grace when this happens. Have compassion, know your own character, and think critically about their accusations.
2. Search yourself. If someone has accused you, don’t let pride overtake your spirit and keep you from discover new revelation about areas in which you could change. If more than one person has mentioned some negative thing about you, it requires extra attention because it is more than like true, although not always. Be confident in yourself, but leave room for error.
3. Be discerning of motive. As I mentioned above, a person who is struggling with insecurity in any certain area will automatically look to another who is not insecure and attempt to tear them down. Think about areas you are insecure in, and you will remember speaking negatively about another person or else having bitterness in your heart towards those who have overcome these same insecurities. Understanding that the problem lies mostly within the accuser will ease your own hurts.
4. Don’t let the other person define you. In my case, my entire character has been defined by two or three conversations, when in reality I know this isn’t true. Because I have become confident in who I am, I understand that their grievance against me is only one facet of my personality. It is still difficult, though, when you know you are one way but someone accuses you of being another. It becomes less difficult the more you know yourself. What people think of you should not dictate your life, but what God thinks of you should be of extreme importance.
5. Saturate yourself in prayer. When someone comes against you it’s easy to let pride overtake and to ignore the truth in what your accuser says. Be prayerful and seek God’s direction on what to do with these accusations, and listen closely. Do not turn a deaf ear to the correction and discipline God may be sending your way, because it is in these things that we are refined and made more complete, more like Jesus.

My lesson has been learned, and I am thankful to the Father for His discipline. Thankfully I am at a place now where I can (a) look back and recognize that these accusations are not 100% correct, (b) realize I do look to the bright side as often as not, (c) know that I do encourage people often, and (d) see I have been accused more out of others’ insecurity than my actualy wrongdoing. This doesn’t get me off the hook, though; if people are saying these things, I have to step up and examine myself, rid my heart of negativity, and take responsibility for my own shortcomings.

This whole Christianity thing gets hard sometimes, but I wouldn’t trade my walk with Him for anything in the world.

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You know when you really love a band and then they get really popular and it seems like everyone loves them and you’re all like “Ugh?” That’s how I feel about Glee. But I wanted everyone to love it, so actually the whole thing’s a success, I just had to get that out.

I feel like a jerk when I click “ignore” whenever someone invites me to join a cause on Facebook, but I find them pointless. Being aware is one thing, but I just think social networking sites are supposed to be for like…social networking. Granted I do post stuff about bunnies and such.

Speaking of Facebook, all of you who are buying shit with real money on my favorite applications are pissing me off. What’s the point? Just don’t play–just go get cheat codes and push your island to its beta version limit, k?

Dear Every Channel,
You’ve all picked up reruns of The Office. Thank you,
Ashley

I am so behind on NaNo words that I’m starting to get worried because I’m finding it very difficult to produce crap. Very. I knew it would be crap, but I didn’t know it would be so hard to submit to it.

And, whenever I’m alone, I’ve had this on my mind instead of my story:

Once a friend said to me something along the lines of, “It’s because your faith is so new that you keep seeing good in everyone.” He was mad at me so maybe it wasn’t total honesty; he either really meant it or really didn’t mean it. Whichever, this often comes back to me and I wonder if it’s true that someday the honeymoon’s going to end. Not that I don’t have moments when I see things and I think, “Ugh, people suck,” but I always return to believing in goodness. And it’s not that he was trying to convince me that people are bad. I’m sure what he meant was that I needed to pop out my rose-tinted contacts for a second.

Anyway, I just don’t want to ever wonder.

So be cool, okay?

I watched J.K. Rowling’s Harvard commencement speech today. You can watch or read it here, but I suggest listening to her because she’s not the world’s best speech giver which makes it more real and amazing. Plus she’s British.

Also, I made this imaginary album cover for my side project band which features Molly Harbarger and Maggie Sampson from The Banana Appeal and it’s pretty sweet. Enjoy:

You are fucking welcome, world.

Last night I did something really stupid, but I’m not going to tell you yet what I did.

Are you familiar with that “voice” inside your head that warns you to do or not to do something?  We “hear” thoughts like: “Don’t set that glass there, someone could knock it over.”  “Turn on a timer, or you’ll over-sleep.”  “Don’t say that.”  “Don’t trust them.”  “Take a jacket, you’re gonna get cold.” “Take your umbrella.” We have all at one time or another recognized those thoughts trying to help us make the correct choice.  The issue is: Do we obey the “voice” or override it?

