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<title><![CDATA[regresi? What's d hell with it?]]></title>
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<title><![CDATA[The Forgetfulness of Man - Sayyid Naquib al-Attas]]></title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 08 Feb 2011 13:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>It is ironic that we live in an era that has been coined &#8220;The Information Age&#8221; where human beings have attained, rather than knowledge, epic proportions of ignorance. Citizens of the most powerful nations of the earth often fail to identify important regions &#8211; and on occasion their own homeland &#8211; on a map. If man&#8217;s knowledge of the material world is deficient, what about the knowledge of the Unseen? The following post is an excerpt from &#8220;Prolegomena to the Metaphysics of Islam&#8221; by Sayyid Naquib al-Attas and serves as a strong reminder about the nature of the human being, his purpose in this life, and his ultimate state in the hereafter.</em></p>
<p><em><em>Sayyid Muhammad al-Naquib bin Ali al-Attas (born September 5, 1931) is a prominent contemporary Muslim philosopher and thinker from Malaysia. He is the author of twenty-seven authoritative works on various aspects of Islamic thought and civilization, particularly on Sufism, cosmology, metaphysics, philosophy and Malay language and literature. (</em><a href="http://cgm.cs.mcgill.ca/~hagha/library/attas.htm" target="_blank"><em>Source</em></a><em>)</em></em></p>
<h2 style="text-align:center;">The Forgetfulness of Man</h2>
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<p style="text-align:center;">By Sayyid Naquib al-Attas</p>
<p>&#8220;The seat of knowledge in man is a spiritual substance which is variously referred to in the Holy Qur&#8217;an sometimes as his heart (al-qalb), or his soul or self (al-nafs), or his spirit (al-ruh), or his intellect (al-&#8217;aql). In virtue of the truth that man knows God in His absolute unity as his Lord, such knowledge, and the reality of the situation that necessarily follows from it, has bound man in a covenant (al-mithaq; al-&#8217;ahd) determining his purpose and attitude and action with respect to his self in his relation to God.</p>
<p>This binding and determining of man to a covenant with God and to a precise nature in regard to his purpose, attitude, and action, is the binding and determining in religion (al-din) which entails true submission (al-islam). Thus knowledge and religion are natural correlates in the nature of man, that is, the original nature in which God has created him (al-fitrah). Man&#8217;s purpose is therefore to know and to serve God (&#8216;ibadah) and his duty is obedience (ta&#8217;ah) to God, which conforms with his essential nature created for him by God.</p>
<p>But man is also &#8220;composed of forgetfulness (nisyan)&#8221; &#8211; as a Prophetic tradition says, and he is called insan basically precisely because, having testified to himself the truth of the covenant he sealed with God, which entails obedience of His commands and prohibitions, he forgot (nasiya) to fulfill his duty and purpose. Hence according to ibn &#8216;Abbas with reference to a passage in the Holy Qur&#8217;an, the term insan is derived from nasiya when he said that man is called insan because, having covenanted with God, he forgot (nasiya).</p>
<p>Forgetfulness is the cause of man&#8217;s disobedience, and this blameworthy nature inclines him towards injustice (zulm) and ignorance (jahl). But God has equipped him with the powers and faculties of right vision and apprehension, of real savouring of truth, of right speech and communication; and He has indicated to him the right and the wrong with respect to the course of action he should take so that he might strive to attain his bright destiny. The choice for the better (ikhtiyar) is left to him.</p>
<p>Moreover, God has equipped him with intelligence to know and distinguish reality from non-reality, truth from falsehood, and rectitude from error; and even though his intelligence &#8211; or rather his imaginative and estimative faculties &#8211; might confuse him, and provided he is sincere and true to his noble nature, God, out of His bounty, mercy, and grace, will aid and guide him to attain to truth and right conduct. The supreme example of this is the case of the Prophet Ibrahim, upon him be peace.</p>
