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<title><![CDATA[Du'a]]></title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 31 Jul 2006 19:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Adapted from a khtubah I did in March, feel free to take and use if it&#8217;s of any benefit&#8230;]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Adapted from a khtubah I did in March, feel free to take and use if it&#8217;s of any benefit&#8230;</p>
<p>I want to remind you of the story that took place of Musa (AS). The situation was such that MUSA (AS) was traveling with Bani ‘Israel and they were in the desert. And they were suffering from a severe draught. So Musa’s people said to him why don’t you Musa beseech Allah for us to shower us with some rain. So Musa then recommends his followers and they collectively make du’a and beseech Allah for rain so that they aren’t destroyed by the lack of such a basic necessity that without Allah they cannot make themselves. And then they turn to the sky and Musa (AS) looks in astonishment that from the sky not a single drop was falling. And not only is there no rain falling upon them but the few clouds that were in the sky have now dispersed. Musa (AS) beseeches Allah SWT again and asks Him why are you not answering our prayers what is it that is preventing our du’as from being answered.</p>
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And Allah (SWT) tells him “Ya Musa there is a man from your community who has been sinning the last 40 years of his life and because of him we are not sending down any rain any mercy upon you. And if you desire for Us to send this mercy down upon you than you must have this man separate from your congregation.”</p>
<p>So Musa (AS) goes back to his people and tells him that the situation that there is a man amongst them whose sins are preventing the entire community from receiving the BARAKAH of Allah (SWT). And he tells that this is what needs to happen, not to put the man in front of everybody to ridicule him, not to expose anybody before the community. BUT MUSA (AS) turns to the entire community and demands them just for the sake of everyone else just act in accordance to what Allah has asked of them.<br />
So as the people now began to whisper to themselves, it is said that this man that is cognizant of the sins that he has committed and the fact that he is the one who has been preventing the mercy of Allah from descending on his community. And now this man turns to Allah and raises his hands and makes du’a asking for Allah’s forgiveness. And He says to Allah “ Oh Allah do not put me in a position where I have to reveal myself to the people,’ He is now thinking to himself that if I step forward than everyone will have knowledge of the sins I committed, and if I don’t step forward everyone in my community will suffer, because of me. And he Raises his hands to Allah SWT and the tears began to fall from his eyes and makes sincere repentance to Allah promising not to turn back to his previous sin. And at that point clouds begin to fill the sky and the rains begin to descend upon them. And Musa (AS) is wondering how is that the rains are coming when no one has step forward to admit guilt. So again he goes back to ALLAH SWT and asks “Oh Allah no one has admitted to these sins, why have you sent the rains down upon us.” And Allah says “Ya Musa there was that man from amongst you, he himself raised his hands to Me and he himself supplicated to me asking for My forgiveness in a sincere manner and I have forgave him and so the rains came down upon you.” And Musa then said to Allah “ Oh Allah who is this man I want to meet him whose du’as are accepted right away. I want to know this man who has this unique capacity that when he raises his hands to you and makes du’a you accept them.” And Allah SWT said to Musa “ I have been hiding this mans sins for the last 40 years, why would I reveal them to you now”</p>
<p>Brothers and Sisters we can take from this story that Allah will cover our sins Allah will hide our sins when we ask him to do so, when we ask His help.<br />
But we must also take from this story that before we can expect anything from Allah we have to be among those people who raise their hands toward Allah. Who ask of Allah SWT. We have to be among those that seek Allah’s help and Allah’s help alone. We have to be among those that are skilled in using this weapon that has been bestowed to us.</p>
<p>It is said that du’a is the weapon of the believer. It is something that is given to them those who believe and have faith in Allah, something unique that they can at anytime establish this connection with Allah SWT to seek His help and seek His Forgiveness. And this is the character of the Prophets peace be upon them that they would turn to Allah anytime they needed something. When Adam (PBUH) was sent out of Jannah, the very first thing he did was beseech Allah (SWT) for His forgiveness, for His Mercy. The Prophet Ibrahim when he left his wife Hajar and his son Isma’il alone in the desert in Makkah in the Qur’an Allah says that he turned around and began to make du’a to Allah that “O Allah I left my progeny, my offspring, my family here in by your sacred house so that they may worship you! And put love for them in peoples hearts, and provide them with fruits so that they may be thankful”</p>
<p>Musa (AS) made du’a in regards to Fir’aun, Yunus (AS) made du’a to Allah when he was in the belly of the whale “La illah ila Allah subhannaka inni kuntu min al thaalimeen” “there is no one worthy of worship except Allah, who is perfect, verily I have been one of the wrongdoers!” This is a prophet of Allah saying this. And Allah has said in the Qur’an that whatever du’a follows this one will be granted.<br />
Allah says in the Qur’an in Surah al-A’raf</p>
<p>Call on your Lord humbly and secretly; surely He does not love those who exceed the limits. And call on Him fearing and hoping; surely the mercy of Allah is with those who do good (to others). And remember your Lord within yourself humbly and fearing and in a voice not loud in the morning and the evening and be not of the heedless ones.</p>
<p>Allah says in the Qur’an in Surah Mu’min<br />
&#8220;And your Lord says: Call upon Me, I will answer you.&#8221;</p>
<p>So you see that it is something that can be used to achieve great things. And indeed it can be used as a weapon, as a means to take on our opponents to fight shaytan and our oppressors. To liberate ourselves from the Shaytans clutches.</p>
<p>Brothers and Sisters it is important to understand the manner in which du’a is to be made. The Prophet (SAW) made du’a in many ways: while in sujood as he recommended as being the place where we are closest to Allah (SWT), with his hands raised when Allah feels shy to not let us put out hands down without giving us something. ALLAHUAKBAR</p>
<p>And it is important that when we make du’a that we make du’a in a language that we understand, so that we are cognizant of what we are saying and can be sincere about it. Because du’a is not the thing that is read off the pages of a book, but is asked from the depths of our hearts.</p>
<p>SECOND KHUTBAH</p>
<p>How many have experienced our du’as being accepted? How many of us realize that that thing which we asked of Allah he has granted us in His infinite Mercy. Now ask yourselves, how many of experience our du’as not being accepted. And we ask Allah why is it my du’a is not being accepted, what is it that is preventing me from receiving Your mercy. And how miserable do we feel when we feel that Allah is ignoring us? When we raise our hands and we don’t receive what we asked for. And we begin to question it, and begin to question Allah. Astughfirullah.</p>
<p>And at that point it is incumbent that we look at ourselves before we look at any other factor, to see why our du’as is not being answered.</p>
<p>The Prophet (SAW) said “ indeed Allah SWT is pure and He does not accept anything that is not Pure”<br />
So if we want our du’as to be accepted than we must make sure that our supplications have an element of purity</p>
<p>The Prophet SAW said referring to the Ayah in the Qur’an, “O People eat of the earth that which is halal and pure” Sa’d ibn abi Waqqas then asked the Prophet SAW “O RasoolAllah (SAW) ask to Allah to make me among those whose du’a is ALWAYS accepted.”</p>
<p>The prophet (SAW) then said “ya Sa’d if you want your du’a to always be accepted, only consume that which is Halaal” That which goes into ur body make sure it is halaal and make sure it is pure and don’t let anything that is note pure even enter ur sytem even that which is doubtful.</p>
<p>Then the Prophet (SAW) said that “Verily by the one who’s hands my soul is in that whosever puts even a morsel of haraam in his body than his deeds and his actions will not be accepted for 40 days. “</p>
<p>By consuming something that is haraam whether it be meat, alcohol, riba or anything else we are relinquishing our right of having this unique connection with Allah SWT. Brother’s and sisters I have not done this subject justice, there is so much more to be said to be understood about du’a.</p>
<p>Brothers and Sisters, Let me look at myself and eliminate from my life that which may be preventing my du’a from being accepted and in turn the du’as of my UMMAH, and brothers and sisters I ask that you do the same.</p>
<p>MAY ALLAH GIVE US THE UNDERSTANDING AND TAWFIQ necessary to incorporate the Qur’an and Sunnah into our lives. May Allah help us to perfect and make sincere our du’as, and May Allah accept our du’as for there is no one who can hear us, for there is no one who can even help us except Him.</p>
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<title><![CDATA[Does Allah Love Us?]]></title>
<link>http://diversatility.wordpress.com/1990/01/01/does-allah-love-us/</link>
<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jan 1990 01:06:43 +0000</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Does Allah Love Us? Transcribed from a khutbah by Ustadh Muhammad AlShareefAfter the Prophet (Sal Al]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><font size="7" face="Perpetua">Does Allah Love Us?<br />
</font></strong><em>Transcribed from a khutbah by <a href="http://ibnalhyderabadee.blogspot.com/2006/04/muhammad-alshareef.html"><font color="#2277dd">Ustadh Muhammad AlShareef</font></a></em>After the Prophet (<em>Sal Allahu alayhi Wa Sallam</em>) passed away, Aboo Idrees Al Khawlanee (d. 80 AH/699-700 CE) in Dimishq (Damascus), went to Masjid Al Kabeer. And in the <em>masjid</em> he saw a group of people sitting around one man. And he described the man as smiling very much and people were sitting around him asking questions. So Aboo Idrees Al Khawlanee asked,</p>
<p>“Who is this man?”</p>
<p>and they answered him saying</p>
<p>“That is <a href="http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/history/biographies/sahaabah/bio.MUADH_IBN_JABAL.html"><font color="#2277dd">Muadh Ibn Jabal</font></a> (<em>Radi Allahu Anhu</em>), the companion of the Prophet (<em>Sal Allahu alayhi Wa Sallam</em>).”</p>
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<p>So Aboo Idrees Al Khawlanee came the next day early in the morning before <em>Salaatul Fajr</em>, and he thought that he was the first one to enter the <em>masjid</em> but there he found Muadh Ibn Jabal (<em>Radi Allahu Anhu</em>) praying in the masjid before <em>Salaat</em>. So Aboo Ibrees came to Muadh and sat behind him and waited for him to complete his prayer. After Muadh completed his prayer, Abu Idrees went to him and said to him,</p>
<p>“Oh Muadh! I love you for the sake of Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>)!”</p>
<p>Muadh Ibn Jabal (<em>Radi Allahu Anhu</em>) pulled Aboo Idrees closer and he asked him,</p>
<p>“<em>Aal la hu Lillah?</em>” “By Allah do you love me only for the sake of Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>)?”</p>
<p>So Aboo Idrees said,</p>
<p>“Yes!”</p>
<p>So Muadh Ibn Jabal (<em>Radi Allahu Anhu</em>) smiled and pulled him closer and said to him,</p>
<p>“Let me give you the good news for verily I heard the Prophet (<em>Sal Allahu alayhi Wa Sallam</em>) say, “Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) said,<br />
“<em>Wajabat Muhabbati Li Mutahaabina fiya</em>”<br />
“My love is <em>wajib</em> upon those who love for my sake””<br />
<em>(This narration is similar to the one found in Muwatta Imam Malik(Book 51, Number 51.5.1</em><em>5</em><em>) except the one in the Muwatta says Salaatud Dhuhr instead of Salaatul Fajr)<br />
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<p>Brothers and Sisters throughout history people have claimed that they love Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) and Allah loves them. The Christians claim that Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em> ) loves them but Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) calls them</p>
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<p align="center"><strong>وَلاَ الضَّالِّين</strong></p>
<p align="center">“The Misguided” (S1.V7)</p>
<p>and the Jews claim that they love Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) but Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) says about them</p>
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<p align="center"><strong>غَيرِ المَغضُوبِ عَلَيهِمْ</strong></p>
<p align="center">“Those whom Allah is angry with”.(S1.V7)</p>
<p>And so Muslims also claim that they love Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>). But the fact that Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) loves us, is the real question. Does Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) truly love us?</p>
<p>In Sahih Al Bukhari, the Prophet (<em>Sal Allahu alayhi Wa Sallam</em>) says “When Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) loves someone he calls Jibreel and Allah then says</p>
<p>“<em>Ya Jibreel! Inni uhibbu fulan</em>!” “Oh Jibreel! I love such and such a person, so love him!”</p>
<p>and Allah names that person and then Jibreel loves that person. Then Jibreel calls out to all the angels of the heavens and he says,</p>
<p>“Allah loves so and so, so love him!”, so all the angels love him. And then Allah places the pleasure of in the hearts of the people towards this person!”</p>
<p>The Prophet said in another narration of this <em>hadeeth,</em></p>
<p>“The slave will continue to try to win the pleasure of Allah, he will try to win the love of Allah until Allah calls Jibreel and says to him, “Oh Jibreel! My slave so and so is trying to please me, verily my love has overcome him!”</p>
<p>Indeed the Prophet (<em>Sal Allahu alayhi Wa Sallam</em>) told us in the Quran and the Sunnah about many people that Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) loved. In the Quran we find many stories of people that Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) loved. And amongst the greatest people that Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) loved was Ibraheen (<em>Alayhis Salaam</em>). Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em> ) said ,</p>
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<p align="center"><strong>وَاتَّخَذَ اللّهُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ خَلِيلاً</strong></p>
<p align="center">“And Allah took Ibraheem as a <em>Khalil</em>(close and dear friend)” (S4.V125)</p>
<p>When one of the companions heard the Prophet (<em>Sal Allahu alayhi Wa Sallam</em>) recite this in <em>salaah</em>, he said to the Prophet (<em>Sal Allahu alayhi Wa Sallam</em>),</p>
<p>“May coolness of her eyes be the mother of Ibraheem. For who wouldn’t love for their son to be taken as the <em>Khalil</em> of Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>).””</p>
<p>And from the people that Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) loved was Ayyub (<em>Alayhis Salaam</em>)<br />
Allah said,</p>
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<p align="center"><strong>إِنَّا وَجَدْنَاهُ صَابِرًا</strong></p>
<p align="center">“We found him to be patient”</p>
<p align="left">and then Allah said</p>
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<p align="center"><strong>نِعْمَ الْعَبْ</strong></p>
<p align="center">“What a beautiful(blessed) slave he is”</p>
<p>And form the people that Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) loved is in Sahih Muslim, the Prophet (<em>Sal Allahu alayhi Wa Sallam</em>) told us that a man went out once to visit his brother for the sake of Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>). And on his path Allah sent an angel and the angel asked him where are you going , and he said</p>
<p>“I am going to visit my brother for the sake of Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em> )”</p>
<p>and the angel asked him</p>
<p>“Do you have any other reason to go to his house?”</p>
<p>then he said</p>
<p>“I am going for no other reason than for the sake of Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em> )”</p>
<p>Then the angel said</p>
<p>“Verily I give you the good news, I am an angel form Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em> ) with a message from Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) that He loves you!”</p>
<p>And form the people that Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) loved was <a href="http://www.ancient-history.nl/Islam/Companions%20of%20the%20Prophet/Khadija%20bint%20Khuwaylid.htm"><font color="#2277dd">Khadija</font></a> (<em>Radi Allahu Anha</em>). In Sahih Al Bukhari the Prophet (<em>Sal Allahu alayhi Wa Sallam</em>) was sitting with Jibreel reciting the Quran and Khadija (<em>Radi Allahu Anha</em>) came. Jibreel turned to Khadija and said</p>
<p>“This is Khadija bringing you some food. Give her my salaam!”</p>
<p>This is Jibreel (<em>Alayhis Salaam</em>) saying give my salaam to Khadija (<em>Radi Allahu Anha</em>) and then he said</p>
<p>“Give her the glad tidings of a home in paradise!”</p>
<p>What happens when Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em> ) loves us?</p>
<p>Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) first and foremost will mention the name of the person, <em>fulan ibn fulan</em>, and then Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) will call to Jibreel and tell him that he loves this person. Not only will Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) love this person but also Jibreel will love this person. Not only Jibreel but also the angels of the heavens and the earth will love this person. And then Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) will put the pleasure in the hearts of the people towards this person.</p>
<p>And if that person was to ask anything, Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) would grant what he asks for. And if he seeks refuge in Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) from anything, Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) will protect him. And a person whose case is such, his end is definitely <em>Jannah</em>.</p>
<p>And Brothers and Sisters on the same side of this <em>hadeeth</em> we also have to be aware and fear gaining the wrath of Allah. We also have to beware of the people who gain the anger of Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>). On the same side of this <em>hadeeth</em> the Prophet (<em>Sal Allahu alayhi Wa Sallam</em>) said that a person would continue to anger Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) and disobey Allah, until Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) will hate that person. And Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) will call to Jibreel and Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) will tell Jibreel “Oh Jibreel! My servant so and so is continuing to anger me and my anger has overcome him.”</p>
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<p align="center"><strong>Part II</strong></p>
<p>I was listening to a tape once and a man or the <em>shaykh</em> was talking about stories and <em>hadeeth</em> dealing with children. And one of the stories that he mentioned was about the Prophet (<em>Sal Allahu alayhi Wa Sallam</em>) playing with children. The Prophet (<em>Sal Allahu alayhi Wa Sallam</em>) was playing with Al Husayn and then he raised him up for people to see and he said,</p>
<p>“Allah will love those who love Al Husayn!”</p>
<p>So it got me thinking what other ways from the Quran and Sunnah that we can do to get Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) to love us, to gain Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>)’s love. From this Ibn Al Qayyim (<em>Rahimullah</em>) wrote different ways we gain Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>)’s love. And I will mention those things that he wrote.</p>
<p>Firstly, we need to take advantage of the third portion of the night. The Prophet (<em>Sal Allahu alayhi Wa Sallam</em>) said,</p>
<p>“Every night Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) comes down to the <em>Samaa’ Ad Dunya</em> and he calls out to the people “Is there anyone who will ask for <em>dua’a</em>, so I may accept their <em>dua’a</em>! Is there anyone who will ask for forgiveness, so I shall forgive them!””</p>
<p>So we should take advantage of this in praying <em>Qiyaam Ul Layl</em> (Voluntary Night Prayer).</p>
<p>We should also remember Allah often. Whenever we are commuting to work or standing in a line somewhere its always our chance to remember Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>). Allah says,</p>
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<p align="center"><strong>فَاذْكُرُونِي أَذْكُرْكُمْ وَاشْكُرُواْ لِي وَلاَ تَكْفُرُونِ</strong></p>
<p align="center">“Remember me and I shall remember you” (S2.V152)</p>
<p>And who does not want Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) to remember them???</p>
<p>We should read the Quran with understanding. Read what Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) revealed to us for our life and for our death. Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) says,</p>
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<p align="center"><strong>أَفَلاَ يَتَدَبَّرُونَ الْقُرْآنَ</strong></p>
<p align="center">“Will they not contemplate the Quran?” (S4.V82)</p>
<p>and Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) says,</p>
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<p align="center"><strong>كِتَابٌ أَنزَلْنَاهُ إِلَيْكَ مُبَارَكٌ لِّيَدَّبَّرُوا آيَاتِهِ وَلِيَتَذَكَّرَ أُوْلُوا الْأَلْبَابِ</strong></p>
<p align="center">“A book we sent down <em>mubarik</em>, so that they may contemplate its verses.” (S38.V29)</p>
<p>We should sit and be with those people who truly love Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) and spend our time with them. In Surat Al Kahf, Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) says,</p>
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<p align="center"><strong>سَيَقُولُونَ ثَلَاثَةٌ رَّابِعُهُمْ كَلْبُهُمْ وَيَقُولُونَ خَمْسَةٌ سَادِسُهُمْ كَلْبُهُمْ رَجْمًا بِالْغَيْبِ وَيَقُولُونَ سَبْعَةٌ وَثَامِنُهُمْ كَلْبُهُمْ</strong></p>
<p align="center">“(Some) say they were three, the <strong>dog</strong> being the fourth among them; (others) say they were five, the <strong>dog</strong> being the sixth,- doubtfully guessing at the unknown; (yet others) say they were seven, the <strong>dog</strong> being the eighth.” (S18.V22)</p>
<p>Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) mentions the dog of the <em>ahl al kahf</em> (people of the cave). Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em> ) in this verse mentions the dog so many times. The scholars have said that look at the position of the dog in this life, and he has no position to remember but this dog out of all the dogs was mentioned in the Quran so many times. why? It was because of the companions that the dog had, the companions that he was with. So if a dog is going to be mentioned in the Quran so many times, you can imagine when someone spends his time with the people that Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em> ) loves, how much his level will be raised just because of that companionship that he chose to take. As the Prophet (<em>Sal Allahu alayhi Wa Sallam</em>) taught us, that good companion is like a person who sells musk, even if the companion doesn’t give you any musk, you are going to benefit form the smell and fragrance of the musk.</p>
<p>We should love to meet Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>). The Prophet (<em>Sal Allahu alayhi Wa Sallam</em>) said</p>
<p>“Whoever loves to meet Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>), Allah loves to meet them!”</p>
<p>And no doubt if someone is going to love to meet Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) they will do good for that meeting, they will prepare for that meeting. They will love to meet Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) because they have prepared themselves in the obedience of Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>). And a person will not love to meet Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) only because they didn’t prepare to meet Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>), they spent their life in disobedience to Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>). They will not love to meet Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>), and Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) will not love to meet that person.</p>
<p>We should push away everything that stands between us and Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) and Allah’s Messenger (<em>Sal Allahu alayhi Wa Sallam</em>). And so when we go to our houses, the different disobediences that we do towards Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) are things that are standing between us and Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>)’s love and we have to critically look at the thing that we are doing and take it and extract it out of our lives.</p>
<p>We should always put the <em>Sunnah</em> of <em>RasoolAllah</em> (<em>Sal Allahu alayhi Wa Sallam</em>) in front of us. We should always put the wishes of the Prophet (<em>Sal Allahu alayhi Wa Sallam</em>) before our wishes. Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) revealed in the Quran,</p>
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<p align="center"><strong>قُلْ إِن كُنتُمْ تُحِبُّونَ اللّهَ فَاتَّبِعُونِي يُحْبِبْكُمُ اللّهُ وَيَغْفِرْ لَكُمْ ذُنُوبَكُمْ وَاللّهُ غَفُورٌ رَّحِيمٌ</strong></p>
<p align="center">“Say if you love Allah, then follow me. Allah will love you and forgive your sins” (S3.V21)</p>
<p>We should make patience a part of our character. As they say, a person who continues to do something he will be known for that which he does. When a person is patient in his dealings in his home and at his work, then he becomes <em>sabir</em> (the patient). And Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) tells us of those who are patient and</p>
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<p align="center"><strong>إِنَّ اللّهَ مَعَ الصَّابِرِينَ</strong></p>
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<p align="center">“Allah loves those who are patient” (S2.V153)</p>
<p>We should learn Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>)’s <em>Asma Was Sifaat</em>. We should learn the names of Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) and his characteristics. So when we read in the Quran Ar Rahman we hope Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) has mercy on us. And when we read Allah is <em>As Sami’</em> and <em>Al Baseer</em>, that he is Allah Hearing and All Seeing, so when we go to disobey Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) and we think that we are in private we will know that Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) can see us. And when we read in the Quran that Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) is <em>Shadeed Al Iqaab</em>, He is severe in punishment, when we are going to disobey Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) we will remember this that He is severe in punishment and we will abstain form the disobedience of Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>).</p>
<p>We should continue in doing our <em>nawaafil</em> (voluntary acts). The Prophet (<em>Sal Allahu alayhi Wa Sallam</em>) says that Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) says in a <em>hadeeth qudsi</em>,</p>
<p>“The slave will continue to come close to me in voluntary deeds until I love him”</p>
<p>In the <em>sharh</em> (explanation) of this <em>hadeeth</em>, the scholars have said these are voluntary acts of all kinds. Voluntary acts of the tongue and the limbs.</p>
<p>A poet once said,<br />
“How can you disobey Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) and you claim that you love Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>).<br />
This is very strange and very unique in a way of understanding.<br />
If your love of Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>) was true you would have obeyed Allah (<em>Sub’haanahu Wa Ta’ala</em>).<br />
Verily the person who loves someone else will follow that person.”</p>
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<title><![CDATA[The Day We Lost Our Masjid]]></title>
<link>http://diversatility.wordpress.com/1990/01/01/the-day-we-lost-our-masjid-2/</link>
<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jan 1990 01:05:26 +0000</pubDate>
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<guid>http://diversatility.wordpress.com/1990/01/01/the-day-we-lost-our-masjid-2/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[THE DAY WE LOST OUR MASJID In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for his forgiv]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p align="center"><strong><font size="6" face="Arial,helvetica,geneva,sans-serif">THE DAY WE LOST OUR MASJID</font></strong></p>
<p><span><font size="2">In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for his forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray none can guide them aright. I bear witness that there is no god but Allah, alone, and I bear witness that Muhammad is his servant and Messenger.</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">Do you know the last public place that the Messenger of Allah &#8211; Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; was seen? He was seen in the Masjid. About 3 days before he passed away, Abu Bakr &#8211; Radi Allaahu Anhu &#8211; was leading the prayer and the Masjid was full with an Ummah of men and women prepared to illuminate the world with their Jihad and da&#8217;wah. The Prophet&#8217;s house opened up to the Masjid and there was a curtain separating his room and the prayer hall. He opened the curtain and saw the congregation and saw he&#8217;s Khalifah Abu Bakr &#8211; RadiAllaahu Anhu &#8211; leading the prayer. The Prophet &#8211; SalAllaahu Alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; smiled like a moon.</font></span></p>
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<p><span><font size="2">The companions saw him while they were in prayer, and from their happiness, almost lost control of the prayer. The Prophet &#8211; Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; then drew his curtain and three days later returned to his Lord &#8211; Subhaanahu wa Ta &#8216;Aala.</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">During the life of the Prophet &#8211; Sal Allaahu Alayhi waSallam &#8211; there was a women who used to sweep the Masjid with her hands, picking up the dirt and disposing of it. In the sight of the community her status was not that high, but in the sight of Allah and her Messenger &#8211; SalAllaahu Alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; she held a different rank. She passed away one night and the Companions, not wanting to disturb the Prophet &#8211; Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa Sallam, washed and buried her without informing him. The next day, the Prophet &#8211; Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; recognized her absence and inquired about her. They told him about her demise and how they did not want to disturb him. The Prophet &#8211; Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; was not happy at the action they took. He went to her grave and prayed for her there. </font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">What is a Masjid? Many have misunderstood the role the Masjid plays in the development of the Community. In some countries, it is a place where the tribal imam is buried and worshipped. In other places, it is a place that only prayers may be performed therein, absolutely nothing else will be tolerated. And in yet other places, not even prayers are performed in it, so-much-so the country may finally decide to convert it into a museum or a church.</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">Dear brother and sister, I would like to introduce you to our friend, the Masjid:</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">Literally, Masjid means a place of prostration. Technically, Masjid is any clean place on earth, as the Messenger of Allah &#8211; Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; said, &#8220;The earth was made for me a MASJID (i.e. a place to pray), pure.&#8221; &#8211; Bukhari.</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">However, custom allocated to the word Masjid a specific place, the place where the 5 daily prayers are held. This was done in order to distinguish the Masjid from the Musallah, the place where Eid prayers are held and so forth, so that the rules of the Masjid do not apply to it.</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">Masjid is a word derived from sujood, or prostration. The Masjid, or place of prostration, was such named due the honourable position the sujood holds in Salah. Thus it was not called Marka&#8217; derived from Ruku&#8217; and so on.</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">The first house of Allah ever built on earth was the Ka&#8217;bah. Allah &#8211; Subhaanahu wa Ta &#8216;Aala &#8211; says: [Verily, the first House (of worship) appointed for mankind was that at Bakkah (Makkah), full of blessing, and a guidance for Al-Aalameen] &#8211; 3/96.</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">And Allah &#8211; Subhaanahu wa Ta &#8216;Aala &#8211; commanded us to honor and enliven the Masjid with His rememberance: [In houses (masajid), which Allah has ordered to be raised, in them His name is glorified in the mornings, and in the evenings.] Noor 24/36. </font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">Ibn Abbaas, Mujahid, and Al-Hasan commented: The &#8216;houses&#8217; are those Masajid that were dedicated to the worship of Allah. And verily, the Masajid light up the earth for the inhabitants of the heavens, just as stars light up the heavens for the inhabitants of the earth.</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">Everyone wants to build a retirement home to be proud of. Let them listen to this offer. The Messenger of Allah &#8211; Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; said, &#8220;Whoever builds a Masjid, seeking the pleasure of Allah, Allah shall build a house for him in Paradise.&#8221; -Bukhari.</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">He also &#8211; Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; said, &#8220;The most beloved places to Allah on earth are the Masajid, and the most hated places to Allah on earth are the Markets.&#8221; &#8211; Muslim.</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">The Masjid played a variety of roles in our history. Following is a short tour of some of the roles that the Masjid played:</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">Children. The Masjid was a place where the children would accompany their parents and grow up under the shade of it&#8217;s walls. Abu Qataadah narrated that the Messenger of Allah &#8211; Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; used to pray and carry Umamah the daughter of Zaynab. When he would fall into prostration, he would rest her aside. And when he stood up again, he would again pick her up. &#8211; Bukhari.</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">Education. The Masjid was the nucleus of education. Throughout history, the Masjid was the university that graduated scholars and imams. To name only a few, there was the Masjid of Al-Azhar, Masjid Al-Umawee in Syria, and Masjid Az-Zaytoonah in Tunis.</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">The Prophet &#8211; Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; said, &#8220;No gathering gathers in a house from the houses of Allah, reciting the book of Allah and teaching it to one another, except that serenity befalls them, Mercy envelops them, the angels surround them and Allah mentions them to (the inhabitants of the heavens).&#8221; &#8211; Muslim</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">Organization. The Masjid is where hundreds of Muslims come, all in straight rows, all following the lead of Allahu Akbar, all beginning when the Imam begins, all ending when the Imam ends.</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">Shelter for the weak and traveling. In Masjid An-Nabawi, we know that there was a platform, known as the Suffah. There the poor and the strangers would find shelter and the Messenger of Allah &#8211; Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; would grant them shares of the collected charity.</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">Solicializing. The Masjid is where the Muslims would meet one another. When someone missed a prayer, he was followed up. Relationships were reared, brotherhood was built.</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">Think tank. When important issues came up, the Prophet &#8211; Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; would gather the Companions in the Masjid and consult them in the matter.</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">Charity. The charity would be collected and distributed from the Masjid. It was in the Masjid that the Prophet &#8211; Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; said, &#8220;Give, if only with a half a date.&#8221;</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">Jihad. It was from the Masjid that battalions were organized and set off for Jihad. During the crusades, many Masajid became the podium for inciting the feelings of the Muslims to fight off the transgression.</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">Serenity. Whenever the Prophet &#8211; Sal Allaahu Alayhi waSallam &#8211; felt sad he would go and pray. And he &#8211; SalAllaahu Alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; would say to Bilal, &#8220;Relax us with (the prayer) O Bilal.&#8221;</font></span></p>