I managed to get a cold from my daughter and in my quest of a good nights rest insured by being able to breath through my nose, I took a decongestant.  No harm in that.  Except I knew it had the potential to cause sleeplessness!  The memory of the pharmacist telling my husband this side-effect came back to me as I stood there with two pills in my hand.  I read the box, “…may cause sleeplessness.” I still stood there…should I take only one?  In my fear of not being able to  breath well and sleeping poorly, I actually chose to take two as directed!  Wow, was I stupid!  In that moment I overrode the prompting…the little nudge to not take the chance of it keeping me up and did it anyway…sure I thought it may keep me up a little, but it will be worth it to breath easy all night.  Well, I did breath easy, and it literally kept me up all night.  It was dawn when I finally slept and that was for about 90 minutes.

So, I lay there last night berating myself for my stupidity and this morning realized if nothing else I got a blog out of it.   The thing that concerned me most about overriding that voice last night is that if the Lord can’t trust me to obey in the small things, how can He trust me to obey in the things that really matter?  Like using His gifts?  I hope this is a lesson I can hide in my heart and never go through again!  I really like to sleep.

P.S. There will be no blog tomorrow…see you Monday.

They do not care because they know they are beautiful no matter how they sit.

Saw her, the middle aged, red hat and kaki colored clothes, plus “these track shoes are made for protesting” and a 3′ by 4′ art board. The board was white and her message started with large black lettering, demanding to see a Civil Rights lawyer.

Upon further reading, she had scribbled from large lettering then, to too small to see from three feet away. However, she had a strong voice. Using that voice, she said that picketing in front of our Court House was a waste of her “most valuable time.”

“I have more important things to do…” “Need a lawyer and an editor/reporter because I have something to say.”

She talked to City Desk via an in-house phone and left. “I stood in front of the Court House for four hours.” “Wasted my time, just to get some answers?”

She left and jumped into her new $40 thousand dollar van and quickly disappeared.  Her art board was discarded on the street, just beyond the new bicycle asphalt path.

The rich and the old sometimes need assistance? Do they, huh? This lady didn’t require a lawyer or a reporter. Why? Because she really wanted attention.

“Love is so blind”
-Rihanna

Alright, so I may be a little late with this, but I just watched Rihanna’s interview on 20/20. First of all, wow. I admire her strength, getting on national TV and telling the world about probably her most vulnerable moments. Second, I admire her for realizing that her actions affect a lot of young girls and women and the fact that she didn’t just ignore it, but how that helped her make her final decision. Just the way she talks about it, you can tell that the entire situation is very emotional for her, obviously, and that she is sincerely worried about how her actions effect others. She is being extremely responsible about the entire situation. She wants to turn this into a positive thing even though it’s nowhere close to one.

But her quote is what hit me the most through the entire interview, that love is blind. I’m sure many people have experienced this thought or emotion. I’m sure that this could spark something within everyone who has been in a relationship. Not just love, but emotions are blind. Rage, love, all of it blinds you from an objective point of view. Reason and rationality are out the window when emotion walks in the door. I’ve made some pretty stupid decisions when I was mad – just in a rage about something. But I’ve also done some stupid things because I was in love. I’ve crashed my car out of both rage and lets say lust. The good thing about little situations like that is the learning experience. You learn what happened and how to avoid those situations. Since my accident I’ve tried so hard not to let anger get the best of me in any situation because I am an emotional person and I’m angered pretty easily. I make stupid decisions in the heat of the moment. I try to take a step back, take a minute, and think about what I’m doing, what I’m thinking, and what is actually happening.

So yes, love can be so blind to everything going on. It’s easy to get caught up in something so good when the bad times seem so fleeting.

My support and my faith is with Rihanna.

Question: Have you ever had one of those moment where you knew you were doing something stupid, but went ahead and did it anyway?

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If we’re not listening to you

Come and tell us

polluted emotions overcrowding thoughts
forgetting to breathe, believe, be, me..completely
intuition subsiding, avoiding insides
no time found to run into my own little world
drown out the outside world, loud mouth background noise
anxiety
anxiety
anxiety
i’ve lost my mind the past few weeks
popping pills, losing course
forgetting to remember how it is to forget to remember
circles
circles
circles
a repetitive tone
i hate myself for continuously trying with you
i never want to try to be anything more with you
it needs to be, fall casually, naturally
yet
impossible, instinctual, impractical
yet
ok, for today or tomorrow but never yesterday
stuck in this rut of what to do or what to say
how to act or when to speak
if you knew me at all,
you’d know my insides remain locked up
locked up locked up locked up
and i like it that way..
i feel comfortable and secure and safe
that way.
so scram
so scram
so scram scram scram!

all of these emotions overcrowding thoughts
forgetting to breathe, believe, be, me..
completely
pisces mind fluttering into dramtics of foreplay
addicted to a moment
the only moment things make sense
i crave the darkness & a warm bed
to drown my ears with sweet melodies
recycling the paper with a pen
emptying thoughts
a hedonistic plot
i need to be me, only me
only me
only me
only me

p l e a s e

but if you have any love left
but if you have any lust left
but if you have any want left
you’ll ignore everything i say
and play grown up for one beautiful day
of a perfected reality.

chills down my spine
chills down my spine
chills down my spine

Ni saje nak update sikit, sebab tiba-tiba terfikir pulak pasal benda ni.

