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<title><![CDATA[Baden Powell]]></title>
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<p><strong>Robert Stephenson Smyth Baden-Powell, 1st Baron Baden-Powell</strong> (pronounced <span title="Pronunciation in the International Phonetic Alphabet (IPA)">/ˈbeɪdən ˈpoʊəl/</span>) OM, GCMG, GCVO, KCB (22 February 1857 – 8 January 1941), also known as <strong>B-P</strong> or <strong>Lord Baden-Powell</strong>, was a lieutenant-general in the British Army, writer, and founder of the Scout Movement.<!--more--></p>
<p>After having been educated at Charterhouse School, Baden-Powell served in the British Army from 1876 until 1910 in India and Africa. In 1899, during the Second Boer War in South Africa, Baden-Powell successfully defended the city in the Siege of Mafeking. Several of his military books, written for military reconnaissance and scout training in his African years, were also read by boys. Based on those earlier books, he wrote <em>Scouting for Boys</em>, published in 1908 by Pearson, for youth readership. During writing, he tested his ideas through a camping trip on Brownsea Island with the local Boys&#8217; Brigade and sons of his friends that began on 1 August 1907, which is now seen as the beginning of Scouting.</p>
<p>After his marriage with Olave St Clair Soames, Baden-Powell, his sister Agnes Baden-Powell and notably his wife actively gave guidance to the Scouting Movement and the Girl Guides Movement. Baden-Powell lived his last years in Nyeri, Kenya, where he died in 1941.</p>
<p>Baden-Powell was born as Robert Stephenson Smyth Powell, or more familiarly as Stephe Powell, at 6 Stanhope Street (now 11 Stanhope Terrace), Paddington in London, England, UK on 22 February 1857.<sup> </sup>His father Reverend Baden Powell, a Savilian Professor of Geometry at Oxford University, already had four teenage children from the second of his two previous marriages. On 10 March 1846 at St Luke&#8217;s Church, Chelsea, Reverend Powell married Henrietta Grace Smyth (3 September 1824 – 13 October 1914), eldest daughter of Admiral William Henry Smyth and 28 years his junior. Quickly they had Warington (early 1847), George (late 1847), Augustus (1849) and Francis (1850). After three further children who died when very young, they had Stephe, Agnes (1858) and Baden (1860). The three youngest children and the often ill Augustus were close friends. Reverend Powell died when Stephe was three, and as tribute to his father and to set her own children apart from their half-siblings and cousins, the mother changed the family name to <em>Baden-Powell</em>. Subsequently, Stephe was raised by his mother, a strong woman who was determined that her children would succeed. Baden-Powell would say of her in 1933 &#8220;The whole secret of my getting on, lay with my mother.&#8221;</p>
<p>After attending Rose Hill School, Tunbridge Wells, during which his favourite brother Augustus died, Stephe Baden-Powell was awarded a scholarship to Charterhouse, a prestigious public school. His first introduction to Scouting skills was through stalking and cooking game while avoiding teachers in the nearby woods, which were strictly out-of-bounds. He also played the piano and violin, was an ambidextrous artist, and enjoyed acting. Holidays were spent on yachting or canoeing expeditions with his brothers.</p>
<p>In 1876, R.S.S. Baden-Powell, as he styled himself then, joined the 13th Hussars in India with the rank of lieutenant. He enhanced and honed his military scouting skills amidst the Zulu in the early 1880s in the Natal province of South Africa, where his regiment had been posted, and where he was Mentioned in Despatches. During one of his travels, he came across a large string of wooden beads, worn by the Zulu king Dinizulu, which was later incorporated into the Wood Badge training programme he started after he founded the Scouting Movement. Baden-Powell&#8217;s skills impressed his superiors and he was Brevetted Major as Military Secretary and senior Aide-de-camp of the Commander-in-Chief and Governor of Malta, his uncle General Sir Henry Augustus Smyth. He was posted in Malta for three years, also working as intelligence officer for the Mediterranean for the Director of Military Intelligence. He frequently travelled disguised as a butterfly collector, incorporating plans of military installations into his drawings of butterfly wings.</p>
<p>Baden-Powell returned to Africa in 1896 to aid the British South Africa Company colonials under siege in Bulawayo during the Second Matabele War. This was a formative experience for him not only because he had the time of his life commanding reconnaissance missions into enemy territory in Matobo Hills, but because many of his later Boy Scout ideas took hold here. It was during this campaign that he first met and befriended the American scout Frederick Russell Burnham, who introduced Baden-Powell to the American Old West and <em>woodcraft</em> (i.e., scoutcraft), and here that he wore his signature Stetson campaign hat and kerchief for the first time. After Rhodesia, Baden-Powell took part in a successful British invasion of Ashanti, West Africa in the Fourth Ashanti War, and at the age of 40 was promoted to lead the 5th Dragoon Guards in 1897 in India. A few years later he wrote a small manual, entitled <em>Aids to Scouting,</em> a summary of lectures he had given on the subject of military scouting, to help train recruits. Using this and other methods he was able to train them to think independently, use their initiative, and survive in the wilderness.</p>
<p>He returned to South Africa prior to the Second Boer War and was engaged in further military actions against the Zulus. By this time, he had been promoted to be the youngest colonel in the British Army. He was responsible for the organisation of a force of frontiersmen to assist the regular army. While arranging this, he was trapped in the Siege of Mafeking, and surrounded by a Boer army, at times in excess of 8,000 men. Although wholly outnumbered, the garrison withstood the siege for 217 days. Much of this is attributable to cunning military deceptions instituted at Baden-Powell&#8217;s behest as commander of the garrison. Fake minefields were planted and his soldiers were ordered to simulate avoiding non-existent barbed wire while moving between trenches. Baden-Powell did most of the reconnaissance work himself.</p>
<p>Contrary views of Baden-Powell&#8217;s actions during the Siege of Mafeking pointed out that his success in resisting the Boers was secured at the expense of the lives of African soldiers and civilians, including members of his own African garrison. Pakenham stated that Baden-Powell drastically reduced the rations to the natives&#8217; garrison. However, Pakenham decidedly retreated from this position.</p>
<p>During the siege, a cadet corps, consisting of white boys below fighting age, was used to stand guard, carry messages, assist in hospitals and so on, freeing the men for military service. Although Baden-Powell did not form this cadet corps himself, and there is no evidence that he took much notice of them during the Siege, he was sufficiently impressed with both their courage and the equanimity with which they performed their tasks to use them later as an object lesson in the first chapter of <em>Scouting for Boys</em>. The siege was lifted in the Relief of Mafeking on 16 May 1900. Promoted to major-general, Baden-Powell became a national hero. After organising the South African Constabulary, the national police force, he returned to England to take up a post as Inspector General of Cavalry in 1903. In 1907 he was appointed to command a division in the newly-formed Territorial Force.</p>
<p>In 1910 Lieutenant-General Baden-Powell decided to retire from the Army reputedly on the advice of King Edward VII, who suggested that he could better serve his country by promoting Scouting.</p>
<p>On the outbreak of World War I in 1914, Baden-Powell put himself at the disposal of the War Office. No command, however, was given him, for, as Lord Kitchener said: &#8220;he could lay his hand on several competent divisional generals but could find no one who could carry on the invaluable work of the Boy Scouts.&#8221; It was widely rumoured that Baden-Powell was engaged in spying, and intelligence officers took great care to inculcate the myth.<sup><span>[</span>23<span>]</span></sup></p>
<p>On his return from Africa in 1903, Baden-Powell found that his military training manual, <em>Aids to Scouting</em>, had become a best-seller, and was being used by teachers and youth organisations. Following his involvement in the Boys&#8217; Brigade as Brigade Secretary and Officer in charge of its scouting section, with encouragement from his friend, William Alexander Smith, Baden-Powell decided to re-write <em>Aids to Scouting</em> to suit a youth readership. In August 1907 he held a camp on Brownsea Island for twenty-two boys from local Boys Brigade companies and sons of friends of Baden-Powell&#8217;s from public schools Eton and Harrow to test out the applicability of his ideas. Baden-Powell was also influenced by Ernest Thompson Seton, who founded the Woodcraft Indians. Seton gave Baden-Powell a copy of his book <em>The Birch Bark Roll of the Woodcraft Indians</em> and they met in 1906. <em>Scouting for Boys</em> was subsequently published in six instalments in 1908.</p>
<p>Boys and girls spontaneously formed Scout troops and the Scouting Movement had inadvertently started, first as a national, and soon an international obsession. The Scouting Movement was to grow up in friendly parallel relations with the Boys&#8217; Brigade. A rally for all Scouts was held at Crystal Palace in London in 1909, at which Baden-Powell discovered the first Girl Scouts. The Girl Guide Movement was subsequently founded in 1910 under the auspices of Baden-Powell&#8217;s sister, Agnes Baden-Powell. Baden-Powell&#8217;s friend, Juliette Gordon Low, was encouraged by him to bring the Movement to America, where she founded the Girl Scouts of the USA.</p>
<p>In 1920, the 1st World Scout Jamboree took place in Olympia, and Baden-Powell was acclaimed Chief Scout of the World. Baden-Powell was created a Baronet in the 1921 New Year Honours and Baron Baden-Powell, of Gilwell, in the County of Essex, on 17 September 1929, Gilwell Park being the International Scout Leader training centre. After receiving this honour, Baden-Powell mostly styled himself &#8220;Baden-Powell of Gilwell&#8221;.</p>
<p>In 1929, during the 3rd World Scout Jamboree, he received as a present a new 20 horse power Rolls-Royce car (chassis number GVO-40, registration OU 2938) and an Eccles Caravan.<sup><span>[</span>30<span>]</span></sup> This combination well served the Baden-Powells in their further travels around Europe. The caravan was nicknamed Eccles and is now on display at Gilwell Park. The car, nicknamed Jam Roll, was sold after his death by Olave Baden-Powell in 1945. Jam Roll and Eccles were reunited at Gilwell for the 21st World Scout Jamboree in 2007. Recently it has been purchased on behalf of Scouting and is owned by a charity, B-P Jam Roll Ltd. Funds are being raised to repay the loan that was used to purchase the car. Baden-Powell also had a positive impact on improvements in youth education. Under his dedicated command the world Scouting Movement grew. By 1922 there were more than a million Scouts in 32 countries; by 1939 the number of Scouts was in excess of 3.3 million.</p>
<p>At the 5th World Scout Jamboree in 1937, Baden-Powell gave his farewell to Scouting, and retired from public Scouting life. 22 February, the joint birthday of Robert and Olave Baden-Powell, continues to be marked as Founder&#8217;s Day by Scouts and Thinking Day by Guides to remember and celebrate the work of the Chief Scout and Chief Guide of the World.</p>
<p>In his final letter to the Scouts, Baden-Powell wrote:</p>
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<dd>&#8230;I have had a most happy life and I want each one of you to have a happy life too. I believe that God put us in this jolly world to be happy and enjoy life. Happiness does not come from being rich, nor merely being successful in your career, nor by self-indulgence. One step towards happiness is to make yourself healthy and strong while you are a boy, so that you can be useful and so you can enjoy life when you are a man. Nature study will show you how full of beautiful and wonderful things God has made the world for you to enjoy. Be contented with what you have got and make the best of it. Look on the bright side of things instead of the gloomy one. But the real way to get happiness is by giving out happiness to other people. Try and leave this world a little better than you found it and when your turn comes to die, you can die happy in feeling that at any rate you have not wasted your time but have done your best. &#8216;Be Prepared&#8217; in this way, to live happy and to die happy — stick to your Scout Promise always — even after you have ceased to be a boy — and God help you to do it.</dd>
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<p>In January 1912, Baden-Powell met the woman who would be his future wife, Olave St Clair Soames, on the ocean liner, <em>Arcadian</em>, heading for New York to start one of his Scouting World Tours. She was a young woman of 23, while he was 55, a not uncommon age difference in that time, and they shared the same birthday. They became engaged in September of the same year, causing a media sensation due to Baden-Powell&#8217;s fame. To avoid press intrusion, they married in secret on 30 October 1912. The Scouts of England each donated a penny to buy Baden-Powell a wedding gift, a car (note that this is not the Rolls-Royce they were presented with in 1929). There is a monument to their marriage inside St Mary&#8217;s Church, Brownsea Island.</p>
<p>Baden-Powell and Olave lived in Pax Hill near Bentley, Hampshire and Chapel Farm, Ripley, Surrey from about 1919 until 1939. The Bentley house was a gift of her father.<sup><span>[</span>39<span>]</span></sup> Directly after he had married, Baden-Powell began to suffer persistent headaches, which were considered by his doctor to be of psychosomatic origin and treated with dream analysis. The headaches disappeared upon his moving into a makeshift bedroom set up on his balcony.</p>
<p>In 1939, he and his wife moved to a cottage he had commissioned in Nyeri, Kenya, near Mount Kenya, where he had previously been to recuperate. The small one-room house, which he named <em>Paxtu</em>, was located on the grounds of the Outspan Hotel, owned by Eric Sherbrooke Walker, Baden-Powell&#8217;s first private secretary and one of the first Scout inspectors. Walker also owned the Treetops Hotel, approx 17 km out in the Aberdare Mountains, often visited by Baden-Powell and people of the Happy Valley set. The Paxtu cottage is integrated into the Outspan Hotel buildings and serves as a small Scouting museum.</p>
<p>Jeal argues that Baden-Powell&#8217;s distrust of communism led to his implicit support, through naïveté, of fascism. In 1939 Baden-Powell noted in his diary: &#8220;Lay up all day. Read <em>Mein Kampf</em>. A wonderful book, with good ideas on education, health, propaganda, organization etc.—and ideals which Hitler does not practise himself.&#8221;</p>
<p>He also admired Benito Mussolini, and some early Scouting badges had a swastika symbol on them. According to his biographer Rosenthal, Baden-Powell used the swastika because he was a Nazi sympathizer. Jeal, however, argues that Baden-Powell was naïve of the symbol&#8217;s growing association with fascism and maintained that his use of the symbol related to its earlier, original meaning of &#8220;good luck&#8221; in Sanskrit, for which purpose the symbol had been used for centuries prior to the rise of fascism. Despite these early sympathies, Baden-Powell was a target of the Nazi regime in the Black Book, which listed individuals which were to be arrested during and after an invasion of Great Britain as part of Operation Sealion. Scouting was regarded as a dangerous spy organization by the Nazis.</p>
<p>Baden-Powell died on 8 January 1941 and is buried in Nyeri, in St. Peter&#8217;s Cemetery (<span><img style="cursor:pointer;padding:0 3px 0 0;" title="show location on an interactive map" src="http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/9/9a/Erioll_world.svg/18px-Erioll_world.svg.png" alt="" /><span><span title="Maps, aerial photos, and other data for this location"><span>0°25′08″S</span> <span>36°57′00″E</span></span></span><span>﻿ / ﻿</span><span><span title="Maps, aerial photos, and other data for this location">0.418968°S 36.950117°E</span><span style="display:none;">﻿ / <span>-0.418968; 36.950117</span></span></span></span>). His gravestone bears a circle with a dot in the centre, which is the trail sign for &#8220;Going home&#8221;, or &#8220;I have gone home&#8221;: <img src="http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/4/4c/Going_home_symbol.svg/25px-Going_home_symbol.svg.png" alt="I have gone home" width="25" height="25" /> When his wife Olave died, her ashes were sent to Kenya and interred beside her husband. Kenya has declared Baden-Powell&#8217;s grave a national monument.</p>
<p>The Baden-Powells had three children, one son and two daughters, who all acquired the courtesy title of &#8220;The Honourable&#8221; in 1929 as children of a baron. The son succeeded his father in 1941 to the Baden-Powell barony and the title of Baron Baden-Powell.</p>
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<li>Arthur Robert Peter (Peter), later 2nd Baron Baden-Powell (1913–1962). He married Carine Crause-Boardman in 1936, and had three children: Robert Crause, later 3rd Baron Baden-Powell; David Michael (Michael), current heir to the titles, and Wendy.</li>
<li>Heather (1915–1986), who married John King and had two children: Michael and Timothy,</li>
<li>Betty (1917–2004), who married Gervase Charles Robert Clay in 1936 and had three sons and one daughter: Robin, Crispin, Gillian and Nigel.</li>
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<p>Baden-Powell made paintings and drawings, almost every day of his life. Most have a humorous or informative character. He published books and other texts during his years of military service to both finance his life and to educate his men.</p>
<p>Baden-Powell was regarded an excellent storyteller. During his whole life he told &#8216;ripping yarns&#8217; to audiences. After having published <em>Scouting for Boys</em>, Baden-Powell kept on writing more handbooks and educative materials for all Scouts, as well as directives for Scout Leaders. In his later years, he also wrote about the Scout Movement and his ideas for its future. He spent the last decade of his life in Africa, and many of this later books had African themes.</p>
<p>Robert Baden-Powell&#8217;s sexuality has been studied by two principal modern biographers,<sup><span>[</span>7<span>]</span></sup><sup><span>[</span>46<span>]</span></sup> who have concluded that Baden-Powell may have taken an erotic interest in men. One of these biographers, Tim Jeal, claims that Baden-Powell was a &#8220;repressed homosexual&#8221;; but also states that no documentary evidence exists to prove that Baden-Powell ever acted on his sexual orientation. Baden-Powell is thought to always have remained chaste with his Scouts, and did not tolerate Scoutmasters who indulged in sexual &#8216;escapades&#8217; with their charges.</p>
<p>A third biographer, Scout movement leader William Hillcourt, who collaborated with Olave Baden-Powell in the writing of <em>Baden-Powell: The Two Lives of a Hero</em>, makes no mention of any homosexual tendencies and said of Baden-Powell&#8217;s courtship of his future wife, &#8220;From the moment Baden-Powell met Olave [aboard the ship <em>Arcadia</em> in 1912], his mind was filled with thoughts of her. His whole being was stirred as it had never been before.&#8221;</p>
<p>In 1937 Baden-Powell was appointed to the Order of Merit, one of the most exclusive awards in the British honours system, and he was also awarded 28 decorations by foreign states, including the Grand Officer of the Order of Christ, the Grand Commander of the Order of the Redeemer (1920), the Commander of the Legion d&#8217;Honneur (1925), the First Class of the Hungarian Order of Merit (1929).</p>
<p>The Silver Wolf Award worn by Robert Baden-Powell is handed down the line of his successors, with the current Chief Scout, Peter Duncan wearing this original award.</p>
<p>The Bronze Wolf Award, the only distinction of the World Organization of the Scout Movement, awarded by the World Scout Committee for exceptional services to world Scouting, was first awarded to Baden-Powell by a unanimous decision of the then <em>International Committee</em> on the day of the institution of the Bronze Wolf in Stockholm in 1935. He was also the first recipient of the Silver Buffalo Award in 1926, the highest award conferred by the Boy Scouts of America.</p>
<p>In 1927 at the Swedish National Jamboree he was awarded by the Österreichischer Pfadfinderbund with the &#8220;<em>Großes Dankabzeichen des ÖPB</em>.</p>
<p>In 1931 Baden-Powell received the highest award of the First Austrian Republic (<em>Großes Ehrenzeichen der Republik am Bande</em>) out of the hands of President Wilhelm Miklas. Baden-Powell was also one of the first and few recipients of the <em>Goldene Gemse</em>, the highest award conferred by the Österreichischer Pfadfinderbund.</p>
<p>In 1931, Major Frederick Russell Burnham dedicated Mount Baden-Powell (<span><img style="cursor:pointer;padding:0 3px 0 0;" title="show location on an interactive map" src="http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/9/9a/Erioll_world.svg/18px-Erioll_world.svg.png" alt="" /><span><span title="Maps, aerial photos, and other data for this location"><span>34°22′31″N</span> <span>117°45′49″W</span></span></span><span>﻿ / ﻿</span><span><span title="Maps, aerial photos, and other data for this location">34.37528°N 117.76361°W</span><span style="display:none;">﻿ / <span>34.37528; -117.76361</span></span></span></span>) in California to his old Scouting friend from forty years before. Today their friendship is honoured in perpetuity with the dedication of the adjoining peak, Mount Burnham (<span><img style="cursor:pointer;padding:0 3px 0 0;" title="show location on an interactive map" src="http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/9/9a/Erioll_world.svg/18px-Erioll_world.svg.png" alt="" /><span><span title="Maps, aerial photos, and other data for this location"><span>34°22′N</span> <span>117°47′W</span></span></span><span>﻿ / ﻿</span><span><span title="Maps, aerial photos, and other data for this location">34.367°N 117.783°W</span><span style="display:none;">﻿ / <span>34.367; -117.783</span></span></span></span>).</p>
<p>Baden-Powell was nominated for the Nobel Peace Prize on numerous occasions, including 10 separate nominations in 1928.</p>
<p>As part of the Scouting 2007 Centenary, Nepal renamed Urkema Peak to Baden-Powell Peak.</p>
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<p><strong>The Scout Association</strong> is the <a title="World Organization of the Scout Movement" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/World_Organization_of_the_Scout_Movement">World Organization of the Scout Movement</a> recognised <a title="Scouting" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scouting">Scouting</a> association in the United Kingdom. Scouting began in 1907 through the efforts of <a title="Robert Baden-Powell, 1st Baron Baden-Powell" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Baden-Powell,_1st_Baron_Baden-Powell">Robert Baden-Powell</a>. Due to the rapid growth of Scouting and a desire to remove control from the publisher of the Scouting magazine, The Scout Association was formed under its previous name, <strong>The Boy Scout Association</strong>, in 1910 by the grant of a charter by the <a title="Parliament of the United Kingdom" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parliament_of_the_United_Kingdom">Parliament of the United Kingdom</a>. The Boy Scout Association was re-named as The Scout Association in 1967.</p>
<p>The stated aim of The Scout Association is to &#8220;promote the development of young people in achieving their full physical, intellectual, social and spiritual potential&#8221; and to create &#8220;responsible citizens&#8221;.<sup class="reference"><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Scout_Association#cite_note-1"></a></sup> As of 2007, The Scout Association provides a Programme to help achieve this aim for young people from the age of 6 to 25.<sup class="reference"><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Scout_Association#cite_note-2"></a></sup> The latest census shows that over 360,000 people aged 6–25 are members of The Scout Association.<sup class="reference"><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Scout_Association#cite_note-2007_census-0"></a></sup></p>
<p>Girls were first admitted in 1976 to the <a class="mw-redirect" title="Venture Scouts" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Venture_Scouts">Venture Scouts</a>, and the rest of Sections on an optional basis in 1991. Since 2007 all Scout Groups in the UK must accept girls as well as boys, although religious preferences can be accommodated.<sup class="reference"><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Scout_Association#cite_note-por_gp_coed-3"></a></sup></p>
<h3><span class="mw-headline">Birth of the Movement</span></h3>
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<p>The roots of The Scout Association come from the fame of <a title="Robert Baden-Powell, 1st Baron Baden-Powell" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Baden-Powell,_1st_Baron_Baden-Powell">Robert Baden-Powell</a> following his exploits during the <a title="Second Boer War" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Second_Boer_War">Boer War</a>. In 1907, &#8220;B-P&#8221;, as he is known to all members of the Movement, ran a <a title="Brownsea Island Scout camp" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brownsea_Island_Scout_camp">camp on Brownsea Island</a> for teenage boys of varying backgrounds. This camp is now considered to be the start of the Movement.<sup class="reference"><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Scout_Association#cite_note-4"></a></sup></p>
<p>The following year, Baden-Powell wrote a series of magazines, <em><a title="Scouting for Boys" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scouting_for_Boys">Scouting for Boys</a></em>, setting out activities and programmes which existing youth organisations could make use of.<sup class="reference"><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Scout_Association#cite_note-A_Scouting_timeline-5"></a></sup> The reaction was phenomenal, and quite unexpected. In very short time, Scout Patrols were created up and down the country, all following the principles of Baden-Powell&#8217;s book. By the time of the first census in 1910, there were over 100,000 members of the Movement.<sup class="reference"><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Scout_Association#cite_note-A_Scouting_timeline-5"></a></sup></p>
<p>The Boy Scout Association was created in 1910 in order to provide a national body which could organise and support the rapidly growing number of Scout Patrols. It was also the wish of Baden-Powell to wrest control of Scouting from his book&#8217;s publishers as it was felt the Movement was not given the status it deserved as the publishers controlled membership of Scouting.<sup class="reference"><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Scout_Association#cite_note-A_Scouting_timeline-5"></a></sup></p>
<p align="justify"><strong><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#ff0000;font-size:x-small;">Genesis of scouting in the world:</span> <span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000000;font-size:x-small;"><br />
The Boy Scout Movement</span></strong><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000000;font-size:x-small;"> took  a start  in the  United              Kingdom                 when   Lord  Baden   Powell   (Robert  Stephenson  Smyth  Baden                  Powell)  organised a  Scout  Camp  at               Brown sea  Island on 1907                 and the              &#8216;Scouting for Boys&#8217; was published in 1908. The movement                  spread              quickly in United Kingdom and other countries of the              world.</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#ff0000;font-size:x-small;">Scouting / Guiding in India before 1950:</span><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000000;font-size:x-small;"><br />
The first</span></strong> <span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000000;font-size:x-small;"> Scout Troop in India, consisting of Indian Boys,                  was formed by a Scottish Missionary, in the  Central              Provinces (present Madhya Pradesh) in 1908. However, the troop was              disbanded in 1910. The common confirmed date, however, for the start              of Scouting in India is 1909, when three troops for British boys              were started at Bangalore, Kirkee and Jabalpur.</span></p>
<p><strong>This              list</strong> of three Scout Troops increased to nine different Boy Scout              Organisations in early 1911 in Shimla, Calcutta (present Kolkata), Jabalpur,              Allahabad, Bangalore, Poona, Kirkee, Saidpur and Madras (present             Chennai).</p>
<p><span style="font-family:Verdana;"> </span></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana;"><span style="color:#000000;font-size:x-small;">Efforts were made to merge all the Boy Scouts              Organisations with the help and assistance of Lord Baden Powell in              1921. These efforts were partly successful. An endeavor was again              made in 1937. </span></span></p>
<p align="justify"><span style="font-family:Verdana;color:#000000;font-size:x-small;"><strong>The Girl Guide</strong> movement got a start in India at              Jabalpur (M.P.) In 1911. It expanded enormously. There were about 50              girl guide companies with a membership of over 1200 by 1915. There              companies were directly registered with imperial scout headquarters,              London, like other Scout organisation. But an All India Girl Guides              Association was formed in 1916. Girl Guiding was restricted to              British Girls till 1916.</span></p>
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<title><![CDATA[A Fourth of July Story of our Great American Flag]]></title>
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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><p><em>When the Fourth of July came, we had been abroad nearly two months, and during that time I think we had not seen a single American flag&#8230;</em></p>
<p>An Excerpt from <em><a title="Our American Holidays" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/2387486" target="_blank">Our American Holidays: Their Meaning and Spirit</a>, </em>from <a title="Better Days Books" href="http://www.betterdaysbooks.com" target="_blank">Better Days Books</a>.</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">FOURTH OF JULY</h2>
<p style="text-align:justify;">This is the greatest secular holiday of our country, its observance being sanctioned by the laws of every State. The birthday of our liberty would be a hard one to fix, but by common consent the anniversary of the signing of the Declaration of Independence is the one observed. The use of powder to celebrate the day is gradually going out on account of the large number of lives annually lost through accidents. It is known officially as Independence Day.</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">A STORY OF THE FLAG</h2>
<p style="text-align:center;">By Victor Mapes<br />
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<p style="text-align:justify;">When the Fourth of July came, we had been abroad nearly two months, and during that time I think we had not seen a single American flag. On the morning of the Fourth, however, we walked out on the Paris boulevards, and a number of flags were hanging out from the different American shops, which are quite frequent there. They looked strange to us; and the idea occurred to Frank, for the first time, that the United States was one of a great many nations living next to one another in this world—that it was his own nation, a kind of big family he belonged to. The Fourth of July was a sort of big, family birthday, and the flags were out so as to tell the Frenchmen and everybody else not to forget the fact.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">A feeling of this nature came over Frank that morning, and he called out, &#8220;There&#8217;s another!&#8221; every time a new flag came in view. He stopped two or three times to count the number of them in sight, and showed in various ways that he, America, and the American flag had come to a new understanding with one another.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">During the morning, Frank&#8217;s cousin George, a boy two or three years older than Frank, who had been in Paris the preceding winter, came to our hotel; and, as I had some matters to attend to in the afternoon, they went off together to see sights and to have a good time.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">When Frank returned about dinner-time, and came up to the room where I was writing letters, I noticed a small American-flag pin stuck in the lapel of his coat.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;George had two,&#8221; he said in answer to my question; &#8220;and he gave me this one. He&#8217;s been in Paris a year now, and he says we ought to wear them or maybe people won&#8217;t know we&#8217;re Americans. But say, Uncle Jack, where do you think I got that?&#8221; He opened a paper bundle he had under his arm and unrolled a weather-beaten American flag.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;Where?&#8221; asked I, naturally supposing it came from George&#8217;s house.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;We took it off of Lafayette&#8217;s tomb.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">I opened my eyes in astonishment; while he went on:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;George says the American Consul, or the American Consul-General, or somebody, put it on the tomb last Fourth of July, for our government, because Lafayette, don&#8217;t you know, helped us in the Revolution.&#8221;<br />
&#8220;They ought to put a new flag on every year, George says,&#8221; explained Frank, seeing my amazement, &#8220;on Fourth of July morning. But the American Consul, or whoever he is that&#8217;s here now, is a new man, George thinks; anyhow, he forgot to do it. So we bought a new flag and we did it.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;There were a lot of people at the tomb when we went there, and we guessed they were all waiting to see the new flag put on. We waited, too, but no soldiers or anybody came; and after a while the people all went away. Then George said:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;&#8216;Somebody ought to put on a new flag—let&#8217;s do it!&#8217;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;We went to a store on the Boulevard, and for twenty francs bought a new flag just like this old one. George and I each paid half. There were two women and a little girl at the tomb when we got back, and we waited till they went away. Then we unrolled the new flag and took the old one off the tomb.<br />
&#8220;We thought we ought to say something when we put the new flag on, but we didn&#8217;t know what to say. George said they always made a regular speech thanking Lafayette for helping us in the Revolution, but we thought it didn&#8217;t matter much. So we just took off our hats when we spread out the new flag on the grave, and then we rolled up the old flag and came away.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;We drew lots for it afterward, and I&#8217;m going to take it back home with me.<br />
&#8220;Somebody ought to have done it, and as we were both American boys, it was all right, wasn&#8217;t it?&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Right or wrong, the flag that travelers see on Lafayette&#8217;s tomb this year, as a mark of the American nation&#8217;s sentiment toward the great Frenchman, is the one put there by two small, self-appointed representatives. And the flag put there the year before, with fitting ceremony by the authorized official, Frank preserves carefully hung up on the wall of his little room in America.</p>
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<title><![CDATA[YOU Can Be a Great American!]]></title>
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<pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 13:32:27 +0000</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[A sturdy but quiet independence; a genuine love of righteousness and truth; a life of uprightness an]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><p><em>A sturdy but quiet independence; a genuine love of righteousness and truth; a life of uprightness and integrity, of honesty and fair dealing; an absence of cringing and paltering, and of that miserable and contemptible fawning upon the rich, and that silly and despicable worship of those in place and power, which is too frequently to be observed;&#8211;all these things, and others, must receive care and attention before the ideal stage of manhood can be reached…</em></p>
<h3>An Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith</h3>
<p>Final Entry (<strong>#39</strong>) in the <em>Raising Great Americans Project! </em><a title="The Raising Great Americans Project" href="http://betterdaysbooks.wordpress.com/2008/05/24/raising-moral-kids-in-an-amoral-culture/" target="_blank">Click Here to learn More</a>!</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">THE IDEAL CITIZEN</h2>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>MEMORY GEMS</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Voters are the uncrowned kings who rule the nation.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Morgan</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>A second-rate man can never make a first-rate citizen.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;J. S. White</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Every good man in politics wields a power for good.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;M. C. Peters</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>If you want a clean city, vote to place the government in clean hands.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Dr. Mc Glynn</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The ideal citizen is the man who believes that all men are brothers,<br />
