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What’s the anatomy of your SIr? And, no, I’m not talking about how big his hands are. I’m talking about what makes him tick. I find more and more that each Sir has his own preferences for how the home and relationship should run, and each his own reasons for it. 612 more words

Dealing With Anger

Awhile ago, I wrote a post on How To Be Angry at a Head of Household husband, which essentially boiled down to: 1) Express it honestly, and 2) NEVER attack his character. 376 more words


Washing Machines

The washing machine that came with this house was very, very old. It was almost impossible to get it balanced for the spin cycle, and every load needed the blood of a goat sacrificed to the Dark Gods of Laundry just to make it through without the machine dancing clear across the room. 222 more words


Why domestic discipline is not abuse...

My ex husband was emotionally abusive…. I was kidnapped and held by a man who choked me constantly until I passed out, and I was raped twice before the age of 17. 882 more words

Asked and Answered: What DD is for us

The more people I meet who are curious about the inner workings of a Domestic Discipline relationship (usually online friends in forums etc.), the more questions I end up getting asked. 1,188 more words

Renovations and Differing Priorities

Now that my husband’s Big Work Project is complete and he no longer has to put in 80 hour weeks, we’ve started talking about fixing up the house again. 281 more words


Sexual or not?

A lot of people ask me if I’m aroused by being spanked. The answer is yes and no. I will do my best to explain what I mean. 386 more words

Domestic Discipline