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Evil Presents as Shameless8 comments

Botolff wrote 1 month ago: “Evil is present when there is a profound absence of empathy, shame, and goodness.  Empathy involves … more →

Tags: Manipulation, Sin, deception, Evil, Violence, Shameless, Bold Love, labels, Shameful

Control can be the Open Door Invitation to Evil.

Botolff wrote 1 month ago: “Evil is (for the most part) unfeeling. It lacks sorrow when someone suffers and joy when there is h … more →

Tags: conscience, Control?, Evil, false contrition, Grace, Psalm 51, selfishness, Victim

In the Presence of a Wicked Man.

Botolff wrote 1 month ago: If you are a survivor of severe abuse, I would like to encourage you to pause and consider whether o … more →

Tags: Abuse, Arrogance, Bold Love, crafty, Evil, Harm, hug, Love, Manipulation

The "Bold Love" Approach to Evil People.

Botolff wrote 1 month ago: Hello all.  I’m back.  A few days later than anticipated, but I’m once again settling in … more →

Tags: Africa, Bold Love, corruption, Courage, Dark Continent, Evil, evil people, Glory, Heart

Quotes from "Bold Love" chapter 10.

Botolff wrote 2 months ago: Well, this idea of chasing “Bold Love” has been more or less slipping into a coma lately … more →

Tags: Bold Love, empathy, Evil, evil people, Exposed, Fool, Judging, labels, Love

What do I do with shame? "Bold Love"

Botolff wrote 2 months ago: A man I respect very much co-authored a book that helped me turn the corner on some (notice I said s … more →

Tags: Abuse, blindness, Bold Love, compassion, Dan Allender, Good and Evil, Repentance, shame

Shame and gratitude.

Botolff wrote 2 months ago: It’s been a little bit since I last posted.  Time has been fleeting and responsibilities have … more →

Tags: Forgiveness, gratefulness, honesty, Paradox, Repentance, responsibility, shame, wounded minister

What do I do with shame?1 comment

Botolff wrote 3 months ago: I have pondered much on these posts about shame.  Does that mean I think you should be more inclined … more →

Tags: Freedom, God, gratitude, HOPE, Risk, shame, Story

Bullies in the Ministry4 comments

Botolff wrote 3 months ago: Corey and I have heard dozens of stories from ministers who have been forcefully terminated from the … more →

Tags: Abuse, Bullies, conflicts, cowardice, Fear, forcefully terminated, Ministers, Ministry, Seduction

"Caring For" and "Caring About"2 comments

Botolff wrote 3 months ago: These two concepts, “caring for” and “caring about”, have been milling aroun … more →

Tags: Africa, bleed, Comfort Zone, Congregations, fight, forcefully terminated, Jesus, Martin Luther King Jr., Ministers

Shame: The Underside of Narcissism- Part 32 comments

Botolff wrote 3 months ago: I realized as I wrote the title to this fourth installment on shame that you have no idea how many p … more →

Tags: lies, Control?, Manipulation, shame, Rage, Abuse, Jesus, Power, Shameless

Shame: The Underside of Narcissism- Part 2 Cont.

Botolff wrote 3 months ago: I’m back.  Things have been a little quiet around here this week.  I thought I’d clean t … more →

Tags: shame, narcissism, murder, Victim, rape, military, iraq, Soldier, Shameless

Shame: The Underside of Narcissism- Part 24 comments

Botolff wrote 4 months ago: I was reading an article the other day.  It was an article about a special Oprah was doing with wome … more →

Tags: shame, Power, identity, lover, Oprah, married men

Shame: The Underside of Narcissism- Part 13 comments

Botolff wrote 4 months ago: I am encouraged to see that Corey has been posting regularly, because I’ve been side-tracked.  … more →

Tags: shame, narcissism, Victims, guilt, HIDING, rejection, Cookie Jar, Acceptance

Someone hit the telephone pole...and then the bank?1 comment

Botolff wrote 4 months ago: I went in to work on Tuesday.  Well, I tried to go into work on Tuesday.  As I was approaching the b … more →

Tags: lies, Truth, office, Power, Bank Robbery, police ribbon, telephone pole, Story, Drama

Surrender and Repentance11 comments

Botolff wrote 5 months ago: That’s the title of the last message that I spoke at the church I was terminated from.  As alw … more →

Tags: Control?, Fear, shame, Surrender, Repentance, Sorrow, Lying, Salvation, suffering

notes from 7/24 meeting with Hank re: brand strategy

jamiep22 wrote 5 months ago: LEAVE MORE OPEN not only photographers, include design firms, etc. ultimately we want to bring busin … more →

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biggie biggie biggie can't you see

jamiep22 wrote 5 months ago: Here is my first, very rough draft of the identity business. I basically copied the format that Hank … more →

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We'll call her Kim.3 comments

Botolff wrote 5 months ago: I was recently given permission to share parts of another wounded minister’s story on the blog … more →

Tags: church, Manipulation, Fear, Abuse, Evil, Elders, Hurt, Pastor's Wife, Satan


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