Hi guys, I just wanted to write about this great book I read called Manhood by Steve Biddulph. He gives an enlightened view on men and our relatively poor understanding of our role in life, sexuality and our relationships.

So here is my take on it, way back when we lived in tribes, when men hunted for food and the women looked after the hut. Boys were brought up to be men by their fathers and girls brought up by their mothers. Then there was a shift when the industrial revolution started and men went out and worked, they worked in factories and left their boys at home to be brought up by their mothers. Also at the at time we started to go to school and who were our teachers well they were mostly women. I can still remember when I went to school that most of my teachers were women, crabby old ones at that. So boys were being brought up predominantly by women.

Then there was the womens movement, women wanted equal rights and wanted to rise to the top of corporations, burn their bras and all that stuff. Not that I have a problem with that, just that they had to become more masculine to achieve all that they wanted.

So us guys became more feminine and the women became more masculine, any wonder why our relationships aren’t working too well theses days.

This was so true for me, I can’t tell how many times people thought I was gay, not that there is anything wrong with being gay, just that I don’t want to be gay.

So how do you get your manhood back, how do you become more masculine.
Well the first thing you can do is get my FREE CD “7 Secrets That Most Men Don’t Understand About Women And Dating” In this CD I’ll give step by step coaching on how to be more of a man and be more successful with women.

Body Language for flirting

Discover how to flirt to attract using body language and other tips

It is rather difficult to be romantic without first flirting.  What exactly is flirting and how can you adapt some flirting into your own romantic moods and play?  To begin, you don’t want to be too aggressive.  Start with very friendly gestures and once you have gotten those moves down, and then go for the romantic flirting!

Flirting is a frame of mind:

Be self-confident and do not be afraid to take risks.
Be enthusiastic about romance and be positive!

Start a sexy conversation:

Start with a simple, opening line by saying hello.
Talk about anything at all, whatever will get the romance going.

Enjoy yourself and have fun:

Be playful, light-hearted and above all, be spontaneous.
Show that you can be vulnerable.

Make good use of all props:

Always use a prop.
Props will get the conversation started naturally. They encourage conversation and others will want to start talking to you.
Great props are: pets, children, great jewelry, a wonderful scent, a sweatshirt with your favorite sports team’s emblem, an interesting book or magazine.

Play host:

Take the lead by taking on the role of host.
Do not be the passive person in waiting, but rather the lead.

Introduce yourself first:

Move closer to the person you want to meet and introduce yourself confidently!

Listen-up:

Everyone loves to be heard and when you are a good listener your partner will be drawn to you.

Make bold eye contact:

Look your partner in the eye gently (no more than 2-4 seconds) and then look away. You don’t want to stare!

Pay a genuine compliment:

Your partner will be pleased and will warm up to you more.

Show a beautiful smile:

You will look so much more approachable. Everyone is attracted to a genuine and heartfelt, smile.

So there you go!  These are all ground-breakers when wanting to approach someone with romance.  We must always be mindful of the fundamentals.

When we just dive right in, unexpected, we can turn our loved one off.  Go slow, a step at a time and feeling confident, approach with your best romance moves.

There is only one rule:

When you want a girl to be intimate with you, it’s better to imply it, and maybe refer to it indirectly but NEVER just come out and say it directly. Women’s idea of sex is very different than men’s. They like it as much as a man does but for them the approach is so different. For them, it happens because that special someone and her can now celebrate their love. I have never met one woman who wants to feel like she’s being used for just physical intimacy (but these woman are out there, just my bad luck). Make her feel special, and let her know that you want to spend time with her for other things too, not just her body… and you will have more partners than you can handle. And now, YOU will be in the position of choice when it comes to women.

You see, beautiful women pretty much have their “pick of the litter” when it comes to getting laid. They simply have more options than most guys do. But by methodically building quality relationships with women, you will enjoy the same power and choice.

