It’s bad enough when someone is shot. Make the victim a political figure, and the chatterati and the self-righteous get bent completely out of shape, and start to consider how depriving some peo… more →
Nice Debwrote 3 days ago: Nor do I want to dress like a man. I do not want to act like a man, and I am not crazy about the ide … more →
wrote 4 months ago: I was sipping tea at the end of a meditation class, when I became aware of a conversation going on n … more →
wrote 5 months ago: I’m the first to admit that I’m a bit of a hypochondriac. At the faintest whiff of a sym … more →
wrote 6 months ago: ***Trigger Warning – Murder and Suicide*** I lead a privileged, pampered life, where any abuse … more →
wrote 9 months ago: I was in the pub last night with a friend – a gay bar, no less. It was quiet, but there were e … more →
wrote 9 months ago: When discussing our experiences as trans people with a friend, she suggested that me being a man wit … more →
wrote 9 months ago: THAT MAKES NO SENSE! The National Security Complex and You TOM ENGELHARDT (TOMDISPATCH.COM) – … more →
wrote 9 months ago: I went to my first Pride ten years ago in Brighton. I had just come out as a lesbian, and I came awa … more →
wrote 10 months ago: I had a lovely holiday – Will and I ate, drank, walked, drank and ate our way around those bit … more →
wrote 10 months ago: A few days ago, my Lady Love and I were wandering through the centre of the City, when a middle-aged … more →
wrote 11 months ago: I know this is a generalisation, but I think it’s probably fair to say that a lot of trans peo … more →
wrote 1 year ago: I was bullied throughout my school years. Well, most of them, anyway. The war of spite, put-downs an … more →
wrote 1 year ago: No, I am not. Nor do I ever plan to be. However, some transmen do, for a variety of very valid reaso … more →
wrote 1 year ago: When I first started to transition, not being seen as a woman was EVERYthing. After all, before test … more →
wrote 1 year ago: I have always loved Lego. I remember I had a big flat box full of Lego goodies when I was little, wi … more →
wrote 1 year ago: 20th November 2011 is the 13th Annual Transgender Day of Remembrance. It is a sobering day on which … more →
wrote 1 year ago: Do we look unhappy? Those of you who know Peter Kay … more →
wrote 1 year ago: Only three days now until my chest surgery. I’ve set the Out of Office message at work, palmed … more →
wrote 1 year ago: A year ago today I entered into a Civil Partnership with Willemina, who agreed to sign the dotted li … more →