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Rules Are Overrated!17 comments

Sara wrote 3 weeks ago:     So, about that exercise…Well, here’s the thing. I really truly do not want to do it. I understan … more →

Tags: Alternative Lifestyles, domestic discipline, Dominance, Submission, taken in hand

The Power of the Panties10 comments

Sara wrote 3 weeks ago: Sometimes, you just have to laugh! If it’s at yourself, even better.  This post might be best for wo … more →

Tags: Alternative Lifestyles, domestic discipline, otk, punishment, Spanking, taken in hand

The Dilemma of Need – Part 23 comments

Sara wrote 3 weeks ago: I hate it when my real life gets in the way of cyber life! Work, kids, marriage…left me no time to w … more →

Tags: Alternative Lifestyles, domestic discipline, Dominance, maintenance spanking, Marriage, punishment, Spanking, Submission, taken in hand

The Dilemma of Need 15 comments

Sara wrote 4 weeks ago:    This was written this past weekend, before I bickered, we faught, then talked and he spanked … more →

Tags: Alternative Lifestyles, domestic discipline, Spanking, Submission, taken in hand

What Is "Intimate"?13 comments

Sara wrote 1 month ago:         A few days I wrote a post about our power exchange, and a bit about the D/s experience, but … more →

Tags: Alternative Lifestyles, domestic discipline, Dominance, Spanking, Submission, taken in hand

By A Slip Of The Tongue!8 comments

Sara wrote 1 month ago: I know we ALL tend to see and hear things where there is nothing to see or hear. We may hear “spank” … more →

Tags: Alternative Lifestyles, Spanking, Spanking Implements

A Jumble of Thoughts on TTWD13 comments

Sara wrote 1 month ago:        When we talk about DD we usually mean rules and consequences and it seems pretty simple. It i … more →

Tags: domestic discipline, Submission, Dominance, Alternative Lifestyles, taken in hand, Spanking

Thank You To Our Blogging Community!5 comments

Sara wrote 1 month ago:     I would like to take a moment to thank lurkers and blogger friends alike for your wonderful supp … more →

Tags: domestic discipline, Marriage, punishment, Alternative Lifestyles, taken in hand, Blogging, Spanking

Recalibration5 comments

Sara wrote 1 month ago:        It is a rainy Saturday with house work and dog washing and blogging; kid carting, horse stall … more →

Tags: Alternative Lifestyles, domestic discipline, Dominance, Spanking, Submission, taken in hand

A Question on Scolding in DD2 comments

Sara wrote 1 month ago: Hi Sara and Grant, In all the research we have not found anything on ….”lectures”…those certain “tal … more →

Tags: Alternative Lifestyles, domestic discipline, Dominance, hoh, maintenance spanking, punishment, Spanking, Submission, taken in hand

The Submissive Partner’s Role Is Not Passive9 comments

Sara wrote 1 month ago:    Hi again, Sara, I did some more reading on your site and found some writing you did on why you be … more →

Tags: Alternative Lifestyles, domestic discipline, hoh, maintenance spanking, Marriage, Spanking, Submission, taken in hand

Spanking Fever - Part 26 comments

Sara wrote 1 month ago:         I was really surprised and taken by the outpouring of response to my last post. So many wome … more →

Tags: Alternative Lifestyles, domestic discipline, maintenance spanking, Marriage, punishment, Spanking, taken in hand

Spanking Fever25 comments

Sara wrote 1 month ago:   It’s crazy. I KNOW I don’t really want what I want, but the thoughts, the feelings, they won’t go … more →

Tags: Alternative Lifestyles, domestic discipline, punishment, Spanking, taken in hand

Domestic Discipline, Building it Together4 comments

Sara wrote 1 month ago: Hi Sara,      My boyfriend and I are both in our 40s and have been together 4 years. We are curious … more →

Tags: domestic discipline, Marriage, Feminism, Submission, Dominance, Alternative Lifestyles, hoh, taken in hand, Spanking

Questions on Punishment9 comments

Sara wrote 2 months ago: Hi, I have another question for you. I know this sounds silly but I really do not know anyone who ha … more →

Tags: Alternative Lifestyles, domestic discipline, maintenance spanking, otk, punishment, Spanking, Spanking Implements, taken in hand

A Question On Committing to Discipline9 comments

Sara wrote 2 months ago: Hi Sara, I have been married for 25 years and have just discovered this type of lifestyle. My husban … more →

Tags: Alternative Lifestyles, domestic discipline, Dominance, maintenance spanking, Marriage, punishment, Spanking, Submission, taken in hand

On Apples and Oranges15 comments

Sara wrote 2 months ago:   After some serious reflection and a weeks distance and a bunch of sorting we are indeed back to no … more →

Tags: Alternative Lifestyles, domestic discipline, maintenance spanking, otk, punishment, Spanking

A Question on Bumps in the Road2 comments

Sara wrote 2 months ago: Dear Sara and Grant, I hope you don’t think this inappropriate but now I am confused. Sara, you said … more →

Tags: domestic discipline, Marriage, Alternative Lifestyles, taken in hand

Our New Arrangement14 comments

Sara wrote 2 months ago: I was told to get into bed at 9:30 tonight because I “look so exhausted”. In truth, I got little sle … more →

Tags: domestic discipline, Marriage, Alternative Lifestyles


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