and that the nation is merely an extension of his family.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Habberton</p>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">We may now proceed to bring our studies to a close. All that has been said, from the beginning, has been gradually but surely focusing itself upon a single point; for the development of all these several faculties and powers leads directly to the forming of a well-rounded and fully-developed manhood.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">A fully-developed manhood is the highest possible human achievement, and includes within itself all that can be desired; and for this higher manhood we now make our final and most urgent plea.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The real man is discovered in the sum total of his ideas; for it is in these that his life takes shape and character, it is in these that his true self comes into view. The real power of the true man lies in his being able to turn his thoughts inward upon himself; to so gauge and measure his own powers as to put them to the best uses; and to stand aloof from those positions and practices for which he finds himself to be unfitted.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The simple application of this rule to the practical affairs of today would diminish the number of our machine politicians by about four fifths. We are loaded down, almost to the breaking point, with politicians who do not understand politics, and who advocate measures which are not for the public good, because the public good is not the end for which they strive. But the fault is in the men themselves, rather than in our political system. They must first be made manly, before they can be made truly useful. They must first learn to govern themselves, before they can successfully carry forward the work of governing the nation. They must be taught that bluster is not argument, and that to go through the motions of political service does not in the least aid in the promotion of the public welfare. A single service rendered from the heart is often of more value than a whole life of noisy and showy pretense; but again we say that such service is almost always the result of a thoughtful and considerate manliness.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">All this applies with equal force to the private citizen. A sturdy but quiet independence; a genuine love of righteousness and truth; a life of uprightness and integrity, of honesty and fair dealing; an absence of cringing and paltering, and of that miserable and contemptible fawning upon the rich, and that silly and despicable worship of those in place and power, which is too frequently to be observed;&#8211;all these things, and others, must receive care and attention before the ideal stage of manhood can be reached.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The manly man is a thinking being. By this we do not mean to say that he imagines that he is running the universe, and that no one but himself is acquainted with the secrets of its mechanism; but that he has a right to weigh all questions in the scales of his own reason, and to draw his own conclusions from the facts presented to his mind. If he be truly a man, he will hold to that which he feels to be true against all opposition, but will, with equal readiness, yield in all points where he discovers himself to be in the wrong. Instead of going through life in political leading-strings, bending to the will of one man, and gulping down the opinions of another, he will stand upon his own feet, put his own vertebral column to its legitimate use of sustaining his body, and his own mind to its legitimate use of directing the issues of his life.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The ideal citizen will also be a gentleman. By this term, we do not mean the milk-and-water, kid-gloved creature, who so often attempts to pass muster in this connection. All that we have asked for in the man, we insist on in the gentleman. Sturdy independence, vigorous thought, mental and moral uprightness, and a backbone as strong as a bar of steel,&#8211;but all tempered with a gentleness of disposition and a courtesy of manner which brings every natural faculty and power beneath its sway, and yet leaves principle and righteousness entirely undisturbed.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The real gentleman is, above all else, courteous and considerate. He is master of himself, and that at all points,&#8211;in his carriage, his temper, his aims, and his desires. Calm, quiet, and temperate, he will not allow himself to be hasty in judgment or exorbitant in ambition; nor will he suffer himself to be overbearing or grasping, arrogant or oppressive.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The ideal citizen will also be, in the better sense of the word, a politician. Be careful to note here that we say, a politician <em>in the better sense</em>. We would have you distinguish, with the utmost clearness, between a politician and a partisan. The true politician, looking ever to the highest interests of the state, is a public benefactor; while it very frequently happens that the mere political partisan is a public nuisance, if not a public disgrace.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The man who sinks his country&#8217;s interests in his own, and the man who sacrifices his personal advantages for the sake of his country&#8217;s good, stand at the very opposite poles of human society. The man who swears by party watchwords, and moves amid the burning animosities of party strife, is centering his life in interests which may vanish like an evening cloud. Not in the loud clamors of partisan struggle, are we to find the secret highways which lead to national prosperity and progress, but in that quiet, thoughtful, careful study of the interests and events in which the national life is taking shape and color, and in the application to these of the great principles of righteousness and common sense.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">This is about equal to saying that the ideal citizen will be a patriot. We have so mixed in our minds the two distinct ideas of patriotism and heroism, that we have need to pause for a moment, that we may disentangle ourselves from the meshes of this net of misconception, before we venture to proceed.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">If we call for an illustration of patriotism, you point us to some Horatius or Leonidas of the olden times; or to some William Tell, or Ulysses Grant, of these more modern days. We do not say that these men were not patriots, and patriots of a high order too. But their circumstances were exceptional, and under these exceptional circumstances their patriotism made them heroes. But if you will enter into a careful study of the matter, you will find that it is the heroism, quite as much as the patriotism of their lives, which takes so strong a hold upon your hearts.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">We therefore desire to place by the side of our beloved Grant, the man who, in the midst of a bitter struggle for bread, can barely manage by the closest possible economy to keep his family from want and shame, but who still sacrifices an hour&#8217;s wages that he may go to the polls and vote the expression of his will, and thus support the measures which he honestly believes to be for the public good; and we desire to say that, on the ground of a true patriotism, we consider that the one is fully the equal of the other, and that there is a sense in which the man of smaller opportunities is the greater hero of the two.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">There may be a thousand definitions of heroism, but the patriot is simply &#8220;a man who places his country&#8217;s interests before his own.&#8221; He is a patriot who fills well his station in life whether public or private, who loves peace and promotes order, who labors to uphold the good and to put down the bad. He is a patriot who uses all his advantages of friendship, acquaintance, business connection, social position and the like, in such a manner as to make these helps and not hindrances to his country&#8217;s progress. He is a patriot who seeks to aid in all movements that look to the instruction, elevation, and permanent betterment of his fellow-citizens, and to put down all such movements or institutions as tend to demoralize and degrade them. Such is the patriotism we plead for; and such patriotism and ideal citizenship are, in our minds, just one and the same thing.<br />
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<p style="text-align:justify;">This Article is an Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith, which is available from Better Days Books in quality hardbound, sturdy trade paperback and convenient .PDF e-book editions starting at just $4.95.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>Industry, Ambition, Self Control, Self-Respect, Courtesy, Faithfulness, Courage, Duty, Honesty, Enthusiasm, Humility, Patriotism…</em> In every era of our Nation&#8217;s history, the true alchemy by which ordinary boys have been transformed into Great American Men has always and only occurred where these indispensible moral principles have been successfully applied. In an age like our own, where such manly ideals are openly mocked and derided by our popular culture, it&#8217;s time to turn to the past to recapture a clear vision of what it takes to be a <em>Great American</em>, and the true moral and ethical ladder that leads reliably to its attainment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American:  39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> was first published in 1900, under the title <em>The True Citizen, How to Become One</em>, and contains  39 essential lessons in manhood tailored to each age and transition in a boy&#8217;s life, from infancy to adulthood.  It is the clearest roadmap to American Greatness ever compiled for the youth of our Nation, and remains as life-changing today as it was when first published, over 100 years ago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whether you are an adult raising boys in a Traditional family setting, the single parent of a son, or a boy abandoned to no or poor parenting, left to grab your own bootstraps and lift yourself up to a life of achievement, success and All-American Greatness (or an adult who knows a boy in such sad straits), <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American!: 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> is the only guidebook you&#8217;ll ever need.</p>
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<h3>An Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith</h3>
<p>Entry #<strong>38</strong> in the <em>Raising Great Americans Project! </em><a title="The Raising Great Americans Project" href="http://betterdaysbooks.wordpress.com/2008/05/24/raising-moral-kids-in-an-amoral-culture/" target="_blank">Click Here to learn More</a>!</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">THE CITIZEN AND THE NATION</h2>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>MEMORY GEMS</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:#ffffff;">.</span></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Love your country and obey its laws.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Noah Porter</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The sum of individual character makes national character.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;E. C. Mann</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The true defense of a nation lies in the moral qualities of its people.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Edwin C. Mason</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Everything learned should be flavored with a genuine love of country.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;E. Edwards</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Noble ideas of citizenship and its duties strengthen the will of all patriots.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Merrill E. Gates</p>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">We are accustomed to say that our American government is &#8220;a government of the people, by the people, for the people.&#8221; It is largely in this, its broad, comprehensive, and democratic character, that we so often venture to hold it up to view as a model which might be copied by the surrounding nations to their very great advantage. And certainly no thinking person will deny that we have much to be justly proud of in this respect; for our nation has neither parallel nor equal upon the face of the green earth.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">But in a land like this, where the government is formed by its citizens, it can only be maintained by its citizens. Offices thus created must be filled, and the ship of state must be manned, and manned with a careful, honest, and patriotic crew, or it will be in danger of total wreck. In our times of peril we have been quick to see and to acknowledge this; and, more than once or twice, the nation has been saved by the prompt and patriotic action of the people. But it is not so easy a matter to keep our patriotism up to its noblest and its best when there is an absence of unusual or exciting causes to call it into play. We must therefore glance briefly at both these aspects of the case.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">It is a requirement of long standing that, in case of war, every able-bodied citizen must go forth as a soldier, if the government shall so demand. He must, if really needful, help to save the state, even at the risk, or at the positive loss, of his own life. Such calls have been made by our government; and the manner in which our people have responded has been the glory of our nation and the wonder of the world.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The citizen must share the risks of his country, as well as its benefits. He must be willing to give protection to the rights and interests of his fellows, or he cannot rightly expect protection for his own. In this we are all so far agreed as to render anything like an argument entirely unnecessary; and we do not hesitate to brand all who fail us, under such circumstances, as unpatriotic and unworthy of the sympathy and esteem to which faithful citizenship entitles men.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Now look at the other aspect of the case. The public service is not only for times of war and tumult, but also for times of prosperity and peace; and the claims of the nation are no more to be slighted or shirked in the latter case than in the former. The ship of state must be manned, we say, and the public offices necessary to prosperity and progress must be filled. Many of these suffer unless filled by able and patriotic men; and the interests, for the preservation and forwarding of which these offices have been created, cannot be properly served.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The crying need of today is for men of public spirit; for men who will seek the highest welfare of their fellow-citizens in general; men of broad and generous views; men who look out upon life with an absence of that littleness and near-sightedness which cannot distinguish between public good and private interest.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Those men who will take no position in the service of their country, unless it is accompanied with a monetary compensation, are after all, very closely akin to the men who waited until bounties were offered before they would take service in connection with the Civil War; while, on the other hand, the men who are truly public-spirited, take pleasure in serving the public and are liberal beyond the requirement of the law.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">It has been well said that &#8220;A public office is a sacred trust.&#8221; Whoever engages in any duties of a public nature, is under the most solemn obligation to do those duties honestly and well. There are some public officials who, because they aid in the making of the laws, appear to think themselves higher than the law, and therefore at liberty to obey or to neglect its requirements, according as their personal inclinations shall direct. But this is not so; and it should be made clear to all such persons that they are in error.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The legislator is but a citizen, after all; and, as a citizen, he stands in precisely the same relation to the law as does his brother of the rank and file. Of all men, he should be obedient, and should labor to surround the law with every possible safeguard; for it is among the most precious and sacred of our earthly possessions. It is the charter of all true freedom. It is a power before whose awful majesty every man must bow, irrespective of outward position or personal influence. It must be reverenced, honored, and obeyed by all.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Now the facts show that there is a strange ignorance, or else a strange lack of conscience, in this matter, and that this is so widespread as to be almost universal. It seems to be a common opinion that there is no particular harm in cheating the government. If a politician secures a high government position, or a business man is fortunate enough to secure a large government contract, it seems to be expected that he will secure from these sources larger profits than would be possible anywhere else. In other words, it seems to be expected that the government will pay more for any service than can be obtained from an individual or from a private corporation, and that men will charge prices, and use deception and fraud when they work for the country, which if practiced upon private parties, would send them to prison and brand them with lifelong disgrace.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">One of the most ominous signs of the times is that good men stand aloof from politics. They do this either because they do not fully appreciate the importance of their influence, or from the false conviction that their votes will do no good, or, in many other instances, because they consider their private business to be of more importance than the matters of the state. But, in point of fact, the uplifting of the moral tone of our country is a service of the most importance; and, even if we consider ourselves alone, it is still true that we cannot afford to pass it lightly by.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">As citizens of the United States we stand possessed of a most wondrous heritage; and what the civil authorities require of us, within their own proper sphere, should be considered in the light of a binding duty. As Professor Dole has pointed out, <em>&#8220;We have seen magnificent cities rising on the borders of the streams, and pleasant villages dotting the hills; a flourishing commerce whitens the ripples of the lakes; the laugh of happy children comes up to us from the cornfields; and as the glow of the evening sun tinges the distant plains, a radiant and kindling vision floats upon its beams, of myriads of men escaped from the tyrannies of the Old World and gathered here in worshiping circles to pour out their grateful hearts to God for a redeemed and teeming earth.&#8221;</em></p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Surely all that is worth preserving. Surely we will not allow so rich a heritage to run waste. Surely we will support a nation whose past is bright with glorious achievements, and whose future glows with the light of a promise so radiantly beautiful. We need only remind you, therefore, that the truest and most useful citizens of our country are those who invigorate and elevate their nation by doing their duty truthfully and manfully; who live honest, sober, and upright lives, making the best of the opportunities for improvement that our land affords; who cherish the memory and example of the fathers of our country, and strive to make and keep it just what they intended it to be.<br />
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<p style="text-align:justify;">This Article is an Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith, which is available from Better Days Books in quality hardbound, sturdy trade paperback and convenient .PDF e-book editions starting at just $4.95.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>Industry, Ambition, Self Control, Self-Respect, Courtesy, Faithfulness, Courage, Duty, Honesty, Enthusiasm, Humility, Patriotism…</em> In every era of our Nation&#8217;s history, the true alchemy by which ordinary boys have been transformed into Great American Men has always and only occurred where these indispensible moral principles have been successfully applied. In an age like our own, where such manly ideals are openly mocked and derided by our popular culture, it&#8217;s time to turn to the past to recapture a clear vision of what it takes to be a <em>Great American</em>, and the true moral and ethical ladder that leads reliably to its attainment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American:  39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> was first published in 1900, under the title <em>The True Citizen, How to Become One</em>, and contains  39 essential lessons in manhood tailored to each age and transition in a boy&#8217;s life, from infancy to adulthood.  It is the clearest roadmap to American Greatness ever compiled for the youth of our Nation, and remains as life-changing today as it was when first published, over 100 years ago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whether you are an adult raising boys in a Traditional family setting, the single parent of a son, or a boy abandoned to no or poor parenting, left to grab your own bootstraps and lift yourself up to a life of achievement, success and All-American Greatness (or an adult who knows a boy in such sad straits), <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American!: 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> is the only guidebook you&#8217;ll ever need.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Also available through <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">Amazon.com</a> in quality <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">trade paperback</a> and <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0012R4L6O/" target="_blank">Kindle e-book download</a> editions.</p>
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<h3>An Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith</h3>
<p>Entry #<strong>36</strong> in the <em>Raising Great Americans Project! </em><a title="The Raising Great Americans Project" href="http://betterdaysbooks.wordpress.com/2008/05/24/raising-moral-kids-in-an-amoral-culture/" target="_blank">Click Here to learn More</a>!</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">THE CITIZEN AND THE COMMUNITY</h2>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>MEMORY GEMS</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Municipal government should be entirely divorced from party politics.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;C. H. Parkhurst</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Too many of our citizens fail to realize<br />
that local government is a worthy study.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;John Fiske</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Every citizen should be ready to do his full part<br />
in the service of the community in which he lives.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;E. O. Mann</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Each separate township needs men who<br />
will inspire respect and command confidence.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;W. A. Mowry</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Let the man who, without good excuse,<br />
fails to vote, be deprived of the right to vote.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;W. H. H. Miller</p>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">Whenever men live in a community, they are placed under certain mutual obligations. Unless these obligations are carefully regarded the community life will be sure to prove a failure. Man is selfish as well as social. The weak must, therefore, be protected from the strong; and in this important work there are common interests which require united action. This united action may be for the common defense of the community, or for the general welfare of all.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The unit of government is generally the town, or as it is called in many parts of our country, the township. A town includes the people who are permanent residents within a certain limited and prescribed territory, usually occupying but a few square miles.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The government of a town, or township, is in the hands of the people permanently residing within the limits of that township. These people combine together for the protection and mutual good of all. This is the fundamental principle of government. To carry on this government and make the necessary provisions for the mutual good of the inhabitants of the town, taxation is resorted to. The people, therefore, come in contact with the government first of all at this point.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Taxes are levied by a majority vote of the citizens assembled in town meeting, such meetings being usually held once a year, in order that the moneys necessary to be raised, and the business to be done for the welfare of the people, may receive regular and careful attention.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Where the population is dense and houses are placed close together, so that within a small area there is a large body of inhabitants, the government is generally under the form of a city.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Our republican government, which, after making all due allowances, seems to work remarkably well in rural districts, in the state, and in the nation, has certainly been far less successful as applied to cities. Accordingly our cities have come to furnish topics for reflection to which writers and orators fond of boasting the unapproachable excellence of American institutions do not like to allude.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Fifty years ago we were accustomed to speak of civil government in the United States as if it had dropped from heaven, or had been specially created by some kind of miracle upon American soil; and we were apt to think that in mere republican forms there was some kind of mystic virtue which made them a cure for all political evils. Our later experience with cities has rudely disturbed this too confident frame of mind. It has furnished facts which do not seem to fit our theory, so that now, our writers and speakers are inclined to regard our misgoverned cities with contempt.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">It will best serve our purpose here, to outline the relation of the citizen to the township rather than to the city, because its management is less complex and, in most cases, is more complete and perfect.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Money is ordinarily raised by taxation for the following purposes, namely: the support of the public schools; making and repairing highways; the care of the poor; maintaining the fire department; paying the salaries of the town officers; paying for the detection and punishment of offenders against the law; maintaining burial grounds; planting shade trees; providing for disabled soldiers and sailors and their families; and, in general, for all other necessary expenses.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">To carry on the work of a town, several officers are usually appointed. A town clerk keeps accurate records of all business transacted; records all births, marriages and deaths; makes the necessary returns to the county and the state, and serves as the agent of the town in its relation to the country at large. Officers usually known as selectmen or supervisors, attend to the general business of the town. The town treasurer receives and pays out all moneys raised for the carrying on of the town&#8217;s affairs. A school committee, or board of education, is also needed to superintend all matters relating to our public schools. A surveyor of highways must be provided, in order that the streets and highways belonging to the town may be kept in proper condition; and an assessor and collector of taxes, to attend to the raising of supplies. A board of overseers of the poor is also needed, their duties being to provide for the support of paupers and the relief of the needy poor.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">We do not profess to have fully covered the ground in this brief statement; but only to show that life, even in the smallest communities, must necessarily make heavy drafts upon the time and attention of a large number of individual citizens. But we desire to emphasize the fact, that each of these several offices furnishes opportunity for the employment either of a competent or an incompetent official, according to the care with which the selection is made. It therefore becomes the duty of every citizen to give personal attention to such matters, for if these places are filled by corrupt or even careless men, the interests of the community will be seriously imperiled, while if they are filled by honest and patriotic men, the success of the town and its affairs is practically assured.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Our one supreme object should be to raise the tone of our citizenship. The town or city will not become permanently better except as we who live in it become better. There are large sections in all our towns that yield to the guidance of corrupt and designing men for the reason that they are unreached by influences of a finer and more generous kind. Plans must be formulated by which we can come into touch with these lower quarters, and raise them quickly and surely to a higher level.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">We all need to become better acquainted with the machinery of our local governments and with certain principles and statutes by which the motion of that machinery requires to be regulated. We cannot properly regulate the doings of our public servants except as we are familiar with the laws to which they are subject.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">This question of obedience to law, can only be efficiently controlled by the continued watchfulness of the law-abiding portion of the community; and the situation in this respect is far more grave than most people imagine.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">A recent writer speaking of the lack of a proper enforcement of the law says: &#8220;I was in a considerable Western city, with a population of seventy thousand, some years ago, when the leading newspaper of the place, commenting on one of the train robberies that had been frequent in the state, observed that so long as the brigands had confined themselves to robbing the railway companies and the express companies of property for whose loss the companies must answer, no one had greatly cared, seeing that these companies themselves robbed the public; but now that private citizens seemed in danger of losing their personal baggage and money, the prosperity of the city might be compromised, and something ought to be done,&#8221;&#8211;a sentiment delivered with all gravity, as the rest of the article showed.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">This makes plausible the story of the Texas judge who is said to have allowed murderers to escape on points of law, till he found the value of real estate declining; then he carefully saw to it that the next few offenders were hanged.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">We must not take too narrow a view of public life. All civilized governments consider themselves bound to perform other duties of an entirely different character from those which pertain to peace and justice. When our fathers framed the constitution of the United States, they gave in the preamble to that instrument an admirable definition of the province of government. This preamble reads as follows:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>&#8220;We, the people of the United States, in order to form a more perfect union, establish justice, insure domestic tranquility, provide for the common defense, promote the general welfare, and secure the blessings of liberty to ourselves and our posterity, do ordain and establish this constitution for the United States of America.&#8221;</em></p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The motto of every good citizen should be, &#8220;the best means to promote the greatest good to the greatest number.&#8221; The ends to be sought are the most healthy development, the highest and largest happiness to the whole people; for only in this manner can we accomplish our full duty.<br />
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<p style="text-align:justify;">This Article is an Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith, which is available from Better Days Books in quality hardbound, sturdy trade paperback and convenient .PDF e-book editions starting at just $4.95.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>Industry, Ambition, Self Control, Self-Respect, Courtesy, Faithfulness, Courage, Duty, Honesty, Enthusiasm, Humility, Patriotism…</em> In every era of our Nation&#8217;s history, the true alchemy by which ordinary boys have been transformed into Great American Men has always and only occurred where these indispensible moral principles have been successfully applied. In an age like our own, where such manly ideals are openly mocked and derided by our popular culture, it&#8217;s time to turn to the past to recapture a clear vision of what it takes to be a <em>Great American</em>, and the true moral and ethical ladder that leads reliably to its attainment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American:  39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> was first published in 1900, under the title <em>The True Citizen, How to Become One</em>, and contains  39 essential lessons in manhood tailored to each age and transition in a boy&#8217;s life, from infancy to adulthood.  It is the clearest roadmap to American Greatness ever compiled for the youth of our Nation, and remains as life-changing today as it was when first published, over 100 years ago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whether you are an adult raising boys in a Traditional family setting, the single parent of a son, or a boy abandoned to no or poor parenting, left to grab your own bootstraps and lift yourself up to a life of achievement, success and All-American Greatness (or an adult who knows a boy in such sad straits), <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American!: 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> is the only guidebook you&#8217;ll ever need.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Also available through <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">Amazon.com</a> in quality <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">trade paperback</a> and <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0012R4L6O/" target="_blank">Kindle e-book download</a> editions.</p>
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<link>http://betterdaysbooks.wordpress.com/2008/07/04/the-home-forge-of-good-citizenship/</link>
<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 21:18:28 +0000</pubDate>
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<h3>An Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith</h3>
<p>Entry #<strong>35</strong> in the <em>Raising Great Americans Project! </em><a title="The Raising Great Americans Project" href="http://betterdaysbooks.wordpress.com/2008/05/24/raising-moral-kids-in-an-amoral-culture/" target="_blank">Click Here to learn More</a>!</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">THE CITIZEN AND THE HOME</h2>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>MEMORY GEMS</strong></p>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Anon</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The fireside is the seminary of the nation.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Goodrich</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Early home associations have a potent influence upon the life of the State.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Child</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Nothing proves more ruinous to the State<br />
than the defective education of the women</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Aristotle.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The sorest spot in our municipal and national<br />
