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My Gender Hasn't Changed-- Language Is Just Playing Catch-Up

I’ve always had a pretty decent understanding of what the “inert nothingness” feels like within the context of myself; it’s just finding words to describe that experience that’s always been sucky. 826 more words

A letter for Jeremy...

My friend Lenny wrote an open letter for Jeremy and I have zir permission to share it here:

Hi Jeremy,

I wanted to write you a letter about my experiences of being non binary gendered, queer, and coming out, but I’m finding it tough. 1,095 more words


Moving Away From the Transgender Label

It’s only been like, 2 years since discovering that I might be trans*, and already I feel myself drifting away from the label.

Maybe it’s because I can’t seem to be able to tolerate very many transgender people when I get to know them even the tiniest bit. 408 more words

More on the Asterisk

My first meditation on this can be found here.

Since writing that previous post, I’ve learned more about the desire to see the asterisk after “trans” disappear. 528 more words

Facebook now offers 58 gender choices

LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender) is so very passé.


The AP reports that on Feb. 14, 2014, social media giant Facebook added a customizable option with about 50 different terms people can use to identify their gender as well as three preferred pronoun choices: him, her or… 779 more words