Chalk and drawings by Martinez Haslam!

CasualDates4u member Miranda says ” My closet is full of kinky outfits and whips. Does anyone want a spanking?” To contact Miranda go to CasualDates4u.com where Miranda is waiting for you.

First things first…if you’re on Fetlife – go sit on Santa’s lap and pick 3 things.  I’m pimping for two three reasons 1. I really want my first choice prize (like you wouldn’t believe) and 2. I want everyone else to do it too so they have a chance and 3. I want a better chance Next? Amazing play the last few weeks!!

The last OTK night was a few weeks ago on December 5th, but it was preceded by the 1st anniversary party for SSNY on the 4th.  I came directly from class and changed frantically with Jules and Miranda after helping finish set up the party space (although, I didn’t do much except ice my cupcakes…).  I began my night with a trip over Dave Pierson’s knee (yes, that’s Dave from Punished Brats!) for a bit of a warm up to a punishment I’d be receiving a bit later on from someone else, for a very very poor grade.  For the record girls, he spanks pretty hard.

Next, I got my poor grade punishment.  Those who have been following my discipline/mentor status know how this works for me so I won’t get into it.  I was a little startled when he decided his hand wasn’t enough and took off his belt.  For my little display of frustration in the change of implements, I got my palms smacked with the belt.  Ouch.  Kicking and whining while being punished are bad ideas.

I then again played with Mr. Pierson.  Apparently he doesn’t like it when witty little girls stick their tongue’s out at him.  He dragged me right off and spanked me some more. I was pretty sore by this point, but played one more time for the evening.  It was someone I had never met nor talked to before, so a big big big new for me.  But he came with people I knew to be good, and had high praises.  And they were all right! He was very VERY tall and his lap was roomy – which is always a delight especially when you’re a bit more on the round (read: fat) side.  The downside? His arms were also rather long and thus…he had to stand me up and put me over a chair to get a better swing in the cramped cubicle.  He was an excellent spanker though, and I thoroughly enjoyed it.

Move to this past weekend, December the 12th, and there was an MSA party.  This was only my third, but they moved a new location recently and this was the second at it.  It has two floors, a spacious kitchen/socializing area, a more open playroom (that could easily be closed and private), and 3 smaller but still roomy play rooms on the lower floor.  There are also two bathrooms which is really nice.

I played three times.  The first, with Radagast, was much needed and about more than just spanking.  I’ve been sick and on antibiotics 3 times in the last 3 months (once in each, October, November, and December) and the spanking was mostly a reminder to look after myself better.  I brought (God only knows WHY) a nasty square heavy wooden hairbrush and he told me to bring it when we went downstairs.  He didn’t spank me as hard as he could have with the hairbrush, but my bottom was plenty red by the end.  This spanking was about more than the smack, slap, whap though.  After, he held me and we talked.  Life hasn’t been easy lately, and a lot of the things he said to me were welcome and appreciated, and uplifting.

Then I was bent over a table in the more public room and spanked & paddled by a good friend J.  While he was assaulting spanking me, a young couple JP & CK, were nearby playing on a wooden rotating apparatus and our squeals combined to form quite the harmony.

My third scene? I followed Radagast downstairs to put away the Santa suit (oh, did I forget to mention he played a foul mouthed jeans-and-sneakers-clad Santa for about 2 minutes?) and chatted with the others waiting for rooms.  Once one opened up and they took it, I sort of let my “attitude” get the best of me.  I swear, I wasn’t *trying* to get spanked or anything…

Another room opened up and he dragged me quite uncermoniously into it and hauled me up and over his knee.  My poor bottom suffered for my eye rolls and such.

All in all – a good two weekends of play.  I doubt I will play much again until a small New Years Eve party I am going to, but I can hope, right?

Oh, side note? I recently had someone request custom photoset shots.  If anyone else is interested in custom spanking/panty shots (emailed to you in a zip file, with watermark for my own security, but not posted online anywhere) please send me an email.

- Marie

Thanks everyone for coming out to our Brooklyn loft party for our 2 year anniversary party. The pics tell the whole story!! xoxox
Photographs by Matthew Lebaron, Richard Weaver & David Bechtel.

See you on New Year’s Day!!

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I worked as a phone actress for a few years. I have heard EVERYTHING. I learned a lot about fetishes. One of the most popular fetishes that I have found is BDSM. There are so many forms of BDSM.