condition, is the decadence of the home idea.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;G. H. Parkhurst</p>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">The fact that children are so long in growing up, and pass so many years together under the care of their father and mother, is most important in the history of the race. During this long period of growth in the home they become fitted, as they could not in any other way, to take their places in the larger world of men and women. If children remained with their parents as short a time as the young of animals do, it is probable that men would never have risen above the state of barbarism. The home has been the great civilizer of the world.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The home is more than the family dwelling; it is the seat of the family life; and the family life stands to the life of the nation in the same relation as the index to the volume, or the expression of the countenance to the feeling of the heart. The homes of any people are the very beginnings of its progress, the very centers of its law and order, and of its social and political prosperity. They are the central points around which the crystallizing and solidifying processes of national life and growth can alone be carried forward. We do not give sufficient prominence to this fact, in our estimate of the forces which build up our national life. We recognize art and science, agriculture and industry, politics and morality; but do we realize, as we should, that, beneath all these, as the great foundation rock upon which they all must rest, lies the home. Or, to change the figure, the homes of our people are the springs out of which flow our national life and character. They are the schools in which our people are trained for citizenship; for when a young man leaves the paternal roof, his grade and quality as a citizen is, as a rule, fully determined.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The training of a good citizen must begin at the cradle, and be continued through the plastic period of boyhood and carried forward by his parents, until the youth crosses his native threshold to act his part and assume his responsibilities in the broader field of his own independent life.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The home life of New England has been the most potent force, in the building of this great nation. The homes of our Puritan ancestors were really the birthplaces of these United States. What then was the character of these homes? They were simple and even rude, as considered externally&#8211;and especially when contrasted with the homes of the New Englanders of today. But within, there was love and loyalty, reverence and faith. In the early homes of New England there were so many strong fibers running from heart to heart, and knitting all together,&#8211;and so many solid virtues woven into the daily life,&#8211;that their influence has done much to make our nation what it is.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">A young man trained in such a home, will usually become an example of sobriety, industry, honesty, and fidelity to principle. He will be felt to be part of the solid framework which girds society and helps to keep it healthy,&#8211;a kind of human bank, on which the community may draw to sustain its best interests, and to promote its noblest forms of life.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The home is the birthplace of true patriotism; and a true patriotism is one of the first and most important characteristics in the upbuilding of any nation. It is not the wild plebeian instinct that goes for our country right or wrong, which forms the real element of our strength. Love of country, to be a real help and safeguard, must be a sentiment great enough to be moral in its range and quality. Neither the power of numbers, nor mere oaths of allegiance, will suffice. Patriotism always falls back upon the home life and the home interests for its inspiration and its power.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whatever crosses the threshold to desolate the hearth, touches to the quick one of the strongest sentiments of our nature. The old Latin battle cry, &#8220;For our altars and our firesides,&#8221; is still the most potent word which can be given to our soldiers, as they advance upon the foe; and the man who will not go forward, even to the death, for these, is rightly counted as little better than a slave.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">If you want a man upon whom you can rely in the hour of the nation&#8217;s peril, select the man who loves his home; for in proportion as he loves his home, will he love his country which has protected it.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">We therefore repeat that the homes of the people are the secret of our country&#8217;s greatness. Acres do not make a nation great. Wealth cannot purchase grandeur and renown. Resources, however great and wonderful, cannot crown us with national honor and celebrity. The strength and prowess of any land lies in the character of its citizens; and their character depends largely upon the character of their homes.<br />
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<p style="text-align:justify;">This Article is an Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith, which is available from Better Days Books in quality hardbound, sturdy trade paperback and convenient .PDF e-book editions starting at just $4.95.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>Industry, Ambition, Self Control, Self-Respect, Courtesy, Faithfulness, Courage, Duty, Honesty, Enthusiasm, Humility, Patriotism…</em> In every era of our Nation&#8217;s history, the true alchemy by which ordinary boys have been transformed into Great American Men has always and only occurred where these indispensible moral principles have been successfully applied. In an age like our own, where such manly ideals are openly mocked and derided by our popular culture, it&#8217;s time to turn to the past to recapture a clear vision of what it takes to be a <em>Great American</em>, and the true moral and ethical ladder that leads reliably to its attainment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American:  39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> was first published in 1900, under the title <em>The True Citizen, How to Become One</em>, and contains  39 essential lessons in manhood tailored to each age and transition in a boy&#8217;s life, from infancy to adulthood.  It is the clearest roadmap to American Greatness ever compiled for the youth of our Nation, and remains as life-changing today as it was when first published, over 100 years ago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whether you are an adult raising boys in a Traditional family setting, the single parent of a son, or a boy abandoned to no or poor parenting, left to grab your own bootstraps and lift yourself up to a life of achievement, success and All-American Greatness (or an adult who knows a boy in such sad straits), <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American!: 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> is the only guidebook you&#8217;ll ever need.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Also available through <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">Amazon.com</a> in quality <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">trade paperback</a> and <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0012R4L6O/" target="_blank">Kindle e-book download</a> editions.</p>
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<link>http://betterdaysbooks.wordpress.com/2008/07/04/be-a-good-citizen/</link>
<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 21:07:24 +0000</pubDate>
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<description><![CDATA[An old English picture represents a king, with the motto beneath, &#8220;I govern all;&#8221; a bish]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><p><em>An old English picture represents a king, with the motto beneath, &#8220;I govern all;&#8221; a bishop, with this sentence, &#8220;I pray for all;&#8221; a soldier, with the inscription, &#8220;I fight for all;&#8221; and a farmer, who reluctantly draws forth his purse, and exclaims with rueful countenance, &#8220;I pay for all.&#8221;…</em></p>
<h3>An Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith</h3>
<p>Entry #<strong>34</strong> in the <em>Raising Great Americans Project! </em><a title="The Raising Great Americans Project" href="http://betterdaysbooks.wordpress.com/2008/05/24/raising-moral-kids-in-an-amoral-culture/" target="_blank">Click Here to learn More</a>!</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">WHAT CONSTITUTES GOOD CITIZENSHIP</h2>
<p style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:#ffffff;">.<br />
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>MEMORY GEMS</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:#ffffff;">.<br />
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<p style="text-align:center;"><em>A great nation is made only by worthy citizens.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Charles Dudley Warner</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Nothing is politically right that is morally wrong.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;O&#8217;Connor</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The noblest principle in education is to<br />
teach how best to live for one&#8217;s country</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">.&#8211;G. T. Balch</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The good citizen will never consent that his<br />
voice and vote shall sanction a public wrong.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;A. M. Gow</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Let our object be, our country, our whole<br />
country, and nothing but our country.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;D. Webster</p>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">An old English picture represents a king, with the motto beneath, &#8220;I govern all;&#8221; a bishop, with this sentence, &#8220;I pray for all;&#8221; a soldier, with the inscription, &#8220;I fight for all;&#8221; and a farmer, who reluctantly draws forth his purse, and exclaims with rueful countenance, &#8220;I pay for all.&#8221; The American citizen combines in himself the functions of these four. He is king, prophet, warrior, and laborer. He governs, prays, and fights for himself, and pays all expenses.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">It is neither desirable nor possible, however, for men to be wholly independent of one another. Their very nature reveals the fact that they are intended to be associated in the bonds of mutual association and affection; and such forms of associated life we see all about us, in the life of the family, the community, and the nation.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">For a body of human beings to attempt to live together without regard for each other&#8217;s interests, would be certain to lead to confusion, if not to disaster. There would be no security for life or property; no recognized standard of values; no ready and certain means of communication; nor any of the higher conveniences which mark the life of our own land and age. That which is needed to insure these necessary benefits, is some common understanding, or some such generally accepted agreement, as finds expression in those forms of government which have, for these very reasons, become common to all civilized lands.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">It is in this idea of associated life that citizenship finds its real beginning. But between the formulation of the idea, and such citizenship as we now enjoy, there have been long centuries of slow growth and steady development. Each of these succeeding centuries has marked a decided improvement in the condition of mankind; and the outlook for the future of the human race is more hopeful at the present than in any period of the past.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Men like to praise old times. They are fond of telling about &#8220;the good old days,&#8221; when there was simplicity, and a rude but rugged virtue, and men were happy. But if you were to take these men up, and carry them back there, and let them sleep where men slept then, and let them eat what men ate then, and let them do what men had to do then, and take from them what men did not have then,&#8211;you would hear the most piteous whining and complaining that ever afflicted your ears.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Do not be misled by such of our empty-headed reformers as would tell you that the workman&#8217;s lot is harder at the present than in the far-away centuries of the past; for their statements cannot be verified, but are untruthful and pernicious in the highest degree. The sober, industrious, self-respecting artisan of today has the privilege of entrance to many places and families which were closed against the merchants and manufacturers of one hundred years ago; and he stands possessed of opportunities such as were not possible even to the men of the last generation.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Citizenship stands inseparably connected with the family. The family is practically a little state in itself, embodying on a smaller scale, all those vital and fundamental principles which make up the larger life of the nation. It is in the family that we first come under government. Our earliest lessons in obedience are those which arise from the authority of our parents and guardians. It is in the home that we discover that we cannot do altogether as we please, but that others, as well as ourselves, must be regarded. And it will not be difficult to discern that, in the various phases of home life, we have represented almost all the forms of government which have become embodied in the various kinds of national administration now prevailing in the various parts of the earth.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">In a well-ordered home, the authority would be such that every one could have the largest freedom of action consistent with the general good. When the freedom of any one made itself a cause of annoyance to the rest, it would have to be curtailed. As fast as the children grew to deserve more liberty, it would be given them; but always on condition that they prove themselves worthy to be entrusted with this larger life.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">But with this increase of freedom and privilege, comes the increase of responsibility. Every member of the family who is old enough to appreciate its privileges is old enough to share its burdens. Some specific duties should be assigned to each, however simple these may be; and for the performance of these duties, each should be held to be personally responsible. Precisely this is needed in the larger sphere of the state; and when this can be attained and maintained, the good of the state will be both effectually and permanently assured.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">A true lover of his country will have, as his ruling idea, that the state is for the people, and that America has been made to make and sustain happy Americans. No nation is in a satisfactory condition when large portions of its population are discontented and miserable. The comfortable classes will generally take care of themselves; but they need to know that their own prosperity is bound up with the condition of the uncomfortable classes. And even if it were not so, it would be their duty to advocate such social reforms as would tend to raise men intellectually, morally, and circumstantially. The carrying into effect of all this opens up a vast realm of service for the public good; and the proper performance of this service, in all its several branches, constitutes good citizenship.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Speaking in general terms, we may say that a citizen of a country is one born in that country. If you were born in the United States, then you are a citizen of the United States. This one simple fact endows you with all the privileges of our great nation, and, at the same time, lays upon you a measure of responsibility for the nation&#8217;s welfare.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">In addition to those who are trained for American citizenship in American homes, we have among us a large body of men who are &#8220;citizens by adoption.&#8221; Millions of people have immigrated to America; and to these it has become the country of their own free choice.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Every good citizen will give attention to public affairs. He will not only vote for good men and good measures, but he will use his personal influence to have others do the same. Ours is a government of the people, and is neither better nor worse than the people make it. We should study the needs of our country, and keep ourselves well informed on all the current questions of the day, and then, by an honest and intelligent exercise of the privileges which the nation grants us, prove ourselves citizens of the very highest type.<br />
____________________</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">This Article is an Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith, which is available from Better Days Books in quality hardbound, sturdy trade paperback and convenient .PDF e-book editions starting at just $4.95.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>Industry, Ambition, Self Control, Self-Respect, Courtesy, Faithfulness, Courage, Duty, Honesty, Enthusiasm, Humility, Patriotism…</em> In every era of our Nation&#8217;s history, the true alchemy by which ordinary boys have been transformed into Great American Men has always and only occurred where these indispensible moral principles have been successfully applied. In an age like our own, where such manly ideals are openly mocked and derided by our popular culture, it&#8217;s time to turn to the past to recapture a clear vision of what it takes to be a <em>Great American</em>, and the true moral and ethical ladder that leads reliably to its attainment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American:  39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> was first published in 1900, under the title <em>The True Citizen, How to Become One</em>, and contains  39 essential lessons in manhood tailored to each age and transition in a boy&#8217;s life, from infancy to adulthood.  It is the clearest roadmap to American Greatness ever compiled for the youth of our Nation, and remains as life-changing today as it was when first published, over 100 years ago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whether you are an adult raising boys in a Traditional family setting, the single parent of a son, or a boy abandoned to no or poor parenting, left to grab your own bootstraps and lift yourself up to a life of achievement, success and All-American Greatness (or an adult who knows a boy in such sad straits), <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American!: 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> is the only guidebook you&#8217;ll ever need.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Also available through <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">Amazon.com</a> in quality <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">trade paperback</a> and <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0012R4L6O/" target="_blank">Kindle e-book download</a> editions.</p>
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<title><![CDATA[Be a Man]]></title>
<link>http://betterdaysbooks.wordpress.com/2008/07/04/be-a-man/</link>
<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 20:38:22 +0000</pubDate>
<dc:creator>samuelalger</dc:creator>
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<description><![CDATA[The world suffers for want of men who are educated all over; whose nerves are brought to their acute]]></description>
<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><p><em>The world suffers for want of men who are educated all over; whose nerves are brought to their acutest sensibility; whose brain are cultured, keen, and penetrating; whose hands are deft; whose eyes are alert and sensitive, and whose hearts are tender, broad, magnanimous and true…</em></p>
<h3>An Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith</h3>
<p>Entry #<strong>33</strong> in the <em>Raising Great Americans Project! </em><a title="The Raising Great Americans Project" href="http://betterdaysbooks.wordpress.com/2008/05/24/raising-moral-kids-in-an-amoral-culture/" target="_blank">Click Here to learn More</a>!</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">THE IDEAL MAN</h2>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>MEMORY GEMS</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:#ffffff;">.</span></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>From the lowest depth there is a path to the highest height.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Carlyle.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>A man seldom loses the respect of others until he has lost his own.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;F. W. Robertson</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>There are certain things we feel to be beautiful<br />
and good, and we must hunger after them.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;George Eliot</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The man who thinks himself inferior to his<br />
fellows, deserves to be, and generally is.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;William Black</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>It is characteristic of small men to avoid<br />
emergencies; of great men to meet them.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Charles Kingsley</p>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">Every man has characteristics which make him a distinct personality; a different individual from every other individual. It is an interesting fact that a man cannot change his nature, though he may conceal it; while no art or application will teach him to know himself, as he really is, or as others see him.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">If the idea of humanity carry with it the corresponding idea of a physical, intellectual, and moral nature&#8211;if it be this trinity of being which constitutes the man,&#8211;then let us think of the first or the second elements as we may, it is the third which completes our conception. Let us praise the mechanism of the body to the utmost; let it be granted that the height and force of our intellect bespeaks a glorious intelligence; still our distinctive excellence and preeminence lies in moral and spiritual perfection.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">There are those who think and speak as if manhood consisted in birth or titles, or in extent of power and authority. They are satisfied if they can only reckon among their ancestors some of the great and illustrious, or if noble blood but flow in their veins. But if they have no other glory than that of their ancestors; if all their greatness lies in a name; if their titles are their only virtues; if it be necessary to call up past ages to find something worthy of our homage,&#8211;then their birth rather disparages and dishonors them.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">That these creatures lay claim to the name and the attributes of man, is a desecration. Man is a noble being. There may be rank, and title, and ancestry, and deeds of renown, where there is no intellectual power. Nor would we unduly exalt reason. There may be mental greatness in no common degree, and yet be a total absence of those higher moral elements which bring our manhood more clearly into view. It is the combination of intellectual power and moral excellence which goes to make the perfect man.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The world suffers for want of men who are educated all over; whose nerves are brought to their acutest sensibility; whose brain are cultured, keen, and penetrating; whose hands are deft; whose eyes are alert and sensitive, and whose hearts are tender, broad, magnanimous and true.  Indeed, the only man who can satisfy the demands of an age like this, is the man who has been rounded into perfectness by being cultured along all the lines we have indicated in the foregoing pages.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">This education must commence with the very first opening of the infant mind. Our lessons will multiply and be of a still higher character with the progress of our years. Truth may succeed truth, according to the mental power and capacity; nor must our instruction cease till the probationary state shall close. Our education can finish only with the termination of life.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Everyone is conscious of a most peculiar feeling when he looks at anything whose formation or development is imperfect. Let him take up an imperfectly-formed crystal, or an imperfectly-developed flower, and he can scarcely describe his feelings. The same holds true as to the organization and structure of the human body. Who ever contemplates stunted growth, or any kind of visible deformity, with complacency and satisfaction? And why should we not look for full mental development, and for the most perfect moral maturity? If what is imperfect constitutes the exception in the physical world, why should it be otherwise in the world of mind and of morals? Is it a thing to be preferred, to be stunted, and little in our intellectual and moral stature? Or do we prefer a state of childhood to that of a perfect man? If the mind is the measure of the man, and if uprightness constitutes the noblest aspect of life, then our advancement in knowledge and in righteousness should appear unto all men.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">There is a god in the meanest man; there is a philanthropist in the stingiest miser; there is a hero in the biggest coward,&#8211;which an emergency great enough will call out. The blighting greed of gain, the chilling usages and cold laws of trade, encase many a noble heart in crusts of selfishness; but great emergencies break open the prison doors, and the whole heart pours itself forth in deeds of charity and mercy.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The poor and unfortunate are our opportunity, our character-builders, the great schoolmasters of our moral and spiritual growth. Every kind and noble deed performed for others, is transmuted into food which nourishes the motive promoting its performance, and strengthens the muscles of habit. Gladstone, in the midst of pressing duties, found time to visit a poor sick boy whom he had seen sweeping the street crossings. He endeared himself to the heart of the English people by this action more than by almost any other single event of his life; and this incident is more talked about to-day than almost any of his so-called greater deeds.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Not what men do, but what their lives promise and prophesy, gives hope to the race. To keep us from discouragement, Nature now and then sends us a Washington, a Lincoln, a Kossuth, a Gladstone, towering above his fellows, to show us she has not lost her ideal.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">We call a man like Shakespeare a genius, not because he makes new discoveries, but because he shows us to ourselves,&#8211;shows us the great reserve in us, which, like the oil-fields, awaited a discoverer,&#8211;and because he says that which we had thought or felt, but could not express. Genius merely holds the glass up to nature. We can never see in the world what we do not first have in ourselves.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;Every man,&#8221; says Theodore Parker, &#8220;has at times in his mind the ideal of what he should be, but is not. In all men that seek to improve, it is better than the actual character. No one is so satisfied with himself that he never wishes to be wiser, better, and more perfect.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The ideal is the continual image that is cast upon the brain; and these images are as various as the stars; and, like them, differ one from another in magnitude. It is the quality of the aspiration that determines the true success or failure of a life. A man may aspire to be the best billiard-player, the best coachman, the best wardroom politician, the best gambler, or the most cunning cheat. He may rise to be eminent in his calling; but, compared with other men, his greatest height will be below the level of the failure of him who chooses an honest profession. No jugglery of thought, no gorgeousness of trappings, can make the low high, the dishonest honest, the vile pure. As is a man&#8217;s ideal or aspiration, so shall his life be.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">But when all this has been said, it still remains true that much of the difference between man and man arises from the variety of occupations and practices,&#8211;a certain special training which develops thought and intelligence in special directions. All men meet, however, on the common level of common sense. A man&#8217;s thought is indicated by his talk, by verbal expression. Mental action and expression is affected by the senses, passions, and appetites.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whatever great thing in life a man does, he never would have done in that precise way except for the peculiar training and experience which developed him; and no single incident in his life, however trifling, may be excepted in the work of rounding him out to the exact character he becomes.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The poet is really calling for what we regard as the ideal man, when he says:</p>
<p><em> &#8220;God give us men. A time like this demands<br />
Strong minds, great hearts, true faith and ready hands:<br />
Men whom the lust of office does not kill;<br />
Men whom the spoils of office cannot buy;<br />
Men who possess opinions and a will;<br />
Men who have honor&#8211;men who will not lie;<br />
Men who can stand before a demagogue<br />
And scorn his treacherous flatteries without winking;<br />
Tall men, sun-crowned, who live above the fog<br />
In public duty, and in private thinking.&#8221;</em><br />
____________________</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">This Article is an Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith, which is available from Better Days Books in quality hardbound, sturdy trade paperback and convenient .PDF e-book editions starting at just $4.95.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>Industry, Ambition, Self Control, Self-Respect, Courtesy, Faithfulness, Courage, Duty, Honesty, Enthusiasm, Humility, Patriotism…</em> In every era of our Nation&#8217;s history, the true alchemy by which ordinary boys have been transformed into Great American Men has always and only occurred where these indispensible moral principles have been successfully applied. In an age like our own, where such manly ideals are openly mocked and derided by our popular culture, it&#8217;s time to turn to the past to recapture a clear vision of what it takes to be a <em>Great American</em>, and the true moral and ethical ladder that leads reliably to its attainment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American:  39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> was first published in 1900, under the title <em>The True Citizen, How to Become One</em>, and contains  39 essential lessons in manhood tailored to each age and transition in a boy&#8217;s life, from infancy to adulthood.  It is the clearest roadmap to American Greatness ever compiled for the youth of our Nation, and remains as life-changing today as it was when first published, over 100 years ago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whether you are an adult raising boys in a Traditional family setting, the single parent of a son, or a boy abandoned to no or poor parenting, left to grab your own bootstraps and lift yourself up to a life of achievement, success and All-American Greatness (or an adult who knows a boy in such sad straits), <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American!: 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> is the only guidebook you&#8217;ll ever need.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Also available through <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">Amazon.com</a> in quality <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">trade paperback</a> and <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0012R4L6O/" target="_blank">Kindle e-book download</a> editions.</p>
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<title><![CDATA[Declare Your Independence!]]></title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 12:38:05 +0000</pubDate>
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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><p><em>Take life like a man—as though the world had waited for your coming. Don&#8217;t take your cue from the weak, the prejudiced, the trimmers, the cowards;&#8211;but rather from the illustrious ones of earth. Dare to take the side that seems wrong to others, if it seems right to you; and you will attain to an order of life the most noble and complete…</em></p>
<h3>An Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith</h3>
<p>Entry #<strong>32 </strong>in the <em>Raising Great Americans Project! </em><a title="The Raising Great Americans Project" href="http://betterdaysbooks.wordpress.com/2008/05/24/raising-moral-kids-in-an-amoral-culture/" target="_blank">Click Here to learn More</a>!</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">INDEPENDENCE</h2>
<p style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:#ffffff;">.<br />
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>MEMORY GEMS</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:#ffffff;">.</span></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Keep out of the crowd, if you have to get above it.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;M. C Peters</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The freedom of the mind is the highest form of independence.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;G. B. Fisk</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>A country cannot subsist without liberty, nor liberty without virtue.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Rousseau</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The spirit of independence is not merely a jealousy of our<br />
own particular rights, but a respect for the rights of others.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;S. Baring-Gould</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The love of independence is not only instinctive in man,<br />
