J’ai hésité longtemps avant de mettre ce billet en ligne, mais je le pense vraiment, donc je vais m’assumer et le mettre en ligne.

Le Bon Gars est souvent mis en position où une personne lui mentionne concernant une situation particulière où les extrants ne plairons pas nécessairement à ce dernier que c’est arrivé ‘’comme ça’’ et que la personne ‘’ne l’a pas venu venir’’. Cela peut s’appliquer à une situation professionnelle, mais peut aussi s’appliquer à la vie personnelle de la personne. Combien de Bon Gars se sont aperçu que leur ex avait trouvé la perle rare en quelques tours de main suite à leur séparation. La réponse est toujours bien sur que c’est ‘’arrivé tout d’un coup’’. Par contre lorsque l’on creuse, le Bon Gars s’aperçoit que le geste a été prémédité. Dans le cas d’une relation professionnel, on se rend compte que l’action posé a été discuté au préalable ou des gestes au préalable ont été posés. Du côté personnel, on peut se rendre compte que la personne s’était déjà lié d’amitié avec le ou la ‘’futur’’ chum/blonde. Sans tromper l’autre, on se rend compte que le terrain était déjà préparé. Il y a même parfois des conversations du genre ‘’si t’avais pas de blonde et que je n’avais pas de chum…etc…).

Cela peut être lié au facteur que certaines personnes ne peuvent passer à la prochaine étape sans être certain qu’il y a quelque chose au bout. Dans un cas professionnel, c’est l’assurance d’un continuité, dans le cas personnel, c’est peut-être un cas de dépendance affective ou de personne qui sont incapable de ‘’rester tout seul’’.

Conclusion, le Bon Gars doit se questionner sur certaines situations et ne pas nécessairement prendre pour du ‘’cash’’ l’affirmation de la personne. Autre conclusion pour les gens qui deviennent expert de la préméditation, ASSUMEZ-VOUS !! Il n’y a rien de mal à faire un changement de couple ou des changements professionnels, mais de grâce ayez le courage de faire face à la musique et assumez vos décisions.

(GREEK NEWS AGENDA) The prime ministers of Greece, Former Yugoslav Republic of Macedonia (FYROM) and Albania, on November 27, sent a joint letter to the UN Secretary General, the European Union and the Danish prime minister regarding the environmental protection of the Prespes Lake region shared by all three countries.
After the tripartite informal meeting in a lake-side village on the Greek side, Greek premier George Papandreou told reporters that the three leaders agreed to sign an agreement – in early February 2010 – to enhance the environmental protection of the Prespes Lake region.
They also promised to promote bilateral and multilateral cooperation in water management and take measures to tackle pollution and soil erosion. 
Papandreou also discussed with his FYROM counterpart, Nikola Gruevski, investment projects, the possibility of abolishing visas for FYROM nationals, as well as the “name issue,” for which the Greek premier said that new impetus should be given to the ongoing talks for its resolution.
With his Albanian counterpart, Sali Berisha, the Greek premier discussed economic relations, and minority and immigration issues. 
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A propos de la communication virtuelle, je commence  à y penser davantage  depuis que je suis venue à Saint-Etienne. Cela a été et demeure le seul outil pour le contact avec mes relations. Cela donne à penser  sur ce qui est important dans le dialogue avec les gens. Internet facilite la communication et fournit des occasions de communiquer avec des gens qui seraient autrement inaccessibles. Mais est-ce que sur Internet la personne ne disparaît-elle pas ? Internet permet la création et le changement de son identité, et d’adopter des identités multiples.

La communication virtuelle a beaucoup d’avantages. Premièrement, la vitesse d’échange des informations. Mais c’est aussi, à mon avis, l’une des principales raisons de la rapidité du mode de vie moderne, ce qui conduira à un grand stress. L’esprit des gens est quelque peu faussé, ils n’ont pas de temps pour s’arrêter, regarder ce qui se passe autour et en général, pourquoi ils sont dans un état de si grand stress. 
La culture lettone n’est pas caractérisée par  le toucher. Donc, en principe, il est possible d’être satisfait seulement avec quelques lettres et appels Skype. Peut-être que la chose est que les gens conservent encore une sorte d’instinct, et ils ont la nécessité d’embrasser  ou de toucher l’épaule. C’est une autre question. A l’école, je l’ai déjà appris : les scientifiques ont calculé que chaque personne a besoin de 24 caresses par jour pour maintenir l’estime de soi, se sentir aimé et être en bonne santé.
Peut-être qu’après des années, les personnes et la technologie évolueront de sorte qu’il sera possible de déterminer le sentiment précis sans contact physique. Je ne sais pas s’il faut protester contre ce développement, à la fin, toutes ces choses en voie de développement sont relativement naturelles. Un retour à l’âge de pierre ? Serait-ce une bonne solution ? Je sens déjà que cela n’est pas ma volonté. Donc soyez d’accord avec le meurtrier de la communication organique. Et étreignez quelqu’un.