The biggest misconception when thinking about BDSM is many people think when involved in this lifestyle, you like to be beaten all of the time and treated badly. That is not true. BDSM is a combination of 3 acronyms. There is B&D, bondage, discipline. D&S domination and submission. S&M sadism masochism. Some that enjoy B&D, may not enjoy S&M. When enjoying D&S, the reason that I have found that people enjoy it so much is the power and control angle. A person loves to feel helpless, while the other partner loves to feel in control. There is that moment when the one partner is at their brink, they know that they want to explode at any moment, and the “master” tells them no. They want so badly to please their “master” so they have to have self control. The master is excited knowing that they hold the power to make the other person squirm or release. There should always be a safe word when playing in this fetish. It can be easy to get out of control. Some enjoy BDSM without pain. While others love to be spanked, paddled, tickled, or talked down to. Bondage and discipline is the enjoyment of being tied up, feeling helpless while the other person has control.
Some people only like to play when “in the mood”. They want their partner to dominate them, or them to dominate their partner. When the sexual act is over, so is the “game”. For others, this is a lifestyle. Their mate, spouse, or significant other(s) is a full time “slave”. When being a full time slave, you earn the rights to wear a collar. You do as your “master” tells you to, and you always respect him. You call him either “sir” or “master” whichever he prefers. This varies from couple to couple.
Some couples like to switch the role. These are called switches.
In my personal opinion, as long as both parties are consenting adults, they know each others boundaries, and they both enjoy the lifestyle, this is a perfectly safe and fun experience to have.

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Behind Door No 12: Leave a ‘good’ impression on your lover…

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In all fairness, he did warn her.

What a dirty little girl!  So I showed up early to Jenny’s house today and found her sitting on the sofa in her little school dress all knocked kneed.  At first glace she said that there was no school today!  What a little liar she is because I picked up the phone and asked…school was not cancelled.  So then Jenny said “But Shay, I was sick,” so I put a thermometer in her mouth and went to get a drink in the kitchen.

When I came back I checked the thermometer and at first glance it looked like Jenny was telling the truth, but then I noticed the steaming cup of coffee that was sitting on the end table nearby.  I instantly knew what Jenny had done!  She had heated the thermometer so it would LOOK like she was running a fever.  She was sitting there on the sofa looking all innocent.  She thought I would let her off the hook.

Not the case.  I was about to let her wait either until Mommy came home.  After all what are good babysitters for?  I took Jenny into the bedroom and made her lay on the bed.  Her little bottom looked so tender but I used vix to lube her little buddy hole.  The smell let me know with watering eyes she now sported that it was work as I slid in the suppository again.  I spanked that little ass until it was red and sore and Jenny lost herself and made a huge mess!

Kisses,

Shay

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So last time out, I had a mild go at Taken in Hand for getting dull and preachy. Gratifyingly a few people have popped up in my email box to quietly agree. I hope it’s obvious that some of this was reflecting my own evolution, me being ‘in a different place’, although I do think, objectively, the site is not what it was.

Anyway in that post I threw out the idea that “discipline, domestic or otherwise, is serious business because it takes us very close to deep parts of the psyche… but somehow I’m moving on from needing it to be so damn wholesome.”

Let me add something to this because, to explain better, it not that the wholesome is to be shrugged off. It is that there is unreconstructed ‘non-wholesomeness’ to be accommodated too.

To explain: I’m in the cohort of ‘Tops’ who are troubled by oppression and inequality. I’m extremely liberal-egalitarian in outlook, including being shocked by violence and troubled by hitting anyone or anything, most of all a woman, which all sits very uneasily with a liberal world view. I would march in the streets against domestic violence. But I’m absolutely hardwired to spank a willing woman’s bottom (and not remotely hardwired for this to be reciprocated.)

So I  seek a framework of justification and integration. For example, I believe that structure is good, in life and in relationships. I believe a big part of what a male contributes to a relationship is to protect and provide, including providing guiding purpose, strength (real strength, not pumped up jerk strength), and authority. I know too that spanking provides intimacy like nothing else. It also provides very hot foreplay. And so on. I know that many men are wired just like me, and women wired the other way — if it’s a fringe world view, which I actually doubt, it is extremely common.

So I can intellectually and morally justify who I am (in this form of my life). That’s the “evolved” part. This accounts for a lot of what goes on on sites like TIH and many other forums — the elaboration of wholesome (aka heavy) justification of the adult M/f spanking relationship by both men and women, showing the many reason why it is functional not dysfunctional, and therefore is moral and good. I agree with the process and most of what is said..

But there is more. The truth will set you free and the truth is that something else seeks release and expresssion — a violent impulse, a sterner persona, a will to overpower, a totally unreconstructed instinct to “own” the woman through her willingly proffered bottom, to lash it, to see it  change shape as a mightly thwack overcomes it, to hear her gasp, to see her wriggle (but remain “as positioned” or else) in an absolute gift of submission.