but its possession is essential to his moral development.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;George Eliot</p>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">A great many persons carry in their minds a very mistaken idea as to what constitutes a truly noble life. To live is not merely to exist; it is to live unbiased and uninfluenced by low and belittling human influences. It is to give breadth and expansion to the soul; first through a clear discrimination between right and wrong; and then in living up to the right. Full manhood, the full realization and fruition of all that is best and greatest in man, depends upon freedom of thought and independence of action.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Some countries have given especial attention to the cultivation of this trait. For example: It has been pointed out that &#8220;among the best products of Scotland has been her love of independence. A ruggedness of spirit has marked her children. Strength stamps her heroes. The gentle Burns was as strong as Knox,&#8211;not in character, but in the assertion of &#8216;A man&#8217;s a man for a&#8217; that;&#8217; and a great many of Scotland&#8217;s noblest sons have been brought into public notice through the manifestation of their strong personality.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Vast numbers of men and women ruin their lives by failing to assert themselves. They sink into the grave with scarcely a trace to indicate that they ever lived. They live and they die. Cradle and grave are brought close together; there is nothing between them. There have been hundreds who could have rivaled the patriotism of a Washington, or the humanity of a Howard, or the eloquence of a Demosthenes, and who have left behind them no one memorial of their existence, because of lack of lofty courage, sublime moral heroism, and the assertion of their individuality.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The world&#8217;s greatest things have been accomplished by individuals. Vast social reformations have originated in individual souls. Truths that now sway the world were first proclaimed by individual lips. Great thoughts that are now the axioms of humanity sprang from the center of individual hearts. Do not suffer others to shape your lives for you; but do all you can to shape them for yourselves.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Sydney Smith insisted upon this quality of manhood and womanhood as indispensable. He said: &#8220;There is one circumstance I would preach up morning, noon, and night, to young persons for the management of their understanding: Whatever you are by nature, keep to it; never desert your own line of talent. Be what Nature intended you for, and you will succeed; be anything else, and you will be ten thousand times worse than nothing.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">It is a good thing for a boy to wait upon himself as much as possible. The more he has to depend upon his own exertions, the more manly a fellow will he become. Self-dependence will call out his energies, and bring into exercise his talents. It is not in the hothouse, but on the rugged Alpine cliffs, where the storms beat most violently, that the toughest plants grow. So it is with man. The wisest charity is to help a boy to help himself. Let him never hear any language but this: You have your own way to make, and it depends on your own exertion whether you succeed or fail.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Sherman once wrote to General Grant, &#8220;You are now Washington&#8217;s legitimate successor, and occupy a position of almost dangerous elevation; but if you continue, as heretofore, to be yourself, &#8212; simple, honest, and unpretending,&#8211;you will enjoy through life the respect and love of friends, and the homage of millions of human beings.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Of course we must guard against the error of carrying our sense of independence too far. Wordsworth hit the truth when he said: &#8220;These two things, contradictory as they may seem, must go together,&#8211;manly dependence and manly independence,&#8211;manly reliance and manly self-reliance.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Still, after all is said, we do need more healthy independence. Looking out upon society, we see how slavish men and women are to fashion and frivolity. Society life is largely a surface life, spoiled by fear of gossip. Young people need to take clearer views of this matter, and to stand by their own convictions at any cost. The question to be settled by most of us is, Shall I steer or drift? Our advice is, by all means have a lofty purpose before you, and then remain loyal to it.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Some boys think independence consists in doing whatever they please. They think it is smart to be &#8220;tough.&#8221; A story told by Admiral Farragut about his early boyhood, aptly illustrates this phase of young America&#8217;s independence. He says: &#8220;When I was a boy, ten years of age, I was with my father on board of a man-of-war. I had some qualities that I thought made a man of me. I could swear like an old salt; could drink as stiff a glass of grog as if I had doubled Cape Horn; and could smoke like a locomotive. I was great at cards; and fond of gaming in any shape. At the close of dinner one day my father turned everybody out of the cabin, locked the door, and said to me: &#8216;David, what do you mean to be?&#8217; &#8216;I mean to follow the sea.&#8217; &#8216;Follow the sea! yes, to be a poor, miserable, drunken sailor before the mast; be kicked and cuffed about the world; and die in some fever hospital in a foreign clime.&#8217; &#8216;No,&#8217; said I, &#8216;I&#8217;ll tread the quarter-deck, and command as you do.&#8217; &#8216;No, David; no boy ever trod the quarter-deck with such principles as you have. You&#8217;ll have to change your whole course of life if you ever become a man.&#8217;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;My father left me and went on deck. I was stunned by the rebuke, and overwhelmed with mortification. &#8216;A poor, miserable, drunken sailor before the mast!&#8217; That&#8217;s my fate, is it! I&#8217;ll change my life, and change it at once! I will never utter another oath; I will never drink another drop of intoxicating liquor; I will never gamble! I have kept these three vows to this very hour. That was the turning point in my destiny.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">A great many men begin to lose their individuality of conviction the moment they begin life&#8217;s business. Many a young man has sacrificed his individuality on the altar that a profligate companion has built for him. Many a young man who knew right, has allowed some empty-headed street-corner loafer to lower his own high moral tone lest he should seem singular in the little world of society surrounding him. And many a lad whose life promised well at the beginning, has gone to the bad, or lost his chance in life, because he never learned to say &#8220;No!&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">In the Revolutionary War, after the surrender of General Lincoln, at Charleston, the whole of South Carolina was overrun by the British army. Among those captured by the redcoats was a small boy, thirteen years of age. He was carried as a prisoner of war to Camden. While there, a British officer, in a very imperious tone, ordered the boy to clean his boots, which were covered with mud.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;Here, boy! You young rebel, what are you doing there? Take these boots and clean them; and be quick about it, too!&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The boy looked up at him and said: &#8220;Sir, I won&#8217;t do it. I am a prisoner of war, and expect proper treatment from you, sir.&#8221; This boy was Andrew Jackson, who afterward became president of the United States. Boys with such a spirit make noble men.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Exaggerated individuality makes a man impracticable. But the danger of our times is to copy after others, and thus destroy our force and effectiveness. Live, then, like an individual. Take life like a man—as though the world had waited for your coming. Don&#8217;t take your cue from the weak, the prejudiced, the trimmers, the cowards;&#8211;but rather from the illustrious ones of earth. Dare to take the side that seems wrong to others, if it seems right to you; and you will attain to an order of life the most noble and complete.</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">THOMAS JEFFERSON</h2>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">For the last one hundred years, one of the first historical facts taught the youth of American birth, is that Thomas Jefferson wrote our famous Declaration of Independence. His bold, free, independent nature, admirably fitted him for the writing of this remarkable document. To him was given the task of embodying, in written language, the sentiments and the principles for which, at that moment, a liberty-loving people were battling with their lives. He succeeded, because he wrote the Declaration while his heart burned with that same patriotic fire which Patrick Henry so eloquently expressed when he said: &#8220;I care not what others may do, but as for me, give me liberty or give me death.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">In all nations men have sacrificed everything they held dear for religious and political freedom. Their names are justly written in the book of fame; but in the front rank of them all, we place the brave signers of the Declaration of Independence, with Jefferson in the lead.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The acceptance and the signing of this document by the members of the Continental Congress was a dramatic scene, seldom, if ever, surpassed in the annals of history. As John Hancock placed his great familiar signature upon it, he jestingly remarked, that John Bull could read that without spectacles; and then, becoming more serious, he began to impress upon his comrades the necessity of all hanging together in this matter. &#8220;Yes, indeed,&#8221; interrupted Franklin, &#8220;we must all hang together, or assuredly we shall all hang separately.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The Declaration of Independence placed the American colonies squarely upon the issue of political freedom. Its composition was a master-stroke which will continue as a lasting memorial to the head and heart of its author.<br />
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<p style="text-align:justify;">This Article is an Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith, which is available from Better Days Books in quality hardbound, sturdy trade paperback and convenient .PDF e-book editions starting at just $4.95.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>Industry, Ambition, Self Control, Self-Respect, Courtesy, Faithfulness, Courage, Duty, Honesty, Enthusiasm, Humility, Patriotism…</em> In every era of our Nation&#8217;s history, the true alchemy by which ordinary boys have been transformed into Great American Men has always and only occurred where these indispensible moral principles have been successfully applied. In an age like our own, where such manly ideals are openly mocked and derided by our popular culture, it&#8217;s time to turn to the past to recapture a clear vision of what it takes to be a <em>Great American</em>, and the true moral and ethical ladder that leads reliably to its attainment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American:  39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> was first published in 1900, under the title <em>The True Citizen, How to Become One</em>, and contains  39 essential lessons in manhood tailored to each age and transition in a boy&#8217;s life, from infancy to adulthood.  It is the clearest roadmap to American Greatness ever compiled for the youth of our Nation, and remains as life-changing today as it was when first published, over 100 years ago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whether you are an adult raising boys in a Traditional family setting, the single parent of a son, or a boy abandoned to no or poor parenting, left to grab your own bootstraps and lift yourself up to a life of achievement, success and All-American Greatness (or an adult who knows a boy in such sad straits), <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American!: 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> is the only guidebook you&#8217;ll ever need.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Also available through <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">Amazon.com</a> in quality <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">trade paperback</a> and <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0012R4L6O/" target="_blank">Kindle e-book download</a> editions.</p>
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<title><![CDATA[Raising Patriotic Kids]]></title>
<link>http://betterdaysbooks.wordpress.com/2008/07/04/raising-patriotic-kids/</link>
<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 04:03:18 +0000</pubDate>
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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><p><em>We must never forget, as we think or speak of patriotism, that such private virtues as honesty and industry, are its best helps. Whatever tends to make men wiser and better is a service to the nation. The country will one day be in the hands of those who are now boys and girls; and to you, we say, serve it, guard it, and do all that you can to promote its good….</em></p>
<h3>An Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith</h3>
<p>Entry #<strong>31</strong> in the <em>Raising Great Americans Project! </em><a title="The Raising Great Americans Project" href="http://betterdaysbooks.wordpress.com/2008/05/24/raising-moral-kids-in-an-amoral-culture/" target="_blank">Click Here to learn More</a>!</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">PATRIOTISM</h2>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>MEMORY GEMS</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The noblest motive is the public good.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Virgil</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The one best omen is to fight for fatherland.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Homer</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Patriotism is a principle fraught with high impulses and noble thoughts.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Smiles</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The revolutionist has seldom any other<br />
object but to sacrifice his country to himself.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Alison</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>It is impossible that a man who is false to<br />
his friends should be true to his country.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Bishop Berkeley</p>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">Patriotism is defined by Noah Webster as &#8220;the passion which aims to serve one&#8217;s country.&#8221; As it is natural to love our home, it is natural to love our country also. As the poorest homes are sometimes most tenderly loved, so the poorest and barest country is sometimes held in most affection. There is, perhaps, not a country in the world the inhabitants of which have not, at some time or other, been willing to suffer and die for it.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">But as we think of our land, we quickly perceive that no body of young people ever had a more valuable inheritance than that which we have received; and we are under the greatest obligations to protect and preserve this land, and transmit it, full of the grandest achievements and most glorious recollections, to posterity.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">This affection is natural, because the town and the nation in which one has lived, is, like the home, bound up with all the experiences of one&#8217;s life. The games of childhood, the affection of parents, the love of friends, all the joys, the sorrows, the activities of life, are bound up in the thought of one&#8217;s native land.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">It is not merely natural to be patriotic, but it is also reasonable and right. Nearly all that makes life pleasant and desirable, comes to us through the town or the nation to which we belong. Think how many thousands in our country have toiled for us! They have made roads, and they have built churches and schoolhouses. They have established malls and post offices. They have cultivated farms to provide for our needs, and have built ships that cross the ocean to bring to us the good things which we could not produce at home. They have provided protection against wrongdoers; so that if we sleep in peace, and work and study and play in safety, we are indebted for all this to the town and nation.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">When the bells are ringing, and the cannons are firing, on the Fourth of July, we must not think merely of the noise and fun. We must remember those who on that day agreed that they would risk their lives and everything that was dear to them, that their country might be free. We must also think of those who in times of peril have given themselves for their nation&#8217;s good; of those who found the land a wilderness, and suffered pain and privation while they made the beginning of a nation. We must think of those who, ever since that time, when ever the liberty or the unity of the nation has been in peril, have sprung to its defense.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">At the end of the war of the revolution, Washington was at the head of a mighty army, and was the object of the enthusiastic love of the whole people. He might easily have made himself a king or an emperor. It was a marvel to the civilized world when he quietly laid down all his power. He suffered himself to be twice chosen president; and then he became simply a private citizen. This seems to us now the most natural thing in the world; but really it was something very rare, and gave him a fame such as few heroes of the world enjoy.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">There have been heroes in peace as well as in war, men who have conquered the wilderness, who have upheld justice, and have helped on whatever was good and noble. And there are also many persons among us who are unworthy to live in our country, because they are not willing to suffer the least inconvenience on its account.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Then there are many men who are even so unpatriotic as to sell their votes. Think of all the cost of money and of noble lives at which our liberty has been won. Think how, in many parts of the world, men are looking with longing at the liberty which we enjoy; yet there are those to whom this hard-won freedom means so little that they do not strive to further the country&#8217;s interests in any way.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">We must never forget, as we think or speak of patriotism, that such private virtues as honesty and industry, are its best helps. Whatever tends to make men wiser and better is a service to the nation. The country will one day be in the hands of those who are now boys and girls; and to you, we say, serve it, guard it, and do all that you can to promote its good.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">There is a fine field for the exercise of patriotism in trying to improve the condition of affairs in the towns and cities in which we live. We find ourselves in the midst of a conflict between the criminal classes on the one hand, and the people on the other,&#8211;a conflict as stern as was ever endured upon the battlefield, amid the glitter of cold steel and the rattle of musketry.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The man or woman of the school committee, working conscientiously that the boys and girls shall have the best education to fit them for future life, is a patriot. The teacher who patiently works on with that great end in view, is the same. If greed or bigotry claims from town, city, or country, that which will debase her people, every boy and girl, every man and woman, should instantly frown it down. This is true patriotism, and the influence of every person is needed for the right.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Every good man in politics wields a power for good. Every good man not in politics is to blame for political corruption, because by neglecting his plain duty he adds to the strength of the enemy. Let it be known that, with you, principle amounts to something; that character counts; that questionable party service cannot count upon your suffrage.</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">JOHN ADAMS</h2>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">But little has been written of the child-life of John Adams, the second president of the United States; a man of unflinching honesty, and a patriot of the noblest order.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The Adamses were an honest, faithful people. They were not rich, neither were they poor; but being thrifty and economical, they lived with comfort. Stern integrity was the predominant quality of the farmer&#8217;s home into which John Adams was born in 1735. It must be remembered, throughout his life it was the sturdy qualities of his ancestors that made him the statesman and patriot whom we know.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The boy did not show much fondness for books. He preferred life out of doors among the birds and the squirrels, roaming the woods,&#8211;living just the life a wide-awake boy on a farm would lead nowadays.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">His father gave him the opportunity of a liberal education, and he entered Harvard College when he was sixteen years old. It is curious to note that the students were all enrolled according to social position, and John Adams was the fourteenth in his class. In college he was noted for integrity and energy as well as for ability,&#8211;those qualities which the sturdy line of farmers had handed down to their children.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The year he graduated, then twenty years of age, he became teacher of the grammar school in Worcester, Massachusetts. There he earned the money to aid him in studying his profession, and the training was excellent for the young man. He decided that he would be a lawyer, and he wrote: &#8220;But I set out with firm resolutions, never to commit any meanness or injustice in the practice of law.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">There were stirring times in the colonies when John Adams was thirty years old. The British government imposed taxes and searched for goods which had evaded their officers. The matter was brought before the Superior Court. James Otis argued the cause of the merchants; and John Adams listened intently to all this great man said. He afterwards wrote:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>&#8220;Otis was a flame of fire&#8230;. American independence was then and there born. Every man appeared to be ready to get away and to take up arms.&#8221;</em></p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Then the Stamp Act was issued. John Adams&#8217;s whole soul was fired with indignation at the injustice. He drew up a set of resolutions, remonstrating against it. These were adopted, not only by the citizens of Braintree, but by those of more than forty other towns in Massachusetts; and the landing of the Stamp Act paper was prevented. Courts were closed, and the excitement was intense. John Adams boldly said that the Stamp Act was an assumption of arbitrary power, violating both the English constitution and the charter of the province.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">In connection with what is known as &#8220;The Boston Tea Party,&#8221; came the closing of Boston&#8217;s ports, because the tea had been thrown overboard, and the city would not submit to the tax. A Congress was convened in Philadelphia, and John Adams was one of the five delegates sent from Boston. He knew the grave responsibility of the time. With intense feeling he exclaimed: &#8220;God grant us wisdom and fortitude! Should this country submit, what infamy and ruin! Death in any form is less terrible!&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Jefferson and Adams were appointed to draw up the Declaration of Independence. Mr. Adams insisted that Jefferson should prepare it, and he with forty-four others signed it. Mr. Jefferson wrote: &#8220;The great pillar of support to the Declaration of Independence, and its ablest advocate and champion on the floor of the House, was John Adams. He was our Colossus.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">In various ways, John Adams served his country with unswerving loyalty. When Washington was chosen president, Adams was chosen vice-president for both terms, and was then elected president. To the very last he was always ready to give his word&#8211;strong, convincing, powerful as of old&#8211;in the defense of the right, even if he had to stand entirely alone. And the story of his manly independence will always add to the dignity of the early history of our nation.<br />
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<p style="text-align:justify;">This Article is an Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith, which is available from Better Days Books in quality hardbound, sturdy trade paperback and convenient .PDF e-book editions starting at just $4.95.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>Industry, Ambition, Self Control, Self-Respect, Courtesy, Faithfulness, Courage, Duty, Honesty, Enthusiasm, Humility, Patriotism…</em> In every era of our Nation&#8217;s history, the true alchemy by which ordinary boys have been transformed into Great American Men has always and only occurred where these indispensible moral principles have been successfully applied. In an age like our own, where such manly ideals are openly mocked and derided by our popular culture, it&#8217;s time to turn to the past to recapture a clear vision of what it takes to be a <em>Great American</em>, and the true moral and ethical ladder that leads reliably to its attainment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American:  39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> was first published in 1900, under the title <em>The True Citizen, How to Become One</em>, and contains  39 essential lessons in manhood tailored to each age and transition in a boy&#8217;s life, from infancy to adulthood.  It is the clearest roadmap to American Greatness ever compiled for the youth of our Nation, and remains as life-changing today as it was when first published, over 100 years ago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whether you are an adult raising boys in a Traditional family setting, the single parent of a son, or a boy abandoned to no or poor parenting, left to grab your own bootstraps and lift yourself up to a life of achievement, success and All-American Greatness (or an adult who knows a boy in such sad straits), <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American!: 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> is the only guidebook you&#8217;ll ever need.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Also available through <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">Amazon.com</a> in quality <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">trade paperback</a> and <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0012R4L6O/" target="_blank">Kindle e-book download</a> editions.</p>
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<title><![CDATA[The Temperate Man]]></title>
<link>http://betterdaysbooks.wordpress.com/2008/07/03/the-temperate-man/</link>
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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><p><em>The temperate man desires to hold all his pleasures within the limits of what is honorable, and with a proper reference to the amount of his own financial means. To pursue them more is excess; to pursue them less is defect…</em></p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">TEMPERANCE</h2>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>MEMORY GEMS</strong></p>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Rum will brutalize the manliest man in Christendom.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;J. B. Gough</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Rum excites all that is bad, vicious, and criminal in man.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;J. S. White</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>There may be some wit in a barrel of beer,<br />
but there is more in leaving it alone.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211; C. Garrett</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Sobriety is the bridle of the passions of desire, and<br />
temperance is the bit and curb of that bridle; a restraint<br />
put into a man&#8217;s mouth; a moderate use of meat and drink.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Jeremy Taylor</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Temperance is corporeal piety; it is the<br />
preservation of divine order in the body.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211; Theodore Parker</p>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">Temperance may, in its narrower sense, be defined as the observance of a rational medium with respect to the pleasures of eating and drinking. But it has also a larger meaning. The temperate man desires to hold all his pleasures within the limits of what is honorable, and with a proper reference to the amount of his own financial means. To pursue them more is excess; to pursue them less is defect. There is, however, in estimating excess and defect, a certain tacit reference to the average dispositions of men, and the law of usage or custom of the times.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The word temperance has, we repeat, become narrowed and specialized. We mean by it, not exactly temperance, but abstinence. The word does not convey the full force of its older meaning. That signifies, &#8220;the right handling of one&#8217;s self,&#8211;that kind of self-control by which a man&#8217;s nature has a chance to act normally;&#8221; and this aspect of our subject must not be overlooked, for it is of great importance.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Instead of being the secondary thing which some think it to be, temperance is really a much higher virtue than patience or fortitude. It is the guardian of reason, the bulwark of religion, the sister of prudence, and the sweetener of life. Be temperate; and time will carry you forward on its purest current till it lands you on the continent of a yet purer eternity, as the swelling river rolls its limpid stream into the bosom of the unfathomable deep.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">But even in the more general meaning now given to the word, temperance is worthy of our most careful study.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Consider what it is to gain the mastery over a single passion! And think, also, what it is for the mind to be ruled by an appetite! Look at S. T. Coleridge&#8211;a poet who might have sung for all time, a philosopher capable of teaching and molding generations, skulking away from the eye of friends and of servants to drink his bottle of laudanum, and then bewailing his weakness and sin with an agony, the bare recital of which, makes our hearts bleed with pity. Our task is not only to subdue a serpent, to tame a lion,&#8211;there is a whole menagerie of evil passions to be kept in subjection, and when the drink habit prevails, we shall soon become too weak for such a task.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Temperance is an action; it is the tempering of our words and actions to our circumstances. Sobriety is a state in which one is exempt from every stimulus to deviate from the right course. As a man who is intoxicated with wine, runs into excesses, and loses that power of guiding himself which he has when he is sober or free from all intoxication, so is he who is intoxicated with any passion, led into irregularities which a man in his right senses will not be guilty of. Sobriety is, therefore, the state of being in one&#8217;s right or sober senses; and sobriety is, with regard to temperance, as a cause to its effect.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The evils resulting from intemperance are so numerous and so destructive of human happiness and life, as to command universal attention. Not only does intemperance greatly increase pauperism and crime, but it often leads to sad calamities which might otherwise be quite largely avoided.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">An old English sea-captain relates the following fact, of which he was an eyewitness:&#8211;&#8221;A collier brig was stranded on the Yorkshire coast, and I had occasion to assist in the distressing service of rescuing a part of the crew by drawing them up a vertical cliff, two or three hundred feet in altitude, by means of a very small rope, the only material at hand. The first two men who caught hold of the rope were hauled safely up to the top; but the next, after being drawn to a considerable height, slipped his hold and fell; and with the fourth and last who ventured upon this only chance of life, the rope gave way, and he also was plunged into the foaming breakers beneath. Immediately afterward, the vessel broke up, and the remainder of the ill-fated crew perished before our eyes.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;What now was the cause of this heart-rending event? Was it stress of weather, or a contrary wind, or unavoidable accident? No such thing! It was the entire want of moral conduct in the crew. Every sailor, to a man, was in a state of intoxication! The helm was entrusted to a boy ignorant of the coast. He ran the vessel upon the rocks at Whitby; and one half of the miserable, dissipated crew were plunged into eternity almost without a knowledge of what was taking place.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">There are still a few people who openly ridicule both total abstinence and its advocates, and some, who are wicked enough to endeavor to misrepresent those who labor in this cause. These persons do not always succeed, however, as the following incident will show: Horace Greeley was once met at a railway depot by a red-faced individual, who shook him warmly by the hand. &#8220;I don&#8217;t recognize you,&#8221; said Mr. Greeley. &#8220;Why, yes, you must remember how we drank brandy and water together at a certain place.&#8221; This amused the bystanders, who knew Mr. Greeley&#8217;s strong temperance principles. &#8220;Oh, I see,&#8221; replied Mr. Greeley, &#8220;you drank the brandy, and I drank the water.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">It will be found that abstinence from intoxicants is by far the best rule of living. There is a large amount of genuine wisdom in the words of a middle-aged German who, some years ago, spoke as follows, at a temperance meeting: &#8220;I shall tell you how it was. I put my hand on my head; there was one big pain. Then I put my hand on my body; and there was another big pain. There was very much pains in all my body. Then I put my hand in my pocket; and there vas nothing. Now there is no more pain in my head. The pains in my body are all gone away. I put mine hand in my pocket, and there is twenty dollars. So I shall stay with the temperance.&#8221;</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">FATHER MATHEW</h2>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">Theobald Mathew was an Irish priest. He was born in 1790, in a great house in Tipperary, where his father was the agent of a rich lord. The delight of his childhood was in giving little feasts and entertainments to his friends. As long as he lived he was fond of this pleasure. Indeed, when, at the very last, his physician had forbidden him to receive company, he was found by his brother giving a dinner to a party of poor boys.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">At twenty-three years of age he was ordained, and was known from that time as &#8220;Father Mathew.&#8221; After a short time in Kilkenny, he went to Cork, which was his home for the rest of his life. He was not thought much of as a scholar, nor at first as a preacher; but he had a warm heart and every one liked him. Thus he passed quietly along until he was forty-seven years old; and it did not seem as if the world would ever hear of &#8220;Father Mathew.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">There was a little band of Quakers in Cork, who had started a total abstinence, or &#8220;teetotal society.&#8221; They interested Father Mathew in their work, and, in 1838, he signed the temperance pledge and enrolled himself as a member.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Very soon every one in Cork had heard of what Father Mathew had done. He began at once to preach that men ought not to be drunkards, and that they ought not to use what would make drunkards. The people of Cork had always thought what Father Mathew did was right; and they thought so now. In three months twenty-five thousand persons had taken the pledge.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The story of the new movement spread quickly over Ireland, and Father Mathew was wanted everywhere. Wherever he went the people crowded to hear him. There were many pathetic scenes at his meetings; for women came dragging their drunken husbands with them, and almost forcing them to take the pledge. Men knelt in great companies and repeated the words of the pledge together. In Limerick the crowds were so dense that it was impossible to enroll all the names. More than a hundred thousand were thought to have taken the pledge in four days.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">As a result of his work the saloons were closed in many villages and towns; and, within five years, half the people in Ireland had taken the pledge. The quantity of liquor used fell off more than half, and there was a similar decrease in all kinds of crime.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Then came the terrible years of the Irish famine. By the failure of the potato crop, hundreds of thousands died of starvation or of fever. Multitudes had to leave their homes to get government work; and hunger and despair brought a new temptation to drink. Father Mathew&#8217;s heart was well-nigh broken with seeing the misery of his countrymen. The food was taken from his own table to feed the hungry. Every room in his house would sometimes be filled with poor people clamoring for bread; and, largely as a result of this terrible strain, he was stricken with paralysis.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">As soon as Father Mathew had partly recovered from his illness he longed to do something for his people across the sea. In the year 1849 he sailed for New York. The mayor of that city made him an address of welcome; and at Washington he was honored by being admitted to the floor of both houses of Congress. In spite of his broken health, he visited twenty-five states, spoke in over three hundred towns and cities, and gave the pledge to five hundred thousand people. He returned home thoroughly exhausted, and soon had another stroke of paralysis. But loving friends cared for him; people still came for his blessing, or to take the pledge in his presence. He died in 1856, and all the people of Cork followed him to his burial.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">It is said that seven million people took the pledge of total abstinence at Father Mathew&#8217;s hands; and it is thought that hundreds of thousands never broke it. There is now a new feeling about temperance in the English-speaking world. Drunkenness is now looked upon as a disgrace; total abstinence is becoming the habit of increasing numbers of people from year to year; and in the production of this changed feeling, this simple-hearted, earnest Irish priest did more than any other man.<br />
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<p style="text-align:justify;">This Article is an Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith, which is available from Better Days Books in quality hardbound, sturdy trade paperback and convenient .PDF e-book editions starting at just $4.95.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>Industry, Ambition, Self Control, Self-Respect, Courtesy, Faithfulness, Courage, Duty, Honesty, Enthusiasm, Humility, Patriotism…</em> In every era of our Nation&#8217;s history, the true alchemy by which ordinary boys have been transformed into Great American Men has always and only occurred where these indispensible moral principles have been successfully applied. In an age like our own, where such manly ideals are openly mocked and derided by our popular culture, it&#8217;s time to turn to the past to recapture a clear vision of what it takes to be a <em>Great American</em>, and the true moral and ethical ladder that leads reliably to its attainment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American:  39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> was first published in 1900, under the title <em>The True Citizen, How to Become One</em>, and contains  39 essential lessons in manhood tailored to each age and transition in a boy&#8217;s life, from infancy to adulthood.  It is the clearest roadmap to American Greatness ever compiled for the youth of our Nation, and remains as life-changing today as it was when first published, over 100 years ago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whether you are an adult raising boys in a Traditional family setting, the single parent of a son, or a boy abandoned to no or poor parenting, left to grab your own bootstraps and lift yourself up to a life of achievement, success and All-American Greatness (or an adult who knows a boy in such sad straits), <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American!: 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> is the only guidebook you&#8217;ll ever need.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Also available through <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">Amazon.com</a> in quality <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">trade paperback</a> and <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0012R4L6O/" target="_blank">Kindle e-book download</a> editions.</p>
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<title><![CDATA[Do Your Duty]]></title>
<link>http://betterdaysbooks.wordpress.com/2008/07/02/do-your-duty/</link>