<p>Man thus equipped and fortified is meant to be the vicegerent (khalifah) of God on earth, and as such the weighty burden of trust (amanah) is placed upon him &#8211; the trust and responsibility to rule according to God&#8217;s will and purpose and His pleasure. The trust implies responsibility to rule with justice, and the &#8216;rule&#8217; means not simply ruling in the socio-political sense, nor in the controlling of nature in the scientific sense, but more fundamentally in its encompassing of the meaning of nature (al-tabi&#8217;ah), it means the ruling, governing, controlling, and maintaining of man by his self or his rational soul.&#8221;</p>
<p><em>(p 143-145 of &#8220;Prolegomena to the Metaphysics of Islam&#8221; by Sayyid Naquib al-Attas)</em></p>
<p><strong>Further Reading:</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://allahcentric.wordpress.com/2010/10/11/the-tragedy-of-humanism-sayyid-naquib-al-attas/">The Tragedy of Humanism – Sayyid Naquib al-Attas</a></p>
<p><a href="http://allahcentric.wordpress.com/2010/11/07/on-good-character-sayyid-naquib-al-attas-prolegomena-to-the-metaphysics-of-islam/">On Good Character</a></p>
<p><a href="http://allahcentric.wordpress.com/2010/09/25/the-loss-of-adab-and-the-fall-of-the-muslim-world-sayyid-naquib-al-attas/">The Loss of Adab and the Fall of the Muslim World – Sayyid Naquib al-Attas</a></p>
<p><a href="http://seekersguidance.org/blog/2009/12/al-attas%E2%80%99-concept-of-ta%E2%80%98dib-as-true-and-comprehensive-education-in-islam-wan-mohd-nor-wan-daud/" target="_blank">Al-Attas’ Concept of Ta‘dib as True and Comprehensive Education in Islam – Wan Mohd Nor Wan Daud</a></p>
<p><a href="http://seekersguidance.org/blog/2009/12/applying-the-prophetic-sunna-to-the-modern-world-interview-with-sayyid-naquib-al-attas-lastprophetinfo/">Applying the Prophetic Sunna to the Modern World – Interview with Sayyid Naquib Al-Attas – Lastprophet.info</a></p>
<p><a href="http://seekersguidance.org/blog/2009/08/the-concept-of-religion-by-sayyid-naquib-al-attas/" target="_blank">The Concept of Religion by Sayyid Naquib al-Attas</a></p>
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<title><![CDATA[QURAN IN RAMADAAN: Perfect Attributions]]></title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 19 Sep 2009 04:43:32 +0000</pubDate>
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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:#993300;"><strong>ما أَصابَكَ مِن حَسَنَةٍ فَمِنَ اللَّهِ ۖ وَما أَصابَكَ مِن سَيِّئَةٍ فَمِن نَفسِكَ ۚ وَأَرسَلنٰكَ لِلنّاسِ رَسولًا ۚ وَكَفىٰ بِاللَّهِ شَهيدًا ﴿٧٩﴾ (79) Whatever good happens to thee is from God; and whatever evil befalls thee is from thyself. AND WE have sent thee [O Muhammad] as an apostle unto all mankind: and none can bear witness [thereto] as God does.</strong></span></div>
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<div>1430, 28 Ramadaan:</div>
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<div>The above quoted is Ayah no. 79 from Sura Al-Nisa. It is taken from the portion of the text where in a series of verses, Allah subhanahu wa ta&#8217;ala exposes the true state of minds in Madina&#8217;s hypocrites and reveals and corrects their explanations of events.</div>
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<div>These hypocrites, while acknowledging God as the source of happy events (reference: Al-Nisa, 78), used to blame the holy Prophet (salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam) on unhappy occurings such as death and injury in confrontations with the enemy.</div>
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<div>People&#8217;s attempts to explain the causes for events and happennings have been referred to as &#8216;attributions&#8217; in psychology. I will first describe the concept as explicated in psychology and then I will come back to the perfect attributional style that Allah teaches us here in conjunction with another verse in Quran quoted below.</div>
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<div><strong>Attributional Style</strong></div>
<div>Attribution is a concept in social psychology. All of us attempt to explain our own behavior, other&#8217;s behaviors as well as circumstances and events occuring arround us. Where various psychologists have contributed various concepts and research findings, the one I&#8217;m focusing here is Weiner&#8217;s attribution theory.</div>
