Sitting by the phone waiting for the call? Are you stalking him on Facebook? OK let me be clear… If he is not calling you on a regular basis, he’s not interested. AND if he is calling you at 1am, do I need to explain? He only wants SEX! WAKE UP! One more time… HE ONLY WANTS SEX! He may say, “Oh sorry, work is crazy, that’s why I haven’t called.” BULL SH!T!!!!!!!! I know these guys; they will make time to have sex with you, but will not make time to make a quick call to see how your day went? PLEASE stop being so desperate and giving the goodies up to these men who have ZERO intention in having a real relationship with you! If it hasn’t happened, it’s not going to.

I know this guy in NYC who was sleeping with this girl, just for the sex. (one of many) She eventually started to get attached. This is normal… BUT he didn’t want a future with her. So he told her this, she was super upset, but a week later started calling him again. Really? And she is secretly hoping they will end up together. I mean COME ON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! STOP WASTING YOUR TIME! I say this because I care.

Love,

Me