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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><p><em>Obedience to the commands of duty, and the ruling desire to be useful, are cardinal elements of success. It is at the trumpet call which duty sounds, that all the nobler attributes of manhood spring into life; and duty is something that must be done without regard to discomfort, sacrifice, or death. It must be done in secret, as well as in public; and according to the measure of our faithfulness in this respect, will be the real measure of our manhood…</em></p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">DUTY</h2>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>MEMORY GEMS</strong></p>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The path of duty is the way to glory.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Tennyson</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>A sense of duty pursues us ever and everywhere.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Webster</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The consciousness of duty performed &#8220;gives us music at midnight.&#8221;</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;George Herbert</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>I slept and dreamed that life was Beauty.<br />
I woke and found that life was Duty.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;E. S. Hooper</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Let us have faith that right makes might; and in that<br />
faith let us dare to do our duty as we understand it.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Abraham Lincoln</p>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">Samuel Smiles, who has written a most excellent book upon this subject, says, &#8220;Duty is the end and aim of the highest life; and it alone is true.&#8221; It is certain that of all the watchwords of life, duty is the highest and best. He who sincerely adopts it lives a true life; he is really the successful man. It pertains to all parts and relations of life. There is no moment, place, or condition where its claims are not imperative.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Obedience to the commands of duty, and the ruling desire to be useful, are cardinal elements of success. It is at the trumpet call which duty sounds, that all the nobler attributes of manhood spring into life; and duty is something that must be done without regard to discomfort, sacrifice, or death. It must be done in secret, as well as in public; and according to the measure of our faithfulness in this respect, will be the real measure of our manhood.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">History and biography are fairly crowded with examples of the faithful performance of duty, and the glorious results which have followed; such as Nelson at Trafalgar, Luther at the Diet of Worms, General Grant in the Civil War; and scores of other instances of note. But equally valuable are the cases of ordinary life. The engineer on the locomotive; the pilot at the helm of the storm-tossed vessel; the mother in her daily routine of work; the merchant upholding laws of trade in honor; the schoolboy plodding through studies in a manly thoroughness; the reformer of slums letting her little candle of service shine in the dark;&#8211;all these and similar instances are full of guidance and inspiration.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">There are two aspects of duty; namely, cheerful duty and drudging duty. One says, &#8220;I want to do something;&#8221; the other says, &#8220;I must.&#8221; Our New England forefathers were followers of duty, but they found very little joy in it, as we understand that word. We should endeavor to improve upon their methods, but we shall find it difficult to improve upon their faithfulness.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The life of Sir Walter Scott affords an interesting illustration of strict obedience to the line of duty. His whole life seems to have been governed by that sense of obligation which caused him, when a young man, to enter a profession which he heartily disliked, out of affection for his father; and, later in life, to set himself to paying off the debt incurred by the publishing house of which he was a silent partner. His sense of duty was expressed in his declaration that, &#8220;If he lived and retained his health, no man should lose a penny by him.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Just what is meant by faithfulness to duty may be clearly seen in the following incident. During the famous <em>dark day</em> of 1780, in Connecticut, candles were lighted in many houses, and domestic fowls went to their roosts. The people thought the day of judgment had come. The legislature was then in session in Hartford. The house of representatives adjourned. In the council, which corresponds to the modern senate, an adjournment was also proposed. Colonel Davenport objected, saying, &#8220;The day of judgment is either approaching, or it is not. If it is not, there is no cause for adjourning; if it is, I choose to be found doing my duty. I wish, therefore, that candles may be brought.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Upon the world&#8217;s great battlefields, this matter of faithfulness to duty has always been deemed of the first importance. Previous to the battle of Lutzen, in which eighty thousand Austrians were defeated by an army of thirty-six thousand Prussians, commanded by Frederick the Great, this monarch ordered all his officers to attend him, and thus addressed them:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;To-morrow I intend giving the enemy battle; and, as it will decide who are to be the future masters of Silesia, I expect every one of you, in the strictest manner, to do his duty. If any one of you is a coward, let him step forward before he makes others as cowardly as himself,&#8211;let him step forward, I say, and he shall immediately receive his discharge without ceremony or reproach. I see there is none among you who does not possess true heroism, and will not display it in defense of his king, of his country, and of himself. I shall be in the front and in the rear; shall fly from wing to wing; no company will escape my notice; and whoever I then find doing his duty, upon him will I heap honor and favor.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Another great military commander was the Duke of Wellington. He once said to a friend: &#8220;There is little or nothing in this life worth living for; but we can all of us go straight forward and do our duty.&#8221; Whether serving at home in his family, or serving his country on the field, his sense of duty was the one high and noble purpose that inspired him. He did not ask, Will this course win fame? Will this battle add to my earthly glory? But always, What is my duty? He did what duty commanded, and followed where it led. It was his firm adherence to what he thought was right, that brought down upon him the violence of a mob in the streets of London, assaulting his person and attacking his house, even while his wife lay dead therein. But the memory of few men is now more greatly honored; and his example is worthy of careful study and close imitation.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The foregoing facts show, far better than argument, both the nature and place of duty in the work of life. We see it in practical operation, always timely, honorable, and attractive. It cannot be discounted or even smirched. It stands out in bold relief, supported by a clear conscience and strong will. It demands recognition, and it always secures it.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">More than sixteen hundred years after an eruption of Vesuvius had buried Pompeii in ashes, explorers laid bare the ruins of the ill-fated city. There the unfortunate inhabitants were found just where they were overtaken by death. Some were discovered in lofty attics and some in deep cellars, whither they had fled before the approaching desolation. Others were found in the streets, through which they were fleeing in wild despair when the tide of volcanic gases and the storm of falling ashes overwhelmed them. But the Roman sentinel was standing at his post, his skeleton-hand still grasping the hilt of his sword, his attitude that of a faithful officer. He was placed there on duty, and death met him at his post.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">No man has a right to say he can do nothing for the benefit of mankind. We forget that men are less benefited by ambitious projects, than by the sober fulfillment of each man&#8217;s proper duties. By doing the proper duty, in the proper time and place, a man may make the entire world his debtor, and may accomplish far more of good than in any other way.</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">LORD NELSON</h2>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">Horatio Nelson was born at Norfolk, England, September 29, 1758. He reached his manhood at a time when the nations of Europe were engaged in deadly strife. A love of adventure and a daring spirit, which developed during his earliest years, inclined him to follow the sea. From his first entrance into this calling, genius and opportunity worked together to make him the leading factor in Great Britain&#8217;s prominence as a naval power.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">For several centuries, previous to the time of Nelson, Great Britain had been rapidly advancing her commerce. In the protection of this commerce many a naval hero won renown; but the tide of influence and of power found in Nelson its perfect fulfillment. He was a man of extraordinary genius. He saw clearly; acted vigorously. He felt that it was his business and his duty to watch over England&#8217;s interests upon the sea; and both men and women felt perfectly safe while Nelson had command. The pure flame of patriotism burned brightly in his heroic soul. He believed, with Lord Sandon, that nothing could be nobler than a first-rate English sailor; and he acted in strict accord with this belief. He attained one victory after another, until the battle of the Nile, one of his most brilliant successes, made the navy of England a terror even to its bravest enemies. The superiority of the English fleet was mainly due to his genius; and the dread his name inspired was one of the principal causes, that, a few years later, kept Napoleon from carrying out his threatened invasion of England.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">His high sense of duty, and what he expected of those under his command, is well illustrated by his signal to the English fleet, when they were about to engage the French in the great naval battle at Trafalgar. When all were ready for the attack, Nelson said, &#8220;I will now amuse the fleet with a signal.&#8221; Turning to the signal officer he exclaimed, &#8220;Send this message,&#8211;&#8217;England expects every man to do his duty.&#8217;&#8221; When the signal was comprehended by the men, cheer after cheer rang out upon the air, and under its inspiration they won a glorious and a decisive victory.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">This message was characteristic of Nelson. Upon his entering into this engagement, which proved to be his last, he is said to have remarked, &#8220;I thank God for this great opportunity of doing my duty.&#8221; While in the thick of the engagement, Nelson was struck down by a cannon ball, and lived but a few hours afterward; but long enough to hear the English shouts of triumph. He had left to the world a type of single-minded self-devotion that can never perish.<br />
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<p style="text-align:justify;">This Article is an Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith, which is available from Better Days Books in quality hardbound, sturdy trade paperback and convenient .PDF e-book editions starting at just $4.95.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>Industry, Ambition, Self Control, Self-Respect, Courtesy, Faithfulness, Courage, Duty, Honesty, Enthusiasm, Humility, Patriotism…</em> In every era of our Nation&#8217;s history, the true alchemy by which ordinary boys have been transformed into Great American Men has always and only occurred where these indispensible moral principles have been successfully applied. In an age like our own, where such manly ideals are openly mocked and derided by our popular culture, it&#8217;s time to turn to the past to recapture a clear vision of what it takes to be a <em>Great American</em>, and the true moral and ethical ladder that leads reliably to its attainment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American:  39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> was first published in 1900, under the title <em>The True Citizen, How to Become One</em>, and contains  39 essential lessons in manhood tailored to each age and transition in a boy&#8217;s life, from infancy to adulthood.  It is the clearest roadmap to American Greatness ever compiled for the youth of our Nation, and remains as life-changing today as it was when first published, over 100 years ago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whether you are an adult raising boys in a Traditional family setting, the single parent of a son, or a boy abandoned to no or poor parenting, left to grab your own bootstraps and lift yourself up to a life of achievement, success and All-American Greatness (or an adult who knows a boy in such sad straits), <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American!: 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> is the only guidebook you&#8217;ll ever need.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Also available through <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">Amazon.com</a> in quality <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">trade paperback</a> and <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0012R4L6O/" target="_blank">Kindle e-book download</a> editions.</p>
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<h3>An Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith</h3>
<p>Entry #<strong>28</strong> in the <em>Raising Great Americans Project! </em><a title="The Raising Great Americans Project" href="http://betterdaysbooks.wordpress.com/2008/05/24/raising-moral-kids-in-an-amoral-culture/" target="_blank">Click Here to learn More</a>!</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">SENTIMENT</h2>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>MEMORY GEMS</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Sentiment is nothing but thought blended with feeling.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;J. F. Clarke</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Sentiment takes part in the shaping of all destinies.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;R. Southey</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>A little child is the sweetest and purest thing in the world.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;J. S. White</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Sentiment is the life and soul of poetry and art.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;J. Flaxman</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Sentiment is emotion precipitated in pretty crystals by the fancy.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;J. R. Lowell</p>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">It is quite difficult to define sentiment. This has been done, however, by the use of the following figures. &#8220;We may think of it as color, without which nothing in nature or art is complete. A colorless character is as unsatisfactory as a colorless landscape. We may also think of it as cement; for it serves to bind together the ordinary facts and incidents of life. Just as the bricks and stones of a building are useless until held in the places designed for them under some governing plan, so we may say that a selfish and gross character is not bound together by noble sentiments. Or we may say, again, that sentiment is the wing-power of man, whereby he has ability to fly away from the commonplace and unworthy. By it the ordinary citizen becomes a glowing patriot; the drudging youth turns into the devoted statesman; and life is made better in a thousand ways.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">In one of our memory gems we find it asserted that &#8220;sentiment is the life and soul of poetry and art.&#8221; Perhaps this statement may help us here. Pure poetry is the perfection of prose, or prose idealized. &#8220;It is a dream drawn from the infinite, and portrayed to mortal sense.&#8221; It takes a great mind, a great genius to weave into a gossamer web, complete and perfect in every part, a story, a tale, an idea, which alike charms the mind, enthralls the sense, and enchains the spirit. Poetry is the perfection of language. It is not a mere mechanical contrivance of words, but a glorious picture in which the outward execution is lost in a glory of expression.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The poet Holmes was brimful of sentiment. Listen to him as he talks about the flowers:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>&#8220;Do you ever wonder why poets talk so much about flowers? Did you ever hear of a poet who did not talk about them? Don&#8217;t you think a poem, which, for the sake of being original, should leave them out, would be like those verses where the letter &#8216;a&#8217; or &#8216;e&#8217; or some other is omitted? No,&#8211;they will bloom over and over again in poems as in the summer fields, to the end of time, always old and always new.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>&#8220;Are you tired of my trivial personalities,&#8211;those splashes and streaks of sentiment, sometimes perhaps of sentimentality, which you may see when I show you my heart&#8217;s corolla as if it were a tulip? Pray, do not give yourself the trouble to fancy me an idiot, whose conceit it is to treat himself as an exceptional being. It is because you are just like me that I talk and know that you listen. We are all splashed and streaked with sentiments,&#8211;not with precisely the same tints, or in exactly the same patterns, but by the same hand and from the same palette.&#8221;</em></p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">To say, as some do, that there is no place for sentiment in life, would be almost equal to saying that life is devoid of joy. But who says there are no joys in life? Take, for example a good pure natural laugh. We hear it bubbling, gushing, pealing out, every now and then, from some glad child of nature; and we say, there is joy in life. The gloom of ages has been lightened with laughter and song.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">There is much to awaken deep and real sentiment in us as we gaze on the tree-tops, the mountains and hillsides, the gurgling waters and sweeping billows; on sunlight, shadow, and storm. Behind the forest-leaf we suddenly discover a songster, the gleam of an oriole&#8217;s breast in a bed of mantling green. Nature always rejoices. She has been singing and laughing all down the ages. She does her part grandly for the happiness of man; and as we come into closer touch with her, sentiment arises as naturally in our hearts, as does the water in her bubbling springs.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">We may find a place for sentiment in all life&#8217;s changeful affairs. Even the stern realities of war do not entirely eradicate from the heart that feeling for suffering humanity, which is the highest expression of sentiment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">There were but few who were so thoughtless as not to be stirred with the feeling which possessed the heart of Captain Phillips, and the crew of the battleship Texas, when, as they stood on the deck, with uncovered heads and reverent souls, on the afternoon of the engagement before Santiago, the knightly old sailor said: &#8220;I want to make public acknowledgment here that I believe in God. I want all you officers and men to lift your hats, and from your hearts offer silent thanks to the Almighty for the victory he has given us.&#8221; But it was not the mere victory over a foe that caused this general and thoughtful lifting of heart; it was exultation at the triumph of justice and the progress of freedom.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The presence or absence of sentiment in our lives is largely accounted for by the fact that we usually find what we are looking for. The geologist sees design and order in the very stones with which the streets are paved. The botanist reads volumes in the flowers and grasses which most men tread thoughtlessly beneath their feet. The astronomer gazes with rapt soul into the starry heavens, while his fellows seldom glance upward. If we seek for the beautiful and the pure, it will be quickly revealed to us; and the sentiment of loving gratitude will arise within us as the result.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Nature takes on our moods; she laughs with those who laugh, and weeps with those who weep. If we rejoice and are glad, the very birds sing more sweetly; the woods and streams murmur our song. But if we are sad and sorrowful, a sudden gloom falls upon nature&#8217;s face; the sun shines, but not in our hearts; the birds sing, but not to us. The beauty of nature&#8217;s music is lost to us, and everything seems dull and gray. The lack of sentiment narrows and belittles us; and, for that reason, we cannot afford to be without it.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">We must always strive to keep in mind how important sentiment is to a happy and useful career, whatever position in life we may happen to occupy. Noble sentiments are the richest possession we can have. They cheer us when we are despondent, they sing to us when we are lonesome, and they help to keep us young. They are like brilliant poets and divine musicians; by whom the true, the good, and the beautiful are kept constantly before our minds.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">It is this trait of character which has to do greatly with worship, reverence, and aspiration. Morality needs to be touched by sentiment or emotion. Sentiment leads us to love sacred spots, to create commemorative days, and to sing songs of gratitude together. It makes life of far greater worth to us in every way. We must also glance at what is known as public sentiment. Public sentiment is not voluntary or self-creative. It is generally a thing of slow growth, springing from a gradual accumulation and development of evidences, impressions, and circumstances. It is a matter of education, impressed upon the masses by the most intelligent or the most influential forces of a community; and as it is often merely the adoption by the masses of the opinions of a class, clique, or ring, it is as likely to be wrong as right, since it frequently serves to popularize evils, the existence and the continuance of which, minister only to the benefit of a few.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">But public sentiment, is after all, quite largely a personal matter. We all help in making it; and we should therefore be exceedingly careful as to the sentiments we personally cherish; for these are a very real part of the sentiments of the community as a whole.</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">BEETHOVEN</h2>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">Perhaps we should be safe in saying that the kingdom of music is especially the realm of sentiment. Music raises us to a loftier plane of thought and feeling. It has been beautifully said that &#8220;The composer&#8217;s world is the world of emotion; full of delicate elations and depressions, which like the hum of minute insects hardly arrest the uncultivated ear.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">We select as our special illustration Ludwig van Beethoven, who was born at Bonn, Prussia, in the year 1770. His father was a musician, and suffered from two great foes,&#8211;a violent temper, and a habit of drink. The family being poor, young Ludwig was made to submit to a severe training on the violin from the time he was four years old, in order to obtain money. By the time he reached the age of nine, he had advanced so far in music that his father could not teach him anything more, and he was passed over to others for further education. When he was fifteen years old he was appointed assistant to the court organist; and, in a description of the various musicians attached to the court, he is described as &#8220;of good capacity, young, of good, quiet behavior, and poor.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">At the court he was an object of admiration, and his popularity was constantly on the increase. Absorbed in meditation, he forgot ordinary affairs. One illustration is as good as a dozen. He loved the sound of flowing water, and frequently would let it run over his hands until, lost in some musical suggestion from the murmur, he would allow the water to pour over the floor of his apartment until it soaked down and astonished the dwellers below.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">He was very democratic, and desired that all men should enjoy freedom and equal rights before the law. When asked once, in court, to produce the proof of his nobility, he pointed to his head and heart, saying, &#8220;My nobility is here, and here.&#8221; His high-strung nervous system would account for many of his peculiarities. By those who did not understand him he was called &#8220;a growling old bear.&#8221; On the other hand, those who appreciated his genius called him &#8220;a cloud-compeller of the world of music.&#8221; He is in music what Milton is in poetry,&#8211;lofty, majestic, stately.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Beethoven died on March 26, 1827, during a terrible thunderstorm. His funeral was attended by all the musicians of Vienna. The crowd of people was so enormous that soldiers had to be called in to make a way for the procession; and it took an hour and a half to pass the little distance from the house to the church.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Sentiment in music leaves one in an uplifted and wholesome state of mind. Sentimentality in music may give a momentary pleasure, but it is really hostile to strength of character; and this truth applies, with equal force, to every other feature of our lives.<br />
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<p style="text-align:justify;">This Article is an Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith, which is available from Better Days Books in quality hardbound, sturdy trade paperback and convenient .PDF e-book editions starting at just $4.95.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>Industry, Ambition, Self Control, Self-Respect, Courtesy, Faithfulness, Courage, Duty, Honesty, Enthusiasm, Humility, Patriotism…</em> In every era of our Nation&#8217;s history, the true alchemy by which ordinary boys have been transformed into Great American Men has always and only occurred where these indispensible moral principles have been successfully applied. In an age like our own, where such manly ideals are openly mocked and derided by our popular culture, it&#8217;s time to turn to the past to recapture a clear vision of what it takes to be a <em>Great American</em>, and the true moral and ethical ladder that leads reliably to its attainment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American:  39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> was first published in 1900, under the title <em>The True Citizen, How to Become One</em>, and contains  39 essential lessons in manhood tailored to each age and transition in a boy&#8217;s life, from infancy to adulthood.  It is the clearest roadmap to American Greatness ever compiled for the youth of our Nation, and remains as life-changing today as it was when first published, over 100 years ago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whether you are an adult raising boys in a Traditional family setting, the single parent of a son, or a boy abandoned to no or poor parenting, left to grab your own bootstraps and lift yourself up to a life of achievement, success and All-American Greatness (or an adult who knows a boy in such sad straits), <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American!: 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> is the only guidebook you&#8217;ll ever need.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Also available through <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">Amazon.com</a> in quality <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">trade paperback</a> and <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0012R4L6O/" target="_blank">Kindle e-book download</a> editions.</p>
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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><p><em>Reverence is a word by itself. It has no synonyms, nor does any other word in the language exactly fill its place. It is not respect; it is not regard; it is not fear; it is not honor. Perhaps awe comes nearest to it; and yet reverence is more than awe. It is awe softened and refined by gentleness and love…</em></p>
<h3>An Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith</h3>
<p>Entry #<strong>27</strong> in the <em>Raising Great Americans Project! </em><a title="The Raising Great Americans Project" href="http://betterdaysbooks.wordpress.com/2008/05/24/raising-moral-kids-in-an-amoral-culture/" target="_blank">Click Here to learn More</a>!</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">REVERENCE</h2>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>MEMORY GEMS</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Reverence is the crown of moral manhood.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211; C. Kingsley</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>No man of sound nature ever makes a mock of reverence.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211; T. T. Munger</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>True reverence is homage tempered by love.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;W. B. Pope</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>In the full glow of the light of our times, only the pure are really revered.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Wilberforce</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Reverence is alike indispensable to the happiness<br />
of individuals, of families, and of nations.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Smiles</p>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">Reverence is a word by itself. It has no synonyms, nor does any other word in the language exactly fill its place. It is not respect; it is not regard; it is not fear; it is not honor. Perhaps awe comes nearest to it; and yet reverence is more than awe. It is awe softened and refined by gentleness and love.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Reverence is a condition of thought and feeling which does not paralyze action, but kindles it; does not deaden sensibility, but quickens it. Even when used in a religious sense, reverence does not stand for religion itself, but as a means or aid to religious thought and life.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The presence or absence of a reverent spirit is of real importance; for it adds to, or takes away from, our enjoyment of the world in which we live. One person finds happiness everywhere and in every occasion; carrying his own holiday with him. Another always appears to be returning from a funeral. One sees beauty and harmony wherever he looks, while another is blind to beauty; the lenses of his eyes seem to be made of smoked glass, draping the whole world in mourning. While one man sees only gravel, fodder, and firewood, as he looks into a richly-wooded park; another is ravished with its beauty. One sees in a matchless rose nothing but an ordinary flower; another penetrates its purpose, and reads in the beauty of its blended colors and its wonderful fragrance the very thoughts of God.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Only the truly reverent soul can catch the higher music of sentient being, with its joys and hopes; its wealth of earnest, aspiring, struggling souls; tolerant, serious, yet sunny; and read those larger possibilities which lie hidden in the great deeps of the most ordinary human life.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">While it is true that only the reverent can fully appreciate nature; it is even more true in regard to human nature. To the reverent mind an old man or woman is an object of tender regard; while by the irreverent, the aged are frequently treated with ingratitude, and sometimes even with contempt.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">One of the lessons most frequently and most strongly impressed upon the Lacedaemonian youth, was to entertain great reverence and respect for old men, and to give them proof of it on all occasions, by saluting them; by making way for them, and giving them place in the streets; by rising up to show them honor in all companies and public assemblies; but, above all, by receiving their advice, and even their reproofs, with docility and submission.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">On one occasion, when there was a great play at the principal theater in Athens, the seats set apart for strangers were filled with Spartan boys; and other seats, not far distant, were filled with Athenian youth. The theater was crowded, when an old man, infirm, and leaning on a staff, entered. There was no seat for him. The Athenian youth called to the old man to come to them, and with great difficulty he picked his way to their benches; but not a boy rose and offered him a seat. Seeing this, the Spartan boys beckoned to the old man to come to them, and, as he approached their benches, every Spartan boy rose, and, with uncovered head, stood until the old man was seated, and then all quietly resumed their seats. Seeing this, the Athenians broke out in loud applause. The old man rose, and, in a voice that filled the theater, said, &#8220;The Athenians know what is right: the Spartans do it.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The great German thinker, Goethe, claimed that three kinds of reverence should be taught to youth,&#8211;for superiors, for equals, and for inferiors. This was an advance over the old ideas; but, in a republic like ours, reverence is not up and down; it is not measured by class distinctions,&#8211;it is a spirit, to be related in sympathetic ways with all human beings as such; and especially with all whose lives are such as to command our respect and esteem.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Reverence can be cultivated, and needs to be cultivated in our times. There is too much mere &#8220;smartness&#8221; abroad. In society and in the world we find a flippant, cynical tone; no doubt much of this is reaction from old-time gloom and severity. But without a reasonable reverence we cannot have good manners, or loyal citizens, or possessors of really beautiful characters.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Reverence is developed by looking for the good in others; by avoiding fault-finding; by associating with high-minded acquaintances; by reading worthy literature; by using language unstained by vulgarity; by striving to enter more and more into the spirit of the noblest lives that come under our notice.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Reverence, then, is not fear; but wonder, solemnity, and veneration. &#8220;It is to cherish a habit of looking upward, and seeing what is noble and good in all things.&#8221; Its blessings are many. By it we can win a masterly judgment to determine the fitness of behavior and habits; it will keep us from thoughtless words and deeds; it will make us respectful to old age and appreciative of the past; and, in many other ways, it will prove itself of real value to all who cultivate and cherish it.</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">HENRY WADSWORTH LONGFELLOW</h2>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">We select, as our special example, Henry Wadsworth Longfellow, the best known of our American poets. The great poet, whoever he may be, is always reverential. His stanzas are crowned with a sacred seriousness. He gives to life a &#8220;grand, true, harmonic interpretation.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Longfellow was born on the 27th of February, 1807, at Portland, Maine. In his earlier years he displayed the same gentle, amiable spirit which filled his after-life with sunshine and goodness.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">He proved himself to be possessed of a very bright mind even as a boy, and entered Bowdoin College when only fourteen years of age. He afterwards served this same institution as professor of modern languages, and in 1835 was called to fill a similar position in Harvard University.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">He visited Europe, twice at least, for purposes of study; and, on his return from his second trip, began that illustrious career of instruction and authorship which has been the source of so much honorable pride on the part of his countrymen. Longfellow selected a historic home in Cambridge; it was the house occupied by Washington when he took command of the United States Army in 1776,&#8211;a spacious structure, full of welcoming windows, and situated in the midst of old elms. Here he lived till his death; and now the stretch of land, from the estate to the river Charles, has been bought and adorned as a memorial.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The writings of Longfellow are household possessions, fully as much in England as in America, and we need not enumerate them. They are famous not so much for originality, as for their calm, spiritual, purifying messages. They are full of good-will, aspiration, trust, and real loftiness of tone. Indeed, Longfellow &#8220;loved to make clear his discipleship to him whose ministry was love, whose flock was all humanity, whose kingdom was peace and righteousness.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">So deep was the impression made by Mr. Longfellow&#8217;s beauty of character, that it equaled his literary fame. He always responded to callers, and they came by hundreds; he never refused his autograph; children loved him; his charities were manifold; young authors received his encouragement. Modest as to his own writings, he strove to praise the good in others. Every one who met him perceived the source of all this rare grace and fascinating nobility of soul to be a sense of the glory and divineness of all life. His soul stood in a reverential attitude toward existence, and a marvelous light shone through him and his poetry as the result.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Down to the last his pen was active. He died on the 24th of March, 1882. Degrees and honors had been freely bestowed on him; but the highest tributes came from his admirers on both sides of the Atlantic; and his reverential spirit still lives in hundreds of those who read his beautiful verses.<br />