<p><span><strong><font size="3">THE RIGHTS OF THE MASJID</font></strong></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">The Masjid is the house of Allah &#8211; Subhaanahu wa Ta &#8216;Aala &#8211; and it has rights like anything else. Amongst these rights are the following:</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">Firstly: When someone enters the Masjid, they should pray 2 rakas before sitting down. The Prophet &#8211; SalAllaahu Alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; said, &#8220;If any of you enters the Masjid, let him not sit down until he prays 2 rakas.&#8221;</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">Secondly: No business should take place in the Masjid. The Messenger of Allah &#8211; Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; said, &#8220;Whoever sells in the Masjid, say to them: May Allah not grant success in your sale.&#8221;</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">Thirdly: The Masjid must be kept clean and fresh smelling. The Prophet &#8211; Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; said, &#8220;Whoever eats from this tree (i.e. Garlic) should not attend our place of prayer.&#8221; </font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">Fourthly: Advice should be given to fellow Muslims. When the Prophet &#8211; Sal Allaahu Alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; would see someone not praying correctly he would advise them to repeat their prayer and teach them how to pray.</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">Fifthly: Allah &#8211; Subhaanahu wa Ta &#8216;Aala &#8211; should be remembered much during one&#8217;s stay in the Masjid. As Allah &#8211; Subhaanahu wa Ta &#8216;Aala &#8211; says [O ye who believe, remember Allah with much remembrance.] &#8211; Ahzab 33/42.</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">And finally, Allah &#8211; Subhaanahu wa Ta &#8216;Aala &#8211; tells us of the kind of people that are recognized as the people of the Masjid. [In it are men that love to purify themselves, And Allah loves those who make themselves pure.] &#8211; Towbah 9/108.</font></span></p>
<p><span><font size="2">May Allah &#8211; Subhaanahu wa Ta &#8216;Aala &#8211; give us the blessing of being amongst those that establish the Masjid and are included amongst those whom Allah &#8211; Subhaanahu wa Ta &#8216;Aala &#8211; loves.</font></span></p>
<p><span><em><strong><font size="1">by Muhammad Alshareef</font></strong></em></span></p>
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<title><![CDATA[What Can You Do in 10 Minutes?]]></title>
<link>http://diversatility.wordpress.com/1990/01/01/what-can-you-do-in-10-minutes/</link>
<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jan 1990 01:04:36 +0000</pubDate>
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<guid>http://diversatility.wordpress.com/1990/01/01/what-can-you-do-in-10-minutes/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[What can you do in 10 minutes? Compiled by Muhammad Alshareef Bismillaah Ar-Rahmaan Ar-RaheemHere is]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><font face="Arial">What can you do in 10 minutes?</font></strong><br />
<font face="Arial,Helvetica">Compiled by Muhammad Alshareef</font></p>
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<font face="Arial,Helvetica">Bismillaah Ar-Rahmaan Ar-Raheem</font><font face="Arial,Helvetica">Here is a list of 10 things that would not take more then 10 minutes of our time. And if we knew what good these actions bring for our happiness in this life and the next, we would spend our life in dedication to these deeds:</font></p>
<p><font face="Arial,Helvetica">&#8220;All work is as a seed sown; it grows and spreads and sows itself anew.&#8221;</font></p>
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<p><strong><font face="Arial,Helvetica">10. Pray 2 Rakahs (Salatul Duha) anytime after sunrise and before Dhuhr</font></strong></p>
<p><font face="Arial,Helvetica">Abu Hurayrah &#8211; radi Allahu &#8216;anhu &#8211; said, &#8220;My Khaleel &#8211; Allah&#8217;s Messenger sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; advised me to do three things (1) That I fast 3 days of each month and (2) To pray 2 rakahs of Duha and (3) That I do my witr before sleeping.&#8221; &#8211; Bukhari and Muslim</font></p>
<p><strong><font face="Arial,Helvetica">9. Pray for Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam</font></strong></p>
<p><font face="Arial,Helvetica">He &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; said, &#8220;Whoever prays for me once, Allah blesses that person 10 times (because of that prayer).&#8221; &#8211; Muslim</font></p>
<p><strong><font face="Arial,Helvetica">8. Repeat what the Mu&#8217;adhdhin is saying</font></strong></p>
<p><font face="Arial,Helvetica">Abdullah ibn Amr narrates: a man said, &#8220;O Messenger of Allah, the ones that call the people to prayer receive more reward than us.&#8221; So Allah&#8217;s Messenger &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; replied, &#8220;Say what they say, then when you finish pray for anything and you shall be given it.&#8221; &#8211; Abu Dawood</font></p>
<p><strong><font face="Arial,Helvetica">7. Say &#8216;Subhan Allah &#8211; How far Allah is from imperfection!&#8217; 100 times</font></strong></p>
<p><font face="Arial,Helvetica">Mus&#8217;ab ibn Sa&#8217;d said: My father told me that he was with Allah&#8217;s Messenger &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; when he remarked, &#8220;Does any one of you not have the ability to attain 1000 good deeds (hasanaat) every day? Let him do tasbeeh (Subhan Allah!) 100 times, it will be written for him 1000 hasanat or 1000 sins will be wiped from his record.&#8221; &#8211; Muslim</font></p>
<p><strong><font face="Arial,Helvetica">6. Play with your children for the sake of Allah</font></strong></p>
<p><font face="Arial,Helvetica">Jabir narrates: We were with Allah&#8217;s Messenger &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; invited for a meal when we passed al-Husayn playing in the alley with some Ansar children. Allah&#8217;s Messenger &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; walked a little faster to go and play with him. He stuck out his hand to take him, but Al-Husayn ran here and there squealing gleefully until Allah&#8217;s Messenger caught him. Then he &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; held his chin with one hand and his head with the other and kissed Al-Husayn and hugged him. &#8211; A sound hadith narrated by Bukhari in al adab al mufrad</font></p>
<p><strong><font face="Arial,Helvetica">5. Make Dua&#8217; often during times of ease</font></strong></p>
<p><font face="Arial,Helvetica">Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; said, &#8220;Whoever it pleases that Allah answers his supplications during times of calamity and hardship, let him increase his supplication amidst the times of ease.&#8221; &#8211; narrated by Tirmidhi and Al Hakim who classified it as authentic.</font><br />
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<p><strong><font face="Arial,Helvetica">BONUS: Say the Dhikr after Making Wudu</font></strong><br />
<font face="Arial,Helvetica">Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; said, &#8220;If anyone of you, after perfecting his Wudu, says, &#8216;Ash hadu An Laa ilaaha illa Allah, Wa Ash hadu Anna Muhammadan &#8216;Abduhu wa Rasooluh- I bear witness that there is no god but Allah and that Muhammad is his slave and the eight gates of Jannah will open for him and he will permitted to enter from whichever he wishes</font><br />
<font face="Arial,Helvetica">Narrated by Muslim</font></p>
<p><strong><font face="Arial,Helvetica">(4) Pick up the phone to call your mother (or a close  relative) and tell them that you love them</font></strong></p>
<p><font face="Arial,Helvetica">Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; said, &#8220;The Wasil  (One who fulfils the rights of his ties of kinship) is not the one who does good when family members do good (and bad when they are badstyle The Wasil is the one who, when family members cut him off he does good to them.&#8221; &#8211; Interpretation of a Bukhari Hadith.</font></p>
<p><strong><font face="Arial,Helvetica">(3) Take a few minutes to stop and contemplate Allah&#8217;s  amazing creation of your eyes, voice, and entire body</font></strong></p>
<p><font face="Arial,Helvetica">Allah says in the Qur&#8217;an: [And on the earth are signs for the  certain (in faithin yourselves, will you not see (and  contemplate).]</font><br />
<font face="Arial,Helvetica">- Surah AdhDhariyaat 51/20,21</font></p>
<p><strong><font face="Arial,Helvetica">(2)Share a part of your lunch with someone</font></strong></p>
<p><font face="Arial,Helvetica">Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; said, &#8220;Oh Abu Dharr! If you cook any soup increase it&#8217;s water; then look to your neighbors and give them some of it.&#8221; Narrated by Muslim</font></p>
<p><font face="Arial,Helvetica">And the number one deed you can do in less then 10 minutes&#8230;</font></p>
<p><strong><font face="Arial,Helvetica">Make Du&#8217;a for your brother in his absence</font></strong><br />
<font face="Arial,Helvetica">Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; said, &#8220;If a  person prays for his (or her) brother in their absence (without them knowing), an Angel (hears the Du&#8217;a) and replies: &#8216;Aameen! And may Allah give you the same.&#8217; &#8211; narrated by Ahmad, Abu Dawood and Tirmidhi</font></p>
<p><font face="Arial,Helvetica">In fact, whenever the Sahaabah and Taabi&#8217;een wanted their Du&#8217;a to be answered quickly, they would ask the same thing for their brother in order to get the angel to reply, &#8216;Aameen! And may Allah give you the same.&#8217;</font></p>
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<title><![CDATA[Muslim Family Values]]></title>
<link>http://diversatility.wordpress.com/1990/01/01/muslim-family-values/</link>
<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jan 1990 01:03:13 +0000</pubDate>
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<guid>http://diversatility.wordpress.com/1990/01/01/muslim-family-values/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[By Muhammad Alshreef The family is the cornerstone of Muslim society. Islam bases the family atmosph]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>By Muhammad Alshreef </strong>The family is the cornerstone of Muslim society. Islam bases the family atmosphere on sacrifice, love, loyalty and obedience, grand parents are also part of the extended Muslim family. How does Islam organize the husband-wife relationship and parent-child relationship?</p>
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<p>Qur’an in Surah-Ar-Room Ayah 21 defines the husband-wife relationship as follows:</p>
<p>And among His Signs is this that He created for you mates from among yourselves that ye may dwell in tranquility with them and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts); verily in that are Signs for those who reflect.</p>
<p>Prophet Muhammad PBUH also stressed these meanings: “The best among you are those who are best to their families, and I am the best of you to my family.”</p>
<p>He also said “only the evil one abuse them, means women, and the honored one is he who honors them.”</p>
<p>When someone asked him that who was most worthy of his good companionship, the prophet PBUH answered “your mother, your mother, your mother and then your father”</p>
<p>According to another Hadith: Paradise lies under the feet of mothers.</p>
<p>The Qur’an refers to parent –child relationship in four places. Before asking children to be good and loyal to their parents, it requires parents to raise them with great care and to do their duty before asking for their rights.</p>
<p>In Surah-e-Luqman Allah SWT says: Ayahs 12-19</p>
<p>And we gave Luqman wisdom saying ‘Give thanks to Allah SWT, for whosoever gives thanks gives thanks for his soul. And whoever disbelieves, Allah is All-Independent, Worthy of praise.</p>
<p>When Luqman said to his son while exhorting him: O’ my dear son, ascribe no partner to Allah, for doing so is a tremendous wrong. We have enjoined upon man to be careful of his parents. His mother bears him in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two years. So give thanks to Me and to your parents, for unto Me is the return. But if they strive with you to make you ascribe to Me as partner that of which you have no knowledge, do not obey them, but deal with them nicely in the world and follow the path of him turns in repentance to Me.</p>
<p>Then to Me will be your return, and I shall tell you what you used to do. O’ my son, though it be the weight of a grain of mustard seed, and though it be in a rock, or in the heavens or in the earth, Allah will bring it forth, for He is subtle, Aware. O’ my son establish prayer, enjoin goodness, forbid evil and bear with patience whatever may befall you, for that is the steadfast heart of things.</p>
<p>Do not turn your cheek in scorn towards people or walk with pretenses, for Allah does not love those who boast. Be modest in your bearing and subdue your voice, for the harshest voice is that of the donkey.</p>
<p>Surah-Luqman 12-19.</p>
<p>These verses provide Muslim parents with guideline about how to raise their children.</p>
<p>If they ignore them, then they can expect rebellion and hatred from their children.</p>
<p>The parent’s rights are also spelled out: In Surah Bani Israel 23-25. Allah SWT says “Your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him and that (you show) kindness to parents. If one or both of them reach old age with you , do not say ‘oof’ to them or repulse them, but speak to them a gracious word.</p>
<p>Lower to them the wing of submission through mercy and say : ‘My Lord have mercy on them for they cared for me when I was little.’ Your Lord is best aware of what is in yourselves. If you are righteous, He was ever forgiving unto those who turn unto Him.’</p>
<p>These Qur’anic injunctions clearly show the Islamic parent–child relationship as one based upon belief in Allah, feeling that He observes whatever we do, and knowing that we are accountable to Him even for disrespecting our parents out of anger. The third reference to this relationship is described in Sura-e-Ahqaf verse 15-16, Allah SWT says:</p>
<p>We have enjoined on man Kindness to his parents: in pain did his mother bear him and in pain did she give him birth. The carrying of the (child) to his weaning is (a period of) thirty months. At length when he reaches the age of full strength and attains forty years he says &#8220;O my Lord! grant me that I may be grateful for Thy favor which Thou hast bestowed upon me and upon both my parents and that I may work righteousness such as Thou mayest approve; and be gracious to me in my issue. Truly have I turned to Thee and truly do I bow (to Thee) in Islam.</p>
<p>Such are they from whom We shall accept the best of their deeds and pass by their ill deeds: (they shall be) among the Companions of the Garden: a promise of truth which was made to them (in this life).</p>
<p>The Qur’an then turns to other category of children, those who are disbelievers and thus ungrateful to their parents: In Surah-Al-Ahqaf verse 17 Allah SWT says:</p>
<p>“But (there is one) who says to his parents &#8220;Fie on you! Do ye hold out the promise to me that I shall be raised up even though generations have passed before me (without rising again)? “And they too seek Allah&#8217;s aid (and rebuke the son): &#8220;Woe to thee! Have Faith! For the promise of Allah is true.&#8221; But he says &#8220;This is nothing but tales of the ancients!&#8221;</p>
<p>Commenting on this attitude, Allah SWT says in Surah –Al-Ahqaf verse 18-19:</p>
<p>“Such are they against whom is proved the Sentence among the previous generations of Jinn’s and men that have passed away; for they will be (utterly) lost.</p>
<p>And to all are (assigned) degrees according to the deeds which they (have done) and in order that (Allah) may reward their deeds and no injustice be done to them” The fourth and last reference is: Surah-Al-Ankaboot verse 8 Allah SWT says:</p>
<p>“We have enjoined on man kindness to parents: but if they (either of them) strive (to force) thee to join with Me (in worship) anything of which thou hast no knowledge obey them not. Ye have (all) to return to Me and I will tell you (the truth) of all that ye did.”</p>
<p>This verse refers to unbelieving parents who still have the right to expect their Muslim children’s obedience in all matters expect rebelling against Allah SWT.</p>
<p>Since the family is the cornerstone of society, happiness and prosperity will be achieved only if parents and children are committed to the Qur’anic guidance, the only guidance that has proved successful.</p>
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<description><![CDATA[The Call of Ibrahim By Muhammad Al-Shareef When Ibrahim (Alaihis salaam) completed the structure of]]></description>
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<p><font size="2" face="Verdana">By Muhammad Al-Shareef </font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="Verdana">When Ibrahim (Alaihis salaam) completed the structure of the Ka’bah, Allah (Subhanahu wa ta’ala) commanded him to call the people to Hajj. Ibrahim (Alaihis salaam) pleaded, “O Allah! How shall my voice reach all of those people?” Allah (Subhanahu wa ta’ala) told him that his duty was only to give the call and it was up to Allah to make it reach the people. <br />
Ibrahim (Alaihis salaam) then climbed Mount Arafat and called out in his loudest voice, “O People! Verily Allah has prescribed upon you Hajj, so perform Hajj.” <br />
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Allah (Subhanahu wa ta’ala) revealed in the Qur’an: “And proclaim the Hajj among mankind. They will come to thee on foot and (mounted) on every camel, lean on account of journeys through deep and distant mountain highways” (Surat Al-Hajj, Ayat 28). <br />
To this very day millions upon millions of Muslims continue to answer the call of Prophet Ibrahim (Alaihis salaam). Perhaps this year you shall be amongst those who answer the call. </p>
<p>‘Amr ibn Al-‘Aas narrates, “When Islam entered my heart, I went to the Messenger of Allah and said, ‘Give me your hand so that I may pledge allegiance to you.’ The Prophet spread his hand, but I withdrew mine. He said, ‘What is wrong ‘Amr?’ I said, ‘I want to make a condition.’ ‘And what is that?’ he said. I said, ‘That Allah will forgive me.’ Then the Messenger of Allah said, ‘Did you not know that Islam wipes out what came before it, and that Hijrah wipes out what came before it and that Hajj wipes out what came before it!” (Sahih Muslim). </p>
<p>Hajj is the fifth pillar upon which Islam stands. Allah (Subhanahu wa ta’ala) made it compulsory upon every able Muslim male and female to perform it, at least once in a lifetime. Allah revealed: “Hajj thereto is a duty mankind owes to Allah, those who can afford the journey, but if any deny faith, Allah stands not in need of any of His creatures” (Surat Ali Imran, Ayat 97). </p>
<p>Performance of the Hajj washes away all sins. Abu Hurairah narrates: I heard the Prophet say, “Whoever performs Hajj and does not commit any Rafath (obscenity) or Fusooq (transgression), he returns (free from sin) as the day his mother bore him” (Sahih Bukhari). <br />
Hajj is one of the greatest deeds one can accomplish in his or her lifetime. Abu Hurairah narrates: The Prophet was asked, “What deed is the best?” He said, “Iman in Allah and His Messenger.” “Then what?” “Jihad in the sake of Allah.” “Then what?” “Hajj Mabroor, a Hajj accepted by Allah (Subhanahu wa ta’ala).” </p>
<p>Abu Sha’thaa’ said, “I contemplated the good deeds that a person does. I found that salaat as well as fasting are a jihad of the body. And that sadaqa is a jihad of someone’s wealth. But Hajj is a jihad of both body and wealth.” </p>
<p>Hajj is the greatest jihad. Aishah (Radiallahu anha) asked the Prophet (Sallallahu alaihi wa sallam), “We find that jihad is the best deed, shouldn’t we (women) do jihad?” The Prophet replied, “Rather the best jihad is a Hajj Mabroor!” Aishah later said, “I’ll never cease performing Hajj after I heard that from Rasul Allah” (Agreed Upon). </p>
<p>The dua of the one in Hajj shall be accepted. The Prophet (Sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) said, “The soldier in the path of Allah and the one who performs Hajj and the one who performs ‘Umrah, all are the delegation of Allah! He called them and they answered. And they asked Him, and He shall grant them (what they ask for)!” (Authentic, narrated by Ibn Majah and Ibn Hibban). </p>
<p>In the Islamic history books it was narrated that on the day of Arafat, a man from Turkmenistan stood on the plains of Arafat in Hajj. To his left all he could see was Muslims crying and praying to Allah (Subhanahu wa ta’ala). To his right all he could see was Muslims crying and praying to Allah (Subhanahu wa ta’ala). Because of his native tongue, he could not imitate the lengthy prayers of the others. At this realization everything blurred in front of him. His face reddened, his eyes poured tears as he raised his hands, “O Allah! Grant me everything that they are asking for! Grant me everything that they are asking for!” And Allah (Subhanahu wa ta’ala) accepted his dua. </p>
<p>There is not a single day that the sun has come up on more beloved to Allah (Subhanahu wa ta’ala) than the Day of Arafat. The Prophet (Sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) said, “There is no day on which Allah frees more of His slaves from Fire than the Day of Arafat, and He verily draws near, then boasts of them before the angles, saying: ‘What do they seek?’” (Sahih Muslim). And in another hadith: “Verily Allah boasts of the people of Arafat before the people of Heaven (angels) saying: ‘Look to my servants who have come to Me disheveled and dusty.’” </p>
<p>Abdullah ibn Al-Mubaarak narrates: I went to Sufyaan ibn al-Uyaynah as the day of Arafat was setting. He sat on his knees, his hands raised to the Heavens, and tears moistened his cheeks and beard. He turned and looked at me, so I asked him, “Amongst the people who have gathered here for Hajj, who is in the worst state?” Sufyaan ibn al-Uyaynah said, “He who thinks that Allah will not forgive him.” </p>
<p>Aishah (Radiallahu anha) would see the Prophet (Sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) standing in prayer at night so much so that his feet would crack. She would ask him, “Why do you do this when Allah has forgiven all your sins, the past and anything you may do in the future?” And he would reply, “Shouldn’t I be a thankful slave?” </p>
<p>With this example of the Prophet (Sallallahu alaihi wa sallam), what should our attitude be when we hear of Paradise and forgiveness of sin for those who perform Hajj? Does it mean that after Hajj we fall back into all the disobedience that we went to Hajj with? Does it mean that we are promised Jannah no matter what sin we do after Hajj? Many people think this to be the case and it is a very dangerous presumption. </p>
<p>You will find in many of the Hadith regarding the virtue of Hajj the term Hajj Mabroor. Do you know what Mabroor means? It means an accepted Hajj. A Mabroor Hajj is one in which Allah (Subhanahu wa ta’ala) is not disobeyed during or after. Others have said that a Hajj Mabroor is one that is accepted, and the sign of it’s acceptance is that a person will go back in a better state then when he came, and that he will discontinue the sins that were between him and Allah (Subhanahu wa ta’ala). </p>
<p>I once saw a group of Hajjis with all of their paraphernalia. Plastered on their t-shirts and hats was ‘Hajj Mabroor 1997!’ I remembered then when Ibn Umar was on his deathbed and his son reminded him of all the good deeds that he did with the Prophet (Sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) and the companions. He told him, “Quiet! Don’t you know whom Allah accepts from? Verily Allah only accepts from the God-Fearing (Al-Muttaqoon).” </p>
<p>When Ali ibn Al-Husayn (Radiallahu anhuma) wore his Ihram towels and sat upright on his camel in preparation for the journey to Makkah, his face changed color, his skin shivered and he cried, unable to say the Talbiyyah, Labbayk Allahumma Labbayk. Someone asked him, “What’s wrong?” And he replied, “I’m afraid that when I say it, it shall be replied, ‘Laa Labbayka wa Laa Sa’dayk’ (May you never have come and may you not have happiness).” </p>
<p>With that spirit, let us march forward in the search of the Mercy of Allah (Subhanahu wa ta’ala) and His forgiveness, to the first house of Allah (Subhanahu wa ta’ala) on earth, to Hajj. </p>
<p>In the Hajj of 1996 you may have heard of the Jamarat crowd in which 600 people died. It was Dhuhr time that it happened and I had been sitting there from the early morning waiting for noon to throw my pebbles. About 30 minutes before Dhuhr a wave of people, like dominoes, toppled over us. I had said to myself earlier that if I were ever in an emergency situation I would jump up on a bus or anything high to escape the crowd. Now, I saw people doing just that and I knew this was the situation that I had feared. My friend said, “What shall we do?” With a glance over the sea of people I knew there was no way we could walk opposite of the crowd and so I replied, “Go and throw our Jamarat.” </p>
<p>People died that day. Ambulance sirens were blaring and helicopters were thundering above. In the pain and exhaustion, losing my friend, I sat leaning, my back on a sister and her back on me. We did not even realize what we were doing. I tasted what the Prophet (Sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) meant when he said that on the Day of Judgment people would be naked and Aishah (Radiallahu anha) asked him, “Won’t the men and women look at each other?” And he replied, “Aishah, the issue is more severe than that.” <br />
I saw 3 men looking anxiously for their friend and I just sat staring at them. All of a sudden their faces exploded in happiness, “Ahmad! Ahmad!” they called, and one of them could not handle the happiness and he cried and cried. <br />
Limping back to the Ka’bah I found a place with shady trees and a carpeted patio leading to a villa. The owner, an older man, stood watching as all the people walked by. And I sat watching him. </p>
<p>People would come up to him and beg for a glass of water. He would jump and bring them the coldest water he had. They would pray from the bottom of their hearts for him. I knew what kind of dua that was, because I was feeling the same thirst that they all felt. Whenever he saw someone sick, he would spring out to the road and invite them in, giving them a bed and food to relax them. <br />
I was shy at first, but the thirst overcame me and I asked him for water. I had been on that patio for some time and when I asked him, he realized he had not offered me anything. He ran inside, and in addition to the water, he brought me packets of fruit juice. I thought about this man as I made my way back to the Ka’bah. If a human was so merciful to these people who had come for Hajj, these people who had come for no other reason than to say ‘La ilaaha illa Allah’, how merciful was Allah (Subhanahu wa ta’ala) going to be to these Hajjis? </p>
<p>Indeed, the Prophet said, “And there is no reward for an accepted Hajj…except Jannah!” </font></p>
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<p>By Muhammad Alshareef</p>
<p>Arafah – 10 years after Hijrah. A man was standing with Rasul Allah – peace and blessings be upon him – when he was thrown from his camel. The camel stomped and the man’s neck was snapped. Dead.<br />
“Bathe his body with water and Sidr and bury him with both garments,” said Allah’s Messenger. “Do not cover his head, nor touch him with Camphor &#8230; for verily he will be returned (to Allah) on the day of resurrection in the state of Talbiyah! (Labbayk Allahaahumma labbayk)” – Bukhari and Muslim<br />
‘Amr ibn Al-‘Aas narrates, “When Islam entered my heart, I went to the Messenger of Allah and said, ‘Give me your hand so that I may pledge allegiance to you.’ The Prophet spread his hand, but I withdrew mine. He said, ‘What is wrong ‘Amr?’ I said, ‘I want to make a condition.’ ‘And what is that?’ he said. I said, ‘That Allah will forgive me.’ Then the Messenger of Allah said, ‘Did you not know that Islam wipes out what came before it, and that Hijrah wipes out what came before it and that Hajj wipes out what came before it!” &#8211; Sahih Muslim<br />
The ultimate reward. Rasul Allah – peace and blessings be upon him – said, “And there is no reward for an accepted Hajj except Jannah!”<br />
What is the first verse that you read in Surah Al-Hajj? It does not speak of Arafah, nor does it pronounce the pillars of Nahr day. It simply says:<br />
[O Mankind! Fear your Lord, indeed the eruption of the (final) Hour is a horrific event. On that day that you shall see it, every nursing mother will be engrossed away from that (child) she was nursing, and every pregnant woman will abort her pregnancy, and you will see the people (appearing) intoxicated, while they are not intoxicated; rather it is the punishment of Allah, severe.]<br />
Hajj is not a journey of the body such as one may take to a vacation spot or tourist attraction. It is a journey of the soul and heart. <br />
When one pays a careful eye to the verses speaking of Hajj, they will find that verse after verse concludes with a commandment of being conscious of Allah’s presence, or a reminder of Allah’s bounteous favor upon us, or a link between Hajj and the final day.<br />
The Destination<br />
In the not-so-far-away days of old, whenever a journey was to be undertaken proper provisions had to be prepared. The deserts were long, hot, and harsh. Unmerciful. There were no gas stations to fill up with chips and refreshments, or rest stops to slurp water from a fountain. In fact, there was not a human in sight for miles upon miles of barren sand dunes. Losing the way meant losing your life.<br />
Thus, you had to have the provision with you before you made the journey– enough food, enough water, enough of everything that will carry you to your destination. <br />
From here, in the verses dealing of Hajj, when everyone shall have to make some sort of journey to reach the Ka’bah, Allah tuned the attention of His slaves to another journey, a journey every soul is traveling, whether they know it or care to just remain heedless. Allah turned their attention to the journey to the Hereafter, to Paradise or Hell. <br />
[And take sustenance (with you) for the journey; verily the best sustenance is Taqwa (piety and righteousness).] – Al Baqarah 2:197 <br />
On the day Buhaym Al-‘Ajlee set out with his companion for Hajj, he looked toward the endless desert awaiting them both and wept, his chest soaking from the tears. “This is something,” said Buhaym, “that has made me understand the most certain journey I must one day take to Allah!”<br />
Hajj – the journey of hearts.<br />
The Provider<br />
There is debate over whether someone who performs Hajj should be called a Hajji. It is not something found in the Sunnah; rather it has an interesting background in our cultural history. In antique days, when someone decided to perform the journey for Hajj, it was synonymous with bidding farewell to life on earth. This was due to the treacherous obstacles of traveling in the desert &#8211; trials such as sickness, starvation, and the struggles of the separate situations. An entire village might gather to bid those people farewell.<br />
When someone would go through such a remarkable journey and return alive, they would dedicate their lives to the worship and obedience of Allah. Gone was the cheating, or the lying, or the missed Salah. He was now a Hajji.<br />
Today, with the Jumbo jets and ocean liners and Mercedes busses, the facilitation of performing Hajj has taken away the luster of the title Hajji. Some might complain that there are no queen-size mattress beds in Mina, or that the air conditioning motor is a tad too loud. <br />
But dear brothers and sisters, who is it that provided us with all the blessing that we are living in? It is the same Allah that has tested us here on the plains of Arafah. The slave of Allah can only truly understand the favor of Allah upon him when it is taken away.<br />
[There is no blame upon you for seeking bounty from your Lord (during Hajj). But when you depart from Arafat, remember Allah at AlMash’ar AlHaram. And remember Him as He has guided you, for indeed you were before that among those astray.] <br />
Alhamdulillaah. Indeed the greatest blessing that Allah has favored us with is Islam, and it alone suffices as favor.<br />
Allah knows we are going to get dusty during Hajj, Allah knows it. So don’t be surprised when that dust blows, instead turn to Allah and hit back with patience and a whisper of gratitude to Allah.<br />
[Then let them end their untidiness, fulfill their vows, and perform Tawaf around the ancient House.] – Surah Hajj 22/29<br />
Ibn Al-Qayyim wrote a Qasidah about this journey of the hearts, here is only a glimpse of some of the Arabic verses:<br />
[He says, my slaves have come to me (for Hajj) out of love for me / And I am merciful to them, bounteous and loving // Glad tidings O participants of that stand (on Arafah) / a moment when Allah forgives all sins and showers His mercy]<br />
Abu Hurayrah narrates: I heard the Prophet say, “Whoever performs Hajj and does not commit any Rafath (obscenity) or Fusooq (transgression), he returns (free from sin) as the day his mother bore him” – Bukhari<br />
Getting the heart in shape<br />
Many years ago, as the Hujjaj swept through the valley of Muzdalifah, a man remarked out loud, “My look at the number of Hujjaj!” The wise man replied, “Nay, the passengers are many, but the Hujjaj are few.”<br />
I once heard the story of a man who was blessed with the opportunity to join the caravan for Hajj regularly. However, his shortcoming was that he could never control his anger during the days of Hajj, and would snap cursing others.<br />
Well, one person had an idea for him. His inspiration: Instead of cursing Muslims during Hajj, write all your bad comments on a piece of paper &#8211; fold it &#8211; and then when you get mad at someone, just hand him the paper. On the top of the tiny envelope write, ‘Do not open until after Hajj’. The man agreed.<br />
As incident after incident assailed him, the man would simply smile, then frown and hand out the tiny envelopes to the provoking party. <br />
Everything was going smoothly until the day when he was walking to the Jamarat and someone stomped his toes. He lost all control. Teeth gritting, he snarled and took out his briefcase of envelopes and dumped it on that poor guys head.<br />
In Hajj I have seen people who snatch for patience and the reward of Allah during those trying moments, like a man pan handles for gold. I asked myself, what is different from them and those who spend their breath in criticism and argumentation? It finally dawned that it was not the body of Zayd or ‘Amr that I was witnessing, but it was the hearts of Zayd and ‘Amr.<br />
Some people come to hajj prepared financially. Others come with a prepared heart – that is what’s essential. Whether the grindstone grinds us to dust or polishes us up depends on what we are made of.<br />
Now &#8211; How to get that heart in shape for Hajj?<br />
Firstly: Attend lectures and workshops dealing with Hajj<br />
Hajj is one of the pillars that Islam is built on. When someone intends to perform this rite, it is a must upon them that they learn it well. Rasul Allah – peace and blessings be upon him – said, “Seeking knowledge is obligatory on every Muslim.”<br />
Imam Bukhari writes in his Saheeh, ‘Chapter: knowledge comes before statements and actions.’ He then quoted the verse of Allah: [So Know, that there is no deity except Allah and ask forgiveness for your sin.] &#8211; Surah Muhammad, 47/19<br />
Secondly: Establish Salah and perform Qiyaam ul-Layl<br />
When Rasul Allah – peace and blessings be upon him – was preparing his heart for the mission of conveying this Deen, Allah ordered him to prepare using Qiyam ul-Layl.<br />
Allah ta’ala says: [O you who wraps himself / Arise (to pray) the night, except for a little] – Surah Muzzammil, 73/1,2<br />
A student once slept over at Imam Ahmad’s house, rahimahullah. Imam Ahmad had left a vessel of water for him, and upon arriving at Fajr time, found the vessel still full of water. He was shocked and remarked, “How can a person be a Talib Al-‘Ilm (student of Islam) and not stand for Qiyam ul-Layl!”<br />
Some said to Ibn Mas`ood, may Allah be pleased with him, “We are unable to wake up to perform Qiyam ul-Layl.” He told them, “You are distancing yourselves from it by your sins.” <br />
Thirdly: Repentance to Allah and Dua<br />
It was during the days of Tashreeq when Jirbreel – alayhis salam – came to Rasul Allah – peace and blessings be upon him – with the words of Allah:<br />
