Hello again, this is Jenny Babe.

Recently, I have been busy writing and re-writing articles for others. I realize that I need to write something for myself. I  do not mind that there are times I create an article for a living by being a ghost writer and other people get the credit for my writing style. What I am concerned is, I am writing articles after articles without increasing my credibility as a writer.

I have little chance of attracting potential clients to adhere to my service. Although I am not actually particular with waving an approximate rate ranges, I am particular that there has to be someone who will avail of my writing skills.

The question then pop-ups of what strategy can I possibly make to attest that indeed I have the gift of pen. As a start, I logged in to Ezine and availed of their membership days ago. Ezine is a good site for all authors, amateurs and experts alike.

For a day or two, my Ezine profile is empty because as I put it, I was busy doing article writing for others. And then suddenly, it came to my mind that either I will do it or I don’t. And so i did and my first Ezine article is published.

Here’s to my link.

http://ezinearticles.com/?expert_bio=Jenny_Babe_Josol

I am looking forward to writing more.

If you like my writing style and you want to hire me.

I have an account in Odesk.com

http://www.odesk.com/users/006d54b2b67266e9

My rate is very affordable and I guarantee quality in my work. I am very flexible when it comes to topics. But I prefer to write things that I am interested at such as Health, Maternity, Relationships, Travel, and a lot more.

I am succesful in Ezine. I can still go the distance.

Ok, yesterday I spent a little bit of time surfing around on Yahoo! answers . A lot of the questions were from guys, and a lot of them were related to the same issue (though the guys didn’t realize it). One of the keys to online dating success is to make sure you are on the right online dating site! What does that mean? It means make sure the site you’re signed up with has what you’re looking for. Are you interested in casual dating? Looking for more of a long term relationship? You want to be on a site that is attracting the type of people looking for the same thing you are. Now I know this seems stupid simple, but it isn’t always something people understand right away when they jump into the online dating scene (especially if you got sucked in by the hot girl ad…see previous blog).

So, if you are on a site geared towards nsa (no strings attached) sex and/or casual dating, and you’re looking for a long-term relationship you’re going to feel like you’re constantly spinning your wheels, never moving forward, and never meeting anyone that does anything for you. But, if you’re signed up on a site geared towards longer term relationships, you’re going to find other people on there with the same goal in mind and you’ll have more things in common. See how this works?

You can usually tell by the homepage (way before you do any signing up) what the site is geared towards. If there are any pics of women in lingerie, or “come fuck me” eyes . . . leaning towards the nsa sex/hook-up/casual dating type of dating site. If the homepage talks about love, meeting your “match,” or “soulmates” it is in the long term relationship, seeking a deep/intimate connection type of a dating site.

So, if you read this and realize you’re on the wrong dating site for what you’re looking for stop spinning your wheels! Start looking around for other online dating sites offering what you want, and try out one of those.

Let me know if this helps you, and feel free to send questions my way (they can be anonymous).

Pull up a chair, grab your fave drink, and get ready for the ultimate (virtual) girls night out. I love a night out on the town. Even for us ladies who are most comfortable in jeans and a tshirt who doesn’t love to get dressed up and feel super sexy, and head out for a great night? I’m not going to lie…I’m a sucker for “Sex & the City” (I know, I know). Depending on my mood, I want to be all the characters at different times, or take a bit of each of the characters at the same time. I found what was happening on TV happening in real life. I was meeting people when I went out, yep even getting dates from those meetings. But the dates were…eh…far from exceptional. The best thing about most of them was that they made super funny horror stories to tell my gf’s while we chatted while getting ready to go out on the town again. I wanted to meet people I clicked with, not just people who had the ability to take me out on a date. Any of this sounding familiar? I thought–maybe–online dating would offer a solution. And in the end, it did! I am living proof that online dating success stories are not an urban legend. How do I know? Because I am one! I met my fiance through an online dating site. I can feel you wanting to run. Hang in there…I’m not writing to tell you marriage is going to be the best thing in the world, or I owe it all to online dating sites. I’ll save you the long stories and drama, but I had to work my butt off to figure out online dating sites! Men are a mystery all to themselves, but online dating sites are a world all to themselves. After making a lot of mistakes, and stumbles I finally started learning what worked on the sites, how to get attention (from the people I wanted to attract), how to weed through the fakes/flakes/scams, and all sorts of other fun stuff. The best present someone could have given me would have been an actual how to with online dating tips (a real one, not something people offer just so they can sell you something else). So, having been through it myself and with lots of girlfriends still travelling the crazy journeys of online dating I want to share what I learned along the way (so you don’t have to take the time to make the same mistakes I did ~smile~). You can even drag your guy friends along, if they’re wondering what in the world makes us tick (we’re the sane ones…they’re the complicated ones! ). Feel free to send me your questions or comments…nothing is off topic (nope, I don’t offend easily ~grin~).