And a quick note about ethics. Don’t imply that you want a romantic, committed relationship with a woman in order to seduce her. If you honestly want one, that’s great. It’s much more satisfying… but don’t ever mislead someone to believing that you’re interested in more than you really are. It’s deceitful, and hurts everyone involved. It is not true that all women will want a romantic relationship prior to physical intimacy but they definitely do not want to be used like some object. Women always want to feel an emotional connection and you should respect that if you want to succeed with women.

Once you get good at being a ladies’ man, you’ll realize that you never have to lie in order to make women want to sleep with you. In fact, I have found that just being myself and being honest about my desires has gotten me laid a LOT more than when I was BSing women into bed with me.

There are some tacky tips / tricks out there: like, determining if she is horney – when sitting down and talking to a woman, if you notice her knees moving inwards and outwards, then she has sex on her mind! or the obvious teasing methods, i mean sexual teasing. Women LOVE anticipation. Everyone knows that! …but all this are steps after you have built a quality relationship with her.

I just want you to know that it’s been my experience that being ethical is a lot more rewarding when it comes to being a seducer. Some people think that seducing women means being dishonest I’m here to tell you that nothing is further from the truth. When you can make a woman feel really wonderful when she’s with you, she’ll just naturally want to come back for more. You won’t have to convince her, or chase after her. Trust me on this. I’m no expert, but i have had my fair share of woman.

If all else fails, then I highly recommend this e-book that will definately help you attract woman.

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by Abelardo de la Peña Jr.

WHAT’S HAPPENING

• A Latino blogger is keeping track of his attempts to seduce women as a pick-up artist, giving viewers a glimpse of his exploits via postings and videos at Latino Gentlemen.
• Going by the moniker of “Ozziesaurus Mex,” the L.A.-based Chicano subscribes to the principals of the ABCs of Attraction, a program that promises hook-up success via a system that includes boot camp, a manual and access to coaches.
• His postings include goals and strategies, tips on online dating and gym workouts, and inspirational music and videos. The graphic stories and amateurish video testimonials add an air of sexual authenticity, with buzzwords and catch phrases peppering the postings.

WHAT THIS MEANS TO BUSINESS

• The ways and means of one man’s attempt to attract the opposite sex are laid out honestly and directly, serving as both a source of unintended humor and a cautionary tale on the complexities of seduction.
• Blogs like this can serve marketers who want to know what goes on in the minds of members of niche Latino communities.

RESOURCES

• Latino Gentlemen
• The ABCs of Attraction

“Pick Up Artist & Dating Community” – Too Much Sizzle, Not Enough Steak
By David Portney

In the world of marketing, there’s an old saying:

“You don’t sell the steak, you sell the sizzle”.

Translation: when you’ve got something to sell, you don’t sell the thing itself, you sell what appeals to people about what you’re selling.

Now in the “pick up artist” “seduction” “dating” “how to meet and seduce girls “*community*, there’s a lot of sizzle (hype) out there when it comes to people selling their products that are supposed to help guys.

The problem is, there’s more sizzle than actual steak!

I got an email the 2 or 3 days ago from someone who had purchased my book “Super Confidence With Women” and he was telling me about how he had purchased a lot of other products in this market.

In fact, he said he’d spent “a lot of money” including CD’s, DVD’s and other products that are supposed to double the dates you get, teach you the “biological” facts about winning the dating game and seducing women, make you a pick up artist…

You get the idea.

And I’m honestly not trying to toot my own horn here, but they guy said that my $50 Ebook blew away DVD’s nd CD’s etc. that he’d spent thousands of dollars on.

Here’s the thing: some sizzle and hype is not really bad and here’s why:

Most people – even if curious about a product for sale – are resistant to “being sold” and sales pitches.

Some sizzle and hype can help a person to overcome that natural (and helpful!) resistance and move them to take action and buy something that actually will be worth more to them than the money they paid for that product.

The problem is that there is too much sizzle out there and not enough steak! People are ending up paying big bucks for products that were actually only intended to make money, and don’t actually deliver on the promises and don’t live up to the hype.

