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A cavalier attitude to sex

Ir is often difficult to understand why people get so exercised about how and why other people have sex. Today I have seen Melissa Farley clutching her pearls about stripping and Gail Dines holding forth about BDSM. 735 more words

Driven To Distraction

Several weeks ago I received an e-mail from a young woman in response to an advertisement placed by me on the internet in which I asked for ladies interested in providing massage to get in touch. 435 more words

Its All About The Men

An interesting perspective on prohibitionism (the view that sex work should be abolished by criminalising the clients of sex workers), http://www.cliterati.co.uk/2014/04/all-about-the-men/

The Power of Stigma and its Impact on Drug Use among Sex Workers

Why are people involved in sex work more likely to use “hard” drugs such as cocaine and heroin than someone working as a server in a restaurant? 492 more words

Harm Reduction

My First Time

I can not recall the names of many of the working women with whom I have danced the dance of sex over the years. I do, however recollect the name of the first ever escort I saw, Melissa. 501 more words

Blurring The Lines

Can client and sex worker be friends or must there always be a certain distance, a professional relationship but no more between the two? I have written previously about my encounter with PL, a busty mixed race girl, … 376 more words

My Life as a Rape Joke

The rape joke is that
It happened the first time when i was five
and my mother said “never let this happen again!”

The rape joke is that… 633 more words