 Krista OSE, étudiante lettone, 3° année design

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As easily accessible as the internet has become, we can become someone we are not.  That person can be smarter, cooler, kinder, whatever we want. We can lie about who we are, or what we look like because knowing someone over the internet is completely different than knowing them in person. In person we are faced with many other factors that influence the way others judge us. When you talk with someone in person, you can see their emotions written across their face, you can understand how they really feel just by looking at them. We think that having the ease of using things like internet chat are a good thing, i admit to even using them myself, but sometimes there is still that crave to be able to see that person in life form staring right back at you. You can see them smile, see them cry; not just watch them type text across the screen that may be denying how life may actually be.

It is so easy to become someone else over the internet. Talking to a computer screen leaves no room for fear; it’s just like talking to yourself. Doing so may give some the courage to speak up, but sometimes i think it’s just not worth it…

It’s sad that we have to live in a world of fear to express our true selves. That one of the only places we may possibly even feel safe to express these thoughts are basically to a computer screen. As close as this screen may be to my personal diary, it is not. It could never be. What use is a diary that is meant to store these ideas that beat around in my head day in and day out? These ideas are meant to be spoken, so i will. Whether it will be here, or there. It will. I do not care how many or how few of people come to read this blog, but i wish to express these thoughts as willfully as i may. I merely wish to be able to freefully express my true self, even if i have yet to find it.

Will you help me look?

* Soms is het leuk in De Boîte. Vandaag werd ons een heel pakket Red Bull Energy Shots toegestuurd. Of de Kuikens nu effectief eens gewerkt hebben dankzij de drank wiens geur mij altijd doet denken aan die antibiotica die ge als kind moest nemen en waar ge elke dag een microbeke mocht uitprikken weet ik niet. Ik heb mijn Energy Shot gepakt en ben vertrokken. Overuren opnemen, wetenie. Maar ik heb wel nog eerst een ‘luxepraline’ in mijn mond gestoken, want ook de Lidl vond vandaag de perfecte dag om ons wat goodies op te sturen. Over dat ‘luxe’ valt wel te discussiëren, maar ge moogt een gekregen paard niet in de bek kijken naar het schijnt.
* De geplande voorraadkast-die-eerst-uitgemest-moest-worden heeft de taak op zich genomen. De oude frigo, waarvan ik al acht jaar dacht dat het een Smeg is, ook. Maar het is dus geen Smeg eigenlijk, ontdekte ik vandaag. Hoezo, het ding in geen acht jaar afgewassen? Het is niet dat het nog werkte he, of dat het een duidelijk doel had vóór vandaag, behalve stof staan vergaren. Wedden dat ons moeder morgen binnenspringt en zegt dat ik die frigo eens zou moeten afwassen?
* Ik heb bij het uitmestenvan de snoepkast een pak Kings gevonden dat maar goed was tot 2002. “Wóónden wij hier toen eigenlijk al wel?” was de niet zo heel onterechte vraag van de sidekick. Ik zal mijzelf ten gepaste tijde daarvoor straffen zene, gene paniek.
* Het vorige impliceert dat ik Grote Boodschappen heb gedaan om de volgende maand tijd uit te sparen wat betreft korte shoppingtrips. Ik heb die met haar twee dingen voorgelaten aan de kassa. Uit compassie. Die staat daar morgen terug voor nog eens twee dingen, de arme trien. Ik niet zene! Maar ik heb wel mijn zetels moeten platleggen en hier en daar wat puzzelen. Eigenlijk heb ik dus in het kader van efficiënt timemanagement een grotere auto nodig. Time is money.
* Mijn lief heeft daarjuist kwaad gezegd dat ik belachelijk bezig was en ik moest daarmee lachen. Maar ik vind het wel treurig dat niemand mijn zwarte humor begrijpt. Zelfs als ik lastig ben, loop ik nog te zeveren en moppen te tappen, maar niemand schijnt dat te kunnen vatten. Humor, was dat niet het überteken van intelligentie?
* Snoop was bij de noorderburen en ik wist het niet. Dat zuigt nogal.
* Ik heb gisteren alle achterstallige Californications gezien en nu vertoon ik ontwenningsverschijnselen. Ik zou ze vandaag nog eens allemaal terug willen bekijken, maar dan gaat er iemand vinden dat ik belachelijk bezig ben en er de humor niet van inzien. Hoewel hij gisteren ook heel hard dicht lag toen Moody over een plantenbak viel.
* Blondine en ik hebben op Facebook een heel mysterie opgezet over Thais gazettenpapier. It’s almost a hype. En dan hebben we en plein public nog met geen woord gerept over dat andere project. We so rule. Bescheidenheid is geen teken van intelligentie. Weten wat ge waard bent wel. Sms’en over erotic nuts ook.
* La mama is officieel kankervrij. Ik ga daar ene op drinken binnenkort. Eén van die dertien flessen wijn die ik blijkbaar in huis had zonder het te weten.
* De uitspraak “Dat verdient een pruim” vond ik wel te pruimen.

