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My newest assignment2 comments

vMonster wrote 7 months ago: I’ve taken some major steps back from this blog to savor my new relationship. (And have a fun, … more →

Tags: relationships, Relationships, match-com, Love, A Course in Miracles

Playing for keeps7 comments

vMonster wrote 8 months ago: I’ve met a man that I want to keep. I nicknamed him The Musician in my last post, but I think … more →

Tags: Dating, relationships, Dating, match-com, Romance, Going Steady

On losing moMANtum3 comments

vMonster wrote 8 months ago: “The world is wide, and I will not waste my life in friction when it could be turned into mome … more →

Tags: Dating, Single LIfe, Men, Dating, match-com, Online Dating, MOMENTUM, Annoying

Move in with me, babe (part 2)7 comments

vMonster wrote 9 months ago: In case you missed the first one, “move in with me babe” is just what it sounds. This is … more →

Tags: Dating, Men, Dating, match-com, WTF, Why me?, Crazy

The relationship imagined3 comments

vMonster wrote 9 months ago: Exactly a week ago, I bared [what I thought were] my true feelings to K. I told him he was my … more →

Tags: relationships, Single LIfe, Relationships, Single life, Ambivalence, Friendship, dating your friends, Freedom, Sacrifice

Can you make a mistake and miss your fate?2 comments

vMonster wrote 9 months ago: Yes, I quoted Sex and the City (again). Episode 66 – season 4, I Heart NY. One of my favorites … more →

Tags: relationships, Men, Relationships, Love, the one, The One that got Away, Friendship, Fate, Mistakes

Too little too late3 comments

vMonster wrote 9 months ago: I didn’t write about this when it happened, but several days ago, BV sent me a series of hones … more →

Tags: Dating, Men, Dating, Anecdotes, match-com, Online Dating, Enders, closure, too little too late

Move in with me, babe10 comments

vMonster wrote 9 months ago: I emailed a guy on match.com today. In his photos – total hipster douche, complete with the de … more →

Tags: Dating, Men, match-com, WTF, Online Dating, come-ons, Pick-Up, Emails, Wow

Sex with a side of bacon

vMonster wrote 9 months ago: So last night, after BV’s blow off, I was a sad cat. I could have gone out and met a new guy, … more →

Tags: Dating, Men, Dating, sex, the morning after, bacon, Hook Ups

The ultimate blow off13 comments

vMonster wrote 9 months ago: My so-called love life has been a swirling, tumultuous mess. I really hope this isn’t a reflec … more →

Tags: Dating, Men, Dating, things that suck, Ouch!!!, The Blow-off, motherfucker, Douchebags, getting dissed

Until the real thing comes along8 comments

vMonster wrote 9 months ago: So BV did come around, kind of. I sent him a text on Sunday asking how his trip to Vermont was. He r … more →

Tags: Dating, Single LIfe, Dating, things that suck, disappointment, He's Just Not That Into You, waldo, Where's Waldo?, Ambivalence

When hopes implode14 comments

vMonster wrote 10 months ago: BV dumped me via text this morning. We had a wonderful, classic movie date the other night – I … more →

Tags: Dating, Men, Dating, things that suck, breakup, breakdown, End Game, bummer, Dickhead

Beauty in the breakdown9 comments

vMonster wrote 10 months ago: Alanis Morrissette sings it best – “you choose, you learn.” After my July 4th trys … more →

Tags: Dating, Men, Dating, things that suck, sex, disappointment, breakdown, letdown, Rules

Down ass chick7 comments

vMonster wrote 10 months ago: Down ass chick: a girl that is not high maintenance, she’s down for whatever and doesn’t … more →

Tags: Dating, Men, Dating, summer, Stories, Beer, Down ass chick, Adventures

It's raining men!9 comments

vMonster wrote 10 months ago: It seemed like just week that the fields were fallow…and there weren’t any dateable men … more →

Tags: Dating, Men, Dating, Anecdotes, dating stories, The Weather Girls, It's raining men, Personal, writing

Single as fuck1 comment

vMonster wrote 10 months ago: Single inspiration. Enjoy, bitches. ♥ Embrace the singleness. Get okay with it. … more →

Tags: Dating, Single LIfe, Dating, Funny, Wisdom, Relationships, Being Single, Single life, single

Frisbee like a dream

vMonster wrote 11 months ago: Over a year ago I met a man at a bar. I was struck by his green eyes and a certain gentle masculinit … more →

Tags: Dating, relationships, Men, Dating, frisbee, Ouch!!!, big diss, dating stories, breakup

"Yes dating"4 comments

vMonster wrote 11 months ago: It’s no secret that I’m notoriously picky about the men I go out with. Most of them don … more →

Tags: Dating, Men, Dating, The Year of Yes, yes dating, dating strategy, Hang ups, picky

Secret single behavior...'fess up, ladies!4 comments

vMonster wrote 11 months ago: As with many single gals, I have plenty of SSB – secret single behavior. About six years … more →

Tags: Single LIfe, Being Single, Sex and the City, secret single behavior, SSB, single ladies, Single life, Weird Shit, living alone


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