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<p style="text-align:justify;">This Article is an Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith, which is available from Better Days Books in quality hardbound, sturdy trade paperback and convenient .PDF e-book editions starting at just $4.95.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>Industry, Ambition, Self Control, Self-Respect, Courtesy, Faithfulness, Courage, Duty, Honesty, Enthusiasm, Humility, Patriotism…</em> In every era of our Nation&#8217;s history, the true alchemy by which ordinary boys have been transformed into Great American Men has always and only occurred where these indispensible moral principles have been successfully applied. In an age like our own, where such manly ideals are openly mocked and derided by our popular culture, it&#8217;s time to turn to the past to recapture a clear vision of what it takes to be a <em>Great American</em>, and the true moral and ethical ladder that leads reliably to its attainment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American:  39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> was first published in 1900, under the title <em>The True Citizen, How to Become One</em>, and contains  39 essential lessons in manhood tailored to each age and transition in a boy&#8217;s life, from infancy to adulthood.  It is the clearest roadmap to American Greatness ever compiled for the youth of our Nation, and remains as life-changing today as it was when first published, over 100 years ago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whether you are an adult raising boys in a Traditional family setting, the single parent of a son, or a boy abandoned to no or poor parenting, left to grab your own bootstraps and lift yourself up to a life of achievement, success and All-American Greatness (or an adult who knows a boy in such sad straits), <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American!: 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> is the only guidebook you&#8217;ll ever need.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Also available through <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">Amazon.com</a> in quality <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">trade paperback</a> and <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0012R4L6O/" target="_blank">Kindle e-book download</a> editions.</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">ORDER</h2>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>MEMORY GEMS</strong></p>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Accuracy is the twin brother of honesty.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211; C. Simmons</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Without method, little can be done to any good purpose.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211; Macaulay</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>A place for everything, and everything in its place.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211; Old Proverb</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Order is the law of all intelligible existence.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211; Blackie</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Order is the sanity of the mind, the health of the body,<br />
the peace of the city, and the security of the state.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211; Southey</p>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">The two words &#8220;order&#8221; and &#8220;method&#8221; are so closely akin to each other that it is quite difficult to separate them, even in the mind. &#8220;Order is heaven&#8217;s first law,&#8221; it is said; also, &#8220;Method consists in the right choice of means to an end.&#8221; Here a distinction is made; but the two words taken together, cover the line of thought we now wish to follow.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Children nowadays do not learn to read as they once did. They go to kindergartens; but order is the rule even in such play-schools, and it is the one great reason why they succeed. All schools and colleges depend upon order for successful work. He who every morning plans the transactions of the day,&#8221; says Victor Hugo, &#8220;and follows out that plan, carries a thread that will guide him through the labyrinth of the most busy life. The orderly arrangement of his time is like a ray of light which darts itself through all his occupations. But where no plan is laid, where the disposal of time is surrendered merely to the chance of incidents, all things lie huddled together in one chaos, which admits of neither distribution nor review.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">There is no talent like method; and no accomplishment that man can possess, like perseverance. These two powers will usually overcome every obstacle; and there is no position which a young man may not hope to secure, when, guided by these principles, he sets out upon the great highway of life. In after years, the manners and habits of the man are not so readily adapted to any prescribed course to which they have been unaccustomed. But in youth habits of system, method, and industry, are as easily formed as others; and the benefits and enjoyments which result from them, are more than the wealth and honors which they always secure.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;Never study on speculation,&#8221; says Waters; &#8220;all such study is vain. Form a plan, have an object; then work for it, learn all you can about it, and you will be sure to succeed. What I mean by studying on speculation, is that aimless learning of things because they may be useful at some time; which is like the conduct of the woman who bought at auction a brass door-plate with the name Thompson on it, thinking it might some day be of service.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Orderly boys and girls are fair scholars, firm friends, and good planners; they make few mistakes, and succeed pretty well in all they do. Order does not make a genius; but a genius without order is exasperating when he is a man, and is only pardoned for his want of order when he is a boy because he is expected to do better each day. Begin with orderly <em>habits</em>; next day try order in <em>thought</em>; and then will follow naturally order in <em>principles</em>.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;You would be the greatest man of your age, Grattan,&#8221; said Curran, &#8220;if you would buy a few yards of red tape and tie up your bills and papers.&#8221; Curran realized that methodical people are accurate as a rule, and successful.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The celebrated Nathaniel Emmons, whose learning made him famous through all New England, claimed that he could not work at all, unless order reigned about him. For more than fifty years the same chairs stood in the same places in his study; his hat hung on the same hook; the shovel stood on the north side of the open fireplace, and the tongs on the south side; and all his books and papers were so arranged that he claimed to be able to find any information he needed in three or four minutes.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The demand for perfection in the make-up of Wendell Phillips was wonderful. Every word must express the exact shade of his thought; every phrase must be of due length and cadence; every sentence must be perfectly balanced before it left his lips. Exact precision characterized his style. He was easily the first legal orator America has produced. The rhythmical fullness and poise of his periods are remarkable.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">A. T. Stewart was extremely systematic and precise in all his transactions. Method ruled in every department of his store, and for every delinquency a penalty was rigidly enforced. His eye was upon his business in all its various branches; he mastered every detail and worked hard.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">It has also been repeatedly asserted that Noah Webster never could have prepared his dictionary in thirty-six years, unless the most exacting method had come to the rescue. He himself claimed that his orderly methods saved him ten or twenty years, and a vast amount of anxiety and trouble.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Good habits are the first steps in order for children,&#8211;punctuality, neatness, a place for everything. Yet, do not let habits master you, so that you never can do anything except in a fixed manner at a fixed time, and cannot give up your way of doing for the sake of something greater.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">It is true, however, that there is a wonderful force in mere regularity. A writer by the name of Bergh tells of a man beginning business, who opened and shut his store at the same hour every day for weeks, without selling two cents&#8217; worth of goods, yet whose application attracted attention and paved the way to fortune.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Sir Walter Scott has also said that &#8220;When a regiment is under march, the rear is often thrown into confusion because the front does not move steadily and without interruption. It is the same thing with business. If that which is first in hand be not instantly, steadily, and regularly dispatched, other things accumulate behind, till affairs begin to press all at once, and no human brain can stand the confusion.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The great enemy of order is laziness. It is too much trouble to do a thing when it ought to be done, instead of doing it when you want to do it. Young people should learn to think, talk, read in an orderly manner.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The country, the state, the town, the home, depend upon order. Supposing each person did what he wished, without regard to the welfare of others,&#8211;that meals, parties, lessons, came at any time; that caucuses and elections happened when any one desired them; that prisons and hospitals took people or not, just as superintendents felt; that everybody was a self-constituted policeman, yet no one wanted to be looked after himself;&#8211;what a hard time all people would have!</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">A very important point still remains to be noticed. It is this: Our principles ought to be strong enough to govern our habits. Habits may make us disagreeable and fussy; principles make us broad, far-seeing, sympathetic, and independent. Success in life depends upon having the <em>principle</em> of order. Always do the <em>important</em> thing <em>first</em>; for that is what order means. Some boys and girls are orderly about their rooms, but disorderly in their ways of doing things,&#8211;always in a hurry, and always puzzled what to do next. Orderly people make plans, allow a margin of time for carrying them out, so that they shall not overlap one duty with another; and then, if there is any time left, they fill it with some extra employment or enjoyment, which they have kept in the background all ready for use.</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">JOHN WESLEY</h2>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">If John Wesley had not been such an orderly boy, he never could have been the founder of Methodism. He was born at Epworth, England, in 1703, and had nineteen brothers and sisters, though only ten of them lived long enough to be educated.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">His brother Charles was his intimate companion. When students at Oxford, they and two other friends formed a small society, which was called the &#8220;Holy Club&#8221; by those who laughed at it. They had sets of questions, labeled in order for their examination. From the exact regularity of their lives and their methods of study, they came to be called Methodists, in allusion to some ancient physicians who were so termed. The name was so quaint that it became immediately popular. They visited the poor and sick, and had regular lists of inquiries and rules for general use.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">All the orderly habits of his youth guided him even when he became a man; and the amount of work he accomplished is almost beyond belief. In the last three years of his life, although sick nearly all the time, he preached as many times as ever until a week before his death, in 1791. Always anxious never to lose a moment, and to be methodical in all his habits, he read as he traveled on horseback for forty years. He delivered forty thousand sermons, and wrote many books and essays, and gave away in charity one hundred and fifty thousand dollars, which was a great sum in those days.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The secret of John Wesley&#8217;s success began in his love of order, and culminated in the wonderful, orderly discipline of the immense Methodist denomination. At his death there were nearly eighty thousand members, whose leaders, great and little, had definite duties to perform. Yet, in his love for order, he never lost sight of individual poor and sick people, but remembered to serve each one.<br />
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<p style="text-align:justify;">This Article is an Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith, which is available from Better Days Books in quality hardbound, sturdy trade paperback and convenient .PDF e-book editions starting at just $4.95.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>Industry, Ambition, Self Control, Self-Respect, Courtesy, Faithfulness, Courage, Duty, Honesty, Enthusiasm, Humility, Patriotism…</em> In every era of our Nation&#8217;s history, the true alchemy by which ordinary boys have been transformed into Great American Men has always and only occurred where these indispensible moral principles have been successfully applied. In an age like our own, where such manly ideals are openly mocked and derided by our popular culture, it&#8217;s time to turn to the past to recapture a clear vision of what it takes to be a <em>Great American</em>, and the true moral and ethical ladder that leads reliably to its attainment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American:  39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> was first published in 1900, under the title <em>The True Citizen, How to Become One</em>, and contains  39 essential lessons in manhood tailored to each age and transition in a boy&#8217;s life, from infancy to adulthood.  It is the clearest roadmap to American Greatness ever compiled for the youth of our Nation, and remains as life-changing today as it was when first published, over 100 years ago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whether you are an adult raising boys in a Traditional family setting, the single parent of a son, or a boy abandoned to no or poor parenting, left to grab your own bootstraps and lift yourself up to a life of achievement, success and All-American Greatness (or an adult who knows a boy in such sad straits), <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American!: 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> is the only guidebook you&#8217;ll ever need.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Also available through <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">Amazon.com</a> in quality <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">trade paperback</a> and <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0012R4L6O/" target="_blank">Kindle e-book download</a> editions.</p>
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<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2008 04:12:45 +0000</pubDate>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">From Boy to Man:</h2>
<h2 style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:#ffffff;">.</span>THE SECOND TRANSITION PERIOD</h2>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>MEMORY GEMS</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>It is the pushing fellows who get well to the front.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;William Black</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The tricky, underhanded individual pays higher for all he gets.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;W. M. Thackeray</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>A man ought to be something more than the son of his father.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;J. Staples White</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Honor and shame from no condition rise;<br />
Act well your part, there all the honor lies.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Pope</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The darkest hour in the life of any young man is when he sits<br />
down to study how to get money without honestly earning it.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Horace Greeley</p>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">If we have seen that the first transition period in life is that which marks the passing of the child into the youth, then we may safely speak of the second transition period as that which marks the passing of the youth into the man.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Usually there is involved in this change the leaving of the parental home; the selecting of a business or profession; and, sometimes, the establishment of a new home, and the assuming of the cares of family life. It is, therefore, of importance that we should guard all the several interests of this period with more than ordinary care, and especially that we should acquaint ourselves with those facts and principles which have successfully guided others through a similar experience.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">First of all we must make a careful study of our possibilities. Young men are constantly worrying lest they be failures and nonentities. Every man will count for all he is worth. There is as steady and constant a ratio between what a man is, and what he can accomplish, as there is between what a ton of dynamite is, and what it can accomplish. There is as much a science of success as there is a science of mathematics. A great deal depends on the matter of laying in supplies, accumulating primary stuff. A man is never too young to have that fact put before him, and never too old to have it rehearsed. He will understand and appreciate the truth of it before he gets through life; and it is a great pity for him not to have, at least, a little appreciation of it near the beginning, so as to frame his initial years in accordance with it.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Let, therefore, nothing escape your observation&#8211;deem nothing below your notice. Dive into all depths, and explore all hidden recesses that will render you a master of every department of any business or profession you may engage in. The man who can render himself generally useful has always a better chance of getting on in the world. Whatever you thoroughly acquire will be a source of satisfaction and profit to you throughout your future life. It will save you many an anxious hour by day, and many a restless one by night. Remember that the whole is made up of parts, and that the parts must be well understood before you can master the whole. You will never be able to manage your business successfully without a thorough knowledge of it in all its details. Resolve, therefore, at the very commencement of your career, to acquire such knowledge.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Young people sometimes say, &#8220;I shall never get an opportunity of showing what is in me, for every business is now so crowded.&#8221; Shakespeare has answered this when he said, &#8220;There is a tide in the affairs of men, which taken at the flood, leads on to fortune.&#8221; As a matter of fact opportunities come to all, but all are not ready for them when they come. Successful men are those who prepare themselves for all emergencies, and take advantage of the occasion when the favorable time comes.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">A good many young men excuse themselves from ever becoming anything, or doing anything, by the fact that they always live where it is low tide. Perhaps that is because it is always low tide where they live. At any rate, the more we learn of the history of the men who have succeeded, the more apparent it becomes that if they were born in low water, they patched up their tattered circumstances, and beat out to sea on a tide of their own making.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">If you would be a success in the business world, then you must master everything that you lay your hands upon. Bear in mind that this is your own interest, as well as your duty toward your employer. Think nothing below your attention; do not be afraid of drudgery. Investigate all, comprehend all, grasp all, and master all. Business, like an ingenious piece of machinery, is made up of many complicated parts. Analyze it, therefore, thoroughly search all its parts, and know for yourself how they are put together.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">You may cherish the hope that you will one day be an employer yourself. It would be very desirable if we could repose unlimited confidence in the words and acts of our fellow-men; but, unfortunately, the condition of the world is not as yet sufficiently advanced to enable us to do so. Where you will find one that you can trust, you will find many that need watching. If you should be unacquainted with some of your business details, you must trust to others, and may in consequence be deceived. A few months of careful attention to it at the commencement of your career will secure you against deception throughout the whole of your life as an employer.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Then you must also be careful to remember that dividends in life are not paid until the investment of personal effort has been made. Sowing still antedates reaping; and the amount sowed determines pretty closely the size of the harvest. Whether it be young men or wheat fields the interest can be depended upon to keep up with the capital, and empty barns in October are the logical consequence of empty furrows in spring. The young man may as well understand that there are no gratuities in this life, and that success is never reached &#8220;across lots.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Success means, all the way through to the finish, a victory over difficulties; and if the young aspirant lacks the grit to face and down the difficulty that happens to confront him at the start, there is little reason to expect that his valor will show to any better advantage in his encounter with enemies that get in his way later.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Young men are apt to imitate each other. Let your conduct be such as to bear imitation; otherwise you will lead those who are younger than you to form injurious habits, and be the means of leading them away from the path of duty. It is an obligation you owe your seniors. In the discharge of their duties they will have to depend upon you to a certain extent; and if your part is not properly performed, the whole system must unavoidably suffer derangement.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">If the mind is temperate in feeling, deliberate in choosing, and robust in its willing, character becomes set and enduring. If, on the contrary, feeling is volatile, choice fickle, and the will flabby, one quality after another awakens momentary admiration and impulse; ideals succeed each other as the vanishing visions of a dream; life is passed in a state of perpetual inward contradiction; and failure, both for yourselves and for your imitators, is almost sure to follow.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">No young man can remain long in this unsettled or transition state; but he must become something. You will therefore do well to be careful how you tread this probationary ground; for it is really the one great opportunity of your lives so far as concerns the formation of your general characters. Use it thoughtfully and well, and your manhood will be stronger, richer, and more helpful, all through your later years.<br />
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<p style="text-align:justify;">This Article is an Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith, which is available from Better Days Books in quality hardbound, sturdy trade paperback and convenient .PDF e-book editions starting at just $4.95.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>Industry, Ambition, Self Control, Self-Respect, Courtesy, Faithfulness, Courage, Duty, Honesty, Enthusiasm, Humility, Patriotism…</em> In every era of our Nation&#8217;s history, the true alchemy by which ordinary boys have been transformed into Great American Men has always and only occurred where these indispensible moral principles have been successfully applied. In an age like our own, where such manly ideals are openly mocked and derided by our popular culture, it&#8217;s time to turn to the past to recapture a clear vision of what it takes to be a <em>Great American</em>, and the true moral and ethical ladder that leads reliably to its attainment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American:  39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> was first published in 1900, under the title <em>The True Citizen, How to Become One</em>, and contains  39 essential lessons in manhood tailored to each age and transition in a boy&#8217;s life, from infancy to adulthood.  It is the clearest roadmap to American Greatness ever compiled for the youth of our Nation, and remains as life-changing today as it was when first published, over 100 years ago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whether you are an adult raising boys in a Traditional family setting, the single parent of a son, or a boy abandoned to no or poor parenting, left to grab your own bootstraps and lift yourself up to a life of achievement, success and All-American Greatness (or an adult who knows a boy in such sad straits), <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American!: 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> is the only guidebook you&#8217;ll ever need.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Also available through <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">Amazon.com</a> in quality <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">trade paperback</a> and <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0012R4L6O/" target="_blank">Kindle e-book download</a> editions.</p>
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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><p><em>Loyalty is also a form of faithfulness. It is patriotism in practice. Only the patriotic citizen is loyal to his country. The absence of this sentiment, in times of national peril, exposes one to indecision and cowardice, if not to treason. Hence its great value and beauty. It is indispensable to good citizenship; indeed there is no true manhood and womanhood without it. It is involved in the American idea of republican institutions. It is loyalty alone which makes it possible for our country to continue on its course from year to year…</em></p>
<h3>An Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith</h3>
<p>Entry #<strong>24</strong> in the <em>Raising Great Americans Project! </em><a title="The Raising Great Americans Project" href="http://betterdaysbooks.wordpress.com/2008/05/24/raising-moral-kids-in-an-amoral-culture/" target="_blank">Click Here to learn More</a>!</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">FAITHFULNESS</h2>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>MEMORY GEMS</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:#ffffff;">.</span></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Faithfulness is the soul of goodness.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;J. S. White</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>That which we love most in men and women is faithfulness.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;S. Brooke</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>It is the fidelity in the daily drill which turns<br />
the raw recruit into the accomplished soldier.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;W. M. Punshon</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The secret of success in life is for a man<br />
to be faithful to all his duties and obligations.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Disraeli</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The truest test of civilization is not the census, nor the size of<br />
cities, nor the crops; but the kind of men the country turns out.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Emerson</p>
<p><span style="color:#ffffff;">.</span></p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Faithfulness is just as possible to boys and girls as to men and women. To be faithful is to be true to our own convictions,&#8211;never acting without or against them,&#8211;and true to our professions,&#8211;never breaking promises, or swerving from engagements.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Exactly what we mean will readily be seen in the following incident:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">When Blucher was hastening over bad roads to help Wellington at Waterloo, his troops faltered. &#8220;It can&#8217;t be done,&#8221; said they. &#8220;It must be done,&#8221; was his reply. &#8220;I have promised to be there&#8211; <em>promised</em>, do you hear? You wouldn&#8217;t have me break my word!&#8221; It was done, as we all know; and the result of his faithfulness was a great victory for Wellington, and the complete overthrow of Napoleon.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Faithfulness in the daily routine of school work has laid the foundation of many a noble character. There is no one thing which will sooner wreck a young man, and utterly ruin his future prospects, than the reputation of being lazy and shiftless.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Mr. Ruskin, speaking of the importance of faithfulness among the young people of England, said, &#8220;Could I give the youth of this country but one word of advice it would be this: <em>Let no moment pass until you have extracted from it every possibility. Watch every grain in the hourglass</em>.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Sir Walter Scott, writing to his son at school, says: &#8220;I cannot too much impress upon your mind that faithfulness is a condition imposed on us in every station of life; there is nothing worth having that can be had without it. As for knowledge, it can no more be planted in the human mind without labor than a field of wheat can be produced without the previous use of the plow. If we neglect our spring, our summer will be useless and contemptible, our harvest will be chaff, and the winter of our old age unrespected and desolate.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">It will be seen, therefore, that all young persons should endeavor to make each day stand for something. Neither heaven nor earth has any place for the drone; he is a libel on his species. No glamour of wealth or social prestige can hide his essential ugliness. It is better to carry a hod, or wield a shovel, in an honest endeavor to be of some use to humanity, than to be nursed in luxury and be a parasite.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The emptiness and misery sometimes found in idle high life is illustrated by the following letter, written by a French countess to the absent count:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;DEAR HUSBAND:&#8211;Not knowing what else to do I will write to you. Not knowing what to say, I will now close. Wearily yours, COUNTESS DE R.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Of course we must admit that there is variety in the distribution of human talents; and yet no one of us is incompletely furnished. Each one has to be faithful only according to the measure of his trust, and is not expected to make disproportionate gains. Some men are especially fortunate both in opportunities and in resources, while to others, chances of advancement come but seldom; but the man of few opportunities may be just as faithful as the man who has many.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">If you would be accounted faithful, you must do little things as if they were great, and great things as if they were little and easy. That is the true road to success; and your place or station in life has very little to do with it.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Calais is a pleasant seaport town of France, situated on the Straits of Dover. Large numbers of travelers from England to France, and from France to England, pass through this beautiful town. Near the center of it is a lighthouse, one hundred and eighteen feet high, on which is placed a revolving light that can be seen by vessels twenty miles out at sea.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">At one time some gentlemen were visiting the tower upon which the light is placed, when the watchman who has charge of the burners commenced praising their brilliancy. One of the gentlemen then said to him, &#8220;What if one of the lights should chance to go out?&#8221; &#8220;Impossible!&#8221; replied the watchman, with amazement at the bare thought of such neglect of duty. &#8220;Sir,&#8221; said he, pointing to the ocean, &#8220;yonder, where nothing can be seen, there are ships going to every part of the world. If to-night one of my burners were out, within six months would come a letter—from India, perhaps from the islands of the Pacific Ocean, perhaps from some place I never heard of&#8211;saying that on such a night, at such an hour, the light of Calais burned dim; the watchman neglected his post, and vessels were in danger. Ah, sir, sometimes on dark nights, in the stormy weather, I look out at sea, and I feel as if the eyes of the whole world were looking at my light! My light go out! Calais&#8217;s burners grow dim! No, never!&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Exactly the opposite of this is seen in the incident which follows:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">A few years ago, the keeper of a life-saving station on the Atlantic coast found that his supply of powder had given out. The nearest village was two or three miles distant, and the weather was inclement. He concluded that it &#8220;was not worth while to go so far for such a trifle.&#8221; That night a vessel was wrecked within sight of the station. A line could have been given to the crew if he had been able to use the mortar; but he had no powder. He saw the drowning men perish one by one, knowing that he alone was to blame. A few days afterward he was justly dismissed from the service.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Faithfulness must especially take into account the feelings and expectations we have raised in other minds. In this matter we cannot be too careful. It is said of Lord Chatham that he once promised his son that he should be present at the pulling down of a garden wall. The wall was, however, taken down during his absence, through forgetfulness; but, feeling the importance of his word being held sacred, Lord Chatham ordered the workman to rebuild it, that his son might witness its destruction according to his father&#8217;s promise.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Loyalty is also a form of faithfulness. It is patriotism in practice. Only the patriotic citizen is loyal to his country. The absence of this sentiment, in times of national peril, exposes one to indecision and cowardice, if not to treason. Hence its great value and beauty. It is indispensable to good citizenship; indeed there is no true manhood and womanhood without it. It is involved in the American idea of republican institutions. It is loyalty alone which makes it possible for our country to continue on its course from year to year.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">This form of faithfulness is just now commanding attention throughout our land. The national flag is flung to the breeze over our schoolhouses, that American youth may not forget their allegiance to the government it represents. The stars and stripes floating over the temples of knowledge, wherein our youth are being trained for usefulness and honor, is worth far more to us than we realize; and we should always be ready to hail it with joyous songs and cheers.</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">CYRUS W. FIELD</h2>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">One of the greatest enterprises of modern times, was the laying of the first Atlantic cable. Cyrus W. Field became impressed with the feasibility of this project. He induced capitalists to put their money into it; and then plunged into the work with all the force of his being. The faithfulness with which he performed his task gained for him the united praise of two continents.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">By hard work he secured aid for his company from the British government; but in Congress he encountered such bitter opposition from a powerful lobby that his measure had a majority of only one in the senate.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The cable was loaded upon the Agamemnon, the flagship of the British fleet at Sebastopol, and upon the Niagara, a magnificent new frigate of the United States navy; but, when five miles of cable had been paid out, it caught in the machinery and parted. On the second trial, when two hundred miles at sea, the electric current was suddenly lost, and men paced the decks nervously and sadly, as if in the presence of death. Just as Mr. Field was about to give the order to cut the cable, the current returned as quickly and mysteriously as it had disappeared. The following night, when the ship was moving but four miles an hour and the cable running out at the rate of six miles, the brakes were applied too suddenly just as the steamer gave a heavy lurch, and the cable broke and sank to the bottom of the sea.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Directors were disheartened, the public skeptical, capitalists were shy, and, but for the faith of Mr. Field, who worked day and night, almost without food or sleep, the whole project would have been abandoned.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">A third attempt also resulted in failure, but not discouraged by all these difficulties, Mr. Field went to work with a will, organized a new company, and made a new cable far superior to anything before used; and, on July 13, 1866, was begun the trial which ended with the following message sent to New York:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;HEART&#8217;S CONTENT, July 27.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;We arrived here at nine o&#8217;clock this morning. All well. Thank God! The cable is laid and is in perfect working order. CYRUS W. FIELD.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Such, in brief, is the story of the faithful performance of a seemingly impossible task. It was a long, hard struggle, covering nearly thirteen years of anxious watching and ceaseless toil. But the name and fame of Cyrus W. Field will long be cherished and remembered by a grateful people.<br />