In thinking about whether or not I was going to go home for the holidays I got overwhelmed with facing them. My family that is, not the holidays.

This has not been a good year for us. I personally think that my parents are doomed to repeat their mistakes over and over again. (I don’t think I know of anyone with worse luck then they do.) As for me my personal life has been trying to say the least.

The holidays to me mean family. A packed house full of people you see a couple of times a year, usually DNA similar.

Now instead of blood relatives, I have a house full of people I am truly thankful for. Friends and loved ones that get me through each year.

So I’ve decided to be thankful for all those that love me and call me family. And deal with everyone not here at Easter.

Happy Thanksgiving.

Indian media, several thinktanks and even previous government officials expressed concerns about downgrade in Ind-US relations under Obama administration as China was on their main radar lot more prominently than India. There was no mention of India’s name in Obama’s key foriegn policy agenda. Hillary Clinton even missed India from her Asian tour in first half of 2009. However to repair the damage she visited India later in the year and called India as key partner to USA.

Obama was recently on a whistlestop tour of Asia’s major economies excluding India. However India had the honour of visiting Obama’s for their first ever State dinner hosted for any foreign leader in his presidential term yet. So did USA managed to allay concern of Indian media/thinktanks or even government that USA has a special relationship with India?

In my opinion China – US relationship is different than India – US. China has world’s largest foreign exchange reserves of US dollar and largest exporter to US. They both need each other than India. However India is also growing fast and US can not ignore it. In China, Obama didn’t raise his voice louder when it comes to relaxing Bejing’s control over Yuan’s movement and their public meeting wasn’t even broadcasted live in China. I am sure if he had come to India, it would be interesting  to listen his comment on media’s question regarding outsourcing, climate control and India’s participation in Afghanistan.

Obama certainly used his magic to pacify India’s concerns on Prime Minister Man Mohan Singh’s visit. He welcomed Prime Minister in Hindi, called India a natural friend, indispensable and nerve centre. I believe that certainly pleased Indian media in short term looking at mostly positive coverage by press about Man Mohan Singh’s US visit.

To be honest, I believe it was better than most of us were hoping for before Prime Minister left for USA and it certainly beginning to look like that friendship started at the time of George Bush will continue in Obama season as well. As India continue to emerge as world leader, USA will have to notice and pay due attention to what it has to say and join hands for better of both. There is always a speculation that America  befriended India to balance the power in Asia where China is becoming an economic threat to America. While it may be the case but irrespective of that America and its business community have other reasons to love India which is its one billion plus market which is second only to China. Both being the democratic nations, India and America are more similar than China. US always enjoyed great reputation in India even at the height of IRAQ war when George Bush’s ratings plummeted to its lowest levels.

As per today, for Obama, India may be second to China but this recent visit of Indian Prime Minister reflects that America certainly doesn’t take India as another country.

關於1Q84提到的一段：數學就像水往低流一樣，方向、結果只得一個，而世事卻不如數學般親切，一連串的正確，卻往往聚合成大大小小的錯誤。

這種對與錯，讓人想起千樺的〈狼來了〉。在「錯錯/對對/錯錯」這個排序之中，總是先出錯，然後自以為吸取了教訓，改正後出現一絲的對，但最後卻不是怎的，又重覆去犯錯。縱然我們覺得一切再如常不過，又或者明明已經調整了，然而，下一個錯卻必然要來到。

如果世事果真有這樣的一種宿命主義，我便真的解脫了，至少不用自責、後悔，亦不用苦苦追求例外。然而，朋友的婚訊不斷。

〈我的生存之道〉有這樣幾句，再絕不過——「我決心 / 喜歡你 / 像親人 / 惟有得這想法應付逝去情人 / 如你結婚 / 別過問 / 恭喜咀咒也未襯 / 這種命運遲早光臨 / 逃命要緊」。你失敗了，但總有一個他或她成功了。