That was hard to write.

I can justify this: real thrashing is very like ‘wild’ fucking: the deepest test, providing for the most intimacy, the strongest ‘contract’ of dominance and submission. I would add that events should not happen at this level every time, and when it happens I’m super-ultra-careful to use a soft-ish instrument. I have never caused even close to the kind of damage you see on some sites, and never would.

But … this is just justification again, the mental machinations of the wholesome, evolved, gentle spirit, searching for morality. The bald truth is there is a very dominant, testosterone-soaked, very unreconstructed, non-evolved ‘cowboy’ that rides this path at times.

I suppose, as long as this life force can be fruitfully harnessed (more justification, Alex) it’s better that it’s there than not. Welcome to the mysteries of life as a carbon-based biped on a spinning blue-green planet lost in quantum darkness. To life!

But, anyway, this is the ‘badness’ that I’m talking about. The unreconstructed male that shrugs out of the cloak of acceptibility … which causes some, er,  shifting-up of personnell to make space for on the sofa of the liberal-egalitarian framework, I tell ya. I think the only way this integration can occur is through a certain lightness of being — some things cannot and should not be justified, they just ‘are’.

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In many families, parents tell their children that “shut up” is a bad word.  Yet with the constant noise and screaming that comes along with raising kids, mothers, fathers and other adults sometimes forget.  Of course, it only seems fair in the eyes of a child that everyone should be punished the same for the same crime!  Today’s cartoon is based on Arloa’s nephew, Xander, who overheard his mother say those naughty words… The twinkle in his eye and the glee in his voice were hysterical when he asked his daddy if his mommy was going to get a spanking on her bottom!  And boy was it was difficult for daddy to keep from laughing!

So, first I wanna thank everyone for their comments to me about yesterday. It really helped. Things like that can really get me off track and its hard to bounce back without help. A friend i have said it best,”Read your blog. FUck the bitch. Your are better than that. Dont ever let these bastards get you down. You have to fight for what you want and push the shit out of your when when it piles up. You can do it.” I just got that about 5 minutes ago and I am still smiling.
I was so naughty again last night. Big Daddy came by after I got off work.It was comical how nervous I was. I tend to chatter away but he was so nice and didn’t mind. He liked my pics on flickr so i dressed up for him. His smile alone made me feel so great. It was just another BBC that fucked me good. He likes to spank me too. Seeing how my ass is still sore from saturday, my ass is now doubley sore today.
So to wrap up these past 4 days….I have had alot of BBC. God, I am wet thinking about it. I think my favorite part is when they first put their cock inside and I feel it stretching me. My BBC friend, from yesterday morning, when he entered me…WOW I thought I was gonna be torn in two and I didn’t care. He likes my pussy too. Says he likes that I can take it all.
Well, I know that I am probably not gonna be able to keep up this pace. But I am already dreaming of a round 2 with all three.

There’s always time to spank the monkey

When I get ready to go to an amusment park these days, I have everything I need in a bag, with special accessories. a few snacks and lots of water.  Too bad I can’t pack what I had as a little kid.  It isn’t the same thrill as it was back then.  I used to get so hyped up on anticipation of “the best day of my life” that I dreamed would come in the morning.  I think I found the adult version of this same feeling…  It’s Sweet Melissa.

I’m not going to have to wait in line, no ticket and I get to ride over and over.  The thrill is back and NO, I coulnd’t sleep last night.  She invited me to her office today by asking me while I had quickly thrown her on my bed, fully clothed and hoped ontop of her for a little kiss and choke.  We didn’t have time, as we never have, to do more than make out.  I’m sick of this teasing, I want her body now.  I was scared at first and would run away, and she would chase… Now it has reversed, but I wont be so coy and let her run away from me.  I will go into her office, trying to play it cool in case she has clients, and trying to not fall to my knees begging or eatting.  She told me to wear my black and cream 40’s style secretary dress and red heels to match the red lipstick she requested.  “Bring a ruler” she said before she left my room last night.  She smiled back at me with her sexy impish smile, hidden a little bit by her blond hair  falling in her face.  She brushed it back and grabed me for a kiss with her perfectly plump lips that I want to mold into a sex toy and sell for millions.  She is so fucking sexy, I don’t doubt everyone wants to bed her.

