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Merging the halves
I’ve been thinking a lot about the title of this blog, and how my motivations for writing have changed. When I started this blog, I felt like I lived a double life. By day, I was Clark Kent. The… more →
How My Other Half Lives
Merging the halves
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Sascha wrote 1 week ago: I’ve been thinking a lot about the title of this blog, and how my motivations for writing have … more →
Interrogation.
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Sascha wrote 1 week ago: This past March, I gave a presentation at Kinkforall NYC about limits and how a submissive (bottom, … more →
Finding Power through Play
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Sascha wrote 1 week ago: I thought I wanted him to make me crawl, to strip me emotionally bare and leave me a teary mess on t … more →
Love, beatings, bondage
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Sascha wrote 1 month ago: I just stepped out of my post kink convention shower. My breasts are speckled with crimson marks, li … more →
Us verses them?
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Sascha wrote 7 months ago: A few weeks ago, I sat in on a Jay Wiseman class at TES. He opened the class by saying something to … more →
Kink For All Presentation
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Sascha wrote 8 months ago: Thanks to a gentle reminder of the ever fabulous Maymay, I’m finally getting off my ass and po … more →
Davalochka
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Sascha wrote 12 months ago: I miss my rope slut. He twittered one day. Which one? I snarkily asked via instant message. That par … more →
On relationships vanilla and technicolor...
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Sascha wrote 1 year ago: Poly is fucking hard. No, really. I don’t say this because I’m going through some intens … more →
The Shape of Service
Sascha wrote 1 year ago: The ropecast episode of Gray and my discussion on humiliation play finally went up the other day. … more →
Poly, Kink, and the Language of "Mine"
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Sascha wrote 1 year ago: One of the reasons I respond so well to kink and poly is that I have the freedom to explore differen … more →
You wonder how these things begin...
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Sascha wrote 1 year ago: There’s a framed drawing of Kabuki makeup on my dresser. Red and black, colors of a protagonis … more →
A scene in two parts.
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Sascha wrote 1 year ago: Part 1. Saturday. Submission and air conditioning. When I was nine or ten, I went to visit my grandm … more →
I'm baaack!
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Sascha wrote 1 year ago: Sorry about the month long hiatus. It took me a while to get used to working the hours of a normal h … more →
When the Mouth Says No: Pushing the lines of consent...
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Sascha wrote 1 year ago: April fools, everyone. In spite of what the calendar says, today I’m feeling far from foolish. … more →
Thoughts on objectification
Sascha wrote 1 year ago: Humiliation play has always been a hard limit for me. Reason being I have enough things in my life t … more →
New Friends and Bar conversations...
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Sascha wrote 1 year ago: Saturday night brought with it a beautiful wave of synchronicity. I found a brand new link of the ki … more →
The Shrink and the Masochist
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Sascha wrote 1 year ago: Yeah… I was really bruised that weekend. Man, that was fun. …Said I to my shrink, upon r … more →
On Marks
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Sascha wrote 1 year ago: I have some red spots on my arm from the party on Friday night. There was a piercing demonstration a … more →
Evan's basement...
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Sascha wrote 1 year ago: This is a post that was *supposed* to go up last week, but never made it. Technology hates me. We … more →