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<div><strong>Weiner&#8217;s dimensions of attributions</strong></div>
<div>Weiner (1986) argued that people&#8217;s attributions can be characterized in terms of three dimensions (below, as originally adapted by Abrahamson, et al. 1978):</div>
<div style="text-align:center;">1. internality/externality</div>
<div style="text-align:center;">2. stability/unstability</div>
<div style="text-align:center;">3. globality/specificity</div>
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<div>Internal explanations look for personal causes of positive or negative occurences: such as ability, effort, shortcomings, behavior, etc. External explanations look for causes outside oneself such as others, chance, fate, God. Stability refers to the fact that the proscribed cause is supposed to be permanent such as a &#8216;irrecovable handicap&#8217;, &#8216;being the decided victim of someone&#8217;s cruelty&#8217;, or &#8216;a permanent fixture for misfortune&#8217;. Instability means the assumed causes have a changeable nature; for instance a &#8216;transient lack of practice&#8217;, &#8216;a stroke of luck&#8217;, &#8216;an accidental mistake&#8217;. Global attributions are supposed to prevail across most of the situations of one&#8217;s life; for e.g. an &#8216;overarching lack of general intelligence&#8217;, &#8216;being a good person&#8217;, etc. Specificity implies causes that relate only to the particular situation or event being explained; such as &#8216;being good in maths&#8217;, &#8216;the trouble-giving interview panel&#8217;.</div>
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<div><strong>The Quranic concept of Attribution</strong></div>
<div>Quran divides attributions into basically two types: Events resulting from our own actions (or lack of actions) and events resulting by the decree of God.</div>
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<div>These attributions correspond with the choice vs fate distinction in Quranic thought. At the abstract level and in principle everything happens directly or indirectly as a result of God&#8217;s interventions (i.e., fate). These interventions could be in the form the laws of nature formulated by God upon which the whole universe (including the human world) is running. They could be in the form of what happens to us as a result of others&#8217; actions. They could be in that rare form of miracles. They could be in the form of that general decree by God that whatever deliberate action (good or bad) we fix upon and attempt to engage in, angels have been pre-ordered to let it happen (as in authentic ahadith).</div>
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<div>However, as part of this fate, we can also achieve specific ends on our own as specific outcomes: a phenomenon which has been discussed in Quran and hadith in terms of two related concepts: Ikhtiyar (choice) and Tadbeer (strategy). For these specific outcomes then we are responsible and the internal attribution is then valid. On the other hand, some negative occurences also happen as more indirect consequences of our own negative (bad or faulty) behaviors. These may be considered as Jaza-e-Dunya (retribution in the world) and here too internal attributions are valid.</div>
<div>In all other cases, only external attribution (that is, those referred to God&#8217;s decree) are the best course as apparent when we consider the verses Al-Nisa 79, and Al-Hadeed 22 &#38; 23 in conjunction; an idea that is supported in many other instances in our religious texts.</div>
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<div><span style="color:#0000ff;"><strong>ما أَصابَ مِن مُصيبَةٍ فِى الأَرضِ وَلا فى أَنفُسِكُم إِلّا فى كِتٰبٍ مِن قَبلِ أَن نَبرَأَها ۚ إِنَّ ذٰلِكَ عَلَى اللَّهِ يَسيرٌ ﴿٢٢﴾ (22) NO CALAMITY can ever befall the earth, and neither your own selves, unless it be [laid down] in Our decree before We bring it into being: verily, all this is easy for God لِكَيلا تَأسَوا عَلىٰ ما فاتَكُم وَلا تَفرَحوا بِما ءاتىٰكُم ۗ وَاللَّهُ لا يُحِبُّ كُلَّ مُختالٍ فَخورٍ ﴿٢٣﴾ (23) [Know this,] so that you may not despair over whatever [good] has escaped you nor exult [unduly] over whatever [good] has come to you: for God does not love any of those who, out of self-conceit, act in a boastful manner –</strong></span></div>