Here’s a bit of advice, or at least a positive suggestion for you: check out the people you’re thinking about buying from. Chances are, they’re not even who they say they are.

Seriously!

There are a lot of people out there, for example, hiding behind fake names. I won’t name names here, but if you look a bit more closely you’ll find that even some of the “big names” are just fakers!

I stand behind every claim I make, and my Ebook delivers on all the promises I make – and guess what?–I’m really David Portney. I was born with that name, and I have no reason to hide. You can even call me up or email if you want and find out if I’m really “for real”.

The old saying “caveat emptor” (let the buyer beware) applies.

See you later,
David

Everyone knows that having physical or material benefits can certainly help by seduction. The sexual qualities and good intelligence can also help. However, neither the beauty nor the money nor the intelligence nor the sexual qualities will make you a seducer. Advertising is a personal skill, talent at hand has nothing to do with the benefits of beginning that you can possibly have.

Indeed, physical appearance or material benefits liabilities are attributes that may or may not. For example, it can be beautiful without necessarily know seduce. While sexual or personal qualities are a major asset, but they are not active instruments of seduction: a woman know your sexual qualities only after it has been conquered and to know your personal qualities, it must d First you know well.

But seduction is an art, it depends on what you do, not what you are or what you have. It is an art psychological and behavioral is to convince others that you are the object of his dreams, even if it is not true. Success in this is the fundamental task of seducer is the essence of seduction.

Seduction is also know treat women, know how to drive with them, their psychology and what they really seek is to know what to say, what to do and when.

For example, you may get to see a girl who fascinates you really have very little time to seduce. You can not spread your abilities, because you’re in a situation where you have no chance. You can be beautiful, but it does not look at you because it is now thinking about something else, or it is not in the frame of mind to notice a handsome man. You are rich, but your car is parked below. You want to seduce you want to sleep with it quickly, but you do not know at all where to start. What to do? How to address? How to break the ice?

This is an example of typical problem in seduction, a problem that is more or less known by everyone, and that many men resolve the empirical basis at random. Yes, for most men, conquer a girl is a game of chance. Nothing guarantees success and if we do not seduce, it is likely not go very far. And yet, to increase its chances you must know seduce, it is time to move from the state of instinct than knowledge, know to understand and learn to know.

Certainly, in seduction, there are also some imponderables, like the place, time, circumstances, the situation, the mood of the girl and anything else that does not depend on the seducer. But why rely on luck? How many times luck is on your side? What gives with luck? Very few, in fact, numbers are always against you, luck is crazy and does anyone. It’s Murphy’s Law applied to love in the wrong, anything can happen, will happen.

In sum, seduction is an art, period. This is not something that depends on luck, or something that depends on your appearance. In life you always see examples of men who succeed more than others, without it being models of appearance. How many times do people see in the streets of beautiful girls with typical appearance quite normal, if not poor? This does not confirm the fact that we can go further if what to do and know a little better seduction? Nobody needs to demonstrate that seduction is a capacity that varies between individuals and can bear fruit if we know sufficiently and especially if you have a little experience, which presupposes knowledge bases with solid. This method of rapid attraction is based primarily on the fact to develop a personality and set of skills that might help us to exponentially increase our opportunities for conquest.

The goal of this program is seduction quick to tell you the best techniques to catch the interest of women and maintain. Here, briefly, a list of topics to be addressed:

* What are the available women? How are they?
* What is love?
* How you fall in love with someone?
* How do we define the charm? Can we raise?
* What are the best tips to address an unknown woman and start a conversation to the allure?
* How to ask him his number and be sure to get it?
* How to develop a personality irresistible to women?
* What is the female seeks the most male?
* How can we attract women?
* What is the best style to appeal to women?
* What are the techniques of seduction?
* How to master the language of gestures to ensure your success with women?
* What are the principles to immediately bring your prey in bed?
* What are the best places for girls?
* How sexually excite a woman to do so all we want?
* What are the best stratagems to keep interested?

