I’ve been thinking about what has happened with me in the past few years. What happened isn’t my fault at all and I know this intellectually but still it has disrupted things for me enormously. 1,081 more words
Tags » Self-blame
After the last post with the in depth discussion of shame from abuse and the feelings of self hate, degradation, self rejection and alienation it promotes, it will probably now be clearer why many abuse survivors are caught in self harming or in self injurious behaviours like cutting. 17 more words
Is this all your fault? Did you deserve what has happened to you? No, forgive yourself for dating a sociopath
It’s all my fault….
Words either said out loud, or just a thinking, when I looked at the carnage that had became my life, after i was abused. 1,467 more words