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<div>For instance, many a times when something negative befalls us it is to be supposed as a test of our faith from God. This corresponds with the concept of &#8220;acceptance/resignation&#8221; as an effective coping strategy when all other attributions (blaming oneself, or someone else, or &#8216;chance&#8217;) will backfire (for an interesting explication of this concept, click on <a href="http://books.google.com.pk/books?id=gk2fB6ZGOS4C&#38;pg=PA27&#38;lpg=PA27&#38;dq=acceptance/resignation+coping&#38;source=bl&#38;ots=VpMpZa9Z8y&#38;sig=pqPDTjyv54IqqBhoonvSxJ_4iRU&#38;hl=en&#38;ei=21i0StPNCNaCkAXE6Y3LCw&#38;sa=X&#38;oi=book_result&#38;ct=result&#38;resnum=1#v=onepage&#38;q=acceptance%2Fresignation%20coping&#38;f=false">this Google Books link</a>).</div>
<div>The same attribution holds when positive occurences take place. However, here there seems to be an apparent contrariness: what are we supposed to think when something negative happens? Is it a Jazaa or a Bala (test)?</div>
<div>After some ponderance, firm believers can easily resolve this issue in a manner that their readings of tafseer and hadith will validate:</div>
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<div><strong>The Perfect Attributions</strong></div>
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<li>All events that take place in one&#8217;s life or around one are by default from God.</li>
<li>Regardless of the nature of the occurence &#8211; positive or negative &#8211; , it is a test for our skills, attitudes and most importantly our faith.</li>
<li>In case of negative occurences there is cause for additional thought particularly when we can relate the happenning to a particular chain of events involving a series of actions on our part that fall under the head of Choice (Ikhtiyar) and Strategy (Tadbeer). When the link between our intentional and strategic choices with the subsequent outcomes is logical, we are to accpet the responsibility rather than just file it away under the head of Bala bis-Sayyi&#8217;ah (Test by a negative occurence).</li>
<li>In case of a positive occurence, there is a particular need to focus on the &#8216;blessidng&#8217; side, no matter what the contribution of our own Choice and Strategy in it. This is in view of our essentially weak natures consistently accessible to satanic attitudes of arrogance, self-promotion, inflated self-esteem, and a foolish  superiority (which are always followed by belittling others by heart, tongue, or hand).  </li>
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<div style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:#0000ff;"><strong> </strong></span></div>
<p><span style="color:#0000ff;"><strong> May Allah allow us to benefit from His perfect guidance.</strong></span></p>
<div style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#0000ff;"><strong><span style="color:#000000;">NOTES</span></strong></span></div>
<div style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#0000ff;"><span style="color:#000000;">Abrahamson, L. Y., Seligman, M. E. P., &#38; Teasdale, J. D. (1978). Learned helplessness in humans: Critique and reformulation. <em><a title="Journal of Abnormal Psychology" href="http://structureofentropy.wordpress.com/wiki/Journal_of_Abnormal_Psychology">Journal of Abnormal Psychology</a></em>, 87, 49–74.</span></span></div>
<div style="text-align:left;"><span style="color:#0000ff;"><span style="color:#000000;">Weiner, B. (1986). <em>An attributional theory of motivation and emotion</em>. New York: Springer-Verlag.</span></span></div>
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<title><![CDATA[Tentang Do'a dan Ikhtiyar]]></title>
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<description><![CDATA[“Doa itu senjata seorang mu&#8217;min, tiang agama, serta cahaya langit dan bumi” (HR Al Hakim, dari]]></description>
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<p>Ada sudut pandang bahwa dengan do’a tertentu maka kita akan mendapat fadhilah atau manfaat tertentu. Atau dengan membaca do’a tertentu sebanyak yang ditentukan, maka juga akan mendapat keberkahan, dan apa yang diinginkan dapat tercapai.</p>
<p>Pendapat ini tidak salah, tapi sering disalahpahami. Karena, sekilas dari pendapat di atas menyatakan bahwa “cukup dengan do’a maka kemudahan dan keinginan dapat tercapai”. Padahal tidak demikian.<!--more--></p>
<p>Bahkan lebih jauh ada yang berpendapat bahwa jika kita mau menghadapi kesulitan yang melibatkan orang lain – ujian, wawancara kerja, sidang, pengadilan misalnya – jika kita bacakan do’a tertentu, maka orang yang akan menguji atau menyidang kita itu akan kebingungan atau ada kecenderungan untuk memudahkan kita.</p>