[When the victory of Allah has come and the conquest / And you see the people entering into the religion of Allah in multitudes / Then exalt Him with praise of your Lord and ask forgiveness of Him. Indeed, He is ever Accepting of repentance.] -Surah An-Nasr<br />
This was the culmination of 23 years of Da’wah, Jihad, and work; here now was the farewell pilgrimage. What did it end with? [Then exalt Him with praise of your Lord (Tasbeeh) and ask forgiveness of Him]<br />
Subhaanak Allaahumma wa bihamdika, Allahumma ighfir-lana / Glory be to you O Allah, and may You be praised. O Allah, forgive us</font></p>
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</span><strong><span style="font-size:10pt;color:black;">A Khutbah for the Muslim Women</span></strong><span style="background-position:0 50%;font-size:18pt;background-attachment:scroll;color:black;background-repeat:repeat;background-color:white;"><br />
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The next day as that Muslim village set out to confront the crusader army, a young boy ran through the gathering and stood at the hooves of Abu Qudaamah&#8217;s horse. &#8220;I ask you by Allah to allow me to join the army.&#8221; Some of the elder fighters laughed at the boy. &#8220;The horses will trample you,&#8221; they said.</p>
<p>But Abu Qudaamah looked down into his eyes as he asked again, &#8220;I ask you by Allah, let me join.&#8221; Abu Qudaamah then said, &#8220;On one condition: if you are killed you will take me with you to Jannah amongst those you will be allowed to intercede for.&#8221; That young boy smiled. &#8220;It&#8217;s a promise.&#8221;</p>
<p>When the two armies met and the fighting intensified, the young boy on the back of Abu Qudaamah&#8217;s horse asked, &#8220;I ask you by Allah to give me 3 arrows.&#8221;</p>
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The boy repeated, &#8220;I ask you by Allah to give me them.&#8221; Abu Qudaamah gave him the arrows and the boy took aim.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;Bismillaah!&#8221;</em> The arrow flew and killed a Roman. <em>&#8220;Bismillaah!&#8221;</em> The second arrow flew, killing a second Roman. <em>&#8220;Bismillaah!&#8221;</em> The third arrow flew, killing a third Roman. An arrow then struck the boy in the chest &#8211; knocking him off the horse. Abu Qudaamah jumped down to his side, reminding the boy in his final breaths, &#8220;Don&#8217;t forget the promise!&#8221; The boy reached into his pocket, extracted a pouch and said, &#8220;Please return this to my mother.&#8221;<br />
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&#8220;The woman that gave you the braids yesterday.&#8221;</p>
<p>Think about this Muslimah. How did she reach this level of Taqwa where she would sacrifice her hair when today other women do the same to imitate Kafir icons, and her son when other women would die so long as their son stayed home. Indeed, she spent her life in the obedience of Allah, and when exam time came, she passed. Not only did she pass herself, but her children shone with that same beauty of Iman, children that she herself raised.</p>
<p>Very often &#8211; and perhaps in our times when we have forgotten much of the Sunnah &#8211; the lectures, khutbahs, and talks are all directed to the Muslim men. We forget that from the <em>hady</em> &#8211; guidance and way &#8211; of Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; was that he would allocate a specific day of the week to teach the women. Women would come up to him in Hajj, in the street, even in his home and ask him questions about the Deen. At the Eid Salah, after addressing the men, he would take Bilal and go to the women&#8217;s section and address the women.</p>
<p>Allah revealed an entire Surah by the name of Surah An-Nisa &#8211; the Women. And another by the name of &#8211; Maryam. And a third by the name of al Mujaadalah &#8211; the women who pleads. It is in enlivening this Sunnah that today this speech shall be addressed to the believing women, al-Mu&#8217;minaat.</p>
<p>Dear Sister, Dear Mother, Dear Daughter. Everyone is looking for happiness and fun, and I am sure you are not excluded. Where is that happiness and fun though? And where and when do you want that happiness? Do you want happiness, do you want to have `fun&#8217; in this life at the expense of the hereafter? Or is it in the hereafter, when you meet Allah that you want to be happy?</p>
<p>Every where you go you shall find a swarm of people and media and culture swearing to you that happiness is the happiness of the Dunya. Is it really happiness though? On the day of Repayment, Allah shall take the most `happiest&#8217; kafir of the Dunya and dip him in Jahannam &#8211; Hellfire. Then he shall ask him, &#8220;Have you ever seen any happiness?&#8221; The Kafir will say, &#8220;Never!&#8221;</p>
<p>Nay, the happiness is only the happiness of the hereafter no matter what happens in this Dunya. Allah shall bring on the Day of Repayment the most tested human and dip him in Jannah &#8211; Paradise. He shall then ask him, &#8220;Have you ever seen sadness?&#8221; And that person shall say, &#8220;Never!&#8221;</p>
<p>And don&#8217;t think that this happiness and fun is exclusive to the hereafter. It is very much tied to this life as well. Listen and understand the words of Allah:</p>
<p></font></span><strong><span><font size="3" color="#000000">Whoever works righteousness, whether male or female, while he (or she) is a true believer verily to him We will give a good life (in this world with respect, contentment and lawful provision), and We shall pay them certainly a reward in proportion to the best of what they used to do (i.e. Paradise in the Hereafter).</font></span></strong><span style="color:black;"><font size="3"> &#8211; Surah AnNahl (16/97)</p>
<p>Dear Sister, you have to understand that you or anyone may enter Hellfire! By Allah, we are not better than Fatimah, the daughter of Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam. And he said to her, </font></span><span style="color:#000099;"><font size="3">&#8220;O Fatimah the daughter of Muhammad, Ask me whatever you wish from my wealth, for I shall avail you nothing to Allah.&#8221;</font></span><span style="color:black;"><font size="3"> Meaning that it doesn&#8217;t matter if you&#8217;re my daughter, if you don&#8217;t work for Jannah, saying to Allah that my father is so and so will not help you in anyway.</p>
<p>Islam is filled with many Mu&#8217;minahs that completed their Taqwa of Allah. When the other girls put up posters of kafir singers and kafir athletes and kafir actresses, you should put up posters in your heart of Fatimah and many other Mu&#8217;minahs.</p>
<p>Aasiyah, the wife of Fir&#8217;own. Her Eeman in Allah thrived under the shadow of someone that said, &#8220;I am your Lord, Most High!&#8221; When news reached Fir&#8217;own of his wife&#8217;s Eeman he beat her and commanded his guards to beat her. They took her out in the scalding noon heat, tied her hands and feet and beat her perpetually. Who did she turn to? She turned to Allah! She prayed, &#8220;My lord, build for me a home with you in Paradise and save me from Fir&#8217;own and his deeds and save me from the transgressive people.&#8221;</p>
<p>It was narrated that when she said this, the sky opened for her and she saw her home in Paradise. She smiled. The guards watched astonished &#8211; she&#8217;s being tortured and she smiles? Frustrated, Fir&#8217;own commanded a boulder to be brought and dropped on Aasiyah, to crush her to death. But Allah took her soul before the boulder was brought and she became an example for all the believing men and women till the end of time:</p>
<p></font></span><span style="font-weight:700;"><font size="3" color="#000000">[And Allah has set forth an example for those who believe: the wife of Fir'own (Pharaoh) - when she said, "My Lord, Build for me a home with You in Paradise, and save me from Fir'own and his deeds, and save me from the transgressive-disbelieving people.]</font></span><span style="color:black;"><font size="3"> -Tahreem 66/11</p>
<p>When we talk about Jihad and <em>Shuhadaa&#8217;</em> &#8211; martyrs &#8211; do you know who the first Muslim in Islam to be killed in the path of Allah was? It was Summayah, the mother of Ammar. When Abu Jahl heard of her Islam and her husband Yaasir and her son Ammar, he whipped them all and beat them. So much so, that Rasul Allah would pass by them as they went through this test of their Iman and would say to them, &#8220;Be patient O family of Yaasir, for you have a date set (when you shall enter) Jannah!&#8221;</p>
<p>As Abu Jahl beat Sumayyah one day, she refused to recant her Deen, something that enraged Abu Jahl. He took a spear as she lay on the burning sand,looking up to the sky, and he speared her through her midsection. She was the first of her family and the entire Ummah to meet Allah as a Martyr.</p>
<p>Dear Sister, our role models come from the Quran. You may have heard the story of the boy and the king. When the entire village became Muslim by the death of that young boy, the king ordered that an enormous fire be kindled and that all those who would not recant their religion be burnt alive. A Mu&#8217;minah, stood with her baby over the fire. She looked at her baby, and seeking her child&#8217;s weakness and innocence, she considered turning her back. The baby said to her, &#8220;What are you waiting for mother. Go forward for you are on the truth!&#8221; She nodded. Then with her baby in hand she was pushed to her death.<br />
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</strong></font></span><strong><span><font size="3" color="#000000">[And they ill-treated them for no other reason than that they believed in Allah, Exalted in Power, Worthy of all Praise!- * Him to Whom belongs the dominion of the heavens and the earth! And Allah is Witness to all things.]</font></span></strong><span style="color:black;"><font size="3"><strong> </strong>- Surah Al Buruj, 8,9</p>
<p>And dear sister, your role models come to you from today. As her son tells us, a senior women in a Muslim land decided that all the vanity that normally happens in the gatherings of women was not for her. She turned to Salah and praying at night, and in her old age, she found herself calling to her son one night from her prayer room. He son says, &#8220;I came in and she was in Sajda saying that she was paralysed!&#8221; Her son took her to the doctors and she began a cycle of rehabilitation, but there was little hope. She then commanded her son to take her back home, take her back to her prayer room, take her back to that Sajdah.</p>
<p>As she prayed to Allah in her sajdah, the night came when she called to her son. &#8220;Astawdi&#8217;ukallaah alladhee laa yadee&#8217;u wa daa&#8217;i'uh &#8211; I leave you in the trust of Allah, and whenever something is left in Allah&#8217;s trust it is never lost.&#8221; She passed away in her sajdah. Her muscles froze in that position and so they had to wash her body as she was in Sajdah. The prayed Janazah for her as her body was in sajdah. The carried her to the grave yard as her body was in Sajdah. They buried her as she was in Sajdah.</p>
<p>And the Prophet said that we shall all be resurrected on what we died on, she shall be resurrected on the day of judgement in Sajdah to Allah &#8211; Jalla Jalaaluhu wa taqaddasat asmaa&#8217;uhu &#8211; because that it how she lived and died.</p>
<p>***Part II***</p>
<p>There are many other stories that we know about of powerful believing mothers, wives and sisters and many, many that Allah only knows about. Whenever a halaqah is going on, the Muslim women outnumber the men. At the American Open University, (<a href="http://www.open-university.edu/"><font color="#005db6">www.open-university.edu</font></a>) the overwhelming majority of students are Muslim women. Go to an Islamic teachers/schools conference, attend a lecture and you shall see the mismatch of sisters to brothers. Sometimes it is sad to see all these brothers lacking the motivation that many Muslimahs have. But if there is a beautiful sign in all this, it is that &#8211; in sha&#8217; Allah ta&#8217;ala &#8211; those sisters are going to raise an army of believing men and women in the coming generation. WAllahu akbar!</p>
<p>When Imam Ahmad was still young, his father died. He would tell his students of the work his mother went through in raising him, and he would pray for her. In the cold Baghdad nights, she would wake long before him to warm the water so that her son Ahmad could make wudu for Fajr. Then she would wrap him in blankets, herself cloaked in her Jilbaab, and guide him through the dark, cold alleys to reach the main Masjid, long before Fajr so that her son could get a good seat in class. Her son Ahmad &#8211; at that age in grade 2 or 3 &#8211; would sit all day long studying Quran and Sunnah, and she would wait for him to finish so that she could drop him home safely. At the age of 16, she prepared money and food for him and told him, &#8220;Travel for your search of knowledge.&#8221; He left for Makkah and Madinah and many other places and met many great scholars. She raised Ahmad to become one of the four greatest Imams in Islam.</p>
<p>Dear sister, after all this, ask a non-Muslim what it is that he wants from you? Does he want you to be liberated? Liberated from what? From Allah and his Messenger? From the Quran and the Sunnah? From Jannah? From this deen that Allah chose for you?</p>
<p>And what is he going to give you in return? Happinness? By Allah, he does not own any happiness to give. Is he going to give you love and protection from punishment in the grave and from the gatekeepers of hellfire and from death? Why is it that they want to liberate young beautiful women? Why don&#8217;t they liberate the seniors? Why don&#8217;t they liberate the indigenous? Why don&#8217;t they liberate the inmates? Why is their target audience a young and skinny and tall women (their definition of beauty) between the age of 13 &#8211; 28? And why is their first call for you to take off your Hijab?</p>
<p>Remember that friend &#8211; if you consider him so &#8211; carefully, for &#8211; without any doubt, by Allah &#8211; he shall be your bitterest enemy on the day of Repayment:</p>
<p></font></span><span style="font-weight:700;"><font size="3" color="#000000">[Friends on that day will be foes, one to another - except the Righteous]</font></span><span style="color:black;"><font size="3"> &#8211; Surah Zukhruf (43/67)</p>
<p>One Kafirah summed up exactly what they think of women, &#8220;It&#8217;s not who you are, it&#8217;s what you wear and what you look like!&#8221;</p>
<p>And listen to Fabian, a french `model&#8217; (of what?), as she spit on the fashion industry. &#8220;Fashion houses made me into a mannequin, a wooden idol. The mission: to manipulate hearts and alter minds. I learnt how to be worthless, nothing on the inside, cold. We lived in a world of filth in all that filth means.&#8221;</p>
<p>When the Prophet &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; stood on the plain of Arafah and gave his farewell speech he said to the Ummah, </font></span><span style="color:#000099;"><font size="3">&#8220;Treat the women kindly!&#8221;</font></span><span style="color:black;"><font size="3"> History records that in Europe in the same year, at the same time that Islam was saying this, the Christian clergy were arguing whether a women was a human or an animal! Those clergymen are the ancestors of the Kuffar that now want to `liberate&#8217; you.</p>
<p>There is much more than can be said. I shall conclude with the advice of Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; to every Muslim mother, daughter, and wife: </font></span><span style="color:#000099;"><font size="3">&#8220;If the women prays her five (Salah), fasts her month (of Ramadan), protects herself (from committing Zina), and listens to her husband, it will be said to her, `from any door you wish, enter Paradise!&#8221;</font></span><span style="color:black;"><font size="3"></p>
<p>Sister, that is where you want to be.</p>
<p></font></span><span style="font-weight:700;"><font size="3" color="#000000">[O ye who believe! give your response to Allah and His Messenger, when He calls you to that which shall give you life; and know that Allah cometh between a man and his heart, and that it is He to Whom ye shall (all) be gathered.]</font></span><span style="color:black;"><font size="3"> &#8211; Surah Anfal 8/24</p>
<p>Allah and His Messenger are calling you to life. Dear sister, reply!</font><font size="3"> </font></span></p>
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<p><font size="3">I was a teacher in the Qur&#8217;anic study circle at our neighborhood Masjid at the time. I would see this young boy after Maghrib prayers, you might say he was about fifteen years old. He held a pocket Qur&#8217;an and sat alone reading from it &#8211; no, he wasn&#8217;t actually reading from it, he was just trying to make it seem as if he was.</p>
<p>Now and again, he would shyly steal a few glances at us, curious to know what we were doing. Once in awhile, you might see him straining to make out what we were talking about.<br />
Every time I caught his eye, he would avert his head and continue with his recitation, as if he had not intended to look this way.</font></p>
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<p>Day after day, he sat in the same reserved manner, revealing the same timid glance. Finally after Isha Salah one day, I resolved to confront him.</p>
<p>&#8220;As Salamu &#8216;Alaykum, my name is Salman, I teach the Qur&#8217;ânic study circle in this Masjid.&#8221;<br />
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<p><font size="3">&#8216;And my name is Khalid.&#8217;</p>
<p>Strange, he replied so fast, as if he had been waiting to share this piece of information for such a long time and expected to be asked.</p>
<p>&#8220;Where do you study Khalid?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8216;In the Eighth grade … and I … I love the Qur&#8217;an a lot.&#8217;</p>
<p>Strange indeed, why did he add that last sentence?</p>
<p>Confidently, I asked him, &#8220;Listen Khalid, have you got any free time after Maghrib? We would be honored to have you join us in the class.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8216;What? The Qur&#8217;an? The Halaqah? Yes … why, yes of course (happiness overcame him). I&#8217;ll be there, Insha&#8217;Allah.&#8217;</p>
<p>That night, I couldn&#8217;t think of anything other than this young boy and the haze that surrounded his behavior. Sleep would just not come.</p>
<p>I attempted to interpret an answer for what I saw and heard, but there was none. A verse of poetry came to mind: &#8216;the coming days shall unravel the mystery / and the news may appear from where you could never see.&#8217;</p>
<p>I turned on my right side and slipped my right hand under my cheek. O Allah, I have surrendered myself to You and to You I turn over my affairs.</p>
<p>***</p>
<p>Subhan Allah, how the calendar was jogging by. Khalid was now a regular in our Qur&#8217;anic circle, energetic and successful in memorization. He was friends with everyone and everyone was friends with him. You could never catch him without a Qur&#8217;an in his hand, or find him in any other line in Salah other than the first.</p>
<p>There was nothing wrong with him except for his occasional long lapses of attention. There were times when his stoned eyes would reflect the fathomless thought going on in his mind. Sometimes we knew his body was with us, but his soul was somewhere else, suffocating in another world.</p>
<p>Occasionally, I would startle him. All he had was a mumble to reply with, he would have been the first to admit its fabrication.</p>
<p>One night, I walked with him after class to the beach shore. Maybe his big secret might meet something equally large, relax somewhat, and release its distress and pain.</p>
<p>We arrived at the beach and traced the waves. The full moon was out.</p>
<p>A strange sight. The darkness of the night found the darkness of the sea, with a lit moon in-between them.</p>
<p>It sat somewhat embarrassed at its intrusion, similar to my shyness towards Khalid right then.</p>
<p>The rays of the silent moon rested on the silent waves of the sea. I stood behind the silent boy. The scene was silence.</p>
<p>Just then!</p>
<p>It all shattered and crushed to the ground as the young boy fell to the bottom, bleeding his heart with tears. I chose not to interrupt Khalid&#8217;s emotional release, perhaps the saltiness of his tears might help him relax and cleanse his distress.</p>
<p>After a few moments he said from behind his tears, &#8216;I love you all … I love the Qur&#8217;an … and those who love it. I love pious brothers, moral, pure brothers.</p>
<p>&#8216;But … my father … it&#8217;s my father.&#8217;</p>
<p>&#8220;Your father? What is wrong with your father Khalid?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8216;My father always warned me not to hang around with you people. He&#8217;s afraid. He hates you all. And he always tries to convince me that I should hate you too. At any chance he gets, he&#8217;ll try to prove his point with stories and tales.</p>
<p>&#8216;But … when I saw you people in the Halaqah reciting Qur&#8217;an, I saw something entirely different. I saw the light in your faces, the light in your clothes, the light in your words, even when you were silent I could see the light even then.</p>
<p>&#8216;I doubted my father&#8217;s tales and that&#8217;s why I would sit after Maghrib, watching you, pretending that I was part of the circle, trying to share in the light.</p>
<p>&#8216;I … I remember Ustadh Salman … I remember the time you approached me after &#8216;Isha prayer. I&#8217;d been waiting for that moment for such a long time. When I began the classes, my soul locked itself into a world of purity with your souls. I began the circle and was persistent. I wouldn&#8217;t sleep, my days and nights became Qur&#8217;an. My father noticed the change in my routine. He found out, one way or another, that I had joined the circle and that I was now hanging out with &#8220;terrorists.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8216;Then, on a dark night…</p>
<p>&#8216;We were waiting for father to come home from the coffee shop, his daily ritual, so that we could all have dinner together.</p>
<p>&#8216;He entered the house with his hardened face and slaps of anger.</p>
<p>&#8216;We all sat together at the dinner mat. Silence settled on the gathering as usual, all of us were afraid to speak in his presence.</p>
<p>&#8216;He knifed the silence with his roaring and immediate voice. &#8220;I heard you&#8217;re hanging out with the fundamentalists.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8216;I was caught red. My tongue looped and failed. All the words in my mouth attempted to come out at the same time. But, he didn&#8217;t wait for the answer…</p>
<p>&#8216;He snatched the teakettle and threw it maliciously at my face.</p>
<p>&#8216;The room spun and the colors united before my eyes. I stopped distinguishing the ceiling from the walls from the floor, and fell.</p>
<p>&#8216;My mother held me.</p>
<p>&#8216;A damp cloth on my forehead reminded me of where I was. The vicious voice turned on my mother, &#8220;Leave him alone, or you&#8217;ll be in the same lot.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8216;I crawled out of my mother&#8217;s lap and whimpered away to my room. He followed me down the corridor with the cruelest curses.</p>
<p>&#8216;There was not a day that he didn&#8217;t beat me in some way. Curses, kicks, throwing whatever was nearest to his hand. My body had finally become a shiver of fear, grotesque colors formed all over. I hated him.</p>
<p>&#8216;One day while we were sitting at the dinner mat, he said, &#8220;Get up, don&#8217;t eat with us.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8216;Before I could get up though, he pounced immediately and kicked me in the back, making me slam into the pots.</p>
<p>&#8216;At that moment, lying there on there on the ground, I pretended to stand taller than him and shout back in his face…</p>
<p>&#8216;One day, I&#8217;ll pay you back. I&#8217;ll beat you just like you beat me, and curse you just like you cursed me.</p>
<p>&#8216;I&#8217;ll grow up and become strong. And you&#8217;ll get old and become feeble.</p>
<p>&#8216;And then … I&#8217;ll treat you just like you treated me. I&#8217;ll pay you back.</p>
<p>&#8216;After that, I left home and ran away. I just ran, anywhere, it didn&#8217;t matter anymore.</p>
<p>&#8216;I found my way to this beach. It helped me wash away some of the sadness. I held my pocket Qur&#8217;an and began reciting until I could continue no longer because of my excessive crying.&#8217;</p>
<p>And here, a few of those innocent tears descended again, tears that sparkled under the moon like pearls under a lamp. I couldn&#8217;t say anything, the surprise had arrested my tongue.</p>
<p>Should I be aghast at this beast of a father, whose heart knew nothing about mercy? Or, should I be amazed at this patient young lad, whom Allah had wished guidance for and inspired with faith.</p>
<p>Or, should I be shocked at them both, at the father-son bond that had broken, causing their relationship to transform into that of a lion and a tiger, or a wolf and a fox.</p>
<p>I held his warm hand and wiped away a tear from his cheek. I reassured him, prayed for him, and advised him to remain obedient to his father. I told him to remain patient and that he was not alone. I promised that I would meet his father, speak to him, and try to evoke his mercy.</p>
<p>***</p>
<p>That incident slipped further away with each passing day. I tried thinking of ways to open Khalid&#8217;s case with his father. How should I speak to him? How was I going to be convincing? To be frank, how was I even going to knock on his door?</p>
<p>Then finally, I collected my courage, rehearsed my plan, and resolved that the confrontation … uh, meeting … would be that day at five o&#8217;clock.</p>
<p>When the time arrived, I left for Khalid&#8217;s house with all my ideas and questions for his father dangling from my pockets.</p>
<p>I rang the doorbell. My fingers trembled and my knees were melting. The door opened. There it was, standing in the shadow with it&#8217;s frowned lips and veins beating with anger.<br />
I tried beginning with a candid smile. Maybe it might smooth out some of the wrinkles before we even started.</p>
<p>He snatched my collar and jerked me towards him. &#8216;You&#8217;re that fundamentalist that teaches Khalid at the Masjid, aren&#8217;t you?&#8217;</p>
<p>&#8220;Well … uh … yes.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8216;God help me, if I ever see you walking with him again, I&#8217;ll break your legs. Khalid won&#8217;t be coming to your class anymore.&#8217;</p>
<p>And then, he mustered all the saliva in his mouth and spit on my face. The door slammed behind it.</p>
<p>Slowly, I unfolded a tissue that was in my pocket, wiped what he had honored me with, and retreated down the stairs consoling myself. Allah&#8217;s Messenger &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; suffered more than this. They called him a liar, cursed him, stoned him with rocks and caused his feet to bleed. They broke his teeth and placed dung on his back and expelled him from his house.</p>
<p>***</p>
<p>Day after day. Month after month. No sign of Khalid. His father forbade him from leaving the house, even for the congregational prayer. He even forbade us from seeing or meeting him. We prayed for Khalid …</p>
<p>Until we forgot about him. Years passed away.</p>
<p>One night, after the &#8216;Ishâ&#8217; prayer, a shadow walked behind me in the Masjid and rested a familiar harsh hand on my shoulder. The same hand that held me years ago. The same face, the same wrinkles and the same mouth that honored me with what I was not deserving of.<br />
But &#8230; something had changed. The savage face had shattered. The angry veins had subsided, belittled and still. The body looked tired of all the pain and conflict, weakened by sadness and grief.</p>
<p>&#8220;How are you?&#8221; I kissed his forehead and welcomed him. We took a corner of the Masjid. He collapsed on my lap sobbing.</p>
<p>Subhan Allah, I never thought that that lion would one day become a kitten.</p>
<p>Speak up. What&#8217;s wrong? How is Khalid?</p>
<p>&#8216;Khalid!&#8217; The name was like a dagger piercing his heart, twisting inside, and breaking off. His head slumped.</p>
<p>&#8216;Khalid is no longer the same boy that you used to know. Khalid is no longer the generous, calm and humble young lad.</p>
<p>&#8216;After he left your circle he befriended a pack of evil boys, ever since he was little he loved to socialize. They caught him at that time of life when a youth wants to leave the house. Vanity, jokes.</p>
<p>&#8216;He began with cigarettes. I cursed him, beat him. But there was no use, his body had grown accustomed to the beatings, his ears were used to the curses.</p>
<p>&#8216;He grew quickly. He started staying up with them all night, not coming home until dawn. His school expelled him.</p>
<p>&#8216;Some nights he would come home to us speaking abnormally, his face loose, his tongue confused, his hands shivering.</p>
<p>&#8216;That body, which used to be strong, full, and tender, passed away. What remained was a feeble worn frame. That pure frosty face of his transformed. It became dark and filthy. The scum of misguidance and sin clung to it.</p>
<p>&#8216;Those shy and simple eyes of his changed. They shot red like fire as if everything he drank or took showed immediately in his eyes like some sort of punishment, in this life before the next.</p>
<p>&#8216;Hostility and disrespect replaced that shyness and cowardice he once knew. Gone was that soft, respectful young heart. In it&#8217;s place grew a hardened center, like a rock, if not harder.</font></p>
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&#8216;Seldom a day would pass without incident. He would either curse, kick, or hit me. Imagine it, my own son. I&#8217;m his father, yet he still hits me.&#8217;</p>
<p>After releasing all that, his eyes returned wet and bitter. But, he added quickly, &#8216;I beg you Salman, visit Khalid. Take him with you, you have my blessing, the door is open.</p>
<p>&#8216;Pass by him sometime. He loves you. Register him in the Qur&#8217;anic study circle. He could go with you on field trips. I have no objection. In fact, I am even willing to allow him to live in your homes and sleep over.</p>
<p>&#8216;The important thing, Salman … the important thing is that Khalid returns to the way he was.<br />
&#8216;I beg you lad, I&#8217;ll kiss your hands, warm your feet, I beg you and beg you…&#8217;</p>
<p>He collapsed, crying and wheezing, into the memories of the grief and pain. I allowed him to complete everything he had to say.</p>
<p>Then I addressed him…</p>
<p>&#8220;Despite what has passed, let me try. Brother, you planted this seed. And this is your harvest.&#8221;</font></p>
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<description><![CDATA[Fifty Things to do in Hajj By Muhammad Alshareef  &nbsp; 1 Greet every Muslim with a smile. 2 Say Sa]]></description>
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<p><strong>Fifty Things to do in Hajj</strong></p>
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<p align="center"><strong>By Muhammad Alshareef  </strong></p>
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<p></font><font size="3" color="#000000" face="Trebuchet MS">1 Greet every Muslim with a smile.</p>
<p>2 Say Salam to strangers.</p>
<p>3 Shake someone s hand and ask about his health.</p>
<p>4 Buy tea for someone.</p>
<p>5 Offer to get someone s groceries.</p>
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<p>6 Sit with a Hajj group from another country and ask about Islam in their village/city.</p>
<p>7 Carry someone s bags for him.</p>
<p>8 Guide someone ill to the hospital/clinic.</p>
<p>9 Shun vain talk.</p>
<p>10 Recite talbiyah loudly, encouraging others.</p>
<p>11 On the days of Eid, walk through the tents reciting talbiyah loudly reminding others.</p>
<p>12 Gather pebbles for people.</p>
<p>13 Offer to throw on behalf of physically infirm Hajjis.</p>
<p>14 Guide people to the Jamarat</p>
<p>15 Lower your gaze</p>
<p>16 Remind people of the lives of the Sahabah &#8211; Companions of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him)</p>
<p>17 Read Qur an with the Tafseer</p>
<p>18 Do the authentic Dhikr of the morning and evening</p>
<p>19 Make dua during your Sajdah</p>
<p>20 Stand to the side of a gate and offer people water/tea as they leave.</p>
<p>21 Give major attention to shy people in your group.</p>
<p>22 Remind people of patience, why they came here, and the example of our Ulama in Hajj.</p>
<p>23 Explain a Hajj Khutbah you may have heard to those around you.</p>
<p>24 Explain the importance of purifying one s actions for the sake of Allah</p>
<p>25 Phone relatives (from Makkah) on Eid day.</p>
<p>26 Make dua for forgotten friends (and the author of this list).</p>
<p>27 Don t allow Muslims to fight during Hajj</p>
<p>28 Help people find a place to sleep.</p>
<p>29 Remember during the heat the unending torment of hellfire.</p>
<p>30 Say La ilaha illa Allah, wahdahu la sharika lah, lahul Mulk wa lahul hamd, wa Huwa ala kulli shay in Qadeer as many times as you</p>
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<p>31 Say the dua of entering the market place when you go there.</p>
<p>32 Give charity to those who sell meager things (sandals/eggs).</p>
<p>33 Attend the Halaqahs that are held in Mina.</p>
<p>34 Stay for the 13th of Dhul Hijjah.</p>
<p>35 Remind people to go home as better Muslims.</p>
<p>36 Forgive people that wrong you.</p>
<p>37 Talk to 10 different people from 10 different countries.</p>
<p>38 Compliment someone sincerely.</p>
<p>39 Visit the hospital and thank Allah for all that He has given you.</p>
<p>40 Take young Muslims and invite them to sit with the elders. Make them the center of attention.</p>
<p>41 Give a tafseer class after Salah / ask someone knowledgeable.</p>
<p>42 (For men) On the days of Eid, offer perfume to those around you.</p>
<p>43 Ask about the health of senior women in your group. Make sure they are attended to.</p>
<p>44 Focus hard on helping those immediately near you.</p>
<p>45 Take people to the slaughterhouse and help them / or assist them in purchasing their slaughter coupons.</p>
<p>46 Remember specific blessings Allah has bestowed upon you and say Alhamdulillah.</p>
<p>47 Pray to Allah using his 99 most beautiful names (Al-Asmaa Al-Husna).</p>
<p>48 Use a Miswak.</p>
<p>49 Fill your pockets with candies and give to the children that you meet.</p>
<p>50 Always intend reward from Allah for everything you go through during Hajj.</p>
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<title><![CDATA[The Best Planner:  A Hajj Story]]></title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jan 1990 00:58:39 +0000</pubDate>
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</font><font size="3" color="#000000" face="Trebuchet MS">by Muhammad Alshareef, </font><font color="#f3e5bf" face="Trebuchet MS"><a target="Resource Window" href="http://www.khutbah.com/"><font size="3" color="#000099">www.khutbah.com</font></a></font><font size="3" face="Trebuchet MS"><font color="#000000"><br />
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<p><font color="#000000"></font><font size="3" color="#000000" face="Trebuchet MS">As we look over the crowds at Hajj, we are overwhelmed by the numbers of people that have come here to worship Allah. Throughout Hajj, we find ourselves similarly overwhelmed by the sheer number of lessons that we have learned on our journey &#8211; lessons of patience, of compassion, of humility. </font></p>
<p><font size="3" color="#000000" face="Trebuchet MS">Every corner you turn, every spot you can find to sit (if you find one) has the potential to mould a Hajji for better or worse. Sharing our experiences with each other helps us reflect on what we have learned, and may also have the invaluable effect of encouraging our fellow Muslims to perform Hajj.</p>
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<p>Here&#8217;s a story from my Hajj this year, which truly showed me that Allah is the best of planners.<br />
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<p>During my Hajj this year, a man in our group became very ill while we were staying in the tent city of Mina. As we sat down to dinner, he began shivering uncontrollably. We stopped our dinner and made dua for him. Soon, paramedics were called, and carried him to the hospital on a stretcher.</p>
<p>The morning after he returned from the hospital, I went to sit with him in the tent. He told me he was afraid he would be unable to perform his Tawaf at the end of his Hajj, and asked my advice on what to do about that. I told him, &#8216;No problem, Allah does not place a burden upon you more then you can bear. However you&#8217;ll be required to sacrifice a sheep to be given to the poor, as a means of fulfilling that Tawaf duty.&#8217; He asked me to arrange the sacrifice, and gave me the payment of $100 US and 400 Saudi Riyals, for him and his wife. I promised him I would take care of it.</p>
<p>A few hours later, I checked my pocket to make sure the money was still safely there. It wasn&#8217;t! I couldn&#8217;t believe it &#8211; I lost the guy&#8217;s money! Fiqh questions raced through my mind: Would I be Islamically required to pay it myself? Should I tell the guy I lost his money or just leave it up to Allah?</p>
<p>Hours passed, and night fell. The money was really gone. The day was over, and I had not been able to fulfill my obligation of purchasing the sheep for the man and his wife. I was so depressed.</p>
