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The Function and Morality of Forgiveness

Back in the aether, I wrote two posts about forgiveness (first and second). That particular post gained a lot of attention from Paul Quixote… 821 more words

I Out Lived Fear

It is probably a safe assumption to make…. that those of us who have been molested do not keep pictures or mementos around of those who have molested us.   1,058 more words

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Domestic Violence - I was just like Janay.

So I’ve been watching and reading a lot of information and opinions about Ray Rice and Janay. How she’s protecting him, the heinous footage and the sorrow, anger and judgement of many about her position. 825 more words


Why do victims stay?

Why do victims stay in a violent relationship?

Why do you care?

Why aren’t you asking why the abuser thought they had the right, responsibility, ability, need, desire … to hurt the person they say they love? 31 more words

Increasing community recognition of abuse

I have worked in community education and the prevention of domestic violence for over 15 years. I lived in (3 years ) and dealt with (10 years) violent relationship for another 13 years so for over half of my life domestic violence has been a focus of either trying to survive or helping others gain the necessary tools for success. 160 more words

He deserves a place in gallows:

Crisis of security is the core area that confronts the society in India and it is more manifest in the cases of women folk several of whom fall prey to sex maniacs and are raped every now and then throughout the country with the rape perpetrators devising strange modus operandi for the purpose. 231 more words


Gangstalked in UK

I did not know that gangstalking was something common. Until it started to happen to me. Then I did a google search and information on it came up. 658 more words