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Understandability vs. Justifiability- because they ain't the same.

kaylaroses wrote 1 week ago: So, I’m tired of people making excuses. We make excuses for everything, you know? Oh, I’ … more →

Tags: honesty, Excuses, Failures, Life, Hard Times, Character Building, responsibility for our lives, Excusing bad behavior

'Claim Victory'

DarktoLight wrote 3 weeks ago: ‘If you ever find yourself defending a position, explaining why, or justifying anything, it me … more →

Tags: Life, Quotes, WorDs, Fear, Quotes, Self-Help, Thoughts, Wisdom, Words

Truth in action:Es Verdad on the Road

Lynda Christine Rodriguez wrote 1 month ago: As I have mentioned slightly fewer times than I have mentioned that The Kid is about to graduate fro … more →

Tags: improvisation, Characterization, History, New York Conservatory of Drama, The Frozen Burrito Theory, Truth, lesson plans, Given Circumstances, Objectives

Broken Crown: Mumford & Sins

More Than A Beard wrote 1 month ago: I first heard of Mumford & Sons when my friends Amy and Maria got all giddy over them last fall. … more →

Tags: Forest Johnson, self-righteousness, SWEARING, Hypocrisy, Acknowledging Our Sin

Only His

charlottewain92 wrote 2 months ago: He watched as she slept peacefully; her long dark hair covering her pillow and most of his. This was … more →

Tags: Creative Writing, Flash Fiction, Love, Thoughts, reality, Life, lies, Peace, Work

My latest indulgences!

magesticasfuck wrote 3 months ago: So I thought I’d share with you my little splurge that I had yesterday. It wasn’t a splu … more →

Tags: majesticasfuck, ASOS, Coat, plunge dress, Travelling, Fashion, Style, Expensive, so excited

Dear FOO,7 comments

Hope Wears Heels wrote 3 months ago: Dear FOO, There is so much to say yet I will not waste my breath.  I will write this but you will ne … more →

Tags: healing, FOO (Family of Origin), Crazy, Marriage, Insanity, punishment, abusive dynamic, Blame, afraid

1-23-13 Guest Post by Amanda

Hope Wears Heels wrote 3 months ago: I used to have this really judgmental attitude about abused women. They were weak, uneducated, and o … more →

Tags: Guest Posts, abusive dynamic, afraid, intimidation, Fault, power and control wheel, minimizing, blaming, Abuse

The Aftermath1 comment

Hope Wears Heels wrote 4 months ago: WARNING:  This gets graphic too! Luke left Friday morning. Watching him drive away ripped my heart o … more →

Tags: Coercion and Threats, Emotional Abuse, FOO (Family of Origin), Intimidation, My Childhood., Sexual abuse, Abuse, abuser, abusive dynamic

Soul Carpentry3 comments

Joan wrote 5 months ago: A carpenter uses the word “justify” to mean a process by which something crooked is made … more →

Tags: poetry form-minute, Poetry

The Heart Attack and Family5 comments

Hope Wears Heels wrote 5 months ago: My father had a heart attack.   Once the doctors did all their testing, they decided he needed to ha … more →

Tags: FOO (Family of Origin), Friends 2, Children, abusive dynamic, Excuses, Verbal Abuse, Emotional Abuse, minimizing, boundaries

Can I Quit Now, Please?8 comments

Hope Wears Heels wrote 6 months ago: Sometimes I reread things in my journal and I think, “Wow!  I’m come so far!”  The … more →

Tags: healing, As Life Continues - My Story Now, First Year Divorced, minimizing, permission, Abuse, feelings, Divorce, Friends

Family Court - Round 38 comments

Hope Wears Heels wrote 6 months ago: We knew that if Bubba showed up with my family, I would lose custody.  That morning on the way to cl … more →

Tags: family court, abusive marriage, Crazy, Marriage, Insanity, Parenting, Children, abusive dynamic, married

The Weekend Before Family Court

Hope Wears Heels wrote 6 months ago: After all of our dealing with the Guardian ad Litem (GAL) and the psych evaluator, I was convinced t … more →

Tags: family court, abusive marriage, Marriage, Insanity, punishment, Children, abusive dynamic, afraid, minimizing

Psych Evals AKA Another Form of Torture6 comments

Hope Wears Heels wrote 6 months ago: I had my psychological evaluation (psych eval) a few weeks after our second court date.  The judge h … more →

Tags: Minimizing, Denying, and Blaming, Abuse Using Family and Friends, family court, Crazy, Insanity, Parenting, Children, abusive dynamic, Excuses

Taking Out the Trash2 comments

Hope Wears Heels wrote 7 months ago: My lawyer contacted me about a week after school started.  Bubba’s lawyer had sent him a list … more →

Tags: Minimizing, Denying, and Blaming, In the Middle - My Story, Children, ownership, Blame, intimidation, anger, Abuse, lies

The Sexual Healing Journey - Part 110 comments

Hope Wears Heels wrote 7 months ago: With Liz being off for the month, I’d intended to shut everything down.  I was still good at c … more →

Tags: Sexual abuse, healing, Crazy, punishment, ownership, afraid, intimidation, minimizing, humiliation

Ignorance2 comments

AmazinglyBrash wrote 7 months ago: People see everything and know so much that they know nothing; continuously walking down roads of fu … more →

Tags: The system of Believing, Belief, Hate, Love, worth, Emotions, God, complaining, Self

Mud-Slinging at it's Finest4 comments

Hope Wears Heels wrote 7 months ago: Bubba was very proficient at slinging mud.  He didn’t care who got hit or who got hurt.  He wa … more →

Tags: Abuse Using Family and Friends, family court, Minimizing, Denying, and Blaming, using children, Abuse, abuser, abusive divorce, afraid, anger


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