The program also provides:

* A guide for erotic secrets and mysteries of sex.
* A list of examples of clever and effective compliments to immediately attract the attention of women.

visit www.gettingawoman.com for more info

Are you bad when it comes down to seducing women? Perhaps you know how to approach her and talk to her. But when the date nearly comes to an end, you don’t know how to close the date with “sexual techniques.” The date just ends with a hug and a kiss, and as a guy, those a pretty much insults!

When seducing a woman, the first thing you need to do get her in a quiet place. where it’s just the two of you. This will help you tenfold. Get rid of any distractions. You want to be in an area where you can build as much sexual tension as possible. Distractions will only serve to break sexual tension.

The next step is to build anticipation. Anticipation is the feeling where you don’t know what’s going to happen next but you feel a rise of emotions inside of you as you gradually wait for it to happen… Women love anticipation. A great way is to start off by taking it slow… When she’s at your place, make sure you already have a romantic setting played out like some soft music. Candle lit lights are always nice to make the environment more arousing. Show her around the house; maybe you have some cool pictures of your memories that you’d like to share. Tell her to sit down on the couch and offer her something to drink like a glass of wine and something to eat like exotic fruits.

Proceed to do a fun activity with her like watching a movie or playing a game with her. Truth or Dare Jenga is always fun, as well as Strip Poker (maybe you haven’t gotten that far yet). Make sure you joke around with her and get her to laugh, but also enjoy what you’re doing also. This is very sexy! If she sees you freely enjoy yourself, then she will be more open to have fun with you.

Your next object is to kiss her. Whether you’re having a conversation or watching a movie, try to do everything you can to get physical with her first without forcing it. For example, as you guys having a conversation, you can start play fighting with her whenever she says something naughty. You can also have a “you can’t touch me” attitude and see plays into your feisty ways. Or, if you guys are sitting close together, and talking, gently start grazing her arm and give her a massage as if she was just a friend.

When you can feel the emotions inside of you rising, most likely she will too. Wait for the right moment to kiss her. You guys might be talking about something very emotional and deep. Gently stroke her hair and look at her in the eyes. If she doesn’t move back and stays in position, that means she’s ready to be kissed. Lean in and softly kiss her on the lips.

Once you guys are making out, tell her that you’d like to make out in a more private area. Take her by the hand and lead her into the bedroom. Continue to delicately touch and kiss her. Finally, when seducing her, make sure all the lights are dimmed and prepare yourself for a long steamy night.

Seducing Women: It Takes All Kinds
30 10 2007

I’ve been with a lot of women. I’ve also observed a lot of men trying to seduce women. It’s been interesting to notice how men have several different ways of expressing their desires and have different seduction techniques.

Here’s what I’ve noticed:

Silent Player
Some men like to be the silent admirers. Their actions are very simple. They will stare at a woman and not initiate any conversation. Every time a woman looks at them, they smile back but say nothing. Sometimes the woman would get up and initiate a conversation while other times, she would just walk past and not give another glance.

“In Your Face” Player
Other men are “in your face” types. They are very direct and will tell a woman exactly what’s on their mind and what their intention is. Some women find the direct approach quite a turn-on; others find this kind of guy intimidating.

The Experienced Player
Then there’s the more experienced player. He is very calm and reassured. He listens to what a woman has to say. You’d think wealth or age would help to make a player more experienced. Not so. Coming across to a woman as though you know exactly what you are doing is all about self-confidence. And it’s not about being confident in closing the deal–it’s about knowing what you have to offer a woman is as high-quality as she could possibly find.

So which one are you?

The mistake I see men make is that they try to be something they’re not. Men will, on the spot, try to get a sense of what would please a woman and change up their approach hoping she’ll take the bait. Personally, I’ve saved myself a lot time and stress by just being myself. Women can sense a poser from a mile away. Being fake is an even bigger turn-off than bad pick-up lines or too much cologne.

Have the courage to be yourself. Once you do, women will let their guard down and be themselves. And when a woman feels at ease, well, anything is possible…

Source: tommy orlando