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<p style="text-align:justify;">This Article is an Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith, which is available from Better Days Books in quality hardbound, sturdy trade paperback and convenient .PDF e-book editions starting at just $4.95.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>Industry, Ambition, Self Control, Self-Respect, Courtesy, Faithfulness, Courage, Duty, Honesty, Enthusiasm, Humility, Patriotism…</em> In every era of our Nation&#8217;s history, the true alchemy by which ordinary boys have been transformed into Great American Men has always and only occurred where these indispensible moral principles have been successfully applied. In an age like our own, where such manly ideals are openly mocked and derided by our popular culture, it&#8217;s time to turn to the past to recapture a clear vision of what it takes to be a <em>Great American</em>, and the true moral and ethical ladder that leads reliably to its attainment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American:  39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> was first published in 1900, under the title <em>The True Citizen, How to Become One</em>, and contains  39 essential lessons in manhood tailored to each age and transition in a boy&#8217;s life, from infancy to adulthood.  It is the clearest roadmap to American Greatness ever compiled for the youth of our Nation, and remains as life-changing today as it was when first published, over 100 years ago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whether you are an adult raising boys in a Traditional family setting, the single parent of a son, or a boy abandoned to no or poor parenting, left to grab your own bootstraps and lift yourself up to a life of achievement, success and All-American Greatness (or an adult who knows a boy in such sad straits), <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American!: 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> is the only guidebook you&#8217;ll ever need.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Also available through <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">Amazon.com</a> in quality <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">trade paperback</a> and <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0012R4L6O/" target="_blank">Kindle e-book download</a> editions.</p>
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<title><![CDATA[Humility - The Greatest Virtue, and the Antidote to Public School "Self-Esteem" Brainwashing. Save Your Child and America!]]></title>
<link>http://betterdaysbooks.wordpress.com/2008/06/24/humility-the-greatest-virtue-and-the-antidote-to-public-school-self-esteem-brainwashing-save-your-child-and-america/</link>
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<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><p><em>Humility is not lack of courage; it is not the poverty of spirit which shrinks from encounter. So far from destroying moral force, it protects and strengthens it; it sternly represses the little vanities through which strength of character evaporates and is lost. It is a noble trait in peasant or in prince, in the cottage of the workman or in the mansion of the millionaire…</em></p>
<h3>An Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith</h3>
<p>Entry #<strong>23</strong> in the <em>Raising Great Americans Project! </em><a title="The Raising Great Americans Project" href="http://betterdaysbooks.wordpress.com/2008/05/24/raising-moral-kids-in-an-amoral-culture/" target="_blank">Click Here to learn More</a>!</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">HUMILITY</h2>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>MEMORY GEMS</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><span style="color:#ffffff;">.</span><em>Humility is the true cure for many a needless heartache.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;A. Montague</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>It is easy to look down on others; to<br />
look down on ourselves is the difficulty.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Lord Peterborough</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Humility is a divine veil which covers our<br />
good deeds, and hides them from our eyes.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;St. John Climacas</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Humility is the root, mother, nurse, foundation, and bond of all virtue.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Chrysostom</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Modest humility is beauty&#8217;s crown; for the beautiful<br />
is a hidden thing, and shrinks from its own power.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Schiller</p>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">We pass now from the strong and active virtue of self-help, to the gentle and passive virtue of humility. In doing so, we quickly discover that it requires a sound moral judgment to strike the right balance between humility and self-reliance, and between meekness and self-respect. The true man is both meek and self-reliant, humble and yet by no means incapable of self-assertion. The really strong man is the most thoroughly gentle of men, and the genuinely self-confident man is the one who is most truly humble in his regard for the rights and interests of others.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">We have great need of this particular grace, and we ought to study its relation to our life in general; for we should often have reason to be ashamed of our most brilliant actions if the world could see the motives from which they spring.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Humility has been well defined as &#8220;a simple and lowly estimation of one&#8217;s self.&#8221; When practically thought of, it is mostly looked upon in a negative light, and considered as the absence of, or opposite to, pride.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The general line of human thinking rather tends in the opposite direction; but experience teaches that if we wish to be great, we shall do well to begin by being little. If we desire to construct a strong and noble character, we must not forget that the greatest lives have always rested on foundations of humility. The higher your structure is to be, the deeper must be its foundation.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Humility does not consist in a disposition falsely to underrate ourselves, &#8220;but in being willing to waive our rights, and descend to a lower place than is our due; in being ready to admit our liability to error, and in freely owning our faults when conscious of having been wrong; and, in short, in not being over-careful of our own dignity.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">This virtue is the friend of intellect instead of its enemy, because humility is both a moral instinct which seeks truth, and a moral instrument for attaining truth. It leads us to base our knowledge on truth; it also leads us truthfully to recognize the real measure of our capacity.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">All really great men have been humble men in spirit and temper. Such was Lincoln; such was Washington. Izaac Walton relates how George Herbert helped a poor man whose horse had fallen under his load, laying off his coat for that purpose, aiding him to unload, and then again to load his cart. When his friends rebuked Herbert for this service he said that &#8220;the thought of what he had done would prove music to him at midnight, for he felt bound, so far as was in his power, to practice that for which he prayed.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">An instance often cited, but always beautiful, is that of Sir Philip Sidney when mortally wounded at Zutphen as described by an old writer:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;Being thirsty with an excess of bleeding, he called for drink, which was presently brought him; but as he was putting the bottle to his mouth, he saw a poor soldier carried along, casting up his eyes at the bottle; which Sir Philip perceiving, took it from his lips before he drank, and delivered it to the poor man with these words: &#8216;Thy necessity is yet greater than mine.&#8217;&#8221; It mattered nothing to Sir Philip that he was an officer and therefore of higher standing than the poor private. He humbled himself and did a kindly action, and his noble deed will never be forgotten.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Humility is not lack of courage; it is not the poverty of spirit which shrinks from encounter. So far from destroying moral force, it protects and strengthens it; it sternly represses the little vanities through which strength of character evaporates and is lost. It is a noble trait in peasant or in prince, in the cottage of the workman or in the mansion of the millionaire.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Trajan, the Roman emperor, has set us an example of condescension and affability. He was equal, indeed, to the greatest generals of antiquity; but the sounding titles bestowed upon him by his admirers did not elate him. All the oldest soldiers he knew by name. He conversed with them with the greatest familiarity, and never retired to his tent before he had visited the camps. He refused the statues which the flattery of friends wished to erect to him, and he ridiculed the follies of an enlightened nation that could pay adoration to cold inanimate pieces of marble. His public entry into Rome gained him the hearts of the people; for he appeared on foot, and showed himself an enemy to parade and ostentatious equipage. His wish to listen to the just complaints of his subjects, caused his royal abode to be called &#8220;the public palace&#8221;; and his people learned to love him as greatly as they admired him.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">True humility is not cowardly, cringing, or abjectly weak. It is strength putting itself by the side of weakness through sympathy, and not weakness abasing itself in the presence of that which it pretends is greater than itself. The humble man is the man who feels his own imperfection, and therefore does not condemn another. The truly humble say very little about their humility, except in rare moments of emotion, but live and labor in quietness for the promotion of the public good.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Sincerity and lowliness of spirit have been often commended, as when the Pythian Apollo rebuked the pompous sacrifice offered at his shrine by a rich Magnesian, and said that he preferred the simple cake and frankincense of a pious Achaean which was offered in humbleness of heart.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Do not allow yourselves to be deceived by false appearances, but lay to heart the story of the farmer who went with his son into a wheatfield to see if it was ready for the harvest. &#8220;See, father,&#8221; exclaimed the boy, &#8220;how straight these stems hold up their heads! They must be the best ones. These that hang their heads down cannot be good for much.&#8221; The farmer plucked a stalk of each kind, and said, &#8220;See here, foolish child! This stalk that stood so straight is light-headed, and almost good for nothing; while this that hung its head so modestly is full of the most beautiful grain.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;Humility is like the violet which grows low, and covers itself with its own leaves, and yet of all flowers, yields the most delicious and fragrant smell.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">This virtue is not to be confounded with mean-spiritedness, or that abject state of feeling which permits a man to surrender the rights of his character to any one who chooses to infringe upon them. While it thinks little of personal considerations, it thinks the more of character and principle. It is really a powerful aid to progress. When we realize how little we know, we shall earnestly strive to know more; when we feel how imperfect is our character, we shall make earnest efforts after improvement.</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">PHILLIPS BROOKS</h2>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">Phillips Brooks may certainly be ranked among the greatest men of the present generation. He was physically and mentally strong; possessed of a great personality that compelled him to self-assertion; and was self-reliant in a degree attained by but few men of his time. He followed his own convictions, in the face of much opposition, bravely and unflinchingly. But with all his greatness and self-confidence, he was gentle, tolerant, sympathetic, and thoroughly appreciative of the rights of others. He made himself felt everywhere; yet he never indulged in controversy, and never struck back when criticized. He used his strength for the good of the weak; he asserted himself in a meek and humble spirit.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The story of his caring for the children of a poor woman, in the slums of Boston while she went out for needed recreation, shows that in the greatness of his manhood he could stoop to the lowliest tasks; while his unbounded love for children, kept him bright and young down to the very close of his honored career.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">To understand this side of his character, we recommend you to read his &#8220;Letters to Children,&#8221; of which the following, written to his niece, is an excellent example:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;VENICE, August 13, 1882.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;DEAR GERTIE:&#8211;When the little children in Venice want to take a bath, they just go down to the front steps of the house and jump off and swim about in the street. Yesterday I saw a nurse standing on the front steps, holding one end of a string, and the other end was tied to a little fellow who was swimming up the street. When he went too far, the nurse pulled in the string, and got her baby home again. Then I met another youngster, swimming in the street, whose mother had tied him to a post by the side of the door, so that when he tried to swim away to see another boy who was tied to another door-post up the street, he couldn&#8217;t, and they had to sing out to one another over the water. Is not this a queer city? You are always in danger of running over some of the people and drowning them, for you go about in a boat instead of a carriage, and use an oar instead of a horse. But it is ever so pretty, and the people, especially the children, are very bright and gay and handsome.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;When you are sitting in your room at night, you hear some music under your window, and look out, and there is a boat with a man with a fiddle, and a woman with a voice, and they are serenading you. To be sure, they want some money when they are done, for everybody begs here; but they do it very prettily and are full of fun.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;Tell Susie I did not see the queen this time. She was out of town. But ever so many noblemen and princes have sent to know how Toody was, and how she looked, and I have sent them all her love.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;There must be lots of pleasant things to do at Andover, and I think you must have had a beautiful summer there. Pretty soon now you will go back to Boston. Do go into my house when you get there and see if the doll and her baby are well and happy, but do not carry them off; and make the music-box play a tune, and remember your affectionate uncle, PHILLIPS.&#8221;<br />
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<p style="text-align:justify;">This Article is an Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith, which is available from Better Days Books in quality hardbound, sturdy trade paperback and convenient .PDF e-book editions starting at just $4.95.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>Industry, Ambition, Self Control, Self-Respect, Courtesy, Faithfulness, Courage, Duty, Honesty, Enthusiasm, Humility, Patriotism…</em> In every era of our Nation&#8217;s history, the true alchemy by which ordinary boys have been transformed into Great American Men has always and only occurred where these indispensible moral principles have been successfully applied. In an age like our own, where such manly ideals are openly mocked and derided by our popular culture, it&#8217;s time to turn to the past to recapture a clear vision of what it takes to be a <em>Great American</em>, and the true moral and ethical ladder that leads reliably to its attainment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American:  39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> was first published in 1900, under the title <em>The True Citizen, How to Become One</em>, and contains  39 essential lessons in manhood tailored to each age and transition in a boy&#8217;s life, from infancy to adulthood.  It is the clearest roadmap to American Greatness ever compiled for the youth of our Nation, and remains as life-changing today as it was when first published, over 100 years ago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whether you are an adult raising boys in a Traditional family setting, the single parent of a son, or a boy abandoned to no or poor parenting, left to grab your own bootstraps and lift yourself up to a life of achievement, success and All-American Greatness (or an adult who knows a boy in such sad straits), <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American!: 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> is the only guidebook you&#8217;ll ever need.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Also available through <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">Amazon.com</a> in quality <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">trade paperback</a> and <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0012R4L6O/" target="_blank">Kindle e-book download</a> editions.</p>
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<h3>An Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith</h3>
<p>Entry #22 in the <em>Raising Great Americans Project! </em><a title="The Raising Great Americans Project" href="http://betterdaysbooks.wordpress.com/2008/05/24/raising-moral-kids-in-an-amoral-culture/" target="_blank">Click Here to learn More</a>!</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">SELF-HELP</h2>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>MEMORY GEMS</strong></p>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Our remedies oft in ourselves do lie, which we ascribe to Heaven.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Shakespeare</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Be sure, my son, and remember that the best men always make themselves.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Patrick Henry.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>God gives every bird its food, but he does not throw it into the nest.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;J. G. Holland</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Every person has two educations, one which he receives<br />
from others, and one, more important, which he gives himself.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Gibbon</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>In battle or business, whatever the game,<br />
In law, or in love it is ever the same:<br />
In the struggle for power, or the scramble for pelf,<br />
Let this be your motto, &#8220;Rely on yourself.&#8221;</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;J. G. Saxe</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">History and biography unite in teaching that circumstances have rarely favored great men. They have fought their way to triumph over the road of difficulty and through all sorts of opposition. Boys of lowly origin have made many of the greatest discoveries, are presidents of our banks, of our colleges, of our universities. Our poor boys and girls have written many of our greatest books, and have filled the highest places as teachers and journalists. Ask almost any great man in our large cities where he was born, and he will tell you it was on a farm or in a small country village. Nearly all the great capitalists of the city came from the country.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Frederick Douglass was born a slave, reared in bondage, liberated by his own exertions, educated and advanced by sheer pluck and perseverance, to distinguished positions in the service of his country, and to a high place in the respect and esteem of the whole world.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Chauncey Jerome, the inventor of machine-made clocks, started with two others on a tour through New Jersey, they to sell the clocks, and he to make cases for them. On his way to New York he went through New Haven, Connecticut, in a lumber wagon, eating bread and cheese. He afterward lived in a fine mansion in that city, and stood very high among its people.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Men who have been bolstered up all their lives are seldom good for anything in a crisis. When misfortune comes, they look around for somebody to lean upon. If the prop is not there down they go. Once down, they are helpless as capsized turtles. Many a boy has succeeded beyond all his expectations simply because all props were knocked out from under him and he was obliged to stand upon his own feet. &#8220;Poverty is uncomfortable, as I can testify,&#8221; said James A. Garfield; &#8220;but nine times out of ten the best thing that can happen to a young man is to be tossed overboard and compelled to sink or swim for himself. In all my acquaintance I have never known a man to be drowned who was worth the saving.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">What is put into the first of life is put into the whole of life. The great London preacher, Mr. Spurgeon, once said &#8220;Out of a church of twenty-seven hundred members, I have never had to exclude a single one who was received while a child;&#8221; and in other respects it is equally true that our earliest impressions and habits most powerfully influence our later life.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Washington, at thirteen, copied into his commonplace book one hundred and ten maxims of civility and good behavior, and was most careful in the formation of all his habits. Franklin, too, devised a plan of self-improvement and character-building. No doubt the noble characters of these two men, almost superhuman in their excellence, are the natural result of their early care and earnest striving toward perfection.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">But the opposite truth needs to be quite as fully considered. &#8220;Many men of genius have written worse scrawls than I do,&#8221; said a boy at Eugby, when his teacher remonstrated with him for his bad penmanship; &#8220;it is not worth while to worry about so trivial a fault.&#8221; Ten years later, when he had become an officer in the Crimea, his illegible copy of an order caused the loss of many brave men.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The insidious growth of the power of habit is well illustrated by the old fable which says that one of the Fates spun filaments so fine that they were invisible, and then became a victim of her own cunning; for she was bound to the spot by these very threads.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">There is also a story of a Grecian flute-player who charged double fees for pupils who had been taught by inferior masters, on the ground that it was much harder to undo bad habits than to form good ones.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;Conduct,&#8221; says Matthew Arnold, &#8220;is three fourths of life;&#8221; but conduct has its source in character. Right conduct in life is to be secured by the formation of right character in youth. The prime element in character, as related to conduct, is the power of self-directions and hence the supreme aim of school discipline is to prepare the young to be self-governing men and women.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">An easy and luxurious existence does not train men to effort or encounter with difficulty; nor does it awaken that consciousness of power which is so necessary for energetic and effective action in life. Indeed, so far from poverty being a misfortune, it may, by vigorous self-help, be converted into a blessing.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">A young man stood listlessly watching some anglers on a bridge. He was poor and dejected. At length, approaching a basket filled with fish, he sighed, &#8220;If now I had these I would be happy. I could sell them and buy food and lodging.&#8221; &#8220;I will give you just as many and just as good,&#8221; said the owner, who chanced to overhear his words, &#8220;if you will do me a trifling favor.&#8221; &#8220;And what is that?&#8221; asked the other. &#8220;Only to tend this line till I come back; I wish to go on a short errand.&#8221; The proposal was gladly accepted. The old man was gone so long that the young man began to get impatient. Meanwhile the fish snapped greedily at the hook, and he lost all his depression in the excitement of pulling them in. When the owner returned he had caught a large number. Counting out from them as many as were in the basket, and presenting them to the youth, the old fisherman said, &#8220;I fulfill my promise from the fish you have caught, to teach you whenever you see others earning what you need, to waste no time in foolish wishing, but cast a line for yourself.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">After a stained-glass window had been constructed for a great European cathedral, an artist picked up the discarded fragments and made one of the most exquisite windows in Europe for another cathedral. So one boy will pick up a splendid education out of the odds and ends of time which others carelessly throw away, or he will gain a fortune by saving what others waste.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">There is an English fable that is worthy of special attention. The story is as follows:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Some larks had a nest in a field of grain. One evening the old larks coming home found the young ones in great terror. &#8220;We must leave our nest at once,&#8221; they cried. Then they related how they had heard the farmer say that he must get his neighbors to come the next day and help him reap his field. &#8220;Oh!&#8221; cried the old birds, &#8220;if that is all, we may rest quietly in our nest.&#8221; The next evening the young birds were found again in a state of terror. The farmer, it seems, was very angry because his neighbors had not come, and had said that he should get his relatives to come the next day and help him. The old birds took the news easily, and said there was nothing to fear yet. The next evening the young birds were quite cheerful. &#8220;Have you heard nothing today?&#8221; asked the old ones. &#8220;Nothing important,&#8221; answered the young. &#8220;It is only that the farmer was angry because his relatives also failed him, and he said to his sons, &#8216;Since neither our neighbors nor our relations will help us, we must take hold tomorrow and do it ourselves!&#8217;&#8221; The old birds were excited this time. They said, &#8220;We must leave our nest to-night. When a man decides to do a thing for himself, and to do it at once, you may be pretty sure that it will be done.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">If you have anything to do, do it yourself; for that is both the surest and the safest way to permanent success.</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">STEPHEN GIRAD</h2>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">We present by way of special illustration, a few incidents from the career of Stephen Girard.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">A sloop was seen one morning off the mouth of Delaware Bay, floating the flag of France and a signal of distress. Girard, then quite a young man, was captain of this sloop, and was on his way to a Canadian port with freight from New Orleans. An American skipper, seeing his distress, went to his aid, but told him the American war had broken out, and that the British cruisers were all along the American coast, and would seize his vessel. He told him his only chance was to make a push for Philadelphia. Girard did not know the way, and was short of money. The skipper loaned him five dollars to get the service of a pilot who demanded his money in advance; and his sloop passed into the Delaware just in time to avoid capture by a British war vessel. He sold the sloop and cargo in Philadelphia, and began business on the capital. Being a foreigner, unable to speak English, with a repulsive face, and blind in one eye, it was hard for him to get a start. But he was not the man to give up.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">There seemed to be nothing he would not do for money. He bought and sold anything, from groceries to old junk. Everything he touched prospered. In 1780, he resumed the New Orleans and San Domingo trade, in which he had been engaged at the breaking out of the War of the Revolution, and in one year cleared nearly fifty thousand dollars.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Everybody, especially his jealous brother merchants, attributed his great success to his luck. While, undoubtedly, he was fortunate in happening to be at the right place at the right time, yet he was precision, method, accuracy, energy itself. He left nothing to chance. His plans and schemes were worked out with mathematical care. His letters, written to his captains in foreign ports, laying out their routes and giving detailed instruction from which they were never allowed to deviate under any circumstances, are models of foresight and systematic planning.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Girard never lost a ship; and many times, what brought financial ruin to many others, as the War of 1812, only increased his wealth. What seemed luck with him was only good judgment and promptness in seizing opportunities, and the greatest care and zeal in personal attention to all the details of his business and the management of his own affairs.<br />
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<p style="text-align:justify;">This Article is an Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith, which is available from Better Days Books in quality hardbound, sturdy trade paperback and convenient .PDF e-book editions starting at just $4.95.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>Industry, Ambition, Self Control, Self-Respect, Courtesy, Faithfulness, Courage, Duty, Honesty, Enthusiasm, Humility, Patriotism…</em> In every era of our Nation&#8217;s history, the true alchemy by which ordinary boys have been transformed into Great American Men has always and only occurred where these indispensible moral principles have been successfully applied. In an age like our own, where such manly ideals are openly mocked and derided by our popular culture, it&#8217;s time to turn to the past to recapture a clear vision of what it takes to be a <em>Great American</em>, and the true moral and ethical ladder that leads reliably to its attainment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American:  39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> was first published in 1900, under the title <em>The True Citizen, How to Become One</em>, and contains  39 essential lessons in manhood tailored to each age and transition in a boy&#8217;s life, from infancy to adulthood.  It is the clearest roadmap to American Greatness ever compiled for the youth of our Nation, and remains as life-changing today as it was when first published, over 100 years ago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whether you are an adult raising boys in a Traditional family setting, the single parent of a son, or a boy abandoned to no or poor parenting, left to grab your own bootstraps and lift yourself up to a life of achievement, success and All-American Greatness (or an adult who knows a boy in such sad straits), <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American!: 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> is the only guidebook you&#8217;ll ever need.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Also available through <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">Amazon.com</a> in quality <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">trade paperback</a> and <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0012R4L6O/" target="_blank">Kindle e-book download</a> editions.</p>