<p>After Fajr the next day, I came back to where my bags were located, and found a brother sitting there. He said, &#8220;Oh sorry, is this your spot?&#8221; When he moved out of the spot, I noticed a lump of cash underneath him. What? How? It was the money the guy had given me! I was soooo happy. Finally, I would be able to purchase the sheep for him today.</p>
<p>About 20 seconds later, after having spoken to Shaykh Nur Abdullah, the brother who gave me the money turned to me. He said, &#8220;I was speaking with the Shaykh and he said that I cannot pay a penalty for Tawaf AlIfaadah.&#8221; (I had thought he was asking about Tawaf Widaa&#8217; in which one could pay the penalty). &#8220;The Shaykh said that they have wheelchairs on the roof. So, uh, do you have my money &#8230; listen, I understand if you already bought the sheep, don&#8217;t worry about it.&#8221;</p>
<p>I looked down at his money that I had found just 20 seconds ago. Had it been with me the day before I would have surely purchased the sheep for him.</p>
<p>I put the money in his hand and told him the story of how Allah had saved his money.</p>
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<title><![CDATA[Hajj - A Journey of Hearts]]></title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jan 1990 00:57:02 +0000</pubDate>
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<p><strong><font size="2">Muhammad AlShareef</font></strong></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">Arafah – 10 years after Hijrah.  The man was standing with Rasul Allah – sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam – when he was thrown from his camel.  The camel stomped and the man’s neck was snapped. Dead.</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">“Bathe his body with water and Sidr and bury him with both garments,” said Allah’s Messenger.  “Do not cover his head, nor touch him with Camphor &#8230; for verily he will be returned (to Allah) on the day of resurrection in the state of Talbiyah! (Labbayk Allahaahumma labbayk)” – Bukhari and Muslim</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">‘Amr ibn Al-‘Aas narrates, “When Islam entered my heart, I went to the Messenger of Allah and said, ‘Give me your hand so that I may pledge allegiance to you.’ The Prophet spread his hand, but I withdrew mine. He said, ‘What is wrong ‘Amr?’ I said, ‘I want to make a condition.’ ‘And what is that?’ he said. I said, ‘That Allah will forgive me.’ Then the Messenger of Allah said, ‘Did you not know that Islam wipes out what came before it, and that Hijrah wipes out what came before it and that Hajj wipes out what came before it!” &#8211; Sahih Muslim</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">The ultimate reward.  Rasul Allah – sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; said, “And there is no reward for an accepted Hajj … except Jannah!”</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">What is the first verse that you read in Surah Al-Hajj?  It does not speak of Arafah, nor does it pronounce the pillars of Nahr day.  It simply says &#8230;</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">[O Mankind! Fear your Lord, indeed the eruption of the (final) Hour is a horrific event.  On that day that you shall see it, every nursing mother will be engrossed away from that (child) she was nursing, and every pregnant woman will abort her pregnancy, and you will see the people (appearing) intoxicated, while they are not intoxicated; rather it is the punishment of Allah, severe.]</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">Hajj is not a journey of the body such as one may take to a vacation spot or tourist attraction.  It is a journey of the soul and heart. </font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">When one pays a careful eye to the verses speaking of Hajj, they will find that verse after verse concludes with a commandment of being conscious of Allah’s presence, or a reminder of Allah’s bounteous favor upon us, or a link between Hajj and the final day.</font></p>
<h3>The Destination</h3>
<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">In the not-so-far-away days of old, whenever a journey was to be undertaken proper provisions had to be prepared. The deserts were long, hot, and harsh. Unmerciful. There were no gas stations to fill up with chips and refreshments, or rest stops to slurp water from a fountain. In fact, there was not a human in sight for miles upon miles of barren sand dunes.  Losing the way meant losing your life.</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">Thus, you had to have the provision with you before you made the journey. Enough food, enough water, enough everything to carry you to your destination.</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">From here, in the verses dealing of Hajj, when everyone shall have to make some sort of journey to reach the Ka’bah, Allah turned the attention of His slaves to another journey, a journey every soul is traveling, whether they know it or care to just remain heedless. Allah turned their attention to the journey to the Hereafter, to Paradise or Hell.</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">[And take sustenance (with you) for the journey; verily the best sustenance is Taqwa (piety and righteousness).] – Al Baqarah 2:197</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">On the day Buhaym Al-‘Ajlee set out with his companion for Hajj, he looked toward the endless desert awaiting them both and wept, his chest soaking from the tears.  “This is something,” said Buhaym, “that has made me understand the most certain journey I must one day take to Allah!”</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><em><strong><font size="3">Hajj – the journey of hearts.</font></strong></em></p>
<h3>The Provider</h3>
<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">There is debate over whether someone who performs Hajj should be called a Hajji.  It is not something found in the Sunnah; rather it has an interesting background in our cultural history.  In antique days, when someone decided to perform the journey for Hajj, it was synonymous with bidding farewell to life on earth.  This was due to the treacherous obstacles of traveling in the desert &#8211; trials such as sickness, starvation, and the struggles of the separate situations. An entire village might gather to bid those people farewell.</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">When someone would go through such a remarkable journey and return alive, they would dedicate their lives to the worship and obedience of Allah.  Gone was the cheating, or the lying, or the missed Salah.  He was now a Hajji.</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">Today, with the Jumbo jets and ocean liners and Mercedes buses, the facilitation of performing Hajj has taken away the luster of the title Hajji.  Some might complain that there are no queen-size mattress beds in Mina, or that the air conditioning motor is a tad too loud. </font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">But dear brothers and sisters, who is it that provided us with all the blessing that we are living in?  It is the same Allah that has tested us here on the plains of Arafah.  The slave of Allah can only truly understand the favor of Allah upon him when it is taken away.</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">[There is no blame upon you for seeking bounty from your Lord (during Hajj).  But when you depart from Arafat, remember Allah at AlMash’ar AlHaram.  <strong>And remember Him as He has guided you</strong>, for indeed you were before that among those astray.] </font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">Alhamdulillaah.  Indeed the greatest blessing that Allah has favored us with is Islam, and it alone suffices as favor.</font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">Allah knows we are going to get dusty during Hajj, Allah knows it.  So don’t be surprised when that dust blows, instead turn to Allah and hit back with patience and a whisper of gratitude to Allah.</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">[<strong>Then let them end their untidiness</strong>, fufill their vows, and perform Tawaf around the ancient House.] – Surah Hajj 22/29</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">Ibn Al-Qayyim wrote a Qasidah about this journey of the hearts, here is only a glimpse of some of the Arabic verses:</font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">[<em>He says, my slaves have come to me (for Hajj) out of love for me / And I am merciful to them, bounteous and loving // Glad tidings O participants of that stand (on Arafah) / a moment when Allah forgives all sins and showers His mercy</em>]</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">Abu Hurayrah narrates: I heard the Prophet (saw) say, “Whoever performs Hajj and does not commit any Rafath (obscenity) or Fusooq (transgression), he returns (free from sin) as the day his mother bore him” – Bukhari</font></p>
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<h2><font size="4">Getting the heart in shape</font></h2>
<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">Many years ago, as the Hujjaj swept through the valley of Muzdalifah, a man remarked out loud, “My look at the number of Hujjaj!”  The wise man replied, “<em>Nay, the passengers are many, but the Hujjaj are few.</em>”</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">I once heard the story of a man who was blessed with the opportunity to join the caravan for Hajj regularly. However, his shortcoming was that he could never control his anger during the days of Hajj, and would snap cursing others.</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">Well, one person had an idea for him.  His inspiration: Instead of cursing Muslims during Hajj, write all your bad comments on a piece of paper &#8211; fold it &#8211; and then when you get mad at someone, just hand him the paper.  On the top of the tiny envelope write, ‘Do not open until after Hajj’. The man agreed.</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">As incident after incident assailed him, the man would simply smile, then frown and hand out the tiny envelopes to the provoking party. </font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">Everything was going smoothly until the day when he was walking to the Jamarat and someone stomped his toes.  He lost all control.  Teeth gritting, he snarled and took out his briefcase of envelopes and dumped it on that poor guys head.</font></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">In Hajj I have seen people who snatch for patience and the reward of Allah during those trying moments, like a man pan handles for gold.  I asked myself, what is different from them and those who spend their breath in criticism and argumentation?  It finally dawned that it was not the body of Zayd or ‘Amr that I was witnessing, but it was the hearts of Zayd and ‘Amr.</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">Some people come to hajj prepared financially.  Others come with a prepared heart – that is what’s essential.  Whether the grindstone grinds us to dust or polishes us up depends on what we are made of.</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">Now &#8211; How to get that heart in shape for Hajj?</font></p>
<h3>Firstly:  Attend lectures and workshops dealing with Hajj</h3>
<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">Hajj is one of the pillars that Islam is built on.  When someone intends to perform this rite it a must upon them that they learn it well.  Rasul Allah – sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam – said, “Seeking knowledge is obligatory on every Muslim.”</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">Imam Bukhari writes in his Saheeh, ‘Chapter: knowledge comes before statements and actions.’  He then quoted the verse of Allah: [So <strong>Know</strong>, that there is no deity except Allah and ask forgiveness for your sin.] - Surah Muhammad, 47/19</font></p>
<h3>Secondly: Establish Salah and perform Qiyaam ul-Layl</h3>
<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">When Rasul Allah – sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam – was preparing his heart for the mission of conveying this Deen, Allah ordered him to prepare using Qiyam ul-Layl.</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">Allah ta’ala says: [O you who wraps himself / Arise (to pray) the night, except for a little] – Surah Muzzammil, 73/1,2</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">A student once slept over at Imam Ahmad’s house, rahimahullah.  Imam Ahmad had left a vessel of water for him, and upon arriving at Fajr time, found the vessel still full of water. He was shocked and remarked, “How can a person be a Talib Al-‘Ilm (student of Islam) and not stand for Qiyam ul-Layl!”</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">Some said to Ibn Mas`ood, may Allah be pleased with him, &#8220;We are unable to wake up to perform Qiyam ul-Layl.&#8221; He told them, &#8220;You are distancing yourselves from it by your sins.&#8221;</font></p>
<h3>Thirdly: Repentance to Allah and Dua</h3>
<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">It was during the days of Tashreeq when Jirbreel – alayhis salam – came to Rasul Allah – sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam – with the words of Allah:</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3"> [When the victory of Allah has come and the conquest / And you see the people entering into the religion of Allah in multitudes / Then exalt Him with praise of your Lord and <strong>ask forgiveness of Him</strong>.  Indeed, He is ever Accepting of repentance.] Surah An-Nasr</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">This was the culmination of 23 years of Da’wah, Jihad, and work; here now was the farewell pilgrimage. What did it end with?  [Then exalt Him with praise of your Lord (Tasbeeh) and ask forgiveness of Him]</font></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><font size="3">Subhaanak Allaahumma wa bihamdika, Allahumma ighfir-lana / Glory be to you O Allah, and may You be praised.  O Allah, forgive us!</font></p>
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<title><![CDATA[Ramadan Warriors]]></title>
<link>http://diversatility.wordpress.com/1990/01/01/ramadan-warriors/</link>
<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jan 1990 00:56:08 +0000</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Ramadhaan Warriors By Muhammad Al-Shareef Sahl ibn Sa&#8217;d &#8211; radi Allahu &#8216;anhu]]></description>
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<font color="#000080"><strong>By Muhammad Al-Shareef</strong></font></font></font></p>
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Sahl ibn Sa&#8217;d &#8211; radi Allahu &#8216;anhu &#8211; narrates that An-Nabee &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; said, &#8220;In Jannah there is a gate called Ar-Rayyan, a door which the Saa&#8217;imoon will enter from, no one else except them. It will be announced, &#8216;Where are the Saa&#8217;imoon?&#8217; and the Saa&#8217;imoon will stand. No one except them will enter from the Rayyan gate.&#8221;</font><font size="3" face="Trebuchet MS"> </font></p>
<p><font size="3" face="Trebuchet MS"><!--more--></font><font size="3" face="Trebuchet MS">Have you ever heard of a weekend warrior? They are employees who sit in cubicles and relax at a coffee station weighed down with donuts all week long. Then on the weekend they rip off their suits bearing their Reebok gear underneath and spend the entire weekend playing basketball, hang gliding, and mountain climbing. What happens? They break their knees, pull a dozen muscles, and are hospitalized on Monday.</p>
<p>This is in relation to the physical body. But there are people that should be known as Ramadan warriors. They are those that haven&#8217;t fasted all year long and then shock their bodies with a whole month. Or haven&#8217;t prayed in the Masjid or haven&#8217;t woken up to pray in the night all year long. What happens to them? As one Muslim doctor said, &#8220;In normal days, we have about 5 &#8211; 7 patients a day. On the first day of Ramadan, the patients increase to over 50!&#8221;</p>
<p>Ramadan warriors were rare in our Islamic history. To illustrate, let&#8217;s all remember where we were at the beginning of Safar &#8211; corresponding this year to the second week of May. We were probably praying for work to end, or just finished up with exams, or looking through brochures for a holiday getaway.</p>
<p>Interestingly, if we were sitting beside a taabi&#8217;ee over a thousand years ago in a simple Masjid, we would have heard him raising his hands asking Allah to grant him the blessing of being around when a guest comes, a guest called Ramadan!</p>
<p>There are different ways that we can &#8216;warm up&#8217; for Ramadan. One of those ways is by increasing the frequency of our Du&#8217;a:</p>
<p>Allah ta&#8217;ala says in the Qur&#8217;an &#8230; the verse before it is talking about Ramadan and the verse after it is speaking about Ramadan, and right in the middle we read: [And when My servants ask you, (O Muhammad), concerning Me - Indeed I am near. I respond to the invocation of the supplicant when he calls upon Me. So let them respond to Me (by obedience) and believe in Me that they may be guided.]</p>
<p>- Surah Al Baqarah 2/186</p>
<p>Every goodness on earth is from Allah. And one of the most exclusive blessings is Ramadan. So let us ask the Lord of Ramadan to help us find His Mercy in the coming days.</p>
<p>Last year, we gave a khutbah here on Hajj entitled &#8216;The Call of Ibraheem&#8217;. A brother just a few weeks ago told me that during that Khutbah he raised his hands to Allah and asked Allah to find him a way to make Hajj. He said that he had no money to make the trip, but that night more then one brother approached him with the offer, &#8220;Brother we have a Hajj program for new Muslims, would you like to come!&#8221; Alhamdulillah, that brother made Hajj last year from a Du&#8217;a that came straight from the heart &#8211; in sha&#8217; Allah.</p>
<p>The early generations of the Ummah used to make Du&#8217;a 6 months after Ramadan that Allah accept their deeds in Ramadan. And for the next 6 months, they would make du&#8217;a to Allah to grant them the blessing of being alive in the coming Ramadan.</p>
<p>Cleanliness &#8211; Whenever a guest comes, we prepare in advance for his arrival by vacuuming the carpet, dusting the shelves, and scrubbing the sinks. We should do this for our guest called Ramadan. But the scrubbing should not just be of our physical surroundings, it should include the scrubbing of our sins.</p>
<p>Listen to the words of an-Nabee &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; speaking about those people that don&#8217;t want to clean up for Ramadan, &#8220;Whoever doesn&#8217;t desist from speaking falsehood and acting upon it, Allah has no need that he desist from his food and drink.&#8221; &#8211; Bukhari</p>
<p>Fasting in Sha&#8217;baan (this Month that we are now in) &#8211; The biggest downfall of the weekend warriors was that they were not properly warmed up for the exercise which caused the injuries. Similarily, when Fasting, some people only do it once a year making their bodies very foreign to going without food and drink.</p>
<p>From here we see the following Sunnah: Umm Al-Mu&#8217;mineen Aisha &#8211; radiAllahu &#8216;anha &#8211; observes, &#8220;Allah&#8217;s Messenger never fasted an entire month other than Ramadan and I haven&#8217;t seen him fast more than he did in Sha&#8217;baan.&#8221;</p>
<p>A poet said: Oh ye who isn&#8217;t satisfied with his sins in Rajab / so much so that you continued disobedience in Sha&#8217;baan / The month of fasting has now come upon you / so do not convert it also to a month of disobedience.</p>
<p>Part II</p>
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When we look at the celebrations, &#8216;the holy days&#8217; of this country, we see that they put all their time and effort and spirit in preparation. I tell you, go to any store outside this Masjid and you will see preparations of Candy Canes, red and green bouquets, even Eggnog all in the wait for the annual celebration of the birth &#8211; as they falsely claim- of Prophet &#8216;Esa (alayhis salam.) They are preparing for their falsehood almost 2 months in advance! One of the ways to prepare for Ramadan is to educate ourselves in the Fiqh of Ramadan. Alhamdulillah &#8211; sitting in this Masjid today are many brothers and sisters for whom this will be their first Ramadan. Allahu Akbar! May Allah accept it from them and allow them and us to share in the blessing of Ramadan for many years to come. Let us briefly review what fasting is:</font></font><font face="Trebuchet MS"><font size="3">Fasting Ramadan is not optional &#8211; it is a must. The evidence for this is found in the Qur&#8217;aan and Sunnah. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):</p>
<p>&#8220;O you who believe! Observing al-sawn (the fasting) is prescribed for you as it was prescribed for those before you, that you may become al-muttaqoon (the pious).&#8221; [al-Baqarah 2:183]</p>
<p>The Prophet said: &#8220;Islam is built on five [pillars]&#8230;&#8221; among which he mentioned fasting in Ramadaan. &#8211; Bukhari</p>
<p>The Arabic word for fasting is Sawm. In Arabic it literally means to abstain from something. And in Islamic Law it is to abstain from those things that break the fast starting from dawn (Fajr Prayer) and ending with sunset (Maghrib prayer) having first made the intention to do so.</p>
<p>The things which break ones Fast, the things which he or she must abstain from from dawn to sunset are as follows:</p>
<p>(a) Eating and Drinking</p>
<p>(b) Marital Relations</p>
<p>These apply if 3 conditions are met (1) That the person is not ignorant that this thing breaks ones fast (2) That he is aware that he is doing something that breaks his fast (meaning he did not do so in forgetfulness) (3) He does so out of his free will and no one forced him to break his fast.</p>
<p>In conclusion, as the month of Ramadan draws nearer, we should prepare for this special guest by preparing a Ramadan program *Operation: Valuable Time* in our homes and at our Masjids. The program should in sha&#8217; Allah include:</p>
<p>1. Locked times of the day when we will consistently recite Qur&#8217;an, learning it&#8217;s meanings and memorizing new Sur&#8217;ahs.</p>
<p>2. Something useful for the time before Taraweeh prayers and the time after Taraweeh. And how to increase our worship in the last ten nights &#8211; i.e. what will we do extra.</p>
<p>3. We should make sure that there are days of this month when we feed people. Bring dates or milk to the Masjid for Maghrib. Invite people over to have dinner with your family. Organize a dinner in the Masjid and invite people that don&#8217;t normally get invited because they are new. Take care of the New Muslims in your community and for the sake of Allah ta&#8217;ala make their Ramadan special.</p>
<p>4. Make the intention to double and triple the amount of Sadaqah we give, the worship we normally do, the Dhikr we do, and the deeds that&#8217;ll help us purify our souls, etc.</p>
<p>And finally, for those that can afford it plan a Umrah to the Ka&#8217;bah in Ramadan!</p>
<p>After returning from the farewell Hajj, Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; saw an Ansari women who had not made the Hajj. He asked her, &#8220;What kept you back from joining in the Hajj?&#8221; She said, &#8220;We had a camel that we used to ride which Abu Fulan and his son went on, and another we used for farming.&#8221; So Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; said, &#8220;Verily, Umrah in Ramadan is the same (reward) as performing Hajj with me!&#8221; &#8211; Bukhari and Muslim</p>
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<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jan 1990 00:55:44 +0000</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Hasn&#8217;t there come upon man a period of time when they were nothing remembered?&#8220; -]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><font face="Trebuchet MS">&#8220;<strong>Hasn&#8217;t there come upon man a period of time when they were nothing remembered?</strong>&#8220;<br />
- Insaan 76/1</font></p>
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<p><font face="Trebuchet MS">Imagine that you are on the beach. You are four years old. The camp leader has told you that you have five minutes to build a great castle. &#8220;Quickly,&#8221; your three year old Ameer tells you, &#8220;the sand here is too soft. Run closer to the water and get better sand!&#8221;</font></p>
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<p>Off you run and grab, with your tiny hands, as much sand as you can hold. But, as you run back, plop, plop, plop, you feel the sand slipping through your fingers. You can do nothing about it. In your haste, all the sand has slipped away. Bang. The competition is over. This is the analogy of our lives. This is the analogy of our time in Ramadan.</p>
<p>For many living in Western countries, Ramadan is passed daily with 9 to 5 jobs or school &#8211; nights where we may or may not go for Taraweeh. A peak at the TV (may Allah protect us) and the night is over. Back to work where all around us people are eating and drinking from crystal water fountains. Blink. Ramadan is over.</p>
<p>The question of the hour is: how do we take full advantage of this gift of Allah? This is our topic, before the sands of Ramadan slip away.</p>
<p>How many years have we been fasting Ramadan? 10 or 15 or 40 years? Are we 10 or 15 or 40 times better? Or, does it seem like we have arrived back at the drawing board every time Ramadan comes around? All acts of worship are for our own benefit! Don&#8217;t do it and harm befalls you, which is the way life was programmed.</p>
<p>Ramadan is no small matter. It is one of the pillars of this Deen of Islam &#8211; without it one&#8217;s Islam would not be complete. In this month, Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; would intensify his worship of Allah ta&#8217;ala. In doing so, he laid the foundation for his Ummah after him to emulate.</p>
<p>Ibn AlQayyim &#8211; rahimahullaah &#8211; wrote: &#8220;From his blessed guidance &#8211; sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; in Ramadan is that he used to intensify and diversify his actions of worship. So, for example, Jibreel used to rehearse the Qur&#8217;an with him during the nights of Ramadan. When Jibreel would visit him, he would intensify the amount of Sadaqah that he would give. He was the most generous out of all people &#8211; sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; and Ramadan was the time when he was most generous. In Ramadan, he would fill his time with Sadaqah, treating people kindly, reciting Qur&#8217;an, performing Salah, remembering Allah, and performing I&#8217;tikaaf.&#8221; &#8211; Zaad AlMa&#8217;aad</p>
<p>Observers described the way Allah&#8217;s Messenger- sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; gave like Ar-Reeh AlMursalah, like the blessed wind. Why? The blessed wind, as they knew it, was a wind that brought coolness to everyone &#8211; no one was denied its blessing. The blessed wind, additionally, was not lazy in bringing its goodness to the people. It would come swiftly to all. This is how Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; was described, and this is how our service to humanity should be: swift and encompassing. Bi idhnillah.</p>
<p><strong>Below are ten ideas to help make the most of Ramadan &#8211; before it slips through our hands.</strong><br />
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<font color="#ff0000" face="Trebuchet MS">Idea one:</font></strong><font face="Trebuchet MS"> Compound Your Siyaam!</font></p>
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If you told your financial broker that you just want to keep money in the bank and save it, he would say, &#8220;You are wrong.&#8221; &#8220;Invest it in the stock market. That way your money will be compounded &#8211; you will earn multiple times what you put in.&#8221; So now I ask the question: Wouldn&#8217;t you love to get two times the reward of fasting Ramadan? How?</p>
<p>Zayd ibn Khaalid AlJuhanee narrates that the Prophet &#8211; sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; said, &#8220;Whoever gives a fasting person (food) to break his or her fast, he (the one feeding) will get the reward equivalent to the (fasting persons) reward &#8211; without diminishing anything from the reward of the (fasting person).&#8221;</p>
<p>How do we do this? Ask any Muslim relief agency if they have a feed a fasting person program. Subhan Allah, you may find that it only costs $1 to feed a person! So, for $30 you could come out of Ramadan having doubled your reward.</p>
<p>And, we should not forget the needy in our city. We think that in a &#8216;modern&#8217; western country or city there are no needy people. That is not true. There are many needy families that are waiting to be discovered. Ask around and you will find a gold mine of people to help, in your own backyard.</p>
<p>I speak about Washington, DC. If one was to have a food drive, all the food could go to needy Muslim families in DC and still not be enough! I&#8217;ve seen this with my own eyes. How blessed it would be to get the youth that just hang out in the back of the Masjid during Taraweeh to take on this task. Organize the collection of the food and distribute it. It can happen! It just takes a leader with vision to set this up for the youth and all the good people who want to make a difference.</p>
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<font color="#ff0000">Idea two: </font></strong>Operation Guide the Youth</font></p>
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Often in Ramadan, there are khaatirahs, words of wisdom, halaqahs and reminders, all geared to the adults praying Taraweeh. The youth, it seems, are being disrespectful by talking in the back of the masjid.</p>
<p>&#8220;Shhhhh!&#8221; someone shouts at them. &#8220;Listen or go outside (and we prefer if you just go outside)!&#8221; So, quietly they sneak out of the Masjid and chat and chill all Ramadan. How Eeman boosting is that? Remember, Allah commands that you protect your wife and children also.</p>
<p>Try this: Just like there are things for the adults, we could have Ramadan activities and reminders geared specifically for the youth. And, it need not be &#8216;in&#8217; the Masjid. Let&#8217;s say the youth like to chat and chill outside in the parking lot. Why not organize the activity there? Yes, on the basketball court or in the parking lot. Have a 5-minute Khatirah, play games with them, and give them some noble projects to complete in Ramadan.</p>
<p>Again, making a difference like this needs a leader with vision, one who recognizes that the youth are his or her responsibility. I pray that person is you!</p>
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<font color="#ff0000">Idea three:</font></strong> Turnoff TV Month</font></p>
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Every parent knows that when they want their child to do well in their studies they tell them, &#8220;no TV.&#8221; If this is for Dunya, then how about someone who wants to excel in Ramadan?</p>
<p>&#8220;Fasting and the Qur&#8217;an will come and testify on behalf of the &#8216;Abd on the Day of Resurrection. The Fasting will say: O my lord, I denied him food and desires, so allow me to be a means for him to enter paradise. And the Qu&#8217;ran will say: O my Lord, I denied him sleep at night so allow me to be a means for him to enter Paradise. And (he will be entered into paradise) because of those two.&#8221; &#8211; Musnad Ahmad</p>
<p>Try this: Announce in your household that Ramadan is the official turnoff TV month. Be an example for others and do fun and rewarding things instead. Visit people, take on a Ramadan feeding project, increase yourself in knowledge, etc. Turn off the TV and turn on life.</p>
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<font color="#ff0000">Idea Four:</font></strong> Dua&#8217; Time</font></p>
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Ramadan is the month of making dua&#8217; to Allah, an essential compliment to fasting. Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allaahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; said, &#8220;There are three persons dua&#8217; that will be accepted (by Allah). The fasting person, the oppressed one, and the traveler.&#8221;</p>
<p>Try this: Make a list of all your goals in life. Make a section for your a) personal goals; b) spiritual goals; c) economic goals; and d) contribution goals. Every day during Ramadan, take out your list and make dua&#8217; to Allah to grant you the tawfeeq to accomplish your goals. Insha Allah, you will attain your goals with hard work, both during and after Ramadan.</p>
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<font color="#ff0000">Idea Five:</font></strong> Parent Appreciation Month</font></p>
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We all know that the one who wakes us up for Suhoor is our mom. I know it was for me. If not for her alarm clock, her early morning cooking, her motherly love to go and wake everyone up&#8230;well, let&#8217;s just say our iftars would have become our suhoors. If you are living away from your parents, you know what I&#8217;m talking about.</p>
<p>Remember the hadith of the person who doesn&#8217;t reach Ramadan with forgiveness? The end part of the Hadith says they found their parents in old age and they were not a means for him to enter Jannah!</p>
<p>So, why not announce it loud and clear this month, &#8220;Thank you Mom! Thank you Dad!&#8221; Let&#8217;s take care of them this month with extra calls, extra hugs, and extra love.</p>
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<font color="#ff0000">Idea Six:</font></strong> Masjid Power Hour</font></p>
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During Ramadan, why not spend a few more moments in the Masjid before taking off. This could be done after Fajr or after Asr. Sit back, grab a Qur&#8217;an and remember Allah. As your time in the Masjid increases, bi idhnillaah, your love and heart attachment will increase. Make this your personal Masjid power hour.</p>
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<font color="#ff0000">Idea Seven:</font></strong> Bad Habit Buster</font></p>
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Many people already do this. They may have a smoking problem or a TV addiction. When Ramadan comes around they say, &#8220;I&#8217;m going to train myself to stop smoking or to stop watching excessive TV by abandoning it throughout Ramadan.&#8221;</p>
<p>So, you don&#8217;t have a smoking problem huh? Everyone has a bad habit and everyone has a recurring sin they pray they could desist from. Make Ramadan the training month by telling yourself to go without this sin for the entire month. Then, if Allah grants one Tawfeeq to complete the month, one should continue to pray to Allah to keep them away from the sin after Ramadan.</p>
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<font color="#ff0000">Idea Eight:</font></strong> The Gift Groove</font></p>
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Have you ever noticed how beloved a bottle of perfume is when it is handed out by a little four year old Muslim? Everyone loves a gift.</p>
<p>Why not take this a step forward? Go to your local Islamic bookstore and request a bulk purchase of some beneficial Islamic materials, something in the $1 range. Then, hand it out to everyone that comes to your masjid. Bi idhnillaah, you will find for the little effort one may put, people all throughout Ramadan will be learning from the gift.</p>
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<font color="#ff0000">Idea Nine:</font></strong> Ramadan Muslims, Convert!</font></p>
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It is true that on the first day of Ramadan, the number of Muslims in the local Masjid multiplies considerably. And, it is a sad moment on the first day after Ramadan that the Masjid attendance drops significantly. This idea is Operation No More Ramadan Muslims. We want people all year long!</p>
<p>Ibn Abbas I&#8217;tikaaf: A man came to Ibn Abbas while he was doing I&#8217;tikaaf in the masjid and asked him for his assistance. So, Ibn Abbas stood to leave and people around him warned him, &#8216;but you are in I&#8217;tikaaf&#8217;. He replied, &#8220;To assist my brother in fulfilling his need is more beloved to me than to perform I&#8217;tikaaf for 2 months in the Masjid of Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu &#8216;alayhi wa sallam.&#8221;</p>
<p>Try this: Make a &#8216;compassion crew&#8217; that reaches out specifically to Ramadan Muslims. Extra special attention is showered on them and roles of responsibility are delegated to them so that they can participate more in the Masjid. Invite them to special Iftars where they are the center of attention.</p>
<p>With this extra attention and responsibility, bi idhnillaah, every month will be Ramadan for them and the masjids will be full all year.</p>
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<font color="#ff0000">Idea Ten:</font></strong> Home Halaqah</font></p>
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Muslim families often keep their worship for the Masjid, but why not make Muslim family time at home. It could work like this: After Taraweeh or Asr, the family gathers together for 15 minutes. There are many things you could do in your Halaqah, the main thing is that you set time aside for it.</p>
<p>For example, each family member may recite a few verses of Qur&#8217;an. Or, one of the kids can read a story of the Sahaabah so that all family members can be reminded. Or, each family member can speak about the blessings of Allah upon them and what they have in their lives for which they are thankful.</p>
