I’ll preface this by saying throughout this article I use the terms “we” and “us” referring to ex-boyfriends because, in the past, I’m as guilty of this as anybody else. 882 more words
I'm glad to say I only have one ex that pulled that with me last year. Can you say restraining order? He tried all five, but the joke was on him because it was my power play to show him he wasn't who he thought he was in my life and after three years of misery I was happier than ever.
You know it is bad when you walk away from someone (or run) and you’re life just improves a hundredfold. The moment he walked out the door I found happiness again. So given all those little aspects and "I want you to be happy. I want us to be friends." Followed by the "I want to come home and be with you." I can only say I would be lying if I didn’t say my ego wasn’t at play here, because I did get satisfaction. I was happy with my life and he could see it. No games or ploys just a woman having a good life again.
Mind you he did damage, but he can't mess up my relationship because I didn't care enough to be unhappy without him. I'm good and can relate to this.It also made me smile, because I have two other exes who did the total opposite of this and were straight forward and up front about everything-just lay it on the table tactic and hope that one works because it true. I prefer honesty like that, but only if I like them or am into them, 1 for 3. Ha With that said. I had to share this one.