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<h3>An Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith</h3>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">COURAGE</h2>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>MEMORY GEMS</strong></p>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The best hearts are always the bravest.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211; Sterne</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>In noble souls, valor does not wait for years.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211; Corneille</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Courage is always greatest when blended with meekness.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211; Earl Stanhope</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>A brave man hazards life, but not his conscience.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211; Schiller</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>A great deal of talent is lost in the world for want of a little courage.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211; Sydney Smith</p>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">The definition of courage given by Webster is, &#8220;that quality of mind which enables men to encounter danger and difficulties with firmness or without fear or depression of spirits.&#8221; We would rather say that courage does not consist in feeling no fear, but in conquering fear. Our meaning will perhaps be best made clear by the following illustrations:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Two French officers at Waterloo were advancing to charge a greatly superior force. One, observing that the other showed signs of fear, said &#8220;Sir, I believe you are frightened.&#8221; &#8220;Yes, I am,&#8221; was the reply; &#8220;and if you were half as much frightened, you would run away.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;That&#8217;s a brave man,&#8221; said Wellington, when he saw a soldier turn pale as he marched against a battery; &#8220;he knows his danger, and faces it.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Genuine courage is based on something more than animal strength; and this holds true always. Cowardly hearts are often encased in giant frames. Slender women often display astounding bravery.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The courageous man is a real helper in the work of the world&#8217;s advancement. His influence is magnetic. He creates an epidemic of nobleness. Men follow him, even to the death.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;Our enemies are before us,&#8221; exclaimed the Spartans at Thermopylae. &#8220;And we are before them,&#8221; was the cool reply of Leonidas. &#8220;Deliver your arms,&#8221; came the message from Xerxes. &#8220;Come and take them,&#8221; was the answer Leonidas sent back. A Persian soldier said: &#8220;You will not be able to see the sun for flying javelins and arrows.&#8221; &#8220;Then we will fight in the shade,&#8221; replied a Lacedaemonian. What wonder that a handful of such men checked the march of the greatest host that ever trod the earth.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Don&#8217;t be like Uriah Heep, begging everybody&#8217;s pardon for taking the liberty of being in the world. There is nothing attractive in timidity, nothing lovable in fear. Both are deformities, and are repulsive. Manly courage is dignified and graceful.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The spirit of courage will transform the whole temper of your life. &#8220;The wise and active conquer difficulties by daring to attempt them. The lazy and the foolish shiver and sicken at the sight of trial and hazard, and create the very impossibility they fear.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Abraham Lincoln&#8217;s boyhood was one long struggle with poverty, with little education, and no influential friends. When at last he had begun the practice of law, it required no little daring to cast his fortune with the weaker side in politics, and thus imperil what small reputation he had gained. Only the most sublime moral courage could have sustained him as President to hold his ground against hostile criticism and a long train of disaster, to issue the Emancipation Proclamation, to support Grant and Stanton against the clamor of the politicians and the press, and, through it all, to do what he believed to be right.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Did you ever read the fable of the magician and the mouse? It is worth reading in this connection:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">A mouse that dwelt near the abode of a great magician, was kept in such constant fear of a cat, that the magician, taking pity on it, turned it into a cat itself. Immediately it began to suffer from its fear of a dog, so the magician turned it into a dog. Then it began to suffer from fear of a tiger. The magician therefore turned it into a tiger. Then it began to suffer from fear of hunters, and the magician said in disgust:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;Be a mouse again. As you have only the heart of a mouse, it is impossible to help you by giving you the body of a nobler animal.&#8221; The moral of the story you can gather for yourselves.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">We have already said that many women have displayed courage of a very high order. Here is a case in point:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Charles V. of Spain passed through Thuringia in 1547, on his return to Swabia after the battle of Muehlburg. He wrote to Catherine, Countess Dowager of Schwartzburg, promising that her subjects should not be molested in their persons or property if they would supply the Spanish soldiers with provisions at a reasonable price. On approaching her residence, General Alva and Prince Henry of Brunswick, with his sons, invited themselves, by a messenger sent forward, to breakfast with the Countess, who had no choice but to ratify so delicate a request from the commander of an army. Just as the guests were seated at a generous repast, the Countess was called from the hall and told that the Spaniards were using violence and driving away the cattle of the peasants.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Quietly arming all her retinue, she bolted and barred all the gates and doors of the castle, and returned to the banquet to complain of the breach of faith. General Alva told her that such was the custom of war, adding that such trifling disorders were not to be heeded. &#8220;That we shall presently see,&#8221; said Catherine; &#8220;my poor subjects must have their own again, or, as God lives, prince&#8217;s blood for oxen&#8217;s blood!&#8221; The doors were opened, and armed men took the place of the waiters behind the chairs of the guests. Henry changed color; then, as the best way out of a bad scrape, laughed loudly, and ended by praising the splendid acting of his hostess, and promising that Alva should order the cattle restored at once. Not until a courier returned, saying that the order had been obeyed, and all damages settled satisfactorily, did the armed waiters leave. The Countess then thanked her guests for the honor they had done her castle, and they retired with protestations of their distinguished consideration.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">There is a form of moral courage which bears most directly upon ourselves. It is seen in the career of William H. Seward, who was given a thousand dollars by his father to go to college with, and told that this was all he was to have. The son returned home at the end of his freshman year with extravagant habits and no money. His father refused to give him more, and told him he could not stay at home. When the youth found the props all taken out from under him, and that he must now sink or swim, he left home moneyless, returned to college, graduated at the head of his class, studied law, was elected governor of New York, and became Lincoln&#8217;s great Secretary of State during the Civil War.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Genuine courage is neither rash, vain, nor selfish. It sometimes leads us to appear cowardly; and cowardice sometimes puts on the guise of boldness. We need to know the individual and the circumstances to judge correctly as to whether courage is of the true order. We should all discourage the tendency to exalt brute force and mere muscle to high admiration; and enforce the power of mind, ideas, and lofty ambition. The noblest phase of courage and heroism is in the submission of this might to the laws of right and helpfulness.</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">RICHARD PEARSON HOBSON</h2>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">There is no better modern illustration of courage than that thrilling exploit of Lieutenant Hobson in taking the Merrimac into the harbor of Santiago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">While the Spanish fleet, under Admiral Cervera, lay blockaded in Santiago Bay, the idea was conceived of making the blockade doubly safe by sinking the coal-ship Merrimac across the narrow channel. To carry out this plan cool-headed, heroic men were needed, who would be willing to take their lives in their hands, for the good of their country&#8217;s cause. To accomplish the object, the vessel must be taken into a harbor full of mines, under the fire of three shore batteries, supported by a powerful Spanish fleet and two regiments of soldiers. The honor of carrying out this bold scheme was given to young Hobson, by whom the plan had been mainly outlined.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">He was a young man from Alabama, twenty-seven years of age, a graduate of the Naval Academy in the class of 1889, being the youngest member, and standing at the head of his class. He had already shown himself to be a gentleman, a student, and an adept in practical affairs. Now he was to prove that he was a hero.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Here came to him, in the ordinary course of duty, the opportunity for which he had prepared himself; and the courage with which he carried it out made for him a name which will always be remembered in the annals of naval warfare.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Out of the hundreds who volunteered to assist him in this perilous undertaking, six men were selected. At an early hour in the morning the gallant crew set out. Every vessel in the American fleet was on the alert: every man&#8217;s nerves were at the highest tension over the success of the project and the fate of Hobson and his comrades. Thousands of anxious eyes peered through the darkness as they watched the old collier disappear into the harbor.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Suddenly the scene changed. Sheets of fire flashed from Morro Castle and the other batteries along the shore. It seemed impossible for human life to exist in that deadly and concentrated fire. In the downpour of shot and shell the Merrimac&#8217;s rudder was blown away and her stern anchor cut loose. The electric batteries were damaged to such an extent that only part of the torpedoes could be exploded. The result was that instead of sinking where intended, the vessel drifted with the tide past the narrow neck. The Merrimac sank but did not completely block up the channel.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The enemy&#8217;s fire was so incessant and sweeping that it was impossible for the crew to reach the life-raft which they had in tow; so Hobson and his men lay flat on deck and waited for the ship to sink. It was a terrible waiting while every great gun and Mauser rifle was pouring its deadly fire upon the ship. At last the end came. The ship sank beneath the waves, and, through the whirlpool of rushing water, the men rose to the surface and climbed upon their raft. Clinging to this, with their faces only out of water they waited for daylight, and then gave themselves up as prisoners to the Spaniards.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">In the afternoon, Admiral Cervera sent an officer, under a flag of truce, to Admiral Sampson, telling him of their safety, and adding: &#8220;Daring like theirs makes the bitterest enemies proud that their fellow-men can be so brave.&#8221;<br />
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<p style="text-align:justify;">This Article is an Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith, which is available from Better Days Books in quality hardbound, sturdy trade paperback and convenient .PDF e-book editions starting at just $4.95.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>Industry, Ambition, Self Control, Self-Respect, Courtesy, Faithfulness, Courage, Duty, Honesty, Enthusiasm, Humility, Patriotism…</em> In every era of our Nation&#8217;s history, the true alchemy by which ordinary boys have been transformed into Great American Men has always and only occurred where these indispensible moral principles have been successfully applied. In an age like our own, where such manly ideals are openly mocked and derided by our popular culture, it&#8217;s time to turn to the past to recapture a clear vision of what it takes to be a <em>Great American</em>, and the true moral and ethical ladder that leads reliably to its attainment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American:  39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> was first published in 1900, under the title <em>The True Citizen, How to Become One</em>, and contains  39 essential lessons in manhood tailored to each age and transition in a boy&#8217;s life, from infancy to adulthood.  It is the clearest roadmap to American Greatness ever compiled for the youth of our Nation, and remains as life-changing today as it was when first published, over 100 years ago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whether you are an adult raising boys in a Traditional family setting, the single parent of a son, or a boy abandoned to no or poor parenting, left to grab your own bootstraps and lift yourself up to a life of achievement, success and All-American Greatness (or an adult who knows a boy in such sad straits), <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American!: 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> is the only guidebook you&#8217;ll ever need.</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">ENTHUSIASM</h2>
<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>MEMORY GEMS</strong></p>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Nothing is so contagious as enthusiasm.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Bulwer</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Enthusiasm is the fundamental quality of strong souls.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Carlyle</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The only conclusive evidence of a man&#8217;s<br />
sincerity is that he gives himself for a principle.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Phillips Brooks</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Enthusiasm is the romance of the boy that becomes the heroism of the man.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;A. Bronson Alcott</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Every great and commanding movement in the<br />
annals of the world is the triumph of some enthusiasm.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Emerson</p>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">In the course of every life there are sure to be obstacles and difficulties to be met. Prudence hesitates and examines them; intelligence usually suggests some ingenious way of getting around them; patience and perseverance deliberately go to work to dig under them; but enthusiasm is the quality that boldly faces and leaps lightly over them. By the power of enthusiasm the most extraordinary undertakings, that seemed impossible of accomplishment, have been successfully carried out. Enthusiasm makes weak men strong, and timid women courageous. Almost all the great works of art have been produced when the artist was intoxicated with a passion for beauty and form, which would not let him rest until his thought was expressed in marble or on canvas.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">A recent writer has said: &#8220;Enthusiasm is life lit up and shining. It is the passion of the spirit pushing forward toward some noble activity. It is one of the most powerful forces that go to the making of a noble and heroic character.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">In the Gallery of Fine Arts, in Paris, is a beautiful statue conceived by a sculptor who was so poor that he lived and worked in a small garret. When his clay model was nearly done, a heavy frost fell upon the city. He knew that if the water in the interstices of the clay should freeze, the beautiful lines would be distorted. So he wrapped his bedclothes around the clay image to preserve it from destruction. In the morning he was found dead; but his idea was saved, and other hands gave it enduring form in marble.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Another instance of rare consecration to a great enterprise is found in the work of the late Francis Parkman. While a student at Harvard, he determined to write the history of the French and English in North America. With a steadiness and devotion seldom equaled, he gave his life, his fortune, his all, to this one great object. Although he had ruined his health while among the Dakota Indians, collecting material for his history, and could not use his eyes more than five minutes at a time for fifty years, he did not swerve a hair&#8217;s breadth from the high purpose formed in his youth, until he gave to the world the best history upon this subject ever written.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">What a power there is in an enthusiastic adherence to an ideal! What are hardships, ridicule, persecution, toil, or sickness, to a soul throbbing with an overmastering purpose? Gladstone says that &#8220;what is really wanted, is to light up the spirit that is within a boy.&#8221; In some sense, and in some degree, there is in every boy the material for doing good work in the world; not only in those who are brilliant and quick, but even in those who are stolid and dull.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">A real enthusiasm makes men happy, keeps them fresh, hopeful, joyous. Life never stagnates with them. They always keep sweet, anticipate a &#8220;good time coming,&#8221; and help to make it come.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Enthusiasm has been well called the &#8220;lever of the world&#8221;; for it sets in motion, if it does not control, the grandest revolutions! Its influence is immense. History bears frequent record of its contagiousness, showing how vast multitudes have been roused into emotion by the enthusiasm of one man; as was the case when the crowd of knights, and squires, and men-at-arms, and quiet peasants, entered, at the bidding of St. Bernard, upon the great Crusade.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The simple, innocent Maid of Orleans,&#8211;with her sacred sword, her consecrated banner, and her belief in her great mission,&#8211;sent a thrill of enthusiasm through the whole French army such as neither king nor statesman could produce. Her zeal carried everything before it.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Enthusiasm makes men strong. It wakes them up, brings out their latent powers, keeps up incessant action, impels to tasks requiring strength, and then carries them to completion. Many are born to be giants, yet, from lack of enthusiasm, few grow above common men. They need to be set on fire by some eager impulse, inspired by some grand resolve, and they would then quickly rise head and shoulders above their fellows.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Enthusiasm is the element of success in everything. It is the light that leads, and the strength that lifts men on and up in the great struggles of scientific pursuits and of professional labors. It robs endurance of difficulty, and makes a pleasure of duty.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Enthusiasm gives to man a power that is irresistible. It is that secret and harmonious spirit which hovers over the production of genius, throwing the reader of a book, or the spectator of a statue, into the presence of those with whom these works have originated. A great work always leaves us in a state of lofty contemplation, if we are in sympathy with it.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The most irresistible charm of youth is its bubbling enthusiasm. The youth who comes fully under its control sees no darkness ahead. He forgets that there is such a thing as failure in the world, and believes that mankind has been waiting all these centuries for him to come and be the liberator of truth and energy and beauty.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The boy Bach copied whole books of musical studies by moonlight, for want of a candle churlishly denied. Nor was he disheartened when these copies were taken from him. The boy painter West, began his work in a garret, and cut hairs from the tail of the family cat for bristles to make his brushes. Gerster, an unknown Hungarian singer, made fame and fortune sure the first night she appeared in opera. Her enthusiasm almost mesmerized her auditors. In less than a week she had become popular and independent. Her soul was smitten with a passion for growth, and all the powers of heart and mind were devoted to self-improvement.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Enthusiasm is purified and ennobled by self-denial. As the traveler, who would ascend a lofty mountain summit, to enjoy the sunset there, leaves the quiet of the lowly vale, and climbs the difficult path, so the true enthusiast, in his aspiration after the highest good, allows himself to be stopped by no wish for wealth and pleasure, and every step he takes forward is connected with self-denial, but is a step nearer to success.</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">THOMAS A. EDISON</h2>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">If one were to ask what individual best typifies the industrial progress of this nation, it would be easy to answer, Thomas Alva Edison. Looking at him as a newspaper boy, at the age of fifteen, one would hardly have been led to predict that this young fellow would be responsible for the industrial transformation of this continent.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">At that early age he had already begun to dabble in chemistry, and had fitted up a small traveling laboratory. One day, as he was performing an experiment, the train rounded a curve and the bottles of chemicals were dashed to the floor. There followed a series of unearthly odors and unnatural complications. The conductor, who had suffered long and patiently, now ejected the youthful enthusiast; and, it is said, accompanied the expulsion with a resounding box upon the ear. This did not dampen Edison&#8217;s ardor, in the least. He passed through one dramatic situation after another, mastering each and all; but his advancement was due to patient, persevering work.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Not long ago a reporter asked him if he had regular hours for work. &#8220;Oh!&#8221; he answered, &#8220;I do not work hard now. I come to the laboratory about eight o&#8217;clock every day, and go home to tea at six; and then I study and work on some problem until eleven, which is my hour for bed.&#8221; When it was suggested that fourteen or fifteen hours&#8217; work per day could scarcely be called loafing, he replied, &#8220;Well, for fifteen years I have worked on an average twenty hours a day.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Nothing but a rare devotion to an interesting subject could keep any man so diligently employed. So enthusiastically did he pursue his researches, that, when he had once started to solve a difficult problem, he has been known to work at it for sixty consecutive hours.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">In describing his Boston experiences, Edison relates that he bought Faraday&#8217;s works on electricity, and beginning to read them at three o&#8217;clock in the morning, continued until his room-mate arose, when they started on their long walk for breakfast. Breakfast, however, was of small account in Edison&#8217;s mind compared with his love for Faraday; and he suddenly remarked to his friend, &#8220;Adams, I have so much to do, and life is so short, that I must hustle;&#8221; and with that he started off on a dead run for the boarding-house.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Edison has shown that he cares nothing for money, and has no particular enthusiasm for fame. &#8220;What makes you work so hard?&#8221; asked a friend. &#8220;I like it,&#8221; he answered, after a moment&#8217;s puzzled expression; and then repeated several times, &#8220;I like it. I do not know any other reason. You know how some people like to collect stamps. Anything I have begun is always on my mind, and I am not easy while away from it until it is finished.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Electrical science is still in its infancy, but the enthusiasm of Edison has done much for its advancement. The subject indeed is a fascinating one, and Edison&#8217;s devotion to it, and the discoveries and practical applications he has made in his researches, have placed him in the front rank of America&#8217;s greatest inventors.<br />
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<p style="text-align:justify;">This Article is an Excerpt from <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American! 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness (a Growing Up Great Guide for American Boys and for the Parents and Teachers Who Love Them)</em></a>, by W. F. Markwick and W. A.  Smith, which is available from Better Days Books in quality hardbound, sturdy trade paperback and convenient .PDF e-book editions starting at just $4.95.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>Industry, Ambition, Self Control, Self-Respect, Courtesy, Faithfulness, Courage, Duty, Honesty, Enthusiasm, Humility, Patriotism…</em> In every era of our Nation&#8217;s history, the true alchemy by which ordinary boys have been transformed into Great American Men has always and only occurred where these indispensible moral principles have been successfully applied. In an age like our own, where such manly ideals are openly mocked and derided by our popular culture, it&#8217;s time to turn to the past to recapture a clear vision of what it takes to be a <em>Great American</em>, and the true moral and ethical ladder that leads reliably to its attainment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American:  39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> was first published in 1900, under the title <em>The True Citizen, How to Become One</em>, and contains  39 essential lessons in manhood tailored to each age and transition in a boy&#8217;s life, from infancy to adulthood.  It is the clearest roadmap to American Greatness ever compiled for the youth of our Nation, and remains as life-changing today as it was when first published, over 100 years ago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whether you are an adult raising boys in a Traditional family setting, the single parent of a son, or a boy abandoned to no or poor parenting, left to grab your own bootstraps and lift yourself up to a life of achievement, success and All-American Greatness (or an adult who knows a boy in such sad straits), <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American!: 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> is the only guidebook you&#8217;ll ever need.</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">CONSCIENTIOUSNESS</h2>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>MEMORY GEMS</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Conscientiousness is the underlying granite of life.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Sir Walter Raleigh</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>When love of praise takes the place of praiseworthiness, the defect is fatal.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;S. Baring-Gould</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>When a man is dead to the sense of right, he is lost forever.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;James McCrie</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Insincerity alienates love and rots away authority.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Bulwer</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The value of conscientiousness is<br />
principally seen in the benefits of civilization. </em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">&#8211;Charles Kingsley</p>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">Conscientiousness is a scrupulous regard to the decisions of conscience. When we say a duty was performed &#8220;religiously,&#8221; it is the same as a duty done conscientiously. Conscience does not teach us what is right; we learn that from experience, and in many other ways. It simply tells us to do the best we know, and reproaches us when we do otherwise.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Some one has well said: &#8220;We can train ourselves to be conscientious, to be responsive to conscience, to obey it; but conscience itself cannot be educated. It is like the sun. We may so arrange our house as to receive the largest amount of sunlight; but the sun itself cannot be changed either for our advantage or disadvantage. As a house with ample windows is illuminated within by the rays of the sun, so is a well-trained life filled with the light of conscience.&#8221; We may therefore define conscientiousness as the inborn desire to do that which is right and just.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Conscientiousness, which is, as we have just seen, another name for justice, is a trait to be cultivated among young people in their sports, in family life, and in school. A boy is unjust who refuses to &#8220;play fair&#8221;; a girl is unjust who deprives a friend of anything properly hers. Young people may be unjust in their words, in their thoughts, or in their actions; and the greatest watchfulness is needed to prevent us from failing in this important matter.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">One&#8217;s sense of justice may be increased by thoughtfulness as to his duty to himself, as well as to others; and by demanding very rigid observance of every law of conduct which commends itself as needful to ideal character. &#8220;There is only one real failure possible in life,&#8221; said Canon Farrar, &#8220;and that is, not to be true to the best one knows.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;I can remember when you blackened my father&#8217;s shoes,&#8221; said one member of the British House of Commons to another in the heat of debate. &#8220;True enough,&#8221; was the prompt reply, &#8220;but did I not blacken them well?&#8221; The sense of right-doing was sufficient to turn an intended insult into a well-merited compliment, and to increase for him the esteem of his fellow-members.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;Whatever is right to do,&#8221; said an eminent writer, &#8220;should be done with our best care, strength, and faithfulness of purpose.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Leonardo da Vinci would walk across Milan to change a single tint or the slightest detail in his famous picture of &#8220;The Last Supper.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Rufus Choate would plead before a shoemaker justice of the peace, in a petty case, with all the fervor and careful attention to detail with which he addressed the United States Supreme Court.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">&#8220;No, I can&#8217;t do it, it is impossible,&#8221; said Webster, when pressed to speak on a question soon to come up, toward the close of a Congressional session. &#8220;I am so pressed with other duties that I haven&#8217;t time to prepare myself to speak upon that theme.&#8221; &#8220;Ah, but Mr. Webster, you always speak well upon any subject. You never fail.&#8221; &#8220;But that&#8217;s the very reason,&#8221; said the orator, &#8220;because I never allow myself to speak upon any subject without first making that subject thoroughly my own. I haven&#8217;t time to do that in this instance. Hence I must refuse.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Among the list of our great reformers, William Lloyd Garrison must always hold a very prominent place. The work he did was that of unselfish devotion to an overmastering sense of justice. He labored for those in bonds, as bound with them. Faithful, as but few others were faithful, he worked in season and out of season for human freedom. After great effort, Mr. Garrison succeeded in establishing an antislavery society, and he was made its agent to lecture for the cause. But the whole tone of society was against him. He was at the mercy of that prejudice which, at so many points, was ready to adopt mob violence. The discussion of slavery was taken up in educational institutions where, as in general society, but very few were found who believed in universal freedom. But still he never swerved from what he believed to be right. Justice was his plea; justice was his battle cry; and it came to be said of him that &#8220;He was conscience incarnated.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">A beautiful illustration of justice, and fairness of treatment, occurred at the opening of the great battle of Manila Bay, on May 1, 1898.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">When the order was given to strip for action, one of the powder boys tore his coat off hurriedly, and it fell from his hands and went over the rail, down into the bay. A few moments before, he had been gazing on his mother&#8217;s photograph, and just before he took his coat off he had kissed the picture and put it in his inside pocket. When the coat fell overboard he turned to the captain and asked permission to jump over and get it. Naturally the request was refused. The boy then went to the other side of the ship and climbed down the ladder. He swam around to the place where the coat had dropped and succeeded in getting it. When he came back he was put in irons for disobedience. After the battle he was tried by a court-martial for disobedience, and found guilty.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Commodore Dewey became interested in the case, for he could not understand why the boy had risked his life and disobeyed orders for a coat. The lad had never told his motives. But when the commodore talked to him in a kindly way, and asked him why he had done such a strange thing for an old coat, he burst into tears and told the commodore that his mother&#8217;s picture was in the coat. Dewey&#8217;s eyes filled with tears as he listened to the story. Then he picked up the boy and embraced him. He ordered the little fellow to be instantly released and pardoned. &#8220;A boy who loves his mother enough to risk his life for her picture, cannot be kept in irons on this fleet,&#8221; he said.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Examples by the score crowd in upon our minds as we think more deeply into this subject, but space permits of only one more before passing to our special illustration:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">When troubled with deafness, the Duke of Wellington consulted a celebrated physician, who put strong caustic into his ear, causing an inflammation which threatened his life. The doctor apologized, expressed great regrets, and said that the blunder would ruin him. &#8220;No,&#8221; said Wellington, &#8220;I will never mention it.&#8221; &#8220;But will you allow me to attend you, so that the people will not withdraw their confidence?&#8221; &#8220;No,&#8221; said the Iron Duke, &#8220;that would be lying.&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Enough has perhaps been said to show that conscientiousness and justice are not simply beautiful traits of character; but that they are absolutely necessary to the fullest advancement of the individual and of the race. We proceed to enforce this truth still more strongly, however, by a closing reference to the career of one of our greatest statesmen.</p>
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<h2 style="text-align:center;">CHARLES SUMNER</h2>
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<p style="text-align:justify;">In using Mr. Sumner as our special illustration of conscientiousness, it is not because we lack other examples. On the contrary, they are all about us; and doubtless we could all mention excellent cases in our own homes, and among our own acquaintances, where conscientiousness has been vividly illustrated.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Charles Sumner was the eldest of nine children, and was born in Boston, on the sixth day of January, 1811. His father was a lawyer, and sheriff of Suffolk County, and was descended from the early colonists of New England. Even in childhood and youth he evinced the quiet, thoughtful, and serious temperament which was characteristic of the Puritans. As a boy he took little interest in games and frolics. He read much, and was reserved and awkward. Society to him, in early life, possessed no attractions; and while he was always studious and patient he never displayed any marked talent.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">His progress in life was almost entirely due to his conscientious, persistent, untiring application to the acquisition of knowledge and the development of all his powers. He was in the highest sense a cultivated man. His mind became, through conscientious and laborious study, a great storehouse, filled with the richest materials and the power to use them.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">But he did not seek these treasures of learning and power for the simple end of glorifying himself. His one great object in life was to benefit mankind. He said in an address, delivered just after he had begun the practice of law, speaking of conscience and charity: &#8220;They must become a part of us and of our existence, as present, in season and out of season, in all the amenities of life, in those daily offices of conduct and manner which add so much to its charm, as also in those grander duties whose performance evinces an ennobling self-sacrifice.&#8221; It was his own determined and unfaltering devotion to this lofty ideal, that led directly to the success of his great public career.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Charles Sumner was first elected to the Senate in 1851. Throughout his brilliant life his lofty character never forsook him; and if we will carefully examine the measures which he advocated, voted for, or opposed, from time to time, the discovery will be made that his conscience was his inevitable guide.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">While he dearly loved peace, he was always in the midst of warfare. He constantly incurred the censure which arises from advocating unpopular measures. Childlike in his personal friendships, he often spoke about himself as he would speak of others,&#8211;revealing what others would have concealed. Frank, sincere, and pledged from youth to principles, rather than to persons, he was obliged to struggle against great obstacles. To him the slave was a human being with a soul, entitled to every right and privilege accorded to any American citizen. He devoted his energies to the cause of freedom down to the very last, and died in Washington, on March 11, 1874, exclaiming, &#8220;Don&#8217;t let my Civil Rights Bill fail!&#8221;<br />
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<p style="text-align:justify;"><em>Industry, Ambition, Self Control, Self-Respect, Courtesy, Faithfulness, Courage, Duty, Honesty, Enthusiasm, Humility, Patriotism…</em> In every era of our Nation&#8217;s history, the true alchemy by which ordinary boys have been transformed into Great American Men has always and only occurred where these indispensible moral principles have been successfully applied. In an age like our own, where such manly ideals are openly mocked and derided by our popular culture, it&#8217;s time to turn to the past to recapture a clear vision of what it takes to be a <em>Great American</em>, and the true moral and ethical ladder that leads reliably to its attainment.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American:  39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> was first published in 1900, under the title <em>The True Citizen, How to Become One</em>, and contains  39 essential lessons in manhood tailored to each age and transition in a boy&#8217;s life, from infancy to adulthood.  It is the clearest roadmap to American Greatness ever compiled for the youth of our Nation, and remains as life-changing today as it was when first published, over 100 years ago.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Whether you are an adult raising boys in a Traditional family setting, the single parent of a son, or a boy abandoned to no or poor parenting, left to grab your own bootstraps and lift yourself up to a life of achievement, success and All-American Greatness (or an adult who knows a boy in such sad straits), <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.lulu.com/content/1891808" target="_blank"><em>You Can Be a Great American!: 39 Steps to True and Lasting Greatness</em></a> is the only guidebook you&#8217;ll ever need.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Also available through <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">Amazon.com</a> in quality <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/0615188818/" target="_blank">trade paperback</a> and <a title="You Can Be a Great American!" href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0012R4L6O/" target="_blank">Kindle e-book download</a> editions.</p>
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