<p>Just 15 minutes for the home Halaqah. For the entire family, bi idhnillah, it will be a spring of Eeman.</p>
<p><strong>Ten ideas to enhance your Ramadan:</strong></font></font></p>
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<font color="#ff0000"><strong>Idea one: Compound Your Siyaam!</strong><br />
<strong>Idea two: Operation Guide the Youth<br />
Idea Three: Turnoff TV Month<br />
Idea Four: Dua&#8217; Time<br />
Idea Five: Parent Appreciation Month<br />
Idea Six: Masjid Power Hour<br />
Idea Seven: Bad Habit Buster<br />
Idea Eight: The Gift Groove<br />
Idea Nine: Ramadan Muslims, Convert!<br />
Idea Ten: Home Halaqah</strong></font></p>
<p>The past saw Muslims that spent their nights of Ramadan awake praying to Allah. It saw days where people, for the sake of Allah, went thirsty.</p>
<p>They knew that this season may never return on them and they heard Allah&#8217;s words &#8220;Ayyaman Ma&#8217;doodaat&#8221;- a limited number of days. Don&#8217;t let the sand of Ramadan slip away.</font></font></p></blockquote>
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<title><![CDATA[When I Grow Up, I Want to be Abu Bakr]]></title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jan 1990 00:54:23 +0000</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[After groups of people had become Muslim, Abu Bakr &#8211; Radi Allahu Anhu- insisted to Rasul Allah]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p align="left"><font size="3">After groups of people had become Muslim, Abu Bakr &#8211; Radi Allahu Anhu- insisted to Rasul Allah &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; that they– the Muslims – declare their Islam publicly and not hide. RasulAllah finally agreed and as a group they entered the courtyard of the Ka&#8217;bah, each taking a corner, and called out to the people about Islam. Abu Bakr &#8211; Radi Allahu Anhu &#8211; was the first Khateeb to invite to Allah and His Messenger.</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">When the mob sitting there heard Abu Bakr &#8211; Radi Allahu Anhu &#8211; and others speaking about Allah and Islam, they ignited in anger and began stoning and beating the Muslims. Utbah pounced on Abu Bakr -Radi Allahu Anhu &#8211; with his leather sandals, slapping him repeatedly in the face until Abu Bakr &#8211; Radi Allahu Anhu &#8211; was knocked down. He then fell on top of Abu Bakr &#8211; Radi Allahu Anhu &#8211; punching him in the stomach and continued the facial blows. Abu Bakr&#8217;s tribe peeled Utbah off of him finally and swore that if Abu Bakr dies, they were going to chop off Utbah&#8217;s head in revenge. Abu Bakr lay in the blood, his face indiscernible, unconscious.</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">It was only until nightfall that Abu Bakr &#8211; Radi Allahu Anhu &#8211; began to show signs of life. Do you know what the first words he spoke were? &#8220;What happened to Rasul Allah? What happened to Rasul Allah?&#8221; His mother offered him food but he refused. &#8220;I shall not touch food until I am taken to Rasul Allah and am reassured that he is alright&#8221;.</font></p>
<p align="left"><font size="3">They carried him to Daar Al-Arqam and when he entered, Rasul Allah cried at the state that Abu Bakr &#8211; Radi Allahu Anhu &#8211; was in and hugged him. He held the hug as the Muslims gathered around.</font></p>
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<p align="left"><strong><font size="4">Role Models</font></strong><font size="3">- In his book Risaalat Al-Mu&#8217;allim, Jamal Abideen tells us that at the age of 2 – perhaps earlier – the boy or girl begins habitually imitating all that they see. At age of 5 or 6 – when the child is in kindergarten and grade 1 – they reach a climax in imitating anything that they see, good or bad. Then this habit of imitating smoothes out but continues to play the most vital role in the child&#8217;s upbringing.</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">Ibn Khaldoon writes in his Muqaddimah about this issue, &#8220;Children are influenced most by a role model. In there early years, children think that everything that adults do is correct and good. And that their parents are the best amongst the adults and the most perfect.&#8221;</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">Children do not learn by being told, they learn by example. How much weight does a commandment to a child have to fast when the parent or teacher himself is eating a sandwich? For this reason, it is something hated and despised by Allah that a person should command good and he himself do other than what he commands. For indeed, his words will have little worth when the two – his actions and commandments &#8211; are contradictory.</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">1. Whatsoever is in the heavens and whatsoever is on the earth glorifies Allâh. And He is the All-Mighty, the All-Wise.</font></p>
<p align="left"><font size="3">2. O you who believe! Why do you say that which you do not do?</font></p>
<p align="left"><font size="3">3. Most hateful it is with Allâh that you say that which you do not do.]<br />
- Surah Al Saff</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">And in Saheeh Muslim, the Prohet &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; said, &#8220;A man will be brought on the day or ressurection and be thrown into hellfire. The inhabitants of hellfire shall gather around him and say, `O so and so! What is wrong? Were you not the one that would tell people to do good and tell them to stay away from doing bad?&#8217; He shall say, `Yes, I used to command people to do good but I would not do it myself, and I would command people to stay away from bad and I myself would commit it.&#8217;&#8221;</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">The severity of this warning stems from the harmful scars that cut into a child&#8217;s personality when he sees his role models doing wrong and not doing what&#8217;s right. By us not following what we claim to believe in, we could be causing the destruction of dozens of lives on the day of resurrection.</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">It is in this search for our role models that we turn to the shining light – Abu Bakr as Siddeeq, Radi Allahu Anhu.</font></p>
<p align="left"><font size="3">When the Prophet &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; received the first revealations, the first man he approached was his best friend: Abu Bakr. When Abu Bakr &#8211; Radi Allahu Anhu &#8211; heard that Muhammad had been chosen as a Prophet, he immediately announced, &#8220;I&#8217;ve never tasted a lie from you. I testify that there is no god but Allah, and you are the Messenger of Allah.&#8221; Rasul Allah later said, &#8220;There is no one that I have spoken to about Islam that did not debate the issue with me except Abu Bakr.&#8221;</font></p>
<p align="left"> </p>
<p align="left"><font size="3">With the few verses that he knew, Abu Bakr &#8211; Radi Allahu Anhu &#8211; set off to invite to this Deen of Al-Islam. Soon, he was escorting by the hand the likes of Uthmaan, Az-Zubayr, AbdArRahmaan ibn `Owf, Sa&#8217;d, Abu `Ubaidah, and Talha – six of the ten people who were promised Jannah during their time on earth. And on the day of resurrection they shall all be written in the book of Abu Bakr&#8217;s good works.</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">In the early days of Islam, Abu Bakr &#8211; Radi Allahu Anhu &#8211; would walk around the markets and homes observing all the Muslim slaves that were being tortured. He would watch as Umayyah dragged Bilal out to the grilling desert at noon time – the hottest moments of the day. Umayyah would press Bilal to the scalding ground and place a boulder on top of his chest to increase the torture. Bilal would say nothing but, &#8220;Ahad, Ahad – One, only One&#8221;. Abu Bakr would watch and whisper to Bilal, &#8220;YunJeeka AlWaahidul Ahad – The One (Allah) shall save you!&#8221;</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">Abu Bakr went to Umayyah and requested that he sell him Bilal for 5 uwqiyyah of gold. Umayyah was astonished at that amount and hurriedly agreed. &#8220;Take Bilal there is no good in him&#8221;. After the deal was done, Umayyah snickered, &#8220;Had you refused to pay more than 1 uwqiyyah I still would have sold him to you.&#8221; And Abu Bakr announced, &#8220;And had you refused to sell him for no less than 100 uwqiyyah I still would have bought him!&#8221;</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">Evil wishers – like always – spread rumors about Abu Bakrs freeing of Bilal, saying that he did it only because of a favor he owed him. In the Quran, in verses to be recited till the end of time, Allah lay clear the intentions of Abu Bakr:</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">[18. He who spends his wealth for increase in self-purification,<br />
19. And have in his mind no favor from anyone for which a reward is<br />
expected in return,<br />
20. Except only the desire to seek the Countenance of his Lord, the<br />
Most High;<br />
21. He surely will be pleased (when he will enter Paradise).]<br />
- Surah Al-Layl</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">Read that last verse again. Allah is telling Abu Bakr &#8211; Radi Allahu Anhu &#8211; that he is going to make him satisfied. Allahu Akbar! Imagine if Allah told you that. Would anything in the world be more valuable to you than that one ayah?</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">This was Abu Bakr, this was Khaleefatu Rasulillaah. When `Amr ibn Al- Aas became Muslim, Rasul Allah appointed him as a leader for one of the Muslim armies.</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">`Amr believed that this could only be so because Rasul Allah– Sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam – loved HIM the most. So after the army had returned, `Amr went and sat by Rasul Allah – Sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam – and asked him so that everyone would hear the answer: Who do you love the most. Rasul Allah replied, &#8220;Aisha&#8221;. His wife. Startled, `Amr asked, &#8220;No, no, from the men who?&#8221; He said, &#8220;Her father!&#8221; Abu Bakr, Radi Allahu `Anhu.</font></p>
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<p align="left"><strong><font size="4" color="#006666">Part II: Who are our role Models?</font></strong></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">Have you ever sat with your children or some Muslim neighbor&#8217;s children. Give them a basketball and lower the rim for them and listen to what they say. All – with few exceptions – will call out the name of a Kafir basketball player as they take the shot. You&#8217;ll hear the name of Michael Jordan shouted out and others, a name that comes from their heart as they slam the ball in glee.</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">Listen carefully, they are innocently calling to the world, &#8220;I wanna be a Kafir basketball player, just like that kafir Jordan.&#8221; Don&#8217;t be surprised when they reach University, after they&#8217;ve lost their precious youth and they can spit a ball into a basket with unbelievable precision, but cannot read Al-Fatiha without fumbling like a baby.</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">On the day of Resurrection, these entertainment idols shall disown all those that took them as role models and imitated their sins. Interestingly, Reebok advertised one of these entertainment idols dunking a ball and at the end of the commercial he walks to the camera and says, &#8220;Just because I dunk a ball doesn&#8217;t mean I have to raise your kids.&#8221; Subhan Allah, if children and parents only understood what he said.</font></p>
<p align="left"> </p>
<p align="left"><font size="3">Look at the real models and the children that took thatm as their models. Aisha narrates that Rasul Allah used to visit them in the mornings and in the evenings. But one day he came at noon time – a time that signified something different was happening. Abu Bakr &#8211; Radi Allahu Anhu &#8211; opened the door and Rasul Allah announced that Allah had given him permission to do Hijrah to Madinah. Abu Bakr bounced out, &#8220;Together, Yaa Rasul Allah, together!&#8221; And Rasul Allah replied, &#8220;together.&#8221; Abu Bakr began to cry.</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">Aisha comments, &#8220;I never believed that someone could cry from happiness until I saw my father that day cry when he found out he would be doing Hijrah with Rasul Allah.&#8221;</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">Look at the Hijrah incident and you shall see that all the characters involved other than Abu Bakr were children. Aisha and her brother Abd ArRahmaan. Asmaa was slapped in the face by Abu Jahl when she refused to tell him where her father was. The guide that took them to Madinah was also a young boy. Subhan Allah, these children grew up to be amongst the greatest humans to ever walk this earth. How not when they had the greatest role models: Rasul Allah and Abu Bakr.</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">After over 10 years of Da&#8217;wah and Jihad in Madinah, when Rasul Allah passed away, Umar called all the people, sharpened his sword and spoke. &#8220;Muhammad is not dead. He went to his lord as Musa went to his lord and he shall come back as Musa did. When he does, he shall kill all those who said he was dead.&#8221;</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">News reached Abu Bakr of the Prophet&#8217;s death. He prepared himself and galloped on his horse to Rasul Allah&#8217;s home. There Rasul Allah lay covered in a cloth. Abu Bakr raised the cloth and kissed the Rasul Allah. `Tibta Hayyan wa Mayyitan – you are blessed in life and in death.&#8217; He then stepped outside as Umar was addressing the people. &#8221; Sit down Umar,&#8221; said Abu Bakr. He then praised Allah and began, &#8220;Whoever worships Muhammad let him know that Muhammad is dead, and whoever Allah let him know that Allah is alive and never dies.&#8221; He then recited the verse, [Muhammad is nothing more than a Messenger. Messenger came and went before him. If he dies or is killed shall you turn on your heels?]</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">Umar said, &#8220;when I heard that verse, my knees became soft as I fell. I knew that Rasul Allah had died.&#8221;</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">Soon after that, Abu Bakr sent out the army of Usaamah. Usaamah was 18 at that time, the age of one of our youth in grade 12. He led an entire Muslim army, fought the romans and came home victorious, breeding fear in all those that wanted to attack the Muslims in Madinah.</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">As Usaamah was leaving Madinah, Abu Bakr was escorting his horse as he walked along side it. Usaamah said, &#8220;you shall ride with me or I shall come down and walk.&#8221; But Abu Bakr refused, &#8220;You shall not come down and I shall not ride. What harm does it bring me that I should dust my feet in the cause of Allah for an hour of the day.&#8221; Indeed, Usaamah reached this position because of he had role models like Abu Bakr.</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">Muslims understood the seriousness of the role models their children had. `Amr ibn Utbah – Rahimahullaah – advised his son&#8217;s teacher, &#8220;Let the first correction you do to my son be the correction of yourself. Verily, their eyes are locked into yours. Good to them is what you do, even if it is bad. And Bad to them is what you do not do, even if it is good.&#8221;</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">Many parents have understood this issue of finding the correct role models for their children. Here is an example that we conclude with: In a kindergarten classroom, a non-Muslim teacher sat with the students and asked each one what they want to be when they grow up. One said, &#8220;I want to be a policeman.&#8221; The other announced, &#8220;I want to be a fireman.&#8221; Then a Muslim boy in the crowd spoke up, &#8220;I want to be a Sahaabi!&#8221; A what?</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">When parent teacher conferences came up, the teacher asked the parents about this Sahaabee that their son wanted to be when he grew up. They said, &#8220;Whenever they have the chance they read stories of the Prophet&#8217;s companions to him. They have become his role models. And when he becomes older he wants to be just like the Sahaabi.&#8221;</font></p>
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<p align="left"><font size="3">Isn&#8217;t that what we want for our kids too?</font></p>
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<blockquote><p><font size="3" color="#000000">During his Caliphate, &#8216;Umar, may Allâh be pleased with him, once set out for ash-Shâm (Damascus) and with him was Abû &#8216;Ubaydah. They came upon a deep creek which they needed to cross. So &#8216;Umar took off his sandals and carried them on his shoulders. Then he took the reign of the camel and began ploughing through the water. Abû &#8216;Ubaydah &#8211; seeing the <em>Khalîfah</em> (Leader) of the Muslims in this state &#8211; felt saddened and said, &#8220;I fear that the people of the village will think you without any honour.&#8221;  &#8217;Umar said, </font><font size="3" color="#000000">&#8220;Oh Abû &#8216;Ubaydah, if only someone less knowledgeable then you made such a statement. We were of the most disgraced of people and Allâh granted us honour with this Islâm. Now, whenever we seek honour in other than that which Allâh honoured us with, Allâh shall disgrace us (once again).&#8221;</font></p>
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<p><font size="3" color="#000000">Dear brothers and sisters, we hear often that the victory of Allâh is something promised and very near. However, some of us do not really believe in our hearts that Allâh will grant victory to Islâm. Some of us may think that this victory that Allâh speaks about is only for a certain &#8216;star-status&#8217; group of believers, or that the victory was only for a certain time in history, or that it&#8217;s not a promised victory, just a miraculous will of God &#8230;</p>
<p>We must understand that it is not anyone who is promising this &#8211; it is Allâh the Lord of the Heavens and the Earth. And it is not just a promise of the Hereafter, but it is promised in this life as well. In <em>Sûrah Ghâfir</em> (40:51), we read:</font></p>
<p><font size="2" face="Trebuchet MS"><font face="Trebuchet MS"></p>
<blockquote><p><strong><font size="3" color="#000000">&#8220;Indeed, we will grant victory to Our Messengers and those who believe in this life of the world and on the day when the witnesses will stand.&#8221;</font></strong></p></blockquote>
<p><font size="3" color="#000000">We can only hope for victory when we surrender our loyalty to Allâh and His Messenger and to the believers &#8211; and no one else! In <em>Sûrah al-Mâ&#8217;idah</em> (5:56), we read:</font></p>
<blockquote><p><strong><font size="3" color="#000000">&#8220;And whoever is an ally of Allâh and His Messenger and those who have believed &#8211; indeed the party of Allâh will be the victors.&#8221;</font></strong></p></blockquote>
<p><font size="3" color="#000000">Honour and victory come only from Allâh. Whoever seeks it from other than Allâh, nothing awaits them but disgrace. In <em>Sûrah an-Nisâ&#8217;</em> (4:138-139), we read:</font></p>
<blockquote><p><strong><font size="3" color="#000000">&#8220;Give glad tidings to the <em>Munâfiqîn</em> (hypocrites) that there is for them a painful punishment &#8211; those that take disbelievers as allies instead of the believers. Do they seek with them <em>&#8216;Izzah</em> (Honour)? Rather, to Allâh indeed belongs all honour!&#8221;</font></strong></p></blockquote>
<p><font size="3" color="#000000">And when someone thinks that this victory and honour that was promised to the righteous is only a delusion, they are in fact recycling the statements of the <em>Munâfiqîn</em> before them. Allâh recorded their scoffing in <em>Sûrah Ahzâb</em> (33:12):</font></p>
<blockquote><p><strong><font size="3" color="#000000">&#8220;And (remember) when the hypocrites and those in whose hearts is disease said, &#8216;Allâh and His Messenger did not promise us anything more then delusion.&#8217; &#8220;</font></strong></p></blockquote>
<p><font size="3" color="#000000">Was the promise of victory just a delusion? Let the <em>Qur&#8217;ân</em> speak to us the outcome &#8211; dear brothers and sisters &#8211; of that battle of <em>al-Ahzâb</em>! Allâh tells us:</font></p>
<blockquote><p><strong><font size="3" color="#000000">&#8220;And Allâh repelled those who disbelieved, in their rage, not having accomplished any good.  And enough was Allâh for the believers in battle, and ever is Allâh Powerful and Exalted in Might.&#8221;</font></strong></p></blockquote>
<p><font size="3" color="#000000">Ibn Kathîr said, &#8220;Whoever wants a place of honour in this life and the next, let him hold firmly to the obedience of Allâh &#8211; his goal will be realised.  This is because to Allâh belongs this life and next and all honour is His. Allâh says (3:26):</font></p>
<blockquote><p><font size="3" color="#000000"><strong>Say, &#8216;O Allâh, Owner of Sovereignty, You give sovereignty to whom You will and You take sovereignty away from whom You will.  You honour whom You will and You humble whom You will. In Your hand is (all) good.  Indeed, You are over all things competent.&#8217;</strong> &#8220;</font></p></blockquote>
<p><font size="3" color="#000000">King, prince, duke, marquise, earl, viscount, baron, baronet, and knight &#8211; these were the names the English used to appropriate nobility amongst themselves. Humans want to be honoured in this life and so they set out in search of things that will grant them this honour.</font></p>
<p><font size="3" color="#000000">Some search for it in money &#8211; but when a stock market crashes and they lose everything, they commit suicide or live in humility. Some search for it in degrees &#8211; but those same degrees may be their citation for arrogance over others. Some search for it in military might or leadership position &#8211; but when the tables turn on them they become the most humiliated. </font></p>
<p><font size="3" color="#000000">Only in the worship of Allâh is true honour found, because all honour belongs to Allâh; <em>Sûrah al-Munâfiqûn</em> (63:8), we read:</font></p>
<blockquote><p><strong><font size="3" color="#000000">&#8220;And to Allâh belongs all honour, and to His Messenger, and to the believers, but the hypocrites know not.&#8221;</font></strong></p></blockquote>
<p><font size="3" color="#000000">Al-Hasan al-Basrî said concerning the people of sin, &#8220;They &#8211; even though their riding beasts pitter patter with them atop, and their mules carry them ever so gracefully, upon them at all times is the hovering disgrace of sin. Allâh shall never allow for those who disobey Him anything more then disgrace.&#8221;</font></p>
<p><font size="3" color="#000000">In <em>Sûrah al-Hajj</em> (22:18), we read:</font></p>
<blockquote><p><strong><font size="3" color="#000000">&#8220;And whoever Allâh humiliates &#8211; for him there is no one to give him honour.&#8221;</font></strong></p></blockquote>
<p><font size="3" color="#000000">&#8220;He&#8217;s doing what? Building a boat in the desert?&#8221; The people of Nûh (Noah) ran out to see if the news was true.  Um-hmm, there he was indeed, building a huge boat without a drop of water in site.</font></p>
<p><font size="3" color="#000000">Allâh tells us in <em>Sûrah Hûd</em> (11:38):</font></p>
<blockquote><p><strong><font size="3" color="#000000">&#8220;And he constructed the ark &#8211; whenever a group of the eminent of his people passed him they mocked him.&#8221;</font></strong></p></blockquote>
<p><font size="3" color="#000000">They couldn&#8217;t help themselves but to ridicule him. &#8221;Hey Nûh, you were a Prophet yesterday; Have you now become a carpenter?&#8221;</font></p>
<p><font size="3" color="#000000">What happened, dear brothers and sisters, to those devilish people who disbelieved in Allâh&#8217;s Messenger for 950 years &#8211; where are they now? And who was the winner in the end?</font></p>
<p><font size="3" color="#000000">Certainly, in the end Allâh granted a decisive victory to Nûh.  More so, Allâh tells His Prophet, may Allâh send His prayers and blessings upon him, at the conclusion of Nûh&#8217;s story how victory will always be for the believers:</font></p>
<blockquote><p><strong><font size="3" color="#000000">&#8220;So be patient, indeed, the (best) outcome is (and will always be) for the righteous.&#8221;</font></strong></p></blockquote>
<p></font><font size="3" color="#000000" face="Trebuchet MS"></font><font face="Trebuchet MS"><font size="3" color="#000000">In their misguided quest for <em>&#8216;Izzah</em> (honour), the Greeks designated a female god whose sole job was to dispense victory and honour. She was a popular subject in their art, usually represented as winged and bearing a wreath or palm branch. They called her Nike. And many of us leaving this <em>khutbah</em> may still sadly find remnants of their <em>shirk</em> present today on our shoes.</font></p>
<p><font size="3"><font color="#000000">The Prophet, may Allâh send His prayers and blessings upon him, said, </font><em><font color="#000000">&#8220;Indeed this affair (of Islâm) shall reach wherever the night and day reach. Allâh will not spare a single clay or wabar home except that Allâh will cause for Islâm to enter it &#8211; whether with nobility or with humiliation. Nobility that Allâh grants with them entering Islâm, or humility that Allâh places upon them for their kufr (disbelief).&#8221;</font></em></font></p>
<p><font size="3" color="#000000">The narrator of the <em>hadîth</em>, Tamîm ad-Dârî, may Allâh be pleased with him, said, &#8220;Certainly, I saw this in my own family. Those that become Muslim amongst them found prosperity and nobility and honour. And those that turned to <em>kufr</em> found nothing but disgrace and humility and the <em>jizyah</em> tax (a tax paid by non-Muslims living in the Islamic state).&#8221;</font></p>
<p><font size="3" color="#000000">There are different ways in which Allâh grants victory to His righteous servants: Allâh may grant victory through martyrdom. We read in the <em>Qur&#8217;ân</em> Allâh telling us to not think that those who were killed in the way of Allâh as dead. Nay, they are alive with Allâh, well provided for.</font></p>
<p><font size="3" color="#000000">Allâh may grant victory through the huge success in spreading one&#8217;s <em>da&#8217;wah</em>. The Messenger of Allâh, may Allâh send His prayers and blessings upon him, taught us this in the story of the boy and the king. In the end, the only way the king could kill the boy was to shoot the arrow pronouncing the statement, &#8216;In the Name of the Lord of this boy.&#8217;  When he did so, although the boy was martyred, the entire village believed in Allâh, alone, the Lord of the boy.</font></p>
<p><font size="3" color="#000000">Allâh may grant victory through the trials that distinguish the believers from the hypocrites. As a sage once said, &#8220;All thanks are to Allâh who places a hardship on me through which I distinguish my friends from my enemies.&#8221;</font></p>
<p><font size="3" color="#000000">Or victory may come through Allâh assisting his servant with clear and decisive arguments. An example of this is how Allâh supported Ibrâhîm, peace be upon him, against the tyrant Namrûd when he said that he too gives life and death. Ibrâhîm replied that verily Allâh brings the sun from the east so bring it ye from the west. Namrûd was dumbfounded and had no reply.</font></p>
<p><font size="3" color="#000000">In conclusion, we all know that the Messenger of Allâh, may Allâh send His prayers and blessings upon him, started this mission of Islâm at the Mountain of Safa. After telling his people about Allâh and the Final Day, Abû Jahl &#8211; his own uncle &#8211; turned his back on him and said aloud, &#8220;May you perish O Muhammad! Is this why you have gathered us?&#8221; On his heels he turned and everyone followed him, leaving our Prophet, may Allâh send His prayers and blessings upon him, standing alone.</font></p>
<p><font size="3" color="#000000">Two decades later, in the Farewell Hajj, he, may Allâh send His prayers and blessings upon him, stood on that very same mountain. At this time, the victory of Allâh had come true as Allâh had promised. All of Makkah was now Muslim, a sea of believers memorising their Prophet&#8217;s every move. The Messenger of Allâh, may Allâh send His prayers and blessings upon him, stood there on Mount Safa and faced the <em>Ka&#8217;bah</em> and recited:</font></p>
<p align="center"><em><font size="3" color="#000000">&#8220;There is no god but Allâh. Only One. He was true to His promise. He granted victory to His servant. He granted honour and nobility to his army. And the confederates did He &#8211; alone &#8211; defeat.&#8221;</font></em></p>
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<title><![CDATA[Memoirs from the Life of Imam Ahmad]]></title>
<link>http://diversatility.wordpress.com/1990/01/01/memoirs-from-the-life-of-imam-ahmad/</link>
<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jan 1990 00:52:08 +0000</pubDate>
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<guid>http://diversatility.wordpress.com/1990/01/01/memoirs-from-the-life-of-imam-ahmad/</guid>
<description><![CDATA[In an interesting book, Wadaa&#8217; ar-Rasul li &#8216;Ummatihi, Shaykh al-Qahtaani recalls the fin]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><font size="2">In an interesting book, Wadaa&#8217; ar-Rasul li &#8216;Ummatihi, Shaykh al-Qahtaani recalls the final words that Rasulallah (saw) said on his deathbed.</font><font size="2">After living a life of Jihad, Da&#8217;wah, and Ibadah, Rasulallah, sallallahu &#8216;alayhi wa sallam, gathered the people around him on his deathbed and said, &#8220;I have left two things that you shall not go astray after them so long as you stick to them: the Book of Allah and My Sunnah.&#8221;</font></p>
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<p><font size="2">After Rasulallah, sallallahu &#8216;alayhi wa sallam, moved onto ar-Rafiq al-&#8217;Ala, the Ummah was tested with humans that tried to corrupt, discredit, or amputate the Sunnah from Islam.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">And from the depths of the Ummah&#8217;s men and women, Allah ta&#8217;ala &#8211; from His mercy to the Ummah of Muhammad &#8211; raised up warriors that would stand in the face of the most vicious of the enemies of the Sunnah.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">From those people that Allah ta&#8217;ala raised was a young boy named Ahmad. Ahmad lived in Baghdad over a thousand years ago. On those cold wintery nights, his mother &#8211; the blessed Mu&#8217;minah that she was &#8211; would wake long before Fajr to warm the water for her son. Then &#8211; again long before Fajr &#8211; she would wake him to make Wudhu, then she would wrap him in shawls and off through the molten dark alleys of Baghdad they would carefully make their way to the Masjid.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">There was no male to escort him (he was an orphan), so Ahmad&#8217;s mother would take him that early so that he could get a good seat in the hadith halaqah after Fajr. Then she would wait for him long after the sun rose to safely escort him back home. Her son grew up to be one of these warrior defenders of the Sunnah, one of the four Imams of this Din, Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">In his collection, al-Musnad alone, he narrated from over 280 teachers.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">He grew up under the shade of the Sunnah and he lived the Sunnah. It was reported that he said, &#8220;I&#8217;ve never written a hadith that I did not try to implement.&#8221;</font></p>
<p><font size="2">And he raised his children like this too. When you see other fathers throwing a baseball with their young Muslims that Allah entrusted them with, remember this example:</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Abdullah, Imam Ahmad&#8217;s son, taught his students that when he was young his father would play with him, &#8220;Take any chapter you wish from the Musannaf of Waki&#8217;. Ask me any hadîth and I&#8217;ll tell you the chain of narrators, or tell me any chain of narrators and I&#8217;ll tell you the hadith!&#8221;</font></p>
<p><font size="2">He was challenged in his Deen like few other humans have been challenged. His name remains engraved in our admiration till today &#8211; across hundreds of years, across thousands of miles, across thousands of nations &#8211; because of his love for the Sunnah and his stand against those that would seek to corrupt it.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Reading through his life, I came across an event that brought back sad memories. How do you feel when your father is swore at in public. Imam Ahmad once prayed &#8216;Asr and he sat with his son in the Masjid alone with another man by the name of Muhammad ibn Sa&#8217;id Al-Khuttali. Al-Khuttali then remarked, &#8220;Did you (O Ahmad) tell the people to boycott Zayd ibn Khalaf?&#8221; Imam Ahmâd replied, &#8220;I received a letter from his people asking about his affair, so I replied explaining his Madhhab and what he has innovated (in the Sunnah) and commanded that they not sit with him..&#8221; Al-Khuttali exploded in Imam Ahmad&#8217;s face, red with anger, &#8220;I&#8217;m going to make sure you go back to prison. I&#8217;m going to have them crush your ribs.&#8221; The vulgarity grew louder and louder. Imam Ahmad turned to his son, &#8220;Don&#8217;t reply to what he says and don&#8217;t speak to him.&#8221;</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Imam Ahmad took his sandals &#8211; al-Khuttali swearing from behind his back &#8211; and told his son, &#8220;Tell the neighbors to not speak to him nor to reply him.&#8221; Imam Ahmad stepped away as Al-Khuttali continued in the background cursing and shouting profanity.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">When the Khalifah al-Mu&#8217;tasim heard that Imam Ahmad had not agreed with him and his court Muftis on a specific issue, they brought him and questioned him in the courtyard of the Khalifah. They would debate with him and like a gladiator with a spear he would hit back with bigger and stronger arguments. The Muftis would shout, &#8220;O Khalifah, he has done Kufr!&#8221; Until the Al-Mu&#8217;tasim was convinced and in came the executioners.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">They stripped Imam Ahmad and each of the strongest guards would take turns lashing Imam Ahmad until he fell unconscious. Regardless of his state, they continued the lashing. The sun went down that day and Imam Ahmad had not relented in his faith. That day he became an icon for all followers of Sunnah.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Qutaybah said, &#8220;If you ever see someone that loves Imam Ahmad, know that they are a follower of the Sunnah.&#8221;</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Al-Hasan ibn Arafah narrated, &#8220;I visited Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal after he was whipped and tortured. I said to him, &#8220;O Abu Abdillah, you have reached the station of the Prophets!&#8221; He said, &#8220;Keep quiet. Verily, I saw nothing more than people selling their Deen. And I saw scholars that were with me sell their Faith. So I said to myself, &#8216;Who am I, what am I. What am I going to say to Allah tomorrow when I stand in front of Him and He asks me, &#8220;Did you sell your Deen like the others did?&#8221; So I looked at the whip and the sword and chose them.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">And I said, &#8220;If I die I shall return to Allah and say: &#8216;I was told to say that one of Your Characteristics was something created but I did not.&#8217; After that, it will be up to Him &#8211; either to punish me or forgive me.&#8221;</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Al-Hasan ibn Arafah then asked, &#8220;Did you feel pain when they whipped you?&#8221; He said &#8220;Yes, I felt the pain up to 20 lashes then I lost all feeling (They whipped him over eighty times). After it was over I felt no pain and that day I prayed Dhuhr standing.&#8221;</font></p>
<p><font size="2">[In fact he prayed as the blood soiled his clothes.]</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Al-Hasan ibn Arafah started weeping when he heard what had happened. Imam Ahmad questioned him, &#8220;Why are you crying? I did not lose my eeman. After that why should I care if I lose my life.&#8221;</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Qul lan yuseebana illa maa kataballaahu lana, huwa Mowlaana, wa ala Allahi falyatawakkalil mutawakkilun.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Before &#8211; when Imam Ahmad was being led off to the Khalifah &#8211; people had tried to dissuade him from a most certain execution. His student: Al-Marrudhi had told him, &#8220;O teacher, Allah says, Do not kill yourselves.&#8221; Imam Ahmad had replied, &#8220;O Marrudhi, go outside and tell me what you see.&#8221; Al-Marrudhi went to the wall of the Khalifah&#8217;s court and saw an ocean of students with their pens and scrolls in their hands.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Al-Marrudhi asked some of them, &#8220;What are you waiting here for?&#8221; They said, &#8220;We are waiting to see what Ahmad will say and then transcribe it.&#8221; Al-Marrudhi went back to Imam Ahmad and told him what he had seen.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">&#8220;O Marrudhi,&#8221; he said, &#8220;what shall I gain by misguiding all those people?&#8221;</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Imam Ahmad lived a life of poverty. When others eat lavishly remember there were days &#8211; as &#8216;Abdur-Razzaq recalls &#8211; that Imam Ahmad would make a mistake in Salah. When &#8216;Abdur-Razzaq inquired further he learnt that Imam Ahmad had not eaten for 3 days.</font></p>