Saya selalu jadi ’silence reader’ dekat blog orang lain. Bukan apa, selain dari tak mahu jadi penyebuk dan memberi komen yang tidak perlu, saya selalu experience orang macam tak suka je kehadiran saya. Saya selalu je kena, komen saya seakan invisible, sedangkan blogger tu layan je komen orang lain. Ada tu plak, tiba-tiba terus saya dah tak boleh access blog dia. *atau blog engine ada problem?

Kadang-kadang, rasa macam nak kecik hati je. Tapi kemudian saya fikir, takpelah kalau orang tak suka. Ahahaha.. macam bila minat kat orang pulak caranya.

Itu tak ngeri lagi. Saya ada pengalaman yang lagi ngeri. Saya rasa mesti ramai yang pernah experience. Bila kita jadi too open tentang diri dan pendapat kita, ada plak makhluk yang tak dikenali dok marah-marah dan kutk kita. Bukan saja saya kena, saya pernah lihat blog-blog lain pun kena. Kadang-kadang tu saya rasa blogger tu tak ada buat salah apa pun, tiba-tiba ja ada orang tak suka dan beria-ria kutuk blogger tu. Kesian..!! Kalau pun blogger tu salah, atau pendapat tak masuk, tak payah la mengutuk tak tentu pasal. Cakap lah elok-elok, kan? Atau memang jenis suka cari pasal kot.

Oklah.. saya masih di KT. Hari kurang produktif. Aktiviti jogging cancel, pegi kerja lambat, user tunggu lama *kesian user.. maaf, saya tertinggal laptop kat hotel, terpaksa patah balik! dan macam-macam lagi. Tapi Alhamduillah, semuanya ok. Tapi ada sekali tu, ada seorang user ni tiba-tiba je macam nak mengamuk-ngamuk pula pasal system. Erk.. nasib baik tiba-tiba dia tak jadi nak buat session pula. Tapi esok-esok dia akan datang juga.. huhuhuu.. (-_-!!) Tapi tak apalah, bos saya ada!!

Session hari ni habis lambat. Kesian Farah sebab asyik menunggu saya saja. Jadi dia balik awal, dan bila saya siap, terus dia pick saya di hospital, dan kami bergerak ke Pasar Payang. Huhuhu.. sangat gigih!! Tapi sayang, mission still not accomplish! Yang dicari tidak ditemui, apatah lagi Pasar Payang tutup awal. Tapi kemudian kami makan durian di depan Pasar Payang.

this only durian we ate, and share by 3 person.. *I'm not a durian freak..

Kemudian, kami jalan-jalan tepi pantai, dekat Masjid Terapung. Hari ini angin bertiup kencang, menandakan musim tengkujuh sudah bermula. Itulah, ntah siapa asyik tanya pada saya, Terengganu hujan tak.. it’s cursing!! Kan sekarang dah hujan. ahahaha.. takde lah, saya main-main saja! Kemudian ambil gambar masjid dari dalam kereta saja sebab hujan sudah mula turun. Kemudian makan di Restoran Tatai, berhampiran Pantai Batu Burok. Saya order char kuew teow. Ok, saya suka rasanya. Tapi Farah order mee udang, dan rasanya tak sedap. Kesian Farah. Terus jadi tertekan.

It's windy.. see Farah's scarf..

Masjid Terapung.. ntah kenapa, saya mcm expect lain.. so it's under my expectation.. huhu..

Harap-harap mission esok tercapai!

regards,

~Ha~

British rockers the Cribs are releasing a new Kaiser Chiefs cover for charity. The Wakefield group are set to honour a worthy local cause by donating all proceeds from the new download to charity.

The song will be ‘Modern Way’. The song was previously only available as a B-side, appearing on the flip of the ‘Mirror Kissers’ single (which was in 2005 I think). All proceed from this track will go to ‘Cash For Kids Acton On Neglect Appeal‘, which aims to help neglected children in the Leeds and West Yorkshire area.

The Cribs recently released their new album ‘Ignore the Ignorant’, with new member Johnny Marr. They’re also going to support Franz Ferdinand on their tour(I’m going to see them November 22 ^^,). Their new single ‘We Share the Same Skies’ will be released on November 9th

The ‘Mirror Kissers’ B-side

“If it is not intelligible, then one must ignore it.”

—John Locke (1632–1704)