我們嘗試回顧一段關係，企圖找出每一個出錯的細節，便以為這種修正一定會讓使我們修成正果，但其實，出錯的是自己，是自己的mind set，無論我們的男/女朋友是如何的同一type，他/她們都是不一樣的，這份variables就是每個人的獨特性，亦是這個原因，我們從上一個所煉出來的金句無法打造另一段完美而成功的感情。是的，出錯的，是自己的腦袋。

村上春樹說，世情不是數學。意味著我們無法以簡單的運算、或某些定理來解釋，更惶論要預計。說穿了，只因為世事太多variables，因為人的心亦的確善變。忠於感覺，不見得就會為我們帶來最後的生機。而我的感覺，忽左忽右，無法忠於，但若果一定要忠於，最後亦只會使我比從前更迷失、更混亂。

可能，我真是一個戀愛盲，可是，我不孤單，這個世代，瞎眼的怎會只有我一個？仍自覺被困上個，於是，就沒有法子輕言下一個了。然而，不要內疚，你怎會知道當你仍情困於上個的時候，旁邊牽著你手的那人，不也是把你當在誰個的後任呢？

這就是我的總結——有時候，愛與不愛，不由得我；被愛與不被愛，我就更加顯得無力。仍然喜歡徐志摩一句：「我將尋訪我人生唯一之靈魂伴侶，得之，我幸；不得，我命；如此而已」。

Humor theory suggests that humor and laughter are primitive means of reporting good news and consensus in a group. In addition, humor creates relaxation. Having a good sense of humor may be experienced as sharing a secret. Humor also says something about the person who expresses such confidence, intelligence and timing are all necessary for a well placed humorous remark.

Humor requires the ability to respond to others in the moment and its use can be effective in difficult conditionsbargaining situations. For example, engage in humorous interaction of law, after a difficult point is made may function as a release of tension. Ultimately, the humor can be an effective way of managing guanxi between the negotiating parties.

When it comes to household China, in particular, I would like to share some stories. The first was told by a Chinese

Deng Xiaoping, when he was alive, was a visitor – the American president – who formed afantastic gift. It is a phone from which you can call anyone, living or dead, the figure of imagination or a real person. Deng Xiaoping made three calls: first to the President of the United States to thank for the gift, the second call to C. Elaine, one of the most honest politicians who have always lived in China (he was in heaven when the call), the third invitation to Mao Zedong (in hell). Later, Deng Xiaoping has a phone bill and I was surprised because it does not meet your expectations. Calledthe phone company and said it had received a strange phone bill with only two recorded calls. The lady said she would check and soon returned to say it was very simple, really, "Mao was the call at a local call '

This second story, from an interview with a director of the West at a large company in Nanjing, is another characteristic of the Chinese mentality and humor.

In a business environment, my Chinese counterpart, burst suddenly Ireally like win-win situations. First I won, then – I win again, ha ha. "People can often be very simple in their behavior. They can look, really look into their eyes and say the most unexpected things, really. On another occasion, my Chinese counterpart, looked at me and said: "The other providers have accepted the terms and conditions and you are bound to respect, ha, ha, otherwise your competitors will get the contract, ah, ah '

What can we learn fromthese stories? To begin, we must dig deeper to understand why the Chinese mentality. We must also keep an open mind, as the prejudices and opinions are taken for granted can be very misleading.

The strategic use of humor in the following stories:

1. To give you an idiot and low

2. To contact the forbidden and unspoken

3. Indirect criticism

4. Threats to the mask

In the history of the latter's point of view of Chinesehe is merely stating the obvious. His behavior is not necessarily rude, even if it contains can be interpreted as such. He sends his message, using humor as a tool to discuss the ban. Would have laughed to hide his nervousness. It could be a comedy that means to release tension. It can protect only itself but also the feelings of the Western transmit reports indirectly. While the Chinese are well known to avoid saying "no" to the outside (and notthey tend to use any of a multitude of ways to say no indirectly).

As can be seen laughing, seemingly rude behavior in a different light? Many times, this behavior is to save face. He could laugh because the question is delicate. It might feel uncomfortable and may even be embarrassed, trying to hide laughter. At the same time, his behavior could be interpreted as a reminder of the balance of power in an honest relationship, that is to say its bargainingstrength.

Undoubtedly, there are several possible interpretations. In any case, try to avoid assuming the worst or the first thing that comes instinctively to mind. Keep an open mind and try to understand the basic intentions.