<p><font size="2">In this life of poverty, hardship and trials, Abdullâa asked his father one day, &#8220;Abi when will we ever relax?&#8221; His father, one of the greatest revivers of the Sunnah, a role model for all Muslims, looked him in the eye and said, &#8220;With the first step we take into Jannah.&#8221;</font></p>
<p><font size="2">Rahim Allâhu Al-Imam Ahmad.</font></p>
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<link>http://diversatility.wordpress.com/1990/01/01/lazy-boy-its-all-in-your-mind/</link>
<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jan 1990 00:51:29 +0000</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[During the time of the Prophet Muhammad (sal Allaahu &#8216;alayhi wa sallam ), an incident happened]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>During the time of the Prophet Muhammad (sal Allaahu &#8216;alayhi wa sallam ), an incident happened in which a man slept the entire night and he missed the Fajr prayer. Despite the fact that this is a very common occurrence in our present day, at that time such things rarely happened.</p>
<p>He missed Fajr, and so they came and spoke to the Prophet (sal Allaahu &#8216;alayhi wa sallam ) about this&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8216;Abdullaah ibn Mas&#8217;ood, (radiyAllaahu &#8216;anhu) narrates: A man came and said to the Prophet (sal Allaahu &#8216;alayhi wa sallam ), &#8220;Oh Messenger of Allaah, verily a person slept last night until the morning, until the dawn came and he missed Fajr.&#8221; The Prophet (sal Allaahu &#8216;alayhi wa sallam ) replied &#8220;This is a person whom the devil has urinated in his ears.&#8221;</p>
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<p>Dear Brothers and Sisters, try going to any books of hadeeth. In each and every one you will find a chapter entitled, &#8216;Baab al-Isti&#8217;aadhah Minal Kasl.&#8217; Translated, this chapter is called &#8216;Chapter of Seeking Allaah&#8217;s Protection from Laziness.&#8217;</p>
<p>Kasl or laziness, also known as &#8216;procrastination&#8217; is a disease. University Students know what procrastination can do to their studies. It is a disease that afflicts the minds. After the mind, it then afflicts the heart. Finally, through the heart, the body is afflicted.</p>
<p>Today, you will learn that laziness is a technique used by Satan, and today you will learn the techniques you can use to combat it.</p>
<p>The Prophet (sal Allaahu &#8216;alayhi wa sallam ) frequently made the following supplication: &#8220;Oh Allaah, I seek your protection from, &#8216;alajz&#8217; &#8211; which means the inability to do something.&#8221; And when someone says, &#8220;I can&#8217;t do that,&#8221; the Prophet (sal Allaahu &#8216;alayhi wa sallam ) would seek protection from such negative speech by adding: &#8220;and I seek your protection (Oh Allaah) from &#8216;alkasl&#8217;- which is translated as laziness.&#8221;</p>
<p>At its core, this society is built on laziness. Consider that it is a society based on the idea that we have to rest on Sundays. &#8220;Why do you have to rest on Sundays?&#8221; some may ask. And society (may Allaah protect us from this) would answer that even Allaah got lazy on Sunday. He did His work all week long, He built the heavens and the earth, and then on Sunday He got tired and rested. So, may Allaah protect us, contemporary culture has us resting and watching football games on Sundays.</p>
<p>Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala) testifies to the lunacy of such an idea, implicitly stating, &#8220;That there is no drowsiness and no sleep that comes to Him.&#8221; (2/255)</p>
<p>In addition, we live in a society that lives for &#8220;fast and easy&#8221;. You have the fast food joints, even the microwave meals that take 5 minutes are considered tedious because you have to take it out after a couple of minutes and stir it before it is finished cooking. Ever hear the promises to have the perfect body in ten minutes for only three days a week? Examples abound. And in its quest for fast and easy, society does not realize that the root of its problems, indeed, the root of all major sins, lies in laziness.</p>
<p>Why would a person take alcohol and drugs? They are too lazy to change their situation. Instead of actively striving for change, they take a drug to immediately change it. Why do people practice black magic, a phenomenon that is, unfortunately, prevalent in many of our parent&#8217;s societies? They do it because they are too lazy to go out and get married, or they&#8217;re too lazy to influence people in ways that will accomplish their various goals. Why do people partake in &#8216;Riba&#8217; (mortgages) and deal with financial interest? They are too lazy to get a proper job and work to pay for something honestly. Why do people gamble? They addictively buy lottery tickets at ridiculous odds of winning in the hopes that their one dollar will instantly earn millions. Laziness is again the culprit. What about that job? Why do people backbite? People backbite because they are too lazy to go and tell the person the truth&#8230;And these, dear brothers and sisters, are all major sins.</p>
<p>Thus, like a poison, laziness corrupts all good things.</p>
<p>There are beautiful and amazing things that you want to do for yourself, or do for Allaah (subhaahanu wa ta&#8217;aala). Your intention is good, but if you don&#8217;t have the energy, or you suffer from the laziness plight, your desires will go nowhere, they will bear no fruit.</p>
<p>The causes of the disease called laziness are rooted in the heart.</p>
<p>Firstly, a lazy person doesn&#8217;t know and doesn&#8217;t understand his or her need to accumulate good deeds. We understand the need to accumulate money, but we may not understand why or how to accumulate good deeds. Very few people understand that this life is about collecting deeds and preparing for the journey of the hereafter.</p>
<p>Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala) advises, &#8220;to prepare your provisions (that pack your suitcases) for the best provision, the best thing to pack your suitcases with is the Taqwa (or Fear/Piety) of Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala). (2/197) And this is the commandment of Allaah.&#8221;</p>
<p>Secondly, people are discouraged by the thought that others will consider them &#8220;holier than thou.&#8221; Or perhaps the problem is that some people think too highly of themselves, glorifying themselves to such a high level that when they hear the commandments of Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala) they reply by justifying their laziness with excuses like; &#8220;My heart is clean,&#8221; or &#8220;Why do I have to do that,&#8221; or &#8220;I&#8217;m a good person.&#8221; Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala) states: &#8220;Do not claim piety to yourselves.&#8221; (53/32) If someone says, &#8220;I&#8217;m good,&#8221; the response should be that &#8220;Allaah knows best who is true, who is righteous.&#8221;</p>
<p>Indeed, those who suffer from laziness don&#8217;t understand the gold mine of opportunity awaiting them. There are thousands of people around you waiting to hear the call of Islam. You are living among sponges ready to listen to you say, &#8220;I am a Muslim.&#8221; And they are going to ask, &#8220;How can I become one too?&#8221;</p>
<p>A brother I knew overseas said it perfectly: &#8220;The North Americans have such enormous prospects. Imagine teaching a new Muslim Soorah al-Faatihah, or how to pray. You will get the reward for this most noble lesson each time the person recites this soorah. You can&#8217;t do that in Muslim countries, although there are other different opportunities there, most people don&#8217;t recognize them and this leads to laziness&#8221;</p>
<p>Know that this concerns you and if you start demonstrating the energy and zeal it takes to worship Allaah to the best of your ability, then you will be the one to benefit.</p>
<p>This is your life. This is your soul. You are only going to live once on this earth, and you&#8217;ll be traveling to the hereafter with a suitcase of good deeds. Hopefully, you won&#8217;t be traveling light. The one who understands this early on, the one to get on the bandwagon of the worship of Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala) early on, accumulates everything.</p>
<p>Be a pioneer, bring Islam to everyone. &#8220;And so they come on the day of resurrection and they see these mountains of good deeds that they never imagined they would have had&#8230; and it will be said to them&#8230; this is because you weren&#8217;t lazy back in the day when other people were lazy&#8230;&#8221; Recognize the opportunity, seize it, and kick start the worship of Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala) by others.</p>
<p>But if you chose not to heed these words, to yawn, and to be lazy, you are turning your back on the words of Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala). And the consequences will be grave, for the sunnah of creation, indeed the law of nature, stipulates that that which does not contribute will be destroyed. What do you do with weeds in your garden? You pull them out, you get rid of them. What do you do when your nails get too long, when there is no purpose to their length? You snip them off, discard them in the trash. And so it is, as a community and as individuals in that community, if we are not contributing, and if we are not energetically producing, we will be deemed useless and we will be eliminated.</p>
<p>Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala) says: &#8220;In this way, He gives forth the parable of the truth and falsehood and the vanity. Vanity is like the foam, the dirt on the ocean (there is not benefit to it). But the things that do bring benefit (those devoid of laziness) will remain steadfast in the land.&#8221; Even after you are gone, your good deeds will continue to benefit. (13/17)</p>
<p>Do not make the mistake of thinking that Allaah pays attention to the lazy one&#8217;s worship. The Prophet Muhammad (sal Allaahu &#8216;alayhi wa sallam) said: &#8220;Do those deeds that you are able to perform, for verily, Allaah will not tire of your &#8216;Ibadah (worship) until you tire.&#8221;</p>
<p>Ponder the phenomenon of those who make du&#8217;aa absentmindedly, not knowing what it is that they are saying. They may even be yawning, confused, or focused on something else entirely. Allah is not paying attention to that person just like they are not paying attention to their du&#8217;aa. That is a du&#8217;aa that is not answered by Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala). A du&#8217;aa that is answered is the one where the person&#8217;s heart and energy are invested in it. Allaah will listen. If you can consistently take your du&#8217;aa to that level, you&#8217;ll see dramatic changes in your life.</p>
<p>When I was younger, there was an imam from overseas who came to lead the taraweeh prayers in Ramadhan. We would have to pick him up at Fajr time and drive him to the masjid. One early morning, I was feeling particularly tired and lazy. My parents had an especially hard time waking me up. Yet, when we arrived at the Imam&#8217;s house, I noticed that the neighbors were in the midst of an all-night party. It was 5 am and their lights were blaring, their music was booming, and the party-goers were still drinking their alcohol. They&#8217;d spent the entire night awake in &#8220;Qiyaamul layl,&#8221; but not to Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala). Their worship was for the devil.</p>
<p>I remember thinking to myself that this disbeliever has the stamina and energy to waste the night away, how can the servant of Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala) not have the energy and ability to worship Him? After all, they, too, are humans like us. &#8216;Umar ibn al-Khattaab (radiyAllaahu &#8216;anhu) is quoted as saying, &#8220;I seek Allaah&#8217;s protection from the time when the &#8216;fasiq&#8217; or disobedient will have much energy and enthusiasm and the righteous will be lazy.&#8221; The fasiq will open up bars everywhere and run his houses of immorality with vigor. And the righteous will do little to nothing in the sake of Allaah. When this happens, there is an imbalance on earth, and corruption will be widespread and prevalent.</p>
<p>Brothers and sisters, let me tell you about the blessedness of having energy and enthusiasm in worshipping Allaah will do for you.</p>
<p><strong>Number 1:</strong> The extra energy will win you the pleasure of Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala).</p>
<p>Musa (&#8216;alayhis salaam) was told to come to the mountain for 40 days. And come he did, not walking slowly, not ten minutes late, but running. In explaining his arrival, Musa said, &#8220;I came hastily to you, oh Allaah, so that you will be pleased with me.&#8221; (20/84) And indeed, his words were so pleasing to his creator that Allah recorded them in the Quran for all eternity.</p>
<p>When you hear a name of a prophet&#8217;s companion, you say, &#8220;May Allaah be pleased with him.&#8221; Well, this is how you get that same distinction for yourself. Be hasty in your desire and actions that lead to goodness.</p>
<p><strong>Number 2:</strong> Having energy is the characteristic of the believer. Being lazy is the characteristic of the hypocrite.</p>
<p>Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala) says the &#8216;munaafiq,&#8217; or hypocrite is he who has disbelief in his heart, while outwardly claiming belief. Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala) describes them in the following verse: &#8220;If they get up for the &#8216;salaah&#8217; (prayer), they get up with laziness.&#8221; (4/142)</p>
<p>&#8220;Give me ten more minutes&#8230;give me ten more minutes&#8230; oh! I missed fajr&#8230;oh no. I&#8217;ll pray after fajr&#8230; Give me ten more minutes. Give me ten more minutes&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>A characteristic of hypocrisy; when they reach for that snooze button and get up lazily for prayer, they&#8217;re experiencing a state of &#8216;nifaq&#8217; or hypocrisy. May Allaah protect us.</p>
<p>May He also protect us from using excuses to not follow through with our deeds.</p>
<p>A Canadian may say it&#8217;s too cold. An African will say it&#8217;s too hot. Both are making excuses for not doing good actions. It was summer in the desert during the time of the Battle of Tabuk, and a walking distance of what is today a seven hour car trip from Madinah to Tabuk. The Prophet (sal Allaahu &#8216;alayhi wa sallam ) was rallying his troops for an exhaustive trek that, back then, would have taken months.</p>
<p>Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala) says, &#8220;they (the hypocrites) encouraged people not to go with the Prophet (sal Allaahu &#8216;alayhi wa sallam ) by saying &#8216;do not go out in the heat&#8217;.&#8221; Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala) response was to tell them, &#8220;that the fire of hell is much hotter; if only they understood.&#8221; (9/81)</p>
<p>Ibn al-Jawzee, may Allah have mercy on his soul, said &#8220;I have never seen a flaw sadder to me than a community whose people stop working, despite having the ability to continue.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Second Khutbah</strong></p>
<p>The ramifications of laziness can be very harmful. Some of you may have come across a person who displays a genuine interest in Islam. That person may be about to take the shahada when shaytan gets to him and her. An excuse the devil uses is, &#8220;You have to comprehend the Qur&#8217;aan first.&#8221; Hence the would-be Muslim is convinced that they do love Islam, but perhaps further study is required. And so it is that he or she delays coming back to Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala), and as time passes they may no longer possess the same enthusiasm.</p>
<p>Similarly, Muslims seeking to make repentance to Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala) might give themselves time by saying, &#8220;let me wait till I pay off my mortgage, or pay off my student loans&#8230; let me wait till I do this , let me wait till I do that, then I will repent to Allaah.&#8221; But it doesn&#8217;t work like that because as time passes and sins grow, the heart consistently gets weaker and weaker. A time will come when the person knows it&#8217;s the last chance, but the heart may have already been sealed shut.<br />
And as the Prophet Muhammad (sal Allaahu &#8216;alayhi wa sallam ) said, &#8220;Race to good deeds before a time and a fitnah comes, (a test) that will sweep over you like the darkest of the darkest nights.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Are not the trials apparent all around us?</strong></p>
<p>Look to the Islamic educational scene. Scholars we may or may not know are being singled out by the dozens. Religious knowledge is being taken from us. If you have the chance to attend a halaqah, or an Islamic class, you have to race to it NOW! It may be that you won&#8217;t have another chance.<br />
Fitnah will come to you, and you must survive it with whatever knowledge you hold. It may be that the knowledge you possess will suffice to protect you, and it may be that it will not be enough to avail you. The consequences thereof would be disastrous, and may eventually lead to hellfire. May Allah protect us.</p>
<p>Picture this analogy: In Australia they have sharks that prey near the coastline. To warn bathing humans of impending danger, they have a certain whistle that rings when a shark is sighted. Now imagine if you&#8217;re feeling sluggish or you&#8217;re playing a game trying to see how long you can hold your breath under the water. You don&#8217;t hear the warning sound, and then you raise your head out of the water, and notice that nobody is in it except you. Everyone has made it to shore, they are yelling for you to hurry, but you are ten minutes from the beach. How would you make it? Would you make it? Only Allaah knows for sure, but that&#8217;s exactly what laziness does to you. It not only renders you unprepared, but also helpless as to the actions you must take in order to survive.</p>
<p>But today is a new day, and by the grace of Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala), you and I can learn to let go of that laziness. We will work with renewed energy, striving to return to the worship of Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala).</p>
<p>Here are some techniques to use.</p>
<p><strong>Number 1: </strong>Yawning promotes laziness</p>
<p>Yawning is from the devil. And when it comes to us, we must fight it. Despite what your medical classes are telling you about needing oxygen through yawning, it was your Prophet (sal Allaahu &#8216;alayhi wa sallam ) who advised on covering the mouth and resisting the yawn, by not letting out any noise. No &#8220;Ahhhsss!&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Number 2:</strong> Eating 1/3rd</p>
<p>The Prophet (sal Allaahu &#8216;alayhi wa sallam ) taught us to eat using the 1/3rd method. You don&#8217;t need much to sustain yourself, a few bites will usually do, but if you are going to eat a meal, then 1/3rd is the crucial number. One third should be the food, one third for water, and one third for breathing.<br />
Realize that one of the most cunning tricks of shaytan is urging people to fill their stomachs beyond capacity. How many times have you eaten a huge meal only to feel like taking a nap afterwards? And how many times has this nap dissuaded you from the worship of Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala)?</p>
<p><strong>Number 3:</strong> Spend time with energetic people</p>
<p>Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala) says, &#8220;Be patient with those people who call upon their lord&#8230;in the mornings and the evenings.&#8221;</p>
<p>When you see a person going for salah consistently, always in a state of worship and remembrance of Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala), you say to them, &#8220;Hey brother / hey sister, how about we go out for lunch? I&#8217;d like to spend time with you.&#8221;</p>
<p>Feed from their energy. Alternatively, if lazy people surround you, distance yourself from them, or give them da&#8217;wah, encouraging positive action. You want to pick the right people, because we tend to emulate those whom we befriend.</p>
<p>Do as your prophet did and constantly seek refuge from Allaah from the laziness that shaytan uses to defeat the Muslims. When you find yourself reaching for that snooze button, a.k.a &#8216;the shaytan button&#8217;, remember the ploy against you and seek Allaah&#8217;s help to resist. You will have the strength to wake for fajr. Ultimately, laziness is a state of mind.</p>
<p>In conclusion, the one concept that ties this all together is honesty. Being honest about your laziness and sincerely striving to change is the first step in seeing results. The fact of the matter is that when Allaah commands us to do something, it is not possible to have excuses, and know that tasks put upon you are doable, for Allaah &#8220;does not place a burden on a person more than they can bear.&#8221; (2/286) You can do it, others have done it before you, and others continue to do it. Join the ranks of the energetic.</p>
<p>Ka&#8217;b ibn Malik, (radiyAllaahu &#8216;anhu), went to the Prophet (sal Allaahu &#8216;alayhi wa sallam ) after the battle of Tabuk, and the hypocrites had been making excuses for their absence from the fighting. Ka&#8217;b had not participated and he thought that he too might come up with some excuse in order to save himself, but he realized that he could not lie to the Prophet of Allaah. He told the Prophet (sal Allaahu &#8216;alayhi wa sallam ), &#8220;I have never had more energy or ability than this time, but I just didn&#8217;t go.&#8221; And the prophet said, &#8220;he is the one who is truthful.&#8221; And by the potency of his honesty and sincerity, the Qur&#8217;aan mentions that Allaah had forgiven Ka&#8217;b.</p>
<p>How do you truthfully word the reasons for your laziness? If the Fajr prayer has passed you by and the devil has urinated in your ears, do not place blame where blame is not due. Don&#8217;t make excuses like, &#8220;I had a long night.&#8221; Instead, say, &#8220;the truth is that the accumulation of my sins led me to miss fajr. But this is not who I am. I am the slave of Allaah. Oh Allaah, tomorrow, with your permission, I will show you what I am going to do for your sake&#8221; And so you make your repentance, you repeat your good intentions, and you continue until you reach those higher levels of energy.</p>
<p>I ask Allaah (subhaanahu wa ta&#8217;aala) to bless you with that energy and I pray and hope that you can make the same du&#8217;aa for me.</p>
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<h3><font color="#000099" face="Maiandra GD">The Danger of Television</font></h3>
<p><strong><font size="-1">By Muhammad ash-Shareef</font></strong><br />
As Allah ta&#8217;ala states, it is part of our belief that we shall be questioned and are responsible for the following:</p>
<p><strong><font color="#cc0000">Verily! Hearing, Sight, and the heart, all will be questioned (by Allâh).</font></strong></p>
<p>(Al-Israa 036)</p>
<p>And as Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; said, on the Day of Repayment, no one will move until they are asked about three things, one of them being &#8230; <strong><font color="#000099">&#8220;his youth &#8211; what did he exhaust it with?&#8221;</font></strong></p>
<p>A close friend of mine told me his experience when leaving Canada to go overseas and study Islam. He said that he went to a person&#8217;s house to say Salaam to the family and as he left he noticed the son &#8211; who was 7 years old at the time &#8211; slacked out on his stomach, chin locked in his two hands, staring deathly at the TV. He says, when he returned after a full 4 years, he entered the same house and found the same boy slacked out on his stomach, chin locked in his two hands, staring deathly at the TV &#8211; only now he was 4 years older.</p>
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<p>Today &#8211; insha&#8217;Allah &#8211; we would like to speak about TV and it&#8217;s dark side. It is not our intention to make you race home to throw the TV off the balcony &#8211; although that would be nice. It is our hope that you will leave today insha Allah with a better understanding of the destructive nature the TV has on a persons life and hereafter, not only his own, but also his family and children.</p>
<p>In Qawaa&#8217;id Fiqhiyyaah there is a principle that says, <em>‘Al Waasaa’il ta’khudhu Hukm al-Ghaayaat’</em> that ‘The means takes the same ruling as the intention of what is trying to be attained.’ A television set, with the wires, screen, box, and plug is nothing more than a means. It is what is trying to be attained by that box that makes it Haram or Halal. Similar to a gun, something that can be used for noble purposes, such as defending one’s land from aggression, or can be a means of considerable harm &#8211; especially when given to a child.</p>
<p>In an Arab ESL class, the teacher &#8211; as his opening class &#8211; would ask the students what English words were taken from the Arabic. A few hands would jerk up and say things like, ‘Chemistry from Keemiyaa’, Algebra from AlGebr, Physics from Feesiyaa’, etc.’ Then he would interestingly ask them what Arabic words were taken from the English, the answers come quick, ‘Raadiyo from Radio, Dosh from Satellite Dish, and of course Tilfaaz from TV.’</p>
<p>What did the west take from us, and what did we take from them?</p>
<p>Hence Shaykh Ibn Baaz (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in al-Fataawa 3/227:</p>
<p><font size="-1" face="Tahoma">&#8220;With regard to television, it is a dangerous device and its harmful effects are very great, like those of the cinema, or even worse.</font></p>
<p><font size="-1" face="Tahoma">We know from the research that has been written about it and from the words of experts in Arab countries and elsewhere enough to indicate that it is dangerous and very harmful to Islamic beliefs (‘aqeedah), morals and the state of society.</font></p>
<p><font size="-1" face="Tahoma">This is because it includes the presentation of bad morals, tempting scenes, immoral pictures, semi-nakedness, destructive speech, and Kufr.</font></p>
<p><font size="-1" face="Tahoma">It encourages imitation of their conduct and ways of dressing, respect for their leaders, neglect of Islamic conduct and ways of dressing, and looking down on the scholars and heroes of Islam. It damages their image by portraying them in an off-putting manner that makes people despise them and ignore them.</font></p>
<p><font size="-1" face="Tahoma">It shows people how to cheat, steal, hatch plots and commit acts of violence against others.</font></p>
<p><font size="-1" face="Tahoma">Without doubt, anything that produces so many bad results should be stopped and shunned, and we have to close all the doors that could lead to it. If some of our brothers denounce it and speak out against it, we cannot blame them, because this is a part of sincerity towards Allaah and towards other people.&#8221;</font></p>
<p>In Sahih Al-Bukhaari, when Guraayj was praying and his mother called him, he said to himself, “O Allah, my Salah or my mother?” He did not know whether to continue his prayer or discontinue it and reply the wishes of his Mother. She cursed him. And her curse was one that we may inadvertently be doing to our children the day we sanctioned the introduction of the third parent called TV. She said, “May you see a prostitute!” She did not say, may there be any relationship between you and a prostitute, no she just said may you see one. HOW many times has the main theme of prime time TV revolved around prostitutes? HOW MANY TIMES have our children witnessed it? How many times have they been cursed to be in such a situation?</p>
<p>Abdullaah ibn ‘Umar &#8211; radi Allahu ‘anhu &#8211; once passed by some people killing time by playing chess. He became shocked at what was happening and angrily said to them &#8211; quoting the verse of Qur’an, “What are these IDOLS that you are standing in vigilance over?” What would he think if he saw the Ummah and its welcomed hug in most Muslim homes?</p>
<p>When a Muslim nation watches their country play in the world cup, over 3 million Muslims from that one country tune in. Times that by the duration of the match, 3 hours, and you’ll have 9 million hours of the Ummah’s time wasted on a football game. In one sweeping night. If Karl Marx said in 1844 that ‘Religion is the opium of the masses’, then what about TV?</p>
<p>Dear brothers and sisters, Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; said, <strong><font color="#000099">“The person shall be (on the day of Judgement) with those that they love.”</font></strong> Tell that to a Muslim child, that on the Day of judgement, if they love Michael Jordan sooo much they’ll get to be with him on that horrific day. It’s sad, but most Muslim children would get happy and excited about the prospect &#8211; isn’t that enough to strike fear into our hearts? Who are the Muslim children really going to be with on the Day of Repayment? Most of them cannot tell you the names, just the names, of those people that we hope them to be with!</p>
<p>Let’s ask ourselves, if we gave a chance for our sons or daughters to put up a poster of their hero, the one whom they think is the ‘coolest’ &#8211; would it be their father or mother? Would it be the Prophet or his Companions? OR would it be a basketball player that he saw on TV? Or an actor (even cartoon) that he saw on TV? Or a model that she saw on TV? Or a musician that he/she saw on TV? Who would it be?</p>
<p>Ok, the TV is monitered in the house by the parent, correct? (95% of parents with children eight years old and up don’t monitor). Now what happens if the parent dies on the way to work one day and the children inherit the TV? Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; said, <strong><font color="#000099">“There is not a single shepherd (Ameer) that Allah entrusted with a flock &#8211; who dies and in a state where he cheated them &#8211; except that Allah shall forbid him from entering paradise!”</font></strong> The ‘Ulumaa would quote this hadith in light of the father in a Muslim country that would allow a Satellite Dish to enter his family which Allah entrusted him with.</p>
<p>Dear brothers and sisters, we are not here on earth to entertain ourselves to death. We are an Ummah with a Risaalah! When Rib’ee ibn ‘Aamir &#8211; radi Allahu ‘anhu &#8211; stood in the hands of the king of Persia, he announced the message as clear and as proud as every Muslim should,</p>
<p><font size="-1" face="Tahoma">“Allah sent us to rescue humanity from slavery to slaves &#8211; to the slavery of the Lord of all slaves; And to rescue them from the choke of the material life to the expanse of this life and the next, and from the corruption of the cults to the justice of Islam!”</font></p>
<p>If we don’t know how to read Qur’an, why aren’t we registering for the Qur’an institute here at Al-Huda. If we don’t know the language of the Qur’an and Sunnah, why aren’t we registering for the Arabic institute? If we don’t know about the life of Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; and his companions &#8211; radi Allahu ‘anhum &#8211; why aren’t we coming to the Seerah and Fiqh classes on Fridays and Saturdays?</p>
<p>Doesn’t Allah ta’ala tell us in the Qur’an:</p>
<p>(An-Nur 030)</p>
<p><strong><font color="#cc3333">Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts). That is purer for them. Verily, Allâh is All-Aware of what they do.</font></strong></p>
<p>How do reconcile those verses with the television that assaults our eyes with Haram almost every second that it is on? How do we reconcile it?</p>
<p>Have you heard of Cupid? Of course we have. They portray Cupid in cartoons and comedies as a chubby child with wings who is supposed to be the Angel of Love, shooting arrows of ‘love’ when the male looks at the female. Rather dear brothers and sisters, it is Iblees! For Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; told us, <strong><font color="#000099">&#8220;Verily the ‘look’ is a poisoned arrow from the arrows of Iblees!”</font></strong></p>
<p>Shaykh At-Tahhaan once told his students, “It was late at night when our phone rang one day. This Muslimah whispered into the phone, ‘Is this Shaykh At-Tahhaan?’ I said, ‘Yes it is me.’ She kept saying is it really you? And he said, ‘Yes, what is wrong?’ At that she just started sobbing and sobbing into the phone. After some time, she explained, ‘The children’s father bought a TV and video 2 days ago. Tonight I found my young son practicing the Haraam that he saw on his younger sister!’ Then she collapsed sobbing again.”</p>
<p>Everything starts with a look / and big fires start from a little spark</p>
<p><strong>Turn OFF TV, Turn ON Life</strong></p>
<p>After a grueling first year in the Faculty of Shari’ah, I came home to Canada where I spoke to a friend whom I hadn’t spoken to for over a year. In the conversation he said, “Last night on TV Seinfeld said&#8230;” I was puzzled and realized that for an entire year I had not heard anything other than Imam Shaafi’ee said, and Imam Abu Hanifa said. It was an ignorance that as Shaykh Abdul Muhsin ‘Al-Abbaad would say that &#8220;we ask Allah ta’ala to increase us in its ignorance.&#8221;</p>
<p>Some people argue that TV is just a harmless avenue of entertainment and that there should not be a big deal made about it. It is interesting however that we see in Shari’ah that what is more deadly than Haram is Bid’ah. Why you ask? Because when someone does Haram like eating pork, he knows it is Haram and that one day it is hoped that knowledge will lead him to fear Allah and refrain. Bid’ah &#8211; on the other hand &#8211; is something a person does with the hope of reward from Allah, something that the person considers to be ‘harmless’. It is deadlier because the chances of this person correcting the situation are less due to the ignorance which causes lack of motivation.</p>
<p>Other people will say that we have a TV for the news and Islamic or educational programs? Dear brothers and sisters, is there no other avenue to get the news? Is there no other means by which a child can be educated and stimulated to learning?</p>
<p>Didn’t anyone ask why we get all this ‘FREE’ TV? What does the TV sell? No it doesn’t sell Coke or Nike or McDonalds burgers, it sells the AUDIENCE to ADVERTISING COMPANIES! Why do you think they charge $1 million for 30 seconds of advertising in a Superbowl game?</p>
<p><strong>Consider these facts:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Brand loyalty starts at age 2 &#8211; they can snatch a child into a lifetime of allegiance to their product from that tender age. How old were you when you started loving Coke or Pepsi?</li>
<li>On average, a viewer watches 20,000 commercials each year. If we repeated a page of Qur’an to you that many times, do you think you would memorize it?</li>
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<p>This is just for the products, what about the ‘Aqeedah that they are being taught, a whole stack of beliefs that gets fed to them every time they sit to listen to their third parent. Where are the horrific stats for that?</p>
<p>To give just a simple example that we all know, go to a lecture where the Imam is talking about women’s rights in Islam. Listen to the Muslim males and females debate with the Imam. Where did they get their points? Where did they become so hostile to anything that contradicts the Western view of women’s rights? Why is there no hostility to the Western view?</p>
<p>Most of it was learnt on TV, the rest was learnt in the public school curriculum.</p>
<p>If this is the programming, the brain washing of our youth, then where shall they be reprogrammed when they prefer the TV over anyone else? Dear brothers and sisters, it is a fact that more than half of American children would rather watch TV than spend time with their mother or father.</p>
<p>After surveying a lot of young children and asking them what is the one thing that they would sacrifice their favorite TV shows for, many replied that if there were some sort of outside activity they would give preference to that. Meaning, if someone took them by the hand and organized some after school activities they would embrace the idea.</p>
<p>Here are some other things that you can do instead of being shackled to the TV. The option is yours:</p>
<ul>
<li>Play outdoor games.</li>
<li>Build extra curricular skills, such as martial arts or calligraphy or sewing.</li>
<li>Visit the library.</li>
<li>Take on a job where they one can become serious about life and work.</li>
<li>Do acts of worship such as reciting dhikr and wird, salaah, reading Qur’aan, fasting, and thinking about the signs of Allaah in His creation.</li>
<li>Adopt an Islamic cause in the place where you live, and take part in it, such as teaching Muslim girls.</li>
<li>Support an Islamic magazine by sending articles, statistics and useful information of interest concerning Muslims in the West.</li>
