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comics / communication / condolences1 comment

sexgeek wrote 2 weeks ago: Tonight, I’ve got good news and bad news. Okay, I’ll give you the good news first. Two pieces of it, … more →

Tags: bdsm, Gender, Queer, sex geek teachings / speakings, sex geek writings

growth in kink1 comment

sexgeek wrote 1 month ago: Tonight I’m answering Diane’s question: After years of going to kinky workshops and even … more →

Tags: bdsm, Books, films, spirituality

califia in canada (and some shameless self-promotion)

sexgeek wrote 1 month ago: Tonight I had the pleasure of attending a workshop in Ottawa with Patrick Califia entitled “Ge … more →

Tags: Non monogamy, bdsm, Books, Queer, sex, sex geek teachings / speakings, Travels, Art

a disturbing equation, or, musings on masculinity5 comments

sexgeek wrote 1 month ago: Tonight, during his workshop at Venus Envy Ottawa entitled “FTM Sexuality,” Patrick Cali … more →

Tags: bdsm, Books, Queer, trans, Feminism, sex, Gender

five-minute erotica8 comments

sexgeek wrote 1 month ago: Apparently, all I need is a kick in the ass. If I am going to produce erotic fiction, that is. I wen … more →

Tags: bdsm, Queer, trans, sex, Travels, Gender

a quick update

sexgeek wrote 2 months ago: I just realized I’ve gotten all excited about the monthly newsletter I started putting out in late s … more →

Tags: Non monogamy, bdsm, Queer, sex, sex geek teachings / speakings, sex geek organizings, Travels

on (not) being femme1 comment

sexgeek wrote 7 months ago: So I’m hanging out in Vancouver this week, for the occasion of Canadian Mayhem, the new West C … more →

Tags: bdsm, Queer, Feminism, Gender

desperately seeking a hot bi babe (or, the politics of recruiting)3 comments

sexgeek wrote 7 months ago: First things first. I must put in a plug (ha!) for the workshop I’m teaching this coming Sunda … more →

Tags: Non monogamy, Books, Queer, sex, Travels, Gender

deviance in deutschland8 comments

sexgeek wrote 8 months ago: I don’t normally write extensive travel reports, but sometimes such things are worth it. If hearing … more →

Tags: Non monogamy, bdsm, Queer, trans, sex, sex geek teachings / speakings, Travels, language, Gender

swimming against the current*4 comments

sexgeek wrote 8 months ago: Today, I bought a European power outlet adapter. Tomorrow I hop on a plane to Berlin. I’ve nev … more →

Tags: Non monogamy, bdsm, Books, Queer, sex geek teachings / speakings, Travels

high on chocolate and advocating the alphabet*4 comments

sexgeek wrote 9 months ago: Well, I’m back on Canadian soil, and the time of this post should demonstrate the extent to wh … more →

Tags: bdsm, trans, sex, sex geek teachings / speakings, Travels, language, Gender

diagnosing deviance1 comment

sexgeek wrote 9 months ago: I’m writing from not-so-sunny San Francisco, where International Ms. Leather is fast approaching. (T … more →

Tags: bdsm, Books, Queer, sex, Travels

five steps for fixing a fuck-up2 comments

sexgeek wrote 9 months ago: First things first: I’ve missed you! I just spent a week in Halifax teaching all sorts of delicious … more →

Tags: bdsm, sex geek teachings / speakings, Travels

let it out*

sexgeek wrote 10 months ago: Wow. So it’s January 28, and I just noticed that the following post – which I thought I … more →

Tags: Non monogamy, bdsm, Queer, trans

“hello, sir—i mean, ma’am”: trans etiquette for dummies*4 comments

sexgeek wrote 11 months ago: *This is one of my older pieces of published writing, predating even my old blog. Sometime in 2004 o … more →

Tags: bdsm, trans, language, Gender

five assumptions, or i hate creamed spinach* (plus lots of fun news)5 comments

sexgeek wrote 11 months ago: And once again, I’ve been too busy to post twice a week. Wow. If I can’t keep up now, wh … more →

Tags: Non monogamy, bdsm, Queer, sex, sex geek teachings / speakings, Travels

abuse among the kinky, part 1: 6 ways to think about abuse*1 comment

sexgeek wrote 1 year ago: It’s a snowy, sunny Thursday and life is good. I have two notices for you today. First, for th … more →

Tags: bdsm, Queer, trans, Feminism, sex, sex geek teachings / speakings, Gender

the quiz of kink and the question of queer*7 comments

sexgeek wrote 1 year ago: I’d like to start of with two announcements for you today, both of them regarding events that … more →

Tags: bdsm, Queer, Gender

coming down and moving forward2 comments

sexgeek wrote 1 year ago: Wow. What a weekend. It’s Monday, we’ve finished our cleanup and everyone (well, almost … more →

Tags: bdsm, Queer, Feminism, sex geek teachings / speakings, sex geek organizings, Travels


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