<p>Memang Allah Maha Kuasa atas segala sesuatu. Tapi bukan berarti kita berdo’a tanpa mau melakukan Ikhtiyar. Karena “Allah tidak mengubah keadaan sesuatu kaum sehingga mereka mengubah keadaan mereka sendiri” (ar-Ra’d (13) : 11)</p>
<p>Coba renungi cuplikan kisah dari al-Qur-an al-Karim berikut:</p>
<p><strong>1.	Kisah Maryam As.</strong></p>
<p>“.<em>.</em>Kemudian rasa sakit akan melahirkan memaksanya (bersandar) pada pangkal pohon kurma, dia (Maryam) berkata: &#8220;Wahai, betapa  (baiknya) aku mati sebelum ini, dan aku menjadi seorang yang tidak diperhatikan dan dilupakan.  Maka Jibril berseru kepada nya dari tempat yang rendah: &#8220;Janganlah engkau bersedih hati, sesungguhnya Tuhanmu telah menjadikan anak sungai di bawahmu. Dan goyanglah pangkal pohon kurma itu ke arahmu, niscaya pohon itu akan menggugurkan buah kurma yang masak kepadamu<em> ..</em>” (QS Maryam (19): 23-25)</p>
<p>Yang harus diperhatikan dari ayat di atas adalah bagaimana Maryam &#8211;  salah satu wanita termulia dalam sejarah manusia, yang keimanannya terhadap Allah tidak pantas diragukan, yang melaluinya ditunjukkan salah satu tanda kekuasaanNya, yaitu Nabi Isa As – ketika dalam kesusahan hendak melahirkan, dalam kepayahan, bahkan hampir putus asa, diperintahkan oleh Allah melalui malaikatNya, Jibril, untuk tetap berikhtiyar: “<strong>Dan goyanglah pangkal pohon kurma itu ke arahm</strong><strong>u, niscaya pohon itu akan menggugurkan buah kurma yang masak kepadamu ..”</strong></p>
<p>Jadi Allah ga langsung ngasih.. Brek! Gitu aja buah kurma ke beliau.. tapi beliau diperintahkan untuk tetap berikhtiyar.</p>
<p><strong>2.	Kisah Nabi Musa As.</strong></p>
<p>“.<em>.</em>Maka setelah kedua golongan itu saling melihat, berkatalah pengikut-pengikut Musa: &#8220;Sesungguhnya kita benar-benar akan tersusul.&#8221; Musa menjawab: &#8220;Sekali-kali tidak akan tersusul; sesungguhnya Tuhanku bersamaku, kelak Dia akan memberi petunjuk kepadaku.&#8221; Lalu Kami wahyukan kepada Musa: &#8220;Pukullah lautan itu dengan tongkatmu.&#8221; Maka terbelahlah lautan itu dan tiap-tiap belahan adalah seperti gunung yang besar.” (QS asy-Syu’araa’ (26) : 61-63)</p>
<p>Lihat pada kisah tersebut, do’a nabi Musa As. : “<strong>sesungguhnya Tuhanku bersamaku, kelak Dia akan memberi petunjuk kepadaku</strong>” dan Allah menjawabnya dengan: <strong>“Pukullah lautan itu dengan tongkatmu”</strong>. Bukan ujug-ujug, laut merah itu terbelah gitu aja kan? Perlu juga ikhtiyar, yang harus dilakukan beliau.</p>
<p>Semuanya harus dilaksanakan dengan seimbang, do’a dan ikhtiyar harus berjalan seimbang. Jangan kita berdo’a lalu tak ada sedikit pun ikhtiyar dari kita, menanti keajaiban. Kita berdoa meminta uang 1 Milyar, lalu kita berharap uang itu jatuh gitu aja dari atap rumah? Mungkin ga? Mending kalo uangnya uang kertas, kalo uang koin?? Ketiban! Ancur dah tuh rumah!</p>
<p>Juga jangan sebaliknya, melakukan ikhtiyar tapi tidak pernah berdo’a. Allah berbeda dengan mahlukNya yang akan murka jika dipinta, justru Allah akan murka ketika hambaNya tidak memohon kepadaNya.</p>
<p>Pertanyaannya, apakah semua usaha yang kita lakukan untuk memenuhi keinginan kita itu bisa disebut ikhtiyar? Ketika kesulitan waktu ujian, apakah menyontek termasuk Ikhtiyar? Ketika sakit komplikasi panu-kadas-kurap-eksim (na’udzubillah) susah disembuhkan, apakah ke dukun ato para(ab)normal ato minum air celupan batu ‘Ponari Sweat’ juga termasuk Ikhtiyar?</p>
<p>Kata “<strong>ikhtiyar</strong>” atau bentuk lainnya dalam bahasa Arab: ikhtaro-yakhtaru-ikhtiyar,  berarti memilih. Kata ini seakar dengan kata khoir (baik). Karena itu kata ikhtiyar lebih tepat diartikan sebagai memilih usaha terbaik di antara yang ada. Terbaik! Bukan dengan cara terburuk dan seenaknya! Dan sebagai Muslim, tentu saja tidak keluar dari batas-batas Islam donk?!</p>
<p>Sebagai kesimpulan, ane sendiri memandang do’a itu sebagai tumpuan, pijakan, dan harapan sebagai pelecut motivasi  untuk berikhtiyar mencapai tujuan yang diharapkan. Dengan adanya keyakinan terhadap akan dikabulkannya do’a, ketika itu pula muncul ghiroh, semangat, yang luar biasa dari dalam diri, untuk terus menggapai apa yang diinginkan. Menurut ane itulah mengapa do’a dan ikhtiyar harus berjalan seiringan.</p>
<p><em>Wallahu a’lam bishshowab</em></p>
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