<li>Take part in charitable projects to help Muslim orphans, widows, divorcees and elderly, or joining a committee to help organize social programs and celebrations for Muslims on Eid.</li>
<li>Find righteous friends to meet with and good neighbors to visit.</li>
<li>Read Islamic books in particular and useful stories in general.</li>
<li>Take part in da’wah activities, men or women’s activities and preschool programs in Islamic centers.</li>
<li>Listen to tapes and lectures, write summaries of them, and distribute the summaries to anyone who could benefit from them.</li>
<li>Do arts and crafts</li>
<li>Cook items to be sold to raise funds for the Islamic center.</li>
<li>Take an interest in computers and computer programs. This is a vast field that can fill a lot of time, and the computer can be used to do a lot of good things as well as providing entertainment in the form of permissible games.</li>
<li>Spinning, weaving, cutting out and sewing.</li>
<li>Gardening.</li>
<li>Exercising outside or at home.</li>
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<p>In conclusion dear brothers and sisters, today is the beginning of a new day. Allah gave us this day to use as we will. We can waste it or use it for something good and beneficial.</p>
<p>But let us know that what we do today is important because we are exchanging a day of our life for it. When tomorrow comes, this day will be gone forever; and in it&#8217;s place shall be something that we left behind &#8230; lets let it be something good and something beneficial.</p>
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<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jan 1990 00:48:39 +0000</pubDate>
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<p><strong><font size="-1">By Muhammad Ash-Shareef</font></strong><br />
<font color="#cc0000">“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.”</font> &#8211; Surah Ar-Rum, 21</p>
<p>In this time of happiness, when gifts are received, hugs are generously donated, and laughter sprinkles the tables, we must remember who gave this all to us.</p>
<p>In this verse, Yamtann Allahu Alayna – Allah reminds of us of His favour upon us. Every husband in this room, it is Allah that created your bride. Every bride in this room, Allah created your husband. Allah created the pairs and then blessed the pair with love and mercy.</p>
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<p>Then Allah says: <font color="#cc0000">“Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought”</font>. Let’s take the time now to give a little thought to Allah’s favour upon us.</p>
<p>Sulayman – alayhis salam – sat his son down one day and taught him about Allah and life. Allah mentions what he said:</p>
<p><font color="#cc0000">&#8220;And We enjoined upon man (care) for his parents. His mother carried him, (increasing her) in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two years: Be grateful to Me and to your parents; to me is the (final) destination.”</font></p>
<p>Thank Allah:</p>
<p>1. Every thing that you enjoy, everything that you love is from Allah:</p>
<p><font color="#cc0000">“And whatever you have of blessing (indeed) it is from Allah!”</font></p>
<p>2. Thank Allah, remember Him and He will remember you. Allahu akbar!</p>
<p>“Remember me and I shall remember you, and be thankful to Me and do not be ungrateful.”</p>
<p>3. Allah will give us more when we are thankful:</p>
<p><font color="#cc0000">“And (remember) when your lord proclaimed, ‘if you are grateful, I will surely increase you; but if you deny, indeed, My punishment is severe.”</font></p>
<p>I’ve heard of Muslims that regularly donate half a million dollars to the Democratic Party to have their picture taken with Clinton and his wife! They place these pictures up in the middle of their homes in all pride and honour.</p>
<p>Yet to every parent, let me draw your attention the most noble picture to put up in your home. Allah ta’ala put His majesty and every parent in this world in a portrait: <font color="#cc0000">“Be grateful to Me and to your Parents!”</font></p>
<p>Scholars have said that being grateful to Allah is to be grateful for the Iman that He has blessed us with. And to be thankful to our parents is to be grateful for the hard work they went through to raise us.</p>
<p>Ibn Abbas raa said, “There are three things that will not be accepted if it’s mate is not fulfilled. (And he mentioned), <font color="#cc0000">“Thank Me (Allah) and your Parents&#8230;”</font> – Luqmaan 31/14.</p>
<p>Ibn Abbaas continued, “Thus whoever thanks Allah and is not thankful to his parents, Allah will not accept it from him.”</p>
<p>The scholars understood this and set the example for us. Haywah bin Shurayh (ra), one of the Imam’s of our Ummah, used to give classes in front of his home. During the class, his Mother would call him to feed the chickens. He would stand up, leave the Halaqah, and go feed the chickens.</p>
<p>Sufyan ibn Uyaynah – one of the Ummah’s greatest scholars – said, “Whoever prays the 5 salah has been grateful to Allah. And whoever prays for his parents after the Salah has been grateful to them.”</p>
<p>My mother in Law, Ali’s mother once told me about when Ali was young. He would come home from school, run up to her and give her the strongest hug. Then he would top it off with, “Mummy I love you.” She would mention the story and then let a tear drop.</p>
<p>As we get older, words like ‘I love you’ become harder for us to say. Yet as much as it becomes harder for us to say, as much as it becomes more precious to the parents.</p>
<p>I ask Allah ta’ala that we not forget this innocence, when we were without sin, when we used to bring a smile to our parents.</p>
<p>Let’s keep making them smile. And In doing so, we would be thanking Allah.</p>
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<strong>10. Use your &#8216;Fitnah&#8217; to win the heart of your husband </strong><br />
All women have the ornaments that Allah blessed them with. Use the beauty Allah &#8211; Azza wa Jal &#8211; has bestowed you with to win the heart of your husband.</p>
<p><strong>9. When your husband comes home, greet him with a wonderful greeting</strong><br />
Imagine your husband coming home to a clean house, an exquisitely dressed wife, a dinner prepared with care, children clean and sweet smelling, a clean bedroom &#8211; what would this do to his love for you? Now imagine what the opposite does to him.</p>
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<p><strong>8. Review the characteristics of the Hoor Al-Ayn and try to imitate them </strong><br />
The Qur&#8217;an and Sunnah describe the women in Jannah with certain characteristics. Such as the silk they wear, their large dark eyes, their singing to their husband, etc. Try it, wear silk for your husband, put Kohl in your eyes to &#8216;enlarge&#8217; them, and sing to your husband.</p>
<p><strong>7. Always wear jewelry and dress up in the house. </strong><br />
From the early years, little girls have adorned themselves with earrings and bracelets and worn pretty dresses &#8211; as described in the Qur&#8217;an. As a wife, continue to use the jewelry that you have and the pretty dresses for your husband.</p>
<p><strong>6. Joke and play games with your husband. </strong><br />
A mans secret: they seek women who are light-hearted and have a sense of humor. As Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; told Jabir to marry someone who would make him laugh and he would make her laugh.</p>
<p><strong>5. Thank your husband constantly for the nice things he does.</strong><br />
Then thank him again. This is one of the most important techniques, as the opposite is a characteristic of the women of hellfire.</p>
<p><strong>4. An argument is a fire in the house.</strong><br />
Extinguish it with a simple &#8216;I&#8217;m sorry&#8217; even if it is not your fault.<br />
When you fight back, you are only adding wood to the fire. Watch how sweetly an argument will end when you just say sincerely, &#8220;Look, I&#8217;m sorry. Let&#8217;s be friends.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>3. Always seek to please your husband, for he is your key to Jannah. </strong><br />
Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; taught us that any women who dies in a state where her husband is pleased with her, shall enter Jannah. So .. please him.</p>
<p><strong>2. Listen and Obey! </strong><br />
Obeying your husband is Fard! Your husband is the Ameer of the household. Give him that right and respect.</p>
<p><strong>1. Make Dua to Allah to make your marriage and relationship successful. </strong><br />
All good things are from Allah. Never forget to ask Allah ta&#8217;ala for the blessing of having a successful marriage that begins in this Dunya and continues on &#8211; by the Mercy of Allah ta&#8217;ala &#8211; into Jannah.</p>
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<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jan 1990 00:47:14 +0000</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[10 Tips on How to Be a Successful Husband Prepared by Muhammad AlShareef, Reprinted from Islamway.co]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2><font face="Maiandra GD">10 Tips on How to Be a Successful Husband</font></h2>
<p><strong><font size="-1">Prepared by Muhammad AlShareef, Reprinted from Islamway.com</font></strong><br />
<strong><font size="+1" color="#ff0000">1.</font></strong> Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good.When was the last time us men went shopping for designer pajamas? Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Remember that Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.</p>
<p><strong><font size="+1" color="#ff0000">2.</font></strong> Use the cutest names for your wife. Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; had nicknames for his wives, ones that they loved. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt their feelings.</p>
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<p><strong><font size="+1" color="#ff0000">3.</font></strong> Don&#8217;t treat her like a fly. We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it &#8216;bugs&#8217; us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day &#8211; which brings no attention from the husband &#8211; until she does something to &#8216;bug&#8217; him. Don&#8217;t treat her like this; recognize all the good that she does and focus on that.</p>
<p><strong><font size="+1" color="#ff0000">4.</font></strong> If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment! This is one of the ways Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; used when he would see something inappropriate from his wives &#8211; radi Allahu &#8216;anhunn. It&#8217;s a technique that few Muslim men have mastered.</p>
<p><strong><font size="+1" color="#ff0000">5.</font></strong> Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often. Smiling is Sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim Ummah. Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also those Ahadith when Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; would kiss his wife before leaving for Salah, even if he was fasting.</p>
<p><strong><font size="+1" color="#ff0000">6.</font></strong> Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again! Take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgement she receives is that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Don&#8217;t let that be; thank her!</p>
<p><strong><font size="+1" color="#ff0000">7.</font></strong> Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her happy. Then go and do them again. It may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure. You don&#8217;t have to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in your life.</p>
<p><strong><font size="+1" color="#ff0000">8.</font></strong> Don&#8217;t belittle her desires. Comfort her. Sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives. Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam set the example for us in an incident when Safiyyah &#8211; radi Allahu &#8216;anha &#8211; was crying because, as she said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her, and brought her the camel.</p>
<p><strong><font size="+1" color="#ff0000">9.</font></strong> Be humorous and Play games with your wife. Look at how Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; would race his wife Aisha &#8211; radi Allahu &#8216;anha &#8211; in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that?</p>
<p><strong><font size="+1" color="#ff0000">10.</font></strong> Always remember the words of Allah&#8217;s Messenger &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam: <font color="#000099">&#8220;The best of you are those who treat their families the best. And I am the best amongst you to my family.&#8221;</font> Try to be the best!</p>
<p><strong>In conclusion:</strong> Never forget to make Dua to Allah &#8211; azza wa jall &#8211; to make your marriage successful. And Allah ta&#8217;ala knows best !!</p>
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<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jan 1990 00:46:53 +0000</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[A police officer in a Muslim country wrote the following letter to a Shaykh describing the events th]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">A police officer in a Muslim country wrote the following letter to a Shaykh describing the events that led to his return to Allah. He recalls: </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">Seeing accidents and crash victims was a normal part of my day, but one incident was different. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">My partner and I had parked on the shoulder of the highway and began to chat. In a random second, the scene shattered to the hideous sound of metal bodies becoming one. We threw our heads back to see what had happened: a head-on collision, the result of a vehicle slipping into the lane of the oncoming traffic. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"><!--more--></span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">You couldn’t describe the carnage. Two young men sprawled in the first car, both in critical condition. We carried them gently away from the car and rested them on the ground. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">Quickly we returned to assist the owner of the second car. He was dead. Back we went to the two young men lying side by side on the pavement. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">My partner began dictating the Shahadah to them. “Say: La iIaha illAllah (there is no god but Allah), La iIaha illAllah…” </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">&#8230; their tongues wouldn’t acknowledge. They started humming the hypnotic lyrics of some song. I was terrified. My partner had experience however and he kept repeating his instruction. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">I stood watching, no movement, eyes locked. Never in my life had I seen anything similar to what was going on before me. In fact, I’ve never actually seen someone die, and never in such a satanic way. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">My partner continued to instruct them to say the Shahadah but there was no use. The hum of their song came to a slow silence, slowly. The first one stopped and then the other. Not a stir. Dead. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">We carried them to our patrol car, my partner made no effort to speak. Not a whisper between us two as we carried the corpses to the nearest hospital&#8230; </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">Dear brothers and sisters, Ubayy ibn Khalaf confronted Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; one day with a rotted bone in his hand. He crushed it in front of his hands, let the wind blow it away and said, “Muhammad do you claim that Allah will bring these ashes to life?!?&#8221; </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">[Has not man considered how We created him from a drop of semen? Yet he is an open adversary! He makes something up to be compared with Us and forgets how he was created. He says, "Who will revive [our] bones after they have rotted away?] </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">Allah replied Ubayy and everyone else who dares make the mistake: [Say 'The one Who raised them up in the first place will revive them. He is aware of all creation.'] </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">- Surah YaaSeen 36: 77-79 (From Tafseer Ibn Katheer)  </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">Reflecting over the topic of this khutbah, I came across a website where readers submit stories of their biggest regret. For some, it was a lost love, for others it was a job they passed up, and for still others it was a flip of fate that ended in a horrific way. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> But in all, the regrets were worldly candies that had been lost &#8211; short-lived pleasures of life. This is the world in which Allah decreed that summers always come to an end. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> Those stories were of living beings recalling their regrets. However, what I would like to see is a website where the dead would recall their regrets! They would not regret the lost love, or the silly job or the twist of fate, they would regret every second that they did not spend worshiping Allah. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> We are all here today because we claim that Laa ilaaha illa Allah Muhammadur Rasul Allah is what we believe. Nevertheless, the problem is that for many it is a belief that dropped its bags and sat down on the tongue and did not move on to penetrate the heart. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> There are many men and women of our Deen for whom this was not the case. Muhammad ibn Abi Imran narrates: I heard someone ask our shaykh Hatim al-Asum how he reached the level he was at in reliance upon Allah. He replied, &#8220;<u>I became convinced in four things (i.e. that these four things penetrated my heart). One, I am convinced that no one else will eat the provision Allah has decreed for me, so I am content. And two, I am convinced that no one else is going to do good works except me, so I am busy doing it myself. Three, I am certain death shall come unexpectedly, so I am busying myself in expectation of it. And four, I am certain I shall never escape the Sight of Allah, so I am shy to disobey him while He is watching.</u>&#8221; </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> Even though we all claim to believe what Hatim al-Asum is convinced of how many of us have it carried it past their tongue and allowed it a space in their heart. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> We all know what the media does to distort facts on the nightly news. They take a long speech, cut and paste, and take words out of context. Well, the media is not the only one that takes things out of context. Consider the following verse: </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> [Say: "<u>My servants who have acted extravagantly against themselves still do not despair of Allah's mercy. Allah forgives all offences; He is the Forgiving, the Merciful.</u>] </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> So many of us have heard this verse out of context. It may seem like a human can do all the bad that they want and when they die they will go to heaven. But read on&#8230; </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> [And turn in repentance towards your Lord and commit yourselves peacefully to Him before torment comes to you; then you will not be supported.] </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> [Follow the finest part of whatever has been sent down to you from your Lord before torment comes upon you suddenly while you do not notice it.] </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> [Lest some soul should say: "Alas my grief that I was undutiful to Allah and I was indeed among those who scoffed (at the truth)] </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> - surah az-Zumar 39/53-56 </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> This last verse is proof that the Qur&#8217;an cannot be translated. How do you explain the grief of &#8216;Yaa Hassrataa!&#8217;? Imam At-Taahir ibn Aashoor tries explaining: Hasrah is extreme violent intoxicated regret. It is like a servant boy whose master charged him with the care of a flock. Thinking that the master was not watching, he slept and played, leaving the flock unattended. The flock went further and further away until a pack of wolves came and devoured every one. The regret is the regret that boy had to his master. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> On this line, Yahya ibn Mu&#8217;aadh &#8211; rahimahullah &#8211; said, &#8220;<u>The most naïve thing in my eyes is to linger in sin &#8211; with no regrets &#8211; hoping for a far off pardon. And to hope to come closer to Allah without doing anything. And to wait for the harvest of Jannah with the seeds of Hell &#8211; waiting for reward without any deeds.</u>&#8221; </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> You long for redemption but have not taken its road / Brother, boats don&#8217;t sail in the desert!  </span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> The police officer that we mentioned earlier fell back into routine, as he narrates, and started to drift from Allah. But another event happened to him that sealed the return. He continues: </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> &#8230; What an odd world. After some time, about six months, a strange accident took place. A young man was moving along the highway normally, but within one of the tunnels leading to the city, he was maimed by a flat tire. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> To the side of the tunnel he parked and stepped to the back to remove the spare tire. The whistle of a speeding car from behind. In a second, it collided with the crippled car, the young man in-between. He fell to the ground with critical injuries. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> I rushed to the scene, myself and another partner other than the first. Together we carried the young man’s body into our patrol car and phoned the hospital to prepare for his arrival. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> He was a young adult in his blossom years. Religious, you could tell from his appearance. He was mumbling when we carried him, but in our rush, we had not paid attention to what he was saying. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> However, when we placed him on his back in the patrol car we could make it out. Through the pain his heart was reciting Qur’an! He was so immersed in the recitation &#8230; Subhan Allah, you would have never said that this person was in intense pain. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> Blood had soaked his clothes crimson red, his bones had clearly snapped in several places. To tell the truth, he looked like he was staring into the eyes of death. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> He continued to read in his unique, tender voice. Reciting each verse in proper rhythm. In my entire life, I had never heard any recitation like it. I said to myself, I’m &#8230; I&#8217;m going to instruct him to say the Shahadah just like I saw my friend doing; especially since I had previous experience. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> My partner and I listened intently to that soft voice. I felt a shiver shock my back and up my arm, the hair stood. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> Suddenly, the hymn ceased. I watched silently as his hand rose softly. He had his index finger pointed upward to the heavens, saying the Shahadah (La ilaha illa Allah/There is no god but Allah). Then &#8230; his head slumpt. Nothing. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> I jumped to the back seat, felt his hand, his heart, his breathing. He was dead! </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> I couldn’t stop staring at him. A tear fell but I hid it in shame. I turned back to my partner and told him that the boy’s life had ceased &#8211; he burst out loud crying. Seeing a man cry like that, I could not control myself and my partner faded away behind the fall of my own tears. The patrol car fogged from the emotions. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> We arrived at the hospital. As we rushed through the corridors, we told all the doctors, nurses, and onlookers what had happened. So many people were affected by what we said, some stood there speechless and tearful. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> No one wanted to lose sight of the boy until they had been assured of the time and place he would be buried. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> One of the hospital staff phoned the boys home. His brother picked it up and was told of the accident. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> His brother told us about him: He used to go out every Monday to visit his only grandmother outside of town. Whenever he visited her, he made sure to spend time with the poor children idling the streets and the orphans. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">The town knew him &#8211; he was the one that would bring them the Islamic books and tapes. His dusty Mazda would be filled with rice and sugar and even candies – couldn’t forget the candies – for those families who were in need. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">He would not stand for anyone to discourage him from the long journey to that town. He would always politely reply that the long drive gave him time to review his Quran and listen to Islamic lectures on his cassette deck. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">And &#8230; and that with every step to the town he hoped for the reward he would find with Allah&#8230; </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">It is true, brothers and sisters, that Allah is Merciful and forgives and forgives. [Yet I am quite Forgiving ... ] But to whom? [ ... towards anyone who turns (in repentance) and believes and acts honorable; then he will be guided.] </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">- Surah Taha 20/82 </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">[O our people! Respond to Allah's Caller (Muhammad - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam) and believe in him, Allah will forgive you of your sins and will save your from a painful torment.] </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">- Surah al-Ahqaf 46/31 </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">Just like we reply someone&#8217;s call when they phone us &#8211; this is Allah and His Messenger calling us! Let us answer. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">There is a verse in the Qur&#8217;an that when Shaytaan read it he cried and felt regret. Read this verse, it is the door to our happiness in this life and the next: </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">[And those who, if they commit an immorality or wrong themselves, remember Allah and seek forgiveness for their sins - and who can forgive sins except Allah? - and who do not persist in what they have done while they know.] </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">Allah then continues: [For those - their reward is forgiveness from their Lord and gardens beneath which rivers flow (in Jannah), wherein they shall abide eternally. Excellent is the reward of the (righteous) workers.] </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">- Surah Ali-Imraan 3/135,136 </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">Allah sent the Prophets and the books; He sent the warners and glad tiders; and He sent the reminders. And atop all that, Allah comes down to Samaa&#8217; ad-Dunya &#8211; in a way befitting of His Majesty &#8211; in the third portion of the night &#8211; every night &#8211; calling to every one of His servants: &#8220;Is there anyone who shall make Dua&#8217; so that I shall accept His Du&#8217;a? Is there anyone who shall ask for pardon so that I may pardon him?&#8221; </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">Dear brothers and sisters, let us make a pledge tonight to set our alarm clocks at 2 am in the morning. We all know that if there was some special sports event on tv or someone had to catch a plane at that time they would be capable of waking up. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">Let&#8217;s set the alarm to pray only 2 raka&#8217;at to Allah. And in Sajdah, recall just one sin &#8211; just one &#8211; between us and Allah and ask Allah ta&#8217;ala to forgive us for that sin, pledging that we shall never return to it. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; taught us that Allah is more pleased with the repentance of His servant than a man who loses his camel in the desert and in that waste land loses hope of life; In that state he sits down awaiting death to come; then he opens his eyes and finds his camel standing beside him with all the provisions to take him home. In his extreme happiness he cries out: &#8220;O Allah, you are my servant and I am your Lord!!&#8221; He said it wrong from the bliss of happiness. </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">Rasul Allah &#8211; sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam &#8211; said that verily Allah is more happy with our towbah than this man! </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">Tonight at 2 am, let&#8217;s all try to make Allah happy with us. Believe me, we won&#8217;t regret it.</span><span style="font-family:'Comic Sans MS';"> </span><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:'Comic Sans MS';">  </span></p>
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<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jan 1990 00:45:46 +0000</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[Many years ago in Uzbekistan, a baby boy was born blind. His Mother, the strong Mu’minah that she wa]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many years ago in Uzbekistan, a baby boy was born blind. His Mother, the strong Mu’minah that she was, did not lose sight of He who had the Power to cure him. She prayed and prayed for her sons sight. And within a few years the boy regained his eyes&#8230;</p>
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<p>She was widowed, the boy an orphan. She traveled with him to Makkah so that he could receive an Islamic Education. She arranged that he attend the circles of the scholars, and in those circles, he began excelling in the science of Hadith. He traveled to distant villages in search of the most authentic sayings of Rasul Allah (pbuh). He would pray two raka’at before accepting a hadith. His mother named him: Muhammad ibn Isma’il. And many of us know him today by the book he compiled, the book that stands after the Quran in authenticity: Saheeh Al-Imam Al-Bukhari!</p>
<p>In another land, in another time, chilly Baghdad winds would wake up another boy. Much before Fajr, his mother would bundle him in warm shawls and escort him through the darkness, making sure he reached the Masjid safely. After Fajr, she would wait for him as he read Hadith to the biggest scholars of the land. Then, long after the sun had come up, she would meet him outside and together they would walk home. She was a strong mother indeed, for her son grew up to become an Imam of the Muslim Ummah, an Imam by the name of Ahmad ibn Hanbal.</p>
<p>- (Manaaqib Ahmad, by Ibn Al-Jowzee)</p>
<p>Imam Suyuti authored his first book, Tafseer Bismillaah Ar-Rahman Ar-Raheeem, when he was in grade 2!</p>
<p>Dear brothers and sisters, why should we try to follow in the footsteps of these many other stars of Islam? The information that we shall in sha’ Allah learn is not like anything else. This knowledge is the law of Allah and the inheritance of the Prophets. It is our duty to preserve and protect the estate of Rasul Allah (pbuh), something that cannot happen without there being serious and sincere brothers and sisters spending long days and nights reading, reflecting, and teaching others.</p>
<p>Every Islamic revival that takes place is built on something. Some revivals are built on emotions, others on politics. Do you know which shall remain firm when the wind of woe blows? It shall be the one that was built on sound knowledge of the words of Allah and the Sunnah of Rasul Allah.</p>
<p>A sincere man once stood on the beach shore watching, to his dismay, the waves thrashing a fish up and down, left and right. The man concluded that he must save the fish. He thrashed into the water and grabbed the fish by the tail. He then thrashed back to shore and threw the fish on the beach, satisfied that he had saved it from the water!</p>
<p>Dear brothers and sisters, when we work for the sake of Allah without knowledge of what the path of Allah is, many times we do as that young man did.</p>
<p>We are living in an age of information. We have lights in every corner of the house when only yesterday our ancestors read by the light of the moon. We have publishing houses when only yesterday our ancestors wrote the books they owned with their own hands. We have CD’s to search the Hadith archives when our scholars spent days upon days searching for proof and evidence in their libraries. Shouldn’t the knowledge increase with all this ease? It should. But it has not.</p>
<p>Dear brothers and sisters, we know that when a prize is great, the responsibility, and the work required for that prize shall also be great. And because of this, we see the enormous reward promised to those scholars and students of Islam due to the heavy work required.</p>
<p>The Prophet (pbuh) said, &#8220;Whoever seeks out a path to acquire knowledge (of the deen), Allah makes easy a path for them to Jannah!&#8221; – Muslim</p>
<p>Shaykh Abdur-Rahman As-Sa’dee said, &#8220;Thus any path a person takes, whether physical or otherwise, something that will help them in acquiring knowledge of the Deen, they enter in the words of the Prophet, &#8220;Whoever seeks out a path to acquire knowledge (of the deen), Allah makes easy a path for them to Jannah.&#8221;</p>
<p>Rasul Allah told us that when a person seeks out a path to learn about Islam, this is a sign that Allah loves them and that He wants good for them in this life and the next.</p>
<p>From Mu’aawiyah ibn Abi Sufyan, the Prophet (pbuh) said, &#8220;Whoever Allah wishes good for, he grants them Fiqh (understading) of the Deen.&#8221;</p>
<p>And Rasul Allah told us that the sincere scholars have a place with Allah that no one else can reach, and that they are the inheritors of the Prophet’s estate in passing it on to the world.</p>
<p>Rasul Allah said, &#8220;The virtue of the scholar to a worshipper (Aabid) is similar to the virtue of the moon when it is full to the rest of the stars. And verily the scholars are the inheritors of the Prophets. Verily the Prophets did not leave behind dirhams and deenars, but rather they left behind knowledge. Thus whoever takes it, takes it as a bountiful share.&#8221; – Authentic, narrated by Abu Dawood, tirmidhi, and Ibn Majah.</p>
<p>The position of the people of Islamic knowledge reached such a level that Allah (Jalla Thanaa’uhu wa taqaddasat Asmaa’uhu) and the Angels pray for them!</p>
<p>From Abu Umaamah: Rasul Allah said, &#8220;Verily Allah and His angels, even the ant in its hole and the fish in the sea, verily (they all) pray for he who teaches people good.&#8221; – authentic, narrated by Tabraanee.</p>
<p>Rasul Allah prayed for them also. He said, as narrated by Zayd ibn Thabit, &#8220;May Allah grant light (and happiness and beauty in the face) of someone who hears a hadith from us and memorizes it until he passes it on to others!&#8221; – authentic, narrated by Tirmidhi.</p>
<p>One of the hadith scholars that Imam Bukhari took from, Hisham ibn Ammar narrates a story that happened to him when he was 8 years old. He says, &#8220;My father sold a house of his for 20 Deenaars so that I could go for Hajj (and study Islam). When I arrived in Madinah, I went to the circle of Imam Maalik. He was sitting amongst his students like a king. People would ask him questions and he would answer. When I entered the crowd and my turn came up I said, ‘Haddithnee (recite to me)!’ He said, ‘Rather you read.’ I said, ‘No, you haddithnee!’ Imam Maalik said, ‘No you read!’ When I talked back and argued, he got angry and said to another student, go with this boy outside and smack him 15 times!’ That student took me outside and smacked me 15 times with a stick and then brought me back to Imam Maalik. I said, ‘you have Dhulm (wronged) me! My father sold his house so that I could come to you and be honored by listening to your teaching and seek knowledge from you. And you smacked me 15 times without any crime on my part, I shall not forgive you!’ Imam Maalik then said, ‘What is the expiation for this Dhulm (wronging)?’ I said, ‘You have to recite 15 hadiths to me, that is the expiation.’ So Imam Maalik began reciting the hadith to me until he completed 15. When he ended I told him, ‘beat me more and read more hadith to me.&#8221; Imam Maalik laughed and said, ‘be off.’ – From the book Ma’rifat Al-Qurraa’ al-Kibaar by Imam Adh-Dhahabi.</p>
<p>From the beginning of time, there has been a race between the doers of good and the doers of evil. Adam and Iblees, Musa and Fir’own, Muhammad and Abu Jahl. Today that race has not ended. Think: How hard are the doers of evil working and how hard are we?</p>
<p>Umar once said, &#8220;I seek Allah’s protection from Jalad (the strength and enthusiasm) of the sinner, and the laziness of the God-fearer.&#8221; Subhaan Allah, it is as if he is contemplating the time that we are now living in.</p>
