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My Tom of Finland story is finished

Hooray! After finally months, I finished writing my homoerotic story for the Tom of Finland contest. There are still some insecurities about its eroticism and I fear it might be a bit cliché but I will prevail. 306 more words

Tom Of Finland

Self-Acceptance: Yes, I Am Okay

You’d think by my age I would have grown out of bouts of insecurity, but no. It strikes sometimes, especially when:

Ever felt rejected and unlovable?

For the last few days, if someone asked me if I was okay and I was actually honest, I’d say, “Not really. Not right now.” 518 more words


Emailing For The Insecure: Wait, That's Too Formal

The arrival of email circa 1993 should have made things easy for people like me. Admittedly, it has brought many improvements to the way we communicate. 682 more words


It Happened

That’s right, I can regale you with scintilating tales of smut and indecency!

Last night we broke the drought.  The clouds gathered and the skies burst forth with the soothing, replenishing rains of sexual intercourse.  1,842 more words



These are obvious lessons, but they’re ones I find myself continually learning as I continue on my writerly walk:

There is no finish line.

There is no such thing as “making it.” 106 more words