I packed my bag with the necsessities, like a dildo, some KY jelly (for some body slime fun), and a camera and tri-pod.   Everythign needed for my adult theme park adventure.  More of the excitement is not knowing if she is going to take charge or am I.  I will sharpen her pencils, type up her memos or answer phones… or get on my hands and knees for her…  what ever she asks.  If she asks nothing, I am going to grab her by her hair and force her to her knees.  I am going to dominate her like she has never been.  She will love to be forced into submission to me and we will make love with each other in a vulgar and “Sweet Melissa” way.  Then I will make out with her pussy, sucking on her clit and eat her ass in between the spanks.

Oh. Sweet Melissa I can’t wait to go on your ride.  Just 2 more hours.  Getting ready now. 

I will have some pics to add to my other blog for you readers to see.  Gotta be a little sweeter on this blog.

Okay email me and I’ll send you a link to the other blog with the pics.  Sorry, but I can’t send to those that can cause problems for me.

She’s still got it!  Schwing!

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DDWTHOTness: 9 out of 10

I had made it a point to ask Rad to bring his canes so I might have a “proper caning” as opposed to last week when our space was limited and he wasn’t able to swing very well.

He started the evening off by giving his wife a dozen strokes cold from one of his thinner canes. After watching, it was my turn but I got a warm-up first. He took my jeans down right away and I was across his knee rather quickly. Wasting no time, he started spanking and soon took down my panties (a favorite flowered pair by the way) and moved to the bare. I distinctly remember reaching back and grabbing them and having my hand pushed away. That’s rather normal during scenes with him – having my hand moved but not really holding my wrist or anything.

We had chosen to do the warm-up in an alcove so it was more private, and I had kicked my jeans off. After reaching back again, I was startled to be stood back on my feet, panties around my knees and shirt bunched up. He told me to give him my hand and when I hesitated, a bit confused, he grabbed it and smacked it hard, scolding me for reaching back. He smacked it again and told me not to reach back again. This was very very new to me, and surprising. There is little new at this point and this felt right and appropriate as though it was just meant to be a part of it. It was thrilling in an interesting way.  It hurt, and it was effective, and I didn’t like it, but it was new.  I was quickly back across his lap but not for too much longer.

When he was satisfied, he stood me up and picked jeans up, handing them to me and telling me that I knew where to go. I made my way to a different area and bent over the same spot on a bondage bed where Sandy had been earlier. I didn’t reach back again as I was focused on the sting in my hand still and I knew I’d need to hold on to take the caning. He reminded me to breath at some point. While the strokes were hard they were far from unreasonable. I am proud of myself for taking it well with not much fuss.

It was a great scene to jump start my headspace for the evening. It wasn’t disciplinary or punishing, but it wasn’t light hearted play either. It’s the kind of spanking I really like. Just because and semi-serious, with a good burn, nice headspace and a good hug after.

- Marie

Micahel Wakefield is a piedpiper of photonudity. Hats off to his bold approach! In anticipation of our “Smell Like…” issue (#15) to be released this Saturday, Michael used his magic methods to photograph many many men (and at least 1 F to M trans) 

“Smells like _____” fill in the black. Yay SPANK! Yay Michael Wakefield! Yay balls!!

NSFW also if you are under 18, do not scroll down and please leave this page!

Matthew Crosland has worked with SPANK alot in his guise as Matty of The Pixie Harlots.
We loved seeing how cool his photographs are also and wanted to herald his multi-talents. See photogrpahs below. Included are his close-ups and part of his videoboy series.
Matty and all the other Pixie Harlots perform this Saturday with SPANK for our 2year anniversery party, come join the magic!

TRACK LIST:

1. Laurie Anderson – Telephone Song
2. Gucci Vump – The Boogieman (Original Mix)
3. Zombie Disco Squad – Heavy Breathing
4. FM Audio – Killer (Afrojack Remix)
5. Claude von Stroke and Justin Martin – Beat That Bird
6. ??? vs. Self Religion (Believe in Me) (Hardsoul Spoken Word Acapella)
7. Rico Tubbs – Born to Bounce (Mikix the Cat Remix)
8. Pal Joey – Partytime
9. Calisto – Get House
10. Coco Steel vs. Lovebomb – Feel It
11. Deee-Lite – ESP (Ouiji Extended Mix)
12. 33 1/3 Queen – Searchin’
13. Barbara Tucker – Stay Together (Armand’s Crazy Trauma Mix)
14. Liquid City -Feeling Free
15. NYDC – Up In This House

Download here!

Our upcoming issue number 15 has the theme “Smells like…”  It will include a spread by one of our best buds Rich Weaver.  He had so many great iamges that we wanted to build the anticipation for the upcoming  issue by posting some outtakes.

The zine will be available at our release party (and 2 year anniversery!) on Dec 12, advance tix available above.