<p>How can one of us be too lazy to pray 2 raka’at at night, when the people of the Dunya spend the entire night watching movies, some of which they have to read the translation on the bottom of the screen? How can we be too lazy to read for 2 hours, when the people of the Dunya – those who just want more money to continue their sin – spend days upon days of all-nighters studying for their exams? Why do we cringe at paying 6 dollars for an Islamic book, when the people of the Dunya spend hundreds, rather thousands in pursuit of their sin?</p>
<p>What’s wrong? What has happened to us?</p>
<p>Listen to those who came before us. Some Fuqahaa’ said, &#8220;For years I desired to eat Hareesah (a sweet dish) and I wasn’t able to because it was only sold during class time.&#8221;</p>
<p>Imam Su’bah said, &#8220;If I ever saw someone running in the streets of the village I would only think one of two things: He was either crazy or a student of Hadith!&#8221;</p>
<p>And Ibn Al-Jowzee said, &#8220;I haven’t seen a flaw more sad in the community than those who stop working even though they have the ability to continue.&#8221;</p>
<p>How do we correct the situation dear brothers and sisters? Let us reflect on the following:</p>
<p>Firstly: We must be sincere in our desire to learn Islam. We are learning this Deen to rid ourselves, firstly, of ignorance and then to help others to rid themselves of ignorance.</p>
<p>Do you know the first Hadith in Sahih Bukhari, and in many many other Hadith books? It is not a coincidence that the first hadith is: &#8220;Verily Actions are (judged) by their intentions…&#8221; The scholars are reminding us from the very beginning of our path to learning, from page one, that it must be for the sake of Allah.</p>
<p>Allah ordered us to be sincere to Him in what we do: [. And they have been commanded no more than this: to worship Allah, offering Him sincere devotion, being true (in faith)…] Al Bayyinah, 5</p>
<p>Rasul Allah said, &#8220;Whoever studies that which is meant for the sake of Allah, desiring only a piece of the Dunya, he shall not smell the frangrance of Jannah on the Day of Judgement.&#8221; – authentic, narrated by Ahmad, and Tirmidhi.</p>
<p>Ibn Abbas said, &#8220;Verily a man shall be protected (by Allah) in proportion to his niyyah (intention for doing what it is he is doing).&#8221;</p>
<p>And this issue of intention is not an easy matter. Sufyan ath-Thowree said, &#8220;I have never nursed something more rebellious than my intentions.&#8221; – from the book, Al-Ja’mi’ li akhlaaq al-Raawee, by Al-Khateeb al-Baghdaadi.</p>
<p>Listen to the advice of Imam Ibn Jamaa’ah if you want to know what it takes to correct your intention, &#8220;A proper and sincere intention when studying Islam is to intend to win the pleasure of Allah by what you are doing. You should intend to practice what you learn, to resurrect the Shariah, hoping that this knowledge will shine light on your heart, cleanse your soul, and bring you closer to Allah on the day of Judgement…Your intention for studying Islam should not be to win any worldly commodity, like leadership or fame or riches. It should not be learnt so that you can show off to your colleagues or so that people will revere you and sit you in a chief position in their gatherings, and so on…&#8221; – from Imam Ibn Jamaa’ah’s book, Tadhkirat as-Saami’ wal Mutakallim.</p>
<p>Secondly: We should understand that we are in a continuous war with Shaytaan, and he does not want us to succeed in this studying. Allah ta’aala says, [When thou does read the Qur-an, seek Allah's protection from Satan the Rejected One.] An-Nahl, 98</p>
<p>The Shaytaan shall sit in the face of every good thing that you try to do. Rasul Allah told us, &#8220;The Shaytaan sits in the path (of every goodness) that the son of Aadam (may try to take). He sat in front of him when he took the path to Islam and told him, ‘how could you leave the religion of your fathers and your fore-fathers?’ But he disobeyed him and became Muslim. Then Shaytaan sat in front of him in his path to Hijrah and said, ‘How could you leave your land and your sky?’ But he disobeyed him and migrated (from Makkah). Then he sat in front of him in his path of Jihaad and said, ‘Why should you do Jihad? It will only exhaust your wealth and body. You’ll be killed, your wife will marry someone else, and your wealth will be divided (to others).’ But he disobeyed him and went for Jihad.&#8221; Rasul Allah then said, &#8220;Whoever does this, it is a duty upon Allah that He shall enter him into Jannah!&#8221;</p>
<p>How will the Shaytaan sit in your face:</p>
<p>1. He will tell you to study tomorrow, and when tomorrow comes, study tomorrow. Procrastination is from the Shaytaan!</p>
<p>2. Shaytaan will tell you that you are busy now and that later in your life you shall take the time out to study Islam. After marriage, after graduation, after you get a job. Life shall pass and the ‘after’ shall live forever.</p>
<p>3. Shaytaan will tell you that the situation of the Ummah is lost and that you studying will not help anything, so don’t waste your time. Combat this with what you’ve seen from the Jihad of knowledge and teaching that Rasul Allah and those that came before us did.</p>
<p>4. Shaytaan will tell you that there are enough scholars, they don’t need you. Combat this with the fact that scholars shall die, and if the knowledge is not passed on to the next generation, it shall die in the community. There are 1.4 billion Muslims and the problem that always comes up is that there are not enough teachers and scholars. Everyone is a shepherd and everyone shall be responsible for his or her flock!</p>
<p>Thirdly: We should never forget to pray to Allah to bless us with His Mercy in succeeding in our intentions to learn Islam for His sake.</p>
<p>Allah ta’aala says [When My servants ask thee concerning Me, I am indeed close (to them): I listen to the prayer of every suppliant when he calleth on Me…] Surah AlBaqarah, 186</p>
<p align="left">Let us pray to Allah now to make this effort we are doing to learn His Deen, to learn His Shariah, sincere for His sake. And that He blesses us by His Mercy to succeed in what we intend. Verily, he has the Power to do anything.</p>
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<p class="main">As salamu alaykum,<br />
The following Khutbah was given Sept.15 at American University in Washington DC in Public. It was attended by many non-Muslim passer-bys and guests. The Dean of the Unvirsity was also there and a buffet and pamplets about Islam were presented to the non-Muslims. Alhamdulillah it was a very good turnout.</p>
<p>*BTW, the talk about Winnipeg was for comic relief for the Non-Muslims. It gets a little tense when challenging the beliefs someone has had for their whole life.</p>
<p>*And for all the Winnipeggers reading this, I met a guy after the Khutbah that lived in Winnipeg in 1978. He worked for the Winnipeg Free Press! Small world.</p>
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<p>The topic of the Khutbah was the struggle the Muslims went through to establish: Laa ilaaha illa Allah.</p>
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<p>- Muhammad Alshareef<br />
&#8220;All work is as a seed sown: it grows and spreads and sows itself anew.&#8221;</p>
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<p class="main">American University, Washington DC</p>
<p class="main">The Struggle For One God</p>
<p class="main">By Muhammad Alshareef</p>
<p class="main">At the time of Prophet Muhammad &#8211; upon whom be peace &#8211; there was a powerful and influential tribal leader by the name of Musaylimah. For those who know his history, I challenge you to tell me who his father was. Ask anyone in the world and they will say, Alkadhdhab &#8211; the liar! Even if we were to search out his descendants in the present day and ask them who was your ancestor Musaylimah&#8217;s father and they will say, the liar! Why?</p>
<p class="main">Musaylimah had all the earthly ingredients to launch a new religion. He had an exquisite knowledge of the language, a magical public speaker, wealth beyond imagination, and a tribal army crazy about him, ready to die for his safety. He took all these ingredients and proclaimed to all that he was a Prophet of God just like Muhammad.</p>
<p class="main">He missed one ingredient though that sunk his ship, the ingredient of truthfulness. That is why today &#8211; over 1400 years &#8211; there is not a single human soul on earth that thinks Musaylimah was the Prophet of God. Alas, God did not give him the authority to make this claim.</p>
<p class="main">On the other hand, not a second ticks by in 24 hours / 7 days a week, except that there is a Muslim caller to prayer somewhere in the world in the million of Masjids announcing Ash hadu anna Muhammadar Rasul Allah &#8211; I testify that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah.</p>
<p class="main">This is so, because human beings did not give him this authority. Nor did he himself proclaim this to himself. As the emperor of Rome &#8211; Herculias &#8211; asked the Muslim messenger in the year 679 after he had presented Islam to him, &#8220;Which King gave Muhammad this authority?&#8221; The reply was so simple, so profound, &#8220;Allah did! God gave him this authority!&#8221;</p>
<p class="main">I grew up in central Canada, in a city called Winnipeg, a city synonymous with the term cold &#8211; local folk call it Winterpeg. It&#8217;s so cold that people in Canada say: man you’re from Winnipeg, isn&#8217;t it cold there?</p>
<p class="main">I went to grade school in Winnipeg in the early 80&#8242;s. My family and I lived in an environment where we would be giggled at and insulted at the mall and by passing cars. Not uncommon were random shouts of, &#8220;Hey Ninja lady!&#8221; or &#8220;Look what came out of the Desert!&#8221;</p>
<p class="main">At that time, we were the only colored children in the school. I remember once telling a friend to guess what the most popular name in the world was. When I told him it was Muhammad, he told me, &#8220;Get lost! You’re the only one in the school with that name. It must be John or something.&#8221;</p>
<p class="main">I don&#8217;t blame him; a lot of people in North America have not traveled and experienced the treasures of culture and flavor that the nations of the world have to offer humanity.</p>
<p class="main">Rev. Billy Graham once said something so profound. He said, &#8220;I traveled the world and came to the realization that perhaps America does not have in its palm all the truths of the world.&#8221;</p>
<p class="main">Rev. Billy Graham deserves a standing ovation for a statement like that, the modesty to announce that to millions of viewers. But although America may not have all the truths, it is blessed with a nation of truth seekers, for it is never a shame to be mistaken, all shame lies in &#8211; after truth has come &#8211; to persist in ones mistake.</p>
<p class="main">Islam is the fastest growing religion in America, rather in the world. In the past 50 years, Muslims have increased by 233%. And across the earth, from every nation, Muslims number over 1 Billion.</p>
<p class="main">The key to Islam is the statement Laa ilaaha illa Allah, Muhammad Rasul Allah &#8211; There is no god except Allah, and Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah.</p>
<p class="main">This statement takes only a few seconds to pronounce, but it is the transformation point of the lives of billions of Muslims around the world. Only the Creator deserves to be worshipped.</p>
<p class="main">Let&#8217;s take an example from the lives of such people who’s lives changed with this call to worship only one God. Bilal &#8211; may Allah be pleased with him &#8211; was an Abyssinian slave for the aristocracy of Makkah in the year 623. When Muhammad the Messenger of Allah &#8211; upon whom be peace &#8211; came with this message of &#8216;No god except Allah&#8217;, Bilal &#8211; may Allah be pleased with him &#8211; denounced the 360 statues and idols that the tribes of Makkah were worshipping and believed in only Allah.</p>
<p class="main">His enraged slave master Umayyah would take Bilal out in the sizzling noon heat because of his beliefs and burn away Bilal&#8217;s back on the sand. To intensify the pain, Umayyah would bring a boulder and place it on his stomach to press his down on the grilling sand, burning the skin away.</p>
<p class="main">All Bilal would whisper was, &#8220;He is only one (God), He is only one (God)&#8221; infuriating Umayyah who would only intensify the torture.</p>
<p class="main">Bilal was freed by one of Muhammad&#8217;s &#8211; upon whom be peace &#8211; closest friends and followers: Abu Bakr, and Bilal become the first Mu&#8217;adhdhin (the one who calls others to prayer) of Islam.</p>
<p class="main">Another example is that of the Muslim women, Sumayyah &#8211; may Allah be pleased with her. She was also a slave and because they had accepted that no created thing deserved worship, only the creator, her and her husband and son were subjected to physical beatings.</p>
<p class="main">Her torturer Abu Jahl became infuriated one day with her soft voice repeating, &#8220;There is no god but Allah!&#8221; He took a spear and through her mid section, he made Sumayyah the first Muslim to die in the name of &#8220;There is no god but Allah!&#8221; May Allah be pleased with her.</p>
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Although it was permissible for the Muslims to lie to save themselves from the torture, you&#8217;ll see example after example of Muslims who would rather die than surrender their right to believe that only Allah deserved to be worshipped.</p>
<p class="main">Amongst the tyrants of Makkah was a man by the name of Umar ibn Al-Khattabh. He was so vicious with the Muslims that he would volunteer to torture Muslim slaves.</p>
<p class="main">One day, he just had enough and sheathed his sword and set on his way to the home of Muhammad &#8211; upon whom be peace &#8211; to slit his throat once and for all. On the way a Muslim who had been hiding his Islam &#8211; Nu&#8217;aym ibn Abdullah &#8211; and inquired about Umar&#8217;s haste. &#8220;I&#8217;m off to Muhammad, that convert who cut up our tribe, belittled our gods, and mocked our religion, to kill him!&#8221; Nu&#8217;aym became afraid for the Messenger of Allah &#8211; upon whom be peace &#8211; so he quickly thought and said, &#8220;Why don&#8217;t you start with your family first! Your sister and her husband have accepted Islam!&#8221;</p>
<p class="main">Umar became enraged and changed direction to his sister&#8217;s home. At that time, a Muslim teacher &#8211; Khabbab ibn al Arat &#8211; was at their home teaching them the word of Allah &#8211; The Qur&#8217;an &#8211; and for a few moments Umar stood there listening. Then he shouted for them to open the door, Khabbab hid in an adjacent room and Umar&#8217;s sister Fatimah hid the scroll that had the Qur&#8217;an written on it.</p>
<p class="main">Umar entered and walked right up to his brother in law. &#8220;I heard you both have accepted Muhammad and are following him.&#8221; Then Umar pounded his brother in law in the face. Fatimah his sister stood to protect her husband, and when she came in the way, Umar slapped the face of his sister with all his might.</p>
<p class="main">She fell to the ground, her cheek split and the blood spilt all over her cloths. She looked up at her brother and said from behind her tears, &#8220;Yes Umar we are Muslim and yes we have believed in Allah and His Messenger. Maybe you don&#8217;t have all the truth like you think you do?&#8221;</p>
<p class="main">Umar was ashamed at the sight of his sister&#8217;s blood and desisted. He asked, &#8220;What was that sound I heard, that recitation.&#8221; His sister replied, &#8220;I fear for that scroll to fall in your hands.&#8221; But Umar swore by the Idols that he would do no harm. She handed him the scroll after he had cleansed himself and he recited:</p>
<p class="main">[Ta ha / We did not send down to you the Qur'an that you be distressed / But only as a reminder for those who fear (Allah) / A revelation from He who created the earth and the highest heavens / (Allah) the Merciful (who is) above the Throne established / To him belongs what is in the heavens and what is on the earth and what is between them and what is under the soil / And if you speak aloud - then indeed, He knows the secret and what is (even) more hidden / Allah - there in no god except Him, to Him belong the best names.]</p>
<p class="main">Umar later that day visited the Messenger of Allah &#8211; upon whom be peace. When he met him, the Messenger of Allah &#8211; upon whom be peace &#8211; took the coat of Umar and said, &#8220;Hasn&#8217;t the time come for you to become Muslim?&#8221; And Umar replied, &#8220;I&#8217;ve only come for that reason. There is no god but Allah and Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah.&#8221;</p>
<p class="main">The Prophet shouted &#8211; Allahu Akbar! (God is Great!) and everyone that heard it knew that Umar had become Muslim!</p>
<p class="main">Part II:</p>
<p class="main">I&#8217;ve been in large crowds in my life, both in the west and in the middle east.</p>
<p class="main">In Winnipeg, the biggest crowds I experienced were at hockey games. Like I said before, Winnipeg has a lot of ice. Maybe 20 thousand Winnipeggers would gather at night for that hockey game. Hey that’s a lot for Winnipeg.</p>
<p class="main">In Makkah, at the Grand Mosque, I have been in a crowd of 3 million worshippers in one prayer! These people were not from one nation, nor were they from one language backround, and no they didn’t gather to see the Winnipeg Jets beat the Washington Capitols!</p>
<p class="main">As you’ll see today when we line up for prayer, In Makkah, 3 Million people lined up in perfect circles around the Grand Mosque to worship Allah! I once stood in the window of a Hotel across from the Grand Mosque and watched down below the swarming crowd of 3 million Muslims. Then when the call to prayer began, that entire crowd stood in perfect circles in less than 50 secs. Who gathered these hearts? Only Allah.</p>
<p class="main">A consistent crowd of 3 million from every nation, class, and color did not come about without pain and struggle to assert humanities right to worship nothing but the one true God &#8211; Allah.</p>
<p class="main">There were times in that very same valley of Makkah when Muhammad &#8211; upon whom be peace &#8211; would prostrate to only to Allah, avoiding all the false idols that surrounded him. The Polytheists (in Arabic Mushrikeen) of Makkah sat there staring at him and loathed the seen. They said to themselves, &#8220;How can you sit here and allow Muhammad to prostrate to Allah in your midst. Who amongst us will humiliate him?&#8221;</p>
<p class="main">&#8220;I shall,&#8221; said a man by the name of Utbah.</p>
<p class="main">He took the intestines of a fresh lamb that had been sacrificed to the idols and dumped it on the head of Muhammad &#8211; upon whom be peace. The Mushrikeen fell off their seats in hysterical laughter. Muhammad &#8211; upon whom be peace &#8211; did not come up from his prostration.</p>
<p class="main">News reached his daughter Fatimah &#8211; who at that time was still a young girl &#8211; that her Father was being ridiculed at the Ka&#8217;bah (The Grand Mosque). She raced there and when she saw her father she cried and removed the filth and swore through her tears at the Mushrikeen.</p>
<p class="main">This is just an example of the ridicule the Messenger of Allah and the Muslims went through to teach humanity that nothing deserves worship except Allah!</p>
<p class="main">The Mushrikeen of Makkah used their media &#8211; poetry and word of mouth &#8211; to sway public opinion against this call that there was no god but Allah.</p>
<p class="main">A doctor by the name of Damaud from the tribe of Azd made pilgrimage to Makkah and when he arrived in the Holy valley the news media of Makkah flash warned him not listen to a word Muhammad says. &#8220;He is a magician,&#8221; they said, &#8220;He&#8217;s mad&#8221;</p>
<p class="main">Damaud recalls, &#8220;They frightened me so much that I considered putting cotton in my ears. But then I said to myself, &#8216;I am a doctor and have healed mad men before…perhaps I may be able to cure Muhammad.&#8221;</p>
<p class="main">So after completing his circumbulation around the ka&#8217;bah, he saw Muhammad &#8211; upon whom be peace &#8211; sitting peacefully in the courtyard. He approached him and said softly, &#8220;Muhammad, I administer treatment for this illness and God has allowed me to heal many people, would you wish that I nurse you?&#8221;</p>
<p class="main">Muhammad &#8211; upon whom be peace &#8211; turned and said, &#8220;Verily all praise belongs to Allah; we thank Allah and seek his protection from everything; whoever Allah guides none can misguide them and whoever Allah leaves to go astray none can guide them aright. I testify that there is no god worthy of worship except Allah and that (I) Muhammad am the Messenger of Allah.&#8221;</p>
<p class="main">Damaud&#8217;s mouth gapped open. He swallowed and said, &#8220;Could you repeat that for me?&#8221; Muhammad the Messenger of Allah &#8211; upon whom be peace &#8211; repeated it.</p>
<p class="main">Then Damaud smiled and announced, &#8220;By God, I have heard the words of soothsayers, and have heard the words of magicians, and have heard the words of poets, and I have never heard words like this! Give me your hand for I am pledging allegiance to Islam. There is no God but Allah and Muhammad is His Messenger!&#8221;</p>
<p class="main">You&#8217;ll find in the Qur&#8217;an (the book/word of Allah) verse after verse opening the eyes of humanity to the reality that there is a God and He is only one.</p>
<p class="main">Jubayr ibn Mut&#8217;em stood quietly behind the Messenger of Allah &#8211; upon whom be peace &#8211; at sunset prayer (in Arabic Maghrib) one day and listened to the verses of Qur&#8217;an. The Messenger of Allah &#8211; upon whom be peace &#8211; was reciting the Chapter Toor (chapter 52) and in it he heard him recite:</p>
<p class="main">[Or were they created by nothing, or were they the creators of (themselves) / Or did they create the heavens and the earth? Rather, they are not certain / Or have they (in their hands) the treasures (of humanities provision) of Your Lord? Or do they control it? ] verse 35 to 37.</p>
<p class="main">Jubayr ibn Mut&#8217;em said, &#8220;When I heard these verses, it was as if my heart had wings flying swiftly and in bliss to the truth that I had found in Islam.&#8221;</p>
<p class="main">Brother, Sister, where will you be in 100 years? You&#8217;ll be dead. And where were you 100 years ago? Nothing.</p>
<p class="main">Allah says in the Qur&#8217;an: [Has there not come upon man a period of time when he was not a thing (even) mentioned? / Indeed, We created man from a sperm - drop mixture (i.e. combination of male and female substance) that We may test him; and We made him hearing and seeing. / Indeed, We guided him to the way, to be thankful or to be ungrateful.] Chapter 76/1-3</p>
<p class="main">In those early days of Islam, the Messenger of Allah &#8211; upon whom be peace &#8211; would go from tent to tent, tribe to tribe, announcing to them, &#8220;Say there is no god but Allah and success will be yours!&#8221; Today, over 1400 years later as the followers of Muhammad, believers in Allah, we extend those words of our Messenger &#8211; upon whom be peace &#8211; to all our guests today: &#8220;Say there is no god but Allah and success will be yours!&#8221;</p>
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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Aseer ibn Jaabir narrates: Whenever people would come from Yemen, Umar would ask them, �Is Uways Al-Qaranee amongst you?� until, one year, he met Uways. He said, �Are you Uways Al-Qaranee?� He said, �Yes.� Umar continued, �From Muraad, then Qaran?� He said, �Yes.� Umar then asked, �Were you once afflicted with leprosy and your skin healed except for a dirham�s area?� Uways said, �Yes.� Umar finally asked, �Do you have a mother (that is alive)?� He said, �Yes.� Umar then said, �I heard the Messenger of Allah &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; say, �Uways ibn Aamir will come to you with the delegations from Yemen, from Muraad, then from Qaran. He was once afflicted with leprosy and his skin healed except for a dirham�s area. He has a mother, and he treats her kindly. If he was to ever swear by Allah (for something) Allah would fulfill his oath. If you can, request that he ask forgiveness for you.� Umar then requested from Uways, �Ask forgiveness for me.� And Uways Al-Qaranee did. </strong></p>
<p><strong><!--more--> </strong><strong>Allah &#8211; Ta�ala &#8211; commanded us, [And your Lord decreed that you should worship none but Him and that you be dutiful to your Parents. If one of them or both attain old age in your life, then do not say to them uff (a word of disrespect), nor shout at them, rather address them in terms of honour / And lower for them the wing of submission and humility through mercy. And say, �My Lord! Grant them Your Mercy as they brought me up when I was small.�] � Al-Israa� 17/23-24 Ad-Daylami collected from Al-Husayn ibn Ali, that the Prophet &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; said, �If Allah knew any smaller than uff (tsk) to be disrespectful to parents, He would have decreed it to be Haram!� In Bukhari, a man came to the Prophet &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; seeking permission to go for Jihad. The Prophet &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; asked him, �Are your Parents alive?� He said, �Yes.� He &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; said, �Perform Jihad (in you kind treatment) of them.�</p>
<p>If someone came to you today and offered you a free lunch, what would be your response? No doubt you would smile, speak kindly to them, and reserve a special place in your heart for their memory. Why is it then that our parents receive only cold stares, harsh words and bitter treatment and they are who they are in our lives? For Twenty or Thirty years they fed us, clothed us, washed us, and showered their mercy on our soft skin. Their love for us never dies even if we do, love that goes even beyond us, to our children and even their children.</p>
<p>Dear Brothers and Sisters, we all have parents � whether they are with us or not � and many have not understood the severity of their position in our lives and their right to be respected and revered. Today I want to remind you and I of the true position of our Parents, may Allah have mercy on them all.</p>
<p>Birr Al-Waalidayn is a characteristic of the Mu�min. Al-Hasan Al Basree defined it saying, �Al-Birr is to obey the parents in everything that they ask so long as it is not to disobey Allah. Uqooq is to disown your parents, denying them all of your goodness.�</p>
<p>By the Ijma� of the Ulamaa�, being respectful and obedient to ones parents is Fard! Ibn Hazm said, �(Obeying ones parents) is Fard!� and he quoted the verse: [And your Lord decreed that you should worship none but Him and that you be dutiful to your Parents.]</p>
<p>To better understand what is meant by Birr Al-Walidayn (kindness to parents), the scholars set the following conditions:</p>
<p>� One: He should place the pleasure of his parents above the pleasure of anyone else, including himself and his wife and kids. Everyone.</p>
<p>� Two: He should obey them in everything they command or forbid, whether it agrees with his desires or not, so long as they do not command the disobedience of Allah.</p>
<p>� Three: He should present them with everything he feels they desire, whether they ask for it or not. He should present it with kindness and mercy, understanding � no matter what he does � his shortcomings in fulfilling the true kindness that his parents deserve.</p>
<p>Allah�s love comes when our parents love us. And Allah�s anger comes when our parents are angry with us. Ibn Abbas raa said, �There are three things that will not be accepted if it�s mate is not fulfilled. (And he mentioned), [Thank Me (Allah) and your Parents..] � Luqmaan 31/14.</p>
<p>Ibn Abbaas continued, �Thus whoever thanks Allah and is not thankful to his parents, Allah will not accept from him.</p>
<p>The Prophet &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; said, �the Pleasure of Allah is from the pleasure of the parents, and the anger of Allah is from the anger of the parents.�</p>
<p>Let us think about how many of us treat our parents. We shy away from them when they may need something. We never visit if we are away from them. In fact, many people dispose of their parents in retirement homes. And when an argument ignites between our parents and us, many of us shout at them as if we were arguing with our evilest enemy, May Allah protect us all.</p>
<p>Compare this to those that came before us. Dhibyaan ibn Ali ath-Thowree (ra) used to travel with his mother to Makkah. There � in the scorching heat � he would dig a little pool and fill it with cool water. Then he would turn to his mother and say, �Ummi, sit in this water to cool yourself.�</p>
<p>For many of us, our friends are more precious to us than our Mother and Father. Forgetful we are of the time a man came to the Prophet &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; and asked him who is more worthy of his dear companionship. He &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; said, �your Mother!� The man asked again and again, and the Prophet &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; replied, �Your Mother! Your Mother!� Until on the fourth time he &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; said, �Your Father.� Today, when the common question is asked, �Who is your best friend?� How many people would say, �my Mother!� But this is how the question should be answered and implemented.</p>
<p>What pleases our parents comes before everything, so long as it is not in disobedience of Allah. The scholars understood this and set the example for us. Haywah bin Shurayh (ra), one of the Imam�s of our Ummah, used to give classes in front of his home. During the class, his Mother would call him to feed the chickens. He would stand up, leave the Halaqah, and go feed the chickens.</p>
<p>We all want Allah to accept from us, we would all like to enter Paradise. Look down � dear brothers and sisters &#8211; and you will find paradise at the feet of your mother.</p>
<p>Narrated Ahmad and An-Nasaa�ee, from Mu�aawiyah ibn Jaahimah As-Sulamee: My father, Jaahimah (raa) went to the Prophet &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; and asked, �O Messenger of Allah, I would like to go out and fight for the sake of Allah, and I have come to you for advice.� The Prophet &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; asked him, �Is your Mother alive?� He said, �Yes.� �Then stay near her,� advised the Prophet &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam, �For at her feet is Jannah!�</p>
<p>On the other side, making our Parents sad or even making them cry is one of the many ways to earn Allah�s anger. Imam Ahmad narrates, from Abdullah ibn �Amr ibn Al-Aas (raa): A man came to the Prophet &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; to give him his pledge of Allegiance. He said, �I have come to pledge allegiance to you for Hijrah! And I have left both my parents behind crying� The Prophet &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; commanded him, �Go back, and the same way that you made them cry, make them laugh.� Ibn Umar (raa) said, �Making ones parents cry is amongst the Uqooq, a major sin!�</p>
<p>Shaykh al-Qaasim once said, �Subhaan Allah! How can we leave our parents sobbing, tears that the throne of Allah shakes for, tears that unsettle the Angels in the heavens, and then we claim that we want to go for Jihad so that Allah will be pleased with us? Go back and make them happy with your visit as you made them sad by your departure. If they laugh and are pleased with you, Allah will be pleased.�</p>
<p>During the funeral of his mother, Al-Haarith Al-Aklee (ra) weeped. When asked for the reason of his tears he said, �Why should I not cry when one of my doors to Paradise has now closed?�</p>
<p>Part II: We reap what we Plant In a far away land, a long time ago, a boy was born blind. His widowed mother � the good Muslimah that she was � did not lose hope in her dua� and pray she did, continuously. A few years later, the boy�s sight returned. Al-Hamdu lillaah.</p>
<p>She realized that her village was not befitting for her son to excel in Islamic education, so with her son in hand they migrated to Makkah. There she saw that he was being instructed in Quran and Hadith, the latter becoming the young man�s focus. He went out far and wide collecting Hadith and compiled a Hadith book that sits next to the Quran in authenticity, forgetting not his mother that had raised him well. His mother named him Muhammad ibn Isma�il, and many of us know him today as: Al-Imam Al-Bukhari!</p>
<p>Dear brothers and sisters, how often is it that a farmer plants wheat and it comes out as a sunflower? You may say, never! For how can someone farm the seed of one plant and expect some other plant to grow. It just does not happen. Similarly, some parents leave their children waddling in the mud of television, music, movies, and disbelieving friends. Then when the child reaches grade 12 and asks to go to the final dance with a girlfriend, or when he enters University and stops praying, or when he gets married to a Kafir and himself becomes one, then the parents say, �What happened?�</p>
<p>Brothers and sisters, it is the harvest of what we planted. If we do not raise our children to be obedient, where do we expect them to learn? If we do not practice Islam ourselves, who will be our children�s example? How do you teach a child to wake up for Fajr, when he sees his own father and mother sleeping in, day after day? You may ask, how do I raise my children to be good Muslims, obedient to their parents? Consider the following:</p>
<p>Firstly: One should discipline their children throughout their youth. Hisham ibn Abd Al-Malik missed a son of his during Jumu�ah one week. When he met him later, he asked him, �Why did you miss Jumu�ah?� He son replied, �My donkey couldn�t make the trip.� His father then said, �Couldn�t you have walked!� For an entire year after that, Hisham ibn Abd Al-Malik made his son walk to Jumu�ah.</p>
<p>Secondly: The piety of the father and mother reaches the children. In the Qur�an, Allah recalls for us the story of Khidr, and how he rebuilt a wall for 2 orphans: [And as for the wall, it belonged to two orphan boys in the town. Under it was a treasure belonging to them and their father was a righteous man�] � Al-Kahf 18/82</p>
<p>Look at how Allah protected these orphans because of the piety of their father. In tafseer, it is said that it was their grandfather seven generations back! Sa�eed ibn Jubayr said, �I often lengthen my Salah for the sake of my son, perhaps Allah may protect him (because of it).�</p>
<p>In conclusion, let us reflect on the virtue of respecting our parents:</p>
<p>� It is one of the greatest things that we can do. In Bukhari and Muslim, from Abd Allah ibn Mas�ood (raa), a man asked the Prophet &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam, �What deed is most beloved by Allah?� He &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; said, �Salah on time.� The man asked, �And then?� He &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; said, �Respecting and revering ones parents.� He said, �And then?� �Jihad for the sake of Allah.�</p>
<p>� It is a means by which our sins are forgiven. When Allah commanded in the Qur�an [And We enjoined on man to be dutiful and kind to his parents..] The next verse tells us: [They are those from whom We shall accept the best of their deeds and overlook their evil deeds, (they shall be) amongst the dwellers of Paradise.] � Al-ahqaaf 46/15-16</p>
<p>� Respecting our parents will lead us to Jannah! In Muslim, from Abu Hurayrah (raa): I heard the Messenger of Allah &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; say, �May he perish! May he perish! May he perish!� It was asked, �Who, O Messenger of Allah?� The Prophet &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; said, �He whose parents attain old age in his life � one or both of them � and he does not enter Paradise (because of his goodness towards them).�</p>
<p>And when our parents are gone, the goodness towards them does not end.</p>
<p>Malik ibn Rabi�ah Al-Saa�idi narrated: We were sitting with the Messenger of Allah &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; when an Ansari man came and asked, �O Messenger of Allah, is there anything left from my Birr to my parents that I should present to them after their death?� The Prophet &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; said, �Yes, four things: Pray and ask forgiveness for them. Fulfill their pledges. Be kind to their friends. And maintain the ties of kinship that come from only their direction. That is what is left from your Birr to them after their death.�</p>
<p>� Ahmad, Abu Dawood, and Ibn Maajah. Aamir ibn Abd Allah ibn Az-Zubayr (ra) said, �My father died, and for an entire year I did not ask Allah for anything except that He forgive my Father.�</p>
<p>Remember dear brothers and sisters as you meet your parents today, the words of Rasul Allah &#8211; Sal Allahu alayhi wa Sallam &#8211; �Fa feehima fa Jaahid! Do Jihad in (your kind treatment of) your parents.�</p>
<p>O Allah, forgive us and our parents, and reward them with the finest reward. O Allah, elevate their position in the hereafter and this Dunya; make that which befalls them an expiation for their sins. O Allah, grant them residence in Firdows, the highest level of Jannah, with the Prophets, the Siddeeqeen, and the Martyrs.</p>
<p>Ameen.</p>
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