Sometime last year, I came across this little gem of a paragraph on the blog “Adventures in Deconstruction” by Mary Bryson, a queer theory professor at UBC. She’s referring here to a… more →
Sex Geekblackdove wrote 1 week ago: I’m sad today, and seeing one big, overwhelming downside to non-monogamy. What happens when yo … more →
blackdove wrote 1 week ago: These are some recent quotes on the Twitter reel that caught my attention: Do you love relations … more →
ameliatd wrote 1 week ago: You should all check out Let’s Talk Sex’s lecture tomorrow night: “Beyond Monogamy … more →
blackdove wrote 1 week ago: Starting this week, Let’s Eat Cake! is going to start hosting occasional guest bloggers. The … more →
blackdove wrote 2 weeks ago: I love it when people say, “You already have a boyfriend, leave some for the rest of us, … more →
sexgeek wrote 2 weeks ago: Tonight I had the pleasure of attending a workshop in Ottawa with Patrick Califia entitled “Ge … more →
dorkchaser wrote 2 weeks ago: This past week – yes, the week we are reading about queer, open and poly-relationships – I made a ph … more →
blackdove wrote 2 weeks ago: I’ve been reading Dan Savage’s column in the Stranger for so long, I remember when Savag … more →
sexgeek wrote 2 weeks ago: I’m too tired to post anything thoughtful tonight – so my answers to the remaining two q … more →
blackdove wrote 3 weeks ago: A lot of couples in the poly community have similar rules that they follow, and one of them is … more →
blackdove wrote 4 weeks ago: An article from CNN released today discusses whether monogamy is realistic in our current society, … more →
blackdove wrote 1 month ago: I typed “Polyamory” into Slate Magazine’s Dear Prudence, and this was the only res … more →
blackdove wrote 1 month ago: Many Hollywood marriages are on the rocks in the time it takes to make a movie. Will Smith has come … more →
blackdove wrote 1 month ago: Jealousy is all the fun you *think* they had ~ Erica Jong, Fear of Flying. … more →
blackdove wrote 1 month ago: Last night Luke and I went to a play at the Rendezvous, and while we were waiting in the bar for the … more →
blackdove wrote 1 month ago: Let’s talk about something simple. Often times I pack this blog full of concepts that are p … more →
D&G wrote 1 month ago: The first words out of David’s mouth to Gary were “who’s this cute, little f*ck? … more →
blackdove wrote 1 month ago: I’m beginning to see how being poly has changed my outlook on day-to-day life, and the disappo … more →
sexgeek wrote 2 months ago: I just realized I’ve gotten all excited about the monthly newsletter I started putting out in late s … more →