Finally, as we ourselves use humor to our advantage in our business relationships? You can use so reactive and proactive

– As an icebreaker

– To adjust and accelerate the process of Courtesy

– As a way of fishingInformation

– To say things that can not normally be expressed (taboo, hidden orders, etc.)

Thus, the humor not only a method for arguments strategically effective, but it also serves to mask the real meanings are direct and indirect statements. The successful use of humor can also be used to express discontent, because it allows the speaker to express a problem, while at the same time save face.

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Mannen lachen altijd met de vrouwelijke logica, maar me dunkt dat die van hun ook niet altijd op veel trekt. Als ge zegt dat ge iets niet wilt, nemen ze uw nee voor een ja aan en doen ze het toch, maar als ge zegt dat ze iets niet moeten doen, dan nemen ze die ontkenning wel letterlijk en doen ze het ook effectief niet.
Dus vrouwmensen: in het vervolg zegt ge “Ik wil niet dat ge strijkt,” met een strenge, geërgerde blik, en “Neeuuuhhh ge moet met de mannen niet op café gaan zene, laat maar, het zal mij wel lukken om u heel de avond rond mij te verdragen,” met een getormenteerde blik die aantoont dat ge al heel veel op uw plateau hebt maar straf genoeg zijt om dat er ook nog bij te pakken. We zullen ze eens blokken zetten, sie!

Hello everyone!

I do not know whether you know this fact or not but i did not know it before, so decided to write my post about this man!

Matt Wohlfarth, a professional comedian and comedy writer for more than 20 years!

“And what?” you can ask (if you do not know him of course). So, than you should know the following info: he is also the creator of the Original Midlife Crisis Comedy Tour.

Sounds strange for me. It seems that this guy decided not to cry over the spilled milk and make a midlife crisis to be a good comedy. Lol!

When Matt talks about life as a 40-something father, audiences immediately relate to his stories about raising kids, parenting teenagers, coaching soccer, going to work, paying bills and more.

He even has his own site where you can write him and tell your opinion about all things he does.

Hm, maybe we should organize omething like that? I mean those people who consider themselves to suffer from middle age crisis. Smile! 40 years – just the beginning!

ฝ่ายวิรัชกิจ ขอเชิญชวนคณาจารย์และนิสิตพบปะ ซักถามและพูดคุยกับ

เอกอัครราชทูตอเมริกัน ประจำประเทศไทย

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A Productive Partnership: the Current State of U.S.-Thai Relations

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Hello, my friends!

What’s the news? You are probably fed up already with all my posts about reality shows and how I do not like them. Lol! But please be patient, its worth to know it. Amazing! The new form of reality! The reality-show where there will be no winners, no prizes and so on. There is the only one participant there – a young beautiful lady who has a lot of admirers in different social networks and who decided to be always with them, even if it will be only the Internet. (Interesting, what will she do in a couple of years?)

And she created the new internet video project “Virtual Wife”. You will be able to find the info here: http://upcoming.yahoo.com/event/4885604/MO/Praga/Virtual-wife-the-new-video-project/Czech-Republic-Virtual-wife-Virtualwife-virtual-new-project-wife/

What do you think? Is it a simple caprice of the rich pretty lady? Or maybe she can really help some of her virtual admirers to become happier and more confident?

198222     การสื่อสารและการประชาสัมพันธ์     Communication and Public Relations

ความหมาย ความสำคัญ องค์ประกอบ และกระบวนการของการสื่อสาร การประยุกต์การสื่อสารรูปแบบต่างๆ อย่างมีประสิทธิภาพ หลักและวิธีการประชาสัมพันธ์ การพัฒนาคุณภาพการประชาสัมพันธ์ อิทธิพลของวิทยาศาสตร์ และเทคโนโลยีที่มีต่อการสื่อสารและการประชาสัมพันธ์

(Meaning, significance, components and processes of communication, application of various models of communication, principles and methods of public relations, development of Public Relations quality, influence of sciences and technology towards communication and public relations.)

(198222 มหาวิทยาลัยเกษตรศาสตร์)

Please, all of you, take your time every day, every week to sacrifice some time for love. Not love making – but also a good way of spending time;) – but your beloved ones. Sit down, and think about it: how you can make THEM feel happy. This world makes us to become ego-centric: what I want, what I should do with my life, where I should go for holiday, what I should wear…MY dreams, MY happiness… Sometimes we must change the emphasis to switch to YOU, and THEY. It is very very important.

Spend time on loving…and show your loving (it’s not a Xmas-time crap, but a general crap-one). Because love is among the most important things of the world (after power and money and sex naturally:)))noo. But really. All you need is love, but all THEY need is love, as well….think about it.

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